Our Biggest Dating Red Flags | Trash Taste

[@lucpan1008]

Garnt:The glass is half full Joey: The glass is half empty Connor: spills the water while drinking it.

[@impulsiveparakeet8450]

I think it's Garnt who spills while drinking 😂

[@sheridanwolf]

⁠​⁠@@impulsiveparakeet8450both Connor and Garnt drop stuff while drinking lol.

[@zhero8434]

Connor: breaks the glass

[@hmr0470]

@@zhero8434 Connor: There's no more glass nor water

[@PsiJuicu]

Jsjwow

[@Syncratci]

Joey being in denial about Aki being a Disney adult is hilarious.

[@SavantGardeEX]

Idk she only likes kingdom hearts lmao.

[@maineman5757]

​@@SavantGardeEXThat hardly even counts.

[@SavantGardeEX]

@@maineman5757 exactly lmao

[@JaimeNyx15]

Now we just have to rate what it is to be a Kingdom Hearts Adult

[@mayuresh1690]

​@@SavantGardeEXshe goes to Disney theme park multiple times.

[@ivy5554]

I need a part 2 with Emirichu, Sydney, Aki and maybe Kaho answering the questions lmao.

[@brookethompson3646]

YES

[@isabellatheresemateo3961]

Why does this not have enough likes?! MAKE IT A TT AFTERDARKKKKK

[@Charles-wu3hw]

Man I'd love for THE girl's version of this podcast

[@spectermaddness4704]

Yes. PLEASE!!!

[@MainGoldDragon]

where did emirichu come from lol

[@Weebfox]

"why are you so optimistic about everything?" I would hope a partner is the one person you can be more open and optimistic with, Garnt is based

[@NornChaver]

True

[@sarfarazgaming121]

Nah he's in-between based and trash for that one

[@trexdrew]

He’s a sweet little cinnamon roll that needs to be protected

[@ryana5435]

@@trexdrew they also mocked parasocial relationships, so parasocial relationship checks out

[@cutthegrass4295]

Briish innit

[@chestersidd1626]

They should make an entire episode on the female perspective with Aki, Sydney, Emily and Meilyne.

[@destituteanddecadent9106]

That would be a nice breath of fresh air. Trash Taste Girl Talk Special, let's make it happen

[@shawnthorington7723]

So Joey would kick out Sydney quick 😅

[@amandamotekaityte5681]

And kaho

[@ianbyrne465]

Kaho

[@SnailHatan]

No, they shouldn’t.

[@thetruth3068]

Aki is 100% Disney adult. Joey doing mental gymnastics to say otherwise is so funny.

[@earvinarabia8733]

Connor using the "Arcane" example to catch Joey was so spot-on

[@SavantGardeEX]

Pewdiepie has the same opinion tbh

[@ParadoX-os]

@@SavantGardeEX It's not about the show being popular though if you think about it. It's about WHEN it becomes popular. If Joey or Pewdiepie watch a show before it becomes popular and enjoy it, but then months later it becomes popular, they will be the guys that say "I watched it before it became mainstream". So it's more of a wrong mentality, where they want to enjoy things that are less well known, so they feel more special for liking them.

[@SavantGardeEX]

@@ParadoX-os That's not why they don't like it tho? They've both stated that it being "popular" overhypes it and becomes spammed everywhere and they don't feel like watching it. And I agree to an extent.

[@jackirwin6823]

What point was this for?

[@ParadoX-os]

@@SavantGardeEX I mean you are clearly biased. Other viewers' opinion of a show should not matter. Why do you care if a show is popular or not? Just give it a try and see if you will like it or not. You've already decided you are not going to like a show just because it's popular. That's straight up dumb. I am not saying every popular show is good, BUT if a show is popular, there is a reason for it. If I thought the way that you do, I would have never watched Breaking Bad for example. Any way you look at it, it's a red flag personality-wise, not being open to trying things just because they are popular.

[@artorios2320]

31:16 I completely agree with Garnt. My girlfriend has barely watched any movies, series, anime etc; especially the classic ones. There is no reasoning behind it, she simply didn't get around to watching stuff as before we started dating she'd rather just play videogames. The last two years have been a blast because I get to rewatch stuff like Breaking Bad, Hxh 2011, Fma , The gladiator, The Godfather, Spice and Wolf, a bunch of ghibli movies, and lots of other stuff with someone who has never seen them. Seeing someone react to a piece of media for the very first time almost makes you feel like you're seeing it for the first time.

[@96pjmk]

I'm in the same exact boat at the moment. Barely watched any movies and just played games most of my life. My girlfriend is the one dragging me through all these masterpiece movies and I'm just blown away how many amazing experiences I've missed out on.

[@aaiisshaa8901]

Dude that is so cute

[@debishvebishwish4839]

The only reason I dont watch movies is because I cant watch movies. I have ADHD. I will definitely offend the other person that try to introduce me to movies, because I am easily distracted.

[@KarolYuuki]

​@@debishvebishwish4839one thing that really helped me was finding something to do with my hands. Ever since I started knitting last year, I can focus a lot more on what I'm watching. And you can get a bonus of a new article of clothing every few months XD

[@Horribledeeds]

"Why am I being bullied Daddy?" "Oh, it's because you're a Leo son". - CDawg

[@Hacktheplanet_]

Hahaha

[@Esther-s7t]

Connors greatest appeal is that he is the culmination of almost exclusively beige flags

[@HB-ui8od]

so true

[@ericgarcia3802]

Gotta hand it to them, they cover a solid spectrum of relationship statues for a flag game. The married one, the one in a relationship, and the single one.

