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[@rickgerald2261]

Getting a girlfriend is harder than having enough money to pay bills

[@reubenmorris487]

I still don't see how and why obtaining a GF or wife is some magnanimous goal. Most women don't want a guy who's trying to build himself - they wait until he's complete and try to insert themselves into his existence.

[@98gmc1500]

I can confirm, I do very well, 200k plus a year, I’m absent from social media though so women have no way to qualify me.

[@andrewstratton806]

​@@98gmc1500yup same. I'm not gonna change to get a women. Not a fan of social media

[@jacksonvalad8012]

Its unforfunate to say this but yeah your right

[@Artursamvelyan-ny9zk]

Way too hard. They always disqualify you

[@FarFromMediocre-i8k]

Being alone is a super power. A few people who can handle it.

[@stevemann1299]

@@FarFromMediocre-i8k Being alone is a losers cope. Get it right. No man REALLY wants yo be alone. The problem is most of you are too lazy to put the work in to be a 10 percenter. So you remain a 90 percenter. The lames the, simps the losers.

[@jessecortez9449]

Being alone is an attachment issue. You're not some monk on Mount Athos seeking out the mysteries of life. You're some guy that never developed a secure attachment and trying to make that sound like it's cool and good but it's really just as cringe as modern feminist girl boss "I don't need no man" type of shit.

[@FarFromMediocre-i8k]

@@jessecortez9449 it is a detachment issue. how is gonna be attachment while you're okay being alone. your words are totally none sense.

[@FarFromMediocre-i8k]

@@stevemann1299 you just think that cause you're empty form the inside. You want some one cause you're not comfortable with yourself, and that makes you scared, therefore you chase approval from others to stay with you. For me...you talk from ur weakness.

[@seekingfreedom9020]

​@@stevemann1299honestly I have plenty of opportunities to get a girlfriend but I have really no desire to hang out with women, they're boring and they spend your money. And you have to constantly do what they want to do. Why would anyone want that 🤣

[@christophersanders5007]

in 1990 when I was 30-years old I had a Government job as a heavy duty diesel mechanic on school busses making good money for those days. By women's standards today I would be considered a complete loser with a job like that today.

[@BravoBravo51]

What these youngsters need to understand, is that if you can figure out how to be a successful business owner, who remains in the green and is able to have an amazing life where nothing goes unmet. Then who gives a flying fuck what these broads think? Their ass probably stinks and they are looking for a free meal. You pay yourself enough to not care. I’m 42 and successfully run two businesses, while working a 3rd exclusively. My fucking wife is gorgeous and works hard herself. I’ve included my wife and daughter in my business ventures, and at this point, the wife will finally be able to leave education to run one of the businesses. When you make it to this level, and live around others like you. Nobody cares what you do like that. If they do, it’s for business relationships, and that is it, in other words, regardless of what you do, if you are successful all it’s gonna do is help that. These nothingburger broads will never help at any of that. And I’m damn lucky I don’t have to deal with them at all, nor do I want to. If I wanted to be an asshole to my wife, it would be goddamn easy, but to hell with that.

[@98gmc1500]

I’m an independent heavy duty mechanic and pull 200k plus a year, women just turn their nose up at me when i say I’m a mechanic.

[@Geraldbrucejr]

@@98gmc1500wow… they suck just keep your money bro an buy what you like and spoil yourself fuck em

[@huwatereys9096]

The hard part is to find the right one. The real helper. Good luck guys.

[@LFA]

It is important to find someone who is decent. But it's way more important to have leadership skills. A great coach can win championships with little talent. A weak coach can lose with great talent.

[@Big_talks.]

@@LFAman gtfoh lol a coach needs good talent regardless 😂

[@therhymerr]

Men coming across this video. PLEASE be careful at the advice he gives to simply “get a girlfriend” to find your purpose… most of my friends who have fallen in that trap are absolutely miserable. I’ll take the freedom of having a simple apartment as this guy puts it at 35 and having options instead of throwing that freedom away. Be better.

[@DiegoB0525]

I feel he either got paid to spread this bad message, or he was made to say it by his gf.....

