OUR NOT SO GREAT STANDARDS IN CHOOSING A PARTNER : LOVE & COURTING

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[@GracefullyKaren]

You are underrated. I don't even know what ppl are watching. I hope that people will come across your channel. ✨😌

[@tenniea3315]

Channels like this should have thousands of views. Welldone Tosin.

[@Jennie_el]

How am I now seeing this!!!🥺❤....even after three years it's still so relevant!👌. Thank you Tosin😚

[@BemiBadmus]

This really made alot of sense to me and thank you Tosin for Sharing, In my experience, a lot of people really want a spiritual man, a man that wouldnt drag you down, but they themselves are not even born again, i remember before i really gave my life to christ, i had always wanted a man that was God fearing (and thats what a lot of ladies want these days) because u just know u wont go wrong with a good man of God, but i myself wasnt spiritually sound, i knew my parents relationship flourished because of God and they being Born again and I liked that, but me myself wasnt serious spiritually. we need to know that we are what we attract and God is also not a wicked God, I am happy you touched on this part too.. God bless you Tosin.

[@theGodlywalk]

I watched this in 2017, and saved to watch later. I am back here to watch again today. Long time subscriber that barely talks, but thanks for making this video. Can't believe more people haven't watched this.

[@ifeolunu]

Girl, you are deep. You put things into proper perspective!

[@ToluFalode]

Ayeee-this video is on point!!! Love this Tosin! I also love that scripture-Romans 8:14. Very true we have to be careful our standards are coming from God-He will honor our request when it is based on His will (Romans 12:1-2)-and we have to submit our minds to Him so we can be transformed to desire who He has for us and to be prepared for them as well-congrats again hun!!!

[@VannieBee]

Preach it Tosin! I think a lot of us are not in tune with the Holy Spirit hence the requirements that are not in line with the Holy Spirit. We need to first seek the face of God and develop a relationship with him and all things will follow. God knows what you want and what you need and he will bless you accordingly.

[@zowdampenzi5858]

May God help us to always walk with him.

[@temiquadry]

This Video is a blessing. Thank You. I totally accept the saying " Deceivers attracts Deceivers".

[@phurplkyxxex]

Yesss! Character is the main thing! Don't marry someone with character flaws. Thank you for this video!

[@adaezeokoli3312]

Tosin you are a wise woman. I pray for more wisdom for you and your Partner

[@zain90s]

Girl! I just found your channel and blog today after watching a video you did with Sisi Yemmie. After watching few of your videos I feel like I found a long lost sister-friend looool because we have exactly the same mind-set and values on the videos I've watched so far. May God continue to bless you and increase your understanding. Amen

[@ogdiva9735]

Yet another spirit filled teaching.Thanks a million Tosin for constantly sharing with us. Please kindly do more relationship inspiring(not necessarily what the human mind wants to hear) but the truth and standard which God's word guides us. For me, this is like a reminder about the choices to make.Because i am currently at a stage of being the right person and constantly desiring to be like God(inspiration from your prev. Videos) .I look forward to more of these videos. Thanks a million.

[@euchariaosademe5473]

This is really for me , I am blessed. I always feel so different because of my partner's height . I am convinced from this message

[@cynthiahoyi3925]

thank you for talking more about these desires of our hearts. I think most people have misunderstood the meaning of that scripture, & l used to be one of those people. I used to think that God will grant me my own desires, but then l came to understand that God is the one who plants desires in our hearts, & then we ask him for those things

[@BlessedLPT.]

I enjoyed this video, so much great insight 🙂. That scripture 'God will grant the desires of your heart' actually means that God will put His desires in your heart not that God is our genie who will give us everything we wish for.

[@Africandiva128]

Wow!!! Happy I didn't watch this immediately! God wanted me to watch this TODAY! And it has TOUCHED me! Tosin I have to rewatch this... and re-evaluate...thank you!

[@abigailmusa7154]

Thank you for sharing this and being such a blessing to us through KZbin. This video in particular came at the right time and has blessed me tremendously. Sometimes, we can be so obsessed with marriage and relationship issues that we tend to focus more on the physical than the spiritual.The Bible says that we should seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and every other thing will be added unto us.

[@LenelleMichelle]

Very well said, thank you for sharing this. Helps us to revise our standards and make sure they align with God's will for us. This way we are not selfishly thinking only about our own needs but how we can add value to our future mate as well. Sometimes we make our standards all about us and forget that we too must be that standard for someone else.

