Our Love Story & The Importance of God's Timing in Relationships

[@simonen5185]

I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years. Ended up getting engaged to be married. We were engaged for 6 months and our wedding was scheduled for January 2020. Half way through our engagement I heard the lord speak and tell me not to marry my fiancé, and that he wasn’t the one. Long story short, it was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make in my life, but I chose to be obedient to God and walk away. I am choosing to wait. I know what the Lord promised me and I know his timing is perfect. I know that obedience is better than sacrifice so I’m choosing to wait on God and to follow him. It hurts because I did love him, but I’d much rather be in the will of God.

[@decembertwenty10]

He will bless obedience a lot

[@jessicawestbrook3730]

Wow! THAT is obedience! Praise God and that is so awesome that you have such a strong desire to honor the Lord!

[@RemiOmolosho]

Wow I know God will bless you with a man that will treat you like the queen you are! Your obedience is so inspiring. God bless you 🤍

[@simonen5185]

@@RemiOmolosho thank you ❤️

[@olenjka55]

Hi. Why do you think it was God's will that you don't marry him?

[@Krown08]

I'm 39 and still waiting. Thanks for the encouragement. 😇

[@UTubeChickOnline]

Kamila, me too! :) 39 and waiting! I was told to wait for marriage when I was 26! When I was 32, I got tired of waiting and the Lord sent me to NYC (I went there to meet guys at a Christian singles event - but God had other plans) so that Pastor Jim Cymbala would change his sermon at the last minute and give a 17 minute message on waiting. If you go to the Brooklyn Tabernacle site and look for a sermon titled 'Wait' from May 2012, that's the word and warning that I received, that if I rush to get married (I met a guy that weekend), I would regret it the rest of my life. So God continues to send me encouragement that I need to keep waiting. I'm called to wait longer than others, but the Lord deserves my obedience! I love being the Lord's; there's nothing more amazing than being a follower of Christ. In this time of waiting, I have gotten closer to God more than I ever imagined and have been through more God ordained adventures than I ever expected to go through as a single woman. But where God guides, He provides. And what's interesting, when I want to stop thinking about marriage, it is actually the Lord who tells me to be ready and to make marriage a priority for myself. God has shown me that it is actually more important to Him than to me that I get married (which blows my mind). And He has reserved a certain guy just for me. If I wasn't shy and if I didn't receive a commandment to keep certain things to myself, I would share my journey on how the Holy Spirit continues to lead me to be a wife, even though I'm single. Through growing in Christ, God has taught me that my greatest reward is the Lord and the journey to Him is a gift from Him. In this long season (though it has flown very quickly!!) I have healed from many emotional wounds and have had many spiritual breakthroughs that will allow me to enter marriage as a very healthy individual. God is our ultimate goal, but one of God's goals for us is a successful and God ordained marriage. I don't know why He has designed for some of us to wait this long, but I also don't know why He has chosen to reveal Himself to many of us at a young age. All I know is that Jesus will never leave us and that we can trust Him and rest in Him.

[@latoyatv9678]

Kamila B Wow me too

[@Krown08]

UTubeChickOnline Very encouraging!

[@joyjoy449]

Some people have spirit spouses and think it's God's will to wait for a long time. I beg to differ, sometimes it is not part of God's will to wait a long time. It's been hijacked by the enemy in some way. Please look into it. Sometimes it's even got to do with generational curses and covenants made by ancestors in the past that need to be repented for, renounced and broken. You need to put on the full armour of God and go into Spiritual warfare. Check Min. Kevin L.A. Ewing right here on KZbin.

[@e.j.o.4400]

@@UTubeChickOnline 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Amen Sis! Yes, the season of waiting (singleness) is where you experience the most healing, growth, and spiritual maturity. It truly is a blessing.

[@briannacollie2742]

"His will, his way." That was powerful

[@pxlmvr7]

I’m 62 years old and I’m still waiting on God’s timing. Single since getting saved at 26 in 1987. I’m always amazed at these stories and I’m happy when people find each other! I know just how hard it is, and though I may not find that love, it’s a beautiful thing!

[@portiaowusu1706]

“Blessed are those who have not seen, and have believed."

[@returningtoperfection]

Go travelling. Get your passport and go to other countries. Visit other states or different parts of the country you live in. While travelling focus on the story of Ruth.

[@motiveperson143]

Your time will come❤

[@pxlmvr7]

@@returningtoperfection why the book of Ruth?

[@RandomVideos-kn3pf]

Love can come you never know, Cs Lewis married at 54 if I'm not mistaken

[@sophia4christ]

I'm a 35 year old Christian single and your testimony has blessed my heart very much. I pray that Jesus will continue to bless and keep you both in your God ordained marriage.

[@heartminnie]

“If it isn’t God’s timing, it isn’t God.” God’s timing and God’s will... so often we would mix these two tgt. Thank you so much for this video! The message reminds me of the situation I am in. Thank you again for this video. I am thankful that God used you two and the video to influence others!

[@Afluffycookie117]

That's very true. It's not a complete cut and dry answer. First example, King David was anointed to be the next king of Israel when he was 16, but he did not actually become king until he was 30. He had to spend 14 years running from King Saul who was trying to kill him.

