Our New Morning Routine | C5 C6 Quadriplegic

[@coleandcharisma]

Okay everyone. Reply with your submission to name my gigantic zit, my vote is Mt. Vesuvius 😂😂. Also, peep Charisma’s shirt and make sure you register to vote! - Cole

[@meganjasso5740]

Mt. Pimplmanjaro!

[@chrissyfoley7361]

Roll with Cole & Charisma Godzilla because I needed a good reason to attach this video. 😆 kzbin.info/www/bejne/o6a4i52lq7R5iMk

[@tessaelisabeth7393]

I am voting to name the zit invader zim!

[@kayteegrace8283]

Mount zitsuvius

[@beverlylatimore3923]

Already!

[@margaretmaina3331]

Imagine how happy his parents are....knowing that their son he is in hands and with someone they can trust....may almighty bless you girl....

[@adriennesmith2133]

Amen!!! Cole's mother has an awesome daughter in law!!!

[@thandekamudyara3665]

True she is a blessed soul

[@beverlylatimore3923]

Yesss, the strength of a woman!

[@debrannkaye8874]

I bet they are it takes the responsibility off of them come on people be realistic y'all know what's going on

[@kimuhuivy]

true,very true,amen and amen

[@AB-fm4on]

Wow. She does all of that everyday and I sometimes don’t even want to be bothered to make dinner for my husband. This is another level of commitment.

[@davidasingleton8943]

Girl I barely want to tell mine good morning and she doing all this! Lol. I need to do better man!

[@sabrinavlogs416]

@@davidasingleton8943 🤣🤣🤣 same here

[@mamads5551]

If we were out in this reality we would do it we truly loved them. They are true love

[@colleen6286]

@@davidasingleton8943 😂🤣😂

[@kitasamuel4908]

@@davidasingleton8943 🤣🤣🤣

[@mdooms76]

This is TRUE love. Not sex, not material demands, but total selflessness. She is so sweet and he is very appreciative. You can tell they were meant to meet and be together.

[@debrannkaye8874]

The key word is appreciative you are absolutely right because ,if he wasn't in the condition he is in he probably wouldn't look twice at her look at his before videos you don't see him or his family breaking down any doors to get to any black females or people and none trying to get to him as a matter of fact I don't see but one black guy around them and that was to to a school function how sweet selfless non-sexual would you be in that situation I bet you wouldn't touch it with a ten-foot pole y'all kill me with this syrupy b ull s h i t it is what it is .....

[@frankcaliendosucks]

@@debrannkaye8874 nice racism, bro

[@reeseewhitfield1734]

@@frankcaliendosucks what is he even talking abouttt

[@meh9104]

Reesee Whitfield Just another troll. Don’t mind them

[@StelleHSF]

Well sex isn't particularly bad in a relationship, its a way of showing affection like hugging, kissing, etc. Its not exactly the same but it is still an action. Sex is making love or showing love to your significant other. I hope that we don't portray that sex is a bad thing and that it is indecent. Just because a relationship has sex it doesn't mean its not true love, of course there is relationships that were builded up by sex but that is a different topic. My point is that sex is natural, it is a way of multiplying or reproducing and showing affection. Just remember to be responsible when it comes to sex. Im not gonna say anything longer but just I wanted to state my opinion .

[@mariamasinah6135]

She fell straight from Heaven and Cole caught her. I love you two. So much love for each other.

[@StaceyHerewegrowagain]

I feel the same way about these two angels 😇 They are so much fun and full of life❤

[@daniellesagboze3260]

❤

[@BFFiong]

Charisma’s parents definitely knew what they were doing when they named her. She is definitely charismatic! I love it

[@MillyMilkUbisi]

My daughter's name is Charisma too ❤️❤️and she's 9.....

[@Chels_unique93]

I was saying the same thing 😆

[@adriandaniels1]

Was thinking the same thing. Would have been really awkward of she was super shy lol.

[@mleef.s1153]

@@MillyMilkUbisi Beautiful name. ♥️

[@dailylife9257]

My husband is paralyzed from 7 years and it's not easy with 3 kids God bless her and me and give us strength.

[@davionhubert4938]

God and Jesus bless you guys 🙏🥺

[@mirjanapucarevic2105]

You are very special person, but sometimes remember yourself, I was caregi er for my parents until the endso I know a little bit about the situation,. Lots of love!

[@daneseahippler-grantfrew5720]

My ex had a spinal cord injury and Glioblastoma cancer...his daughter and I were his caregivers!

[@suzannefigueroa9797]

God bless you guys. Can I ask how do you do it? Do you get help?

[@dailylife9257]

@@suzannefigueroa9797 my in laws help me im from pakistan

[@Peshinswitzerland]

Let’s protect this woman at all Cost 🤗🤗 she came straight from heaven 😍

[@kathycusumano2445]

He came straight from heaven too

[@user-vz3fh6oj7d]

She really is amazing 😊👍

[@keekeemason256]

That's what love will do! The Lord God bless this sweet and awesome couple!!!