[@oRayka]

You must be smoking crack if you think Connor is single

[@sporeham1674]

They just need an incel and a reverend to cover the last two boxes

[@Ty6260]

​@@sporeham1674incels arent ppl

[@uwc.]

@@sporeham1674 a reverend is an incel by choice, so just one would be fine

[@luthfihar3211]

@@uwc. reverend is a *Celibate by choice, which is the exact opposite of incel being Involuntary Celibate. IE singles with no hope of getting a partner

[@laurenletha]

"She only goes to Disney a couple times a year" Disney adults who only go *once* a year: 👁 👄👁

[@ivnightclaw8663]

What the fuck is a Disney adult?

[@ammi5311]

That called poor diff 😂

[@elliotw.888]

​@@ivnightclaw8663an adult who behaves like they're 10 years old when it comes to anything Disney related

[@ivnightclaw8663]

@@elliotw.888 damn sad for them,

[@MaryAnnSweetAngel]

Im from India so I've never been to Disney land. So i might act like a kid if I ever got lucky to go 🙃 I can't even afford to leave the country and to go to USA as a tourist also they're super strict for visas and want you to have enough money in your bank account

[@epsorks]

Joey doing mental gymnastics to not admit she's a Disney adult is copium to it's highest degree. Also, I'm not saying it's bad, but we call a spade a spade no?

[@ManectricReturns]

"She's not a Disney fan, she's a Kingdom Hearts fan" dude's been gaslit hard haha

[@SavantGardeEX]

@@ManectricReturns Kingdom hearts is the farthest away from a Disney IP tbh

[@4rl0ng]

Lmao

[@HelterwithoutSkelter]

​@@SavantGardeEXmickey mouse is in it

[@asdf852asdf]

@@HelterwithoutSkelter for like 5 minutes in each game lmao

[@FlimsyRanger]

Garnt clearly is a happily married man, its adorable 😊

[@krass6603]

Hearing joey say the thing he hates the most is people not liking something without giving it a try is probably the least self aware thing he has ever said lmao

[@billcosbee2057]

That Like:Dislike ratio on the AOT finale episode speaks for itself. 😂😂

[@notaspeck6104]

Yeah like I like the three of them but sometimes Joey is a little 'broey' if that makes sense. Like when he said 'sorry ladies' when talking about astrology I could do nothing but roll my eyes.

[@parfate1383]

Especially when you make it to the “Won’t watch a show if it’s popular” question. XD he won’t try the popular shows but everyone should try out foods before judging.

[@austinwiebe3801]

@@notaspeck6104he’s the same guy who chanted “tits out for the boys” so no surprise lol

[@jacobnorris8256]

He never said he disliked Arcane or the likes though. On the contrary, he has explicitly said that he thinks he'd like Arcane, he just doesn't want to feel pressured into watching it.

[@marclenraymagdaraog691]

The entire episode just shows how lucky Sidney is to have Garnt as a husband lmao..

[@fili0938]

Garnt has always been a nice guy through and through.

[@User_95168]

@@fili0938 don't let this distract u from the fact that he enjoys incest and pedo shows

[@froufroudeluxe]

Garnt overall seems like the best partner out of the boys

[@tiaraguy7705]

​@@froufroudeluxedude just seems the most happy. Not to say the other two aren't happy people but god damn Garnt never seems to get down. He's got little sad puppy energy when he's down.

[@twign6378]

​@@tiaraguy7705that's garnt ejecting sadness from his system

[@examensexamen]

Garnt answering Beige for Food Palette is so in character

[@Jerryfan271]

true, garnt just thinks differently to the other two when it comes to interpreting prompts. lol

[@Royal__Kitsune]

​​@@Jerryfan271that and he also does have the palette of a child. he doesnt like to eat crusts, likes (some) cereal without milk and doesnt like fizzy soft drink

[@SashaCaffe]

@@Royal__Kitsunewouldn't 12 year olds love cereals and fizzy drinks though

[@Royal__Kitsune]

Ig this is just a personal thing cause i have a niece and she doesnt really like fizzy drinks or cereal all that much

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@Royal__Kitsune Kids love those things aside from crusts

[@thelegendaryflyingburrito8142]

This is the first time I’ve ever been called a “bootylicious bitch” thanks Joey (I’m a dude btw)

[@cloverateuwu3302]

*Bootylicious Bad Bitches* would've been more... Bad ass 😂

[@trashfay]

Same, love it

[@leastselfawarepotassium]

I also appreciated it. I miss Joeys legendary intros.

[@BrickDaniels-qu7bz]

Big booty is the reason humans are the top animal.

[@slyfoxfan0799]

subaru: STOP.. FUCKING... REMINDING ME!

[@famusreid]

It’s funny Joey absolutely hates people that won’t try food because of how it looks but he won’t watch shows because they are popular 🤣🤣

[@catelinsanjose3833]

he's just like me for real

[@ktelite]

He basically become the very thing he hate.

[@nicolasbrown1009]

To defend him a bit, you MUST eat, so being adventurous with food isn't as much of an opportunity cost as devoting time towards a show that you might have spent elsewhere. With the vast quantity of entertainment being produced I think it is a bit unfair to expect someone not to be judgemental before deciding how to recreate. I say this as someone who both loves Arcane and has only watched a couple of Joey's main channel videos.

[@amerhst1201]

@@nicolasbrown1009 To counter that, food is a something you need to live not entertainment so if you like a few things and they make you both happy and keeps you alive then there is no need for anything else. Unlike shows that are made for entertainment that you deny yourself enjoying because other people enjoy them.