[@eadamic17]

Agreed. This man tends actually to give good advice, but he missed the target by about 50 miles here. It is an absolutely horrible idea to rely upon a girlfriend for purpose in life as a man. The reality is people come and go. Do not get me wrong, I believe in the existence of genuinely good women (I think most are). The way he describes it here though really is no different from the situation that he criticises where one enters into a relationship on the basis of resources. By my experience, the only benefit to having a girlfriend is the psychological peace that follows from knowing that that part of life is considered "solved" for the time being, such that I can then focus on other things in life and do not have to worry about chasing women. Most women today are terrible helpers lol!

[@grandfathernurgle2840]

@@ModelJames13 Thats what family and male friends are for. Not worth looking for a woman who more than likely is just around you for resources. The cold hard truth is if it's been difficult for you to get female attention below 30 the ones you are competing for are already damaged goods, using you as a rebound, or it's purely transactional.

[@jsocials]

I understand what his means in the traditional sense of a woman can help a man which my family keeps telling me but as someone who believes in finding my purpose. A girlfriend is not a good idea because most men will abandon their purpose to cater to the girlfriend/wife needs. A man doesn't have to be at the finish line but he has to know himself before entering into such a relationship

[@TL-rh1lf]

@@ModelJames13 get a dog

[@dl6043]

I’m 34, divorced, general contractor, no girlfriend, want kids want a wife but it ain’t worth the risk with all the things I’ve accomplished and own unfortunately my legacy dies with me

[@BravoBravo51]

I’m sorry to hear that brother. I’m your opposite, wife of 14 years and a daughter of our own creation, no step kids no exs. I got fucking lucky at probably what could have easily been the worst years of my life after coming home from Iraq in 06. What I have in common with you, is I too experienced divorce. And a fucking ugly one. One where kids hearts were broken that I took as my own, one where my mother betrayed me and was at the police station spewing lies and bullshit about me being an unhinged veteran. One where I decided I didn’t have fucking anyone on my side, and when I met my wife, I sold all my shit, broke my fucking lease, and left to Texas and never looked back. Gods got a plan for you brother. One thing I’ll tell you, is that you got more shit going for yourself at your age than I ever did. I didn’t start really doing anything with purpose until maybe my late 30s. PTSD and massive depression from watching your friends off themselves fucking killed me inside. I fucking scare people by being my normal self, so I can’t hold a regular ass job. I had to fight 100 times harder to kick down doors that open up just fine to people with lesser efforts. And here I stand now, motherfucking this world and this shit society every day I get up and go the fuck after it. You do the same brother. I turn 42 on Thursday, and I just want to tell you I’m fucking proud of you if nobody else told you today. Keep fucking going after it, keep securing your contracts, keep building it brother, you sound like someone worth fighting for, and that’s something I always ask people to be if they ask me how they can thank me for what I’ve done. You’re DOING exactly that. God bless you man.

[@RJ-dw4jw]

@@BravoBravo51 "Daughter of our own creation". Yeah that may need verifying with a DNA test just to be sure nowadays..

[@killdalamb3357]

@@BravoBravo51 Why do you watch these with a wife?

[@bellavita3097]

Prenup.

[@roarbertbearatheon8565]

What legacy dude? You’re just dust if you never have kids it’s all for nothing. Literally meaningless might as well go to the rope store

[@thestreetsdonesaid5491]

Dear men Please don’t have kids if you not married or vet your woman properly!!

[@velora_17]

Why not? having a child is the most wonderful feeling ever it's like a mini version of yourself and or your wife. I think your wrong there bud, but then again everyone and every situation is different for everyone but still think that's wrong attitude.

[@thestreetsdonesaid5491]

@@velora_17 yes but could be hell for you if it’s the wrong woman Like worse than hell

[@velora_17]

@@thestreetsdonesaid5491 Totally right there! it's a chance, it all depends on luck well yeah finding the right woman and having everything work out well. Like the stars have to all lone up perfectly. Agreed.

[@WilcoxNotreallythere]

Nope. R style parenting for me.

[@BenJohnston1993]

My ex had a kid from a relationship she had before she was with me and another from a relationship she had after she was with me.

