Our Wedding Story - Ep 103 - Dear Shandy

[@lesleywiley4324]

Dear Shandy, please understand and I think I can speak for the majority, we want to hear everything and anything you want to share with us so never fret you’re saying too much. After all this time, has it not sunk in yet that we truly adore and love your love and love you both? You can tell us about taking out the garbage and I’d be glued to the show. It’s YOU both, we’re so lucky you’re willing to share with us. Thank you for making my week every week. Thank you for your energy and bringing light to a world that seems so dark as of late. You are loved!

[@danielavillasenor2567]

💯

[@tonibrooks9719]

Well said! I completely agree.

[@trueleo4103]

Yes 👍🏻

[@Varaidzo1]

Yes we want to hear everything!!

[@sarahlangston6479]

THIS!!

[@crabcake17]

I love how Sharleen cracks up at Andy’s comments so much! He really is so funny and I’m happy you guys enjoy each other like that! It’s cute and fun to listen to

[@Kimberlocster]

Today is my wedding and this was such a special treat! Thank you, Shandy!!

[@marleerose4798]

Watching this on NYE, sad about going into 2022 single, then I watched this and it made me realise I need to wait until I find this kind of love. Thank you, Shandy! Hope 2022 is great for you and can’t wait for all the new episodes 🥰

[@lisaariottiart]

Feel the same... nice message.

[@thisiselodie]

Have you found it yet?

[@Sabrina.682]

Thanks for sharing Shandy! We want all the details, don't worry about talking too much! I worked for a catering company that packed a really nice basket for the bride and groom to take when the wedding is over - included two plates of food, wedding cake, bottle of champagne and some other treats because the bride and groom never get to eat during the ceremony.

[@dearshandy]

What a nice idea! I think Andy would have been VERY happy to have had that basket when he was back at the hotel room and starving 😁

[@abbeyyoung3386]

Well articulated and authentic advice as always, but it’s digressions like Andy’s champagne glass nose conundrum that set this podcast apart for me ❤️

[@Silverstreak7878]

You guys are wonderful storytellers don’t ever worry that we don’t want to hear details. Some of the most fun comes out of remembering details. Please enjoy reliving things and know we’re loving all of it🍀

[@emily_257]

I LOVE that you went to get your wedding dress by yourself. How powerful. This should be normalized. Not everyone has supportive people in their life but feel like they have to bring them.

[@aligirl1552]

When my husband and I hang out with other couples I love hearing.. 1) how they met 2) about their wedding ❤ P.S. I really enjoy listening to the both of you ! Thank you for this channel!

[@louisechopyak2384]

I can’t imagine the stress of planning such a wedding. My husband and I got engaged and married 30 days later. We had 50 guests, married by my childhood pastor, on my friend’s mother’s property near a pond and our guests sat on tule wrapped hay bails. Our reception was at a local bar that had a cute party room, catered by our favorite local bbq restaurant. I tried on 3 dresses and my mother in law said “try this one on” and handed it over the door. It was as if it was made for me…zero alterations required other than bustle hooks. My 2 daughters walked me down the aisle. It was a beautiful day/experience.

[@bronwyn117]

What a great podcast! Andy is so funny, and Sharleen’s laughter makes me smile! What a great couple!

[@vanessacortez1489]

As someone who just got married at the courthouse, I love to hear such a similar story to the way that me and my husband felt/feel about weddings. Y’all are so cute and I love that you had a beautiful party to celebrate your love with.

[@pippurrs]

Loved hearing your story and all the NYC elements too. Would you please do a “Guide to New York” podcast? Would love to hear about good restaurants to visit and things to do from locals.

[@jmi2419]

Thank you for doing this episode! As a pandemic-era bride who has twice postponed her wedding (and was a bit in your camp of being ambivalent about a large ceremony and reception anyway), it's been tough to muster enthusiasm, even when planning for what I hope will ultimately be not just a celebration of our love but of our loved ones. Hearing that a fellow skeptic/realist felt the big day was worth it has lifted my spirits, and learning about the dress stress and other less-glamorous moments behind your fabulous event is strangely comforting as I confront my own logistical hurdles. Your story makes me hopeful that I too will feel in the end that everything was worth it. (Sidenote: I also turned to your detailed Pretty Pandas posts when we first started planning, so thank you for those as well!) A question that is perhaps more personal (please disregard if it's overly intrusive!): Andy has mentioned how difficult it was not to have his late father around on his wedding day. My fiancé and I have both lost loved ones and family members-some recently-and one of the most emotional parts of re-planning our wedding is reflecting on the people we had hoped to celebrate with who are no longer with us. We are considering various personal ways to honor and remember them on our special day, and I'm curious if/how the two of you integrated the memory of Andy's father or other deceased loved ones into your day.

