#overconsumption

[@sassychimpanzee7431]

I agree that the hyper consumerism promoted by social media is a real problem. People are being taught that they should buy buy buy to make themslves happy.

[@s.r6331]

Crazy how I just saw a 40 min video on influencers "restock" videos. The girl calls out the negatives on that. I loved it

[@Kimberly34584]

And if you account that many products are given for free by companies to try to sell products. It makes the influencer’s collection so much more valuable when for even them it would be unattainable to sustain their current lifestyle/content upload schedule without having all they PR supplies first. Early YT was just eyeshadow pallets and now Tik tok has people pull out multiple large coffee shop flavor pumps when I know very well that influencer would not have 30+ bottles without some of them being free. I never looked at it like that before but not I can’t unsee the clear divide of the life I live and the one the influencers promote are able to achieve with sponsorships

[@IDGAF_AboutYourLuckyCharms_238]

Yeah it’s turned into Commercials 2.0 edition except people don’t understand budgeting or saving in our generation so they just buy buy til they are broke.

[@Dyslexic.D0ry]

That’s the point, to make yourself happy like I don’t understand your comment

[@akaneve478]

yes. life is short and I will buy things that make me happy

[@brianc4632]

Libraries definitely need more love as they provide not just books but adult education programs, reference services, photocopying/printing, resume building lessons, and so much more. They’re also a great way to check out a book to see if you like it or not before purchasing your own copy. Spend your money on what you really love instead of buying a bunch of books you’ll never glance at twice. Much of that depends on how much funding and resources a library has access to. You don’t have to visit the library everyday, but something as simple as signing up for a library card gives libraries the numbers they can present to the city to show that more funding and resources are needed because more people are interested in them.

[@jrad00]

And activities and story times for toddlers/small kids! It’s a great social outing for kids and parents

[@ambzerambzer8800]

Exactly I think using the library is probably the best advice in this video. I remember I was looking everywhere for this book I wanted and kept looking online to see if there were any offers, all that time spent and almost wasted a stupid amount of money on a book I may or may not like, when I just rented it from the library instead. Libraries are also good for when you run out of internet instead of buying an extension I just go to a library when I need to go online (plus gets me out of the house)

[@halguy5745]

if libraries were invented nowadays, people would probably accuse them of communism

[@evenstar04]

They don't have many of the books I want, and every time I go in, their arts, and crafting section gets smaller and smaller. Libraries are not always a good source for all your reading needs.

[@motophone8794]

Yes! ❤libraries ❤ One of the best resources ever. Don't forget about interlibrary loans.

[@verah1287]

Be really carefull about choosing a vessel for a candle, most glass wont stand the heat and will shatter everywhere

[@kimberlykaye4827]

You can actually reuse your candle containers. Put them in a double boiler and melt the wax. Add a new wick. Voila.

[@alexl.9602]

​@mipmipmipmipmip I mean, if you're a teen or adult, that should be common sense. But I guess if you fall for influencers bullshit you probably don't have common sense to begin with.

[@SaigesArstgo1031]

@@alexl.9602She picked up a random glass and made it a candle

[@Heyu7her3]

Yeah that was a terrible suggestion lol

[@Dojan5]

I mean if it's a vessel that already came as a candle it'll be fine.

[@dolce4543]

Everything yes Except the books, thrifting books is great, and supporting authors who are alive by buying new books is also lovely

[@ZinhleBhembe-yh9gr]

Oh yes I agree

[@RAVENLYTHE]

I recommend the site thrift books for this, most books are around $5!

[@Luka-ok2ss]

Especially I don't have a free local library to get books, also I like to note and highlight books soo I do need to own them

[@kalpic11]

or buy the ebook to support them instead

[@erraticcat3887]

@@kalpic11 Some people don't like ebooks though. Personally, I don't like them because my phone screen is very small and my eyes are sensitive to screen light in general. I'd rather use that money to buy a physical copy instead, so I can read in comfort. :)

[@pearl_lisha896]

The problem with ebooks or movie bought through streaming services is they can be erased. If the platform doesn’t want to support it anymore or they no longer have the license, then it doesn’t matter if you bought it, it’s gone. I agree in supporting libraries but I also agree if you really love a book, movie or tv series; buy the hard copy and take care of it.

[@kimberlykaye4827]

True. When I really live a book I buy it. But I read 1-2 books a week. We have a used bookstore that accepts their old books back for a credit. I like to use them. Also I use my kindle and library.

[@raerohan4241]

​@@kimberlykaye4827 If I bought every book I read I'd have ended up on the streets long ago 😅 Public libraries and webnovels saved my wallet and kept me with a roof over my head lol

[@ReemSalah28]

Also, unfortunately, Amazon owns Kindle, so buying ebooks from them supports Amazon 🙃

[@aytenxo]

I agree, there's also the option of buying books second-hand :)

[@quackinthechat.]

Buy an ebook, and if you really like it you can get the print.

[@KristenZianourry2015]

Second hand book stores are such a valuable resource

[@darkmad00]

Wish I had that in our town :(

[@gillyweed4185]

I always buy the secondhand books even though it means the book is already outdated and no one talks about it anymore but who cares

[@winterkeptuswarm]

​@@darkmad00you can buy them online, I use abebooks! I've commented a few times so I feel silly but they're my favorite.