[@mrgingerman6020]

I'm 50 and i still have no idea what i want do with my life 😀

[@hermanmelville3368]

Probably nothing.

[@mikehutch5941]

Ha ha same here i thought i was the only one!

[@whit6444]

For real

[@Big_talks.]

😂😂😂

[@TL-rh1lf]

do stuff is overrated

[@dustinmiller2775]

Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans. 💯

[@Whoishe72791]

Being 27, this video resonated deeply. Appreciate this video. Right when I needed to hear this the most. Subscribing

[@germanpatis9136]

32 and i feel like it's too late already i have a feeling i will never discover what i want or even worse,that i might discover it when i am old and it's too late

[@zeliph]

Same age. Same here.

[@michaelpaul9783]

Its not too late…Im 46 and changing careers

[@Thatdude64317]

@@zeliphSame age as both of you guys and I’m in the same boat.

[@JamesSmithTexas]

Beta asf

[@zuhairreza]

That would be soooo horrible - discovering it too late when you're old and lost a lot of time. Let us hope we both discover what we really want in and out of life soon, and/or are at least taking the steps we need. Good luck!

[@ztruth7792]

It’s not looking good, it’s not everyone’s fate to have a girlfriend, kids, marriage. All of these are luxuries that some of us won’t obtain however, we can find happiness in other things

[@aryansarvian3045]

LFA a real one. No gimmick Clutch vid dude

[@MX-CO]

We all pretty much want the same thing, financial security, from a career we dont hate or our own business, an attractive woman that genuinely loves us (seems impossible these days) and some hobbies we are passionate about. And huge bonuse if you can built a business around the passionate hobby! Those are the keys to a happy fulfilling life imo. On a side note the number one think a guy can do for himself is get in great physical shape, helps physically,mentally, and with the opposite sex.

[@KenOnStrength]

50-something who’s been winging it for decades and still has no clue

[@artemisentreri4244]

I feel sorry for you, brotha.

[@KenOnStrength]

@@artemisentreri4244 - Thanks, but weirdly enough, I’m happier than most guys I know. Life’s full of surprises!

[@98gmc1500]

I’m 40 and life seems to be set goal, reach goal, set new goal, repeat, I think men are just wired to work and produce, if I sit idle for more then a day it feels like a loss.

[@Worick_]

@@artemisentreri4244Everyone’s winging it, some more successfully than others

[@jerviejervie2204]

61 here. Had about 4 different occupations, all of which couldn't keep my interest.. Worked in factories in my 20s. Got a degree in accounting. Did that until I decided I didn't want to anymore. Can't think of anything that I wished I would have done. Don't fret over it. Life is short. Have fun while it lasts.

[@giveitatry951]

32 years old, never looked for a girlfriend due to lack of confidence. Going to work, playing video games/watching YT, gardening/forrest work and helping family is all i do. No close friends, i have one friend ( cinema/restarant visits...) Its depressing i dont know what to do (direction) and i feel with no social circle im not allowed/should not even think about a relationship with the opposite sex. Never even once asked out a girl and therefore never been on a date or had any other romantic interaction with a woman.

[@hermanmelville3368]

Exactly the same.

[@flipedude5404]

Why is it depressing lol? Having friends is more depressing

[@beau5778]

Where you at bud?

[@Big_talks.]

@@flipedude5404I feel like it can be cause overtime you grow apart

[@JC-qh6wl]

The two best strategies for figuring out what you are supposed to do with your life are to try a lot of things (and put in the effort consistently for a while) and to read/research. A lot of guys have never done either and want to know why they haven’t found the path. Brother, you’re not even looking. You gotta get out in the woods to find the path. I think another thing is people think too much about they want. Nobody cares what you want. You don’t even care what you want, frankly. You have to start thinking about what is worth doing. What kind of legacy do you want to leave? What will you be glad you did? What is a worthwhile goal to strive for? All of these matter a lot more than happiness.

