I've had chicks follow me down the street and other babes randomly yelling I love you as I walked by.

Congrats man, happy birthday and keep these pep talks coming!

happy birthday sir.

I’m so glad I watched this. You’re so right. I used to think being fit and making money would make me happy. But the whole time people who were out of shape and broke were living more fulfilling lives than me. That’s when I realized I was miserable and working out wasn’t going to help

13:06 Relationships in real life (compared to Disney)

**How to Outgrow the Red Pill - Summary with Timestamps** --- ****00:00:00** - Introduction** - Most viewers consider themselves "red-pilled." - This video explores how to outgrow the red pill mindset. --- ****00:00:40** - The Red Pill is Not the Only Perspective** - Many believe life is either "red-pilled" or "blue-pilled." - In reality, perspectives are shaped by personal experiences. - Thinking in extremes can create an unhealthy mindset. --- ****00:01:18** - The Three Pillars of the Red Pill** 1. **Hypergamy** - Women prefer dating up and across dominance hierarchies. 2. **Alpha F***s, Beta Bucks** - Women seek passionate relationships with attractive men but settle with successful providers. 3. **Game** - Strategies to improve success in the dating market. - Many men resonate with the red pill because they’ve witnessed these dynamics in real life. --- ****00:03:18** - The Red Pill Leads to the Black Pill** - Over time, red-pilled beliefs can turn into a "black-pilled" outlook. - Black pill ideology suggests only "Giga Chad" men succeed, while others must "simp," pay, or get surgery to compete. - This belief system leads to hopelessness and withdrawal from the dating market. --- ****00:04:36** - The Cycle of Red Pill Thinking** - If hypergamy is always true, a woman will always seek a higher-status man. - If “she’s not yours, just your turn” is true, no relationship is secure. - Leads to an endless cycle of red-pilled disillusionment. --- ****00:06:24** - Breaking Free from the Red Pill** - Less than 10% of men identify as red-pilled. - This isn't because they "know the truth" while others are "blind." - Many red-pilled men are caught in a **narcissistic web**-either from childhood or relationships. --- ****00:07:42** - The Narcissistic Connection** - Many red-pilled men have backgrounds of emotional neglect. - Example: A man raised by a narcissistic mother who prioritized herself over his needs. - Such men are conditioned to accept emotional neglect as normal. - They then project their experiences onto all women. --- ****00:11:58** - The Core Belief of the Red Pill** - If you believe **“she’s not yours, just your turn,”** deep down, you feel unworthy. - This belief often stems from past trauma, not objective reality. --- ****00:13:52** - Healing and Moving Forward** - The red pill cycle can be broken. - Not all women are manipulative or disloyal-many are loving and supportive. - True healing comes from self-awareness and choosing a different path. --- ****00:14:27** - Final Thoughts** - This isn’t about forcing change-it’s about realizing when you're ready. - If the message doesn’t resonate now, it might in a few years. - Growth is a personal journey. --- Hope this helps! Let me know if you need any tweaks.

I ended up going on a date with a woman that was 30. She claimed to be a thick Latina that goes to the gym and lost 50 pounds....the women I met in person was not that. This woman looked so different than her pictures she was getting nervous that I kept looking at her face. Turns our she photoshoped the hell out of it. I knew the second I met her that I was bamboozled and she wanted me to make out with her, but I just could not do it lol.

Great vid man!!

I've been through the several times in my life especially the last five - six years It's called "cold shouldering" and it's actually pretty common. And another common mistake that both guys and girls make is that they go into panic mode instead of just respecting their space but a lot of the time is if you get cold shouldered after everything is going good, the person who was previously in their life came back. And you just got to be okay with falling back

I liked it when the bug casually crawled across the lens.

Well you still have time, i don't have much friends either, maybe 3 at the most and im 41, i have been married 3 tiemes with my marriage now, i have 2 kids with my second wife who don't let me see my childrens just because, the last time i saw them was almost 6 to 7 years ago, i pay child support and all, when i got divorced in 2014 she took the childrens and never brought them back not even for me to see them and everytime i ask to see them it was always a problem with her. Well so i tought i would never have a family and regenerate from that situation, but i did, i got married almost 4 years now and i have a boy of 2 years old that i am enjoying with all my heart and soul since the others were took with less than 2 years and i could'nt be that father role for them. But G-d gave me another family and a kid to enjoy in my old days, im doing all my best and im greatful for giving me in my 39's my son that i love so much and makes me so happy im 41 now and im telling you, you still got time man you are not to old. Friends come and go but the family is to stay. I got 1 friend that i go out very rarely cause he is living in Utah now and comes to visit the family and friends once a year and im from Puerto Rico, well things are as they are. Some are made to have childrens and family others not. But try, if you still alive there is some hope.

i should call her 😂😂😂

Then meet people,do something live!!

1:03

Atp bro . Who cares focus on purpose n keep God first these birds aint worth the squeeze.

