Our BEST Couples Advice: Jealousy, Honesty, Arguments & Intentionality

Sadie and Christian sit down with Freddie and Parker Amos, a couple they love doing life with, to talk all things relationships, dating, marriage, and friendship. Sadie and Christian bring up an argument they JUST had and what they've learned about healthy communication. Freddie and Sadie share advice on how to prepare your heart for a relationship, sin in marriage, jealousy, intentionality, and why comparing your husband to other men is such a dangerous path. Sadie also reveals what she thinks of the show "Love Is Blind" and why it serves as a cautionary tale about relationships. Friends, follow the way the Lord leads, and you will be blessed beyond belief.
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ABOUT SADIE ROBERTSON:
Sadie Robertson, first introduced to the world as a star of A&E’s Duck Dynasty and ABC’s Dancing with the Stars, recognized she could be a positive voice to those in need of an inspiring presence in their lives. At the age of 24, she’s become one of the most prominent voices of her generation. Sadie’s passion is to speak, to write, and to encourage. She is a sister and friend to more than five million followers on her various social platforms, which she sees as a direct line of communication to her peers.
Sadie’s creative and entrepreneurial spirit has helped her become a 'New York Times Best Selling Author', and launch her Live Original brand, which speaks to millions across her various platforms, including KZbin, social media, the Live Original blog, LO Fam Community, the Live Original tour, and her Whoa That’s Good podcast.
Additionally, Robertson has long poured her heart into philanthropic efforts. She has loved partnering with Roma Boots, Help One Now, World Vision, and the World Food Program over the last few years. To date, Robertson has been able to be a voice and agent of change in many countries, including Peru, Somalia, Moldova, and the Dominican Republic.
Sadie is married to the man of her dreams, Christian Huff, and they have a daughter named Honey James. They look forward to continuing to learn what it means to truly live and celebrate in every moment of life.

[@elidyah9558]

The argument analysis at the beginning had reassured me that we all experience the same thing 😂😂😂

[@OGcecilia]

"People focus on finding the right one rather than being the right one." Sheesh gotta write that one down, thanks Parker:)

[@genflores9286]

I love the way Sadie's husband looks at her #goals

[@anonymousspokenword5084]

I adgree

[@poorgirl2]

it won't last

[@genflores9286]

@@poorgirl2 I rebuke this in the name of JESUS . May there love grow stronger then ever 🥰

[@poorgirl2]

@@genflores9286 bwahhhh loser

[@Mary-vw8gh]

@@genflores9286 AMEN!!!!!

[@chanelr142]

The beginning was defi eye opening, in the best way. Marriage is indeed work. As they say you’re spouse is like a mirror. It will highlight our shortcomings etc.We have to consider and reassure our partners ♥️

[@taylorlittle4678]

Omg Christian being mad 🤣 Don’t assume your spouse knows your week or your conversation’s you didn’t have in front of them. One of the best pieces of marriage advice I’ve ever had. Sadie, you are being a good wife asking!!

[@alieellersmith]

Legitimately y'all don't know how much I needed this one today!

[@styledbysilvia]

Parker has the sweetest spirit you can tell he’s so anointed ! Great podcast !

[@lindseytomes4215]

Please have more of these! It’s great and funny when other couples are on here! Love it

[@beccahopkins9889]

I went to school from first through ninth grade with Freddie and then again at Auburn. Her and Parker are the real deal!

[@jennifert7983]

Great episode!! I think we can all agree that this was much needed!!

[@kateklute244]

I’m from Nebraska!❤ gbr! I love this podcast. The vulnerability and realness is so appreciated.

[@janelywilliams7794]

Love this. Thank you guys for being so vulnerable with us there at the beginning. Glad my husband and I aren’t the only ones 😅

[@tiffanymuir2630]

Sadie, the way Christian looks at you makes me hope that happens for me one day. Love the way he loves you!!

[@maggiefielder2118]

I normally don’t comment on KZbin videos and I think it’s important to do so when necessary. I believe in marriage communication is key and so is tone you can’t assume your spouse knows the conversations that you’ve had with others and then unload on your spouse just because of the fact that they say the exact same thing or voice their concerns. My husband and I have been married 28 years and it’s very strong and it’s very godly and I believe communication and tone is at the core of our relationship along with having God being in the center of our marriage. The awkwardness of Christian and Sadie on this podcast was very revealing to the situation 20 minutes before this podcast happened. I believe that Christian needs to apologize to Sadie because unfairly he jumped on Sadie knowing the conversations that he had with his friends prior to. I can’t say that I know my husband‘s closet and the clothes that he wears and I can say if he joins an adventure is he going to be prepared for it so it is valuable to know how to be prepared for an event. This is some advice from an old married woman. Walking love, Forgive often and never take a moment for granted!