[@falconblack]

Facts

[@Thatdude64317]

“When you see LFA, you press play, and you have a better day.” -Aristotle

[@queebanns]

Girlfreinds are so pointless, if you work a dead end job they’ll get bored and go look for a guy that has a higher paying job and can fund her life smh

[@rickgerald2261]

They don’t care about your job really it’s about charisma, looks and social status. Unfortunately I struggle with these things so no girlfriend to move in for me

[@crunkdaddy11]

@@rickgerald2261Agreed. Women caring about money is kind of a meme. At least in the Midwest where I am. They just want an exciting good looking dude. Every broke, local “savage” I know would run circles around a rich nerd.

[@hablabamosa]

@@rickgerald2261 Your job is linked to your social status.

[@jsts22]

There are some loser guys out there that seem to keep a girl though. This 22 year old guy that I manage at work works there part time, is paid $16 an hour, and he is constantly making excuses to leave early. Kid gets like 20 hours a week. We just fired him for being useless and he tried to take a company key without asking anyone. Anyway, this kid lives with his girlfriend. She has to be paying all the bills because she works full time as a dental assistant. He's not making any money at his job and he said he doesn't really talk to his family. His gf is young, I think 20 so maybe she'll wise up one day and leave him

[@kmarie7051]

@@rickgerald2261 There's plenty of men without charisma, looks and social status who have gfs. A lot of women(especially the good ones) just want a kind, decent man they can get along with. They want a man with the same qualities and values as themselves. The type of women who are only after superficial things are usually superficial themselves.

[@bdsjr32]

“Men focus on the outside of the house, women on the inside.” Every time I track mud in the house, I am reminded of that through a firm but gentle scolding. Been happening for 30 years but I have gotten much better.

[@Ghostman80]

7:01 That horn goin off in the background was comedic relief. Thanks for the video.

[@deangulberry1876]

“Or you can just buy a home with a woman 🚨 ‼️ “ 😂 that has to be a bad omen

[@leelee3995]

So true. I couldn’t stop laughing

[@PancakeArtPH]

ikr... glad he didn't cut it out 😅

[@alexgear959]

​@@deangulberry1876 literally the angel trumpets going like "shut the fuck up" lol

[@velora_17]

Me pushing 40 no wife no kids no job no skills no friends left no partner, nothing, emptyness. Looks like I made every single wrong decision possible. Darn it.

[@flipedude5404]

Losers have friends. Don’t be fooled

[@kmarie7051]

You can still change that though, these things aren't just going to turn up on your doorstep, you have to make the effort to better your circumstances.

[@velora_17]

@@kmarie7051 Your right but I simply have no fight left I lost my unborn baby and partner at a young age, all my friends gone and beating cancer at 25, now left with a heavy drug addiction I'm beat and too down to do much about it.

[@I_Lemaire]

Just get a CCNA, Velora

[@velora_17]

@@I_Lemaire Mehh i don't care anymore I'm too beat now hey at least I had a lot of fun in my younger days 90's and early 2000s were the best! since 2011 everything has gone down rapidly. Hope your all doing good! wishing you all the best.

[@KristopherStidd]

Thank you for the video LFA ❤

[@Casual_Talk]

Have to listen and click this quick since I'm in my early 30s. Seeing the title I can already relate. I figured out the career I want to do now but it took long. I have to admit.

[@howardmencini3040]

I want life not to fall apart, I want to win a lot of money, and I want to sleep well.

[@NoGunPowder.]

The sounds of nature behind you is the freedom i strive for

[@VictorP-e1e]

Money is becoming the end all be all because it's the foundation for all stages of life at all ages, single or coupled, across all cultures. The title gives you validation.

[@hablabamosa]

Ain't that the truth. You don't haveto be rich but without a stable job and come, you are bound to end up in social exclusion.

[@dalewhite4759]

63 and always enjoy LFA

[@acharya-karthikeya]

Excellent explanation carving the right paths for men.! Thanks dude. Love from India.

[@falconblack]

Great topic. Id say late 20s is the best time to change career path and jump into an apprenticeship. Most of us major in useless things (honestly dont know why people allow 18 year olds to pick courses to study that affects their life). A sad reality ive noticed, is that the older we get the less motivation and enthusiasm we have for life. Its going to be a mental struggle to try to learn a new career in the 30s. Let alone the financial cut from whatever you were doing till that point. Absolutely agree with regards to living with a woman. The poorer you are the more it makes sense, especially for minorities... But the RP is like a magic spell that negates critical thinking and encourages vicariously living through others and mimicking their POV

[@centredgrowth3233]

Sound advice LFA. It’s worked well for me. I'm going on 7 years, and I'm thriving.