[@ThermsFriend]

@@amerhst1201 i mean hes watches so much anime, probably more than most people her. its like complaining that a chef that has tried cuisine al around the world doesnt want to try a new trendy dish even though they have eaten a bigger variety of food than the average person

[@forklauncher]

"30 but has never been in a relationship is not the same as 30 in many short relationships" Thanks for making me feel seen on the former, even if the age is not exact.

[@MatchaJazmin]

Same

[@marcoscorrea1429]

The "Disney adult" conversation got me gasping for air XD Joey desperately trying to defend Aki from Garnt and Connor ahahaha

[@SavantGardeEX]

I mean liking only kingdom hearts is not a Disney adult tho

[@friendlyneighbourhooddegen4739]

@@SavantGardeEXThe peak of copium XD

[@ShreddedWings]

@@SavantGardeEX also stitch I think

[@Jingokou]

@@SavantGardeEX Would a person who only likes Kingdom Hearts visit Disney Land multiple times a year?

[@SavantGardeEX]

@@friendlyneighbourhooddegen4739 Ah yes liking dragon ball z and it being their only anime makes them a weeb then lmao.

[@golbinnom]

Grant is total husband material, no wonder he’s the one who’s married. And 30 minutes to get ready for a girl is indeed super quick!! You have to factor in hair and make up which are very time consuming

[@Allschmoi]

This is completly depending on ones perspective. My girlfriend for over 7 years usually takes even less time to get ready then me. There are exceptions of course, like when we go out for special occassions. But usually she only apllies a little bit of make up since she preferes a more natural look and for her hair she also doesn't do anything special like a straigthening iron or a curly thing. So I would argue that 30 minutes are not indeed super quick. They can be, depending on the person and the circumstances. But in my case I take longer doing my hair and choosing clothes than my partner. 😂

[@GOOSE-5400]

Just don't be ugly lmao

[@heroicxidiot]

30+ minutes for a simple outing is way too long. 30+ minutes because of a special occasion like a party, that's fine and that seems typically quick.

[@destituteanddecadent9106]

I'm a girl but I wouldn't spend 30 minutes every morning. That's more of a once a month event, like a fancy date, fancy event, fancy party, basically anything fancy lol It also coincides with my "wearing 10 cm (4") heels for a day and spend a month recovering" cycle 😂

[@idananodesu]

totally agree. i've got long hair and it takes around 15 mins to brush it and make it into a braid, so there's just 15 mins left for makeup and choosing clothes, which is not much. i usually ask for an hour to get ready if there's no rush and i thought that's a normal thing, my husband doesn't care that much either. i found it puzzling that some people think 30 mins is a long time to get ready.

[@-N-...]

"We are three dating experts... most experienced men of all time" Garnt: Married Joey: Dating Connor: Bachelor Abroad Statement holds up

[@MaSt3R333]

Connor has Chris though ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[@F35_User]

@@MaSt3R333 What about Mouse 😏

[@abhinav8914]

@@F35_User no

[@simonji2940]

@@F35_User keep your thoughts private

[@deepdarksecretful]

connor probably has dated around more than the other 2, hence his very measured responses. Joey basically became the quintesssential 4chan/tiktok-er/redditor/twitt that bases their personality around their social media usage 👁👄👁

[@bendewalt5560]

Garnt: 30 mins is quick, right? Tell me you're marriad without saying you're married

[@ActualLiliCakes]

It turns out my husband does one of these red flags and I didn't find out about it until after we got married. It's been tough, but we did find a way to get through it. I just don't watch him pour his cereal anymore.

[@amerhst1201]

milk before cereal is amazing. It keeps the cereal crunchy and I think people are missing out on it because "it's not cool". Your hubby is a green flag.

[@shadowstorm1111]

Usually conner is arguing against himself nearly every episode, but its joey this time. We living a weird world today. Snoop giving up on smoking may have been the sign.

[@FrenchDinosaur]

Had Joey been talking more, I feel like he definitely would have looked like that long ago. The dude is just a walking proud contrarian.

[@sarfarazgaming121]

Snoop is still alive????

[@tiaraguy7705]

Snoop gave up smoking??

[@Andrei-if1dr]

​@@tiaraguy7705yeah he quit and he wrote it like he loss a family Member or something

[@penguin-tc1cx]

wait I saw that on insta but I thought that was a meme- (snoop dogg quitting smoking)

[@LuciusHill]

With the phone passcode one: My girlfriend and I know each other's passcodes, but we've been together for nearly four years, and living together for three. At this point, there are times where it's just more efficient to know. Like if she's driving and the song she wants to play is on her phone, we're not going to stop the car so that she can open her phone and change the music, that'd just be dumb. Or if I get a text but I'm away from my phone, like I'm in the shower for example, she reads the message out for me and I ask her to respond with what I say, or if it's a person in our friend group, sometimes I ask her to just respond with whatever she thinks I'd respond with lol. I trust her completely to be able to respect when something could be crossing my boundaries, or pushing past my privacy. But (and that's a BIG but), we weren't at this stage until nearly a year into living together. We both had talked about our privacy and boundaries quite extensively beforehand, and mutually agreed that we whole-heartedly trusted each other to respect the other person's privacy. Us asking for the passcode is a trivial thing at this point because we've been together for this long, and because we CAN have so much evidential trust in each other. If we were dating for only like a month, and she started desperately needing to know my passcode, that would be an obvious massive red-flag, and would be an easy sign of trust issues.