[@machinelevine1]

I am so very sorry for your losses this past year. Of course nothing can truly replace them but I used my vows to say a few words about my late father and for me that was the best way to honor him. I hope 2022 is much brighter for you and your family ❤️

[@pippurrs]

I lost my father and my partner lost both of his parents. I plan to incorporate either personalized photo cuff links or a watch for him and a locket to wear or attach to my bouquet for me. We plan to elope, so it will be nice to have these small items that are carried with us since there won’t be a table/chair to place something large on. I hope this helps, and my heart goes out to you.

[@katherinegeithman6089]

I audibly gasped when you described the issue you had with your dress only a few weeks out. This was a fun listen! I appreciated the honest accounting of things you wish you had done differently. I also regret not inviting some folks (I wouldn't have even called them fence sitters - we were just trying to keep the wedding a reasonable size!), and I wish we had a videographer. It is very meaningful to look over the photos but I have some friends that took videos of the day, and I cherish those videos so much. Also totally agree with your assessment of band v. DJ - if you're going to go for a band, you really have to commit to that cost or it won't be worth it! Already looking forward to next year's "personal" Christmas episode. Happy holidays to you and all the Shandies!

[@dearshandy]

Hi Katherine! We had the same reason for not inviting "fence-sitters"-if 30% of invitees hadn't RSVP'ed no, our wedding would have been substantially larger (and more expensive) than we'd planned. Not being able to predict the responses was a challenge and definitely made the guest list a gamble of sorts. And I feel you about the videographer thing-we also hemmed and hawed over a videographer because it was quite a cost, but I remembered having spoken with a bride who, like you, had regretted not getting one, so we bit that bullet (and am glad we did). For what it's worth, we've found in the years since that we look at the photos far more than the videos. (Of course, it's nice to have the option, though.) Thank you for your kind words and Happy New Year!

[@katherinegeithman6089]

@@dearshandy Thanks for your kind response; this did make me feel better! Looking forward to hearing more about your wedding in a future podcast episode. :)

[@taliaholy3527]

Seeing this upload = day made! Thank you Shandy!

[@jolenecarley3154]

You two are the best, the cutest, and the most inspiring! Thanks so much for spreading the love and light...and always with the best humour and wit. xoxoxo

[@frzngrrl]

Aw, I love that beautiful song from the Fantasticks, "They Were You." What an incredibly romantic song.

[@paisleyplaid4074]

Thanks for sharing details about your wedding! I'm sure it will help a lot of couples as they plan their nuptials! It was fun for me to reflect back on my own wedding almost 13 years ago and think about what worked and what didn't. Your photos turned out beautifully and the gown was spectacular! I loved hearing about the touching song as well 💖

[@reginaogwal9777]

Im so glaf im only finding out about you guys now coz i didnt have to wait another year to hear about your love story. I love listening to you both so much, you are my happy place 😊 .

[@dearshandy]

What a kind comment! Thank you. Welcome to the Shandy family, Regina! 🥰

[@borderlineoptimist]

So happy that you guys posted this. Loved all the memories, insights, surprises and takeaways. I watched this last night and when I woke up this morning I had to verify that "niggle" is a word. Ironically the word appeared in a book I'm reading! Cheers to 2022 and continued Dear Shandy episodes 🎉💜

[@lettajones5625]

Oh, fun! Thank you for listing out the timeline as I like to jump around sometimes.

[@dearshandy]

I'm glad they help, L'etta! I also like to hop around on KZbin. 😘

[@lilianaoaida732]

This account is growing and I love to see it ♥️ thank you both for sharing your story with us ♥️

[@susanw849]

Dear Shandy...... watching your weekly videos is something I look forward to every week. I must say I absolutely LOVE the two of you together. Sharleen is one of my all time favorites from any season. Andy is your perfect match, and I love how he makes you laugh outloud. You are a beautiful, genuine couple. It is clear you two are happily in love. I wish you all a lifetime of continued happiness. I took your advice and I bought myself a set of Cozy Earth sheets recently. I love them as much as you said I would. Thank you both for the recommendation. Happy New Year!!