[@RZFitnessTV]

Keep reading ;) God Bless LFA !

[@LFA]

New video coming soon.

[@HiX88]

Soon to be 36yo here... I am now making more money than ever before, and i have reasons to expect to make a lot more money than i am currently making in the next 3 to 5 years... The last time i had a girlfriend was more than 10 years ago. For me, at this point, a girlfriend serves no purpose. I dont want kids, and certainly not being around women for this long, makes me not want to deal with them anymore. I do, however, want to increase my income in order to make a better life for myself.

[@Loth-n1v]

Was dating difficult at 26-36 or were you just playing the field? Got divorced recently and I wanna jump back to dating but there’s a part of me that just wanna enjoy being alone for awhile

[@Dru-v9u]

I’m you and I love it yeah 💪

[@conciousswo8990]

It doesn't matter you don't have to have a girlfriend

[@Dust_YourselfOff]

The GF suggestion is an interesting idea but you really have to vet this girl before getting to that level. Not to mention, It’s getting harder to find this quality of woman out there

[@RandomMusicWorks]

Its not hard but they chose good looks

[@Dust_YourselfOff]

@@RandomMusicWorks I mean yeah I think looks is one of the most important things. You need to be attracted to your partner

[@Artursamvelyan-ny9zk]

I’m over 30, no woman. No real accomplishments. Everything is too hard to accomplish. Have to just accept it

[@JonathanSanAnto]

It’s all perspective I suppose. Deep down if you really want something maybe it helps you sleep better at night that you tried your best. I’m 24 and that’s the mindset I’m adopting now. Nothing is free or is gonna come easy for average Joe’s like us.

[@fredstriker2042]

Most people I know that didn't go to college and got a trade make far more money than those who did, & I know a lot

[@LFA]

Yeah but I thought that was understood and didn't need to be explained.

[@TakerouOuchi]

this format really suits me

[@StealthScouts]

Damn LFA you make it sound so easy. But Ireally dig how you go against the grain. This was kind of eye opening. Keep it up!!!

[@BackyardAquatics-o2m]

this is me. 49 years old. i've worked for 33 years and still don't know what i wanna do with my life. i've never really liked any job i've ever had. i just try to hang in there and make the best of it. to me any job sucks. i don't care anything about social status or anything like that or moving up the ladder. that stuff means nothing to me. i'm not married, no kids so maybe i just lack the motivation? LOL just always feels like working for nothing. working for retirement? it just never feels fulfilling. it's so empty.

[@stuart3808]

Same, 47

[@mkaizen1756]

THe same here, 49 years old, single, no kids, no attachment and I will quit my corrupted job as public servant with a stable job surrounded by worms and public parasites that don´t aggregate anything to me and to our society. Maybe i will create a KZbin CHANNEL to tell about my losing life and do my countdown to leave these world as a pathetic loser.

[@sadhguru2.058]

Follow Sadhguru u will get the purpose..

[@BackyardAquatics-o2m]

@@sadhguru2.058 purpose is to get out of the rat race and live life freely

[@AAYZ7]

Real, smart, and cool. Thank's LFA

[@turdfurgeson2032]

Lol. I'm 40 and I've settled on six or seven careers but nothing ever works out. Fuck life and fuck this world

[@josebro352]

Dude thank you so much for sharing that information. I'm exactly the same and it makes me feel better knowing that I'm not the only one. I'm 55 and I've had over 100 jobs in my lifetime. Never married. No kids. Don't know what I want to do. Maybe just travel and see as many different places as possible before I die. Peace!

[@jamess3410]

If we're gonna get into Bible quotes (LFA started it) why not quote Jesus? “Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them." That's not to say "don't work". But I think a healthy dose of "don't worry about it so much" is solid advice.

