Intimacy as an Interabled Couple *Let's Talk*

[@kymberlyp4056]

True intimacy has very little to do with sex, and EVERYTHING to do with personal connection.💚🌺💚

[@shayvidatv]

Your post should be in all caps since you made a very important point that so many clueless idiot's don't realize!

[@kymberlyp4056]

Shay Vida ~ I have a feeling that I’m a lot older than many on this fabulous channel. Especially if this was a frequently asked question. 😁

[@joicewinslow8889]

Awesome statement girlfriend......

[@gwenmarie7311]

Exactly👍👍

[@triniintoronto240]

@@shayvidatv Well said, Shay. I am an older subbie too. There are a few of us. 😁😁

[@mariemm200]

She looks at him the way I looked at my last ice-cream sandwich this afternoon. It's so sweet.

[@mariedames3240]

You are funny lol. 💕

[@memeaw76]

Lol

[@irepank]

LOL! Good one!

[@ashelyjuste5754]

Lol

[@caramelkisses8857]

mariemm200 lmao 😂 so true! That’s love 💕

[@pameliacouncil]

I love your story. Iwas married for 37 years and the last 7 years my husband was in a wheelchair. He was a Quadriplegic. I loved my husband so much. We did everything together. He gave me four beautiful children. He passed away 4 years ago and i miss him every second of my life. Continue to love each other and share your love with the world.

[@pollywanjiru1742]

Sorry about that

[@tnzem2917]

just sending a big hug 🌺

[@jesuslovesyou916]

Sorry for your lost. I'm happy that you have beautiful memories to reminisce on. I'm glad to know you have found your soul mate and can share your happy memories with us. Be bless!

[@MrSMEMEGANGSTAA]

Beautiful

[@snootie3969]

So sad

[@rollingwithmoore]

My girlfriend met me online and she messaged me first. When she found out I was disabled, she's still wanted to get with me. She was the first one to bring up marriage and having kids with me. She didn't ask that annoying question; "does it work?" She figured out it does. We have had discussed sex a lot and not once has she asked me does it work. She's into me and only me. Intimacy means much more than just sex and people need to know that

[@NiNiTheWarrior]

I’m so happy for you 😊

[@lakshmikothapalli3954]

Is it just me or what I never met anybody who who talks anything except sex online 😢 I'm 20 and I'm not so much into sex. I mean I Would do it one day but If I ever imagine my life in a relationship, or fantasize about someone... My brain goes playing cuddling or kissing one each other but people I ever met seems to think intimacy means only having sex 😢 They don't care much for a kiss on cheek. Then I started to think Maybe having sex is the major part in a relationship and that's what intimacy Is... And I Just didn't know cuz I've never been in a real relationship. You know what... I even stopped thinking about dating anybody any sooon cuz I'm insecure and not ready to have sex 😢 I'm not very articulate so it might not Even make sense to you.. And there is just so much that I'm not able to put into words here. but one thing I'm scared 😭 Thx for reading tho ❤

[@rollingwithmoore]

@@lakshmikothapalli3954 having a relationship is more than just sex. I’ve never had a relationship at all. That was just a girl I was talking to. We never met. I wanted to, but she didn’t

[@rollingwithmoore]

@@NiNiTheWarrior I was happy for me too, but it she never wanted to meet me so she was just a girl I was talking to online

[@101nevergiveup]

​@@lakshmikothapalli3954you're not alone ❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I’m so jealous because when I was married, I didn’t experience that much intimacy, we hardly cuddled at all, we didn’t even looked into each other’s eyes, you are so blessed to have each other.

[@Windsor.royals]

You didn't initiate or he was the wrong one.

[@nnatalie50nn]

It’s no one’s business. You love each other that’s what’s important

[@yolandajohnson8685]

❤❤yup, I hear you!!!!❤❤

[@amandakimbrough2862]

Honestly, half the world would kill to have what yall have

[@mbpresentsanonymous1337]

pssst don’t tell him we are literally potential murderers waiting for the shot! huehue but yeee i want a charisma and a cole in my life :(( feeling lonely af

[@yvonneboaten8289]

I fully agree. What they have is priceless and Charisma is a wise girl for choosing that and placing value on that. Sex has been cheapened by people who place no value on it. As they indicated, there are ways of offer pleasure to your spouse. I learn every day. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. Age is nothing but a number.

[@ClaraKay4001]

Exactly!