[@itsjustalicia123]

​@@darkmad00thrift books is an online second hand book shop that's always been really amazing in my experience ♡♡♡

[@___gibz____]

“Just influencers profiting off of hyper consumption” Real

[@bunnyboops8875]

Using this.

[@kingskidtvbrandiva]

Y’all do know that yall don’t have to buy, right? It is a choice and you’re free to “not purchase.”

[@bunnyboops8875]

@@kingskidtvbrandiva Do you not know what an influencer is?

[@bluuchandesu]

@@kingskidtvbrandivaof course. however, these influencers and companies aren't trying to target people with that mindset! their target demographic are impressionable individuals & those with FOMO- which is unfortunately a lot of people. so these videos can at least remind people like that to not spend their cash mindlessly just because some random tiktoker promoting something.

[@AkhmenHotep]

"influencers" don't make a dime off of the sale of those items compared to the corporations, the influencer makes a living, the corporations make a profit!

[@lipstickzombie4981]

The candle refill is an absolute NoNo for me, I've seen quite a number of shattered glass injuries in my ER during the pandemic because somebody tried amateur candle making and used the wrong type of glass. Thrifting ain't worth it if you're paying medical bills in the end.

[@Zombina638]

We so do not care kid. Thats you

[@tammybenaytv4631]

If you recycle a glass you already have; you should be good.

[@Rose_RBL0X]

@@Zombina638 There not a kid bro. There trying to save you from painful injuries

[@Rose_RBL0X]

@@tammybenaytv4631 Its better to be cautious even still

[@andrealovesbooks8670]

Just use an empty candle 🕯️ jar

[@oddeyeaura]

i can’t do the library cus i love to annotate my books but i love thrifting/buying books from second hand bookstores!!!

[@marisophi.01]

There's also erasable highlighter! I recently got one, the color goes away with heat (usually friction, but a hair dryer should be a good non-fiction option). They do leave a very light trail but it's not too noticeable if the color you use is the same undertone as the book's paper.

[@darkacadpresenceinblood]

​@@marisophi.01i mean yeah but i imagine part of the annotation is being able to look back on your thoughts later, not just the act of writing them

[@marisophi.01]

@@darkacadpresenceinblood of course, but if you only want to review and save the annotations later, that would be the perfect method. It's another story if you want to keep the book, but if you only want to annotate with ease, there's where the erasable highlighter comes in handy.

[@katie7748]

Cardinal sin in my book (pun intended lol) but they're yours so go right ahead!

[@Aster_Risk]

​@@marisophi.01This is a good idea for a book club!

[@Miluriel]

To be honest, I wouldn’t say buying books is over-consumption, unless you never read. Yes, it's nice to borrow books or find them cheap second hand. I love it. But I also want to support authors by buying their books. Please don’t put creatives that, in many cases, don’t make enough off of their books to make writing their full-time job, on the same level as huge corporations selling made in China crap no one needs just so they can hoard more money.

[@user-zw4sg9yd7s]

And also I want my own and brand new copy of book, if I really love the story

[@yangofthevalley]

This!

[@jades6073]

We buy books then donate to areas in our community if we didn't care for said book 🙂

[@lonnekaward]

Absolutely agree with you here! Books shouldn’t be included.

[@kaleidoscope5054]

i wanna be able to lend what I've read to my friends, so if i like a book i will try to buy it

[@malinasworld]

The publishing industry and independent bookstores are dying and authors are struggling to earn from writing books. Supporting libraries is important but I don’t think buying books can be compared to buying redundant skincare products that expire.

[@deeznuts8324]

right ! independent bookstores definitely deserve more love and even if you’re purchasing books from somewhere like B&N, at least for me, I keep books for years and years, i still have books from 10+ years ago when i was a child. If it’s something I really really didn’t like i usually will go to a local bookseller here that does buy/sell/trade. Its not comparable at all to cosmetics

[@malinasworld]

@@deeznuts8324 I’ve saw a comment with over a hundred likes saying that buying books makes no sense because they are read only once. Like. Man perhaps you personally buy books as a consumable but that doesn’t make them so for the rest of us!

[@SilverGhxst]

​@@malinasworld at that point they should just use the library if they are only going to read it once. But for alot of people (me included) if I'm buying a book it's because i feel it's something I will read over and over again. And in my experience that's exactly what I do! Infact I just bought the eragon series, my brother used to have them when I was little, i read them and loved them and always wanted a set for myself so I could re read them. They should be here today i am so excited to re read them again! I even bought the newest book because I haven't read it yet but it's gonna be another one I'm going to read alot

[@malinasworld]

@@SilverGhxst Yeah, the library is a great solution for them, it just doesn’t make buying books hyper-consumptive. I love that I own my books, I plan on building a home library so my children and friends can enjoy it too. Even before I had this plan there’s something special about owning a book that’s not comparable to having yet another body scrub or scented candle.

[@NotSoNormal1987]

My son has just started getting into a book series I loved and read many times as a kid. One of which I read at least 7 times. I even had the last chapter memorized when I was younger. He thinks the books are awesome.

