Our Fights & Arguments After Moving In Together 新婚同居天天吵架...隨時變分居? 怎樣渡過婚姻低潮期 ~ Emi & Chad

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[@candidahehe]

who’s coming back after they announced their break up 😢

[@livelovely4681]

This is isn’t exactly a breakup it's a whole divorce, wouldn’t even know they were married from the language in that video.

[@miawcatss03]

How come they divorced?​@@livelovely4681

[@tonycheung6715]

what happened to them

[@thuylinhnguyenly4945]

@@livelovely4681exactly. I thought they didn’t get married. I’m surprised she mentioned the word “Dvorce” in one of her recent Shorts

[@emmanuellatieku2901]

I love how you are open about the marriage like this but I pray it last forever, in love ❤️ Love you guys!

[@rasberry513]

They broke up amicably

[@ancn150]

"That's the way love goes..." - Janet Jackson

[@ceoofhenjoyment]

Aaaw marriage life is not easy, but always remember to openly communicate with each other. If something has upset you don’t keep it to yourself, tell him or her. Silent treatment is soo toxic, don’t do it. Attack the problem and not each other. I have articles that might help? I can link them in the comments

[@CathiesEnsemble]

would love the links :)

[@priyaraaman]

Whr r the links i might need it

[@sanjithecat25]

emi wants all the perks of a marriage without any of the responsibilities, chad seems to understand that compromise is important, maybe thats why they didnt work out

[@TheArtkaw]

Her highly curated post-marriage content on how she has “moved on” seems weirdly disingenuous.

[@sanjithecat25]

@@TheArtkaw yeah exactly, her new posts and videos are all about how "you can be whatever to want to be". Which means divorced alone and coping hard.

[@dr.m6152]

And it seems like she thought she has more options after she got popular

[@beatpirate8]

oh these are common problems. the difference between couples that make it and couples who break it is that they change and tolerate each other . or they dont change and they resent each other and look elsewhere

[@sofiaz8379]

me: doesn’t even have a boyfriend also me: watches this

[@sumanta1714]

Lol

[@KitKatWiffleBallBat]

I see a lot of these comments. Is it a result of wanting to be seen and/or heard? I think you say it because you want someone to care and sympathize with your singleness. That's okay. I just want you to know being single has its perks. Also no one is alone forever. If you are worried about that, then you have to be assertive enough to go and look for a date. If no one is noticing you, then maybe try to stick out a little more. Update appearance, etc. I used to think, "Why should I have to try to look my best? If no one can handle you at your worst. then they don't deserve you at your best." Well I learned the harsh truth is that people are kinda superficial, and if you aren't getting any attention (that you know of, anyway...cause aloof maybe?) then maybe it's time to upgrade yourself. I thought I was enough, but I'm really happy I made more positive self improvements. In the end, it landed me a very meaningful relationship. Also know that through various media we are put under a lot of pressure to be in a relationship. As if that's the only thing that has value. However, it sounds important to you, so make it a goal to really try to do research or reach out to someone that can really help you in this crazy world. Take care, Sofia! (and look! Your name is very lovely.) Don't give up. If this isn't helpful, I'm truly sorry. You can ignore my advice. I'll understand. Bye, now.

[@snigja]

Same...i dont exercise but I still watch her workout videos🙄

[@shinigamigerva6734]

I would say "me pretending to be happy of my single life while watching married couple's problems... and then crying hugging the pillow"

[@sofiaz8379]

@@KitKatWiffleBallBat awww tysm, this actually means a lot to me, you made my day :)

[@kashish6921]

Emi's little monster looks so cute when he play with Emi and Chad Actually they are cutest family

[@kinwinkinwin2171]

This video just pops up.... I wish u and Chad can overcome the tough times.... And be happy again

[@kalliste01]

This sounds a lot like my relationship! My partner used to get so annoyed that I'd leave drawers half open and would close them behind me. But he is the same as Chad when it comes to planning and cleaning. Never does anything unless asked or reminded. We also did the same thing with the personal alarm! I wake up quite early so I started using a personal/silent alarm when needed. It's also a much nicer way to wake up than a loud noise.

[@kaepiper]

hearing you both switch between languages is so cool 🥺 i hope that i become bilingual or multilingual one day, there’s so many beautiful languages and it’d be fun to be able to switch back and forth like you guys do.