[@esthermwaura3175]

Very true

[@naomizulu3976]

Exactly

[@ajaydwayne5586]

Cole look like he went to the hood to get tha fresh fade it’s pretty lit lol

[@Bandon17]

😂🤣😂

[@mrrpswife]

His beard, too😉

[@idacooper625]

They are a cute couple. When is baby comeing

[@aquilaclark814]

We love that haircut..cole. .. do it again!!!! .. you two are such an inspiration. .

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

LMAAAAO! OK so it’s not just me! i was like, “OK Cole! i see you.” LOL! i see the lineup, i see the fade, i see the taper, i see the beard cleanup. my mans, Cole, lookin mighty fresh.

[@nnekaowens1325]

I understand the curiosity, but so respect setting standards for what you want to disclose. Very smart!

[@meiqueoonixzjaz03]

Ok.. first of all.. Cole is so freaking handsome and Charisma is absolutely beautiful!! They have a beautiful relationship that is far more than surface deep! Looooovvveeee it!

[@warrenjeffreys8]

Black women are so amazing

[@wheatanfrancis9471]

Yes we are !

[@ChooseU4ever]

Warren Jeffreys yes they are

[@annmarierussell6743]

Oh yes we are truly amazing 😙

[@ogunsanya1320]

So fucking true !!!

[@momoehmomoeh506]

Truest

[@b.c.s7861]

Most people will never experience this kind of intimacy in their lifetime. Bless you both. ✌

[@BrianaLynn7]

Yes! I think a lot of couples/people focus too much on just sex and not the rest. Clearly these two are madly in love, he finds her smoking hot (you can see it in his eyes) and she finds him absolutely adorable. But their trust and ability to relate to each other is what makes their intimacy so much better.

[@naturalTJ]

I sooooooo agree!!! Sex is soooooo over rated in relationships.

[@silk510]

So true

[@NaptuRo90]

This is what true relationships are really about not just the physical

[@edwinhargrave679]

This is true unconditional beautiful godly agape love.wishing you both the very best in life enjoy.

[@NoodlesMomma27]

People nosey. I like the way you addressed the issue. Intimacy is not just sex. You guys are awesome.

[@EarthgoddessRaye]

I don’t know if people are nosey. Just curious about things they don’t understand.

[@siribaimusic]

@@EarthgoddessRaye I think people want to know about sex as it's an often misunderstood thing about paraplegic and quadriplegic people being asexual/not able to have pleasurable intercourse/etc and the internet doesn't have a ton of resources.

[@siribaimusic]

(but of course it isn't people's business whether and how any couple does it in the bedroom, lol)

[@gamingkitty1461]

I wouldn't call it nosey, it's curiousity if and how it's possible. I wondered the same thing tbh tho, I never asked xD

[@ActiveEve]

Of course people are curious, but they really want them to describe WHAT it is they do and HOW they do it! But if we are able bodied and can use our imagination while being intimate, why can’t they? Sex is sex whether you are able bodied or disabled. Trust me, they enjoy themselves! Just look at and observe them together. (So very 🧑🏼‍🦼🧍🏾‍♀️🥰sweet!) God Bless C&C)

[@ericaford4808]

I had a boyfriend in a wheelchair when I was younger and I loved him so much. We had true intimacy. We broke up because of his own personal issues. However, I never forgot about him and think of him often. My best boyfriend.

[@kevinwilson124]

I love your comment!!

[@toothlesst3]

Did u sit on his face

[@ms.gordon3802]

Lmao

[@almay1323]

Aww now this is a love story I’d love to hear it

[@WeRiseAboveTheFallen]

Call him

[@shaunlundathomas9284]

Cuddling is the best part of being intimate

[@olafl7]

I couldn't agree more!

[@DamonCassada345]

Plus you can do it with everyone

[@milawka375]

She absolutely suits for her name! She is Charisma! Her energy, her optimism is inspiring! Cole is very beautiful 😍

[@shredman59]

So true!

[@mrs1975brown]

Absolutely

[@gracemac994]

My guess is they do kkkk

[@sylviareid3240]

Cant wait for you guys to have children,love you

[@OneMoreRedNightmare]

In some cultures (Japanese and Native American comes to mind) it's much more popular for people to have names of tangible things. Like Charisma, Lily, Ruby, etc. instead of common names that don't really mean anything. I feel like that's starting to become more popular and I like that. Maybe it's a subtle shift in society towards bringing more meaningfulness into our lives.