[@mirandamantle3684]

Loved this episode! I agree with all of your sentiments on the wedding, feelings behind choosing a dress and the overall planning of it! With exception of a band. We had a live band it was hands down the best splurge we made. I felt a DJ was a little impersonal and having live music always makes a party that much better. Funny enough, I found our wedding band at a bar, so I was able to get a real preview of them before our wedding. They knew how to get the crowd going how to change the music accordingly. My only regret was not having them play for longer. We switched to a playlist after they left and the vibe wasn’t the same. Either way, great insights from you both! Love your podcast. Looking forward to more in 2022! ❤️

[@Foreverbecca]

It’s funny, because I feel the exact same way about a big wedding feeling self indulgent in an uncomfortable way…. And yet I am the person that unapologetically plans my own birthday every single year!

[@louisadesousa8588]

Loved this episode. Thank you for sharing all the little details. Shandies really appreciate it. That’s what makes your podcast stand out.

[@alicemckee5686]

I really enjoyed hearing all the details of your weddings!! DearShandy thank you for opening up your life to your Shandies with such detail and humour. I just wish there were more humble people like you both around. I look forward with anticipation to your podcasts every week ❤️ Happy New xx

[@abbyabroad]

The "special energy" point is interesting and thought-provoking! Re: the extra touches.

[@abbyabroad]

ps Does Andy have ADD? We have sensitivity to fabrics, temperature and textures! It's a thing 😅 (Don't answer; not our business; just food for thought)

[@janusmacmillan147]

This was next level charming! 🥰 I really enjoy all of your episodes and this one was a real surprise as I didn’t think I’d be that into wedding planning details, but the generous glimpse into your personal event was very special. Lots of tears during Andy’s heartfelt sharing about the moment he knew he’d found his person, so incredibly vulnerable and touching. You guys are truly the best 💖 Happy New Year! ps I’m from Vancouver and imagine you’re having similar surprise winter wonderland in Seattle ❄️

[@kristinlarsen4137]

I loved this! I love hearing you two talk about your relationship, your ideas, thoughts and feelings. You are both delightful! Thank you ❤️

[@EmmaDitnes]

Loved this episode! I always love the way that you bring little bits of your lives and histories into your other episodes, recaps included, but it was so nice and fun to have more insight into this piece of your lives together! Thanks for doing this 😊 happy new year!

[@articowl2]

When women products are more than men’s, it’s called the “pink tax”. Compare disposable razors for instance. Pink razors costs more than blue ones. Toys? Same exact toy and the girl version costs more. Crazy.

[@vanessahobbes3072]

Just found your podcast/channel recently and I am really enjoying the banter you both have! I found it through bachelor related things, but honestly I love your story times so much. You don’t care about my opinion, but if you did more story times like this I would not be mad! I do also love hearing the bachelor summaries and commentary. You both are excellent story tellers and play off each other really well.

[@kristab6981]

Thanks for sharing guys 💕. Wishing you a healthy and prosperous New Year !

[@everysecond6872]

yayy, new video! I love your podcast. have watched almost all episodes. Thank you both and your whole team :)

[@everysecond6872]

Happy New year to you both and all the Shandies :D

[@pampiatt4054]

As a single shopper I can see that you might not have a crying moment. I think for brides that see their mom and or gma cry when they feel like they have on The Dress, it just becomes more emotional. I found myself crying over the first dress my daughter tried on because it becomes real, but then when it was The Dress, I cld tell and partly because I cld see how my daughter felt in it

[@jeanniebower2011]

Oh! AND I am also a “lone shopper” ! Thoroughly enjoy it that way and have since I was a teenager!!! Though I am not nearly as skilled as Sharlene!!! 😂🤣😂

[@kimlaffont9951]

Happy New Year Shandy! I've always wondered what the two little characters were at the beginning of your podcast and now I know.

[@kathleen12]

Love your channel and stories ❤

[@angied.2666]

I'm happy to hear that not crying for a wedding dress is normal. I found a place in Ottawa that sells dresses for $1,000 or less. There was one dress that looked good on me that I considered but another I tried felt like Me (if that makes sense). I asked myself 'would I regret not buying it'. The answer was yes. The wedding never happened/we broke up but I learned a lot about the wedding industry. My biggest regret was the company we hired for the photography. They put a lot of pressure on us to book them saying 'another couple is interested in that date'. Even though we cancelled 8 month before the wedding date: the $1,500 deposit of $3,000 was not refunded. I never thought to read the fine print but then again: I didn't foresee the relationship ending.

