It’s so nice to hear that some couples can go 3 months without doing it. It’s so refreshing to hear. I’ve never heard anyone say that before, so thanks for being so real.
@fidelll6793 Жыл бұрын
I know some people that went without it for nearly 5months, s*x isn't everything and most people don't really care about it, they mostly after communication and cuddly moments and all that, so yeah I like hearing things like that cause s*x isn't always necessary.
@cassie8844 Жыл бұрын
its normal
@luna07430 Жыл бұрын
It's really a normal thing lol
@gigilampe4478 Жыл бұрын
I never did until 2 years of relationship
@telepathicmagicshop Жыл бұрын
More normal than you think, and its ok 😊
@tetebery93 Жыл бұрын
oh that comment "farina is like a good wine as she ages she becomes more refined and beautiful by the day" THAT WAS ADORABLE DONGIN IS SO SWEET love both of you so much love how you are so honest and open and mature with each other and to us you both are couple goals💜
@nuchii4128 Жыл бұрын
The matching outfits!!🥰💜 (also Dongin is getting so much better with wearing color 👏🏾😂)
@leahjones5689 Жыл бұрын
This was so a great video! I wouldn’t even call it “juicy” or tmi it was just a healthy and informative conversation! Thanks for trusting us to be so open about such a taboo topic and thanks for making the topic less taboo!
@jescamsaki6377 Жыл бұрын
Dongin-"We saved our purity for the wedding"😂 meanwhile Farina"no we didn't"🤭y'all can't lie.Congrats for the wedding 💓💓💓💓💓lots of love am sending.
@amlbby Жыл бұрын
It’s cute when you two call it “squishy time” lol.
@justsomeonewithbigolegittybity Жыл бұрын
No dong in calls it *the deed*
@riyaprabhakar5878 Жыл бұрын
damn you both are soo so mature the way you both talked about this topic along with how imp communicating and mental health is ..idk how to explain but really it was so so good to see a couple talk about such a taboo topic with this much maturity without being too serious yk.. loved the vid btw💜💜
@sweetmercy95 Жыл бұрын
I just love seeing how open and honest you guys are with each other. You are a great example of what a healthy relationship should look like.
@im_emo_as_frick Жыл бұрын
Its actually so comforting and nice to hear anyone, let alone women, talk about stuff like LELO because it used to feel like such a tabboo to talk about anything s3x related and im glad there has been more representation and acknowledgement lately
@AngelsOnScreen Жыл бұрын
The purple looks really good on you two!! Also this is such a fun video. Dongin was cracking me up trying to proclaim his innocence, like boy PLEASE!
@bekas79 Жыл бұрын
Interesting how people ask "how do you keep it spicy/romantic and not too friendly", as if friendship and romance were mutually exclusive. In my point of view, romance and sexual intimacy should be the result of a deep, all-encompassing friendship! Happy long-term couples are eachother's best buddies! This means that that person is the one you can be your most vulnerable, truest self, and they fully accept and desire all of you. Unfortunately, hook-up culture is kind of overpowering this point of view. But I'm so happy to see a healthy couple like Farina and Dongin spread an emotionally mature perspective on this 🥰✨
@TheOreocookie3 Жыл бұрын
You two are so lovely, thank you for sharing this with us💜 I don't remember what a healthy relationship looks like because the only one I ever had ended nearly 5 years ago and left alot of emotional scarring, especially about this topic. This helped remind me what a dynamic should be like, open and safe. I'll probably enter my 30s in a couple of years single too, but it's better not to settle. Hell, I don't even remember what a date feels like🤣
@xt.sqnjq_gqchq._ Жыл бұрын
I'm sure you'll find someone. You seem like a very nice person :) And even in the meantime, there's always our boys we are delulu for, seeing you are a kpop fan 😊
@풍뎅이-h5b Жыл бұрын
Wow 8 years is impressive
@anushkatiwari8703 Жыл бұрын
I always wait for farina to say 'riiiighnnntt' her way of saying right is soo unique😆
@wattsparkinson Жыл бұрын
Such couple goals! You guys are a wonderful example of a beautiful, healthy and loving relationship. Thanks for sharing
@anmol_music_lover7 ай бұрын
this felt like I was listening to my older friends teaching me about relationship stuff! I dont have many couples around me, and none that I can talk to openly. So I look upto you two for the healthy relationship you have. Really appreciate the insights, I have never been in a relationship so sometimes it's difficult to tell what ppl say online is real or exaggerated. But I trust you two, thank you for deep diving in such intimate details.