[@Kuzakistheone]

Cole is too handsome I can’t handle it! 😅

[@xokizza]

Alexa 26 right!!!😍

[@dolcegabanna1878]

Yes he is very handsome .......baby will be very cute

[@livelovelurk]

Yes he is

[@annemedrano6150]

You are right!

[@jennwill80]

Agreed! Very attractive man.

[@lifewithklc]

FINALLY, a couple who doesn’t tell ALL their business in the guise of “keeping it 💯”.

[@sandradanessa369]

yes, thank you that a great example

[@mrrpswife]

Exactly

[@michellejones4110]

Exactly. Why do people feel they need to know. Do people say to their friends, tell me about your intimacy.

[@sunkissed1974]

The intimacy that you two share as an interabled couple is on a deeper level than abled bodied people will ever know. The daily activities and the shower program and the dependence that you have on each other will make you closer than most people will ever know.

[@CWM-1606]

So true

[@Dlovesyou1]

There’s so much sexual tension in this video😭 you guys are so cute!!!!

[@vanessadunlap6931]

Holy moly he is soo handsome!! She is absolutely beautiful for the way she loves him unconditionally!

[@mirandabisnou1307]

She's beautiful in more ways than one💓

[@claratheodore1932]

vanessa dunlap she looks like Lela Rochon

[@thelovewitch3607]

you think this is a supportive comment but it’s actually a very VERY ableist thing to say that loving him makes her beautiful...you only think her love for him is commendable because you subconsciously think disabled people are less desirable. she is a normal human and so is he and her love is not any different or any more praise worthy than any other love.

[@joanntirado1799]

She is a beauty! He is a Looker!

[@solianathomas6877]

Both of them are beutiful.

[@florenceflowers2983]

Charisma, you are such a loving and caring person. Cole is so blessed to have you in his life.

[@doreenmorrison2941]

O yes. And i would say the same for her too. Cole is a great guy too.

[@marilynhemingway7326]

Thank you for stating your boundaries and limits. Quite frankly it is none of our business. I enjoy your beautiful relationship without knowing about the "intimacy". I don't want anyone to know about mine so I need to also respect the wishes of others. You gave great advice.

[@madeinaotearoanz]

I agree, its noone's business.

[@adamaseide786]

Lindos casais

[@DamonCassada345]

I find it a little curious that anyone would consider it drastically different than what they are used to

[@michellefletcher8528]

Agreed..

[@YasminAbdull]

Exactly!

[@lynnmking3008]

You two are so classy! How can we not love you guys! My Pastor always taught us that intimacy means " See - into - Me". Meaning, you allow your partner to see the inner heart and soul of who you are rather than hiding behind masks and internal defense structures.

[@lynnmking3008]

@@coleandcharisma That's great!

[@triniintoronto240]

Yeah... my pastor says "Into me you see"

[@robinbutler4515]

Lynn King357 well said!👍

[@lynnmking3008]

@@robinbutler4515 Thank you!

[@DamonCassada345]

Unfortunately the average person tends to look elsewhere with that X-ray vision

[@gerrikamonique2951]

I love y’all! Cole is 100% MAN he’s not playing no games 🤣.

[@504CreoleCrystal]

NONE 😂😂😂😂😂

[@504CreoleCrystal]

trinityc1970 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@johnspanks2828]

You are so nasty

[@heartstrings110]

LISTEN! 😂 We all know that look. Something is working very well for them. 😂😂😂

[@MissHannah2036]

lol, he's very affectionate 😁

[@doraagyapong1659]

I laugh so hard when Charisma couldn't say "SEX"and then Cole comes out as the man and say it.."whether we have sex"

[@fatimazahramarah2634]

same carisma is a bit shy when it comes to such topic

[@geaj4214]

I was cracking up too funny😁😁😁😁😁😅🤣😂

[@josss_ie8083]

Homegirl was a struggling 😭

[@Sweetdee28]

I noticed that😂😂😂Cole had to come out and say it !!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤣🤣🤣

[@Samwise_92]

Shes trying to have discretion. Shes being polite

[@tashibiachambers7993]

I love them the way they look at each other is full of love and understanding

[@דבורהמדינה]

They are so honest and respectful, not just OTHER couple that plays pranks on each other and tests the love.... really loving and caring

[@nilsaiivyarts]

True

[@susanmunjiru4497]

True

[@jeneanicole4261]

This is actually really refreshing! Seeing a couple keep their private lives PRIVATE! I'm so over seeing couples talking about and posting what they do all over social media. I don't know whatever happened to keeping your business as your own and shame when private details are discussed publicly, but it needs to come back!