[@tirthalily]

I have loved having a collection of books since way before I was even on social media. Many of us who love reading books usually like keeping a collection as being able to touch, smell, and read a physical book beats every other form. With libraries you'll not only have to return it but also need to finish the book within a time frame. Many of us also don't have libraries in our area. Plus buying good books = supporting good authors

[@_afancyhat_]

Plus, if you have any stores that take the "unwanted stock" (returned or defective items, no longer on shelves/not enough stock to sell) from the big chain stores, they're SUPER cheap. We had a Dirt Cheap in my hometown (we're going back soon and I hope it's still there), and an Ollie's here. My mom and I go all the time just to see what they have, the Ollie's here has a pretty big selection of books for like $5 each. They even had the sequels to the book my mom was reading, and the one I have!!

[@caidalee1994]

Libraries will have sales where they’ll get rid of stock, and you can always check out a book, come back on the due date, hand it to them and have them hand it right back once they scan it. I do agree that having your own stock is nice.

[@apercy]

Influencers telling people to not be influenced is my favorite.

[@djlivvy46]

This cycle is literally the most Gen Z thing ever. So entertaining!

[@vegan.3176]

​@@djlivvy46 why u out here defending capitalism like youre on the pay roll 🤨

[@NaturalAegyo]

​@@vegan.3176Providing the service of content creation for ad revenue _is_ capitalism and we are all consuming it.

[@hotties3v3n]

Facts 😂😂😂💀

[@hotties3v3n]

Shopping is fun and therapy. Mind your own pockets and purchases, or lack of.🤨

[@daelitedlee]

i do have to warn not to use random glasses for candles. make sure it is the right kind. fire safety is important . once had a neighbor burn their house down due to a candle which used a cheap glass as its vessel. (it was diy from what i was told.) so be careful

[@thisissshe]

Oooh.. the best option for this would be to just reuse old candle jars

[@mskimkimmi]

Yeah, not all glass is meant to have super hot wax in it. I had a candle explode once. Very scary. Remember! This is another influencer! They will have no consequence when you make a candle that explodes into a zillion pieces. Less consumption is a good thing, but do I want a delicious smelling toxic scrub or a ragity old scratchy brush? Neither are great options. Just my 2 cents.

[@abigaelrarts2257]

I put some old wax in a shot glass once while I was at my desk doing homework (used a q tip as a wick). The shot glass exploded out of nowhere, wax went everywhere, and I'm lucky the shards missed my face. it was quite alarming!

[@ChronicallyCrafty_ASMR]

Yup I buy new glasses for the candles I make. Nobody wants to buy a nice candle in an old ass ratty glass.

[@skymeadow7762]

🎉😊

[@jenewok]

I will never stop purchasing physical media! When you download a book or movie, you don't really own it. It can disappear at any time. I agree though that going to the library or purchasing a used book is a good thing. There's nothing like holding a real book in your hands!

[@stephaniethesoprano]

agreed with the library thing! they're so important for communities, and while I definitely don't enjoy reading enough to purchase physical books I definitely love the library for the temporary aspect! I also love to use it to preview books that I'm actually interested in purchasing because books are so expensive

[@lunarialoonatic]

Yeah plus for me I hate the time table. My local library has become super strict after Covid with times and there’s no more extensions after a month so it’s just super anxiety inducing to me knowing I have a time table on my head to reading a book even if I know I will likely finish it in time

[@michellejames9969]

It ruins the experience for me to not have a paperback in my hand to read. Idk why but I can’t get into even my favorite books with an ebook. And I’ll always get my favorite movies and music like that. Just old school I guess.

[@laceye3485]

Sometimes you can own the digital media. There’s ways to export a lot of that to your own devices. I have a lot of my kindle books on an external hard drive. And while I prefer to read a physical book, I do recognize that ebooks and other digital media is opening accessibility doors for those who need that. Digital media is very important too.

[@rex788]

Same here. Which is why I still buy dvds and blu rays.

[@Lilith_sRevenge]

All my aunts and my mom changed their decor according to the season. This was a thing loooong before internet. Some people just like home decorating.

[@pinksoft39]

ME like man i buy what im going to use!

[@charbabyy69]

Me too ! I definitely have bedding and pillows for different seasons and holidays lol

[@lisha_massofenergy]

yeah same with my family but the difference is gramma would go into storage to get the same stuff out each year, maybe replace when it’s worn or torn. sm has people thinking they need to physically PURCHASE a new bedding set every season and that’s overconsumption

[@magnetdance]

She means don’t buy new bedding every season

[@SarahPatez]

But do they bought unnecessary new stuff while there was things similar in their homes? The video meant that it's unnecessary to buy new blankets and pillows for every single season change, use the other ones you already have and be creative

[@Dragonwaterdancer22]

You will never stop me from buying books.

[@Bananabear20]

what's wrong with going to the library?

[@shizukakawakami6084]

​@@Bananabear20 I don't like reading books which aren't mine. I make notes in my own books, highlight some parts. Also there is no time limit. I see no problem in buying books and giving them away if you don't need them anymore.

[@wolvie1618]

​@@Bananabear20 library doesn't have everything you're looking for. The library where I live in *tiny* and never has anything I want.

[@joelleanderson5646]

If the library doesn’t have the book, you can buy the book, keep it in good condition and then donate it to the library when you’re done! Save the next person wanting to read the same book the trouble!