[@Meamaw99]

Truly a ‘virtuous woman.’ I just came across these videos today & they’re truly an inspiration. God bless you all!❤️🙏

[@laila-zc6mz]

Heading out soon

[@kristinekayszambiana7631]

I don't know why I'm crying😭...may God protect this marriage. I love you guys. Representing Zambia.

[@CVRenee]

I cry every video...I think it's because witnessing this type of love is rare & so beautiful & heartwarming.

[@latoyadent3703]

Same 🤍

[@yourwordmyprayer1334]

Kristen ♥️Amen beloved sis

[@Naluca1988]

Amen❤️🇿🇲

[@lynnmothibeli325]

I just wanna say most men in Cole's position wouldn't want to be filmed especially when they have special needs. Cole secure AF🔥🔥🔥

[@EmmaBGames]

"He sexy and he knows it" adding another song to the collection in the vid

[@lynnmothibeli325]

@@EmmaBGames 👏🔥

[@lenald6618]

He’s knows he’s loved 🥰

[@lynnmothibeli325]

@@lenald6618 Ain't nothing more satisfying than that❤.

[@battlerudee]

He has an amazing woman by his side ❤️❤️❤️

[@AliceAndriani]

Ok, but how is it possible to fall in love with a couple in only 25 minutes? I love their energy 🙌🏻

[@JayKay4L]

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[@mamesmck5236]

Saaaaammeeeeee, I can't even!!

[@beverlylatimore3923]

Because you recognize bull!! And know the real!!

[@adesidaoluwaseun2390]

Ikr

[@soniamerabtene1763]

I think everyone should support this couple .that’s what we call true love (Never had this many likes thank you for everyone. I feel famous lol )

[@ammaarahmia9825]

How we wanted me before you to end

[@daneseahippler-grantfrew5720]

What she is doing...I've done it! My ex... my baby father was diagnosed with cancer "Glioblastoma" same as John McCain...and he had a "spinal cord injury"...it's a lot of work, you have to "love" a person to insert enemas and clean up poop without making him feel bad or embarrassed...you best believe it is called "love, compassion, kindness and hopeful for your LOVE one to be comfortable...December 31st 2019 we lost him. His daughter and I was his care givers...Continue to RIPARADISE ❣ we miss you 😢...I still loved him... with the love of GOD in your heart anyone can do it! GOD bless this couple 💑...

[@kurtstreets4644]

@Soniabella cole is a legend

[@sonofthepower8597]

How do you know that's true love, cause they post some videos?? Do you live with them?

[@daneseahippler-grantfrew5720]

@@sonofthepower8597 who are you responding to?

[@rayarena879]

I'm impressed with how honest Cole and Charisma are. I love how they discuss everything even bowl movements and they do it in such a way that its not awkward or unpleasant. They are doing a wonderful service teaching us about what it is like to be a quadriplegic. Thank you for your honesty and down-to-earth way of being.

[@carolynmacgregor4765]

I love you too you are amazing 🙂👍🏽

[@miemj.8075]

Their optimistic attitude makes you evaluate yourself.

[@Xxaire31]

Just thinking that. I need to rethink my attitude about life in general.

[@mercyk6064]

Like for real.

[@kathydkeesee1284]

U are right about that cause the whole time I'm watching this wife I'm thinking to myself would I b able to do it, just being real don't know. I can hear my girlfriend say I could. Much love to that couple.

[@LUckybones25]

Facts! My problems seem so petty. I’m humbled. 😳

[@thammuh2193]

Exactly. That is what I kept saying to myself since I watched thier interview in SBSK.

[@MarMar5654]

Now this is the true meaning of relationship goals, find someone who will stick with you no matter what like these two, I wish them a long and happy life.

[@cloegreene7978]

God bless you and Cole two good hearted people. Love you guys😘

[@lilianmtukwa3563]

💯

[@darkbionic1044]

True. And now is hard to find. Your other half should be also your friend

[@thenativeunicorn2339]

I love you both... this relationship is the truth definition of love

[@darkbionic1044]

The Native Unicorn absolutely I agreed. People should have that fun within their relationship. Relationships are so serious and not relax now a days. Is more headaches now more than ever 🧐

[@brandydejesus1675]

This is like other worldly beautiful... This is what love is...... Makes everyone else seem so ungrateful

[@renataaholcomb9929]

Me!!! I’m so ungrateful for everything that god has blessed me with. I directly spit in his face everyday that I complain. This is amazing. I love them and I love you brandy for making this comment.

[@renataaholcomb9929]

AD NYC No, I believe she meant this is love because many bail out on their significant other when times get hard. Do you know how many people lose the legs and their SPOUSES cannot deal with the pressure of taking care of them so they leave? It happens all of the time. Especially people with lifelong handicaps and illness. She meant love does not stop because someone isn’t how they used to be or is totally dependent. She expresses her love by taking care and he expresses his by being grateful. It is beautiful. I’m confused what was wrong with this comment?

[@renataaholcomb9929]

Non Non Sounds like blaming the victim but okay. Everyone needs support. Anger is apart of human emotion. We all express it sooo I’m not understanding your point

[@renataaholcomb9929]

Non Non Not really? I was sick a few years ago and my husband took such good care of me. I was mentally not even here. He was my everything and still continues to be. That’s circumstantial and grief looks differently to different people. But thanks for the share!