@InesDBG Жыл бұрын
In December me and my boyfriend celebrate 9 years together and living 3 years together :) Congratulations to you 2 ❤
@getit5050 Жыл бұрын
Tbh I thought it was a clickbait video because I don't think y'all have ever addressed these topics like this before . But it's good to have a little more insight especially when both of y'all have grown up in entirely different culture and backgrounds. Also I absolutely love how considerate y'all are of each other . I hope the best for both of you 🫶
@unmeiartist Жыл бұрын
You guys are always so insightful, and just make me laugh no matter what
@TheRightDirection Жыл бұрын
The way farina leans on dongin 😊 when she's shy You guys can literally see in their eyes that they are still attracted to each other
@jm52hz Жыл бұрын
it’s so nice to see you (and people in general) talking openly about the topic!! and the matching outfits are so cute 🥺💜
@seraphinnie Жыл бұрын
Oooh this is a spicy one! 👀 It's cool how open you guys are even though you don't owe anyone any info about your relationship. And unrelated but I'm looking forward to the apartment tour, I'm so curious about Bingsu's corner since we got a lil teaser. 😂💖
@anny2401 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with us, for some people (like me) it's important because my family was never open about those things and I've always been too shy to talk to my friends about their experiences
@pomutcki Жыл бұрын
those Q&A feels like couple therapy, like you're forced to answer question honestly and both hear each other sides, if every couple did that i think that would help them communicate better
@Lorena_ Жыл бұрын
I really love the way you two communicate! It’s reeeally important in any relationship! You two deserve all love!! 💕💞💖
@im_emo_as_frick Жыл бұрын
15:52 Farina, I'm dead lmao but also i completely get what Dongin is saying, and i relate a lot. I agree that in a relationship, it's very important to be open about all aspects of yourself and be comfortable showing the different sides to your personality, because if you dont feel like you can do that and you cant work it out with your partner, youre probably in the wrong relationship: you shouldnt force yourself to be unhappy for the sake of just BEING in a relationship
@halfmoon30178 ай бұрын
When I used to watch this channel you guys were together for 4 years, I knew it's been a while since the last time I saw you , but damn I didn't expect it to be 4 years difference. It means I haven't come here even once during highschool that's so weird. I remembered you guys out of nowhere since my major is German (in uni) and I was like " it would be fun if they have videos in German, I enjoy watching them in general ". I'm truly shocked. I guess I studied a bit too hard for the last 4 years.
@MOONFIA_ Жыл бұрын
i really appreciate you guys talking so openly about it :))
@duckie0613 Жыл бұрын
DONGIN I FINALLY GOT THE AIRISM TSHIRTS YOU TALKED ABOUT BEFORE, and they're as amazing as you said they were
@livvictorianesmoengulbrand7770 Жыл бұрын
Love how open and “natural” you guys are❤❤❤❤
@adelinaschneider2793 Жыл бұрын
actually I am very scared of having a relationship because it's not working out for my parents...so I kinda have the fear that there is no healthy relationship. the two of you give me so much hope though, ofc not everything can be perfect but I feel like as long as you really love and respect each other everything can be talked about. so thank you for showing that partners like you can actually happen💜
@tofi8555 Жыл бұрын
I was in the same place :(
@adelinaschneider2793 Жыл бұрын
@@tofi8555 hope you are okay now
@maiianthe3280 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so open and sharing so comfortably :)
@Erin-te8bl Жыл бұрын
Dongin you are such a loving, understanding sweetheart ❤
@Daniel-Unmeiten Жыл бұрын
''You are just happy that the other person is around and yeah, that's enough'' it's great to see a couple where both are very responsible and committed to their relationship that prioritizes what really matters without forgetting that romantic side, you two are an inspiration. Seriously, from the bottom of my heart i wish you the best in your beautiful relationship. God bless you always ❤
@jungshookandinfiresbya3dol322 Жыл бұрын
This is such a good video, especially for people who have 0 experience about it. It’s a super educational video, kudos! 👍🏻
@n-k4088 Жыл бұрын
U guys always make my day better fr. Lylyly. Take care and stay healthy. Wish u the best for the future and the wedding ❤❤❤
@antonlirik1354 Жыл бұрын
You 're a wonderful couple .Happiness to you !!!