[@DamonCassada345]

There is no ultimate secret to having a relationship, it is what is made of it

[@junbh2]

I understand why people don't want to share that (I wouldn't want to share it about my own life) but I can also respect that for some people, talking about it feels better than not talking about it, so I would hope every couple thinks about it and deals with it however works best for them. It's great that we have all kinds in the world.

[@TilTheBreakADawn]

Jenea Nicole Sooo true. But in a culture where reality tv/celebrity-seeking and pornography have become so commonplace, people don't even know what boundaries are. This couple has the absolute right idea. I have ZERO interest in seeing or even hearing about other folk's intimate details because the very nature of intimacy is that it requires deep bond of trust. By sharing intimate things (from, say, a home birth , to sexual practices, to a personal trauma) the teller is becoming vulnerable with the listener(s). The problem with sharing intimate matters on the internet is that one risks becoming vulnerable with people (potentially in the BILLIONS) who not only don't know you, but could violate your trust in so many ways.

[@KpTheG]

Cole is going to walk again, in Jesus name. I can feel it. Remember this comment lol this is my first video of you guys I've seen and I'm hooked.

[@cassiejen7480]

They loved all the comments but this one maybe they don't believe in Jesus

[@KpTheG]

Cassie Jen that’s fine if they don’t. Just thought I’d offer some encouragement.

[@soulsmusic15]

@@KpTheG Thats not encouragement. That can be really harmful. You are not a doctor, you have not seen the XRAY's of his spinal cord, you are not in his place and knows his body. There are some people who will NEVER walk again, so comments like that are just bible trumping bs.

[@KpTheG]

soulsmusic15 wow, it must suck being that negative. Have a great week though.

[@broccolincarrots4124]

@@soulsmusic15 Sorry, I have to disagree with your comment. "There are life and death in the power of the tongue" and Cole's miracles just began. Stay positive!!

[@erbodyluvschoc]

She's so in love with him I can tell the way she looks at him.

[@summerbreeze5758]

I cried when I saw how she looks at him. You can tell she loves him so much. Very very much.

[@nazzynaz1905]

I got a good feeling Cole will walk again 🤞

[@jonaHISTS]

I'm happy y'all went this route for this subject. People assume that being curious gives them the right ask very personal questions they wouldn't ask normally.

[@yvonneharris5911]

It took me to become an old woman to appreciate intimacy as opposed to sex! These two give me hope for the future and what can be!!!

[@katinaleon2526]

I’m smiling at my phone like crazy right now because it makes me so happy to see you guys and how perfect you are together!

[@helloimannabye]

Same here!

[@cupcakee22]

Same

[@ispeakwisdom9651]

Lol! Me too!

[@darlenewaters3338]

Same here, was watching and smiling the whole time. They are a beautiful couple.

[@samanthasunshine1766]

I don't blame you. Its no ones business! LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU KIDS!! I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!!

[@rebeccalindsay5795]

I love the way you addressed this! Also, not enough people realise intimacy does not equal sex

[@ON-gq8ej]

I love that they allow each other to talk without cutting each other. Such level of respect

[@judyshelby1416]

Y'all are so cute. There's a difference in being curious and being nosey. Some people are just nosey. You re handling things the way you should. People know what's appropriate and what's not when they ask. They're just trying to see how far they can go. Some things are just not their business. Keep doing what you do and stay positive. Much love to you. 💕

[@simonebelgrave795]

Love how you reponded to questions about personal intimacy. It's no one's business what you do behind close doors but your own. People are just too nosy at times. Continue to stay positive. Yours is a beautiful love story that offers the world a glimpse of what is possible despite life's challenges.

[@afrocentricallyshakina]

Judy Shelby I agree

[@onlylikemindedbw]

Yep I’m nosey and?

[@yvonnedcave6394]

Yes being nosy is not cool

[@onlylikemindedbw]

@@yvonnedcave6394 so ... I'm nosey ..just like a lot of other ppl that clicked on the video that wanted to hear something juicy... I'm just saying what everyone else is thinking ...so stop with the bs

[@tomoyat727]

I'm literally smiling like a goofball while watching this. I love the love between the two of you!!!