[@dearshandy]

Thank you for sharing your perspective, Angie! I'm so sorry you had this experience-I have to admit, in planning our wedding, I was kind of surprised by how unforgiving a lot of vendors' terms were. I actually forgot to mention it in this episode, but a huge delay with our save the dates/invites was when I opted to switch stationery vendors. I was pressured (against my gut) into going with the first vendor and realized too late that we didn't have the same aesthetic taste/vision. I ended up walking away and losing a hefty deposit over that mistake. (To be fair, that was my mistake, and it was definitely an early stage learning experience.) Anyway, I know what you mean about the feeling with the dress. I had the exact same "Would I regret not buying this?" experience with both of my dresses, and in the end, as unromantic as that perspective was, it served me well. Even with the first dress (the one I didn't wear), I was able to sell it and not lose much $$ as it was brand new. The wedding industry is definitely intense!

[@angied.2666]

​@@dearshandy I'm sorry to hear that you had a similar experience. I wonder if the vendors are all very aware of the pressure couples feel to have the 'perfect' wedding and as such, compel them to sign up at once! I would also like to add that when it comes to the wedding dress: should buying a dress be romanticized? Although feelings are important. My sister kept asking me how I felt in each dress I tried on; I kept responding what I thought. When I finally described a feeling, everyone dramatically said "a feeling!??" lol That was how the dress stood out initially. Happy to hear you were able to resell the dress. :)

[@marybethodonnell8420]

Loved this. Binge watching your story this morning. I saw the video where you tell of your meeting and now wish I could find it again. That was in the first few of your videos I saw. And for Andy, I was very curious about the black candles. Because it was no biggy for you but you mentioned it, now I can't forget. :) It was you...xox Thank you for sharing all that you do. You guys are the best.

[@jenmary6623]

Happy New Year! Thank you for fantastic content this year. I look forward to your recaps in 2022. Great advice in this one. Jennifer :-)

[@MrsPhoenix2020]

I did not have that 'dress' moment either and I don't think I missed anything. I have been married twice. Both times ordered my dresses online and both were PERFECT and what I wanted. Weddings are about the love and the two of you ♡

[@kristinkrauss5610]

I try not to comment more than once in a video, but I can't help myself! Please make merchandise with your yellow canary and silver fox!

[@nashvillemusician815]

OMG!!! I had to stop the broadcast & write, lol. "Candide" was the first show I ever accompanied on (it was a baptism of fire) as a young musician. All those utility pieces to get from scene to scene...oy vey!!! Were you Cunégonde?? The coloratura?? You don't seem like the old lady with one hump type (lol), although she has a great role. "Glitter & Be Gay" must be a gas to sing. My personal favorite is "Make Our Garden Grow"...that 7 note musical figure can make me cry. I'll probably restart the broadcast to find you didn't do it, 🤣 but you just hit on a lovely memory. Btw, we are on our 2nd order of Magic Spoon, & have been doing Hello Fresh for 2 months. Love both!

[@Lczzy]

The visuals of this video is like your Dear Shandy logo!! 😊 Sharleen on the left and sitting in a yellow chair (just like the yellow canary) and Andy on the right - side profile - just like the silver fox.

[@theresa9925]

I have a fun comment about changing your sofa. The place we got married at also had everything we needed. The sofa had a leg that broke & my friends sitting on it had to stay really still so it didn't fall. So maybe sometimes it is better to change some things! LOL

[@cookielicious82]

Love this Chanel and the beautiful shandy.. very refreshing 😊

[@tracibillington8025]

Your wedding video was beautiful and succinct; classy & loving.

[@jareya]

Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed it

[@softpretzel]

While you were both talking about why weddings may have been the 'most important day of your life' back in the day, I was thinking that it probably also had to do primarily with financial security (especially for brides, hah) and at least some security for a future. This may still be true but hopefully less so than it used to be

[@sandrapfauenglund8729]

Very well done. I’ve shared with my son and his fiancée.