[@stellas8568]

Its good to start early cos its harder to learn when your older, try to consume alot of media from the language ur trying learn, challenge youself and remember that little bit of progress is still progress

[@myralai]

The arguments are so real! I had the same arguments too after marriage and living with my husband for the first time. Don't worry, it gets better! And the initial problems do get ironed out

[@christola]

I was going to say the same thing! These conflicts are infuriating but once you’re able to let go that your partner won’t change and you find a way to adapt and still enjoy your life you can make it work. You’re also stronger in your relationship if you can make it through these low times and still love each other. But the key is your partner won’t change (much) lol 😬 so find what you do appreciate in them and assess whether you can live with the rest! Perspective is key too. Like leaving drawers open is annoying, but physical abuse is never okay. Everyone has their flaws. 😅

[@nairash]

udon the cutest puppy ball ball cutest dog emi n chang cutest couple jeez emi why u got all the cuteness?

[@dirgha_shah]

Udon is cutest..❤️..

[@sannn7034]

Chad pretending to be like a zombie made me laugh 😂

[@deborah1494]

In the thumbnail udon was almost to eat your hairs 😂 Udon is so cute 😊

[@moondust3526]

I appreciate this so much! I recently got engaged and this is all very good to see how another couple is adapting so that I can try to be as prepared as possible and have 'tools' to try to resolve inevitable issues. Thank you so much for sharing. I hope you'll continue to share your milestone moments like this in the future! Bless

[@geraldt4225]

going back to see this video again after your newest video announced your divorce, seems like this is a foreseeable outcome, as even the relationship is over 10 years, the amount of time spend together before marry is not that much, and not quite knowing well enough to each other. I wish you both can find your new journey and stay friendship together.

[@ananyakaushik3693]

Hi emi first comment!!!! HAPPY NEW Year...so cute dog...

[@moodyqueenqueen]

That’s the amazing part of marriage, time to learn compromising and be real partner. ❤️ love can overcome everything.

[@famt5043]

First couple of years were the most difficult for us. Because you have your own way of doing things. Now we have married for 27 years. Time flies. Also after having kids most of the issues are not important anymore. Hang on there, be patient.

[@krislokki7355]

Love you guys but so sad that you guys decide to separate from each other😢

[@sapna_meshram7979]

0:54 look he is so cute puppy

[@jenniferyau5047]

All these issues can be solved when you already have the helper. Why still divorce 😢?? 10 years of relationship and just 2 years of marriage.. why??? Anyway I still wish you two all the best

[@Ls-le7fm]

This is so real and realistic with her recent divorcé announcement, I’m thankful for her videos but at the same time scared because I’m getting married soon end of this year …

[@DrasOO7262]

Live together first before you married because lifestyle compatibility is crucial. They did not live together until married so it explained the divorce too even though it was a long relationship.

[@1g2002541]

我很高兴你们sorted it out，并且还出一期视频，这种非常open minded 讨论矛盾和positive thinking 的态度 值得每一对夫妇学习

[@jennyliang5853]

they divorced now

[@kimchidimsum3298]

That's marriage life 🙈 that's why living together before marriage is a very good idea and all those conflicts after living together between newly wed couple are very very important☺ couple should not live apart especially after marriage, this conflicts stage is very crucial and you will get to know more about each other

[@luckyahmed200]

One thing that I learned about in my marriage is sometimes you have to let the little things go. It’s honestly not even worth fighting about. It’s always hard to adjust living with another person but each person ends up learning what they should/should not do so that it doesn’t constantly lead to fighting. Happy living!

[@atlanticocean3166]

if you will fight more and more .. then love grow and grow .. .. chad you are very lucky .. u get a beautiful understanding emotions love caring wife ..

[@fayengoh9019]

I would suggest some personal space for example sleep at your parents house once or twice a week. Maintain the feelings for being apart. This is what we implemented for more than a year of marriage and Im still loving it.

[@beatpirate8]

i think the pandemic was really hard on singles and couples too. i wish you both the best

[@limzeeyin7207]

I can understand u, I'm living with my boyfriend for 3 yrs too. Before marriage. Things get worse when we have to stay together all day long due to Covid pandemic. Still learning n adapting 😂 加油Emi!

[@juliaosinska195]

That's why it's better to move in before getting married. So many marriages break because people see each other once or twice a week and when they actually spend pretty much all day every day with each other, they realise they're not compatible at the end and divorce happens

[@Als1822]

loool see the stats dear

[@btsarmyfamily5803]

You and your family are so cute stay happy always💝 Udon is looking so much cut while he was playing 💝

[@sumanta1714]

U two look cute and happy togethers stay happy forever💜

[@TheArtkaw]

It’s kinda funny how the cracks in their relationship are all over this video. It seems a lot of young people don’t have a clue on how a good marriage works. They probably only think it involves fighting and bickering and nitpicking.

[@sunflowerhk100]

What kind of cracks do you see in them in the video? Personality crash?