[@MysticCat21]

yeah, i was going to say, i don't mind a partner asking for my passcode, because it makes things more convenient at times. Just like you said it can be faster for stuff like music or messaging, but also when one person has a better phone camera than the other, or any other situation that can happen in a relationship. BUT if i catch my partner snooping around my phone that's an instant red flag. The actual asking of passcode depends on her intentions (asking cuz trust issues or truly because she thinks it's more convenient), but the act of snooping would be a dealbreaker for me

[@zacharytylerhixson]

This, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, living together for 3. We both have trust and know each other's pass codes, but we also both agree not to go snooping. The efficiency thing is basically the same boat for us as well.

[@misha21olivia]

Couldn't relate more, My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and its really just for conveniency that we know eachother's passwords, luckily for him my memory is bad bc of some previous health issues i've had so I forget it pretty quickly. like the song thing is SO SPOT ON, I used that one a couple days ago bc I had to drive my boyfriend and I to his hometown bc he forgot his license, and I wanted to listen to my music to keep myself awake (it was VERY early) so I just gave him my phone and was like "can you play my playlist?" and he just opens my phone and puts it on. but yeah if my partner that i've only been together with for a little over a year just randomly comes up to me and is like "can I get your password?" then I comepletely understand where the boys are comming from. to me its all about context and scenarios here.

[@sumiisaurus]

agreed. ty!

[@notaspeck6104]

That's a massive green flag. It's all about mutual trust, respect and communication.

[@yippykiay13]

As a woman not on social media (minus KZbin) married to a man who loves it, he constantly spams me with memes and videos and it’s great. My family does that too. I have several group messages and a discord channel I share with my closest friends. As far as I can tell, I’m getting all of the benefits without having to deal with all the bs. I used to have just about everything, and I waaaaaay prefer the way I’m living my life without them.

[@edarddragon]

yeah i feel like discord/whats up isnt really social media its just texting over internte and such, and sharing memes is fun, id want someone to send me cute stuff

[@Raquya]

​@@edarddragonwhatsapp sure, but discord is defo a social media app.

[@murasakirin8998]

I'm with ya there. I don't have any social media besides youtube and discord, because all the drama and constant unpleasent news that was pushed in my face really put a huge damper on my mood. I had facebook for a long time, but it was super annoying how much it cluttered my email, so i deleted it. Now the lack of a social media is beginning to be viewed as a red flag for those of a younger generation (i'm early 20s so i fall under that generation). Its more reason for me to hesitate with using things like dating apps.

[@tpsam]

​@@edarddragonthat's literally the most basic explanation of social media I don't think football is a real sport we just run around after a ball trying to win a game

[@tpsam]

​@@murasakirin8998actual adults or mature people understand that a lack of social media is a green flag a sign of happier mental health and overall a smart decision in life to better yourself

[@awarmmilkandcookies]

"Objection! Copium, your honor" is an amazing line lmao

[@dingledoo]

Garnt in 2022: “I would gladly be racist” Garnt in 2023: “Somehow I’m having to argue against racism” That’s some character development right there

[@manemjeff3698]

Wait in which episode did he say that?

[@aidanredding8058]

@@manemjeff3698 Not sure what episode, but the full quote is "I would gladly be racist towards wasps"

[@knaditya8228]

That episode was absolutely hilarious 😂😂

[@damianich4824]

​@@aidanredding8058like the insects or the americans? Lol

[@axeladd1274]

Garnt is the type of husband I wanna be when I get older.

[@ProfessionalCommentor]

Garnt:"every weeb should watch eva to have an opinion on it" also garnt: " i have never seen FMB"

[@caleharriet8147]

to be fair, he admits that he already has expectations and so he doesn't want to take the best cake yet out of fear that the rest of the pallette sours coz of it. Joey on the other hand....

[@Libo1595]

Ah yes, FMB the highest rated anime in hentaihaven

[@alexzander1142]

Fmb isn't really all that. The MC is too merciful towards enemies shits annoying

[@grimdarhk]

​@@alexzander1142shit take.

[@moveslikeninja1]

that is literally the only thing i want to scream at garnt about LOL

[@TheRichardSilver]

Aki 100% is a Disney adult.

[@SavantGardeEX]

She only likes kingdom hearts tho, barely a Disney ip... so... cope? lmao.

[@QMS9224]

Not to generalize but as I’ve got older I’ve learned that most girls are Disney adults. My mom my sister every girl I’ve dated or been friends with. There’s a reason singing disney movies and Harry Potter is so popular with girls.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@QMS9224 Most girls are Disney Adults that also love true crime. Make it make sense

[@suitNtie22]

@@SavantGardeEX thats defo not wat it sounds like from joey.... so... cope cope? lmao

[@SavantGardeEX]

@@suitNtie22 Joey said that in this pod wdym... Watch the episode? And cope? Lmao yall TRYING to tell a man's girlfriend of 7 years what she is and isn't is hilarious lmao.

[@ChaosDragon]

"Are there positive superstitions?" Yes; crossing your fingers, knocking on wood, making a wish when blowing out birthday cake candles, and anything considered a "good luck charm" are some examples.

[@M.M.Y.B]

Lucky charms!

[@aaiisshaa8901]

32:39 This is the reason why garnt is the only one married here hes so considerate 😭 his responses are so cute and wholesome

[@beans9508]

I’m only half way through this episode Joey will have half if not over half of the salty nominations for next year’s awards just on this episode. 😂

[@SavantGardeEX]

Connor as well

[@some9guy]

@@SavantGardeEX I think Connor is pretty neutral

[@Jepze158]

He is never gonna let that happen.

[@SavantGardeEX]

@@some9guy yeah they both played safe and catered a lot in this episode? Joey chose HIMSELF not virtue signalling for the camera.

[@ryanergo754]

​@SavantGardeEX Or that's their honest thoughts probably.