@vaniautami2701 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why but dongin speech is kinda giving me father-daughter deeptalk/advice time lol and I'm not complaining. I like it
@mqueipo10 ай бұрын
11:44 This was so sweet 🥹💗
@rohanajay Жыл бұрын
Manifesting for a relationship like Farina and Dongin ❤️😻
@mercyrichard8689 Жыл бұрын
I love your matching outfits So nice (also today's video is lovely ❤️❤️)
@kierstenimperial1168 Жыл бұрын
Haven't watch ur vlog recently but I've been a fan of u guys since start of oandemic. And shocks!!! You guys gettin married owemjiiii so happy with u both ♡
@vintavonta Жыл бұрын
I WAS WAITING OMGGG LOVE YOU BOTHHH
@catalina4447 Жыл бұрын
I loved the honesty, i felt like i was talking with friends, loved it!!!
@Sindi-N Жыл бұрын
I truly enjoyed your video👌🏾 You both spoke so matturely and explained in an insaley humorise way. May your love florish and proper through all the odds. I love you both. I am a new subscribe and I don't know why I just found your channel.
@luca-sp3rz Жыл бұрын
hey how do you shift from deeply communicating and talking about feelings to a playful side, especially when the other told you about something they dont like or feel annoyed/hurt by; how do you not walk on egg shells after it and continue as you were before?
@priskaheinl9295 Жыл бұрын
Ich finde Euch zwei toll...Danke für die tollen Videos 👍✌️🫰
@elialan Жыл бұрын
l love honest and not so pg Q & As so much
@aryareef Жыл бұрын
I love that you guys always work to make it real, it is so comforting and refreshing to watch your authenticity and willingness to be a little vulnerable! I also love that you guys have these kinds of conversations together as a couple. I agree these kinds of things are important to talk about, thank you for all your work
@devipersaud Жыл бұрын
Yayyy, congrats on your wedding, hope you both have a fruitful life ahead❤.
@agatamakowska1728 Жыл бұрын
I love You guys 😂😂 While watching this video i felt like im just having a nice chit-chat with friends ❤😊
@ish._.kataria Жыл бұрын
EARLY!! YOU GUYS ARE ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE AND I LOVE YOUR CONTENT SO SO MUCH!! I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOUR LOVE
@juliewalsh7401 Жыл бұрын
Wow! So impressed with your way of communicating!
@Persephoneeeee Жыл бұрын
You two are the best! Love every video you put out! My favorite couple on the internet ☺️🩷🩷
@nayhanmahdi9304 Жыл бұрын
even though im single asf, this really helps alot thanku!!
@lisaayna2055 Жыл бұрын
I love that you talk about it so openly, and also about the toy❤
@anusreepal19 Жыл бұрын
This was so nicely talked out and i am so proud of both of you❤
@meeman1000 Жыл бұрын
What is this consistency!? Looooove it! 🫶
@gogontlesetlhare Жыл бұрын
I love the openness
@nicgurney3790 Жыл бұрын
Very honest x after more than 25 years with my husband you explained a long term relationship well x
@farhanugradar2786 Жыл бұрын
I love their realtionship its just so perfect 🤗❤
@anitavigil9 ай бұрын
Very informative & agree that great communication with your significant other is necessary in a relationship. 🥰👍
@ayeshafaiz9500 Жыл бұрын
Your videos together are my happy time, you guys are love 💕
@pjscafe Жыл бұрын
congratulations on your upcoming marriage, guys! So happy for you.