[@mpholetsela7391]

@@Afluffycookie117 You can be anointed for something but you need to wait on your appointment.

[@Afluffycookie117]

@@mpholetsela7391 Correct, God's timing and God's will are two different things. My example with King David shows that when he got anointed the timing (for him to actually become king) was wrong but it was in God's will that he would become the king eventually. He just had to endure a 14 year trial running from King Saul

[@sarahscorner3774]

Wow. This is crazy. This is what is happening in my life right now. I am 18 years old. I moved to a new town 7 hours away from my family. I started going to my church 8 months ago. The very first person I meet was B our church secretary. I started to get to know here and her husband. She had mentioned that they had a son a year older than me. 3 months later I was at youth group. This guy L came in and I got butterflies in my stomach and a beautiful sense of peace. Few months went by and would see him here and there. 2 weeks ago I was going to me moving. I was praying to God and asked him why I was here. And what He wanted with this guy L. I heard him audibly say. “ Sarah my daughter, I know your heart. Be patient. When you are both ready I will bless you two forever”. L doesn’t even no I have feeling towards him. It is so hard to not go over and talk to him about it. But God has a great timing. I just have to be patient

[@ThewomenatthewellMinistries]

Year be patient . Not east BUT HE GIVES GRACE

[@ruthbarboza4609]

Sarah McGhie wow that’s so amazing! ❤️

[@jaanvibharti4164]

This made me cry..

[@afrikanachique8733]

Wow , amazing....am happy for you 😊

[@nicab77]

LOVE THIS!!! praying for patient, peace and grace ❤️

[@EbonyRivers1]

That same still, small voice whispered to me the first time me and a platonic coworker made a quick shopping run. As we were walking through the store, I heard plainly, “That’s who you’re gonna be with.” What??!! And I adamantly replied in my head, “No, I ain’t, either!” We’ll celebrate our 8th anniversary in two months. 🤣🤣 God is the ultimate, professional matchmaker!

[@melissahylton79]

Ebony Rivers I love this! I love your reply. But, God still did it..LolBe blessed!!

[@qreat_things4846]

Ebony Rivers beautiful story

[@jdouce6074]

💜

[@adriananoriega]

were you both believers at the time of the grocery event?

[@margeorietamayo3492]

😍❤❤

[@johnm8284]

"Faith in God includes faith in His timing." - Neal A. Maxwell

[@Carlos-np7du]

I'm 15 years old, but all I really want is to get married. But on God's time. I'm just praying for patience so when the time comes, he provides me a beautiful spouse who is God loving. God bless whoever is reading this

[@briannajacobs955]

I'm 18 years old, and I just started college. I'm the type of girl who loves love, the idea of love, wishing for love and praying for love. Y'alls story is so so so beautiful and encouraging and just absolutely filled with God's love. I literally teared up at the part when you both shared your scars and the hug; the way Dave described that was amazing. God bless you both forever.

[@conniek1039]

Me toooo!

[@ibukun1607]

I'm 19 I feel like I've been waiting forever because I've never had a connection and one of my greatest heart desires is to marry early and get started on 10 kids

[@keitajonasa9575]

That is good to look up to loving your spouse one day, but there is a type of love, that is unconditional, strong and that fills you in a way, that human never will, and that is the love of God. The more you will seek to honour God and be a good servant in His eyes, the more you will be likeable to people and be ready to get married. I would encourage you to make the most of the time in singleness and establish your relationship with God.

[@arishlevi318]

​@@ibukun1607 me too, I'm gonna be 18 soon and I also desire to be married at 25 and get kids! I love motherhood . And I have huge desire to see my family , my husband working together for God's kingdom and shaking the foundations of hell with prayers ! See God working in my kids life through me , pouring my all love on them .

[@JesusLovesyou..1John3.6]

Jesus is True Love and He teaches and helps us to truly love 😊❤❤❤ He is so Good 😊❤❤❤

[@nicab77]

I’m a sucker for stories like these, specifically fundamentally founded on the Lord. I have felt the Lord speaking to me to dive further deeper into his word and continue to build the church I’m building now. But one of my biggest, top 3... maybe too 2 hearts desires is to be loved so intentionally and have that effortless connection, but God is directing to cultivate my relationship with him and continue to run towards Him. it’s a back and forth, struggle bc my heart yearns for that but to wait, just hurts. BUT with that may the Lord bless your marriage ❤️

[@Hehehe-hf7rq]

God bless you

[@marijacolak3438]

The same is with me..Trying go be closer to God while at the same time trying to save a broken relationship...It hurts because all I think is: not again, not a new start alone and insecurity in life, loneliness...God bless you

[@lexie02jones25]

"But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:31 Good things come to those who wait. Be strong God got's you, also goes for me. !!! God is good.

[@mrndnjn]

The embrace, in which you described, is something very similar to what I experienced. There was also a turbulent waiting period that required trusting God. I knew, from the moment, she held my hand, in the manner in which she did, that she was me Eve. Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh. When we hugged for the first time, there was something absolutely transcending. My wife and I have a spiritual connection, a love from God, that is breathtaking. Our story is unconventional, and in that place, you will find our Heavenly Father. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@1973onigiri]

Lucky you!