[@NakeJichols]

Connor destroying Disney is everything I needed to hear. Thank you Monke, thank you.

[@kyankuni]

Joey saying his biggest pet peeve is "putting all of this judgement on a thing you don't have knowledge about and doesn't even bother to explore" is the most ironic thing I've ever heard tf Edit : Since some of you are saying I'm "Hating and crying about it", I ain't at all, I just found it funny. Guess i should've phrased it better mb. Although there are alot of replies below that do seem to be hating. And no, I haven't even watched AOT yet and I don't plan to.

[@eleonarcrimson858]

You know there are things more important than anime out there.

[@Tan12]

Joey does it with anime opinions but I'm pretty sure he means with more serious topics when he says that.

[@asdf852asdf]

Ive come to terms regular Joey and youtuber Joey are 2 separate beings like Jekyll and hyde

[@MellowSquash]

That neuroscience and philosophy episode was so painful

[@SavantGardeEX]

He might not know any anime past 2019, but he knows a lot, yall can cry and bitch about him but he knows way more about japan and anime than you do bro lmao.

[@xmaslieder]

Garnt saying people who don't like spicy food having the palette of a 12 year old while not eating crust and not liking condiments like mayo is very funny

[@chandrayesadhukhan2236]

I love the fact that Garnt is so optimistic about his answers and looking at the positive spectrum of the given situation... Whereas Connor and Joey are realistic and looks at both the spectrum of the situation... It's kinda nice to listen to this conversation!!!

[@versety3170]

They did it ! Last week they were on a relatable topic for weebs Today they went to the least relatable topic for most weebs

[@versety3170]

@phil1052 bro I can’t lie it’s rough out there 💀

[@puppet3668]

There beta males now

[@X2yt]

Careful, at this rate, in a few months they might talk about anime again. We don't want that to happen.

[@versety3170]

⁠​⁠​⁠@phil1052you’re right… I wish you the same 🙃

[@alphakowaclips]

Read the podcast name and move on, loser

[@Shadow_Arbor]

I think giving your partner access to your phone is a bit more nuanced. Like obviously if you've just started dating and they ask for you password because they want to snoop that's a red flag. That said, me and my partner of almost six years have access to each other's phones. This sorta happened naturally because someone needed to check something while their phone wasn't around, or one of us asked the other to send a message while the former was driving. Of course we don't randomly check each others messages, but we do know one anothers password. I think context is important here.

[@Adamassmilk]

Oh yeah, I do agree. It happening naturally is fine. Personally for me the messages part is a big reason I’m against it. But obviously you’d hope to trust your partner wouldn’t look through your private messages. For the sake of the other person as well. If I found out my private messages with my friend were being accessed by their partner as well I’d feel a bit weird. Cause it’s my friend I’m having that conversation with, not them.

[@crawfordbrown5101]

Garnt trolling Joey about Nintendo bros and Disney princesses ending up together was hilarious

[@Xzocker96]

Idk why, but when Connor voted Green on the Marriage question, I felt happiness.

[@ihmsfm1040]

It was really unexpected and kinda mature answer from him

[@4kach24]

True,true

[@lalizel6859]

I absolutely loved this episode. It simply gives off the vibe of "a serious time with the boys". You're just immersed in it while also being able to understand each side of the topic.

[@xeno1912]

Joey basically said “if they don’t like my memes, I can’t date them”

[@Guldangut252]

That's probably why he's only had 1 gf

[@Takudayo]

​@@Guldangut252ayy I agree but let's not get personal lol 😂

[@keinen.0824]

​@@Guldangut252and that's a good thing no?

[@controlcon]

I hope they do more fun themed after dark type episodes like this and the AI topics episode more. After 170+ episodes, something new to spice things up would be cool. I still love when they talk shit and pull out random topics, but fun stuff like this once in a while would be great too, especially now with after dark being so inconsistent due to their busy schedules. One of my favourite episodes is still their kombini episode.

[@alannguyen1669]

The AI episode was a fun one-off goof but I hope that doesn't become an unironic regular thing.

[@plasmic7021]

I just want more Chris and Pete

[@Mellow_Yellow13]

Agreed. This was definitely one of my favorite episodes. We got some good discussion from these prompts. I have always wanted them to do more stuff like this, themed episodes and a book/movie/show review a handful of times a year to change things up.

[@simonji2940]

Idk they never run out of rants in general so it still feels fresh after all this time.

[@spaceangie]

About keeps the relationship private: Depends on severity, but i would go rather for a red flag, because i saw something like that among my group of friends. It's not like we were work colleagues or acquaintances - most of us knew each other since we were kids, so I would like to think we were pretty close. Two members of said group started dating, but the guy wanted to keep it "private". It meant that when we were hanging out he wouldn't touch her, barely acknowledge her, no pictures together anywhere, they wouldn't go on vacation together (because he was going with his parents)... Basically, I only learnt they were together because she told me one day. I'm not saying you have to shout love confessions to each other, or plaster your kissy faces on billboards, but like, for me it looked like he was using her - and when i told her so, she said that "oh, he's just depressed and misunderstood and she can help him because he just gets her 🥺" 5 years later we (me & her) barely speak, but from what i heard she still lives alone, while he lives with his parents, but i think they are still together? i'm not saying being private is a bad thing, but there's being private, and there's "avoiding commitment"

[@finn4135]

I think they mean private from online.