[@MathPiHanan]

Thanks for sharing your stories =) Maybe have a Q&A about topics like this where you might be uncomfortable sharing while we want to know all the details 😅 You’ll be answering questions then instead of feeling like not knowing if we care to know (we care a lot 💜)

[@easunshine7893]

SO CUTE ugh please give us more details!! We do want the deets!!

[@barbaramackenzie8761]

Did you do the “Old, New, Borrowed, Blue” tradition, or have anything like that?

[@StarOnTheWater]

Interesting way of looking at it. Personally I've always felt that throwing a party is something you do for your guests and not for yourself. 😄

[@therosewhisperer]

Finally, been waiting since episode 21!

[@lynneskaggs2701]

Your wedding dress was gorgeous. Loved hearing your story.

[@BoomandBoss]

I love this podcast. And I totally expected that crying or angels singing and this is THE dress moment too but didn’t get it. I still loved my dress.

[@smileycindy]

I like your hindsight on your wedding day, it was all very interesting. Your take totally confirms the reason why I've always hoped if I was in a committed relationship that we could have a wedding: this is one of the only time in your life where you have everyone that's ever been meaningful in your life in a room at the same time. (The other time being your funeral, but that's much more somber of an event and you're not exactly there to enjoy it...) Because I'm not married, I thought about organizing a 40th birthday bash for that reason, but that felt so self-indulgent... (And then COVID happened, so that idea went out of the window.)

[@emilytunsil2553]

I also met my husband in March of 2014 we were engaged in October 2014 and married in November but didn’t announce it until January 2015. Sometimes it’s just easier that way ;)

[@chelseygarrett4221]

My dad is a wedding DJ so my wedding is something I've put a lot of thought into. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 10 years and have two children and have yet to get married. We already feel like we're married and the only other reason would be so I can be on his works insurance and a couple of paperwork things. We're thinking of going to City Hall but are closest is 2 hours away. It would be like a 5-day thing of paperwork. If you can't tell we very much just like paperwork!

[@madintlemojaki1019]

Am stealing the pumps gift idea for my wedding. No possible groom in sight, but who cares 🤷... ... Oh and this convinced me to subscribe

[@patriciapoppalardo836]

Loved it!!

[@liljasif89]

I went on your IG Sharleen to see more wedding photos and I saw a photo of you in your bridemaids dress and holding your wedding dress at a bar, would love to hear more to that story 😀 dear shandy is btw my favorite podcast, no joke

[@DoNotFeed_AfterMidnight]

When will you film Sharleen's masterclass on shopping? You could seriously do a segment on that...or more!

[@mimishepard8298]

Loved this episode!

[@rachelb5530]

Just went ahead and liked the video before the 30sec mark, because I just know I will love this

[@Chillz_boss]

🤣@ “I saw a glimpse of Ankle “ Oh Sharleen, Andy’s sense of humor is rubbing off on you 😄. Of course you two wrote a mean Vow! You’re both brilliant and in love 😉 Beautiful love story!!❤️

[@shelliemarshall8702]

You guys are amazing. Love listening❤️

[@irakohler5591]

Thank you for this!

[@katherineyokers8052]

Being a life-long Washingtonian, I hope your stay Seattle helps you understand the true beauty of Seattle.

[@Rachel-rs7jn]

Re: the self-indulgent side of weddings, I feel the same as you do about throwing my own birthday party, or going-away party, etc., but for some reason I don't feel that way about weddings. I think it's because I see a wedding as being just as much for the guests as for the couple. (For example, I'll be getting married in France and I know my guests will be thrilled to attend.) Also, Andy HAS to watch the movie Roxanne, in particular the scene where she offers him some wine in a wine glass. P.S. I feel like I'm so on the same page with you guys about so many things....(1) I'm Jewish (not-so-practicing), and the two Jewish things I want at my wedding are the glass and the hora too. 😛(2) I want the photo booth. I just want it and am willing to cough up extra €€ for it. (3) DJ all the way - agree about the original artist version vs. cover.

[@kristinkrauss5610]

It is funny to hear Sharleen say "Oh my God!" and sound like a New Yorker❤️

[@Velvet3699]

Like hugging a Christmas tree!

[@trueleo4103]

I love the way Andy makes Sharleen laugh so hard and I love Sharleen’s laugh! 😂 My question is…why is Shandy in a hotel in Seattle? I’m very curious. I don’t see that anyone has asked on this thread…unless I missed something. Happy New Year Sharleen and Andy and to all the Shandies! 🎉🎊🥂

[@heatherbarnes2596]

Sharleen is performing in an opera in Seattle. I think she is currently in rehearsals.

