OUR BIGGEST DECISION YET! | moving back to Korea!?

[@ms.ashley]

Haven’t watched the video yet because don’t have time rn. However based on the title, I would say that the boys need stability. As a kid who moved around a lot myself, I can honestly say that it had an impact on me. Please try to give the boys more stability.

[@jinju1998]

@@ms.ashley we hear you! ❤️

[@hbic904]

I moved a lot as a child too (military brat), including living abroad, and I think it had a positive impact on me and my life. I will say though that even as an adult, I love moving and get bored if I’m in one spot for a long time

[@leannd9072]

I have Korean American children as well, and we traveled back and forth from the US to Korea. My children are adults now, and I'm so glad I did this. Sometimes, it WAS hard for me, but stability is much more than a single space. Stability comes from feeling connected and supported, and for children with family in two countries, maintaining ties to both is essential. It helps them embrace their full identity, stay close to loved ones, and build a strong sense of belonging. Growing up with access to both cultures and families gives them a richer foundation and more support, which can be just as stabilizing as staying in one place.

[@ipoison3862]

I moved so many times as a child and I LOVED it. It was always a new adventure and there was something magical about the new sights, people, landscapes. Just an opinion ❤

[@d3vilsreepers880]

@@hbic904yea same i loved moving schools and meeting new people when you’re already kinda used to it when your little i doesn’t have that much of a big impact but it always depends on the child

[@AyoYoplait]

Since you guys are most likely staying in America I think that Korean should be the main language spoken at home because they can learn English everywhere else then when they do go to Korea they aren’t lost and left out due to the language barrier

[@AyoYoplait]

Also Korean schools in America are a plus

[@지지-q4r]

저는 한국에 오는 것 보다 미국의 더 넓은 도시로 가는 것이 좋다고 생각해요 힘들겠지만 다양한 인종, 인프라, 환경 등 더 좋은 기회들이 많을 거 같아요

[@AbrEBaraan]

What my parents did was in our early period of education we studied in my one parent's home country and every summer we would visit the other country for summer break and when it came time for higher education/college we permanently moved to the other country that had the better colleges and job opportunities for our future

[@jinju1998]

@@AbrEBaraan this is actually a really good option! Thank you!

[@lovepeoplealexander8596]

Glad to see you both bouncing off ideas and opinions off each other, this tells that your communication has increased a lot between both of you! So,happy seeing you getting along well ! Wishing the very best for your beautiful family and may GOD BLESS you all with his love, success and happiness and safety !!BLESSINGS Granny G

[@amberleach5501]

The way you guys have matured...it's blowing my mind

[@LittleOneSlaysThem]

💯👆

[@naderhasmith6195]

I was wondering what happened to y'all and I haven't watched in a long time. And y'all really went through a lot and I hate that y'all had broke up. But I'm also glad to see that y'all are able to communicate and everything on how y'all want the children to raised and are able to collaborate between each other. There is no rule book to life but it seems that y'all are getting along fine. Good luck on your next chapter of life😊

[@jinju1998]

@@naderhasmith6195 omg this is soooo sweet! Thank you so much! ❤️

[@chungface]

Such a great discussion. I’m with the other commenters and I think staying in the US would be the best move and then going to Korea during vacations. Also making sure they don’t lose touch with their Korean side by keeping them immersed through language, food etc. I don’t know about where you’re at but maybe even having them go to Korean academies/clubs so they interact with other Korean kids maybe? Regardless of your decision all the best luck to you guys and praying Pea also 🥰❤️

[@YENIYW]