@mayrose9387 Жыл бұрын
You guys brought up something important about being able to communicate your curiosity in bed like Farina saying bandage looked interesting 🤔 and you never know where things lead to for both of you but can at least say u tried something. It's beautiful to be able to explore things with each other and that in my opinion keeps things interesting. Also acknowledge that sometimes some one is in the mood and the other isn't and etc best to not ruin squishy time and intimacy just for the 'need' keeps it a positive fun time and doest make it into something that feels like a duty. Much love to both of u ❤🎉
@blessingoffor4557 Жыл бұрын
Hi farina ,I just wanted to say I love all your videos and y'all are my fav couple on yt❤😊
@Racheal_crown Жыл бұрын
The way I love you guys eh your videos make my heart warm ❤❤😊
@aarna8692 Жыл бұрын
You both are the best couple I have ever seen Btw both are looking soo cool in purple 🥰💕
@ccxoticc Жыл бұрын
Most amazing couple ever💜
@ABC-zn5jv Жыл бұрын
You two are a sweet & lovely couple! Can't wait for your wedding! :)
@ceasarlinayisi2233 Жыл бұрын
Farina is so cute and sweet and so so prettyyyy. I love her.❤
@negarakd Жыл бұрын
Honey your outfit is super great😍
@KristinaKenney-h7w Жыл бұрын
I was told about men and women and what they do together when I was in year 5 at my school and my parents let me read a book called every woman 😊I even learned about my period before I started at age 10.
@heathergreenbank5638 Жыл бұрын
You two are wonderful ❤️💜❤️
@taeyongscheeks Жыл бұрын
It honestly is fun liszening to this. I see alot of different couples. As a young person I see alot of break ups as well. So seeing you guys again after some time just made me happy.
@mr.squeeze7070 Жыл бұрын
It's like watching your parents giving you the talk in the most comfortable way lol
@absarygampong4736 Жыл бұрын
always looking good farina!
@arantzaperez8758 Жыл бұрын
I love this content. Thank you for being real and honest with this type of topics.❤
@arabellapatriciabieber Жыл бұрын
i love your videos together so much 💖
@fireruby1882 Жыл бұрын
This was entertaining and very healthy!! You 2 are VERY good role models ☺️💙
@ishanaaa7 Жыл бұрын
You made my day 🧡
@MollyJones1992 Жыл бұрын
Nodoby's talking about LELO tho and I high key wanna try it haha
@funinartcraftzz Жыл бұрын
Pastel purple really suits u both
@carlethiastreet7596 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for such an informative video. Loved it.
@leeauslander8305 Жыл бұрын
Really cute couple!
@epiphadipity Жыл бұрын
you guys are so borafied for this video 🤣🤣🤣
@pinkypilot Жыл бұрын
One of the best vids. Thanks for being so honest and frank❤️❤️
@seasonal629 Жыл бұрын
I really love your personality Farina..bubbly, kind and pretty too 😊
@HeyLebo Жыл бұрын
Farina: I'll try to explain it in a family friendly way, okay? Dongin: You could have just said eye contact. 😂😂😂 Love you guys!
@Scandinavianmochigirl Жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much, you made me believe in true love💕
@Hinarukun Жыл бұрын
I wish more romance animes were about these topics, but animes only showcase The Chase. an anime about an active relationship between 2 people would be so interesting.
@sahelichatterjee1477 Жыл бұрын
Just love you both💜
@Kwoneditzsfrtho Жыл бұрын
I love this
@nandaschomakers6472 Жыл бұрын
Congrats and you look really happy together❤❤❤
@auracae Жыл бұрын
U guys r u guys as always... love ya💜✊️
@jessicasheridan7 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you made this video, I feel like nobody does. and if they do they’re not really that honest
@dorisfaulkner7344 Жыл бұрын
You’re practically married already. You passed the big test of seven years.😅 But on a serious note, you guys should be married already in my opinion. Love you guys❤
@anilanilanil966 Жыл бұрын
Congrats🎉🥳👏
@auracae Жыл бұрын
U R STUNNINN FARINAAAAAAA
@Elizaa217 Жыл бұрын
He talking about "you could have just said eye contact" lmao