[@julialiu7061]

This was such an interesting video to watch, the udon jar one is GENIUS! It’s cool to see how u guys progress into your marriage life so thanks for sharing!!

[@miikifiona6186]

UDoN looks soo Adorablee😍☃️like A Puffy white snow!!💛🐶 Happy new year femilyss🎊🎉🥂

[@Michaela-sh9mw]

love you both!! ❤❤ happy new year to you both!

[@lalainedoringo7573]

Happy to see both of you learning things how to get along from the start of your marriage....always stay safe and happiness always....😍😍😍

[@ngyeeha]

‘No like ....’ emi imitated chad impression so funny hahaha. Can imagine that😂😂 我同我男朋友一齊住左好耐 佢最唔中意我成日唔吸塵抹塵 但好少真係為呢啲嘢嗌交 其實相處落真係好小事 我都會好似emi咁叫佢唔好開呢樣果樣同買定哂屋企啲野😆😆

[@SamElle]

Relationship fights kinda scare me just because I rarely even get into arguments with my best friends!!! I know it's healthy to have these conversations and arguments but Im definitely the type of person to just bury it and not say anything

[@onyxmistique]

I have almost the same problems (just moved in tgt) - 2nd month now. Thank you for sharing :D Having a dog to take care is another whole thing itself. You guys are amazing!!

[@陳田-v5o]

係屋企聽晒老婆話就冇錯,和諧又幸福

[@lightfortruth]

I love how Chad makes everything so funny in front of the camera and how he always “lies” to make others happy 😂😂😂. Even though I know things are not pretty during fights but I feel both Emi and Chad are very kind-hearted which to me, is the most important. Best wishes to you both💗

[@amreenkhan4899]

Love you ❤️ god bless you both ❤️ thnx for this video emi

[@sharonwalling9329]

I hope you guys get through the growing pains and you last forever ❤

[@ananya4228]

Udon seems really determined to eat his parents 😂

[@margarethsieh4283]

we are a 20-year married couple (i am from Taiwan & my husband is from Hong Kong) who live in US for 30 years. there is no division of responsibility in my household. its all ME. as simple as that. (can you see my eyes get watery?)

[@Trixy99829]

if you don't care about yourself and willing to 'sacrifice' for your family then yeah it's your lifestyle. But if you want to live a happy sustainable life it's better you have sharwd responsibilities.

[@ayiepascual5507]

The more you figth/argue(in a cute way) the more your relationship grow 😊😊😊😊😊staystrong😉😉😉😉

[@aasthadarjee]

Hi emi happy new .. thanks for everything ❤️

[@nitifaridawatisiallagan3286]

Happy new yearr❤️🎉

[@blink-gk1tq]

Happy new year to you Emily😘😘lots of love from india

[@priyadarshinijadhav1911]

Happy new year Emi and wishing a great year to both of you!!!

[@esrablogger7797]

so cute couplee. i love you guys and emi thank you for exercises your the best .

[@leeyongin3487]

Emi thank you so much because I lose weight I love you I hope you stay happy with Chad forever. 😃😘

[@emmaaguila5000]

Omg I feel so identified with many of these things lol. I'm a messy person as well and it annoys my bf a lot and he started talking to me like he talks to his mother when he's annoyed, I thought it didn't happen very often lol. The udon jar seems to be a prety good idea, I'll tell my bf to try it out

[@kpopthingies5829]

Dont skip her ads😊

[@PC-ws2oi]

Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s useful for me ❤️

[@TK-so2zc]

it's useful for newly married couples!!

[@LyntzerApril]

Thanks for sharing Emi! This is so relatable.

[@joyceho1290]

This is like a more serious video but it’s also so funny hahah. Wish you guys a happy marriage 😘

[@Anita_Budhamagar]

Happy new year to you both ❤️❤️🤗 Lots of love

[@vincentnnyc]

Poor Chad…I feel emi was the problem in this marriage

[@lifeisgood902]

That’s why ppl will live together for a while before decided to get marry , you guys should have live together earlier to find out if you are the right one for each other

[@khushidsouza1333]

Love your videos ❤️

[@Jenny-ft5zc]

Thanks for sharing, Emi! My fiancé and I are moving out together for the first time next month and we’ll be getting a puppy two weeks into our move, just like you guys. It’s an ambitious decision for us.. So it’s nice to hear updates about your experience 😊

[@olivialing3159]

I see the issue now. Chad doesnt have the heart to help in house chores especially the part that emi is very particular on. Hence, very difficult.

[@terrylee9659]

I enjoyed watching your video and seeing both of you very much. Great couple!