저는 공부에 대한 욕심을 버리고 키울 거면 미국이든 한국이든 상관없지만, 한국에서 보통의 한국 교육을 따르며 욕심을 갖고 아이들을 공부하게 하려 한다면, 그런데 그게 내키지 않다면 미국에서 생활하는 게 더 낫다고 생각합니다 저 또한 8살, 5살, 두 아들을 키우는 엄마인데, 한국은 이 어린 나이 때부터 할 것이 많고 부모도 아이도 부담을 느낀다고 생각이 듭니다 학원도 보내서 학교에서 뒤처지지 않게 미리 배워두고 아이가 보통의 아이들보다 뒤처진다면 더 걱정을 해야 하고 모르고 서툴고 못하는 것을 학교에서 배우는 게 아닌, 학교에서 잘하기 위해 학원에서 배우는 매우 이상한 시스템으로 돌아가고 있습니다 미국은 뭐 '워낙 넓어서' 다 다르겠지만, 그래도 한국보다 배우는 수준은 꽤 낮은 편이라고 들었습니다 또, 학원에 대한 스트레스도 당연히 현저히 적을 거고요 한국이 정말 정말 모든 게 빠르고 새로운 것을 빠르게 받아들이고 적용하기 때문에 살기에 매우 편하고, 무엇보다 아이들 키우기에 너무 안전하고, 너무 너무 좋은 게 아이들 아플 때 바로 병원에 가서 오래 기다리지 않고, 바로 진료 받고, 약 처방 받고 먹이고 빠르게 나을 수 있고, 말씀하신 큰 수술도 마찬가지고, 장점이 아주 많지만, 이 교육 관련해서 참 마음에 걸립니다 만약 제 모국이 미국이나 다른 유럽의 나라거나, 돈이 많았다면 한국이 아무리 편해도 아이들을 위해서 한국에서 굳이 안 살았을 수도 있었을 거예요 한국에 비해 많이 느리게 흘러가도 마음의 여유가 있게, 남 눈치 덜 보고 살고, 자신에게 집중할 수 있는 삶이 좀 더 건강하게 느껴집니다 한국이 안전하고 가까운 곳에 많은 것들을 즐길 수 있어서, 그렇기에 육체적으로 더 자유롭게 무언가를 할 수 있다면, 미국은 정신적인, 마음적인 자유가 더 있는 것 같아요 그리고 무엇보다 주양육자인 엄마가 편한 곳에서 육아 해야 아이들도 편해요 그게 가장 첫 포인트죠 고한님이 차라리 덜 외로우려면 새롬님이 큰 맘 먹고 남는 방이 있으면 방 하나를 내주시는 게 어떨지..ㅎㅎ 그리고 그 집에 들어가는 돈을 아이들에게 더 쓸 수 있으면 좋겠고요 이건 어디까지나 흘러가는 제 생각일 뿐 앞으로의 선택이 가족 모두의 평온함으로 찾아오길 바라겠습니다

[@hbic904]

My husband and I are an international family. We are currently living in the US but are preparing to move to my husband’s home country. It is such a unique challenge to navigate and I really hope that I am making the best decision long term for my kids.

[@MoonMystic-b6k]

Kids definitely need stability, personally i would keep them in the US & take vacations to Korea, dont be the only one making the effort their grandparents & gohan can come to the states to visit as well. And definitely do not move down there because gohan doesnt want to be in the US anymore, we tend to want to much for our children but some things cannot be and when we choose to force it is when it all comes crumbling down. Choose the best/safest way to raise your family!

[@JaeminSong]

요즘 다시 보기 좋네요. 인생은 그냥 다 겪어보고 느껴봐야 그게 경험으로 오는거 같습니다. 행복하세요 두분다.

[@제로-s8c]

행복하고 편안해보여요 덕분에 저도 작은 안정감을 느끼고갑니다 앞으로 더 많은 날들에 더 많이 행복하세요

[@ipoison3862]

No matter where the boys are raised, they have two parents who are so loving and dedicated and they will be happy! I hope life affords you both the ability to travel back and forth to see both sides of the family. Grandmas on both sides are beautiful, kind, loving, and so sweet to their grandbabies. No matter what, they will be happy wherever mom and dad are. Your growth is beautiful you two ❤❤❤ Gohan's hair looks good and Cerose has the most flawless beautiful face ❤❤❤ The outtakes were GREAT 😂

[@Ruthlady200]

Something serious after a minute ❤ just saw a comment about stability and I agree 100% I hope y’all will think about this in their pov too

[@jinju1998]

@@Ruthlady200 they are #1!

[@dawnmitchem1613]

You 2 are FUN! Great chemistry. Prayers up for the fam, especially Mr. Pea.

[@youaintgettingmyhandle]

9:14 - 9:20 I was just thinking about him and his eye. Praying that all goes well ❤. In the end, I hope you figure out in the end where and what you and the boys plan to do next. Whenever you go and do, I’ll be here, always watching. 😊

[@jinju1998]

@@youaintgettingmyhandle you are sooo kind! ❤️❤️ a real one! we appreciate the love and support! We will need ALL the prayer for peas eye, so thank you!

[@deemitchell9544]

They need love and wherever you go, you give them plenty of that and a solid family unity. That's the most important thing. I speak from experience. My three children are all in relationships with their own family now and they have a strong bond still with eachother.