[@fikayoawotunde662]

wow, word of life. my mind needs reset right now.

[@pelumibalogun1305]

I'm always excited when I see your videos because they are edifying.... God bless you Tosin 😊

[@olawunmiajoke6262]

Luv that word ''deceiver attracts deceiver''.God cnt b deceived nd ladies out there don't knw setting standard based on worldly tins kills marriage or even makes dem stay longer in their parent's house.My dear,God bless u 4 ds educating nd inspiring relationship video.

[@mimse6556]

new subbie... I just looked at the other titles of your videos and was like "men...where is the subscribe button?"

[@maryamkazy2896]

This video is soooooooooo on point, this is power, i cant contain it oooo

[@jaetopia2341]

You are filled w/ so much wisdom!

[@loisy2141]

this was a blessing to me🙌🙌. cldnt wait to watch after seeing a little o it on snapchat. thank u for sharing. God's blessings🙏🙏

[@shalomchild7414]

Your heart is beautiful Tosin! this and all your videos testify that Xx

[@angelezendu]

I came here from Ig and the wisdom in this video is amazing. Thank you so much, I'm convicted within

[@ladee169]

I was struggling With this,Thank u so much for the msg 🙌🏾 IT makes sense! 🙏🏾

[@chinezemadu3843]

This is edifying. Please keep 'em coming. BTW congrats on your engagement.

[@eauxclairesslsn]

Thank you Tosin for the video it has blessed me!

[@balogunnafisat5372]

Thank you so much for this. pray God continue to straighten you in everything.

[@estherakorede7120]

🙌🙌 God bless you Tosin , I'm always blessed by what you share

[@rebeccaope2035]

This video really spoke to me. Thank you

[@loisy2141]

this was definitely a blessing to me🙌🙌. cldnt wait to watch d full clip after seeing part o it on snapchat. thank u very much n God continue to bless n use u🙏🙏

[@toluolowookere6113]

oh my! God bless you real good... I really enjoyed this video it felt like u were talking to me specifically. I wish I heard all these even before I went into my first relationship. I wish I would be able to connect with you more often. you are such an inspiration.

[@annatarr6214]

Omg, this got me thank you so much for sharing i learnt a lot from this

[@p.avco2lmu239]

You nailed it @ 11:08 - 11-50 dearie. More grace!

[@temit2382]

Wise words👏🏿

[@chinwenduanozie4057]

This is Word!!! Thank you for this piece.

[@janeakunna]

Thank you for this video. it came at the right time it's just for me.

[@oyinazeez9463]

I just found your channel, and I really like your content and what your channel is all about. Concerning the spouse thing, our pastor asked us during a youth fellowship about what kinds of spouse we wanted and I realized I never really thought about it and started to give it though and this video definitely gives more direction. Thank you for sharing and may God continue to use you to bless your generation and beyond.

[@nadine7327]

Awesome content! BRAVO.

[@fadekemifosudo1427]

God speaks through you!

[@timileyinadenike9727]

Well Done!!!

[@missykelly01]

thank you for this video.. its amazing.. God bless you

[@PeaceDike-gs2pl]

I love this video sooo much ❤️🙏🏽

[@aomlove6367]

Loved this video so much. Thanks for all the words of wisdom. May God bless you 🙏

[@aimanwafor-ohiwerei9761]

Tosin, this is very true. Thnk you.

[@Zestsuli89]

I keep coming back to this video. Sound wisdom

[@Sxeymaxzma]

Thanks for the video. God bless you.

[@tramaineboakyepoku2914]

Wooow! God bless u ma!

[@rosa629]

Amen.. your will be done soon Amen.. I thank you so ,much Tosin...

[@chaysglam9345]

Amazing

[@damilolaoloyede1482]

Love you too. Thank youuuu

[@couragenkem2351]

Thank you!

[@Lade.A1]

i dont think anyone knows just how blessed i am to have stumbled on your channel, God bless you for this, to think that i went on your IG coz Dee Babalola said something about IG fine girl when you were running from her cam LOL!Love always.

[@teminioluwa1]

I just luv the content of this vid u really mentioned things messing up the ladies of nowadays they don't really don't want they truly want, only things they know is life on fleek lol Reality vs expectation kip doing the gud wrk. 😘

[@user-bn1yj2iw5u]

Thanks for this. What Camera is this video shot in? Very very crisp!

[@excellentvicky1120]

I love you already..you are deep

[@apajinwukabujanelle7731]

Its so annoying that I just got to know you....I've been going back to watch all the previous videos