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Connor And Liana

Connor And Liana

Күн бұрын

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@missmollyc
@missmollyc 2 жыл бұрын
When Liana was describing her thoughts on the operating table about how she would have been okay with dying now that she knew that babi was safe.. I literally teared up. You guys are so strong and I’m so glad that your family is together.
@frankiecooper5135
@frankiecooper5135 2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you
@datgaydangernoodle1315
@datgaydangernoodle1315 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed ❤️
@francescayvonne6831
@francescayvonne6831 2 жыл бұрын
I cry when she said that
@faemae7012
@faemae7012 2 жыл бұрын
I also cried. It was beautiful
@harpsworldd
@harpsworldd 2 жыл бұрын
She is so brave willing to die knowing her child is safe! Connor better limber up those knee’s 💍💍🤍
@YouTube
@YouTube 2 жыл бұрын
what a journey, sending both of you all the love in the world ❤ so happy you and baby are all safe
@g4uzy
@g4uzy 2 жыл бұрын
hi yt
@_kikizaman_
@_kikizaman_ 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Susan
@Cheesyvr123lol
@Cheesyvr123lol 2 жыл бұрын
Omggg KZbin
@cathrinenhemwabucknor
@cathrinenhemwabucknor 2 жыл бұрын
SUSAN WHAT U DOIN HERE
@Heldofo
@Heldofo 2 жыл бұрын
YAAAY KZbin!
@acwagner08
@acwagner08 2 жыл бұрын
Connor definitely deserves an applause for making Liana smile during her painful contractions, and making things positive even though he is on the brink of crying. Liana and Connor are going to be great parents, congrats on the Babi! I cant imagine how hard it’s been, both of you are so strong and brave.
@MicahPaige09
@MicahPaige09 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. 👍
@sandismith-king9507
@sandismith-king9507 2 жыл бұрын
For Sure
@Nevaeh_Slays1121
@Nevaeh_Slays1121 2 жыл бұрын
Yep! 👏🏻👏🏻
@mochi2673
@mochi2673 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@Astro_abbiexx
@Astro_abbiexx 2 жыл бұрын
👏
@qwjlstyiwdgt
@qwjlstyiwdgt Жыл бұрын
The fact that they both cried because they are worried and thankful for the other is so sad yet adorable it shows that they really care about eachother
@Brandi-s7l
@Brandi-s7l 3 ай бұрын
A 10lb 10oz baby enormous!
@JediChocha
@JediChocha 9 күн бұрын
@@Brandi-s7lheck yes that is a BIG baby. My son was 10 lb 5oz and the nurses were like “Wow Congratulations, you’ve had a mini football player” meanwhile a baby was born down the hall an hour later that weighed 12lbs 😵‍💫 can you imagine
@courtneymiller3602
@courtneymiller3602 2 жыл бұрын
This as someone who also had a traumatic birth after wanting a natural home birth, has been such a comfort to me. I struggled for ages (still do) to come to terms with my birth of my boy. After watching other people's 'fairytale' births I honestly thought I was on my own. Thank you for sharing your story x
@taylorah6409
@taylorah6409 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. My daughter is 6 and this video just brought it all back. My husband and I discuss having her a sibling all the time, but I still feel that trauma and I'm just not sure if I can do it again! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@scorpikidisteeny
@scorpikidisteeny 2 жыл бұрын
im pretty damn sure my mum had a tough time, im a triplet oops
@ThatDataLady
@ThatDataLady 2 жыл бұрын
You’re definately not on your own. Traumatic births are more common than fairytale ones 100%. A lot of women fall somewhere in between, but a lot of women have extremely traumatic births and pregnancies, they just feel guilty talking about it or admitting it. It’s okay. Hope you’re doing well mama.
@ThatDataLady
@ThatDataLady 2 жыл бұрын
@@taylorah6409 my suggestion is don’t. Your body is 6 years older, it likely won’t be better no matter what your obgyn says. I’d adopt.
@stephaniehowe997
@stephaniehowe997 2 жыл бұрын
@@ThatDataLady you have no idea what you are talking about. Statistics show that the likelihood of having the same sort of traumatic birth is relatively low
@merciimadam
@merciimadam 2 жыл бұрын
"Liana was over there taking it as a boss and I was over there forcing myself not to cry because I was so scared" Their relationship is the best one I have seen online. I feel like a lot of women don't know the many ways their birth can go, when Liana said she was fed fairytales of how her birth will happen is so true how a lot of women have it. It's so nice to see both mom, dad and baby healthy and happy.
@jessicafeeney7401
@jessicafeeney7401 2 жыл бұрын
Same great job liana your the best
@ThatDataLady
@ThatDataLady 2 жыл бұрын
Most women don’t have a fairytale. birth. Many many women have extremely traumatic pregnancies and/or births, and many have births that fall somewhere in between. I personally haven’t seen many fairytale births in my time. But I understand telling yourself, and ob’s telling first time moms to be calm and it’ll be beautiful. I have never been the type. I tell moms the truth, to not be scared, but it might be very very scary, but we will take care of you. Honesty is important. I’d say probably 40% of patients consider their birth traumatic, especially those who have to get emergency c-sections with little to no warning and those who go into labor very early, but women seldom talk about it because it often makes them feel guilty to admit that they didn’t love how their child came into the world
@Maddiee04
@Maddiee04 Жыл бұрын
I know I’m super late but this is like my third time watching this. Every time I do, I like Liana more and more, she keeps smiling, making jokes, even when she is in excruciating pain, it shows how strong she is.
@divine_simplicity
@divine_simplicity 5 ай бұрын
Liana WAS BRAVE HERE - I love Connor & Liana but pls give her the credit till she went trough the pain while Connor only had to watch on the side, it’s not fair since moms already never get the credit & respect for the whole pregnancy/ birth experience!👌
@nicholcd53
@nicholcd53 2 жыл бұрын
As a maternity nurse, birth is so traumatic. Don’t ever apologize for your trauma. It’s still taboo to talk about what happens in there. Especially in our sanitized society. You guys did great! Congratulations 🥳
@Justsomebody009
@Justsomebody009 2 жыл бұрын
Completely agree. I think anyone that’s going into birth has to expect it 1) to not go the way you want it too. I know you can’t prepare from trauma. And birth isn’t traumatic for everyone. I know I was lucky to have the experience I did but not everyone has that. My best friend had a really difficult time and it sounded very scary. She said she would not do it again. She was to traumatised by the experience
@hollydaugherty2620
@hollydaugherty2620 2 жыл бұрын
People need to use a new word. At this point "trauma" means literally nothing.
@harp_red
@harp_red 2 жыл бұрын
@@hollydaugherty2620 for some people birth does cause trauma not every birth experience is super traumatic but what some people go through is definitely traumatic not to the point the word means nothing
@NoMolechZoneLev
@NoMolechZoneLev 2 жыл бұрын
Just want to say thank you for all you do . I’ve had 3 natural births, but this last on July 29th was the wildest experience. My water broke at my regular dr appointment when he went to check my cervix so I had to go get induced and I only had 4 hours of insane contractions, I got one every time I moved my body and they were inconsistent the whole time but extremely intense. My labor nurse was AMAZING. Daddy was too but I think he was also 😳 about how it was going down . She really got me through the whole thing! I almost got an epidural just bc the doctor asked if I wanted one in the middle of an intense contraction, so out of complete fear and pain I said yes , she calmly asked me if that’s what I really wanted and I said no , and my daughter came so fast that she caught her! I will never forget her . This was also the first time I didn’t have my momma with me and she took on that roll for sure . ❤ thank you for all you do!!
@toothtown1914
@toothtown1914 2 жыл бұрын
@@hollydaugherty2620 the hell, plenty therapists and psych professionals use the word “trauma” as medical term. So yes, it is very such word that means something.
@MrsV18
@MrsV18 2 жыл бұрын
My brother and sister in law went through this emotional rollercoaster of nearly losing my sisters in law as her uterus and bladder both had ruptured during her BVAC attempt. She had an emergency c-section but the staff wouldn’t listen to her when she kept saying something is VERY WRONG. She waddled into the hallway screaming something is wrong and a doctor finally did an ultrasound and saw what was happening. Her numbed her right there and started cutting while they were wheeling her into the OR as he said they had about 3 minutes or less to get baby out or they would lose them both. They both lived but it was a terrifying time and it took months for the family to recover from it. I don’t wish that on anyone. I’m thankful for your medical team that was willing to give you the opportunity to try to have a natural birth, but stepped in and helped you through a very difficult delivery and post-birth period. Glad you and baby are safe but you did go through something traumatic. Take your time and heal mentally, emotionally and physically my dears.