[@crunchychips2237]

Maybe I'm wrong, but there also are comprosises. Usually if I buy books and finish, i either donate them, give them to friends, or use the local library where people in the neighborhood exchange books. That way, the book is still is use and reused in mutiple ways if you dont use a library

[@chickennuggetpaw]

I have one big fluffy duvet, and that’s all I need. If I had to change out my entire bedding theme every season, I’d lose my mind 💀

[@wowueewow]

plus it takes so much space in storage!!

[@chickennuggetpaw]

@@wowueewow YESS they’re literally so massive 😭 plus they’re impossible to wash so you have to get them dry cleaned

[@solangelalebron1348]

Don't worry about what I do, and mind your business.

[@chickennuggetpaw]

@@solangelalebron1348 goddamn ok LMAO

[@StrawberryJamJam29]

I prefer to have two because when it’s dirty and needs to be cleaned, it’s nice to have a second to use.

[@lasaves3207]

Buying a book means supporting the author, which is a good thing. Other than that, I agree with all the things you said ❤

[@Harudodo]

I’m gonna be completely honest, buying books is not over consumerism (with the exception of buying a bunch of books you end up never reading, of course). The library is definitely a great place to start - you shouldn’t buy a book unless you like it - there’s also no shame in collecting. I’m pretty proud of my manga collection and I love to see it grow! Again, I would highly recommend reading from a library first, and if you like a book enough that you would reread it, then feel free to buy it!

[@magical571]

Too much screen time is a thing, libraries are a privilege in plenty of places, and audiobooks do not replace the "brain corner" actual reading does. So yeah, she is wong about that. If people are gonna invest in anything, i find it hilarious that it's bbook out of all things that she is taking issue with. but then again, this channel's shorts are such a #sustainability gurl don't you agree gurl moment that i genuinly doubt she cares in a menaingful way. just preaching to a choir.

[@stephaniethesoprano]

yes! and if for some reason you tire of your collection, or want to downsize you can always take them to the secondhand store or resell them for others to enjoy.

[@BruceKarrde]

I bought physical copies of Star Wars books. Then, after reading, I sold them to another fan. I also enjoy audiobooks. Some may say it's worse than reading for memory. But then again, I combined them during walks and I doubt the dryness of the subject would've kept me awake otherwise 😂

[@tweetygirl818]

@@stephaniethesopranoyes i donated my books to the library once i was done with them.

[@bece00]

Second hand books are good too! Not every thrift store carries them but the ones that do are often overflowing because they don't sell quick. Also i love old book smell

[@etwas2anders]

The place where I live and some other citys offer "bookcells" an old Telephonebooth upcycled to a small library. You can take and bring whatever you like. The problem is that it's all really old books, kinda like "grandma died and we emptied her attic" and nobody is cleaning these books out. So when u bring new books they don't fit cause it's overflowing with books nobody reads.

[@night.time_sunshine]

Fun fact: there’s actually a name for the “old book smell”; it’s called bibliosmia!! :)

[@SusieQ3]

Old books is a top 3 favorite smell ❤

[@kayla7562]

Ohh that old grandma house smell 🥰

[@TheTardisDreamer]

Sure second hand books are great when you can get them, but there is nothing wrong with buying a book new either and it is not "overconsumption". To say buying art is "overconsumption" is beyond pretentious and insulting to labour of the authors. Fun fact: most authors make very little money for their work and cannot make a living from writing. I want to support authors.

[@bluz1864]

I agree with most execpt the books one. I want to keep my books forever and I have a hard time reading e-books.

[@starlinglamb13]

I agree with this sentiment! So I find the more sustainable option is half price books or other resell book stores!

[@issyrose6527]

I love having my own little library at home, it's not like my friends can't borrow from me and reading off of a phone actually affects your eyesight long-term

[@lionessofdaesitiates]

Yes.

[@BecxyBoo]

It's alright as long as you keep them, sadly so many books only get read once and then end up in thrift stores. I know cause I go thrifting often and there are always heaps of them...

[@rubyanddelilahandnani]

I also have an in-home library, but what I’m trying to do is only purchase the ones I actually love love. The rest i can get from the library that is literally less than 5 minutes from my house. Edit- I checked and it’s 1.4 miles/4 minutes from here. I can walk there 🤔

[@maridythmarie6263]

it’s not just influencers with the bedding stuff lol grandmas love to have decor for each season! 😅💕

[@caladana1]

Yeah it's fun and normal to have decor for the seasons that you cycle through. What the video is talking about is influencers buying all new decor down to bedsheets EVERY SEASON. My grandma has quite a bit of seasonal decor! She reuses it every year though and only gets new stuff when she needs to replace something or she comes across a piece she absolutely loves and goes with the decor she has.

[@moodforever]

I'm 33 and I do this 🥰

[@TheAllenPodcasts]

IKR my grandma does this and I’ve learned to do it and i love it ❤

[@ricochetrivr]

I have Adhd, so I prefer to buy books that are on sale because I can’t finish a book as fast as the library wants it back. So instead of depriving someone else of a good book, I pay for my own so I can finish it in my time

[@isabellasuell3305]

Same. It worked out for the best. My Heartstopper collection was borrowed by 2 separate friends and I was basically a library lol.

[@faerie_waters]

Yes, I'd rather buy a book 2nd hand and have it for as long as I need. Same reason!

[@skyes7369]

Check out the book section at the thrift stores. Mine have paperbacks for $1 & when I’m done I just re-donate.