[@digitalmedia1715]

Actually this channel has a lot of useful info about intercultural and interracial aspects/values. Those who are raised in various places can explore, experience, and understand different cultures and values more than those who do not have that chance. Not easy to live and explore in different places but it is def worth living in diverse places that reflect both parents’ sociocultural traits. G✝️D bless this lovely family wherever they go ✨

[@emmetee9675]

Love the team work as parents doing better for your children! ❤ I agree that maybe you can take the boys to Korea for their summers or other holidays so they can get to know their Korean heritage. And to also keep growing in their relationship with Gohan’s parents and family. Gohan’s mom and her mother had so much love for the boys. ❤

[@jinju1998]

You’re so right! We are considering all options ❤️

[@Roa-chan]

I'm korean and my whole family immigrated here when i was in 2nd grade. I'm honestly so thankful i didnt spend my teen yrs in korea. I hear the stories of korean education system and feel so relieved that i spent my teen yrs in america. Also because of the toxic cultures in korean schools but that's a topic for another day. I saw a korean comment saying the *quality* of education is better in korea, which is probably true. But all those extracurricular stuff and cram schools because school isnt enough and parents are competing? Hell no. I'm only a single 22 yr old so ik idk everything abt raising a kid but i WAS a kid who experienced both systems (albeit less of the korean one). And i'd still choose the u.s. system (even tho the department of education is abt to be destroyed cuz of a certain someone🤡). I'm sure it still depends but i felt way less pressure going to school in the u.s. The right teachers really care abt the students and make learning fun. I still remember all the fun activities, pizza day, movie day, and what not. I also love the freedom u have in what classes u wanna take in middle/high school (at least that's how it was in mine, idk abt other areas). I'm a stem girl, i love science, so i had the CHOICE to take more science classes. In fact i feel like my high school encouraged the students to make choices abt their education. We had IB, AP, dual enrollment, and a whole variety of career/technical focused classes. I'm really not sure how korean high schools are, maybe they have smth similar too. But the fact i got to choose what i wanted to learn, choose to take difficult classes if i WANTED to, meant so much to me. Also fyi i went to a magnet school for 6-7th, public for 8-12th. My high school was actually the top school in my city despite being public, so it might be why i had all these choices. I feel like i rambled a bit but i hope my pov helps you. I really love y'all both. I've known abt y'all for a long time now so i care abt y'all a lot and only wish for the best🩷

[@goofy_6]

Not gonna lie Cerose is the best woman i have seen these days the amount of efforts she put to keep family all together 🥹🩷 Cerose you are an inspiration to be a thoughtful woman I wish you a lot of happiness and love🧚🏻‍♀️

[@emmetee9675]

💯

[@jinju1998]

awwww!!!! this just made my day! thank you!!!!

[@jinju1998]

you are tooo kind!

[@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb]

I think you and the boys could spend the summer in Korea and live in the U.S. the rest of the year. That way, the boys would continue to go to the same school.

[@carnettawilliams9013]

Look at the economic stability around the world right now! Eastern Asia especially China are suffering right now and people cannot even pay to buy food!

[@jinju1998]

neither one of us has really been up to tab on the economic situation over there but thank you for bringing it to out attention! definitely something to look into now!

[@karlafeeley8703]

I actually used to live in Idaho as a kid, an hour outside of Boise and the public schools were not the best in the early 2000s at least. It might be worth it to plan to move to Korea for a set period of their schooling.

[@babytermite]

Its definitely an important conversation and one I think yall will be having over and over through the years. My mom left my father when I was 4 and we moved to Alaska. Basically another country lol. I grew up in a village and then we moved around a lot within Anchorage. I feel as though I don't have roots. Or rather my roots are around my mother. I think it made me mentally stronger and more independent, every move was a new opportunity to explore who I really was and what I wanted from my friends. I know my experience isnt always the outcome. And being in korea comes with its own problems as a monoethnic country especially for children. I do however want to say that my experience moving around a lot was good, and I feel good about it as a 30 year old now. It's not easy but it was a blessing.