[@workbench9670]

@Non Non Who hurt you? This is clearly very raw for you...

[@horsecrazyky]

This women is without question one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever seen. She is just such a bright light. What an amazing couple! Their kindness and love and respect for each other is so beautiful and inspiring and I think all couples should take a page from their book. This is just unbelievably touching and I’m now in a puddle of tears. Bless their hearts. So much respect 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@firestorm7977]

Honestly you guys have restored my faith in the human race with everything that’s going on.

[@michelle3254]

1000%

[@jaydenrobato2182]

Yeap definitely !!!

[@lovesong6963]

Hello this video brought tears to my eyes this was my life for 19 years I took care of my son until he passed away 5 years ago I miss him so much we danced and played and sung songs he was my bestfriend I've been having a hard time finding myself never thought I would be without my son Kimani. You two are so special because this is how I imagined his life with someone who loved him unconditionally. Thanks for sharing your life with us you two are a joy to watch

[@NatureXXLover]

I wish u all hapiness. What about some volunteering with kids with special needs. I am sure it will make u happy.

[@vicpav2533]

May God rest his soul and May God please bless you with love and happiness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jayton7343]

sending love ❤️

[@slayedbykayele6008]

Oh so sad rest in peace god bless

[@jeby4lyfe]

Oh dear I can't imagine a loss of a child you've been through alot pls stay strong unfortunately my words cannot bring back your son but I hope my words an anybody else's strengthens you

[@jd-hj5ed]

My late husband was paralyzed for five years before his death. Her job is hard. Much respect.

[@lifeasjosie4602]

Fafa Mtz can I ask a question

[@lifeasjosie4602]

Can I ask a question,why does his feet shakes since you had a husband that was paralyzed I am sorry if this offend you you don’t have to answer if you don’t want to 🤍 hope your doing well

[@rebeccastokes4956]

Its nerve spasms i believe

[@lifeasjosie4602]

Rebecca Stokes oh okay thank you so much I was so curious I thought he was like that

[@ScienceadobyDrEishal]

Life As Josie hey.. these shaking movements are called fasciculations, they are seen when there is a lot of muscle weakness, indicating lower motor neuron disease (meaning the electrical signals for activity is getting through from the brain i.e the upper system is okay but there is a problem at the lower level in conducting the signal). Simply put, it indicates damaged lower nerve fibers, in his case the nerve fibers arising from inside his vertebral column inside the lower part of his neck which are responsible for conducting signals to all 4 of his limbs, have been damaged. The damage means there is no proper electrical stimulation of the muscles in his limbs so they get weak and trembly. The upper center i.e the brain tries to send the signal, the muscles tremble a little but the signal won’t go through. That’s what’s happening. If the injury had been just a little higher up in the neck where the nerves supply the chest muscles, it would have been not possible for him to breathe without support because of weak chest muscles responsible for respiration. Hope you understood, Ps I am a doctor and I’d love if you’d subscribe to my channel. Thank you 🙏

[@1sweetea]

I was sittin up here being depressed about life and then this video gave me light!💖🌟😊

[@aleciafinlayson6386]

💪🙏

[@toriford2475]

I loveee this young lady’s energy, she is so positive and motivating.

[@Suzanie100]

100%🙌🏽

[@cartierwhite_lasvegas]

Yes 💗

[@robbingrafton4364]

Sure is

[@ionildavieira3193]

Vem conhecer o meu canal 🌻,

[@misanthrope4483]

Everyone needs someone like that in their life even if they're just a friend

[@lilykamwani8748]

Ok, who in the heck are those 300 and something people who made a point to dislike this video?? These two are amazing! I’m a nurse and have worked with people who are quadriplegic due to spinal cord injuries. They were of different ages and from all walks of life. Most were very positive or had positive support systems in their lives. They handled what happened to them with grace. It is not an easy thing. I got to experience it a bit for an 8 hr shift, 5 times a day. But it’s nothing compared to what they go through 24/7. I totally admire these two. They’re an inspiration that no matter what you’re going through, stay hopeful. Stay positive. I pray they continue to keep their positive and optimistic attitude no matter what they’re going through.

[@serena7564]

Nothing but haters SMH

[@terrycrews1760]

Why are you so concerned about what people like and don’t like? It’s not our jobs to try and force people like stuff we like. For the record I liked the video. Just saying we gotta stop worrying about haters fr fr. It’s a waste of time.

[@prasadranjan1987]

They are dead people dead from inside.

[@Ashtarot77]

I used to work with a quadriplegic who didn't want pity from anyone. He did a lot of things himself in the office and had the craziest sense of humour and had a smile on his face every day. That was inspirational.

[@captaingatorgirl6892]

Bots

[@terrimassey8249]

How did I end up here? I'm not mad, I'm in love. Cole is a cutie and Charisma is an angel.

[@Misslynndance]

Terri Massey right????????? Me too. Amazing. Maybe we needed their message and vibes today. I want to move in w them, help out and celebrate w these peeps! 😊

[@upama12]

I had the same feeling few months back 😂😂😂. Binged on them.