[@stellangios]

Ugh yes, library is a pain: wait nine months for a book you try to read feeling like something is breathing down your neck for you to give it back. Most of the time I just give it back because it arrived when I wanted to read something else. Or I borrow a book with beautiful illustrations (or is a literal art book) and it's full of pen marks and torn pages. End up having to tell the library to pull it. I'll stick to preordering my must haves and supporting the authors!!

[@AmyKaylasVegas]

I buy off Thriftbooks if I really love a book or if the library doesn't carry it. Try there? :)

[@Liquethemodel]

Nothing wrong with buying physical Books . Ebooks can be erased and a public library can be taken away at the snap of a pandemic

[@Vioven]

Your house can also burn down. What's your point? Anything can be destroyed with shitty enough luck.

[@MrsRimavelle]

Books can also be lended, resold, or even donated to the library itself. And writers already make so little of each book.

[@katattack907]

I like to swap out my living room curtains, throw pillow, and throw blanket in the fall and spring. It makes me feel in tune with the seasons and makes my space feel refreshed while still only having a few extra items to store and take care of.

[@n0thum4n]

And it preserves the lifetime of your items when you have other versions to switch out to that way you’re not continuously wearing that product out

[@katattack907]

@@n0thum4n I hadn't considered that! Good point!

[@user-bi8ko7kc6h]

But the point is do you reuse them. Some content creators get new one every time. You never see them using the same stuff for next year 😅

[@n0thum4n]

@@user-bi8ko7kc6h usually if that creator continues to show their windows or their bed yeah the ones I follow reuse them

[@katattack907]

@@user-bi8ko7kc6h oh ouch! It's painful to imagine that much consumption!

[@laurenmarie9303]

I really love your videos, they inspire me to shop ethically and are such a breath of fresh air to the over consumption of skincare, makeup, kitchenware that is shoved down my throat on here

[@rainbowditto9033]

If you really want a book to buy or have on your shelf, check out secondhand bookstores as well!! Some of them will custom order new releases for you if you ask, and more importantly you could be giving a home to a well loved book ready to find a new home! 😊 Secondhand bookstores are great for finding the best older print books there are- i found my all time favorite book by grabbing one at random from a nearby secondhand book store!

[@meikurai]

But if I want to support the author? I bought almost every book from an author from my hometown.

[@Cinnie.Stories]

What's your all time favourite book? Always looking for new recommendations! 😊❤

[@HeronCoyote1234]

@@Cinnie.StoriesI was just going to ask the same question.

[@Tam00393]

I buy my books whenever possible because I want to support the author, that seems to be a disturbing trend these days, where people will proudly go out of their way to come in possession of someone else's work without paying them directly for said work. If you can't afford new books, games, ect that's one thing, but if you can and you're just trying not to pay the author for their labor then you're the problem. I myself am a writer and I don't think people understand the amount of time and labor that goes into writing even just 40k words. I don't know why it's become a trend not to support authors. And no, that's not saying libraries are bad. Libraries are wonderful, they buy the books directly from the author.

[@sara_ns]

So true!! Also want to know your all time favorite book??

[@katalinelo8011]

Please don't condemn people for buying books! I'd love to use the library as I have very little space for books. The issue is that their opening hours are exactly the same as my working hours, so I don't even have the chance. It's a pity because I absolutely love libraries and it would be a good thing for my social life and mental health too. I don't need anyone shaming me for buying the books I want to read!

[@katalinelo8011]

@@80sCanadian Don't you think I evaluated all my options? I wish it would be this easy.

[@stellangios]

Yeah just ignore people like this. Enjoy your books!! Nothing wrong with building a beautiful library of books you love. If you tire of some you can always list them online in book reselling apps.

[@katalinelo8011]

@@80sCanadian Your previous answer was like a condescending lecture. I tend to snap back at those. Probably I shouldn't have even bothered to comment but I can't sit on my hands sometimes. My bad. Have a nice weekend!

[@KatharinaPrick]

@@80sCanadian as a random person who is ESL, please don’t worry, your posts don’t read condescending at all! They read exactly how you intented them to :)

[@YemmieInc]

Get Libby! You can put in your library card number and "borrow" titles on your phone:)

[@nigelsimon8865]

Because of you I've been really intentional and careful with anything I buy. I'm a victim of this buy buy buy mentality it's almost like an addiction. So thank you for the reminder!

[@iH3artKitties]

YESS, IM SO PROUD OF YOU ❤❤

[@barbieblue3336]

You're not a victim. 😬🙄

[@iH3artKitties]

@@barbieblue3336 womp womp

[@melted900]

For the candles, I have candles for "seasons" that I switch out until they eventually go out. I have a couple winter ones, a couple of fall ones, and a couple that could be described as spring or summery smells. Rotating my candles every few months helps me to not buy more. I can also use my essential oils diffuser if I want a different scent than the ones I have out.

[@Floral39]

Just be careful with actual vintage dining ware, some of it could have lead or other chemicals. There's some info online about what to avoid and test kits are pretty cheap too

[@HeatherAnnDavis]

Came here to say this! Lead is a legitimate risk!

