Divorce is a nasty word? Girl, he slept with someone on your couch and the kids walked in???????? Divorce is the perfect word. Stop overexplaining and protecting someone who is disrespecting you. Who cares about his addiction? Take care of yourself and the kids!!!
@sophiaandre1397 ай бұрын
Delusional
@longbranch112077 ай бұрын
Lol
@Rissahanne17 ай бұрын
Forreal she deserves so much better, first off he not cute with that x wolverine hair cut, 2 besides looks I won’t be surprised if he got sexual diseases and she really kissed him still on stage …she’s being manipulated or…. She’s allowing herself to get manipulated cause I could never 🙌🏽🙆🏽♀️
@siorsaint7 ай бұрын
she has no self respect it’s sad
@yomajesty27037 ай бұрын
Don’t forget her foyer
@hms34127 ай бұрын
Alcohol did not make you try to steal her house from her and the kids and file restraining order. You had to do that pretty much sober
@kjlee83997 ай бұрын
But are functional alcoholics ever really actually sober? 😢 Not an excuse for this MUCK but functional addicts do alot of things under the influence.
@longbranch112077 ай бұрын
That’s what I found unforgivable. Almost steaming her house and leaving her kids homeless yea that would have been a wrap for me
@monharris287 ай бұрын
agree thats some sober thinking steps. shes an idiot
@troy0287 ай бұрын
She chose him. Sounds like excuses. 😂😂😂
@Phoenixishot7 ай бұрын
He was prob toasted every waking hour
@elsugga37367 ай бұрын
At some point, remaining a single mother is way more of a good exemple of strengh and resilience as a mother for your children than getting with a younger guy in the name of a so called "father figure"
@longbranch112077 ай бұрын
Well according to Kevin Samuels she is doomed . And someone in her 40s no man will want her . I’ve always said it’s better to be single than have to deal with bs just to say that have a spouse
@kirahoward237 ай бұрын
Facts!!!
@absynthe79047 ай бұрын
@@longbranch11207Beloved, Kevin Samuels was not qualified to give anyone any kind of advice. Let’s not quote him, like ever 😂
@ShayMiW7 ай бұрын
@longbranch11207 the man didn't even live by his own philosophies. He croaked underneath the same kind of woman he would claim as "lower value"
@kirahoward237 ай бұрын
@@ShayMiW If you could say this just a little LOUDER, that would be great 👍🏾
@LunaStone3337 ай бұрын
She’s a sweet woman but she’s better than me cuz calling the mistress to apologize is insaneeee
@monharris287 ай бұрын
thats low self esteem---apologizing to your man's mistress---ohweee....they a mess
@Curtisrice19887 ай бұрын
Innnnnsanee.. that’s the last thing she would ever get! But I don’t think I could ever look at him again knowing he had s* with her on our couch.. that’s pretty bold of him
@deidrapeters6357 ай бұрын
Absolutely insane
@judyfray43057 ай бұрын
That was pure strategy " calling the other woman and telling him to say sorry?? Is just making that woman know that he chose her" and he is still with her" letting her know that she is the one who told him to say his sorry ( that would look to the other woman like she is in control of him in some way) and overall its a win win situation in her eyes. What a selfish, needy woman. Can you imagine what's it like in her household now? " What when the children saw him having X , and you think the children are going to like or respect him after that. She's got a whole lot more disrespect coming her way from him, and this time, he is going to be more brutal.
@RicheeBe7 ай бұрын
Insane 😂
@jackwalter59707 ай бұрын
They are NOT soul mates.
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
She is dreaming
@triciajohnson12547 ай бұрын
Period.
@Rissahanne17 ай бұрын
@@azpersonalshe ain’t even dreaming she’s living a nightmare at this point
@ericakilbournebroodie7 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!
@shanice1992M7 ай бұрын
Nope. The Lord adds no sorrow to His blessings. Message for somebody....