[@gailcarey3597]

This was my routine with my honey for 10 years. You do it with such grace, Charisma. I didn’t have his family’s support. I hope you have their love and appreciation.

[@maqangazamanyezile218]

Sorry that you didn't have his Family to appreciate and support you. Hopefully your own Family was giving you the necessary support. Perhaps there were money issues- they may have thought that you wanted his money. Hopefully there were no racial issues because that hurts.

[@gailcarey3597]

@@maqangazamanyezile218 I chose to leave and he and I are on very good terms. The love between us is still there. The disrespect and tension from his family only hurt an already challenging relationship.

[@KL-xs5qq]

Ok I’m sorry but Charisma is the best name ever. That is, idk it’s just such a pretty name and it suits her ❤️

[@Ayitscharisma]

She’s literally the only other person I know with my name... well our name. I didn’t know anyone else out there had it😂❤️

[@negotinaz8992]

@@Ayitscharisma 😁😍

[@charismaarndell]

My name is also Charisma 🥰😭

[@ilikeeggs9001]

This is the first time I’ve seen so many people with the same name as me 😳☺️ It’s nice to know there’s a lot more people out there with this name!

[@user-og8tz3yl9e]

My name is Charisma also❤️

[@Lov3lychriz]

I pray my brother finds someone like you, his life drastically changed 3 years ago when he got in a terrible car accident. He has T12 spinal injury. Be blessed you guys make a great couple. You both are a blessing to one another!

[@redhairedhoe]

how old is he?

[@trinaaby3089]

That's really bad 😢

[@shayshayw8365]

How old is he? Im 34😉

[@user-sk4uk5ml7o]

How old is he ?

[@Lov3lychriz]

prance he's 24 now

[@nuggetbaby-xu8cx]

If my future husband doesn’t look at me the way Cole looks at Charisma...then I don’t want it ❤️❤️

[@lorettaballard3563]

I'm looking at my current husband with the side eye !

[@syliviamayanja1770]

Haaaaaaaaa

[@jackquelineofficial]

Yh

[@susanimmac]

😁

[@waynegrant158]

@@susanimmac so you think the same thing toò

[@arthurswan1605]

She is a extraordinary woman , This is REAL LOVE ❤️

[@marybethlongstreth186]

I have been married for 30 years to a C67 quad. I am so happy to see that you're showing peeps that it isn't a burden, although a pain in the ass at times, that there is fun and there is love. We have 5 kids, 4 grandkids and a wonderful life! Keep up the good work!

[@angelhermans5704]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now and he is also a quadriplegic. We just recently moved in together and I found a lot of the things in this video interesting and its given me some ideas so thank you! It's crazy how this randomly popped up on my feed lol

[@qbgodsangel101]

I pray everything is good for you guys ❤️🙏🏽

[@WAA-uj3ow]

Wish you a happy life guys ❤️❤️

[@ana-2643]

Thanks to the universe. 🙏❤️

[@nodrama5599]

Best of luck to you guys and i wish you the best

[@LoveMusicSound]

You guys should friends.

[@Robbo240]

My grandparents were in similar situations except my prideful granddad turned bitter, angry and hurtful. He always accused people especially my grandma of pitying him. He would verbally abuse her everyday and my grandma would cry when he couldn’t see. Seeing this man be so positive and let his wife take care of him and love him without it turning him angry and bitter is just amazing. It takes a lot of courage to let go of pride. And a lot of love and strength to take care of another human being in such a capacity. They are both strong and just amazing. Watching their videos fills my heart with joy.

[@creativedesignsbyclementin6361]

R0b_b_b _b 🌹🥰🤗♥️

[@targaryangirlalways5634]

@CaramelMocha Love You only crack if it's too much - too heavy. Carisma seems to have a lifetime of strength.

[@remyraquel4284]

I cried with joy to see two loving people who can show the World disability can be a blessing because you value each other’s strength and ability. You are teaching the World the beauty of life, the essence of happiness and kindness in hearts. I love you Cole and Charisma

[@martinswells1987]

Hello, how are you doing?

[@estephanianavacruz9885]

He needs to drink water with his medicine. If there is not enough lubrication inside the esophagus, the pills can stick into the mucous and even destroy and erode the complete wall of the organ. Please be carefull I’ve seen terrible cases of esophageal perforations due to these practice.

[@Oyinscorner]

Guys please like this comment, so they see it. Its very useful information.

[@ayeshagrace137]

This is very useful information, thank you very much dear

[@SuperSpazYT]

Could of just said drink a glass of water jeez

[@angelaparker3514]

@@SuperSpazYT Why even comment something like this?

[@simonyadig]

@@SuperSpazYT Do you just do things random people tell you to do without a proper explanation of why?

[@MChen-199]

Charisma please consider wearing a waist belt when you are doing the heavy lifting, even if you think you're not doing very much. It will keep you from unnecessary back pain and many more. Stay healthy for both of you, much love from Taiwan

[@daneseahippler-grantfrew5720]

Amen... we do get old... Thank GOD!

[@JayKay4L]

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[@franceswalker2627]

Yes, I agree. Some kind of safety belt for transfers. I used to be a CNA.