[@Hazzzy505]

not only lead, but some very old glassware has uranium, which is radioactive and could potentially be dangerous if injested

[@Shadowfate93]

​@Hazzzy505 my parents have some with uranium! They are strictly for display in a case

[@entirelybonkers8832]

​@Hazzzy505 most uranium glass is completely safe for occasional use

[@bella11110]

First thing I thought

[@dorothypeck1372]

The Library has SO MUCH to offer!! Audio books, ebooks, magazines, etc. You will save so much $$$ AND SPACE!!👑💕

[@layahlayah5951]

I like collecting books and having my own little library in my home. But I go to the dollar store. A lot of expensive, good books actually end up in the dollar store or goodwill sometimes. Especially for children. I’d like them to be familiar with books in the home so they aren’t turning to a device when we can’t go out for the day.

[@dreahdickinson9602]

Yeah audiobooks on CD. My laptop can't even load a CD anymore! Books 100% but honestly you're probably just better off on audible.

[@serenafisherart]

Also, when more people use the library it can justify getting more funding, and therefore become even better! Mine offers free kids events and streaming service subscriptions now.

[@peach2210]

Some even have maker spaces and so much more!

[@Vor567tez]

I don't think people buy books for only aesthetic purpose unlike buying curtains to match the season or make kitchen and bathroom look aesthetic. Bcs everyone knows if you don't read books then it's waste of space. 2-3 books maybe but a whole wall rarely done by anyone who isn't a book lover.

[@gojigoji99]

those DIY candles are 100% a fire hazard

[@marcya4428]

Then just reuse candle containers

[@Mauriciflow]

Came here to say this - remember that glass must be heat tempered to be used as a candle vessel. Otherwise, they can explode. Even glass DESIGNED to withstand the heat of a candle can sometimes explode. Another reason why you should never leave one unattended.

[@brokenprincessofhell4743]

​@@Mauriciflowactually sounds like a good reason to leave it unattended so I won't get hit by the exploding glass like it's a bomb

[@Mauriciflow]

@@brokenprincessofhell4743 it’s how I lost my arm :(

[@Mauriciflow]

@@brokenprincessofhell4743 jk but in all seriousness the explosion is small, the candle sort of just breaks apart like it fell and shattered.

[@RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea]

Support your local library, y’all! We are no longer just a place to borrow books, we have soooo much more. Get yourselves a library card!

[@skyscollective]

I LOVE the library I got a library card they also have tv shoes,movies and kids shows there omg so helpful truly 😊

[@pixie4184]

Those “reusable exfoliators” gather bacteria and mold and contributed heavily to my acne and folluculitis. Edit: thank you for all the helpful. I’m gonna answer a few questions I’m getting. 1. I am not dirty and I do clean my brushes. However, reusable ones gather bacteria and mold if you get them wet or just use them in general because bristles are not 100% antimicrobial. 2. I have skin conditions like hidradenitis suppurativa, folluculitis, keratosis pilaris, and acne. These are real problems that get treated mainly through chemical exfoliation. This means I do create waste having to rebuy chemical exfoliators. It’s either consume a product that works and I feel better about myself, or choose to go anti-consumption route and live with painful and embarrassing skin problems.

[@iH3artKitties]

have you found one that works?

[@magical571]

Yes, i was ppretty baffled but the ignorance in that suggestion. People can't just go ahead and replace their skincare products willy nilly unless they have the skin of an elephant. some need chemical exfoliatiors with actives like aha and bhas, others can really make use of a gentle body scrub lotion, and only use something like a stone/brush to exfoliate less sensitive skin like that of feet or knees, but never ever bring something like that brush she showed anywhere near your face unless, as i said, you really are one of those with no cares in the world when it comes to your skin (lucky). no dermatologist would aprove of this "advice", it's baffling, but at the same time, the shorts of this channel are just preaching to a choir.

[@pixie4184]

@@iH3artKitties not a reusable one, homemade sugar scrubs only do so much and I like to get ones with more chemical ingredients to fight acne and hyperpigmentation and stuff

[@pixie4184]

@@magical571 also a lot of the “reusable” ones are harsh on the skin and leave micro-tearing which makes you more susceptible to bacteria and irritation

[@vegan.3176]

​@@magical571 controversial take: does skincare actually do anything visible for anyone except you?

[@cailawilliams1434]

Also as someone trying to cut their screen time having physical books are handy to read before bed!

[@kiwibirdie7585]

I’m gonna keep decorating seasonally tho. That’s something I love to do it brings me happiness and reminds me of my grandma when she would decorate for every holiday.

[@emmabarr7783]

did she buy a cartful of stuff at target at the beginning of every season?

[@VerleanHurd]

​@@emmabarr7783 If she did, that's her business. Not yours. The audacity.

[@VerleanHurd]

Girl, do you, and don't listen to the broke Bettys.

[@jigyasaagarwal9462]

@@VerleanHurdits not about how much money you have to spend, but how much you need to spend. over consumption is one of the biggest problems today that contribute to environmental issues. being responsible has nothing to do with being broke.

[@VerleanHurd]

@@jigyasaagarwal9462 Who are you tell someone what they should or should not spend? You don't know what it takes to run someone elses home. The audacity. Btw, I said what I said.

[@lailaunknown3989]

Agree with these EXCEPT making a candle - a lot of glassware IS NOT made to withstand the temperature

[@AleKaulitz14]

I'm not an overconsumptive person, but if I want to treat myself and buy something I liked, then I'll go for it

[@angelacasein7059]

That’s fine, it’s just the gross use of fossil fuels that consumption contributes to, like every couple hundred dollars of random goods purchasing equates to a ton of co2 emissions

[@Chel10sea]

Exactly. The economy and the world around us exists bc people buy things. You can be a consumer without it being a bad thing or too much. The responsibility lies with the corporations and how they choose to produce/package their items. Not on me bc I splurge on candles or sheets when I feel like it (which isn’t every season).