@shilohivy4590
@shilohivy4590 2 жыл бұрын
This happened to my biological mother with me. First baby though. I was breech and footling and labor stopped completely (I’m adopted so this story is amazing to me. We met when I was 21). When the drs finally checked in on her after 12 hours I was in distress so they raced to surgery and I was born in three minutes. She was hiding this pregnancy from everyone so she had no prenatal care and was so I’ll she only gained ten pounds. I was 7 pounds 9 ounces. She even showed me the scar where I came out. Isn’t life amazing?
@DreamingOf_TheBeach
@DreamingOf_TheBeach 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness send 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 to your in-laws from me, how did they do that? It must if been so painful (>_
@MrsV18
@MrsV18 2 жыл бұрын
@@DreamingOf_TheBeach more scary in the moment and painful afterwards. They are doing terrific and my nephew is now 7.
@charlieb457
@charlieb457 2 жыл бұрын
Connor needs a best boyfriend/dad award. The way he didn't want to stress liana out by crying, he stayed with her the entire time and everything else. Congratulations guys!!
@realgurl3338
@realgurl3338 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! ☺️
@littlehell2655
@littlehell2655 2 жыл бұрын
bare minimum
@arianabrown9925
@arianabrown9925 2 жыл бұрын
@@littlehell2655 bye
@ssolomistake5748
@ssolomistake5748 2 жыл бұрын
Ye
@D1sturb3d.gh0u1
@D1sturb3d.gh0u1 2 жыл бұрын
@@arianabrown9925 it’s true, that’s the bare minimum
@emgoran91
@emgoran91 2 жыл бұрын
Liana speaking in the car and then Connor speaking in the kitchen broke my heart, the way they were both trying to stay so strong for each other🥺
@mikasa__ereh7414
@mikasa__ereh7414 2 жыл бұрын
Bro i cried 😭😭
@leonbray7680
@leonbray7680 2 жыл бұрын
The way she started crying bc of all that Connor has done really hit me. She is sad for Connor even tho she is in pain shows how much they care about each other. Love you guys❤️
@kaylahatfield1395
@kaylahatfield1395 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how similar our stories are. My son was born on August 4th via c-section. I stopped progressing at 7 cm and the dr said the baby’s head was tilted and said we may have to consider a c-section. There was also meconium in my fluid. After trying to continue naturally for 3 more hours, the dr suggested a c-section again and at this point we decided to go forward with it. After he was out the dr said there was no way he was coming vaginally due to the position of his head. After my husband left with the baby I started having an anxiety attack while on the operating table. The anesthesiologist told me that they were almost done but then 30 more minutes passed and they were still working. After what felt like forever they were taking me to the recovery room and I was shaking uncontrollably, crying, and couldn’t catch my breath. I found out in recovery that I had hemorrhaged during surgery and that’s why it took so long. My mom and husband kept asking if I wanted to hold the baby but I was shaking so bad I was afraid to hold him. Eventually the shaking stopped and the anxiety attack passed and I thought the bad part was over. We were discharged on the 5th day but 2 days later I was in my drs office because I had an infection and my incision had opened. I started to show signs of PPD pretty much as soon as we got home from the hospital. Yesterday marked 4 weeks since surgery and we are still working on getting the wound to heal completely. This was not how I ever imagined the birth would go and it’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But we made it through and I have my beautiful baby boy. Thank you for sharing your story and making me feel less alone in this experience ❤️
@angmoulton8528
@angmoulton8528 2 жыл бұрын
I lost a lot of blood naturally delivering, and I was two weeks late, with my first according to due date. I shook tons I didn't know they gave me pitocin my first daughter took almost 15 hours, and my second she was a week early at only 6 hours of labor they said oh hunny we're giving you fluids, no no they weren't fluids well not the hydrating type anyway 🤣 I was terrified all of a sudden my body was no longer in my control I didn't get anything for pain with either girls but man I would have with my second had I known, what a nightmare but she's happy healthy and almost 7 now, these videos bring me back
@juliatheduckqueenignoremei5022
@juliatheduckqueenignoremei5022 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, well done for getting through!
@moonsigil
@moonsigil 2 жыл бұрын
omg that's scary. How's your healing now?
@hello.6748
@hello.6748 Жыл бұрын
No one talks about how traumatic birth can be. 😕
@emmstrrrr6288
@emmstrrrr6288 Жыл бұрын
Hey! My birthday is August 4th!!!!
@emmakate8811
@emmakate8811 2 жыл бұрын
I almost starting crying when she was saying she felt bad that Connor was doing all this for her. This shows how much she cares about him and how much he cares about her. ❤️
@FIRE-EDEN
@FIRE-EDEN 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@jackie-fitz
@jackie-fitz 2 жыл бұрын
i highkey teared up because you could just FEEL the love they have for one another ugh they're awesome
@ParisfromTexas
@ParisfromTexas 2 жыл бұрын
Right? Made me emotional 🥹
@TashaOrmiston
@TashaOrmiston 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry it didn’t go to plan Liana. This shows the strength of a mother, how instinctual it is and how it instantly kicks in during labour because it sounds like you so bravely bossed such unpredictable and dangerous situations. It can be really tough to gather your thoughts and piece things together after labours like this so please take your time. I’m shocked we’ve even had this video so soon now knowing what you’ve been through. What both of you have been through, it’s hard for the Dads too! Take your time and continue to find the joy in baby boy, your life is now forever changed. Congratulations on baby boy being here and safe and congratulations on being a badass mummy ready to take on the world, because now you’ve done this, you can do anything. X
@Saffie15
@Saffie15 2 жыл бұрын
Ye
@elizabethcarpenter696
@elizabethcarpenter696 2 жыл бұрын
@@Saffie15 wow what a follow up
@warriordoghotdog
@warriordoghotdog 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethcarpenter696 no
@elizabethcarpenter696
@elizabethcarpenter696 2 жыл бұрын
@@warriordoghotdog … what
@warriordoghotdog
@warriordoghotdog 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethcarpenter696 no
@teezieweezie
@teezieweezie 2 жыл бұрын
my mom was in labor with me for three days as well. she always told me it was the most difficult thing she ever had to go through and now, watching you, liana, go through this makes me feel so much respect for my own mom as well. i cried twice during this video, once when connor was upset at seeing how much pain you were in, and another when liana said she would’ve gladly died knowing she delivered beautiful babi into the world. i’m so glad you three are all safe. babi is going to grow up in a wonderful home.
@Sxrxh_56
@Sxrxh_56 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that you and your mother are safe and god bless you both.
@PlayingRoblox321
@PlayingRoblox321 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 😭😔🥺
@marzipanmango
@marzipanmango 2 жыл бұрын
My mom was in labour with me for over two days, and I was over 10 lbs like Liana's Babi 😅 My mum says it was very very difficult, and she had pain relief as soon as her contractions got bad, so I can't image how much pain Liana went through. I can't help but cry when I see other people cry, so I feel you 😔
@Amydaven
@Amydaven 2 жыл бұрын
@@RED-fo9py I don’t see the problem with their comment
@acidicredrose7690
@acidicredrose7690 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@jessicamcglaughlin9152
@jessicamcglaughlin9152 2 жыл бұрын
I love how Connor said “we ha-“ and he corrected himself by saying “she has” when describing what she has been through. As someone with a really big pet peeve about people saying “We are pregnant”, this just made me so happy that Connor is still crediting Liana with the pains of the experience
@Aesthetic-Weirdo
@Aesthetic-Weirdo Жыл бұрын
time stamp?
@Oliver389
@Oliver389 Жыл бұрын
6:41
@Aesthetic-Weirdo
@Aesthetic-Weirdo Жыл бұрын
@@Oliver389 thanks bro💖
@klaurel4984
@klaurel4984 Жыл бұрын
What's wrong with, "we had a baby" It's the result of 2 people who love each other becoming one through their friendship and sexual union and creating something beautiful .