[@jessejules2092]

If Sadie remembered that men need to feel trusted, which I'm confident she already knows, then she would have considered how she presented the question so as to instill a sense of confidence in her husband. It's hard to remember though in a moment especially if one is busy. Maybe it's her who needs to apologize hypothetically speaking. If he blew her up, then yes he would be right to apologize so long as he's putting a plan in place to not blow up again, but to learn to communicate how her lack of trust makes him feel. Length of time in marriage ma'm, does not equal knowledge and wisdom.

[@chandajordan_]

@@jessejules2092I don’t think she said as if she didn’t trust him to be able to care for him and she was coming from a genuine place so she honestly wanted to ensure for his sake he was fully prepared because she cares. She also is human and there is no perfect communication, if he got upset he needs to apologize but explain why it made him feel annoyed or whatever he felt in the moment and then say I appreciate it you looking out for me and explain what all he has for the trip. The ladies want to take care of their men it’s natural for us to do so

[@Hannahremo]

I wanted advice from anyone who has it, and I love Sadie’s videos so seeing she just uploaded feels like the perfect time. I am young, and traveling in the word of God. I have learned so much about myself through our Lord and I am so so blessed to have that. However, I have no friends. I don’t have that comfort of a girl group or someone to lean on when times are tough. I crave human connection, but around me there is none.. especially with Christian people. It feels lonely and it brings me to tears some days. I know God has a plan, and I’m thinking in the moment, but I can’t lie and say it doesn’t physically hurt to know there isn’t anyone. I hope whoever sees this has a blessed day, and thank you so much for your content Sadie! I look up to you greatly

[@mirandalermy1816]

I feel the exact same way. Maybe we both need to get involved with our church

[@Hannahremo]

I believe you are right. A massive step forward but a good one. I’ll be your friend :)

[@vondapiper6623]

Yes me too

[@kimbro1249]

One thing I have learned is the path that God has for us can be lonely. It can feel like your completely alone but reminding myself that God is always with you and we walk with Jesus, helps me lean into the comfort of being alone. I know I’m not truly alone. trust me I felt the same way for the longest time. I was alone. I had no friends and nobody to talk to. I had pushed everyone away but since I am getting closer to God recently he put a really close friend of mine back into my life and she has helped me a lot. So my advice would be to trust God, have faith in his plan and lean on him.

[@sherbetstraw]

There are often ‘small groups’ in churches where you can connect with other Christians? I joined one about a year ago and it’s been good to get to know people better and make proper friendships!

[@life-is-here]

This podcast looks like a great way to gain insight into relationships and marriage, with the added bonus of seeing how two couples argue and make up.

[@cammiekajioka3967]

Love this please continue more podcast about couples issues!

[@houstonej105]

Love this episode 👏🏽

[@ashlyndoudna341]

😂😂😂 I am cracking up at you two and your argument

[@lilataylor8098]

I really needed this 😂☺️

[@Wilkssummer99]

The first chunk is perfect example ladies!! It is about tone and mannerisms when it comes to respecting our mans! It doesn't matter what you say majority of the time, it is the respect that is lacking behind the words! Making a facial expression- is correlated with disrespect and doubt to a man. We are supposed to be their biggest fan and biggest supporter- no matter what!!

[@kristine6128]

Well said! ❤

[@chandajordan_]

That’s why it’s good to talk about it because I promise you my face makes more expressions than I realize and it will be like what are you thinking look lol 😅 it’s been a work to figure that out

[@madisonlaw8649]

i love the videos with freddie! 💗

[@her.radiantlove]

Wow! 6 minutes in and I've learned so much about marriage! I believe Sadie wasn't trying to be offensive but for a man in general, it seems to me that they would like for their wife to ask questions in a way that is receiving and less direct. I guess it seems less offensive and direct that way. Although the intention wasn't to be offensive. It's like the woman is preparing to receive kind of like receiving a baby. Wow, thank you for opening up your lives, you both are so awesome, and I appreciate your transparency. 💛

[@NS-nm8nu]

Yea Christian should've apologized for taking out his frustration on her. She did absolutely nothing wrong, in fact she was being the helper that we as wives are called to be in the marriage. I'm astonished at how he still doesn't have the humility to see that. Because he was on the defensive like Sadie was saying, he contorted and misconstrued the question and the look she gave him. Which was out of concern, not out of disrespect for him..