[@lizzies6936]

Australian sizes are two sizes bigger than US. For example, an 8 in Australia is a 4 in US. An Aussie size 4 is very tiny. So that explains the wrong size of the dress; they didn’t convert the sizing. But I’m glad it worked out for you in the end!

[@LibLadyB]

AMEN to solo shopping!

[@sarahhammaker3347]

Loved this episode!! ❤

[@frzngrrl]

The cake topper is so precious!

[@helenfranko8348]

Dear Shandy, thank you so much for sharing your Wedding story…another fantastic episode of Dear Shandy….I have often heard that picking a wedding planner becomes the most important decision and it can make or break your wedding …. What was your experience? Happy New Year 2022 💫

[@dearshandy]

Hi Helen! I've heard this as well. I actually spoke on the phone with a handful of planners and ended up letting my gut choose based on those conversations (versus mainly basing the decision on portfolios/resumes). Sojourner (our planner) felt the most like my kind of person, if that makes sense? It felt like a conversation with a friend, and I knew just from chatting with her for 10 minutes that we had the same vision and I wasn't likely to get pressured into costs/extras I didn't need. In the end my gut didn't lead me astray. Thanks for your kind words and Happy New Year!

[@jeanniebower2011]

Oh my gosh I ADORE you guys…. Andy: “… and I think possibly the greatest shopper on earth” ♥️🥰🤣😂 Amazing!!! … Also, no you guys are NOT alone in not wanting a day all about you!!! I’ve never wanted a proper wedding myself and that is exactly the reason I’ve always identified as I’ve gotten older! Also, I would dread the planning AND narrowing down of the guest list as I have lived and worked in many cities and countries! But long story short… it is not a bad thing or strange to feel that way! With all that said, I do love attending friends weddings!! ☺️♥️

[@GS-ff5dd]

I'm a lone shopper too. I trust my taste on what I want more than someone else idea of good taste

[@evildoesnotsleep-x2b]

Your advice as well as your example have helped me so much, not only in my romantic relationships, but in friendships and familiar too. I am sure you'll be the leading relationship podcast and the big names are gonna make a queue to be featured in. Love you, Shandy. P.S. why don't you try a collab with fellow Canadian bachelor fantake?

[@mojos7]

I love Bachelor Fantake!

[@Silverstreak7878]

Last thing, I got “The Thin Man” special champagne 🥂 glasses you can get online that are like the ones in the famous movie by that name. They are wide and have plenty of room for any nose.

[@sarahlavoy7384]

How do you feel about kids at weddings/yours specifically? Did you invite them? And how did you decide on who to extend +1 invitations to?

[@heatherms89]

In one of Sharleen's blog posts she mentioned +1s were extended to individuals that were either married, engaged to, or living with a partner.

[@ladythuza1358]

I always have a good laugh watching your episodes. Andrew and his big nose comment 👃😂

[@stacyjarvis8086]

Coupe Champagne glasses are an alternative to flutes!

[@mimishepard8298]

It’s not the wedding; it is the marriage, the relationship.

[@jessicajoy8751]

Ha! I think I was married by the same lady at city hall. Her stank face was hilarious!

[@sarahwilkes8849]

Did you order the dress in Australian sizing or US sizing? Au/UK sizing is 2 sizes different to US :)

[@mojos7]

I really liked the frank discussion of Influencer weddings. There are more people with over a million KZbin subscribers than coal miners in America. It's the new economy but it is shrouded in secrecy.

[@sam-om8zs]

Im so excited to watch!!!!!!

[@RachelOnAWhim]

My aunt made sure my husband and I had a plate of food set aside for us to eat later that night because she said, "You know the bride and groom never get to eat otherwise!"

[@jeanbarzowski6736]

Love u guys!

[@laoisemangan308]

Cliffhanger- what’s the story behind the black candles?

[@katherinegee215]

Andy, try a coupe glass!

[@visoraunt]

sharleen i desperately need to know the secrets of the high pony you rocking in this video lolol

[@dianerichardson6437]

I know I'm being "nit picky", but it would be so nice to see Andy wear anything but those white t-shirts. He has a nice body. They would look so good with coordinating colors. Just saying a suggestion for us shandy watchers.