@-sunsetdreamwolf-
@-sunsetdreamwolf- Жыл бұрын
@@klaurel4984yeah we have a baby is great but WE are PREGNANT is honestly disrespectful in my opinion 😕
@shelbyshelbyshelby
@shelbyshelbyshelby 2 жыл бұрын
connor couldn’t even bring himself to say that he thought liana might die. what a love the three of you share ❤️ congrats on a healthy mama and baby!
@allisonhunter1063
@allisonhunter1063 2 жыл бұрын
I love how involved Connor wants to be and has been with this pregnancy. You can tell he's invested 100% in these two.
@emxia4327
@emxia4327 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that she FILMED the entire thing while she was experiencing that kind of pain is truly amazing, sending love and prayers during this tough time ❤️
@welcome_Home414
@welcome_Home414 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Lovelyhorses12
@Lovelyhorses12 2 жыл бұрын
yeah but i cant get over connor saying i KNoW I CaN bE a d**K
@harriethawken568
@harriethawken568 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@sophielou4243
@sophielou4243 Жыл бұрын
The fact that Liana feels bad how much Connor is doing for her and Connor doesn't know what more to do shows how amazing the two of them are as a couple. Your babi is the most lucky baby ever to have you two as his mummy and daddy. Happy 1st Birthday Koazy, we love you so much ❤
@shizzaabid5812
@shizzaabid5812 2 жыл бұрын
My mum lost her first child during a c- section. Even though it has been almost 17 years she can't talk about it. Now I know how she must have felt but even worse cause she told us that she tried so hard to get pregnant but lost her baby many times in the first trimester. I just wanna say all mom's are amazing and deserve nothing but love
@Icehockey_music-lover
@Icehockey_music-lover 2 жыл бұрын
That's like my mom she lost 1 of them during c section and gave birth to a dead baby and lost one a few day before it was supposed to be born and so the doctors had to operate to get the rest of the baby out, the 4th one she lost during pregnancy but after 12 years minus 2 years she got pregnant and now I have a baby brother and minus 2 years is because in 2020 mom lost the fourth baby
@shizzaabid5812
@shizzaabid5812 2 жыл бұрын
@@Icehockey_music-lover I hope you and your family r fine
@Icehockey_music-lover
@Icehockey_music-lover 2 жыл бұрын
Yes we are he's healthy and mom is too
@heartsfortokiohotell
@heartsfortokiohotell 2 жыл бұрын
My mum had to have a c-section when I was born and I almost didn't make it
@Icehockey_music-lover
@Icehockey_music-lover 2 жыл бұрын
@@heartsfortokiohotell well included to the 4th baby the same happened my mom was in labour for 48 hr and nothing happened if she hadn't pushed to get my brother out both cude of died
@czelzsuzsa2461
@czelzsuzsa2461 2 жыл бұрын
Connors crying at 33:00 is just heartwarming. The fact that he cares so much and worries … you guys are gonna be so good parents.
@kathleenhargreaves9865
@kathleenhargreaves9865 Жыл бұрын
You are righ he dose care so much
@carolhannah3889
@carolhannah3889 Жыл бұрын
That’s a good sign that he’s a good boyfriend and a good dad
@nolonlindataylor1689
@nolonlindataylor1689 Ай бұрын
Sorry that you are going through a very tough time. Connor is so sweet. I pray that he will marry you and make you all a little family.
@MMMR.19
@MMMR.19 2 жыл бұрын
I swear Connor treats her so well as though she’s the most fragile and important thing in the entire world
@cassidydestefano7026
@cassidydestefano7026 2 жыл бұрын
It really does make a world of a difference to have a supportive partner. My mom really had to do EVERYTHING on her own and I can’t even imagine.. I have birth yesterday to my husband and my baby girl and he has been AMAZING. An amazing father from start to finish and on and an AMAZING husband for the past 4 years. I wish everyone, every single person, could have someone like that. Connor seems to be in the same boat. Loving partners and rock star dads. I’m so proud of you and how you’ve handled everything Liana, with what you chose to share! Even though your birthing experience didn’t go exactly to plan, you handled everything, including contractions, like a champ! Much love towards you all and Gods many blessings!❤️
@F1zzy_Lem0nade
@F1zzy_Lem0nade 2 жыл бұрын
About a year ago, I would've never expected myself to watch a youtubers journey through pregnancy and then watch a like, documentary about it too. But here I am, and I'm not mad about it. You two are some of the sweetest people I've seen, you two are perfect for each other and you'll be amazing parents. I know you didn't end up getting the home birth you wanted, but I'm glad that Liana and the baby are okay.
@ThatDataLady
@ThatDataLady 2 жыл бұрын
If you’re interested in someone else’s extperience, especially an older woman’s, I would watch Colleen Balingers journey with her son and miscarriage and twins
@WinterStones
@WinterStones 2 жыл бұрын
@@ThatDataLady she miscarried????
@mozziert
@mozziert 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same.
@scribblees
@scribblees 2 жыл бұрын
The segment with each of them talking one on one on the camera about how much they’re thinking about the other and how much they love one another is so heartwarming I can’t even
@star.interlude
@star.interlude 2 жыл бұрын
From Connor letting his guard down and getting emotional to Liana talking about how her only thoughts were the fact that if she died the baby was safe, this was beautiful. Growing up in a house filled with children, I've seen births go to plan, I've seen births not go to plan. I'd definitely say this deserves a massive well done, you handled it amazingly. You're both absolute warriors, hope everything's ok with Babi now, take it easy you guys, we love you❤
@Art.d3co
@Art.d3co 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched this so many times and always cry at the bit where Liana talks About how grateful she was for Connor
@sarahs8987
@sarahs8987 2 жыл бұрын
I have had 4 children. I am 31 years old. And I hemorrhaged with ALL four needing blood transfusions!! And iron transfusions! You are a strong mother. Your body is capable of more than you will ever know. Your husband is a good man and you have a healthy beautiful baby boy that you grew! Embrace your story pull out your strengths and find that happiness in your power as a mother as a woman. And be proud!!! Be damn proud momma!!! Because labor is no joke. Because surgery is no joke! Be proud strong girl!!
@Baky_T
@Baky_T 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful comment ❤️
@wepeelwraps
@wepeelwraps 2 жыл бұрын
@@Baky_T agreed! love to all the strong moms out there💘💘
@familyof1052
@familyof1052 2 жыл бұрын
We have 8 kids. I hemorrhaged with 6 of them. Our first 6 were delivered naturally and the last one was born at 25 weeks by cesarean. I worked in labor and delivery for over a decade. I always tell women that a birth plan is great, but to also remember baby will do what it wants and if it is healthy that is the main goal. So many people get very upset if it doesnt go the way they have always imagined/dreamed it would. I will say a cesarean doesnt feel as satisfying (if that makes sense) but most of these things are somewhat common. Not fun, but happen quite often. No one should feel like it wasnt one of the best experiences of their life if a healthy baby is the end result. Going through that as a first time parent can be scary though. Especially if they only pictured it one way during the whole pregnancy.
@chloedavies8637
@chloedavies8637 2 жыл бұрын
I started crying when Liana was talking about how bad she feels because Connor is doing everything for her. I also cried when Connor was saying how hard it is to see her in pain knowing there’s nothing he can do apart from be there for her. I also teared up when Liana was talking about how if something was to happen during surgery that she would be okay because she birthed their beautiful baby boy. Amazing story congratulations 💙
@robynduggan9194
@robynduggan9194 2 жыл бұрын
I agree and I hope u have a wonderful day your a great person
@Lauverforlife
@Lauverforlife 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@riverhunter21226
@riverhunter21226 2 жыл бұрын
currently at the part where liana’s having contractions and her and connor got up to dance and i literally teared up. they’re so cute. you can see the love they have for each other. you can just tell they’re gonna be the best parents to their sweet boy 🥹
@TinaJohnson59
@TinaJohnson59 2 жыл бұрын
I've had two sons naturally and they were both so quick, that with one of them(can't remember which one), the doctors said I had ripped my uterus(or something) and I was bleeding heavily. They had to inject me(inside) with something that apparently stopped the bleeding. Both sons were 8 pounds something in weight. I can't even imagine going through labor for days, with little progress then having to have a C-section. And then with so much blood loss. I started following you after your baby came, so I am backtracking to catch up. You are both such a sweet and genuine couple. I wish your little family the best, and many blessings into 2023.