[@mrndnjn]

@@1973onigiri Blessed...for sure. Thank you.

[@hlc421]

Have you considered sharing your story on KZbin? That'd be amazing

[@spetrenko7149]

John Morin AMEN. GLORY BE TO GOD 🔥🔥🔥🔥 GOD continue to bless you and your wife alll the more 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@kendrajohnson4945]

The way that he looks at her warms my heart! ❤️ Beautiful couple! God bless!

[@dmckenzie7333]

...was just thinking about the way they look at each other.

[@bettytheladygod7899]

I'll be 40 by next week... single and never been married... but the holy Spirit is on this with me and I'll patiently wait

[@ChidiyaMusic]

Y’all don’t know the hope and direction you’re giving to so many folks looking for the Lord’s leading on relationships. Thanks for sharing your story!

[@nickb3463]

This gave me Hope after a heart break from from separation, years of custody battle with a narcissist. This encouraged me recommit my relationship with God and to wait on his timing... He's already blessed me by giving me my kids back and to be a able to provide for them. 😊

[@Lovelee19]

You both are the first people to perfectly put into words what I have gone through the past month, I met my fiance on 7/16 and we are getting married on 12/13. To have the experience of God's choice and someone loving you through God's eye is so amazing. I pray that everyone will have a chance to experience it.

[@NomsLoots]

Rewarded for obedience. What a beautiful love story but also a story about the faithfulness of God. May you be blessed and kept together forever you two ♥️

[@TheMendrygals]

Thank you 🙏🏼 😊

[@Arcanon10]

For which obedience were they rewarded again? The part where she had sex before marriage and he was watching pornography while they were engaged? It is utterly confounding to me how some people can commit such sins and be rewarded with a beautiful, Christian spouse at a young age while others, by God's grace, resist such sinfulness but remain alone well for years. Try being 37 and never having anyone while still remaining a virgin because, by God's grace, you desire to honor Him. Please don't misunderstand me. I am not casting the first stone; I am well aware of my own sinfulness and need for Christ's saving sacrifice. Nor am I in any position to question how and why God bestows the blessing of marriage on some but not on others. But ya ... it feels completely absurd. Then again .... the truth is that the only thing we "deserve" is death for sin. And by God's grace, we are saved from getting what we deserve. So I suppose it is foolish to feel as though one "deserves" anything, especially a spouse. Forgive me for writing this. I am not trying to denigrate you both.

[@TheMendrygals]

Arcanon10 We appreciate your openness regarding your feelings. We pray that the Father’s love reaches into the deepest parts of your heart and washes away the pain you’ve experienced/ may be experiencing. We don’t pretend to know every aspect of the Father’s will but we do believe that when we come into relationship with Jesus, He “will be merciful to their unrighteousness and their sins and lawless deeds I will remember no more.” Hebrews 8:12

[@Arcanon10]

@@TheMendrygals Forgive me for writing as I did. I was not meaning to suggest that past sins should disqualify future blessings. Such a view is legalistic at best and flies in the face of God's abundant and amazing grace. And if such a thing were true than no one would receive any blessings, least of all myself. So again, I apologize.

[@TheMendrygals]

Arcanon10 No worries! Our goal is to hear people’s heart and seek to understand. It’s so easy in our society to be so quickly offended but as the body of Christ we are called to love and be unified in Jesus. Not saying it’s always easy but it’s possible with the Lords help! God bless you! 🙂

[@bereketmamo7570]

I am 26 years old. I met my fiancé right at this time last year on a mission work. It’s very interesting when you are not obsessed about or worried about finding a man, God some how provides the right one at the right time. We will be getting married next year!!!! Honestly, God’s timing is perfect. My fiancé is my greatest blessing, after the gift of knowing Jesus Christ my savior.

[@Ebs685]

My wife and I have been married for over 47 years. Your four month relationship was kind of like ours only we did it in about 18 months. So many things you said resonated in our relationship. We have been reminiscing about our dating, engagement and marriage and couldn’t agree with you more. We are experiencing health issues right now but like I said over 47 years ago “in sickness and in health“. God bless you both and if after 47 years together, I wish and pray that your marriage is God honoring and wonderful like ours. I love the video.

[@JennyLynnMinistries]

" highway of green lights"- that is a great way to put it. When we walk in Gods Will this is the feeling. When its not Gods Will you will feel like you are walking up and escalator that is going down.

[@russelllevers9513]

I don't know why I'm so anointed by god and highly favor but I wanted to let someone know that I love God very very much

[@kelsey2882]

I for sure needed to hear this today. The Lord called me to singleness and I THINK it was Him that specifically told me “8 months, Kelsey.” It’s been about 4 months in my season of singleness and I’ve been running toward the Lord and really doing my best to focus on Him and lean on Him. Last weekend, I was talking to somebody I knew of but don’t truly know and I heard the Lord say, “this is your husband.” I was like whooaaaa what? I actually had to walk away for like 10 min to process what I heard. I KNOW that I can’t pursue this person and to be honest, I don’t even know his last name or if this person even has a relationship with God. Sooo I’m waiting on God’s timing and I know He will bring us together if that’s truly His will for me. I feel like God is still teaching me how to lean on Him and trust Him, but I thought it was pretty cool to see a glimpse of who my future husband may be. Also, realizing that up until God said “this is your husband” that every single interaction we had, was great and I for sure had been physically attracted to him. God is good and I’m waiting on Him!! Also, this is the first time that I’m not pursuing a worldly relationship and only pursuing my relationship with God!!! Thanks for sharing your story. Keeps giving me faith! 🙌🏼✝️

[@TheMendrygals]

That is so amazing Kelsey! Thank you for sharing. When we allow God to write our love story He exceeds so many expectations we can have. God bless!