[@newbie4789]

Yeah. I do think they missed this context when Talking about it. It is one extreme case but it is also a valid case. Actively hiding that you are dating in front of everyone is not so mature of a behaviour. It leads to gossip and could potentially generate uncomfortable situations all around. It is kinda acceptable at maybe highschool levels and all but in a mature, adult relationship it does feel like a red flag

[@michaelryan1767]

I'd rather find out on date one that someone expects marriage eventually rather than be blindsided by the information a year or two down the track when I'm already in love with them. Same with kids. Saves either party wasting time getting to know someone when it's never going to work out.

[@e-spaceofknowledge]

I interpreted the "keeps the relationship private" differently. I answered"red flag", because in my personal experience, the girl I was dating last time seemed uncomfortable whenever ppl knew we were dating, to the point that one of our common friends (she was close to him more than I was close to him) didn't know we were in a relationship until after we broke up. I think keeping the relationship private as in not mentioning you as their partner is indeed a red flag.

[@icedlemontea6042]

One of the best TT episodes in a while. Every opinion feels trashy...and I love it.

[@alexanderwong675]

Garnt and Connor finally agreed on a food take, the milk-cereal debate There is hope in this world 🙏

[@cozie6121]

Poor joey he got absolutely cooked this episode 😭

[@bloodvue]

Poor Joey? He deserves every one of his lumps this time

[@sebastienhuwart2347]

Plus they didn't even bring up the wine tasting episode where he threw a tantrum and decided to stop guessing (sore loser).

[@sarfarazgaming121]

​@@sebastienhuwart2347ehh there's levels to losing and being a sore loser I think

[@Shft-T4b]

I'm with everyone in the comments, something like a spin-off follow-up episode with the girls to compare perspectives would be awesome.

[@rubyblue7119]

I really loved Joey in this episode, i feel like he didn't hold back at all and just said whatever was in his head 😂. He's been doing that for the past couple of episodes, its great.

[@classified_again]

Garnt pen flipping skills are next level. Casual A Tier

[@Jmamjs]

Mans got that monk trained martial art level pen flipping

[@wamelon7102]

Got some time stamps?

[@LeeRyuuji]

@@wamelon7102 I think they're referring to 1:41:18

[@love-hammer]

@@wamelon7102 56:30 is another good one

[@latenightreviewer]

I wanna say, as a woman who likes to take my time getting ready to go out, and considering we have makeup and hair to do on top of getting dressed, 30 min is very short. If I’m going out for a night, I need at least 1.5 hrs to shower, do skincare, makeup, and hair before dressing(which only takes like 5 min), all just so i don’t feel rushed. But I’m always on time.

[@arex9000]

ive also had nights where i f up my hair and makeup because i work remote and forgot how to do stuff that use to be simple.

[@golbinnom]

Right? I got curly hair so sometimes I take one hour just to do my hair for a fancy night out.

[@jesusbarrera6916]

wow.... that sounds like a massive waste of time

[@idananodesu]

@@jesusbarrera6916 it's not a waste of time if you do that for yourself of your own will

[@jesusbarrera6916]

@@idananodesu nice excuse for wasting time

[@lllucasm]

about keeping the relationship private, I was cheated that way 😂 she would make the effort to avoid talking about me to anyone because she was dating another dude at the same time, when I found out I reached out to him and he didn't know about the situation either, so we decided to meet her without her knowing that we both would be there and we had a really nice conversation lmao

[@Curiouscrazy]

Based on this their attachment styles are as follows Garnt : Anxiously attached, loves getting texts often and being close Joey: Secure, doesn't really feel strongly about texting or not texting Connor: Avoidantly attached, craves independence.

[@jacobnorris8256]

Connor is a strong independent Welsh man who needs no woman.

[@zanonito]

Why do people assume stuff about others like this, ugh.

[@flyingdutchman3755]

@@zanonito yeah lmao, i don't like people who labeis someone arbitrarily no matter how well they know them or their life, so they can also judge someone however they like.

[@TheToneBender]

Astology is SUCH a red flag. I saw a celebrity once say that she met an amazing guy, but dumped him because their *signs* weren't compatible... No sane person would disregard a potentially perfect match because their parents decided to fuck at a certain time

[@UsernameyMcUsernameFace]

On a related note, my mother once told me all the abuse she put me through over the years was okay because a fortuneteller told her that she saw a vision of me in the future driving an expensive car somewhere scenic.

[@_toulouse]

@@UsernameyMcUsernameFacedude, i hope you’re no-contact with your mom. that’s deranged of her.

[@joemency2242]

Yeah that is a blood-red flag for me

[@DepressoCatto]

I once heard someone say astrology is just space racism. I agree.

[@user-zc2hz3yj2k]

​@@UsernameyMcUsernameFace so.. how close are you to getting the car?

[@asangante9405]

i like it when joey brings the heat, it's better than fence sitting 😂

[@moveslikeninja1]

lol yes

[@carsontodd2443]

I joined the military right after high school at 17 (turned 18 in basic), and did 5 years and stayed single. I did it because I did not want to risk getting trapped because someone either wants my benefits or some other reason. I basically did it to protect myself. There's 2 kinda of women in the military dating world: "ooooo you're in the army?" and "oh, you're in the army". Of course now I'm out, 24 and single and simply exist in college. It's not ideal I feel like, but im not really in a rush to get anywhere with anyone.

[@tpsam]

Not being in a rush is always best when making life altering decisions

[@marclenraymagdaraog691]

I mean.. there's literally no point in rushing lol. it's not like human population is in decline and human species is extinct. The most important thing is to make yourself happier first. prioritizing your wellness before having a relationship.

[@chukah9484]

Yeah military people generally have it worse when it comes to bad relationships, cheating and divorce so I think this is a smart strategy for people going into the military raised near military towns/bases.