[@rs-mt6kl]

​@@Chel10seakeep finding excuses for things you dont need bbs

[@rs-mt6kl]

Did this person in the video say anything about treating yourself occasionally, or are you just looking for excuses and feeling called out because you over consume?

[@mayseabowers]

That’s not what this video is about

[@legally_ellecee1309]

Let’s also hold corporations accountable for their part of the problem.

[@kristenb5177]

Americans taking money from the US economy and putting it into China economy is the problem . Keep the USD in the USA buy made in the USA

[@chinchillin6280]

Absolutely

[@vegan.3176]

Let's hold lions accountable for murder of gazelles!

[@ChechiDLR]

They are beholden to you, the customer, so if there is no market for certain items, they'll stop producing it. Supply and demand. It always come back to the customer and how they use their money.

[@Cottagefairycore]

Or hold ourselves accountable because there are many people who see these influences and don’t buy into them. We can’t blame a cooperation for their job when we’re willingly spending money on their products. Accountability goes both ways, because what you don’t see as useful can be useful to another. All that matters is that if you don’t need or want it don’t buy into it

[@ArtLeo_Art]

I would just be careful with reusing glass candle holders too frequently. Overtime, when glass is constantly heating up and cooling down, the glass subtly expands and contracts causing stress in the glass and may eventually shatter or even explode which can lead to a fire hazard if the candle is lit. You can maybe get away with one to two refills, but otherwise, I would reuse the glass candle holders for plant decoration or making a cute centerpiece with rocks and such.

[@OsirusHandle]

Dont leave candles unattended anyway.

[@druidriley3163]

I used to buy those big pillar candles that don't come in a container. I could set those on the floor or table and not worry about them being knocked over or any container heating up and breaking. On occasion I still buy pillar candles in tall thick glass apothecary jars, but once I finish them, I clean out the wax and use the glass jars as containers for notions and decorations.

[@babykrul]

Uhhh…. I’ve used the same glass candle holders for years…😅😅 only one exploded but I never leave my candles unattended

[@ArtLeo_Art]

@@babykrul not all candle holders are made the same and the risk of a candle holder shattering due to tempering is entirely up to chance. Of course, it should be a given to never leave candles unattended, but there is always a risk and the risk goes up when glass is reused for candles. I’ve even had a candle holder (a votive holder) that broke after two uses. For reusing candles like votive refills, I’ve actually switched to metal holders, specifically for me, a cast iron cauldron cuz I like the aesthetic.

[@entirelybonkers8832]

​@@OsirusHandlecandles using the wrong container can literally explode. Watching a candle won't stop that

[@l.wilson6492]

Yes, please utilise your local libraries! I volunteer at mine, and I know how valuable they are. Libraries aren’t just a place for books - as important as that alone is - they’re also a community hub. Many have educational classes, community events for adults, book clubs/meetings, arts & crafts for both kids and adults, interactive sessions for young children, toddler play times, printing/photocopying facilities, computers. In England we have the Summer Reading Challenge to get kids excited about reading. In my library we have a weekly meeting for everyone, but largely attended by older people who might live alone. And if we don’t use our libraries, they’ll close. So please utilise this brilliant resource however you need it.

[@brambleberryproductions1235]

I agree with most of this but like Life's hard out here. If the only way I can convince myself to shower instead of laying in bed all day with my mental health issues is the nice-smelling sugar scrub, I'm gonna keep buying it. If the only way I can manage after a long day is my Special Treat Candle, I'm gonna keep buying them. To anybody reading this, absolutely be mindful with what you buy. But please also remember that humans are beings that require enrichment, we need joy and pleasure and little things thay make us happy. Figure out what's most important to you, maybe set a limit, and try to reduce waste where you can. Always remember that no matter how little you waste, it means nothing compared to how absolute horrifying thr amount of waste large companies are producing ♡

[@magical571]

See, your comment is very down to earth and nuanced, way too good for the type of shorts this cchannel puts out. But i understand that, as frustrating as it is, it's just preaching to a choir. People not only need to survive, but live. And EVERYONE indulges in one way or another, do these people think that eating out or traveling anywhere isn't just as bad a staying home and getting a pillow? it's a prejudice thing, and as you said, if a body scrub is gonna get you through your week, go ahead. Unless the people lifting and pointing a finger have a negative carbon foiotprint, they are in no place to criticize, seriously. And the people with actual spennding issues would need counseling, not just someone telling them "have you considered not spending money"

[@brambleberryproductions1235]

@@magical571 I hadn't even considered shopping addictions you're 100% right /genuine So many people think willpower is like...a real thing you can *have*, and not just lucky dopamine regulation and good circumstances. Like sure, there's an element of self-discipline to it, to mostly "willpower" is just "I have the energy for this!" It falls apart so so quickly the instant you meet any disabled person. Crippled people, people with chronic pain or illness, people with mental disorders, people with mental deficits, people with addictions...and sometimes just people who straight-up never had to *learn* those skills in the first place. Can you imagine trying to learn how to be responsible as an adult? Not like, "Learn to pay taxes and do a job" but like, all of responsibility. Apologizing for your mistakes, not doing dangerous shit, making sure you're taking care of others (and yourself). I didn't learn how to shower properly until I was like...17, because my partner was the first person to say "Hey, you know bathing is like...really important, right? Like it isn't just to smell good, it's for your health. You'll feel better, too." *Nobody* fucking told me that. I can only imagine what kind of shit people are walking around just not knowing because it's "common sense".