[@lisamedla]

I screamed when I saw the first three lines but I wanna hear your story when it gets to just think altar and after😃😃 Reminds me we all hear God in our own personal way

[@kimberlymawi]

hey girl! this is beautiful- how do you know if its God's voice vs our own thoughts?

[@shaniquelovejesus9558]

The Lord told me six months and I am not two months into being celibate and happy. Best part of being pure is I am growing deeply in His love and I am grateful for what he is doing in my life.

[@shaniquelovejesus9558]

kimberly m his sheep know his voice. And God will give revelation in bible verse. For me I heard the Lord voice all the times because I have a Relationship with God, and everything He told me comes to pass.

[@TheNewLifeOfFienie]

Aaaaawe! You guys made me cry!! 😭 Your love for the Lord and Jesus is so beautiful! I'm already 40 and after almost dying during my explant surgery in March, I connected more to God than before. He gave me my life back! 🙌🏽 The past months have been wonderful and slowly but surely I was saying goodbye to my old life and habits. On the 22nd of September I will be baptized, because I finally feel ready for it. In this season of singleness God is enough. I'm already 40 years old, but my deepest hope is to be married one day and have a child with my husband. I don't know if that will ever happen, but like you guys said: I'm trusting God's timing. Thank you for this video!! It gave me hope again! Big hug from the Netherlands!! ❤

[@TheMendrygals]

This is so beautiful, thank you for sharing! We are so glad you’re okay and growing in the Lord! Big hugs back from the US! 🤗♥️♥️

[@beccakirk4367]

Thank you for sharing! I’m believing God for my future husband and He’s given me so many dreams of him & I know he’s on his way & I completely trust the Lord’s timing even when it’s hard to wait! This was so encouraging & great reminder that God’s timing is PERFECT!

[@russelllevers9513]

All the best

[@russelllevers9513]

Your picture looks very beautiful

[@Jabberndi]

@@russelllevers9513 ask her for her nbr

[@Bo7bbsie]

This video has been in my recommended list for quite some time and I've been avoiding it....low and behold it is exactly what I need to hear 😬 Thank you for sharing! 😊

[@lexie02jones25]

Mine too. I first watch just a few minutes then stopped, now it has been in recommendation list, i just gave in and watch.

[@gracet189]

Girl same

[@tmw7550]

Lexie02 Jones me too! And sooo glad I finally watched the rest of it. Was just what I needed to hear in this season

[@adielegrace5135]

Mine too..haha..just watched it today and I was in tears.

[@jdfodio]

Ditto. I've been avoiding it like it's coronavirus. 😂 When I finally clicked on it, I planned to "listen" to it while multi-tasking, but a message popped up where the play button is that said, "This cannot be played in the background." Refresh. Still there. Refresh again. Still there. When I mentally decided to focus all my attention on it, the play button reappeared. God is all over this testimony! So I will try to listen to it for real. 36 minutes is too LONG for my natural attention span. Pray for me. 😆

[@trixieloh]

This is incredibly amazing and encouraging. "His way that accompanies His will" - I will definitely keep this in my heart as I wait upon my future husband.

[@cupofclaudia]

Thank you so much for sharing this, it has blessed me immensely. My boyfriend and I have broken up because God had called us to seek him and work on ourselves in this time. He’s calling us to wait, and hasn’t said whether he has a future for us as husband and wife. Your willingness to wait and seek the Lord had encouraged me so much. I believe the Lord has told me that he will be my husband, but I will be patient in waiting on the Lord, walking in His way and timing. God bless you guys and your beautiful marriage ❤️

[@Liz.Arnold]

Claudia Blair I’m going thru this now. Hope things worked out for you

[@sharonvineetha536]

I'm going thru the same

[@naithokhaywng359]

God's timing is always the best timing.... Well i am waiting for my partner i know its not the time yet

[@Itslalajamera]

Omg my heart i accidentally click on this video I was supposed to be looking at how to take pictures by myself. I’m literally thankful for you both for sharing this it is all about his timing and him writing the story

[@silvanavalderrama]

I broke up with my boyfriend 4 mother's ago because God told us we were not prepared... Wether he is the one or he is not, this just encouraged me to really believe that he is preparing me for what is yet to come.

[@beterjohn1354]

Single for 9 yrs.. i have this deep faith that i am gonna end up with an amazing partner.. just trusting god’s timing.he is protecting me !