[@darlenewaters3338]

You're not the only one 😄😊

[@nanuq83]

It's natural to be curious but I get it, not everyone wants to talk about it. From the look of you two though, you guys look satisfied to me. 😉

[@gazpen1978]

this was perfectly approached as a wheelchair user myself I sometimes get the same kind of questions why would you tell a stranger your personal business as a side note you both cuddling on the couch was super cute

[@erynsmith3694]

gareth pennington

[@shawnakimbrough8295]

Im so grateful for your response. So many people put TOO much of their life online. Your response in keeping those "none of your business", stuff to yourselves is beautiful. I absolutely love your respect for the most sacred part of a marriage; true intimacy. May Father God bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you His Peace!

[@Melisblessed]

You two are so cute 🥰. Don’t tell them nothing. It’s your business. As long as you love each other that’s all that’s matter.

[@alisonkershaw2035]

The 171 people who down thumbed this video must have some internal issues. This beautiful couple can teach many of us out there with their intelligent, loving and positive attitude towards life. Thank you for sharing your videos. You are an inspiration to not only full able body human beings but also non fully able body human beings. You are more than likely helping thousands of people feel that the world is their oyster. 💚💚

[@amber_Forever16]

Alison Kershaw they probably didn’t watch it and thought they really talked/showed the dirty deeds, a lot of people didn’t watch at first because of that but read the comments from others saying they’re glad they didn’t show the dirty stuff

[@ogunsanya1320]

Nice comment !!!

[@mariamin272]

😂😂😂 i agree!!

[@amischair]

Yeah, I felt the same way. Love this couple! 😍 ❤️

[@myaamorlenina938]

People thumbs down a kitten video! Let alone a beautiful couple in love.

[@shannonmonahan603]

I can’t get enough of you two! Such a genuine, beautiful, wholesome couple!

[@indraforeva3311]

When Cole pulled you on to him..!😌😍Get ittt Cole & Charismaaaa!!😉😉🙌🙌😝😁❤❤❤❤

[@vmmcknight2501]

True guys keep it. That's your personal life. I just love you guys

[@gathoninjuguna6375]

😀😀😀❤❤❤

[@doberdawgs4me]

Heck I grabbed some popcorn 😂😂😂😂 I didn't know where the video was going 😂😂😂

[@glowupjess]

Girrrrrl I was like yassss

[@Reignedayz]

@@doberdawgs4me 😁🤣

[@deuce07er]

You are truly blessed Cole, Charisma is an amazing woman. You guys were made for each other, God bless both of you

[@ibrahim-8332]

isn´t she blessed to? y only her man? you can see the quality in his personality and inteligence. although he come in a diffrent package.

[@vivianatvivian4340]

True God continue blessing them and give them everything they need on this planet

[@larkhughes9740]

Sex is 75 percent mental anyway. Intimacy is touching, hugging, laughing together, quiet moments, respectful of each other in small and not so small ways. Gratitude and appreciation of each other. Love is a verb.

[@yarekim5932]

Y'all are a beautiful couple , and even though it is tough , your love shines through .

[@TheeMademoiselle]

You guys are so adorable😭💕

[@nbdontgiveup128]

He is such a guy. I love it. When he said I think it will look great, I knew that they have no problem with intimacy. They got this!

[@sarahkelly3234]

Big respect for you guys. Keeping it 💯. We are adults and really don't need details of your private life . You are sharing a lot C&C. Thanks.

[@malkahbraun626]

👎🏻

[@yeshua8892]

Finally i came across such a nice comment. True true true We may be curious..but they dont have to share everything with us....dats their right 😉

[@mercedesreyes4061]

Wherever you do behind your room doors is your business. Glad you keep it that way. 😘😘😘

[@YourzTruly917]

You guys are absolutely disgustingly, atrociously, despicably, horrendously ADORABLE! I love how you guys love each other ✨🤍💯🥰

[@shaonibanerjee8042]

her laugh is beautiful. it's like she completely lets go laughs her heart out. there is so much innocence and pure joy in her laugh.

[@mardyandie3027]

BOUNDARIES! BOUNDARIES! BOUNDARIES! You both have my full support! 💕

[@anneandersen1797]

Say it louder mardy

[@shelcybrown4349]

I agree. Some people just don't know when to quit.

[@deloresmaybeck2912]

Amen to this.