@theartofcrashingout7 ай бұрын
Not him pretending he kicked her and her family out the house for HER sake 🙄 this is my least favorite type of person. They’ll literally say anything and they feel so clever too while doing it
@joshfox097 ай бұрын
He gon cheat tonight 😭🤦🏽♂️
@trueblue28927 ай бұрын
OMM 😂😂🫣
@auzy2u8457 ай бұрын
Cap
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣
@Ramon-fv6be7 ай бұрын
not too much lmaoo
@joshfox097 ай бұрын
@@Ramon-fv6be on the couch again fa sho 🤣🤦🏽♂️
@iamsam12967 ай бұрын
so he kicked you and your boys out the house and then your sons saw him naked and finishing getting crazy with a woman IN THE HOUSE YOU BUILT. he let you and your children get displace and you still went back?? he disrepected you and your children and still you went back? its better to be a single mother then have a terrible example for a father figure.
@helpkelp35957 ай бұрын
Then blamed it on the alcohol, I've never known an alcoholic to take time to get a restraining order on someone!
@mariejiminez17337 ай бұрын
Riitteee!!! LIKE Wat is really attracted bout him🤔
@iamsam12967 ай бұрын
@@helpkelp3595 RIGHT no accoutnabilty going to him whatsoever
@finewine66597 ай бұрын
I came here to write the very same things! Her apparent lack of self-worth is sad
@ChelseaVega-h6c7 ай бұрын
Very true. No amount of love would make me stay in that situation.. but I can understand that she doesn’t want to let something go she’s worked so hard for and with.. when you put so much into a relationship and dedication so much time and effort it’s so hard to leave even when they kill that trust completely
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
She has poor self-esteem and loves to save the broken. He put her and the kids out of your house! And she still calls him soul mate. Love is not by force, and that man has spoken loud TWICE! that he doesn't want you!
@CandiceStraker7 ай бұрын
Exactly sad
@auzy2u8457 ай бұрын
Cap, she took vows, and he changed. God said don't judge
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
@@auzy2u845 God also said if your eye will destroy your whole body, cut it off! Not all love is good love. Disrespecting her like that is a big NO. He had sex with women in her house with kids around! Am all for forgiveness, but not driving your sanity to the ground all in the name of being a soul mate. Maybe seeing my friend's sister buried without her two front teeth because of her cheating and violent husband is why I have no time for BS.
@dellarosa42047 ай бұрын
Soulmates dont cheat on eachother, kick you AND your kids out of the house YOU BUILT nor file a restraining order!!! Girl, LEAVE!
@user-pr2eb7nx2g7 ай бұрын
PERIOD ‼️💯
@Xo-xz6vi7 ай бұрын
Men love women like this. He can do whatever he wants and she will allow it
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
Sincerely, I am just glad he is not a pedophile. Moms like these are the perfect fools for them. She is so blind in her soulmate BS. He cheats on her with her kids around in the house and tries to push her out with her kids and she is still in Lalaland.
@erinwilliams62017 ай бұрын
You wasn't drunk when you was filling paperwork!
@NikkiRichNYC7 ай бұрын
Dude Was Calculated & Focused Then
@ericakilbournebroodie7 ай бұрын
SAY IT AGAIN!!!!! Riiigghhhtt! That fool KNEW what he was going!!!
@aishachandler45707 ай бұрын
41 is still young. She needs to reevaluate her life. She's absolutely beautiful and have a loving and beautiful soul. She needs to be with someone who will truly value her. He is out there, unfortunately it is not him.
@SteganDaMallion7 ай бұрын
She said he is a beautiful soul….nah sis he is evil. Beautiful soul doesn’t kick you outta your own house with your children. The guy is calculating and maniacal! Run!!!
@jerrseyy10887 ай бұрын
100%
@yomajesty27037 ай бұрын
My daughter caught my ex at a restaurant with another woman, it was over that day! She was 5 at the time & I would’ve been utterly embarrassed to let him back into my/ our lives after that! She’s 21 now and I’m in my late 30’s and she told me, “Mom you’ve always been a bad chick! You never let these men play you!” It made me feel great because I always knew she was watching me and looked up to me.
@Lenasevilla-yb4ei7 ай бұрын
She was 5 and caught him?😒
@Heyitschy037 ай бұрын
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei😅
@sherihenderson7727 ай бұрын
The minute he put me and my kids out of a house they lived in before him there would have been no getting back together. Can you imagine how those kids feel. Mommie boyfriend put us out or house didn't give a damn where we had to go but Mommie took him back. A real man would have left smh.