[@brennaautumnaguilar4910]

You guys are hilarious 😂 the part about you running away from him lol

[@TheMendrygals]

haha

[@louisecarlatorres2367]

Hahaha

[@missleigh9480]

Its true LOL im the same 😂 I know who he is and when I get around him I get the unction from the Holy Spirit to walk away hahaha The Holy Spirit is like “you can say hi and a give a small friendly hug but thats it. Walk away” hahaha

[@thelifeofbekah]

I really needed this, thank you for sharing!! I've recently come to the Lord and I had walked into a church about a year ago and there was one guy on stage singing worship and he just caught my attention.. I ended up never meeting him, or talking to anyone that day at church and didn't go back till the first Sunday of this year. He was up there singing again and the same feeling came to me. I ended up meeting some of the other young adults at the church and actually started talking to this guy for a while and it was great, I loved it. But it was clear that it was a friendship, nothing more. A few month later a few people (including this guy and I) went on a weekend adventure stayed in cabins and did some hiking and it was awesome. But I have asthma, so I can have difficulty with hiking mountains and need to rest every so often. This guy was sick at the time so he also wasn't moving very fast so we were the two trailing people of the group... And I really enjoyed it, actually. I started really developing feelings for him and it's been over 8 months since I first talked to him and there have been so many times when the group has done outings or just hung out or at bible studies and what not and in my head I'm like "Ooo, maybe he'll finally ask me out" and he never did. So I started thinking, maybe I should ask him out.. and every time I want to ask him out, I end up backing out and just not asking him, now realizing it's the Holy Spirit telling me to wait so I can grow closer to God before a person. And just the other day I had a breakdown and went to one of the pastors we talked and prayed and it's like all the pieces are starting to fall into place because I was thinking about some things, went to youtube and this video was in my recommendations. I saw it and was like "nah" and clicked on a different video and then quickly went back and clicked on this vide because I felt the Holy Spirit telling me to watch this. And it has opened my eyes up so much and I can't begin to thank you for posting this video! So thank you.

[@llykeanazo9811]

I believed that, it is not a coincidence that i saw your video on my youtube wall and clicked it.. So many encouraging message! ❤️❤️❤️ And i think, some of the situation and sharings, is the answer to my doubt...the current situation i am in. God is good! 😢😢😢 Thank you for sharing your story and testimony guys! ☺️

[@Jesscalmvision]

I can’t explain how timely this is. Wow. Thank you Jesus for using KZbin to speak to me and my heart. This is everything I needed to hear. The wait. The promise and a wait. Thinking you heard God, having confirmation and then a wait. I’ve been questioning if the wait is worth it and if I even heard him and I have a peace again and a hope. Thank you so much!

[@frankmartorana]

Wow. At first, I thought he is the lucky one because she is super cute. By the end, I thought, wow she is lucky because he is just awesome. Thanks for this. That was a wonderful, encouraging story and testimony to the incredible path God has for us if we follow Him.

[@elizabethgrosvenor153]

That comment about "just because God's said that this is in your future, doesn't mean that now is the right time to reach out and take it" ... that's a gut-punch to me. Because that's exactly what happened to me, and it ruined my life. Shattered my peace. Broke my heart. God is still good. He still provides sweet comfort. But there's still definitely more pain than joy these days. These years. And I'm still largely living in a wasteland with no visible hope or future in my life. Wandering around in circles, no idea what to do next. At the same time, it does actually help, too. Because now at least I can see the reason (or some of the reason) why I ended up here, what made it all come unglued. So thank you for that. And knowing what happened last time is halfway to knowing how to make sure it never happens again, so thanks for that too. Thanks. Thanks.

[@saintsinclair]

I can 💯 relate to this

[@SovereignMoment]

"There is His will that accompanies His way!" I needed to hear that!! God bless you both and your future together!

[@chaviscutz330]

This is goals 🙏 I met the one she instantly activated the King In me ... yeah from that moment on I knew. Ever since I’ve followed my lord harder then ever I’ve prayed n prayed n now I just wanna honor god more then ever I’m willing to wait on my Queen. She everything plus more God willing 🙏😭 u guys are beautiful truly motivating.

[@Merida1992]

Hello!!! That was absolitelly a blessing to me, thanks for sharing! My story goes like this: I became born again Christian in 25 July 2017 and single since then.I had really one of the best jobs in my town when the Lord showed me that I have to quit and go and work on a ship and I did so. I worked on two ships and spoke with many many people about God but interesting part was that I met this guy with the most beautiful eyes ever seen and I notice it because every time I look at him he was already looking at me and at this time I was really very low in my self esteem thinking it is not possible guy like him to like me. So I went out of the ship and prayed about him and I opened my bible randomly just to spent time with God and I start to read this verse of song of solomn which says I finally found the one my soul love so imagine my shock of it and before I continue a woman stop by and ask me jf I read the bible I said yes and she invited me to a worship service that they make on a ship one per year, unfortunately it was later this evening and I had to be at work but it was for me a 100% confirmation that the Lord is speaking to me. I kept praying and one day while I was at work and see him I hear this voice on my right side this is the man you're going to marry and very very worm and surprising feeling goes on my body I start to even laugh because I would never say this to myself I was very low self esteem thinking is no chance somebody to like me the way I was. I finally found his profile on social media saying on his cover " I belong to Jesus" so I kept praying and same time it was exactly as u said I felt I locked eyes with him and then this urge to run away because I was not ready. The very last evening before I go home and finisb the season I ask him for a moment outside of the restaurant where we were with the crew and I have this urge to ask him for his necklace, he said it was a Cross and he share with me he has near death experience and hear Jesus told him not time for him yet so he came back to. Life and he said he was a beliver. The thing is he had girlfired who cheated on him many times and he was totally heart broken and I couldn't understand how is possible this to be my husband and he is not single but your story helpa me a lot. Now we do not have any contacts we finish the job and the only way we meet will be in God's timing. Later when I go home I felt I want to check this restaurant it was in Germany and I di not speak German and imagine my surprise when I saw the name of the restaurant was " The holy spirit"... God is so great and it ks the best when he write our love stories and to be honest I will wait all my life for this guy if God said it is him