[@perturb-arte1577]

I hope she takes this advice! That lifting can accumulate over the years

[@noneyabiz_123]

THIS is the truest advice for her physical maintenance. I have lumbar and stenosis issues after years of caregiving

[@89bethann]

I don’t normally post comments. It’s not my thing. But I felt compiled to. We’re living in a really weird time full of uncertainty. I have a wonderful family around me but at times I’ve felt low and alone. I came across you channel by chance this morning and I’m overwhelmed by your love, warmth and connection to each other. You’re so full of positivity in the face of adversity....and everything is better with snuggles!

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you ❤️

[@shariffbrown04]

❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@kellischneider3255]

I almost can’t handle how much I love and admire this couple!! What a gift they are to KZbin!! 😍🙏🏻❤️

[@lorileeduran9542]

Whoa! Just found you!! Love and prayers comin' your way

[@liliankimani9524]

Amazing. I adore this couple all the way from Kenya

[@barbaraskitchen-ju]

She is such a good wife he couldn’t ask for anything better

[@deseraeward9618]

Charisma was born with the perfect name, she is very charasmatic 💓. The love they have is definitely felt by many

[@mariemarite1927]

This girl is just an angel...

[@kevindrake4529]

Charisma when you sing it is an angel's voice

[@lilbfasionworld9945]

Having your best friend as your husband or wife is every ladies and guys dreams

[@viviannegesh5228]

Exactly

[@slayedbykayele6008]

True that lol

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

nope. it's not _everyone's_ dream.

[@THEGREEDYCOUPLE]

It sure is!!! When you have your bestfriend everything is easy...

[@Cupcakekiller91]

When he got soap in his eye then opened one to see if he was good thats relatable

[@louwhitaker7656]

Wow I applaud this woman. She takes such good care of him it is unbelievable. It is hard to find nice people like her in this world anymore. God bless you sweetheart you have many Rewards in heaven.

[@alicjagodlewska1059]

Not everybody wants to be a nurse. What's wrong with that? Life can be fucking hard even when you are single... No wonder people do not an extra burden. Logical.

[@calypso7636]

@@alicjagodlewska1059 girl you did not get the point of the comment. And clean your mouth out with soap please.

[@crochetedfromTheRose]

@@calypso7636 ❤️😅

[@Leah-Owens]

I'd kill for her energy. I can't even bath myself some days because my depression/anxiety/agorophobia is so bad and to have to wake up and do that much when I can't even do it for myself. I'd give anything for your mindset you are an inspiration

[@luna-pt2gp]

what's agrophobia?

[@GlitterObsessedFreak]

Literally same

[@ashxbash1001]

@@luna-pt2gp Anxiety disorder; scared of places and situations that may cause fear, panic, and embarrassment.

[@Kelly-qv3wg]

Same, some days I struggle to let my dogs out to pee

[@KD-jv7ez]

i deal with all three as well. i wish I had the same motivation as her.

[@marcelinecherenfant2589]

She's a great wife very patient with her husband may God bless you guys.

[@msapplesauce88]

Charisma is a true angel, I bet all the men who did her wrong wished they had her now married to king cole!

[@Kayjuanaadiaries]

Periodt. Say it again!!!! ❤️😭😭😭😭

[@Elizabeth-em2zw]

I think it's so rude to say that she's an angel for being his caregiver. They love each other and this should be normalized.. It implies that he's not worthy of being loved by just anybody, and I bet he has plenty to give in to his relationship...

[@sashanafowler518]

I'm jus waiting on the right guy i dont mind if hes crippled and dont have anything at all

[@starhurd824]

TN B well said👌🏾

[@alexmaganda5827]

She really is but its love if you deeply care about someone, its nothing to them its normal ofc its alot of work and defo not always easy

[@hannagotnerves]

Charisma you have me in tears. I have recently started dating and my boyfriend is paralyzed from the waist down, but he is able to do so much on his own and I admire that about him. I think you for giving a inside look into you all lives and I greatly appreciate the knowledge because you never know who your helping and in this case it’s me and I thank you 🙏🏾

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

Blessings to you and your love❤️

[@JayKay4L]

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[@kevindickerson9513]

Charisma is a angel from the sky God bless yall I keep praying I find somebody like her one day forgot to add Cole is so inspirational

[@lelianaa4090]

Really she do everything with true Love

[@christasmith4007]

Kevin Dickerson just keep praying god has your blessing in store for you all in his timing 🤗☺️

[@Nanasrecipes]

I pray you find the love of your life as well, don't settle!

[@omadjourney]

You will definitely find someone who loves you wholeheartedly, I'm open to loving anyone but I think I would hire someone for the morning routines just for our relationship. I have a son and when he gets sick,I get sick cleaning up his sick... that's just who I am but I'm not opposed to finding love with anyone as long it works for us both. You will make some lucky woman happy one day,all in God's timing.

[@kgalalelomolaolwa4890]

You wil brother just hang in there🇿🇦

[@nash5140]

She is such an amazing person. May God bless and reward her bountifully. Such a beautiful couple.God's blessing and a happy marriage to both of you. Function and beauty is amazing.

[@martinswells1987]

Hello, how are you doing?