@adamstacy2591
@adamstacy2591 2 жыл бұрын
I teared up when Liana started talking about how amazing and supportive Conner had been, and when he kept saying how strong and amazing she was. Of course bringing a person in to the world is a beautiful thing, but I find it even more amazing when both parents can come together to support and uplift one another to see their creation come into the world. Congratulations to you both! Sending my prayers to you guys, and your amazing baby boy🥰
@glacier2941
@glacier2941 2 жыл бұрын
I cried at least 3 times through this video😭 both of them were so strong and amazing
@zareenspam
@zareenspam 2 жыл бұрын
I love how Connor is so supportive and trying to do everything thing possible to make you feel much better
@dineo692
@dineo692 2 жыл бұрын
Dude!!!
@dtwotimes10
@dtwotimes10 2 жыл бұрын
That's a gentleman right there
@tacoperson2349
@tacoperson2349 2 жыл бұрын
Liana describing how bad she felt because connor was so amazing, and when connor described how hard it was to watch Liana in such pain i started crying, because it was so amazing to watch how MUCH you love each other❤️❤️
@Ellie-q5i
@Ellie-q5i 8 ай бұрын
From 31:35 to 33:00 Connor made me cry for how much he was kind to her As my old teacher used to say if you can choose to be anything in the world choose to be kind because you never know what someone is going through.
@Yegiap
@Yegiap 2 жыл бұрын
Can we appreciate how strong they both are? Connor stayed up with her and did everything her could for her, and Lianna stayed strong the entire time and even laughed through her pain, they’re both so strong and are going to be great parents
@deanajordan4959
@deanajordan4959 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree. Such a lucky boy to have such amazing parents. So proud of them to stay so focused and strong xx
@JeSs83894
@JeSs83894 2 жыл бұрын
Connor is the best boyfriend ever. He didn’t want to sleep when liana wasn’t. He made sure she was okay at the slightest noise she made. Liana is such a champion. The bit about when she was talking about how she would have been okay if she died as Babi was safe brought me to tears. Even though she was going through so much she felt bad for keeping Connor up. I am so proud of you guys and I’m so glad liana fully recovered and babi is okay Thank you this is the most likes I’ve gotten 🫶🏼 Like if you know that Connor and liana are the best parents ever
@just_jadeee
@just_jadeee 2 жыл бұрын
Ik he’s so sweet
@KatieandHelena
@KatieandHelena 2 жыл бұрын
I was about to say the same thing
@shannonh2705
@shannonh2705 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly this!!! Made me emotional, they were incredible!
@lellow28makeup
@lellow28makeup 2 жыл бұрын
As a c-section and definitely late baby about to become an adult, I was moved by this as it shed some light into my own parents' experience and want to assure you that both baby and mum can get through this. You both seem to care so much about each other, I look up to creating a similar bond one day and I can only wish you and your family the best in future. Congratulations!
@crownonpoint
@crownonpoint Жыл бұрын
Aw literally bawled when Liana started to cry discussing that she'd given birth to a healthy baby boy. Tough momma! ❤❤
@username.unknown.0
@username.unknown.0 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that this video has gotten over 1.5million views in less than a day shows how much everyone missed and care about Connor and liana
@quinnie.33
@quinnie.33 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@someoneyouknew2318
@someoneyouknew2318 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@golden_bunnyrabbit3013
@golden_bunnyrabbit3013 2 жыл бұрын
And baby!
@clareeeeee
@clareeeeee 2 жыл бұрын
Fr
@EquinesWithAddi
@EquinesWithAddi 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been checking there channel and shorts for almost 11 days now and finally babi is here!🥹🥰😍
@samanthahughes7783
@samanthahughes7783 2 жыл бұрын
My son was 5 weeks premature and I started bleeding behind my uterus. I managed to deliver naturally, but passed out as they showed him to me. My husband didn’t tell me until my son was about 8 that he nearly lost us both that day, and as a man who could lay his hand to anything, how helpless he felt. I am so glad you’re all fine, and I and my now 22 year old 6’2” son wish you health and happiness. ❤️
@CurlsnCrime
@CurlsnCrime 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never sobbed as much as I did. When Liana lost it just talking about how she would have been okay going knowing she had delivered her beautiful and healthy baby boy, really got me. I am so glad both baby and Liana are okay now.
@FaerieLoki
@FaerieLoki 2 жыл бұрын
Fr, that part made me lose it and I started crying.
@caseydykes117
@caseydykes117 Жыл бұрын
Few comments here Connor- you are a shining example of support, love, care and your drive to do everything you could here was absolutely incredible. So much respect. Liana- you are incredible. I know your planned birth was for home but to just hear and see the difference In you after some pain releif and sleep in the hospital- you guys made the right call when u did. You did so good. So so SO good. I am so proud of you.
@ariyannarhodes220
@ariyannarhodes220 2 жыл бұрын
I was checking youtube and tiktok everyday because I was getting so worried. I'm glad that baby boy is here now. I'm sorry to hear what an experience you guys had. To be honest I would've had a breakdown too. So happy that you're all okay even though Liana still has to heal a little bit. So glad to hear from you guys!!!
@Ha1L3y_S
@Ha1L3y_S 2 жыл бұрын
Hey yt
@lexislife5465
@lexislife5465 2 жыл бұрын
Babies head is tiny
@juliemay6945
@juliemay6945 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@tyleigh6960
@tyleigh6960 2 жыл бұрын
@@juliemay6945 Sameee
@aliceb8745
@aliceb8745 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad o
@TheMaggsnificent17
@TheMaggsnificent17 2 жыл бұрын
I did this myself 16 years ago. We didn’t end up with a c section, I was in active labor for three days and I thought I was going to die. No matter how that babi gets here, as long as they are safe that is what matters. Healthy babi, healthy mama. Both of you guys are so strong.
@vanillaxval
@vanillaxval 2 жыл бұрын
No it’s not.
@charlotte6154
@charlotte6154 2 жыл бұрын
@@vanillaxval wtf??
@vanillaxval
@vanillaxval 2 жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with you all? Healthy Baby doesn’t mean healthy mom. That’s bullshit. Mom’s heath is important too. Not just the baby. I does matter how the mom feels, If she’s safe. Stop that shit.
@TheMaggsnificent17
@TheMaggsnificent17 2 жыл бұрын
@@vanillaxval what I meant is it doesn’t matter how that baby gets here, the most important thing is that the outcome is a healthy baby, and a healthy mom. And right now Liana is healthy. Yeah, she had a lot of super traumatic interventions, but she is alive, and doing as good as she can be under the circumstances. She very easily could have died, and her baby absolutely would have died if she had decided to stay home and try to push through what she was going through. She shouldn’t feed bad for having medical interventions that saved both of their lives. End of story.
@iwannakms1
@iwannakms1 2 жыл бұрын
@@vanillaxval … the mom being healthy is pretty much the mom being ok after the birth- no it doesn’t ALWAYS mean that the mom is greatly after the birth but it’s not bull
@madelineandscarlett
@madelineandscarlett 2 жыл бұрын
When Connor said, “We are all family at this point.” I started to tear up. I love you guys. I am so happy that your baby is safe. ❤️
@chloet182
@chloet182 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that you don't get your chilled home birth but I just wanted to say THANK YOU so much for being so open and honest about the reality of birth and how everything can change in an instant. I guarantee that this video is going to help SO many mums and dads in the future and make them realise they aren't alone and it's okay to be disappointed or upset about how difficult..traumatic and upsetting labour can be! By being so brave and open about the reality of birth your bringing comfort to so many people out there who don't have the "perfect" birth and it's so important to show the other side because all to often we only get to see the picture perfect labour stories where everything goes to plan e though the majority of births are not as movies and media present it to be. Of course my heart breaks for the fact you both had to go through such a difficult and stressful life experience and would have loved for you to have gotten the relaxing home birth you had planned for. However this experience is son important to share and if more people showed the hard and scary parts people would be better prepared when things do go wrong. Hats of to you both again you dealt with a extremely painful and complex birth so well and I hope you are able to health from the physical and mental scars a birth with complications can bring you. I wanted to say to Connor he was an amazing partner and although he isn't physically experiencing the pain birth partners often take on a lot of the trauma when complications arise because they are fully conscious and aware of everything going wrong. The person in labour if flooded with adrenaline and exhausted almost in a semi-conscious state not fully aware of everything happening which in cases like this is often a blessing . I've had a large bleed before and I was so woozy and out of it I make me weirdly calm and not fully aware of the imminent danger and panicking amongst the staff. Of course the pain is horrific and the experience was without a doubt traumatic it was defiantly worse for the mainly watching as they could see the bleeding and the life fading out of me coupled with the sense of utter helplessness and wanting to "fix it" . For that reason I'm blown away at how well Connor dealt with the whole situation because it's absolutely terrifying and you have to put on a brave face for your partner and he handled it perfectly. I hope the both of you continue to open up about the trauma and share your feelings .. I've NEVER been more proud of two strangers and I'm in complete awe of how strong and healthy your relationship is 😍. Often men feel like they can't complain or have a cry about what happened because they weren't the ones physically experiencing the pain but especially in situations like this the birthing partner takes on a huge amount of the stress..trauma and emotional turmoil and it's complexly okay to be terrified and be upset about what happened after all Connor had to watch on for days unable to do anything to really help and then he had to watch as she was bleeding out feeling he had to be the one to hold it all together
@officiallyabbey
@officiallyabbey 2 жыл бұрын
I can tell how much Liana and Connor care for their baby boy. The way she said she’d be ok to go having the peace of mind that Babi was safe made me tear up. I can already tell you guys will be and are amazing parents and I’m so glad the Liana is ok! I was checking your channel every day like I hope they are ok. And I’m so relieved you are.