[@niamonosmith7721]

so so so encouraging

[@alainaherreraa]

Did you guys ever notice in the video do you and Freddie, Freddie is wearing the exact outfit Sadie is in this video! That is awesome. Love watching you guys! 💗

[@makemeupmore]

Beautiful words and couples ❤

[@emmariephillips2223]

Lol I love the REALNESS! Thank you

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Good episode ❤ enjoyed watching

[@Viviana1caraveo]

more vlogssss please

[@GracefulTalksCP]

Being content in who I am with God keeps coming up in my life and it's so good to see what the end result can look like. I'm currently working on getting to know Jesus better and it's completely changed my outlook on life and I just want more of Him. ❤

[@lillsofieiversen1232]

Going to Get focused next year

[@alecwhitehawk5449]

Lol the "cya bye bye" from Christian

[@chandajordan_]

There is a lot on marriage which is amazing! And helps a lot! What about just dating? I feel like a lot of us don’t even know how to do anything dating. Like boundaries, communication, efforts and love. Like how do you date with God first and still have the best possible relationship which this podcast shows no one is perfect and y’all still have moments because y’all are human and never done learning about each other

[@FitnessGirl20]

Sadie- Can we see a updated couple advice for how to speak to your husband through words and actions examples??

[@berealrb1496]

I think if you protect your eye gates because you love God first before your spouse that us the highest and the best. Loving God first.

[@DoughboyGod]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@brendachaves6375]

Hi Sadie

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

I want my husband to be my BEST FRIEND, that I tell everything to and they tell me and it's just like me and that person. Counting on each other.

[@donnamaemayers7324]

Hi, God blessed you guys, the truth will make you free. Let God be true and the enemies be a liar, today in Jesus Christ's mighty name. Love you guys, and keep up the great work.💕🙋🙏🙌🤗

[@lisapetty6029]

Love this, just a lot of ADs Lol.

[@SarahSutherlandd]

I don’t normally comment on videos but the argument at the start made me really want you guys to know - if this sounds familiar please read John Grays Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus! Both their perspectives were totally valid and can be understood by John’s Book ❤️ Has been a game changer for my partner and I! Xx

[@sarahslovely08]

I notice guys get more agitated when they didn’t get “it time”. And yes fights always happen before a eventful time. Could be stress…. But I agree, don’t go into things on the defensive as if the other person has bad intentions. 😔 lots to think about.

[@saunily3071]

You should definitely look at Psychology in Seattle. He is a LMFT who does reactions/commentary on shows like LIB or MAFS. I've never even watched LIB but he uses the show as jump off point to discuss dynamics, attachment, how to communicate, etc. Similar disclaimer you gave, he is NOT coming from a Christ-center/Biblically focused perspective but I do learn a lot. ( I don't agree with everything he says either)

[@crbaade]

Sadie’s husband is actually using correct etiquette. Think if you were writing an email to your attorney, when your writing your questions you never want to question your attorney’s competence, you assume they are 100% competent. He is right. Assume he packed correctly, and ask your question from that perspective.

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

How old are you now Sadie? I like what your saying. Trust is a must.

[@daceynolan4775]

Do you have advice on struggling with infertility and contemplating IVF after having 3 pregnancy losses as a Christian?

[@corneliaopoku]

Hi Davey. I just saw your comment and I felt that I should comment. I feel like people's opinions do not really matter as much because they are not in your situation and they don't understand what you are going through. I think you should take it up to God and follow what He wants for you. God may actually be okay with you getting ivf or not. You just have to pray to Him and get the answer. That is my 2 cents. God bless

[@Liz37927]

Watch Hey it’s the luskos with Granger smith. They did ivf

[@Antwaun706]

I notice she never's allow him,to finish his talking points.

[@allig1415]

Communication is key & we sometimes don't want to use that key. Patience is so important to have in a Marriage, people get offended through Life, Ive noticed the wrong tone can change the whole scene sometimes. Lifes is too short already, don't let your patience be one of them 💛 Love Like Jesus at all times, just not when you feel like it I'm learning 🤔 Our Minds are limited & God's is Limitless, gives me great relief say that out loud, it puts me in check where I need to stay ✌️ Love you guys

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

What do ya'll do all day? Do either of you work?

[@loriboeding9322]

Ask 'Is there anything I can do to help you?' Communication is important, even after 45 years of marriage, we must communicate. Don't assume!

[@Marinaaccoount]

40:51 Hii, can someone please tell me what message they're talking about here please? I am not a native speaker and I can't understand clearly but I'd like to listen to it :(

[@NellesTube]

I believe she said the title of the message was David and Bethsheba by Ben Stuart

[@Marinaaccoount]

@@NellesTube Thank you :)

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

When I first seen Christian, I was thinking "oh he's a player and is gonna break Sadie's heart" but I guess not, thank God. How do you keep from doing the wrong thing, when it seems like in today's world, it's like no one stays together and they cheat and all that stuff.