[@mardyandie3027]

Roll with Cole & Charisma 💞

[@kareenwatson6084]

It's their business and they might be uncomfortable speaking about. However for those who want to be further enlightened check out Kassy & Kevin in the life of K & K.

[@tracigreen4786]

These two are literally the most inspiring couple that I’ve ever seen. I so hope that neither one of them ever has to say goodbye to the other. You guys have won my heart as well as gained a new subscriber.Because this here is what love is all about

[@vivianatvivian4340]

True let us pray for them

[@GrowingGoodHair]

Agree

[@kendrajones3919]

I legit love their relationship. Goals. I love how y'all like don't let any limitations into your relationship. I LOVE that you guys try to educate others about certain things as well. I love it. You guys are great.

[@tshepomorapedi9048]

You two are mature. You are young but knows how to give right answers and keep loving each other. Love is not all about sex but being one another's companion, Whether disabled or not

[@zkart8038]

As much as I love them setting their boundaries and be upfront about not wanting to talk about sex. As much as I admire their self advocacy. ...on the other hand we all know Cole is gettin' it lol

[@tulsacaupain2882]

Funny.

[@Hallo81398]

true. He's getting it while there are millions of incels like myself who don't I mean good for Cole regardless but just saying

[@zkart8038]

@@Hallo81398 work on yourself. You will attract worthy people. Throwing a pity party to someone who doesn't know you is enough to turn everybody off. Be confident in who you are ..and if you aren't, build yourself so that you will be.

[@awcrosby]

6:35 Charisma: This isn't appropriate... 6:41 Cole: 😈😈 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@adventureswashley]

What he says at 6:52 had me dead 😂😭🤣🤪

[@deborahdebooth5103]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🍿🍿🍿

[@kathleenevers7016]

Neutraliser Jan o-o moment what moments 😳🤣😂

[@savannahrose4447]

Hollering “we won’t say if we have sex or not” *literally sits cowgirl style in front of the camera* 😂😂😂

[@thecoi7672]

This is most people with their spouse at one point or another. I love how they are just able to be themselves.

[@roseiam]

I'm sorry you guys felt the need to address this issue. People are hella rude to be asking you what goes on behind closed doors. You guys kept it so classy. I'm impressed! The C&C Fam love you just as much!

[@riselle1]

Lots of chemistry here. You guys are BLESSED!!!

[@mjjm5511]

Itis?🤣🤣🤣 Cole is definitely invited to the cookout 👍🏼👍🏼

[@KayBmor]

My new favorite KZbin couple. Your love for each other is breathtaking.

[@theresaoppong7100]

You guys are so smart ,I like the way you Express yourselves. May the good Lord continue to strengthen you physically and spiritually .I love you guys I really do.

[@tuesdayabdullahi1278]

1) you two are just the cutest ever 2) I love how Cole looks at you like you're the last supper and he's got the munchies 3) you two give me hope for humanity and love..

[@GrowingGoodHair]

#2 😭🤣🤣🥰👌🏽

[@BLOVES]

I was thinking the same thing - they over there eating each other up! - it’s so sweet & awesome!

[@gaill7908]

Cole = typical guy lol 😂 Such a normal couple. Loved this vid. 😊❤️

[@ikamustika3504]

He really does love her

[@karenleblanc5781]

This is the most beautiful love story of all times, you guys can teach other people the REAL meaning of love. You guys are rockstars!!

[@fionagal123]

All the moments sent together can be intimate, it isn't just the act of sex. That is only one part of intimacy. The connection you make outside of the act makes it even better.

[@kimsealy1704]

This is so true.

[@kimsealy1704]

Very well said.

[@julliette24]

As foreplay Cole punches Charisma in the face 😊 just like any other couple. Lol

[@wynetteabc]

Yeah;and I like how she slapped that "stay positive!" on him. :). They are truly meant for each other. We love y'all.

[@anitraholmes8461]

😂😂

[@pinkrainn8904]

😂🥰

[@DamonCassada345]

I remember my first kiss

[@christlegreen9458]

julliette24 Lol! Yeah, that's step one.

[@deed1436]

Both of them are very attractive people anyway. I see how this relationship can work. She’s already beautiful so he’s always going to feel super lucky being with her. And she gets to have a man that’s less likely going to be out dogging her and cheating so she’s able to really let her guard down and love him with all her heart because its safe to. The more she loves him the more he’s going to fall deeply in love with her because he’ll always have a higher level of appreciation for her. This is like a match made in heaven.