[@matthew_natividad]

@@tpsamand taking it at your own pace

[@yannerszamn]

Love the After dark type episodes on the main channel. Hope you guys make more episodes like this!

[@keltree]

agreed!!!

[@RyzawaCh]

Joey: Combative and put in interesting situations throughout the episode. Connor: Chaotic and adding fuel to the fires for the fun of it. Garnt: Just happy to be here.

[@asagewolf]

Aki must be the perfect woman! Joey has some really rigid views… Meanwhile Garnt and Connor had some really wise takes here

[@newbie4789]

I think it goes both ways. Aki is also with a lot of rigid and independent views and Joey can accommodate them just like how Aki did for Joey. For example, Aki is just not at all involved in many Trash Taste dealings ... She is just not in the circle (at least online). Their relationship is just soo different to Sydney and Garnt and yet is equally working

[@Lessulie1]

it's interesting to see that "too much flavor" is a hot take for the boys cuz as a northern Chinese we like our food to be lighter on the seasoning. Like if you can have issue with food being "too salty" or "too sweet", then it makes sense if you also don't like things being "too flavored".

[@ToriKlepto]

Connor is very right about the person with multiple relationships and no long term one. I have two family members like that. One is always in a new relationship every year, and the other is an extremely toxic person who only picks toxic partners. Usually the common denominator is them. Or, they have issues that they always choose bad partners. Either way, therapy could help

[@kairos_fluent]

Are these two family members men or women ?

[@ToriKlepto]

@@kairos_fluent One male, one female

[@jesusbarrera6916]

yeah, generally people who have multiple partners, whether sexual or platonic, are not worth a relationship from underlying reasons

[@lucygirl1111]

the fact that connor pulled the wearing the same clothes often card was so funny

[@colachan91]

I do just appreciate that the bois realize a lot of these things aren't so cut and dry, and that it needs a bunch of nuance and context

[@anasianemo]

Applause for Connor and his "Disney is a bad company" speech.

[@TheFLAMEXD]

Everyone has made that same observation, Connor's not special for doing that.

[@maricarmencampos9988]

Being a disney adult is just the western version of being an adult weeb

[@joedorben3504]

Exactly whats the difference

[@SavantGardeEX]

Difference is one is catering to children 💀

[@maricarmencampos9988]

@SavantGardeEX there's anime targeted towards children and disney has content for the whole family, including adults. I just think it's a bit silly to make such a difference when it's essentially the same

[@jokerman9623]

​@@maricarmencampos9988meh not really. Anime is kinda a whole genre in of itself while Disney is just for family + kids content. I enjoy both tho much less the Disney stuff and I don't judge someone for liking this stuff. Just don't be a dick about it and that goes for anime fans too.

[@zafiruzoma6234]

Yea but Disney isn't seen as weird as anime is seen as

[@Joenah5]

"If you're fortunate to ever get into a relationship" he just like me frfr

[@Howfoolish.]

It's actually very fascinating to see how all of the boys view dating and how differently each of them interpret it. One of the nire interesting episodes in a while!

[@KinDGrove]

The phone passcode thing is extremely a red flag. I had to deal with a situation once where the phone passcode thing became a huge factor and while I was not directly involved, as one of the people in the relationship, just watching it from the sidelines it was clear to me its a non-sensical move to leverage “control” over your partner and guilt trip them into believing they are in the wrong for not allowing them to invade their privacy.

[@casandra1031]

Grant being so optimistic is so me. We live with rose tinted glasses stuck on our face ✨

[@reileta0]

Safe to say that Joey has his 'trash taste' moment now. I still acknowledge that everyone has their own opinions and every don't have to agree on everything

[@Ernestoarr]

13:00 as a mexican I can confirm that spice is a taste, not just a sensation

[@The4leggedpirates]

as someone from new orleans spice is def taste and not just "heat" lmao. I noticed in alot of japense dishes their spice is literally chili powder lmao

[@tpsam]

​@@The4leggedpiratesspicy is a taste Salt condiment Salty taste

[@thleeg]

It's not. I think the confusion comes from the fact you can't have specific flavors without any spiciness, such as the flavor that comes from chilies, so when making a non spicy version of something it won't taste the same. But spicy is just a reaction to the chemical capsaicin, not an actual flavour, that's why you can have foods that are spicy yet at the same time bland. It quite literally on a scientific level is not considered a taste, it's not a subjective matter. Spice can absolutely change the experience of consuming food and add to it, but so can texture and temperature, and they're not tastes.

[@The4leggedpirates]

@@thleeg man what u talking all that other stuff for ? Spiciness does have a taste FOOL. Yo people prob can't cook fr

[@The4leggedpirates]

@@thleeg we talking about spiciness and flavor and u tryna bring up texture and how hot the food is lmao

[@MichaelBTryn]

With pallette of a 12 yr old, I was thinking less picky and more they eat food, but their favorite snack is dino nuggies, loop spagetti or other stuff like that

[@joshualee8151]

sometimes i will eat a can of spaghettio's n im 38... havent in months tho... but i occassionally make some lunchable pizza's as a snack in the microwave... n yes im some of those people who dont eat it cold... sometimes i will eat some baby food instead of eating pudding snack cups LOL

[@sheridanwolf]

Lmao

[@DamianMarx]

@@joshualee8151 there's a difference though between having a craving for some nostalgia/comfy food, cause that's perfectly fine and going out with friends and *ONLY* ordering nuggets as your choice no matter where you go

[@GoldenMechaTiger]

@@DamianMarx Only chicken nuggets is super extreme though. A more realistic thing would probably be someone who is likely to order some more basic foods like burgers, pizza, meat and potatoes, spaghetti and meatballs or things like this. They won't go for the weird fish, the soup or the salad.