[@jl9478]

바이링구얼이 가능한 환경인데 그 기회를 놓친다는 건 너무나 아까워요. 제 생각에 베스트는 아이들이 한국에서 초등학교 4~5학년정도까지 다니다가 미국으로 돌아가는거예요. 솔직히 미국 공교육 어떤지 아시잖아요?? 한국 학교 교육의 질이 훠얼씬 높습니다..혹시 부모님이 지원해 주셔서 사립초 보낼 수 있다면 진짜 베스트죠 ㅋㅋ한국에서 입시를 치를 생각이 없다면 한국 아이들처럼 치열하게 학원다니며 공부시킬 필요도 없고요.. 부모입장에서 영유아, 초딩까지는 한국에서 키우는게 훨씬 편하고 안전합니다. 아이들도 굳이 국영수 아니더라도 예체능 학원 다니기도 한국이 더 쉽고요 ㅎ

[@niahlism]

I grew up moving a lot. But I was an adaptable child, and my support system was my mom. I didn’t feel like i was loosing friends when I moved and I adjusted well to new area. It’s only as an adult that I don’t want to move, simply because it’s much more work to move as an adult than a little kid lol. Getting a bit of both cultures is a great thing, and I know I would have appreciated more time submersed in my mom’s home country and language. That’s only my personal experience and I can’t apply it to all kids, but there’s no harm in asking them! Allowing the kids, no matter how young, in on family decisions can make them feel so involved and important! A three month out of the year trip sounds like a great idea, like a summer break kind of thing. Praying for you, mama!

[@jinju1998]

Thanks for sharing 💕 Moving really does hit different as an adult 😂 Your mom sounds amazing 🙌 I love that she was your rock. You’re so right about involving kids in decisions, it really makes them feel so important 💖 A 3-month trip sounds like a vibe 🌍✈️ Appreciate the prayers, it means so much!!!

[@nessaaa6133]

Besides stability for the children, it should also be stability for you. In longterm, how would you feel living in Korea and you two have serious issues with each other? Especially if one starts dating.. That kind of stuff. Will you be able to live with just the boys again such as the problem like before ? I wish nothing but the best and hope all works out but I agree with some of the other comments. Korea in the summertime, maybe a vacation house and live in the states so they don't lose the opportunities to learn about their culture too. Best of luck with your journey! ❤

[@MS-gv6mi]

Someone I went to middle school with was from some eastern Europe country.What his family did was he would spend 1-2 years in one parents country and 1-2 years in the U.S. because his parents wanted to him to have the option of having a presence in both countries and to choose which education system he liked.

[@kellystevens549]

Soo you two should get back together! My husband and I were separated for two years but stayed friends. We realized we still loved each other so my daughter and I moved back. Been happy ever since! Just some advice from a 64 year old with experience. I see the love between you two.

[@ipoison3862]

❤❤❤❤

[@aisuru6690]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lolaBee9]

I hope you're also considering custody Cerose. I've been hearing about kids being taken by their Korean parents/ family while they're there and there's nothing they can do to get them back because of the way their laws are. Not to say he'd do something like that but it's something to be aware of

[@Nafixo]

23:14 she said she has full custody

[@lolaBee9]

@Nafixo I meant how custody works in South Korea. Idk how much it'll help her if she has to go through their court system

[@Sisima13]

Not gonna lie, if I had to chose between the States and Korea to raise kids, I would definitely chose Korea. I feel like there’s just more pros like, better and more affordable healthcare, better education and safer schools, healthier foods, safer transportation, etc… But at the end of the day, it’s up to the parents since they’ll also have to figure out if it’s a good choice for themself too 🤔

[@Calvin.rx1l]

Before you move, you should both be married. You dont just move to a whole new country with kids unless you're married and protected as a women. Do not move unless gohan marries you guys are back together. Your support system is in America so why move? And look at gohans past..wait till he commits in marriage then go with him.

[@jinju1998]

I understand where you're coming from, and I appreciate your concern. However, I do not want to be married to him, I filed for divorce, this is not about ignoring my past with Gohan. We were married before, and while that chapter didn’t work out, My focus now is on providing my kids with a broader life experience and exposure to their other culture. I want them to have the opportunity to experience life in a different country, and I believe that can be valuable for their growth. He's had to make a lot of sacrifices as well! and I am just trying to be sensitive to that.

[@tamara_diamonds422]

Why should they be married? And who are you to tell others what to do with their life? There’s lessons and there’s blessings and please have to walk their own path to figure out who they are. However. The only thing I will disagree about is the constant moving around. She did leave Korea for a reason and now she is going back. Uprooting her kids yet again. However. If that’s the life she wants to give her kids. The constant moving around. Then that’s on her. Time will tell how that would affect them later on in life. But that’s not for us to tell what and what to do. She will do it anyways.