@melaniegarci9932
@melaniegarci9932 2 жыл бұрын
Same here;],
@glossy.blaire4515
@glossy.blaire4515 2 жыл бұрын
What time of the video did she say about she was ready to go?
@officiallyabbey
@officiallyabbey 2 жыл бұрын
@@glossy.blaire4515 let me look
@officiallyabbey
@officiallyabbey 2 жыл бұрын
@@glossy.blaire4515 49:35 - 49:55 hope that helps!
@officiallyabbey
@officiallyabbey 2 жыл бұрын
@@melaniegarci9932 🙂
@Delicate_Disaster
@Delicate_Disaster 2 жыл бұрын
I just adore how supportive and soothing Connor was through all of it. Especially how when Liana would get overwhelmed and his tone would change and he would speak softer to calm her or be goofy to get her out of her head and distract her. His literally the perfect pregnancy partner. He put his fears and feelings aside to make sure she got calmed down and kept safe.
@scmreport2457
@scmreport2457 2 жыл бұрын
If I ever get my hands in big money im going to buy billboards that say "use contraceptives, don't bring more to come suffer"
@Delicate_Disaster
@Delicate_Disaster 2 жыл бұрын
@@scmreport2457 whatever you say.
@scmreport2457
@scmreport2457 2 жыл бұрын
@@Delicate_Disaster Potable water is running out and the worst is yet to come..
@scmreport2457
@scmreport2457 2 жыл бұрын
@@Delicate_Disaster Not only is it Biblical prophecy but it can be seen we are slowly headed towards calamity
@Delicate_Disaster
@Delicate_Disaster 2 жыл бұрын
@@scmreport2457 okay.
@ur_local_equestrian_flickr2536
@ur_local_equestrian_flickr2536 2 жыл бұрын
Omg guys I’m so sorry, the community post told us something wasn’t right, but we honestly had no idea what trauma you were going through. But I’m glad baby is safe and well, and so are mum and dad 💙 Connor was amazing during labour, and Liana was so strong and brave. Well done both of you and I can’t wait to meet baby!
@misseselise3864
@misseselise3864 2 жыл бұрын
this was exactly what most people thought happened
@Amanda-Renee
@Amanda-Renee 2 жыл бұрын
@@misseselise3864 yep! I tried to warn them that this might happen, but when people get a birth plan into place they don’t like to differ unfortunately. Baby doesn’t care about our birth plans! My c sections were traumatic and they were planned. At least they have a healthy baby boy now 💜💜
@ur_local_equestrian_flickr2536
@ur_local_equestrian_flickr2536 2 жыл бұрын
I know, I’m not a birth expert, never had one of my own, but I mean let’s all be glad they’re ok. It’s just the way the community post said it I didn’t expect it I just thought they had to be transferred to hospital and no C section 😊
@M_Night_Shamalamadingdong
@M_Night_Shamalamadingdong 9 ай бұрын
I was recommended this video when I was about 9 months pregnant and I avoided watching it because I was afraid it would give me birth anxiety. I am glad I waited to watch it. I too had a similar experience in the beginning and had a midwife and planned a natural birth. Similarily, it was a 40+ hr labor and was not progressing well and hubby and me were exhausted. I related so well to you guys at that time. My water was broken at the hospital and I received Pitocin and it progressed from there and I was able to deliver naturally 🤞 Baby was much smaller than yours fortunately and positioned as he should. He did have severe meconium aspiration though and had to be on breathing support for a few weeks before we could get him home. All is well now 🙏 Beautiful video. You are amazing people and role models, parents. Congratulations and well done.
@Rylee917
@Rylee917 4 ай бұрын
I know you commented this 5 months ago but congratulations ❤
@M_Night_Shamalamadingdong
@M_Night_Shamalamadingdong 3 ай бұрын
@@Rylee917aw, thank you!
@meganhayes3272
@meganhayes3272 2 жыл бұрын
I labored for 36 hours before having an emergency c section. It’s not easy but you are so strong momma. Sending you all the love in the world, my son is almost 11mo now- it gets better ♥️
@user-bw1xg6ye6i
@user-bw1xg6ye6i 2 жыл бұрын
hi can i ask why you or them choose not to have a c-section or a normal birth in hospital but preferred pool birth at home?
@meganhayes3272
@meganhayes3272 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-bw1xg6ye6i I can’t speak for anyone else but my labor was at a hospital. I was induced before my due date due to medical concerns and I labored at the hospital and ultimately had a c section.
@myliza700
@myliza700 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-bw1xg6ye6i if they think that it's safe for the mother to continue with labor and she is ok with it normally it's fine if they continue labor. It's honestly 90% Up to mom and baby LESS there's clearly a medical problem. My brother was 2 weeks past due. He was scheduled for normal delivery. Bt he quit breathing bc his lungs said he should be breathing oxygen now bt for whatever reason he decided to show my mom early on what a shithead he'd be. Bt doctors tend to prefer natural progress if it's safe to do so.
@user-bw1xg6ye6i
@user-bw1xg6ye6i 2 жыл бұрын
@@myliza700 i understood, thanks
@tiggywiggy388
@tiggywiggy388 2 жыл бұрын
@megan god bless u and ur family
@arisizemore2667
@arisizemore2667 2 жыл бұрын
Liana has been so incredibly brave throughout the entire pregnancy, first off by deciding on a home birth for your first pregnancy, which may sound less scary to some people idk but I think it’s such a brave option. Then with the birth oh my gosh I’m just amazed and so so happy that everyone is okay.
@songbirdsounds3721
@songbirdsounds3721 2 жыл бұрын
My mum went through this when I was 13 and I remember she almost died and I was so scared to lose her. She went through the c section in tears and almost died on the table. I still remember seeing her afterwards and feeling such relief, as much as we fight I never wanna lose her. I’m so glad you spoke openly about this to educate
@wesley.elizabeth
@wesley.elizabeth 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sry🤕🙁🙁
@leahfinnell7720
@leahfinnell7720 2 жыл бұрын
Very similar thing happened to me as well, I was 13 when my mom had to have an emergency C-section, his oxygen supply was compromised greatly and was on the verge of brain damage, and we almost lost my brother. 2 and a half years later and he’s a happy healthy absolutely wild boy
@itsmeamy4139
@itsmeamy4139 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so srry for u!!!
@lilyseymour5344
@lilyseymour5344 2 жыл бұрын
My mom had a stroke and a c-section when she was having me and it almost killed both of us. I’m so glad me and her are both here today 15 years later
@avar8015
@avar8015 2 жыл бұрын
I lost track of y’all on KZbin for a while and just found this video. Cried the whole way through it. You both are so strong and have been through so much. Liana, you are a superhero. I am so so proud of you and your beautiful family. Much love to all of you.