[@LiLisLounge]

The love between you two is so palpable! Thank you for sharing this beautiful & powerful testimony. I'm 31 & still waiting for the person GOD has for me. I know that the wait will be worth it.

[@madisonmcklintic7004]

Think about how blessed their kids will be to have parents who are so focused on God! 😩 They will have such good role models to watch❤️

[@johnc9926]

So encouraged by your testimonies, and thankful for how carefully and delicately you two obeyed the leading of the Holy Spirit even regarding with the seemingly harmless actions. Thankful for the Godly counsel you guys are guiding with! Good pointers when my future spouse comes! Blessed by you guys, excited to see what God continues to do through you guys!

[@valerielinares2068]

From watching this video and reading some of the comments, it really goes to show that His sheep know His voice (John 10:27). There's no mistaking his voice. Of course, we should always test the spirits (1 John 4:1) and seek biblical counsel (Proverbs 1:5). I, too have heard the Spirit say certain things to me, making certain promises. It hasn't come to fruition yet. However, one thing I have learned is how discouraging it can be when what God has said contradicts our life circumstances. And if I can encourage anyone who has heard the voice of the Spirit and received sound, biblical confirmations - yet, your circumstances contradict what the Spirit has told you - trust God anyway. He does not lie or break His promises (Numbers 23:19). Trust Him anyway. He knows what He's doing. If His promise hasn't come through yet and you're worried and fretting about it - don't. If it really is God's will, it will happen in His timing and in His way. And if it's not His will, it's not and that's okay too. Either way, trust Him. It is so much easier to surrender these things to God than to worry about things you can't control. If you get nothing else out of this post at least get this: Trust in Him. He's got this. Trust Him.

[@JTlifecoaching]

Wow thanks a lot! I’m in a situation exactly what you describe. In my heart I know feel it from God but when I try to reason out in my mind its not possible we’re from different culture, different age group, we live in different provinces,,,, it goes on, so i just wanna dismiss it but In my heart I cant

[@KaRiNa-pj9sb]

I literally wanted to just cry...and give up on waiting on God's plan and just make my own plan even though I know I will eventually get hurt and ask God to help me out of it. Or when I think who am I for God to bless me like that.... It feels like I need encouragement every day and today your comment has gave me exactly what I needed.

[@roseroyaltyy]

Wooowww thank you Lord that this video popped up in my recommended!! Earlier this year I had to heal from walking away from someone who wasn't right for me, and I made the decision to seek God and stay single because I'm still growing in my relationship with Him and learning to hear His voice. I used to be so obsessed with the idea of finding a boyfriend or my future husband, but God keeps encouraging me to wait for the person He has for me and I feel so much more peace and confidence in that. Even in the past month there've been several men showing interest in me and it feels like I'm being bombarded with distractions but I'm learning to keep my eyes fixed on God. Thank you so much for this!! His timing is perfect.

[@GandiMoenthe]

I’ve been praying for someone who I can serve the Lord with for the rest of my life for such looong time. And, God’s timing is perfect. For some reasons this video appeared on my timeline. And I subscribed that quick ☺️☺️☺️ Thanks for the testimony ❤️❤️❤️

[@prophetess_jblessings]

Hi❤️

[@maunder01]

Trials will come. Keep your mind set on things ABOVE. God bless.

[@elsybuligwa]

Wow, I will never find the words to fully describe how this has blessed me. Watched this video just at the right moment. Keep doing what you're doing. God is in this place! You are impacting and changing lives in ways you may never know! God bless you.

[@birdgirl10]

This was very encouraging, thank you! To see how God blessed y’all through your obedience is truly encouraging. I have been single for almost a year now and it has been hard to wait, especially since I have that great desire to be a wife. This was a great reminder that we never know how God will move and that our waiting produces perseverance and is not for nothing when we press into Him! And that when He releases that blessing, it is better than anything we could have ever imagined!

[@GodMoments]

This was definitely something I needed to hear ❤️especially when you said that just because God gave you vision doesn’t mean you need to pursue it immediately. He will provide the right timing!!

[@imanigaspard30]

Wow. Such a beautiful story. It's like it's disguised as a "love story" but really is just a "trusting God story". I am so happy for you guys!❤

[@vanessaquintero7315]

So very true! I had just gotten out of a relationship with a man I had known for a while was my husband. We’ve had plenty of confirmation including a church prophet who God allowed to speak to us through. This was the second time we had rushed out ahead of God’s timing and sadly it failed. I still have faith in us however I am just now realizing the importance of Gods timing. Praying for blessings to you both! And Dave, I can relate to God telling me with His still, small voice who I am to marry. Thank you for the encouragement!