[@Calvin.rx1l]

@jinju1998 That's valid. Gohan has a dark side to him so it's best to keep yourself protected.

[@Calvin.rx1l]

@tamara_diamonds422 get a life. I said what I said. She explained herself and I agreed with her. This is called a civil conversation. What exactly are you bringing with all this attitude? Neither of us are looking for a fight but clearly you are. Take your hate somewhere else. She is free to move wherever. As long as she remains close to her family and they welcome her back home she is good.

[@saburu2011]

I'm actually interested in Gohans opinion about studying in Korea, especially about his experience in the military and why he said it can be a waste of time and unnecessary trauma. The kids have to have consistency, so if you are gearing them to be in the korean education system, you have to be competitive in the household if the American schools they will be attending K-8 is not. Thats my worry with having kids and wanting to eventually live in Korea, I prefer the American education because you kind of have a Choice as to how hard you want to go. You can be a C-student, or you can be valedictorian. In Korea, the culture is pushing everyone to be valedictorian. your peers, your teachers, other parents, the job market, the government. Its going to be tough, I cant wait to see where it goes, so that It can help me make my decision. Also, culture reallllly plays a part, as you know, I think making sure that you and gohan are in sync as for expectations for the kids as far as discipline in education will be really important. :) otherwise, very good conversation.

[@starshiphalo9412]

That doesn’t sound like a bad idea but what will happen when either one of you fall in love either here or in Korea and your coparent wants to move but your partner doesn’t? Wouldn’t that create an issue with wanting to find love again but also wanting to bring your kids to either or country of the family?

[@jinju1998]

I, cerose, am already kind of actively dating here in the states! I think the most important thing is to be open and honest with all parties involved my partner, my kids, and my co-parent. If I were to find love again, I’d want to make sure everyone feels heard and respected. Ultimately, the happiness and well-being of my children are my top priority, but I also believe in the importance of love and connection. If a situation arose where my partner wanted to stay in one place, and it conflicted with my kids' needs or relationship with their other parent, it would definitely be something I’d have to navigate thoughtfully.idk how Gohan feels about this but to me It's all about finding a balance that works for the whole family. idk if we would fairly be able to navigate coparenting from across countries! Thanks for bringing this up, it’s a perspective worth considering as life moves forward!

[@garlicbroccoli]

개인적인 의견으로 초등학생까지는 한국에서 지내면서 한국말 익히는게 좋을듯요. 태권도 피아노외 아이들이 학습할 수 있는 선택지가 우선은 한국이 더 많으니까요. 그리고 중학생 나이가 되었을때 미국인데 그 안에서 좋은 환경의 중고등 교육을 받는게 낫지 않을까...

[@jiminpark4932]

완전 동의합니다.

[@donyekeesee1352]

I really feel like I’m about of the parenting team! I have no opinions, just want to share again how proud I am of the both of you.

[@woopidoopi]

What's up, country bumpkin?! Aghahahaha that tone killed me 😂😂❤

[@lala3s3]

Girl to girl, I care about you. Please make sure sure you dont find yourself in a cycle with things repeating themselves gorgeous.

[@chelseawilliams8588]

The bloopers were my fave part 😂😂

[@anneanne5889]

I think staying in America is best for your family the boys can experience it when there old enough to make that decision to be honest but love your family and content ❤️

[@bonnieh8216]

We moved from our home State to another State, (like South to North) in our early marriage. Our kids were versatile in education and social skills. We had the village in our original State, but we were young and wanted to experience so much more. Now, that our kids are adults with kids, they speak often of the opportunities of living in different States. In y’all decision to move back to Korea maybe good for kids, it’s just timing the move. I wish you guys the best.

[@princessebony12]

I'm so glad to see y'all working your family sitation out. Peace and blessings over you're lives❤❤❤

[@jinju1998]

you are sooo kind! thank you!

[@SOMSIK]

Saerom, I hope you come to Korea to play with your kids only during the vacation. It's not right to come here to live. It's confusing for the kids and I know it's going to be a very hard journey for you. I really hope you come to Korea just to play :)

[@jinju1998]

@@SOMSIK thank you ❤️

[@seajay2157]

How do you say what’s right for HER kids?? It’s not confusing. Korea is apart of their children just as much as the United States. If anything they are doing everything they can.

[@rosalynmartin519]

Why is it not right for them to live there???