[@lordofgraphite]

32:00 rare moment I agree with garnt. My wife hadn't seen any decent films and it was a blast introducing her. The other two didn't allow for interpretation despite saying at the start they would

[@Usakko]

Me, a 31-year-old without ANY previous relationships, trying to figure how much of a red flag I am from a podcast. This is definitely a red flag

[@alexzander1142]

💀

[@biipo4064]

I think it really depends on your situation. If at 31 you just genuinely havent met any people who have interested you enough to have a relationship i dont think theres anything wrong with that. Im a 23 almost 24 year old woman and ive only been in 4 relationships and being surrounded by people who have been in more relationships than i can count on my hands its easy to feel like thats a bad thing. But i dont think it is really. If you havent been in a relationship at that age due to people rejecting you though i think maybe thats the time to look into yourself and wonder what you can do for yourself to be a better prospect for others though.

[@HOVNA]

"Objection! Copium your honour." made me laugh so hard 😂

[@dumat100]

*Garnt when he finds a person who doesnt watch anime or movies* "Yes, now I can mold them in my image."

[@sparklax7443]

That's probably why people mispronounce his name as "God"

[@HighONseaweed]

Joey’s comment of being proud of Coco spice lvl 4 has the same energy from SpongeBob refusing to eat at Weenie Hut jr.

[@sandenson]

That's because he used to not be able to handle any spice, and has slowly built up to the current level. They've talked about it every once in a while throughout the years.

[@strawboi1]

He was at Super Weenie Hut Jr. back then

[@vhalrougelarfouxe]

For someone who didn't like spice, then getting to level 4 is actually impressive. Good for him!

[@ZeroXSEED]

Joey is literally me, I hate spices as a kid, grow up not liking them, and only start liking them as adults. And right now we're more or less the same level.

[@DerpyDerpums]

God I love them calling Joey out for not watching something because it's popular. I loved that sooooooo much 😊

[@HouseMDaddict]

Hi connor, I'm in my 30s and I've never had a relationship longer than a year. Dated for a few months in college before the guy cheated on me and then i spent the next 7 years post college finding stable work and going on a few first dates which either lied or were not compatible. Then the pandemic hit and I lost my job due to budget and had to move. Met a few people for drinks and again either first date or by date number 3 the guys were lying or shady AF, so I just focused on my career. Just recently started dating again and have had hit or misses with first dates and one that's made it to date two but still feeling him out and we're figuring out compatibility. So no, red flag isnt me. Online dating sucks and people lie about their jobs or lifestyles (say they're not into smoking or drugs and are legitimately on said drugs when meeting up). Thanks Joey for recognizing that.

[@oigomieggo24]

“We’re just going to have a respectful discussion about our individual views on relationships.” *Connor stirring shit by adding horror as a question while knowing Aki and Sydney like horror*: 🤣

[@amerin9929]

46:28 that cutaway to joey was brutal

[@Joe-rn6yw]

Joey "I'm ngl I'm getting cooked"

[@StripofPaper]

Love the After Dark energy this episode

[@lilac24H]

12:14 Garnt flipping that marker was so satisfying

[@gameassassin4654]

The whole episode I was super focused on it. His practice has come in handy.

[@Treafa7]

He can do it with either hand too

[@hu3bman]

The way Garnt looks immediately at Joey with both of them sharing a smirk of both "yeah that's you" & "oh no.." psychicly & physically is slap-knee hilarious 46:29

[@bluelfsuma]

I get the "too much flavor" thing. I have a really sensitive sense of smell/taste, so I can detect more than the people around me. What's a pleasant perfume to others is an invasive, suffocating, physically painful brain fog for me. What's a bland tuber with no seasoning to others, is a sharp and earthy baked potato for me.

[@Kurisutina_04]

That's not flavor anymore then

[@BladedAngel]

9:48 WE STAN A MAN WHO DEFENDS THE MIDWEST. LESGO GARNT. Sydney taught him well!!

[@AlexS-Catz]

this was a fun episode, but for this one I think if they actually had some mini, flags to use as props it would have been much more fun. The whiteboards worked as a good substitute though

[@martincyphers2202]

Honestly, this is the first episode in a while where I actually sat down to listen to their thoughts on some things. Not just for dating but in general. Interesting conversations this ep I guess lol

[@ratoh1710]

1:22:00 This one for me has two ways to interpret it. Going in to a relationship and setting expectations from the get go is good. If you are looking for a serious relationship then it is a very good thing to set expectations for how you want the relationship. If you want kids but your partner does not then it is important to know right off the bat. But if it is you sitting down on a first date and they start planning your marriage at the table that is a red flag.

[@PorkShark]

Goal of marriage on the first date ✅ Asking for hand in marriage on 1 knee on the first date ❌

[@midnight_cravings]

this is a great episode of the boys having some civil disagreements, very satisfying

[@MrRickulus]

How did Joey know we're all "bootylicious" out here?

[@ChacoParraco]

Like attracts like

[@birdmanoo0]

He's not wrong.

[@jalahjava_]

Probably saw my ass from Japan

[@IWantToStayAtYourHouse]

He has a booty sensor

[@ShatteredTrousers]

Game recognizes game.

[@morganqorishchi8181]

Connor: "Once you get past 40 it's kinda hard to have kids." My dad, who was 56 when I was born: "Not if you're in really good shape!"

[@lillyrichter3383]

This is basically a "which Trashtaste member would be my date" in the style of a Buzzfeed quiz xD