[@houdayfaouali9411]

We want more. Like this.. for the topics by the way. The video came at the right time. Thank you for your distinguished effort. We are here #✨🤠🤝

[@blockaderunner]

married at 47, you can do it, had to leave the country though

[@Kinja_]

Passport bro

[@adamwallace9122]

Solid advice dude ✝️

[@ThePhilosopher01]

Thank you, I needed that.

[@seekingfreedom9020]

How about 36 no girlfriend and no accomplishments 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😥. Although I really don't want a girlfriend, but I still have absolutely zero accomplishments. Although I want to want a girlfriend but I just don't want one

[@MrTheJizz]

This isn't to sway anyone one way or the other, but I fit the description of the person you're describing. Recently I thought how getting a girlfriend or wife is essentially a life or death matter for me now, so I decided to put 100 percent into trying. It absolutely paid off, and for the first time in my life i met a girl I could easily see myself marrying, and she definitely seemed to feel the same about me. After dating for a bit she came over to my apartment for the first time and we hooked up. Then she ghosted me. I discovered after it was because my apartment wasnt nice enough and she didn't think I made enough money. And I'm roughly the triple 6. Obviously more details but I was like damn, this is crazy! You gotta keep going though. Zero point in giving up.

[@jeremydiaz9642]

I'm 19, thank you for sharing!

[@Clux88]

I’m 35 high school diploma I did get in trouble so I have a criminal record but I have a few kids. I have a wife I make about 130 grand a year she makes about 100 a year sometimes we fight sometimes we love the shit out of each other , but at the end of the day, there’s a purpose and we have a lot of fun and raising those kids I couldn’t think of anything funner need to stop listening to the Internet, telling them that women are bad. They are what develops our purpose.

[@erichbobbitt9012]

The one thing I’m becoming to realize is, that for me as a Christian I need to lay down everything in my life for Christ and place him first and then God will reveal my purpose and will for my life

[@balancedlif3308]

The problem is that most quality women nowadays don't want to meet a man halfway. They want someone already there.

[@Well-Put]

What do you do for work, sir?

[@Dru-v9u]

Your blessed 😇

[@andre5468]

I'm glad I got my career and budgeting on track. All my friends are broke in dead end jobs not being able to do anything. Can't invite them to do anything

[@flipedude5404]

Why are you hanging around with losers

[@Jungle_boy123]

​@@flipedude5404😂😂

[@maikh.7813]

I'm not alone. The gym is always on my side😊

[@Kookbandit]

I wish the last three girls I dated could cook nearly as good as me

[@JackDoe1]

I feel like this would be good advice in a perfect world. Unfortunately the baggage most females come with now make a plan like this a pipe dream.

[@raymond_sycamore]

Manosphere dudes: STOP EQUATING BEDDING WOMEN WITH THE HEIGHT OF HUMAN ACCOMPLISHMENT

[@kaverjordankharbteng2550]

LFA is Underrated!

[@sircefiro]

Good vid man, to be fair it's not easy to find a woman these days, I don't have a lot of direction at the moment & think about it a lot ffs. I have a decent house, job, a couple of cars & so on but still lost really-well question if this is all it is

[@andre1987eph]

When in your 20s l30s, and 40s you should be focused on fitness and saving for early retirement. NOT women . 60 yo man here

[@Paulie8K]

I agree with this and of course, it'll vary from guy to guy. I was single for many years and was making around 50K but then I found my current gf right before the pandemic. Long story short, we moved in after a year of dating and have been living together for almost 4 years. She makes about $120K and I make 90K now as she's motivated me to go for jobs I thought were out of my league. We don't have kids and have a one bedroom condo so we live pretty well since we have a combined $200K income with little expenses outside of housing. Honestly the highest quality my life has ever been, especially since I grew up poor.

[@TIgodzilla1]

Don't brag, just wait for another 4 years. You still have a chance to end up even poorer :)

[@kmarie7051]

@@TIgodzilla1 Envy is never a good look.

[@gi2703]

Just started MSN-FNP , got to keep going

[@FrankKrueger4998]

really liked this video

[@ReikoSugimoto]

read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

[@JonathanSanAnto]

Any brief insight on how he book?