[@SOMSIK]

@@seajay2157 She is American, and it is a better choice to raise her children with her family. If she come to Korea for live, she would feel lonely due to the language barrier, cultural differences, and being separated from her family. As the primary caregiver for her children, she has no reason to feel that way. As long as she is raising her children, she should be around people who truly love her. That will make raising her children happier. Because if the mother is happy, the children will also grow up happily. Living in her home country, the United States, and traveling to Korea is a good enough experience for them. And above all, her heart is the most important, and as of now, she has absolutely no reason to give up so much and take such a difficult journey.

[@antoinette9074]

​@@SOMSIK she speaks the language. I think she should stay in America because it's racist over there and unstable.

[@58roses]

Bob is bobbing hair is so thick love it

[@jinju1998]

Thank you! 🥰 I’m glad you love it too!

[@jasmines6323]

YAY I’m always checking my feed for your new uploads. Love your fam & channel 💕 I’m always supporting you guys no matter what!

[@jinju1998]

@@jasmines6323 AAAWWW THANK YOU ❤️❤️❤️ love you!

[@jasmines6323]

@ Much love! 🥹💕

[@miryongcarrega9780]

애들을 한국의 지옥같은 교육 시스템 속으로 끌고 가겠다고요? 전 캐나다에 살아요. 너무나 많은 면에서 한국이 캐나다보다 나은 점이 훨씬 많지만 교육 문제 하나만으로도 전 캐나다에 삽니다. 3시면 하교해서 취미생활하고 자유롭게 친구들과 놀고 즐기는 애들을 볼 때마다 제 선택이 옳았다는 생각을 해요.

[@TeaLeaf222]

I'd like to see a video of Gohan sharing action steps he has been taking to improve his mental health. What the initial convo with you was like when you two got on good terms again. How is dating going for him?

[@almettat5692]

I got it " This is the old Jin&Juice with the new style family with C & G with the new babies named Bun & Pea!. I love ya'll.

[@user-ss5ux6rt4v]

한국에서 지내도 잼있을 것 같아요. 완전 다르잖아요~ 소신 껏 살아가면 되죠!!! 무엇보다 안전합니다 아시죠? ㅋ

[@marielyn1085]

Are you two getting back together

[@jasmindiaz5064]

Love to see you both in vlog❤and the two cute boys

[@pearltoomer6392]

Children still small so it be okay, but as they get older, they may not wants move around, now they cool with it. Will be nice if you two get together , am just an old romantic

[@tcuppu]

아직 젊은데요 뭘 능력되면 이것저것 다 해봐요! 미국이 더 좋을거같지만..

[@SOMSIK]

oh...wow!!!!!!!!!! come quickly 새롬!! i am looking forward to meeting you!!

[@jinju1998]

@@SOMSIK ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@marcchesley3731]

I would definitely postpone that move to S Korea considering they are having really serious problems in their government I understand it's not N. Korea but it's never a good idea to move to a country that has domestic strife and you have two small children with you. I'm an older subbie and old enough to be your parent and if you were my child this would be the suggestion I would give to you, I understand Gohan is from there but at the end of the day, he is Korean, they are not going to bother him if something goes down. Just wait and let them figure that mess out in the government before going you don't need unnecessary stress and problems, that may require money to fix!

[@shereeseblackman7871]

Welcome Jin & Juice Fam! You can introduce yourself in Korean and English with a welcome back, that's it

[@김민정-x2f7m]

명진씨와 새롬씨는 지금 미국에서 어떤 일을 하고 있을까요 ? 경제적으로 안정이 되어있으신가요?? 집을 각자 따로 살면서 공동육아 중인가요? 아이들이 최우선이 되어야하는게 당연하지만 미국이든 한국이든 아이를 키우기위해 안정적인 수입이 있어야 하는것도 매우 중요하죠.. 특히나 한국같은경우는 아이들만을 위해 살아온 세대가 현재 노후설계가 안된상태가 많다보니 그또한 문제 더라구요... 아이들을 위해 결정을 해야하는데 먼저 경제적인 부분을 고려해서 무리하지 않고 선택하셨음 좋겠어요 우리 삶이 늘 재미있고 행복만 있는것이 아닌데 제대로 정착이 안된상태로 무리하게 선택이 된다면 지난날의 일들이 되풀이 되지 않을까 걱정이 되는것도 사실 이니까요...

[@earthangelraina]

soo just a question, if yall are so committed and connected to each other as co-parents, are yall not planning on pursing a romantic relationship elsewhere? i ask because yall are planning to move as one. instead of two individuals who share the same kids.