@mollykey5590
@mollykey5590 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a twin, my mother had a similar story, however the hospital staff failed to identify the seriousness of the bleeding. I’m so thankful she is still here today, it’s actually her 50th bday! Be proud of yourself and enjoy life with your beautiful baby boy ❤️
@C3L3ST1AL_N1GHTS
@C3L3ST1AL_N1GHTS 2 жыл бұрын
My mum was in labor with me on and off for 1 week straight. She was supposed to have a home birth too but she ended up in the C section at the hospital.She told me that it was the most difficult but worth it thing shes gone through. She went into labor the day after her birth date and it took a week. I have so much respect for her and any person who's had a similar experience.
@mkats4939
@mkats4939 2 жыл бұрын
When Connor started crying my heart melted😭 he is the best boyfriend ever caring so much for Liana! I’m so happy for the both of you!!! Well done to the both of you! You have worked so hard and I’m so excited to meet baby boy!!! Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@mckinsieoldenburg
@mckinsieoldenburg 2 жыл бұрын
When I was watching this and when Liana was talking about her experience and being able to be OK with the fact that she could die, but she was fine with it since she knew that her babi was safe, made me literally ball.
@ayomideabiona1
@ayomideabiona1 2 жыл бұрын
My mum went through a similar thing, lost 6 litres of blood with my baby sister (she had 5, 1 litre was blood transfusion too) and I remember the day so vividly. It is scary, I remember the panic and waiting working out the best thing to do. Her bleeding at home and then in the hospital. I was in school, the day she went in for the c-section so I was told about the blood loss part after. There’s a lot more to the story but I will say when I look at my sister and mum it makes me emotional at times, so strong and I feel sooooo blessed to have them both with me. My sister is now 8 and thriving and it’s part of my mums testimony too. You’ve done so well Liana and Conor! I pray for peace and comfort for you both right now as you navigate your emotions through this time and also being new parents! 😊
@isharahman8562
@isharahman8562 2 жыл бұрын
6 LITRES OF BLOOD 😱😱 what a scary experience damm women really need to be more appreciated in this world😔
@lollyposted7386
@lollyposted7386 2 жыл бұрын
☺️🌻
@Superkoolperson15
@Superkoolperson15 2 жыл бұрын
My fiance stated crying when Connor started telling us how he's feeling. I am severely disabled due to chronic pain. That helpless feeling is what he feels every few days when I have pain attacks. The fact you guys showed the reality of this helped not just expecting and previous mothers, but others also. Thank you and well done for being so strong throughout this. Congratulations on Baby
@ashkay08
@ashkay08 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you. I have chronic pain and chronic health issues as well but I’m single. I’m so glad you have someone as supportive as your husband and I couldn’t agree more with all you said. Having that support during something so scary is so vital for not only the physical pain, but the surge of emotions someone goes through during labor. It’s scary enough as it is having a baby (I don’t have any yet) and laboring for almost 72 hours but I can’t imagine the fear Connor was in being more alert than Liana, and Liana, YOU ARE A BAD ASS MOM!!!! My sister inlaw hemorrhaged when she had my niece and now she’s a rambunctious 4 year old and I couldn’t imagine what could have happened. I am keeping all of you in my prayers. I don’t know if you share the name of Babi in this video because I paused at 48:40 to reply to this comment but I can’t wait to hear the name and watch them grow up and the two of you being incredible parents 🧡🧡 Thats one blessed baby! I’m praying for your healing love 🙏🏻
@sweetvictory3100
@sweetvictory3100 2 жыл бұрын
Im also in my own health battle, started with pain, now my life is on the line, shes blessed to have him, my spouse left me in my ongoing trial, this was hard to watch due to my daily life, fears, struggles and suffering, i miss my son, i lost him due to my health, my birthing experience wasnt easy on me or my son, my health has never been the same nor his but i would never take it back, my son showed me what love was and is, never the same after u become a parent, blessed are those that have someone to stick by them during hard times, 9 yr complex battle for me now, chronic pain is rough, its taken a lot out of me since i dont do well on drugs, i pray and cry my way thru my days at this point, i pray for all of us suffering, may God make himself known to us and give us the strength to endure and peace, comfort and support to keep going, ❤
@MakeupJunkie0000
@MakeupJunkie0000 2 жыл бұрын
I thought of how my family felt because of the same thing. I've struggled with extreme severe chronic pain and health issues for a solid 5+ years now and I always feel guilty about how I must be impacting them but at the same time, it's so much harder to go at it alone. I've been in the hospital for over a year now - for the most part completely alone and I think that is the hardest part. I wish I had someone close to me to be there with me with the nights are seemingly impossible to get through. Stay strong
@sweetvictory3100
@sweetvictory3100 2 жыл бұрын
@@MakeupJunkie0000 youve been in the hospital alone for a year?
@MakeupJunkie0000
@MakeupJunkie0000 2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetvictory3100 A bit more than a year now unfortunately
@positivekern3417
@positivekern3417 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of them for honoring the mother's story separate from introducing babi. So often this is glossed over and then, like Liana said, people are fed fairy tales. I'm also so proud of them for taking time off from socials for the whole family, and especially Liana to recover. Birthing is beautiful, but it is also a major, traumatic event, even without the trauma of incredible invasive surgery. Good on you both for putting your needs first. I for one *can* wait to meet the little lad because I have so much respect for your honoring this recovery period.
@ur_fav_esethu_gal
@ur_fav_esethu_gal 9 ай бұрын
Who’s watching this in 2024 when Koazy was already born
@bumblebee7263
@bumblebee7263 8 ай бұрын
Me, I was waiting for the vid and I thought they didn't post one until today
@ur_fav_esethu_gal
@ur_fav_esethu_gal 8 ай бұрын
@@bumblebee7263 lol 😂
@kcbooks1354
@kcbooks1354 7 ай бұрын
@DanielleBlayney
@DanielleBlayney 6 ай бұрын
@@ur_fav_esethu_gallol
@Natasha-z4u
@Natasha-z4u 6 ай бұрын
Me lol
@isabelcalabria-holden9883
@isabelcalabria-holden9883 2 жыл бұрын
I had a very similar experience and I found it extremely difficult to talk about. You can request your birth notes, I read mine frequently during the first year. They can help you understand what happened, affirm your own memories and help to process the experience. My hospital also offered a birth debrief where the notes where fully explained minute by minute by the head midwife. I found that to be incredibly helpful. I also invested heavily in the idea of hypnobirthing and felt I was sold a pipe dream. You will heal physically and mentally, lean on your support network, vocalise your feelings often, cry all the tears. There will come a time when you can relay this story without having to relive the terror I'm sure you felt. Birth trauma is real, and a safe and healthy baby doesn't take away the trauma you've experienced. Sending lots of love and healing!
@angiewilliams572
@angiewilliams572 2 жыл бұрын
You are spot on I had a very traumatic birth too and with help and support you can talk about it and except what happened…
@misseselise3864
@misseselise3864 2 жыл бұрын
i hope she sees this
@Seirashot
@Seirashot 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could award or highlight this comment. Liana, I hope you see this. I will be sending you good healing vibes. Congratulations on your beautiful baby. ❤️‍🩹♥️
@fereshta23
@fereshta23 2 жыл бұрын
The fact they went through all this but were strong for each other shows they are meant to be. Thank you so much for being realistic with us and still recording after so many hardships, can’t wait to see Babi!
@youtotallydontknowme1
@youtotallydontknowme1 2 жыл бұрын
She stood strong, she cried a few times, but with the help of everyone’s support she made it! She inspires us everyday and brightens me up when I am miserable. You are amazing Liana! We love u❤️😭 Connor, you stood patiently, was there to do anything for ur girlfriend (now the mom of your child), and was there to support her whenever it was needed. Both have u have taught everyone important life lessons and i hope you succeed to be an INCREDIBLE mother and father. ❤️❤️❤️
@aneeshamohammed3538
@aneeshamohammed3538 2 жыл бұрын
This was really sweet...
@REGGYEGGY111
@REGGYEGGY111 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@ur_fav_esethu_gal
@ur_fav_esethu_gal 9 ай бұрын
Whos watching this in 2024 ??