[@daniellegodfrey2247]

Hi guys! You are going so well living with each other! You're learning to think of not only yourself but your partner, that's good! The first year is always challenging....actually, marriage is challenging but sharing your life with the person you love is so rewarding. We've been married 40 years now and we still have difficult moments but we're human right? Marriage offers ongoing lessons, you just have to be open to learning, be forgiving and being giving. Good job!!

[@subhosreeacharjee7851]

Cute...!!!🥰

[@anukritimittal2362]

ohh udon is so cute

[@aashitapant2540]

Happy new year ....🥰🥰😇😇

[@sayangchen9924]

哈哈 笑死我了 ，好真实啊，新夫妻之 磨合期。 Anyway 还是祝福你们 新婚快乐，美满

[@HiMe6188]

I guess what u guy's is experiencing is wat all couples experience when live together.😂 different life style

[@Eunteuk13]

看完视频后，我可以想象以后我也会面对这些问题XD 喜欢你们的解决方法，可以马克起来，一起成长^^ 乌冬好可爱哦~❤️ Love you guys!

[@triptisarker9539]

Only legends know that the thumbnail has been changed....

[@kasayadalvin1541]

Happy new year

[@genelieduero]

Husband and wife has different roles. They should know it first. Wife is the suitable helper (ezer kenigdo) of the husband. The husband should love his wife as himself. They are partners, same team and without competitions.

[@TransformwithEli]

No wonder already divorce now. Actually alot of times these are just different opinion and people stay together not easy. For me we never need to argue because i have helper she takes care everything and will write a list of things to buy. We only argue about money which is a big thing, you are blessed as you dont have this kind of arguement

[@ishitasaini7263]

You both are sooo cute

[@irenec3151]

I loved watching this video, its soooo relatable! Im also very annoyed that I have to plan everything and I have to behave like my husband’s mother xD He had the exact same reasons as Chad and thought my standards were high 🙄 But I just think those are the essential things... Thanks for the suggestion to buy the silent vibrating alarm btw!

[@sanjana2367]

hey! I am following you for the past 2 years, I really lost 28 kgs of my weight by following your workout videos I really thank u from my bottom of my heart. I just want to ask you whether u can make a video on a full-body workout with the song "FAKE LOVE" from BTS.

[@yingsin9419]

完全明白！🤣我是女性，我結左婚後都覺自己煩左好多，男女大不同！好多情況都好似🤣🤣

[@alexandrachrastinova6084]

You are the cutest❤💕

[@anthea1728]

Very great solution!

[@yanyezhen4303]

谈恋爱跟婚姻本身就不一样 婚姻多了责任 两个人成立一个家庭 多少会有些争吵很正常 慢慢磨合就好

[@mauhing123]

可惜最後都係離婚⋯⋯

[@jisnajis7431]

Hii emiiii 🥰❣️ A very very Happy New Year Emi🥳 . Now , really you're my family member . Like my sister ... From you , i gained a lot 😘 by , the words , NO PAIN NO GAIN 💪😎 From tomorrow onwards I'm gonna do your 15 days abs workout . But , I've a dbt . How many calories should i intake per day to get abs ??? 🤔 If anyone knows tell me pls 🤗and Is there any problem of drinking lots of water during abs workout journey ???

[@wl4304]

Practical solutions and suggestions!

[@greetingsearthlingspluto6666]

Guess it didn't work out. You will be ok.

[@vhorn901]

adorableeezzz 🥰

[@touckkikky1251]

恩愛

[@RaphaellyRaphaelly-KalimbaHike]

Love is strange, it migth come when least expected, with a person who clearly was not "your type" and everything will click perfectly. People kind of ...force love to happen, or mistake it with something else. Love is simply an irrational miracle. You cannot think it, plan it, call it and come. It has a mind of its own, mocking at us, and making us all look like fools😅

[@huolaura]

it sounds like me and my husband when we got married in the first year. stupid little arguments here and there... Glad to hear that you guys figure things out so quickly :)

[@anshikashukla375]

Heyyyy Emi..............😍😍😍

[@Marialeung]

Udon is so cute ....maybe it's time to take him to puppy school to learn some manners 😂 I like your udon jar idea.....sounds like a good way to cool down anger before explodes !!!

[@rosestop107]

Emi please do blackpink pretty saveg dance pleasessssss 🙃💜❤🥺🥺

[@lavalavya1479]

Can u plz make video on how to increase height exerciseses

[@ayeshahabib3060]

Thirteenth comment ... Love your workouts emmi ..

[@saraahtwc]

Lmao when Emi drop the dog🤣🤣🤣 best part of this video 😆😆😆