[@jinju1998]

cerose already is! I'm just focused on the kids, bettering our coparenting relationship, at the moment, and I don't think that's correct, we make decisions regarding the children together! where we live long term is one of those big decisions, we just want to make sure both parties are comfortable and have access to the children.. we can't necessarily do that in a way that is not going to be very strenuous if we live in different counties

[@btsarmyforever6806]

Haven't watched the video yet but are we moving back to koreaaa??

[@jinju1998]

it's been spoken about a lot! not anytime soon though for sure

[@btsarmyforever6806]

​@@jinju1998 ooh okay. I'm sure you and Gohan will choose whatever is best for the kids and your family. Lots of loveee always :)) ❤❤❤❤

[@vogiush]

I would say since the kids are born in America, they have a great citizenship privilege, they should move to S Korea. That way they can learn the language easier, be apart of their culture, also we don’t know what’s going to happen in America after the election. Prices are going up with tariffs soon. If I had the option I would leave America.

[@PrettyBADDD]

I think summer, winter and spring breaks in Korea would be great and the remaining in the states as the primary sounds more logical. And safe, especially with that whole martial law ploy in SK that just took place… I mean granted 4 years of trump will also be ass but still, probably a better alternative, maybe, IDK. Good luck friend. ❤

[@Gingerqyou78]

While my older brother was stationed in Korea his bike was stollen sadly

[@jl9478]

한국에서는 자전거만 훔쳐갑니다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@TrippieKim1996]

Damn right America for life for you guys is da best 🎉🎉🎉

[@ssu393]

세로즈 정말 멋진 여성입니다❤

[@crystalchoi7980]

😂 Cerom looks like a black version of Jin's mother! 😂

[@mihokang0920]

명진씨 멘탈이 좀 무너져보여서, 맘이쓰이네요!

[@lifeofthepodgorskis_]

Come to Chicago lol or surrounding suburbs like im in Schaumburg and its big asian community here. Mostly koreans and Japanese people.

[@jinju1998]

we get that and New York quite a bit! might have to check it out for real!

[@Jazzy-May]

Ya'll making some points so far. Also the babies in the background LOL so cute.

[@jinju1998]

@@Jazzy-May ❤️

[@SibongileSibiya-h6l]

Guys just help me why are you doing this?just solve your problems you look do healthy together star on a new page and forget about the past pls ❤❤😂😂

[@nathalie6327]

I hope you guys are able to one day meet the other KZbin family Mazalee. Just to see you know how you guys could go about it just to get some advice since they do the same thing

[@zacharikurbah6358]

This is amazing video ❤❤

[@jinju1998]

Thank you so much! 💕 so glad you liked it!

[@Destinytoo1]

I'm nervous 😮!

[@jinju1998]

@@Destinytoo1 please don’t be! Its just talking about where our heads are with that!

[@MS-gv6mi]

Unrelated but, Gohan what are your thoughts on the martial law situation that happened recently in South Korea?

[@BlackKitten0069]

They have three cultures: American, Korean and Caribbean.

[@JB-kc7dm]

🙏🙏🙏❤❤

[@saburu2011]

LET GOHAN CHANT HIS SUPER SAYAN thingy ( i still dont like him 32% of the time, but it was cute).

[@BlackKitten0069]

Cerose you are Caribbean why isn't that an option? In the Caribbean, both cultures are blended and appreciated. I'm sure you have family still on the island.

[@jinju1998]

the situation in Haiti... is not so hot...

[@BlackKitten0069]

@jinju1998 I didn't know you were Haitian. Idk why I thought you were from Bajian or etc. I have this conversation all the time. What's going on in Haiti isn't the Haitian people, that's Americans with black face. While they're telling the world not to go there, people who are pale is paying 200k for citizenship. They don't invest in places that isn't going to bring them money. However you, kids and ex hubby can go anywhere in the islands. The Carriben still to this day has close ties with Asia, because the trade of asian people especially in Trinidad.

[@BlackKitten0069]

@@jinju1998 I didn't know you were Haitian. However, in Trinidad, they would fit right in. There's alot of Asian Caribbean people in Trini.

[@Lowkeylena]

⁠@@BlackKitten0069quick question I’m Caribbean but I’m confused, what’s baijan ? Where is it?

[@BlackKitten0069]

@Lowkeylena I spelled it wrong. Bajans are people from Barbados.