[@atikonda87]

God bless this couple please...give them whatever they need in their lives in Jesus name, Amen. 🙏🏾🖤

[@thediva4eva]

Standing in agreement! Amen!

[@TheOphelia10]

Amen!

[@lorrainepatterson]

Amen

[@GeoffG1959]

Amen

[@melodycruz9142]

Amen

[@roseiam]

I need Charisma's energy in the mornings. That bed looks way too comfy!

[@erickanew]

Lol that's the same thing I said

[@Marquette.115]

Yes me too

[@audrab27]

I need her energy all the time lol.

[@chikatoo]

Great teamwork!! Keep singing Charisma!

[@cavettee2010]

Me too❤❤

[@laurieh.6508]

I just found their channel by accident and wow do I love them. They both are the perfect example of how your ATTITUDE can make any situation in life worse or better. It’s all a choice.

[@wentzel812]

So true

[@dada122206]

So TRUE! Really like this comment

[@THEGREEDYCOUPLE]

I love this comment!!!

[@kiokothecuddlyquailspud1389]

I just found them too! Theyve just made the top of my fav youtube couples list! I absolutely love them!

[@enarodriguez8355]

It's refreshing to see how happy their life is amidst Cole's physical challenges! Charisma, you were created for this! Amazing!

[@trinitycombs3633]

Coming from someone who is a caregiver everyday as a job you are literally an angel! To be a caregiver as a job is one thing but to be a caregiver to someone your in a relationship with is so much deeper! You and him both deserve the world and I’m wishing you both the best in life 🥰

[@kmiche396]

Trinity I agree! I'm also in healthcare and just being HUMAN dealing with other humans, isn't easy some days, but she's so loving, kind, and graceful! I'll take her "charisma" with me to shift tonight...great reminder to be patient & stay positive!

[@cindycampbell4427]

I'm a caregiver also I absolutely love my job I love to help people This young lady has me speechless I'm at a lost for words a reminder of our dedication patience and kindness

[@dorethaherald3426]

I received a blessing just watching them. Father God continue to bless this lovely couple in your name, Amen.

[@LitMusicYT]

Hope he treats that girl with respect and love, she 1 in a million.

[@axanafoster6227]

It sounds like they get along great and love each other,at least I feel a great vibe from them.

[@Otherworldviewer]

I went to school with him and he's a sweet boy always was so I'm sure he treats her like a Queen! Hope that reassures you ahah. I can't believe this was in my reccomended tbh! Small world

[@Jose-hi5rx]

I hope she isnt doing it only for Money

[@taviaa.66]

@@Jose-hi5rx What money?

[@isabellaavila171]

Tavia A. They can qualify for social security benefits/financial help from the government.

[@linzum1812]

I know someone with Wallenberg syndrome and the issues with sweating on one side and eye appearance you describe in the begging of the video are symptoms of it (called Horner's syndrome) Wallenberg is a stroke often associated with head and spinal injuries. It’s rare so many doctors aren’t familiar with it. I’d ask for an MRI to rule anything serious out.

[@mercygrace5335]

Guys please like this comment so they can see it as it has very useful information for them.

[@serenarenae]

we need this comment to be at the top!!

[@Caligirl.8630]

Mercygrace I think if we tag them they can see the comment. @rollwithcoleandcharisma OP posted some helpful info!

[@mercygrace5335]

@@Caligirl.8630 oh I never knew that. Thanks for this tip

[@KlaraLouise.]

Oh!!

[@aadyae]

What an amazing woman. God has blessed Cole with a real angel!!!

[@miriamdavis2988]

She is beyond amazing! Crazy all the stuff that needs to be done before starting the day when for us it’s so fast. Don’t take your health for granted ppl. They are awesome!!!

[@ruthplummer2040]

I just started to watch this awesome couple I love C&C so awesome beautiful couple

[@rosettajones1161]

I am so glad they found each other! Such a beautiful couple totally.they really 💘 each other for sure. This is love in action. Some of us take getting dressed for granted and can be not so grateful. Cole and Charisma are beyond amazing because love is shown in how they support each other as well. I like how they respect and help one another in everything! WOW!! Just a blessing!

[@LostInThisGardenofLife]

Charisma is one in a million.

[@LindsayDoepel]

She's an amazing woman. She has patience and loves taking care of him. Most people wouldn't do that.

[@annenjoroge7145]

This young beautiful lady is a gift from God. Cole and Charisma match so well. May the Angels and Saints watch over them and my prayer is one day Cole will heal and walk again. God is faithful and merciful

[@crochetedfromTheRose]

He is🙌

[@griff2020]

I don’t know any two people who were more made for each other than these two. What a blessing they are to each other and to us. ❤️

[@maphutigondo4482]

From South Africa. I binge on your vlogs like everyday because at 67 yrs you continue to inspire me. Keep on keeping on. Remain blessed

[@islandbaby4704]

He is very lucky to have this woman in his life to care for him. She’s amazing. And his mom must be so happy she has someone now to take over being the caregiver to her son. I hope charisma gets a break sometime so she can recharge.

[@lilianmtukwa3563]

She is amazing and his a very lucky guy

[@vwiggins9797]

Beautiful couple. Does Charisma get to have an occasional lunch with a few girlfriends?