@GrandpasFinger
@GrandpasFinger 9 ай бұрын
Samee
@filmedbynia2
@filmedbynia2 9 ай бұрын
Mee im watching again 😂😂😂
@Shaun_2024
@Shaun_2024 8 ай бұрын
Me again
@Jacqueline-pv4hw
@Jacqueline-pv4hw 8 ай бұрын
Meee
@SiennaJ16
@SiennaJ16 8 ай бұрын
Me lol
@I_love_cats_S7d
@I_love_cats_S7d 2 жыл бұрын
Can we all appreciate how supportive Connor was when he was close to tears just broke my heart and how sad it was to see Liana in so much pain and how she would be okay if she died now that she new that babi was safe I have followed this journey since Liana told Connor she was pregnant love your videos and how much you support eachother
@zuzaa3
@zuzaa3 2 жыл бұрын
This sounds like an experience i had. I also had to had an emergency C-section, baby pooed in me and I also lost a lot of blood to the point I needed a transfusion. You’re already an amazing mum. You’ve been through so much and it’s not easy! Sending all three of you loads of love 💕
@eloraos353
@eloraos353 2 жыл бұрын
I just can't believe how unbelievably strong you are especially for this being your first pregnancy. I hope you realise that you have become a inspiration to many women for your brave act. I am in tears right now trying to put myself in your shoes and thinking about how you and Connor must have felt. My mother herself went through a similar experience when she was giving natural birth in the hospital. And I just want to say that I look up to you. And I hope that your baby boy will grow up to realise what a warrior he has as a mother the same way I think of my mum. And the fact you said you would go through all of this again for the outcome is amazing. You and Connor are amazing!
@lexialloyd5183
@lexialloyd5183 17 күн бұрын
I’m rewatching all of their videos since I was a fan since before the pregnancy but what gets me every time is when Connor cried
@PotterheadWeasley
@PotterheadWeasley 2 жыл бұрын
After watching this whole video I finally realize how hard pregnancy actually is and how stressful and emotional it is for both parents in the situation. I’m so glad you guys were straight forward and didn’t sugar coat anything so that we can see how hard it is for everyone and how strong both parents have to be. I love you guys so much and you both are literally sooo amazing and are soooo strong! Can’t wait to meet little Babi, and I’m glad y’all are ok. Stop but I’m literally crying now😭🤍
@vnssa2885
@vnssa2885 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@meredithw1515
@meredithw1515 2 жыл бұрын
What a blessing that everyone ended up being okay in the end, when Liana posted that she was recovering and that things didn’t go according to plan this is definitely not what I imagined. I’m so glad you’re all okay, honestly it’s such a relief because I can’t imagine how terrifying everything must have been. Love y’all, I can’t wait to meet Babi and watch how this new addition to y’all’s little family impacts y’all’s lives!❤️
@nancystidham3661
@nancystidham3661 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that little babi boy and Liana are ok, but can we just take a moment to give Liana the praise that she deserves for pulling through this and also for Connor being able to be there for her.
@misseselise3864
@misseselise3864 2 жыл бұрын
she didn’t have a choice
@areyoulostbabygorl231
@areyoulostbabygorl231 2 жыл бұрын
@@misseselise3864 but she didn’t panic which could have harmed babi.
@_sch_eme_
@_sch_eme_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@areyoulostbabygorl231 yesss thissss i would have been wailing and flailing and screaming and grabbing and slobbering and honestly pass out and not be able to deal at all lol she did amazingly and Connor too.. oh i cant even imagine being is his situation.. i would have been doing everything previously stated plus sobbing and vomiting lmao they were so good im so glad they could be so strong for their baby boy! I really hope she recovers completely..
@ellacollinsx
@ellacollinsx 2 жыл бұрын
@@_sch_eme_ same lol
@_kikizaman_
@_kikizaman_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@misseselise3864 so? That’s like saying that someone’s not strong for idk, getting fucking stabbed and recovering like a champ after going through such a painful and traumatic experience because “they didn’t have a choice”. Most trauma (as a trauma survivor) comes without a choice. Although my trauma is extremely different than Lianas, she still had a traumatic birth. Your strength shouldn’t be diminished after going through a traumatic experience because “you didn’t have a choice”. That’s ridiculous.
@melissacoulter708
@melissacoulter708 2 жыл бұрын
This just came on after the vlogmas today… Connor saying a “Booogie” It’s amazing your talking about another so quickly after what you went through!
@GeorgeJarrett1
@GeorgeJarrett1 2 жыл бұрын
Isn't mother nature amazing! After all the stress, pain and worry it's delivered you a beautiful baby boy you will treasure for your entire lives. Well done both of you, one mini breakdown was a better effort than most would manage in such a tough situation. But moving forward it's a story to tell and an experience you'll hopefully never have to live through again. Congratulations Connor and especially Liana for managing all that pain for an abnormally long amount of time. Knowing the outcome was positive this was an incredibly heart warming video to watch and deserving of the views it has achieved. 🥳❤👍
@deborahsheets2604
@deborahsheets2604 2 жыл бұрын
This message is for Connor. Thank you for being so strong for Liana. I could see in the video a look on her face I’ve never seen before. A mix of trauma and deep sadness. She went through so much, and I guarantee she could not have done it the same way without your love and support and strength. Keep doing what you are doing. Liana- congrats on giving birth. I’m so sorry it was a traumatic experience, I couldn’t even being to imagine going through all that you did. We are all so happy and blessed that you and Babi are okay. Stay strong. Thank God that he took care of you, and know that you did not go out on that operating table because both Babis need you. Love you both. Congratulations. ♥️
@Ffarrahfawcett
@Ffarrahfawcett 2 жыл бұрын
My mum had the exact same birth as this with me, almost a replica. And as she was watching this she shed a tear as she never thought someone would have to struggle through the same thing as her, especially as she had the fairytale birth idea too and felt so upset at having this trauma yet joy that people couldn’t relate to .The fact that you’ve shared this, especially so soon after, really is amazing and will help so many mums and dads of the future. And I can tell you both now, that this baby will 100% appreciate all the love, pain, and tears that went into his birth just like I have. He will never ever forget ❤️ congratulations xox
@mangakitten1
@mangakitten1 2 жыл бұрын
I had a very similar birth to this with my daughter she was 9lb 7oz at birth (41 weeks) The hosipital refused to believe or check her position and had to beg for a c section 3 times her head was down but body was to the side it was scary but we made it in the end.
@Isrurn
@Isrurn 2 жыл бұрын
I did not read this fully through
@rahafalali1911
@rahafalali1911 2 жыл бұрын
@@mangakitten1 omg I'm so sorry
@mangakitten1
@mangakitten1 2 жыл бұрын
@@rahafalali1911 it’s ok I was stuck at 1-2cm for 16 days with contractions on and off daily and the hospital refused to help said it was “normal”
@Ffarrahfawcett
@Ffarrahfawcett 2 жыл бұрын
@@mangakitten1 I’m so sorry ❤️❤️ but so so glad that you made it through and stayed strong xo
@فاطمةالزهراء-ع4ح
@فاطمةالزهراء-ع4ح 2 жыл бұрын
This was so emotional for me. I cried through all your contractions and pain, watching Connor breakdown was so painful. I can't believe that I've gotten so attached but I am so so glad that your baby is okay, that you are healthy and that you are recovering. Congratulations 💙🔵
@yasmin_jx21
@yasmin_jx21 2 жыл бұрын
My mum also lost a lot of blood during a c-section, and the doctors didn't handle it well at all they didnt listen to my mum one bit so i understand how scary it is and i'm so thankful to have her today. I am truly so unbelievably proud of you both for being so strong! Hope you are all doing great love you all ♥♥♥
@roxanestewart
@roxanestewart 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! Sorry! I was just wondering what they named their baby.. I guess I missed the announcement. Is it Babi? Idk I heard it a lot.
@sreelakshmi2546
@sreelakshmi2546 2 жыл бұрын
@@roxanestewart babi means honey or something.
@roxanestewart
@roxanestewart 2 жыл бұрын
@@sreelakshmi2546 I know. I meant that the only name I heard the child being called babi so I was wondering if anyone knows his name…
@yasmin_jx21
@yasmin_jx21 2 жыл бұрын
@@roxanestewart he’s called Koazy
@SoniasWay
@SoniasWay 2 жыл бұрын
Connor is literally going to be the best dad ever. I’m sorry the birth didn’t go as planned but you guys are doing great. Lots of love and best wishes from a fellow creator
@PentiSam
@PentiSam 2 жыл бұрын
People tend to forget that birth is still insanely dangerous, even with all our medical advancements. I'm so glad you guys came out of this so well. Wishing happiness and health!