[@toyabucks]

🕳👄🕳 if you guys do, i wish you guys luck and everything.

[@jinju1998]

@@toyabucks we appreciate you! The love and support!

[@marcchesley3731]

Why is there no volume

[@jinju1998]

we saw your other comment! it looks like you figured it out lol thanks for watching!

[@carolinehardware9982]

I didn't know you guys are still streaming. Its been awhile since i last seen you

[@jinju1998]

thanks for watching!

[@kimhajoon-n2p]

💜💜💜💜

[@jinju1998]

@@kimhajoon-n2p 💕❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Itismegann]

As a military brat people don't understand how hard and mentally draining it is on kids having to constantly move. It makes a big impact on people some more than others and some get resentful cause they can't adapt to a place when other is favored more. Nobody knows how that turns out till when kids are older. There are many things people have to consider and give up just to make each other needs work. Everyone needs stability but like my father said for any relationship in life it's not a one way street it works both ways and everyone needs to be a team.

[@user-lv1os3bh2s]

둘이합쳐 최소 월수입400이상 된다면 한국도 괜찮은데..그계획수립이 먼저일듯요.. 미국은 돈없는거 티안나지만 한국은 티 많이나거든요..잘못하면 역역이민 갈수도있어요

[@itsmeabeer_orwoodie9019]

y'all should have them go up to high school studies in Korea and for college back in the us

[@noname-xq6tp]

Man! I'm an American and can't understand a lot said here.

[@jinju1998]

wym?

[@TheJacqueline39]

Time for your daily mix of Jin and juice (idea for an intro)

[@jinju1998]

THAT IS CUTE?! WE MIGHT TRY IT OUT!

[@danceculture3406]

Wait!! No aka's

[@vip5hawol-deehirota]

everyone already covered my thoughts wherever you guys go, i hope the move isnt too stressful. stay safe ！

[@jiminpark4932]

한국에서 초등학교 시절 보내고 미국으로 가는 것도 좋을 것 같아요.

[@rynecarrie9342]

Girl , you might as well pick up your family and go when Trump becomes president. Majority of us are plotting to leave .😂😂 But maybe give the boys younger yrs in Korea and highschool/college in America or the other way around. Education wise Korea would be better and that’s important for their future. America will always be here. Vacations are always a thing. I believe you guys will make the right decision for your family and yourself. ❤ I’m a child of constant moving around. I enjoyed the experience and the only con to me as a kid was making new friends every time lol. Edit: I only say education would be better somewhere else because we are not paid enough, we are being attacked by kids, and the education system is about test scores not really teaching them what they need to know, and teachers are quitting to be social media influencers (no hate.)😂😂

[@PriscillaP-GN]

Why because trump doesn’t approve of women being allowed to end an innocent child’s life? Why not refrain from activities that lead to pregnancy

[@펭러뷰펭펭-n9t]

어떻게된거지😅

[@Lppt87]

Here is my paranoid brain working on, but I always hear awful terrible stories about divorced couples in korea when it comes to children. They take away the child from the mom. Aren’t you afraid of that?

[@RubyGriffin-q4p]

Cerose, this is your choice to stay in the USA 🇺🇸. Your boys will like it or not . Korea is different than here, USA . I never be there in Korea all of my life .

[@jinju1998]

we love the states! we also have love for korea!

[@norah9194]

The earliest I've been

[@jinju1998]

@@norah9194 hey cutie! The early bird gets the worm! Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@weirdkidcoqui8299]

i don't know yall....

[@saburu2011]

its corny but JIN-JU FIGHTING?

[@ENHYPENTXT]

한국에오시는것도 좋지만 지금 한국 정부등등 상황이 안좋아서 미국이 훨씬 나을거같아요 미래적인 방향만봐도 미국이 더 좋고요

[@tamara_diamonds422]

I really don’t understand the moving around. Didn’t you leave Korea for a reason? It seems like you are indecisive about curtain things in life. Although you are still going to it anyways. All this moving around is not good for the boys. Sometimes. You would say one thing and months later. It’s something different. There’s also no harm in going there for vacations. Your Charkas are not balanced. It seems like you are trying to find a place to really call home and you haven’t found it yet.

[@jinju1998]

We are just exploring the possibility of moving back, it's not indefinite, I am just addressing it because it was worthing brought up a lot, I fully plan on staying here

[@lilshorty316]

❤❤

[@jinju1998]

@@lilshorty316 ❤️❤️❤️❤️