@sherox4147 ай бұрын
She is too gorgeous to even be worried about any XY!!! Be single and live a healthy beautiful life!!
@Hannahrk97 ай бұрын
Dear Lord please never let me be this desperate for a man Amen
@mariejiminez17337 ай бұрын
yasssh!!!
@jasonadventist52267 ай бұрын
Let the church say amen!
@AnnaKeliki7 ай бұрын
It's a disease my sister
@judyfray43057 ай бұрын
😂😂 that was genius"
@maureenmakawia13467 ай бұрын
Amen
@alexcooper12167 ай бұрын
He is very dangerous. What else will he do? No respect. He's acting too passive for me. Ma'am, there is a snake in your grass. 😒
@mariejiminez17337 ай бұрын
Riteee she extremly Co depentdant
@xoxo99727 ай бұрын
She has an Anaconda in her grass 🐍
@exoticchocolate19827 ай бұрын
Your kids & yourself come first. He’s not ready for marriage, let him go and take care of your kids and put them first.
@ProphetMisfit097 ай бұрын
Chile, she.... not bright, but she seems smart. But to allow this to happen multiple times, for him to kick you out of your OWN home, and everything else... Girl, this is borderline desperation.
@finewine66597 ай бұрын
The desperation isn't borderline, it's full on. So sad
@HAZYHEAUX7 ай бұрын
She is too forgiving. She needs to learn herself again. Once that happens maybe they can come back together but right now its not the right time especially with him just being 3 months sober
@auzy2u8457 ай бұрын
God said that you have to forgive
@michellebouchard44272 ай бұрын
Seeing this married couple that went through a lot but he has gone above and beyond to keep it together. You can see the love God bless them both 🙏✝️
@collinsugonnalawrence71137 ай бұрын
Wow click if you love Karamo. He is so on point on advising her-my goodness what a section
@latoyahargrove27187 ай бұрын
They are a beautiful couple but she is insane having her son film him having sex and she took him back girl AINT NO WAY nope
@Fedderchini7 ай бұрын
IT WAS NOT HER SON !!! He was a 18 year old they allowed to stay
@helpkelp35957 ай бұрын
The more insane part is allowing this man to kick her and her kids out of her house
@aliciaaa60217 ай бұрын
@@Fedderchini she said it was the 19 year old and her 13 year old who caught him
@latoyahargrove27187 ай бұрын
@@Fedderchinihe was 13 still a child
@latoyahargrove27187 ай бұрын
@@aliciaaa6021exactly
@nicoleraheem11957 ай бұрын
❤She looks damn good for 41, but she's definitely above his league and maturity.
@bree47617 ай бұрын
That level of cheating is something she won’t ever get over. She’s too pretty for that man
@chigozienwankwo2347 ай бұрын
Never been this early. Was doing a research but immediately i saw the KZbin notification. I had to click. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@Sara-zt4cb7 ай бұрын
He kicked you out of the home u built? How is that even legal
@emerald_skai2057 ай бұрын
Cuz her dumb ass put his name on the deed!
@aaliyahbuggg7 ай бұрын
She's weak. She's letting that man walk all over her, and she's teaching her kids the same thing. I wouldn't my kids or myself to be around all that negative.
@isabellesantos71867 ай бұрын
Very
@fethicha31135 ай бұрын
all women weak you need just to be her right one
@rhymarie91287 ай бұрын
weak in the knees , STAND UP
@mariejiminez17337 ай бұрын
Wat even is tht?!
@waveyandroyal7 ай бұрын
I can never get over the couch incident DIVORCE
@PiscesQueen81087 ай бұрын
Did I hear her correctly!?! He kicked her and her kids out of a house she bought before she met him? Ma'am, please know your worth! At that moment, your children should have been your first PRIORITY! There is no way i would forgive him for that!
@Bessie-ff7rs7 ай бұрын
Just even that she shouldn’t have taken him back. Talking about some mate. When I watch ID it’s women like them men killed because they refuses to leave them so they do it in another way. Hopefully she doesn’t stay until then.
@Nikitajade087 ай бұрын
The desperation to keep a cheating man will never make sense to me
@JaneInThisThang7 ай бұрын
as soon as she said, her definition of 'often' doesn't equate to Karamo's definition, let me know she didn't want to leave him.