[@Orangenkraft]

I know you probably didn’t mean it like that, but he didn’t need to be disabled for her to know for certain he wouldn't cheat. That's a sad thing to say. Also, diasabled people can cheat just like anyone else.

[@klienbeautymakeup6065]

Cole your hair cut looks so cool... Charisma your beautiful girl with a sunflower soul and spirit .. we love you ..

[@lucindagray8882]

If they ever do an Eartha Kitt story, Charisma, you need to definitely tryout for the younger version of her!!! #naturalbeauty

[@favouredbymycreator9032]

She could really pass for her daughter in looks. Her own daughter doesn't look one bit like her.

[@rerelevelingup2364]

Yes for real

[@GrowingGoodHair]

Nailed it ..was trying hard to think who she reminded me of. She is a beauty! ✨

[@darlenewaters3338]

I agree! So beautiful 😊

[@queenvic83]

Yooooo, haha, as I was starting to watch their video and was watching her speak I literally thought of that in my head LOL 😂👍

[@alyssa7464]

Oh my gosh you guys are so adorable I love the way you guys are with each other it’s so refreshing to see a couple who truly is compatible and loves cares and wants to be around the other one

[@specialevents9879]

Thank you so much for keeping this aspect of your lives private🤓

[@paulawalters5476]

I love you guys 💕

[@bBrain]

I know right? Like that's NONE of our business... Some things should be private and personal

[@lifewithnancie9926]

I respect that you guys want to keep this part of y’all lives private 😉 I really enjoy that video too😉🥰🥰🥰

[@slcncr]

5:40 seeing them experience this "togetherness" as Charisma calls it makes me realize that i have never had that in my entire life.

[@ebonyk1646]

You guys make me hopeful for true love.

[@ivoryfyall4231]

Ebony K Yessss Amen im totally with you.

[@meghan7921]

@@ivoryfyall4231 Ebony and ivory Live together in perfect harmony Side by side on my piano keyboard Oh Lord, why don't we?…

[@ivoryfyall4231]

Ebony K i know rite 😂😂😂😂😂😂you get tired of being lonely😢😢😢😢😢one day well be happy!!!

[@naanajuvana1271]

Well, it’s a year later Ebony. I hope you’ve found your true love 👍🏾😉. I’m still waiting on mine but he better come soon because I’ve been Blessed to make it to 70 but I’ve seen even some 80 year olds find love. I’ll wait till my last breath for a love like this. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ebonyk1646]

NaanaJu VanA still waiting unfortunately.

[@patriceb1274]

New to your channel while surfing KZbin during the current pandemic. As a 50 yo women, real intimacy in a relationship is not just sex. It truly is respect, kindness, & putting that person 1st ❤️

[@amim4701]

Such an adorable couple. The babies will have the same adorable dimples as parents.

[@triniintoronto240]

Cole and Charisma, you guys are AMAZING!!!! What a classy way to handle the subject of intimacy!!! Love you both!!!

[@alailabalderas1811]

I’m excited for this video idk why maybe it’s because I have cerebral palsy lol but yeah that part scares me as a quadriplegic wheelchair user myself

[@sophiarose7610]

Alaila Balderas you’ll find this kind of love. Stay faithful and prayerful.

[@alailabalderas1811]

Miss S always 💕

[@samuelrosemary5854]

Just know you are loved and not alone, sending you all my love xoxo

[@alailabalderas1811]

Samuel Rosemary thank you I found KZbin very helpful it’s my escape

[@vernelllevingston1800]

Miss bald are you a person with several Posley or are you a paraplegic or both if you don't mind me asking Miss Vernell

[@nadea2645]

Oh my gosh the way he just lifted her and put her on top of him❤.you guys just showed us how you do it 😅.its like i am watching the most beautiful romantic movie❤

[@lilianmartin1959]

I think the intimacy should be kept a secret between the two of you. I enjoy watching the PDA the two of you show.

[@cgvalle11]

Agreed!

[@alemat897]

Me too

[@iristorred345]

I agreed should be kept between both of you.🙏

[@MzVonnie4187]

Agreed ... some things should be kept private ... you share so much of your lives and relationship with us and that's good enough for me! Thank you for inviting us into your world and journey! GOD Bless your union!