[@Ceeelk_LoveJesus_]

Thank you for sharing your godly love story. Watching this in 2024, this has been in my watch later playlist for maybe 5 years and I finally watched it today and this speak volume for me, I turned 29 this week and never dated anyone so been in my season of singleness all my life for now and the lord has been so good for me in season when I start to loose hope in love and marriage (because of all the bad things I see around me like divorces) your story makes me hope again. God is good ! 5 years later, I hope your marriage is still as beautiful and happy as it seems to be in this video. God bless you and your family.

[@R2BMinistry]

oh my goodness. His pickup line was sooo funny. "I'm sure I'll see you again." then he was out! hahaha

[@aryanavelasco]

Thank you for sharing your story. I think it's hard to trust and let everything go to the Lords will. Your love story is a perfect example of just surrendering your love life to the one that knows us better than we know ourselfs. I really needed to hear this. As he is calling me to have patience. I believe I know who my person is, I just think God is trying to teach me patience with this. This video just proves to me if it's God's will and in his plan he will come back to me. I just need to surrender my self completely to him and i will feel his presence the same way I felt it when the relationship started and even in the break up. (As weird as it may sound. I felt God's hand in it in every part of the relationship the way I haven't felt with anyone before.)

[@Timi1111]

If its not Gods timing.. Its not God... 🙌.. You guys look too good together😍😳

[@madisonmcklintic7004]

Tolulope Ogundari they really do! They look so happy 😩❤️

[@SuperRiya16]

Beautiful how Dave has been so HONEST and vulnerable as How GOD works and that sign of his confirmation that warmness is just so supernatural!! 🥰

[@jinzhouyang1758]

So encouraged by your testimonies.I am a sister from China and I am waiting to meet someone who loves God.

[@aerialleibacher7194]

This is such a beautiful love story.... Gods timing is everything

[@phemiemichael9859]

you guys make such a cute couple. the way you look at each other tho!!!! sweet. God bless your home

[@TheMendrygals]

Thank you, thank you! ☺️

[@juanitamiller8888]

You’re story is absolutely amazing!! Brings so much hope to me and confirms that I’m hearing right from God to rest in his arms while I’m waiting on what I believe he’s told me concerning my future husband!! Thanks so much for sharing your heart in this!! We need more people like you guys sharing on KZbin!!

[@lydiaheelu2681]

Still my most favorite God love story on KZbin. I watch other love stories but I keep coming back here again and again 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@TheMendrygals]

God bless you Lydia!

[@jumokesamuel177]

Finally a born again couple!!! I've been looking for this.

[@oceanapierson]

“I had known everything that love wasn’t.” WOW !

[@catherine9808]

So happy I found this, I’ve spent afternoon upset , I met a man a Muslim man separated with two kids living in my country in Europe. We met after talking for a month and I’ve been alone since Jesus saved me from occult two years ago. I’ve been praying for a husband as I’m almost 40 now and I got a bit swept up by this man but I just know it’s not from God and it’s really me following my own will. I respect his faith however I know in my heart it would be so difficult and God wants me to wait for him to lead me . It’s so hard it really is , my trust is in Jesus

[@delilahspivey1093]

Thank you for producing this video. I saw it pop up in recommended videos and I went "Enough already. I'm done with these videos." But I kept looking at the words "God's timing," and I clicked on it. I've been hearing so many messages on kronos and kairos that I had to hear this. I was meant to see this video. Kairos: the right, critical, opportune moment. I believe this right time is soon to happen for me even though I've been waiting a super long time at this point, but I'm quite happy to learn this about how God operates. He's got it all in control. My job is to keep believing versus messing everything up with impatience and doubt.

[@TheMendrygals]

Yes! So good ☺️☺️☺️

[@oliviabokalli4620]

@@TheMendrygals I ask myself the same questions concerning you that the lady of earlier asked you .🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@theresastephens6146]

I literally discovered this video in my feed. Thank you for the encouragement and the admonishment to trust God. “A highway of Green lights.” If it’s not Gods timing it’s not God’s Will. Confirmation.

[@luizac1329]

Hi guys I just wanted to thank you for posting this video because I am so incredibly encouraged!! You guys popped up in my recommendation page and I was intrigued by your title 'God's timing in relationships'. I am 25 and as much as I embrace my singleness I do struggle to believe that I will meet an amazing man of God.... so thank you, this video was just the reminder I need for understanding the importance of God's timing. God bless you guys! Much love Luiza x

[@annblessed111]

This man should be pastor,he's full of words of wisdom,knowledge..the lady is so graceful,mature,wise..they have different personalities but they gel so perfectly..new subscriber

[@TimiKomo]

I love that, “His will is accompanied by His way.” 🙌🏾

[@CanDancee13]

Im watching this while getting ready for school and that was a mistake...I’m bawling! Beautiful love story and beautiful hearts. ❤️

[@jrios109]

The last time I dated someone was in high school. I've been waiting on God since 2014 now... I'm still waiting... Thank you for your encouragement guys!