@rabuffness7 ай бұрын
She has no standards..
@user-pr2eb7nx2g7 ай бұрын
Don’t put too much sauce on her. Let’s not judge we all been through some mess that cause our judgement and actions to be off. If you haven’t don’t worry life will catch up with you.
@rabuffness7 ай бұрын
Oh ive been there and recognise it. Sometimes you have to call a spade a spade. She has no inner self standards. It's not judgement, its fact. When you identify you can work on it. But you see even kamaro points it out she not willing to move and dp the work she grabs her man harder qnd laughs at facts and insight. Her life will catch up with her more than this if she nor careful. This isnt rock bottom yet..i wish her the best
@neogabegwe62847 ай бұрын
the red lip ateeee
@soulflowerpeace92367 ай бұрын
U try to steal my home...id be done...wow
@CandiceStraker7 ай бұрын
🙌🙌
@ryukluuhaze4117 ай бұрын
Not her calling Joline begging her not to take her man😂
@mirrbaby98547 ай бұрын
"she had a shirt on." TOLD ME ALL I NEEDED TO KNOW ! 😭😭😭😭😭 she is gonna defend him to the death of her smh !
@jessycavalentine48664 ай бұрын
Yeah she was trying to minimize what he'd done .. like it was somehow better
@sabrinashealey30204 ай бұрын
She is too nice & beautiful to have to deal with someone that does not want to do better. But then again she is acting more like a mom than a wife saying she made him call the other lady to apologize
@brianacarela83717 ай бұрын
I’m only a minute and 40 seconds in and I’m like girl what? Have some standards. Idk why people do this to themselves
@mariejiminez17337 ай бұрын
Rite! Like where's the SELF respect
@remishaporter28447 ай бұрын
The baby slow 🤦🏽♀️😂 cause lady wtf are you talking about😒?? He knows a dummy when he see one smh.
@graciagarcia93217 ай бұрын
It's giving desperation at this point
@jennifergeddes28367 ай бұрын
She's a beautiful woman with a little sadness in her eyes. I hope she finds her real love.
@NoDeductions7 ай бұрын
He look older than her a lil bit
@TF-gf3fs7 ай бұрын
Blind??
@NoDeductions7 ай бұрын
@@TF-gf3fs NEVER dat deaf maybe
@Zee-ob1pe7 ай бұрын
I don’t think so. She’s wearing layers of make up though
@BeadyPough7 ай бұрын
She better be careful with him because he is a liar and after what she is building for his future and who he wants in his life without her. He don't love her. Baby girl don't trust him.
@tyne20057 ай бұрын
Yo this story is such a mess
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
Like she is so desperate for love
@Rozetastoned9087 ай бұрын
i love how this woman never referred to the woman he cheats with as bicth's instead she says girls or gals a lot of girls and woman need to learn that it is the man's fault if he cheats not the other womans fault. BE MAD AT THE MAN IF HE CHEATS
@latriceclark57317 ай бұрын
They were in her home and they knew it they most definitely are bitcezz and so is he
@erinwilliams62017 ай бұрын
Just because you understand doesn't mean you have to stay with them.
@shirleyrussell70897 ай бұрын
Good thing she bought the house before she met and married him. No he was trying to take her HOME. INFIDELITIES always Change a RELATIONSHIP. SHE IS SUFFERING in order to stay with him that RELATIONSHIP will never be the same SHE CAN'T FIX HIM SHE IS HURTING HERSELF EVERY DAY...She DESERVES BETTER THAN HIM.
@samileeable7 ай бұрын
What even is this mess. They look like they have it together but far from it. She seems like she loves rehabilitating lost folks. Because if someone did all that and got a restraining order against me. Divorce would be the least ugly word used. She can do better please. “Shes a persistent woman “ Translation “i can’t get rid of her”
@monharris287 ай бұрын
agree, he dont want you anymore girl, just call it a lost; stop trying to save face around everyone; you too beautiful for this mess
@neisci7 ай бұрын
Did she say he kicked her and her children out of HER house? Lady, he needs to go. Divorce is long overdue.