Oh boy! The “what’s up brothers” is the best part, and I’m a women 😂 😅 Anyways, now this is the second video of you that I’m watching and I’m gonna be brutal and tell your straight that you are invited to come anywhere in Europe or actually to Albania in Europe, where I’m for the moment, to come and so we can get to know each other and we can get married and I can cook for you and do others things 😂 Just here to remind real sigma men that great women aren’t always where you think they can be hehe open your heart and keep it open, know that loving and loyal women are ready to be loyal and loving to you even if you don’t apparently belong to the “elite” or you don’t have it all figured out. ❤ When are coming to Europe mon chéri? 😍🤣😘

You are brillant man and it’s true that a lot of brillant men and women are often single and mostly ok with that choice also because being lucide and the capacity to see through the social parade. I bet most of people looking your videos are men and it’s nice that you speak to them because young people need inspiration, and I’m leaving this comment to let know to the loyal men, that loyal women are out there thinking of you and keeping a huge place in their heart even if one another didn’t meet yet. ❤ Maybe all living being are our soul mates and we can live life like that without needing to get attached to anything or anyone which doesn’t mean that one doesn’t commit and invest emotionally. Souverainty is crucial tho. Guys stay brave and don’t sell yourself too short just because society is telling you to force to settle, keep being true because your light is needed. ❤ That might sound crazy but I speak in spirit with my loved one and I don’t know when he will step in in my consciousness but I know he’s somewhere out there and also having the same thoughts and vibe and it’s just a matter of timing before we run into one another. ❤ Everything is magic or nothing is magic in life, there is only two ways to see it haha 🎉

best youtber around heree

Shyt!!! 12yrs...That sucks!!!!

this guy is special gift for me

stumbled upon your videos, love them man youre 100% better than any other one of these youtubers who do they talks about relationships. this is the reallist shit ever

I'm 58, and I have 5 kids... no wife (she left me), BUT I have Jesus and the assurance of eternal life! ONLY through Christ, can we be saved! Read the Bible... that is God's Word!

The world is definitely not fair

Happy Birthday LFA!

BROTHER!! You have become my favorite red pill teacher!! The first time I saw one of your videos, i assumed you were a typical "chad." Then, after watching the whole video, i realized the solid information you were giving. I especially appreciate how you blend masculinity and the "game" with morality. The way you just plugged those t shirts was seamless and authentic, and yes, you look boss in those shirts!!! I will be a customer! Thank you for your work!!!!

Sorry, I am late to say: Happy birthday Brother, wish you all the best ☘️

Hahaha mate this is quality!

Happy Birthday alpha. Keep telling the truth.

A gem given by LFA. Creeping in on 90 days. This vigor is insane

I am 19 i have family i have some friends but i can't feel any of them i can't believe in them .i cant trust them . I can't love the . I don't know why but I tried to love them but putting on fake smile hurts more than staying alone . If i can give my rest of years to u all guys . I think i will definitely gave it .❤ All of you guys out there . The way you are still handling yourself is unimaginable.

Thank you LFA for disclosing your painful experience as a young man. Appreciate your posts.

Okay chad

Once a chick hits 50 they can't pair bond no matter what. Once the bleeding downstairs stops, their abilities to nurture are gone. Hence the term menopause aka pause to be a man. 😅😂😅😂🎉🎉

No one is puttin up wit it...I just think it is gross...disrespected...I'm out! If your woman flirts with another man and you don't like it...go single. Mega turnoff if your girl is bein' jus nasty! If you see it and it makes you sad... I was and always will be out right away...but no woman has honored how I felt once...and on the flip...two women have been after me and they are married...whole thing has left me just mad sad. Yo....

Thank you.

One of your best videos

I have a wife and 3 beautiful children, but at 42 zero friends, I found that those claiming to be your friends are fraudulent, untrustworthy, and essentially dragging me down, I want nothing to do with any of them, or my family(father brothers sister etc), only thing I care about is those who care about me, my wife and children

You are really good dude....

This is a SIGMA. Man I got cheated on in every relationship and I am not even mad about it I don't blame myself and I got over it in like 2 weeks every time except once took like 3 months cuz she was beautiful and I loved her cuz I knew her for a couple years beforehand. I don't even know where I am going with this except if your reading this you need to move for YOU and this LFA guy says it pretty clearly. There is NOT plenty of fish in the sea, there is the person you can actually connect with and that's rare so that quote doesn't mean shit to me. So I am hoping the person I am with now is the one but the third eye is telling me to give it time and space to make a real connection. I went off topic im all over the place sorry guys lol..

1:40 it's not funny but I laughed.

Brother, this hit hard AF! Sad truth here.

Happy birthday sir! You speak the truth

I really love this guy❤❤

Thanks for that brother, it was spot on. All it takes is some old bitter hide to infect their brain with the notion that they need to be independent. Then, Instagram will confirm and reinforce the bias over and over. On top of it all, having to financially support someone else's independence does not seem like independence.

It happened to me after 14 years wow!!!

Have a good birthday bro!!!

The Girl I am currently seeing. I told her straight up. I'm not the type to cling to you. If at any point in time you wanto leave. There's the Door. No ?'s asked. Life is too short for B.S. And now. She keeps texting and visiting me non stop. I've never chased Women. It's not Logical IMO. Great Video.

Single is the way to go, always be the guy she cheats with not the guy she cheats on.

Happy birthday brother 🫵🏽

Happy birthday !