[@valm7314]

V Wiggins in some of their videos she always says that his family is always there to help on days where she also needs time to recharge and that communication is the key; meaning when she needs that time out she lets him know and also she said they renovated and bought appliances that help Cole to be just abit more independence.

[@vwiggins9797]

@@valm7314 thank you kindly for the info

[@neemavenance3586]

She an amazing ,wonderful woman ever👼 your already blessings darling

[@elescobars]

Big respect to Cole for being so cool with sharing such an in-depth look at the implications of day-to-day life under his condition. Charisma is great in every aspect. Very insightful video! Much love to the both of them. :)

[@janetjones6658]

Cole is going to use his two legs to walk again. That is my wish for my birthday on 29th. Great couple. God bless you both

[@hannahnguyen3454]

Yes, i hope he can walk one day and they will have many children. They will make great parents.

[@moawiyaguinoubi836]

You guys are relationship goals I swear, as a disabled guy I wish that I get have of what you guys have ♥️♥️

[@witneynaka8942]

Don't worry you will meet your loved one who will love you whole heartdly

[@lmarie8611]

She is the cutest thing ever. They both have such amazing attitudes. Seriously inspiring

[@shelbell7327]

Isn't she! Xoxo

[@raquelbarnes7192]

This made me cry thinking about my spouse. I'd never leave no matter what. There is someone for everyone. This is the perfect example of this. It also shows that love is more than just the physical and it can overcome anything. They were made for each other and it shows 😭😭😭😭. He is not a burden but an addition to her life! They struggle yes but dont we all? It's just a different hurdle. I wish them nothing but the best!

[@lawrencebrown5153]

I am a bilateral amputee and I would love to have a person like charisma in my life. I am completely jealous and blessed at the same time to see this relationship. Blessings COle and charisma.

[@Lateabullock1973]

I love them and I don't even know them. Their partnership is simply amazing.

[@sinickasdavis9619]

Yes so amazingly beautiful

[@trith72]

You have managed to find an angel on earth. Never let her go she’s special and a gift from God.

[@LifeJourneyful]

HE WON'T LET HER GO....... HE WILL NEVER FIND A BETTER ASS-WIPER

[@AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO]

WOW! What an amazing couple. I subbed this awesomeness. God bless you both.

[@ChristLedwithLeyah]

Watching your video, especially the clip of you dancing and doing everything around the house by yourself, helped me to be more grateful, patient and not complain so much. I feel like I do so much, but nothing in comparison to you. And my husband does so much to help as well. And I need to be more grateful for that and appreciate his efforts and support. Bless you two and may you both live a long, happy and healthy life together.

[@liah401]

This is the real meaning of... for better or for worse ...

[@hazooora8925]

❤️ ❤️Thats very true❤️ ❤️

[@angelapooh4911]

I cried watching this not because I feel sorry for them but because all you hear and see is negatives, they are upbeat, laughing, loving life for what it is. ❤️❤️❤️

[@latreemsmorrow7291]

That's all you're hearing...sad

[@wentzel812]

@@latreemsmorrow7291 no I think they mean that there is too much negative in the world and these two are a breath of fresh air.

[@grimesBhart2]

Father give them love and Strength and patients to go on living and loving each other forever 😍🙏❤

[@LUckybones25]

Amen to that! Bless these beautiful souls.

[@mildredwasike2802]

Amen and amen

[@nismosaki4550]

Seriously one of the most amazing women on earth! Thats true love. Someday i'll find someone half as great as you. You're an inspiration, and give all single guys out there with no significant other hope, that someone is out there for all of us.

[@moy16ful]

She is literally an angel on earth. May your cup runneth over forever!

[@LHS520]

Never seen a more precious couple in my life. And the way he looks at her makes me melt into the floor😭

[@lovelynoel5968]

I will be praying for Cole that the sweating and pinched nerve will be healed, and every procedure will go well.God bless you Cole & Charisma❤

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you! ❤️

[@kenocarter1182]

They both truly love each other. God bless the both of you.

[@sallyjones2736]

My daughter is a paraplegic. Even though she doesn’t have to do a bowel program, she does have to get up an hour earlier if we need to be somewhere early. Example, usually her day starts at 8 am but on Sunday to get to 9 am service, she will get up at 6:45. You find a routine that works and go with it. Cole, I am praying that your sweating issue gets better soon. Charisma, keep singing and dancing!!

[@MsLeonor1968]

Shoutout to all the significant others that help their mates in need ❤️

[@scarletwasilewski9259]

I love you guys! My husband as the same injury. He sustained it after a diving accident at age 29 - 2 weeks before our wedding!. Thank you for all your videos. I've yet to see them all. I love the realness y'all being to the table and the reality that is being an interabled couple! 🙌

[@shabirsakhizada7911]

Your haven

[@ilayoung461]

God bless you, I feel for you 2 God always make A way just hang in there...........

[@lifeislove3427]

Whoever disliked this video has some serious issues.. Adorable couple ❤

[@genehill2452]

He has a partner and also a angel by his side god gave him a gift for life I wish both off you the best and every good will come to both off you

[@CiafiHOLIC]

Charisma's energy is so infectious that my anxiety just went away and Cole's chill mood feels so calming. Just watching you both helped me relax and worry less about petty stuff. You guys are awesome💕

[@mercymureithi1699]

Ikr, I need to be this positive with life

[@karenedlinton9436]

I so agree with you!!