@createthebalance7 ай бұрын
He’s gonna wind up ruining that woman’s life one way or another. And she’s allowing it to happen which saddens me.
@auzy2u8457 ай бұрын
Cap
@KamiaMcWilliams7 ай бұрын
Some people are so afraid of being alone that they’ll settle for anything-I call it codependency. Being codependent on a person is like an addict being dependent upon a drug. You KNOW it’s bad for you but you don’t care as long as it makes you feel temporarily “good”, “numb” or whatever- you’re willing to risk your life for imaginary pleasure that does internal and life threatening harm.
@LifeofDestinyB7 ай бұрын
The way she staring in his face 11:58 😂😂😂
@carolharris54557 ай бұрын
He’s gonna cheat again she bought him
@zeenic20117 ай бұрын
Idk why she came bc he’s going to continue to walk over her
@ShanetteLewis7 ай бұрын
she’s a weirdo… her poor sons
@azpersonal7 ай бұрын
Am just glad he is not a pedophile. She is the type of woman to turn a blind eye just to get love
@noelic27557 ай бұрын
Lord the desperation in this lady is crazy 😣 how tf you have these many events and patients and after all you still take him back 🤢
@Raven-lala7 ай бұрын
She’s delusional and Obsessed.. the way she looks at him is kinda weird like that’s her trouble son 😖 she’s too in deep
@maishesbeautiful7 ай бұрын
i told my partner that too when we were working on our relationship after he cheated it was about two months after and we got into a big fight! i told him, YOU DONT GET TO TELL ME HOW FAST I NEED TO HEAL, i told him straight up, if you truly want my forgiveness YOU WILL EARN IT. man i went in on that man for MONTHS. it gets better but i still get triggered. but i also explained that to him too. i said that betrayal will never be forgotten my love, you broke my heart.. it gave me PTSD. I also let him know i could never truly trust him like once before im open and honest.
@Diane-ne4oq7 ай бұрын
When females get strong enough to fight to conquer the need to have just any man in their life they will conquer themselves. They will find they are worthy, awesome and deserve to be loved and treated with respect. I believe it will help their self esteem and don't feel threatened by being alone if need be. I would rather be alone then treated like shi-.
@Succubitxh7 ай бұрын
I would have leave after the first instance💀
@kashmeredreamss16897 ай бұрын
She likes the trama. Every time Karamo addresses it she has an excuse
@RecklessInspirer7 ай бұрын
The fact that the kids recorded it too! Wow. They knew they would need proof!
@gabbyslovee1237 ай бұрын
She needs to stop being so forgiving🙄, she’s beautiful and still young she can do so much better!!!!
@marlanaalexislawrence98637 ай бұрын
Was anyone else confused when they were snuggling in the beginning 😭
@teedee11707 ай бұрын
Let’s all just drink and blame alcohol for our promiscuity😳This woman just showcased how desperate she is😭
@angelmac53807 ай бұрын
She is pathetic!! The things some women would do or go through to feel good about themselves. She is very attractive and fashionable and he came out look like a young punk with bushy hair. This man kicked you out if her own house and had other women in it!! She is rearranging furniture trying to get the image out of her head. She need to rearrange her way of thinking, and her life!! SMH!! She was too pushy, so he got a restraining order against her. Why didn't he move out of her house??? But instead he kicked her out, and she is sitting there holding on tight to him Shameful.
@STARRANDREWSS7 ай бұрын
Shes buggin , God bless them both
@gracevictorious39227 ай бұрын
I love her outfit ✨✨
@444clockit7 ай бұрын
She TOO nice, no way in hell I would’ve had him apologize to somebody that he cheated on me with.. wtf for what
@JordanJayy7 ай бұрын
Girl, that is not your soulmate. It was good when it was good, but it’s not anymore! You can find so much better if you allow yourself to do so!!
@KimberelyIsaacs7 ай бұрын
He would have to go
@jessicakennedy867 ай бұрын
I guarantee she was out of control when he placed a restraining order. He made mistakes and tried to heal and change but she also needs to heal and be more open. I think what Karamo is saying is right.