[@Emma-ox4ki]

fukin bots with this crap again

[@Emma-ox4ki]

fukin bots with this crap again

[@neillcann1609]

Don't sweat it boys I'm 41 I'm an ex con I recently trained as carpenter after no work history I earn 41,000 no debt own my own apartment in UK , live alone and I'm looking for her .. lfa is dead right there's always a way

[@lucky806]

I'm convinced I'll probably be single forever. It used to bother me alot in my teens and 20's but the older I get the more accepting and comfortable I am with that.

[@jeremiahmorris1852]

I'm 41 and I'm not satisfied with my lot in life. I saw a friend yesterday and he started a new career. $27 an hour just starting out. Gets to travel all over the country

[@mraarontorres]

Hell yeah

[@flipedude5404]

@@mraarontorres?

[@tonydiesel3444]

4 what?

[@jeremiahmorris1852]

@@tonydiesel3444 he's a K9 handler/package screener. Gets to travel to airports all over

[@ideasandtrucking]

I’m 23, I’m a truck driver, got a lot going for me..I’m pretty happy👌🏻 (and 2.5 years completely sober) and the women area isn’t going too bad either

[@TheAleksandros]

congrats. you have no idea how badly I'd want to be 23 again. Glad you're smashin it brotha

[@dbased1915]

Brother i respectfully disagree at 4:00. I went from 20k in 2017 to over 330k mid 2021 before buying my first house without an insane income and pretty much no credit score besides a short loan on car in 2016 (paid off by 2018). The middle recipe forgotten is investing, which is massively important especially now.

[@LFA]

Sounds like you agreed. You did exactly what I suggested.

[@rqn1998]

End of 40s retired and i know its best option...

[@clemensh6214]

The desire for recognition and love from strangers is one of the most terrible diseases there is.

[@yeee321]

This is pretty much a standard truth in today's society, aside from the small % of outliers. Getting a girlfriend isn't so much about wealth and appearance as it is about social status and having social groups of people with available/single women in them. You can be rich af and good looking, but if you have ZERO friends/friend groups you won't be getting any play whatsoever. Women today use social groups as a way to vet men/keep themselves safe, if you are a loaner who is in great shape, good looking, and works a stable career job but has 0 social life during the week/weekends then you just get no women whatsoever, because no one even knows who you are. There will be people who say go out and join groups/go to social events, but when you try that and find out that 95% of people at those are in privatized social cliques and really want nothing to do with you, then you see the harsh reality to the situation of today's anti-social hand picked friend group society Maybe its different in other parts of the U.S, but here in the North East, this is how it is

[@therhymerr]

This is Dallas Texas to a T. Unless you are vetted and have an in to the group, you are invisible no matter how well off.

[@Fred_1980]

Nope same here in Belgium....

[@AKASHROY-i9f]

Same in India as well and probably all over the world😢😢

[@AKASHROY-i9f]

​@@Fred_1980😢😢

[@RandomMusicWorks]

If you have looks and money you can have a good life

[@josebro352]

Like Jeffrey Epstein and Diddy?

[@coconuts1517]

I agree, women find most men ugly. Even those men who make 500K a year need to look as good as possible.

[@jackcatlin]

I would recommend prioritising education to get a better paying job you can tolerate before getting a girlfriend, then you have the financial means to take care of yourself if the relationship doesn't work. Instead of being dependant on needing to have someone around to make ends meet.

[@brianbachmeier34]

We're all gonna make it brahs 😎

[@nickc3856]

Fact check: FALSE

[@colinwood8376]

Working on my masters hear this loud and clear

[@SaiBro-t5p]

Guy i learned blue collar job skills, im a electrician , truck driver, mechanic, plumber no stress simple life

[@coconuts1517]

Every video like this, and every coach who presents a video like this, actually talks about what could be. And it could, but realistically and statistically it doesn't happen. The average man working a regular job these days is single. He's probably a virgin too. Maybe some miserable percentage find a girlfriend, but we have to accept the facts - most are probably irretrievably lost.

[@yungblade7]

Credit.