[@cinma4890]

Totally agree. I have a lot on my plate but watching them is inspiring. She is such a hard worker and he really does a lot on his part. Very nice couple.

[@mandychapin9411]

A lot of people doubt that there is a person out there meant to be with them, and believe ending up with someone is just random. The two of you together prove we are all meant to be with one special person. ❤️😍

[@MrHighyellowred]

Bs

[@leset8604]

You two are so great together. Great energy. It looks like you have so much fun together

[@MarigoldHollow]

They’re lucky to have eachother! I’m a chick in a chair and my husband helps me when I need it, but it’s not a chore. He just does things because it part of “us” and it’s what our life is! I love seeing other multi-abled couples figure out life together! 💗✨

[@utopiad4]

Correction, HE is lucky to have HER. Not sure what shes getting out the deal.

[@nic.k_o]

Yes!

[@xandykkaudy8252]

That's the perfect t way to describe care giving for someone you love, it just becomes part of your every day life and it feels normal after a while

[@farizaevloeva-n8k]

Cole, you are doing great! Just never stop and keep becoming more independent, we believe in you! You can handle it! Charisma thanks for being so cool and positive! Guys stay strong, don't let to anything destroy what you guys have! And we will support you guys along the way! I truly wish you happiness just as if you guys were my family! Edit: it's the first time ever I got 80 likes, thanks guys :)

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you! ❤️❤️

[@c.g.graygray9697]

@@coleandcharisma hi , this is what true love is all about. Y'all are awesome together. Thanks for sharing. God bless you both, and your family. Amen. 🤗🤔☺️😁❤️

[@jjoleiable]

I dont understand why does this video have dislikes? People are unbelievable. I love your spirit and your channel. Keep spreading positivity and love.

[@queenj8795]

I don't know why this popped up in my feed this morning BUT it was the inspiration I needed. Subscribing now because to see love like this is what the world needs 💖

[@Godgirl1966]

Nothing like being with the one you love... lovely

[@victoriaike5961]

Very true

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯💯💯💯💯

[@amgarel]

Hey Cole, Im a doctor from NY and it looks like you have signs of Horner's syndrome with the absence of sweating on one side, along with the drooping of your eyelid and change in pupil size. Would be a good idea to go see your PCP or neurologist! Take care you two!

[@ndeyemariediagne1688]

I hope that they will see this

[@sarantoure7233]

@@ndeyemariediagne1688 they've put a like on a similar comment.

[@itswagachira2268]

You can't convince me that charisma ain't a really angel,omg they are so lucky to have each other.

[@debrannkaye8874]

No she isn't an angel she's a fool

[@megadanskvlogs2118]

@@debrannkaye8874 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😭

[@piper-ct2vy]

@@debrannkaye8874 I wouldn't say she's a fool, but to be so young to take on this responsibility is kind of sad for a young woman

[@tiedyerose2794]

@@piper-ct2vy theyre happy and in love. What's so sad about it? Cole can do most things by himself he just needs a little help sometimes.

[@tiedyerose2794]

@@debrannkaye8874 you really are a miserable person.

[@clemsonbloke]

Cole has to be loving this woman immensely, she is a beautiful soul!

[@nelsongrissom2636]

I love how she’s thr for his every need It’s hard 2 found someone like her I’m going through the same thing I been in the wheelchair 🦽 for 3 year & im not giving up I’m still waiting On that special someone!!!

[@didiali339]

Keep the faith Nelson, God will work it for you

[@bobryant9923]

Get it, brother! I'm a C4-C5 and will gladly share tips I've learned, over the last 19 years, for complete independence. Just hit me up. Women are attracted when you can say and show independence.

[@shawndreadenson3661]

1 day GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE 🤞😊

[@Lovesabigaili]

You’ll find her! Keep the Faith!

[@otayiteeleshilongo5898]

And you will get one Sooner

[@tinajohnson1420]

Charisma's singing and dancing lol...too funny/cute

[@yeseniapacheco1164]

The sweating and eyelid dropping on one side is likely Horner’s syndrome. If you look closely, you likely have a smaller pupil on that side as well. It can be related to nerve injury but sometimes caused by other things. I’m a nurse btw.

[@rosesolorio81]

Figured that you are a nurse

[@sromero6738]

His left actually did look small.

[@blackbutterflywiings]

I was concerned it was dysreflexia but it didn't seem quite right. That makes sense though

[@pandabr424]

I love learning new things. Thank you. Have been an LPN for 7 years. Still new!

[@Arasia_Valentia]

I though it seemed familiar. Believe it or not my cat got Horner’s when the vet cleaned his ear too hard and irritated the nerve down there. He couldn’t walk, or eat, or drink, and lost so much weight. One eye was huge and the other small. Luckily another vet we took him too got him some medicine and now he’s all better. He’s got a bit of permanent damage to his balance, but’s it’s very mild. Please be quick to take care of it! You don’t want serious damage.