@auzy2u8457 ай бұрын
Right
@Sunshineaunty7 ай бұрын
1st can I just say this woman is beautiful and looks like a young Michelle Pfeiffer And she needs to leave that person alone!! He completely ruined that whole relationship
@willishaalford73457 ай бұрын
She started off using those big words and it still don't stop the fact that he's was and probably still is a cheater!! He's just be careful not to bring them to the house!!
@bartender48777 ай бұрын
It looks like a miss matched couple, she looks like his mom and he looks like her son .. weird. But a child always wants to leave their parent some day.. 😅 dr Phil said something like that some day
@unamariee7 ай бұрын
this is such a strong woman!! kudos to her
@joyyy39627 ай бұрын
What does kudos mean ?😅
@legaleagles36547 ай бұрын
@@joyyy3962 1. : praise given for achievement. 2. : fame and renown resulting from an act or achievement : prestige.
@legaleagles36547 ай бұрын
@@joyyy3962 That’s what it means…
@isabellesantos71867 ай бұрын
Lol girl u must be trolling she's weak
@averagenyla5 ай бұрын
@@joyyy3962like shout to her
@mbrutus78867 ай бұрын
Gaht damn! I see why people warn women to stay away from military men 😬
@monharris287 ай бұрын
Gurl they be the.most cruel
@saucyfaces7 ай бұрын
She's so beautiful too. 🤦🏽♀ This one is wild.
@legaleagles36547 ай бұрын
Very messy relationship. I don’t understand why anyone would think this will work out? Both of them need to leave each other alone, and build a life for themselves. Simple as that really 🤔
@blackforestprincess68967 ай бұрын
I THINK HE IS ALWAYS PUTTING ON THAT PUPPY FACE SO THAT SHE DON'T SEE HE'S WRONG😂😂😂😂
@ezeoruruth38877 ай бұрын
Exactly…. That pissed me off more🤦♀️
@afidatolud63207 ай бұрын
It’s giving ‘I’m afraid to be alone.. I don’t believe in finding someone my age that would want to build a life with me’
@toniedwards51237 ай бұрын
How do you forgive someone who kicked you out of you and your children’s house? Noooo!!🌸🌺🌸
@Myshelleallen7 ай бұрын
It seems like she is in mother mode, not wife mode. It’s easy to be a nurturing mother to a husband instead of a partner. I feel like with it gaps when it comes to a woman and a man it’s a slippery slope. She was up here, making excuses for him. The whole entire entire time studying allow him to take full responsibility of what he did.
@نيشا-د2م7 ай бұрын
This woman honestly seems sweet, but it’s pretty evident that she’s just clinging onto this man b/c she scared to find someone better. She’s definitely at that age where any person is scared to be alone, so they will unconsciously settle for a person (like him) b/c they feel like they aren’t at that ripped age. It also could be b/c he owns up to his mistakes, & he doesn’t try to manipulate/gaslight her. He owns up to it, so it makes her feel a little secure within the relationship, knowing that at least he owns up to it. Idk, there are many other reasons she could be staying, but it’s her life.
@CrystalTrinidad7 ай бұрын
He’s a cheater and a drunk but he’s a wonderful human. Us women are really slow.
@lovelymarie13667 ай бұрын
He really does not like you girl, let alone love you!!! Let that go!!!
@poolroomsza2 ай бұрын
she is precious, lovely, and loyal. But she has to stand on business, and she needs to stop being a fixer upper.
@damianu40827 ай бұрын
Karamo way to tell her without telling her 😂😂😂
@judysmart-deveaux62117 ай бұрын
He should have APOLOGISED THERE ON THE SHOW and hopefully make promises of fidelity. He was too silent.
@dligg4137 ай бұрын
This is one of the wildest stories , lady just leave him , he is running circles around this lady smh
@LuckiePhoenix7 ай бұрын
She needs to divorce him 🤦🏻♀️ but sadly she’s not until he’s done more than enough damage
@KMonettey7 ай бұрын
She needs to get away from him fast. Something is not right with his demeanor and she is way to comfortable being walked over.
@imell3727 ай бұрын
This man is your sons father figure oh God
@Lovelyliberianleo7 ай бұрын
Its the way he walked out 🙄
@shirokuriah7 ай бұрын
I feel like she like the fact that he is imperfect and she gets to fix him ...41 mum...honestly she likes the role but they gorgeous though...❤