[@mkaizen1756]

I´m 49 years old, bald, not good looking, not funny and charismatic, failed Mechanical Suck Engineer, single, no kids, no family (ALL PASSED AWAY), no attachments and I will quit next year my corrupted job as public servant with a stable job surrounded by worms and public parasites that don´t aggregate anything to me and to our society. Maybe i will create a KZbin CHANNEL to tell about my losing life and do my countdown to leave these world as a pathetic loser. Being a MGTOW nowadays is a matter of survival, at least I live in total peace and freedom without living in toxic relationships. Our destiny is defined by the relationships we have during life. BE SINGLE is a choice.

[@mannycalavera1848]

I'm fine with work, I am a teacher. But I have no idea how to find a girlfriend. I just can't deal with the idea of being a seductive man, it's too complicated.

[@coconuts1517]

You have to be born a seducer, it's not something you can learn. Women are very superficial, they fall in love in 10 seconds. Now think about how you should look and what you should have in order for a woman to fall in love with you.

[@coreylavars6274]

It’s actually better to qualify for FHA with a lower credit score of like 620-640. Lower rates. People with better credit like 680-750 are gonna get conventional loan and have to pay way more.

[@GrantHudiburgh-d5z]

Thank you 💪

[@SydeLeaderRay]

I am 25 years old with no credit no college experience and work a part time job that I barely got. And I now live with my divorced father who doesn't work and uses his SSI money on his rent portion and drinking and smoking. That's it. And it's annoying. I have absolutely no idea how to be financially stable. I also don't know how to drive nor know where to even start on talking to girls and a virgin so that's very unlikely. Essentially I don't know how to do anything. I know what I want to do in my life, the only thing is I don't even know how to get the basic necessities so how would I even accomplish my ideas?

[@_Arevan]

To get girls isn't t the problem, hoeflation is! Be especially careful in the West brothers 🙏 to get a good woman is like finding a needle in a haystack!

[@StevenHaasef]

best!!!

[@davidryan4948]

You’re forgetting about hypergamy, LFA

[@LFA]

From my experience, its not really a factor worth mentioning.

[@bellavita3097]

Just when you think you’ve run out of ideas spot on again. 🎯

[@alexandrearfredrubia2532]

Hey whats up brothers fan from PH!

[@svipul4567]

If I don't know what I would like to do, that's probably the biggest problem I have. I have to figure out that first, before doing anything.

[@SamRichards171]

Its easy to say "get a girlfriend" but its so hard to actually get one

[@LFA]

Why?

[@SamRichards171]

@@LFA Rejection... it takes a toll on ur confidence, & im sure there's lots of guys dealing with the same problem

[@dendennis3053]

Good advice yes, but more for a time when women were more conservative minded, perhaps a few decades ago.

[@worldaround6520]

I am 27 years old and don’t have a lot of experience, but I am wary about taking a loan and paying interest. He mentioned what the Bible says about relationships, but I believe usury, or dealing with interest, is prohibited according to the Bible. I come from an Islamic background, so I may be biased, but I’m sharing my perspective. People do need capital to start a business, but I have a different approach. Instead of dealing with interest, I have paid a man a sum of money to invest in a business. When he makes a profit, I take a share. This is different from charging interest because my profit depends on his success, and I may also lose money if he incurs a loss. My approach is that we should try to build a community. I’m not claiming to be very successful, but I am expressing my viewpoint. I would appreciate the opinion of anyone reading this.

[@worldaround6520]

@@elasticharmony I think a lot of people have burdened themselves under the weight of bank loans. If we use profit sharing, even if there is a loss, the person who borrowed the money will not be burdened by the loan. If most businesses do actually make a profit and we use the model of profit sharing, the organization lending the money shouldn't face losses either.

[@snow1111tc]

Talked about the Bible and then a minute later you hear the angel trumpets wow

[@anareel4562]

I'm trying to make money, not spend it paying off a woman's debts

[@LFA]

And she probably doesn't want to pay off yours but you can get them all paid faster together.

[@anareel4562]

@@LFA in my experience her money is her money, my money is her money. Fuck that

[@milenhristov7080]

@@LFAthing is most women nowaday dont want to interfere with almost nothing to the relationship ( personal expirience) 29 yrs old i am

[@BenJohnston1993]

It sucks being on SSI and not being able to make much money