[@ironail4982]

Spoiler alert: she'll be on top most of the time. Source: quadriplegic myself like Cole

[@murielwalcott6704]

I don't know why people think sex is all to a couple life, and I love the way you guys explained it, , I was married to someone who was 22 years older than me, and I would get teased about about weather he could have satisfy me, but little did not know I was the one had to refuse at times. Yes they are times when I would have to say to him honey just laying in your arms feeling your love and your embrace means more than anything to me, and he would say sometimes honey if I did not know you ,and know the type of person you are ,I would say you're getting it somewhere else, Honey it's been a while. We had love and understand each other, My husband passed away 3 years ago at the age of 76 to cancer,😭 I am not yet 60 I'm going to be next year God's paying my life, and I can say the love that he give to me when he was with me, I still feel his love, I still feel at times like his arms are around me. I hope this can help some of the people that have questions and do not know what true love is like

[@candiceboyd5948]

This is my favorite video for sure, I’m glad someone is talking about this and this video is out there, because my fiancé and I are in an interable relationship I have Cerebral Palsy and he is able bodied. So to see things I can completely relate with is great. ❤️

[@madisilver460]

😐😲😌😮 phew. I was reluctant to click on, yet curious to know exactly what you guys were going to discuss and how far down the rabbit hole we were going. So glad it was a different sorta video. Keep the hot and heavy stuff off the interwebs😊

[@robinbutler4515]

Madi Silver my feelings exactly. I initially didn’t watch it and just hit thumbs up because I truly enjoyed all of their videos. I read a comment and from it decided to actually watch this one. They held true to the respect level I hoped for. Certain levels of intimacy aren’t anyone’s business!

[@madisilver460]

@@robinbutler4515 that's exactly what i did too. ☺

[@PoppyCorn144]

@Madi Silver same here I hovered for a whole day. 😅

[@erynsmith3694]

Madi Silver

[@erynsmith3694]

Madi Silver

[@gracefulros3]

The way they’re into each other is to dieeee for 🥰

[@1rage17]

Man you guys are a gorgeous a$$ couple! The chemistry is *too* real with you two.

[@Linabina2142]

I think you guys made a good point at the fact that intimacy isn’t just sex but more of showing each other care and love. Y’all are awesome! Much love❤️😍

[@mishminahandrew4790]

I ABSOLUTELY APPRECIATE AND RESPECTFULLY ACCEPT THE FACT THAT Y'ALL KEEP YOUR"BEDROOMS WHATEVERS" PERSONAL! THAT'S TOTALLY A FIRM FOUNDATION OF YOUR MARRIAGE...Ty

[@nizom5459]

Cole is going to walk again god willing 💕

[@thedonofthesouth]

With robot legs and a walker, yes it’s possible

[@ohenewawilliams2217]

Amen!

[@iyennol4054]

Amen

[@eisenhower9069]

@@thedonofthesouth With Jesus

[@thedonofthesouth]

Eisen Hower ok 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@ammaarahisaacs8129]

He looks a bit like Chriss Pratt and gives off a similar vibe to his character in parks n rec

[@psychotic-wanderer7338]

Ammaarah Isaacs also a bit of ryan reynolds persona in there too coz cole is so funny👍🏻🤣

[@Decemberarcher]

And she reminds me so much of Lauren London

[@ashleebates5708]

Oh my gosh I see that

[@madelyngutierrez27]

I always say this!!!

[@marymedinas1111]

Cole is way smarter though ✔️🤣

[@joannaflores7483]

“Sit and chat” how many couples can say that. That is true “intimacy”

[@heatherkabwe9121]

A thousand percent

[@keoshawallace6139]

Something's are not meant to be shared. I love you guys and we appreciate all the things that you do share and appreciate the positivity. Sending you all the love from South Carolina .

[@lizk3085]

Keosha Wallace sane here

[@takwaxaweelew8017]

You’re such a blessing to each other.

[@zwiebster63]

You are both sooooo clever and made the best decision in bringing this subject that way. I know what it means because my husband had a cauda equina trauma few years ago and that trauma has disabled plenty of things in his body. It was a difficult time for both of us. We also had several consultations at the urologist for his blather and in the meantime, that doctor started taking about intimacy. He said: in the beginning after the trauma you won’t know what will get better or what will work again after some time. So you will have to wait and see. The most important thing a couple has to do at that time is talk about it and start to know how the “changed body” is working. You will have a different bonding which can be very deep and beautiful too!!