@PentiSam
@PentiSam 2 жыл бұрын
@@annabelle722 I'm not in the habit of lying to people.
@annabelle722
@annabelle722 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t mean to offend you I meant it as a joke. I am pregnant in my second trimester so please don’t assume anything🤭
@zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz55550
@zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz55550 2 жыл бұрын
Medical person here from US I was surprised you were started on peotcin immediately after birth. We do it almost immediately after to prevent postpartum bleeding. It’s crazy how different everything is everywhere. I’m so glad it went well liana I’m happy you’re recovering I know this is A LOT to process.
@kickingthebucket766
@kickingthebucket766 2 жыл бұрын
32:27 broke my heart when he started crying because he didn't want her in so much pain and him talking about how amazing she is, you can tell he really loves her.
@fariasslimefactoryandmore240
@fariasslimefactoryandmore240 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@annagilleland2754
@annagilleland2754 2 жыл бұрын
The way you two look at each other is so endearing, and so full of love! My husband and I felt like we were watching our birth story in someone else's life. We literally experienced almost the exact same thing with our first baby boy! He is now 19. You did amazing and you deserve to take as much ty time as you need to process this, acknowledge it piece by piece and work through it in a way that feels right to YOU!. It will take time, things may come back and hit you when you least expect it, and that is completely normal. Lean on each other, grab some baby cuddles, and first and foremost take all the time you need! Sending tons of LOVE from the USA!!
@VerySpecificUser
@VerySpecificUser 2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t stop checking KZbin to see if you guys where ok and if babi was here. Never would have expected this. I’m so glad you guys are safe and ok. I hope your recovery goes well
@victorialia4426
@victorialia4426 2 жыл бұрын
Me too! Everyday I would check the channels to see if anyone posted
@Icehockey_music-lover
@Icehockey_music-lover 2 жыл бұрын
Ye I did the exact same even on snap chat even though I knew they aren't on snap
@thijseek
@thijseek 2 жыл бұрын
Me too.....I'm glad you are so....and....so strong and if I could, i would hug you both, and then, sweetly also Babi..♥️
@stickermaker4682
@stickermaker4682 2 жыл бұрын
Same every day
@kaylechel
@kaylechel 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@JL-el7ju
@JL-el7ju 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing Connor cry and talk about seeing her in pain set me right off! What a beautiful soul, both of you! I’m sorry it never went how you wished but I’m glad he arrives safe and wel and your all wel ❤️
@imaiyla
@imaiyla 2 жыл бұрын
I never realised how much parents (especially the mum) have to go through to bring their children into the world we don’t appreciate it enough. We are so proud of you liana and please don’t feel pressured into posting take all the time you need what’s important is that you two are ok ❤️
@tarareed8973
@tarareed8973 2 жыл бұрын
As a fellow postpartum hemorrhage SURVIVOR, know you are strong and you here because of that strength. You ended your video saying you were at peace with “if this is your time to go at least you birthed your baby”. You survived because your mama instincts held you tight and you did what ever mother does. You held it together until it was safe to fall apart.
@vividangel8502
@vividangel8502 2 жыл бұрын
i love that this entire comment section is filled with beautiful people sharing their stories theough labor and supporting connor and liana for what theyve been through. because honestly this entire video, and your family is beautiful.
@funfamilyfoods396
@funfamilyfoods396 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree it’s like a family that they created before Babi boy
@MsVillo84
@MsVillo84 4 ай бұрын
Who watch this after baby #2 news? 😊
@AlexiaTheTherian4life
@AlexiaTheTherian4life 4 ай бұрын
Me
@FRUITGANGxx
@FRUITGANGxx 4 ай бұрын
Mee
@eringallagher25
@eringallagher25 4 ай бұрын
Mee
@FrayerLeach-p8b
@FrayerLeach-p8b 4 ай бұрын
Meeeee
@halleltapnack4365
@halleltapnack4365 4 ай бұрын
Yess mee
@charl9108
@charl9108 2 жыл бұрын
Only just clicked this and straight off seeing the pain in Liana's eyes makes me tear up, I'm 9 months postpartum and I remember it like yesterday, it's so heartbreaking when it hasn't gone the way you planned along with all the huge hormonal emotions. Look after yourself and congratulations on your little babi, you did incredible! X
@m24709
@m24709 2 жыл бұрын
I literally cried at least twice throughout the video. The utter strength that you guys had to stay so calm in that situation is just... I can't even put into words how amazing you both were. Liana for spending so many hours in pain so that babi came out safe is incredible and Connor for being so loving and helping her through every step of the birth. You guys are amazing and I just know that you will both make unbelievable parents ❤️ can't wait to meet babi ❤️❤️
@lillyvandivort9510
@lillyvandivort9510 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@dhdbfhs
@dhdbfhs 2 жыл бұрын
It’s incredible right?
@sparklebunnies9835
@sparklebunnies9835 2 жыл бұрын
@@dhdbfhs yes
@BERRY_SODA1
@BERRY_SODA1 2 жыл бұрын
@@dhdbfhs yea
@chaoticfelix880
@chaoticfelix880 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as Lianna started talking about how she thought she was gonna die but that’s okay because baby is safe and is with Connor, honestly I teared up so much, what she said really got to me ❤️. You know that feeling you just want to hug someone and just congratulate them and just tell them how brave they are, that’s all I felt watching this. The clip where you met baby boy was just so beautiful✨❤️. I’m so happy for you both and I know you shall both be brilliant parents, baby boy is so lucky! Lots of love💕💕
@yayaya9379
@yayaya9379 2 жыл бұрын
Omg time
@person89
@person89 2 жыл бұрын
Same 🥹😭🥺
@lynseyandersongibb2245
@lynseyandersongibb2245 2 жыл бұрын
I did the exact same 😭❤️
@sarahslone8598
@sarahslone8598 5 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I know exactly how you feel. 19 years ago I had my first son. I had preeclampsia, and for some reason my amniotic fluid was low. I was 38 weeks. I had to be induced. The pain was so bad, the pain meds made me feel out of it. Hours later my water still was not breaking, they had to manually do that. The next thing I remember was the nurses and doctor saying I had to go to the operating room. It all happened so fast. Turns out his umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck and his heart rate was dropping. The next thing I knew I woke up and grabbed my stomach and asked where my baby was. My mom had to take care of him, I was told I slept till the next day. You will never forget the way you felt the first time seeing your baby, it’s priceless. A week later I was rushed to the hospital with a really high fever. Had to stay for a week, I had caught a staff infection from the c-section. They tried every antibiotic, finally the last one worked. I had my second son 5 years later and it was a planned c-section this time. I want to say I love your videos and Coazy is so adorable. His name really fits him.
@kaseydonohue6577
@kaseydonohue6577 2 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail said it all… as soon as I saw the hospital room I immediately knew something was wrong while also reading back the message you wrote on your channel. Wish you, Connor and babi the best in your new world!
@avery5068
@avery5068 2 жыл бұрын
Props to Connor. He is such a great boyfriend. He truly loves Liana and is so strong for her. Liana you are so strong and amazing. We are all so proud of you! Congratulations Mom and Dad!
@popsh8253
@popsh8253 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been checking your account two times or more a day to see if you have had babi because I was so worried that something awful had happened. I’m so tearful for you and the fact that you have done so well to get here and the fact you were prepared to die for babi and Connor was so beautiful and very meaningful and an insanely heroic descision you were prepared to make. I’m just so happy your here now and that babi is safe, beautiful and well. Stay strong both of you since you are amazing people and deserve so much for the pain, stress and anxiety you went through to get baby boy. Stay safe and we are always here for you. ❤️❤️
@itsisssy6263
@itsisssy6263 2 жыл бұрын
ive been light been doing the same thing as soon as I get home from school
@alexberry178
@alexberry178 2 жыл бұрын
Me to x
@just_ally5561
@just_ally5561 2 жыл бұрын
@@itsisssy6263 same
@Alex_Short1
@Alex_Short1 2 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@aestheticallytoca689
@aestheticallytoca689 2 жыл бұрын
OMG SAME I'M SO PROUD OF HER !! :'( :'(
@marionapina
@marionapina 6 ай бұрын
They are both so in love with eachother. The care and the softness, they are so lucky to have found eachother
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