[@doredo329]

"A lot of times we forget about His Way that accompanies His Will..." what a profound statement! Your story is so encouraging and I love hearing how God works to bring two together for His Kingdom marriages! Amen bro for your obedience 💪🏾🙌🏾

[@MsLaDiiShOrTy]

This was super helpful because there is this guy at my church that these feelings I have don’t seem to go away no matter what I do. We have barley ever talked to each other we have had awkward eye contact but still never really had a conversation. But these thoughts and dreams won’t go away but also I think in my singleness God wants me to draw near to Him. I just don’t want to feel distracted and I feel like I get distracted by him. I fasted over this a couple times and the feelings for him are still there

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Beautiful story. I needed this reminder to let go of the pen even in my mind and trust God’s timing and His ways. My expectations must be surrendered too. God is faithful to His Word and he is not a liar. So I walk by faith and not by sight. Blessings and favor to you both.❤

[@marissab7365]

Wow wow wow! What a beautiful testimony of Gods faithfulness as well as your patience and faith in Him through the journey! Thank you so much for sharing!!

[@csdcreations]

Let me just say that I'm heavily in a season of being in awe of God's timing in this area of my life. I'm so thankful you guys shared this. Thank you!!

[@fushiaangel]

Thank you for sharing! This was super encouraging, especially when it gets hard during the wait

[@karenr9591]

Amazing testimony thank you for sharing I'm 43 and trusting God for marriage...thank you for the encouragement...God's continued blessings to you both.

[@traceyann1269]

I admire the intimacy you both share with each other. I love seeing Godly relationships like this. I'm 32 and I'm finally learning to surrender my love life to God and really trust that He will never go back on His word but they will prosper wherever He sends it. Thank you for encouraging me. 🙂 I've always said to myself that my wedding wouldn't take long either. If God confirms it, why delay? 😍

[@hillarya.verdugo8086]

wow I’m in tears, how sweet. God is so good and his timing is always perfect... i really needed to hear this 💛

[@AC-bm3dx]

Very encouraging video on doing things Gods way and on His time!!

[@a.praise7]

this is one of my favourite testimonies to come back to. the way that you speak about the Lord and the Holy Spirit is so beautiful and is a testament to your faith. It’s hard to articulate the goodness of God but you do it so well. Thanks for sharing and I pray God continues to be with you and your family 💖

[@inspirationalflo]

A much needed video for me! God knows what I’m going through right now so this is very helpful. Thank you Jesus for Your obedient servants to share their testimony’s and experiences for the rest of us.

[@jenniferwalsh1731]

This spoke to my heart, thank you! And that description of love, exactly me right now. Praise God He is so good!

[@myashesforHisbeauty]

THE BEST video I have seen on KZbin thus far on this topic. I give Our Father honour and praise for you both, may He continue to bless your beautiful union in Christ Jesus’ Mighty name. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@simmar813]

This is so good. That small voice told me after a phone call I had with a friend that he was the man that I was going to marry and then God confirmed it a couple dreams later. I really needed to hear this as the day I received my confirmation about him we abruptly stopped speaking but I was still getting confirmations about him. This video was right on time as I am reminded that God makes everything beautiful in it’s time (Ecclesiastes 3:8) and it’s not for me to force things. I’m trusting the process and giving God the pen🙌🏾

[@donyadrewitt5265]

This video popping up for my viewing is indeed evidence of God's perfect timing. There were so many golden nuggets you shared. One thing that stuck out to me is how the Lord told you to "put down your pen." I felt that! Continue to allow God to use you and may His blessings continue to chase you down and overtake you. Be B3 (blessed beyond belief)!

[@yolisabeauchamp1088]

What a beautiful message and story, thank you for this very useful advice. It's so important to spend your single days leaning into God and getting really intimate with Him. There is so much to do for the kingdom of God, you can be a blessing to others while you wait for God's timing.

[@yeajinpark278]

I really love how the holy spirit is so alive in you guys, it is beautiful to see♥️ This video came up on my recommendations and I know it isn't just a coincidence. Thank you for sharing and I'm learning so much from you guys.🥰 God bless🧡

[@Africangyal]

Wow I came in expecting to feel only butterflies and giddiness. I felt that and so much more. Depth, confirmation, peace and holiness. I am blessed by this.

[@misst2098]

Thanks Guys, this was really helpful and revealing. I am in that place in my life where I believe the Lord is pulling me closer to Him and Regardless of the outcome, I know that I am on the right path. The message in your story has really encouraged me.Thank you for sharing.

[@laysslayysslaays]

amen ! Praise God for your testimony ! What a Mighty God we serve !!!

[@cadmarbusinesssuite9155]

I am truly touched by your love story. May God keep you alway married and in love.

[@brooklynnnorris7960]

Thank you for sharing. It couldn't be easy to share all that. But I am young and wanting God's will so much. Thank you for sharing. God bless. I love what she said about dropping the pen and letting God write the love story.

[@izuko9225]

What a beautiful story and testament to how God has worked through your relationship. I pray that you both will forever see each other through the lens of Christ as precious children who have been forgiven and wiped clean. What a gift! What a treasure! The Lord is good

[@lidiabara6534]

❤️❤️ I think I’ve met my husband but I feel like god is telling me to wait for him at this time ... thanks for sharing !