[@SovereignSpirit444]

II’ve been feeling that Christian men are as much responsible for presenting themselves with “Modesty” just as much as the women are.. I’m not going to elaborate much more on that.. I’ve followed a Christian leader in particular whom I no longer follow- because of his revealing gym clothing on stage and mannerisms. Saying this with love as a 46 year old woman with concern..I’m okay with rocking the boat sometimes, sorry. ❤

[@berealrb1496]

Yes. I agree. Less clothes on anyone is a distraction especially on the pulpit.

[@SovereignSpirit444]

@@berealrb1496 thank you❣️ I’m talking about one in particular I stopped following- tight skinny jeans, stretchy suit jacket- save that for a private date with your wife?! I have to giggle now because it’s outrageous. That’s Brian Guerin- I’ll call him out too🤦🏻‍♀️ But I also want to say- This marriage union is very special of the Huff’s- seeing their beautiful love union drew many hearts in desiring the love of the Father. I am grateful for them❣️ But we’ve got to keep in real, yes. Keep it kosher. Eyes on the Father- what is pleasing to Him. 💕

[@berealrb1496]

@@SovereignSpirit444 I have seen him before but don’t watch him.

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

Sadie's husband seems argumentative. Before ya'll were together, had Christian been with other girls or was he a virgin?

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

I can clearly see who wears the pants in this family. LMAO!

[@lovingmymamalighter102]

Christian sounds like a straight up Diva, who gets his feelings hurt easily.

[@pattibaranek]

God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk! God loves y'all stay faithful!

[@genna4998]

Hi! Amen. Thank you so much for putting this out there and asking for prayer request. Could you pray for me? I'm trying to get through this season of my life and just tired and ready for it to be over. The Lord gave me promises and my life currently looks nothing like any of them but I know that it all will come to pass. God's not a man that He would lie, and He's so good that even if He does nothing else for me He's still great and worthy to be praised. One thing that I'm seeing is that no matter what happens each day, God's the same which means no matter how good or bad the day went, I know that He's here with me and wants me to keep coming to Him. That's where I get peace, joy, safety, and strength to take another step and not collapse, which is what I've wanted to do at times. I guess I'm mainly asking for prayer for strength in this season, it's not easy, and there are a lot of times I wish I could escape to a beach in Florida all by myself for a little bit just to get a break from it all. So ya that's my prayer request. Thank you so much in advance. Is there anything I can pray and intercede with you about?

[@Liz-vm7xq]

@@genna4998 I’m praying for you! Where are you now spiritually? God is with you❤🙏

[@user-yx4gd9gi7y]

Is this just marriage advice from Sadie lol

[@allysim3097]

Why is the girl on the left SO TAN??

[@NikiReynolds_2swift]

That's how Jehovah Witnesses are, the real ones, they don't cheat, they are super nice, will do anything they can to help, don't cuss, Like your family Sadie. I love that.

[@norapease8087]

Read the Book: men are like waffles and women are like spaghetti Its Awesome

[@agasulek3881]

Christian just keeps yawning and giving he all 🙈

[@stephf2053]

Christian's body language is concerning. Yawning and moving away from Sadie as she speaks (though she does prattle on and on and on). Just very noticeable.

[@Jayceedevin]

The fact that Sadie cannot own her wrongs in her relationship is horrible! She speaks so frankly about god and doing right but she can’t even acknowledge her wrongs in her own relationship. Poor guy can’t catch a break with his ignorant wife. So sad. Enough Sadie.

[@revelationsandvisions7477]

Hey Sadie: STOP DEFYING GOD! 1 Timothy 2:12 - But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 1 Corinthians 14:34 - Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 1 Corinthians 14:35 - And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 1 Timothy 2:11 - Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.

[@mayag8469]

She's not at church or teaching anything she's having a conversation with her husband and her friends. Did God say women can't have conversations?

[@revelationsandvisions7477]

@@mayag8469 ohhh… a PUBLICLY SHARED BROADCAST is not preaching to you? I can almost hear the devil saying to you “did God REALLY SAY ‘preac’ h in the Bible? ?”

[@lisathaleni1338]

omggg I just realized a lot of men are insecure and need their egos be stroked. Like it wasn't that deep but Christian is clearly mad and offended.. I think it's important to understand that your partner needs affirmation and validation from their spouse. But at the same time, it's important to be confident and believe your partner has the best in mind for you! 🤍

[@jacobsalaash8209]

This is beautiful 🥰 Much true Lis

[@chanelr142]

So true