[@DiamondKittyCat]

Have you tried making your own scrub?

[@LCO_0416]

This is my favorite comment.

[@brambleberryproductions1235]

@@DiamondKittyCat Have you tried understanding having depression badly enough you have to *bribe yourself to shower*

[@christinebrito6535]

I change my bedding with the holidays. Some of us just like that shit. It's not like it's not being used

[@lucymurphy8386]

I don’t go to the library ONLY BECAUSE my ADHD makes it near impossible to read a book quickly. I buy books so I don’t feel rushed to finish them. When I buy books I do try to get them from a local or small business bookstore. It makes me feel good! 😊

[@02aditisingh41]

last one spoke volumes and helped me not get brainwashed into thinking its normal

[@SaeSaeyoungyoung]

I live in Latinamerica. I can't go to the library. Because it's far and because it's a red zone. I'll stick to my paper books.

[@jennyknopps1291]

What's a red zone?

[@SaeSaeyoungyoung]

@@jennyknopps1291 a red zone, at least in my country is when an area is kind of... Dangerous. It can be because of crime or accidents.

[@jennyknopps1291]

@@SaeSaeyoungyoung where I live, we either call those ghettos or gang neighborhoods (A.K.A the "hood").

[@SaeSaeyoungyoung]

@@jennyknopps1291 here we just call them "zonas rojas" or "área peligrosa". We don't really call them hoods, "Favela" if somebody feels a little bit more discriminatory

[@djlivvy46]

​@@SaeSaeyoungyoung- do you mean that you live in the red zone, or the library is in the red zone?

[@korijohnson2788]

I don’t use the library because I take months sometimes to read books depending on my schedule and I collect my books as well. I buy them because I want to, not because of the promoting of overconsumption.

[@baludlad2173]

You can recheck them for months at a time, and if you love the book buy it used later.

[@priscillareviews4847]

Depop is actually a great place to buy used books! You can look up titles you want and if someone is selling, it'll pop up!

[@Luv2sing836]

If you're buying books and reading them, I don't think you're really the problem, that's not overconsumption. I think this is mostly aimed at book tok type influencers participating in the bookshelf wealth trend. They buy a ton of expensive new hardcovers and arrange them according to your "aesthetic." The books could literally be made of wood for all we know, and the goal isn't actually to read them. I guess she could have specified, but still.

[@courtneyoconnor575]

We have a mini library in our break room at work. No due dates, bring one, take one. Or just take one

[@am_Nein]

​@@baludlad2173 this is the same argument as adopt don't shop. You do realise that them not buying a new book doesn't mean that the book they didn't buy is going to be unmade and reconstructed into a tree again? I agree, buy second hand.. but buying new shouldn't be shamed either.

[@CrybabytoEarthling]

I actually love the tree hut, body scrubs. The container is so nice and once you finish the sugar scrub, you can reuse the container for something like bracelets or something like rings, and the sugar scrub is so nice they always smell good and exfoliate so well.

[@elisabetlagato1520]

I wish they offered refills like a lot of brands do, like I love love their scrubs, but that’s a lot of big tubs I have to find uses for.

[@CrybabytoEarthling]

Yes definitely hopefully they’ll make refills someday

[@ghasttearguy2616]

for a lot of their scents they're super easy to replicate if you want a reusable alternative!! :)

[@mediocrebankai]

You could refill the jars with a diy sugar scrub and customize it to whatever color or scent you like ❤

[@elisabetlagato1520]

@@ghasttearguy2616 I know, I’m just worried about shelf stability, I don’t wanna invite a buncha creepy critters to my shower to come eat me.

[@ahill4642]

I’m really enjoying your important message. Thank you. ❤️ 🌎

[@CC-rv4zc]

I'm all about some seasonal decor swaps. I think its fun. Its not like I throw it away and buy all new stuff every year. I just store it.

[@emmabarr7783]

so this video is not applicable to you lol

[@MC22Scott]

​@@emmabarr7783 I hope today gets better for you. I hope you stop trolling and just scroll on by next time you want to input needlessly too.

[@excentricAnthropologist]

I agree, I think having a small collection of decor options that you swap out through the year is different than buying a new set of decor EVERY season

[@ZinhleBhembe-yh9gr]

I agree you are using it at the end of the day

[@igraeb]

Libby is a great tool for people who love getting ebooks from libraries! Mine get loaded straight to my kindle!

[@peacelovewar98]

Hoopla as well. One library I lived by has Libby, one has hoopla.

[@7ShadowMaiden7]

Okay the last one I got beef with- I will always decorate for EVERY holiday, each and every one. My mom was never big on any seasonal fun so I’m going to do it. But I also don’t throw anything out and reuse a bunch of stuff I’ve gotten over the years.

[@missyyy-]

Yeah I’m not going to apologize for loving holidays and making them special for my family. This feels like she’s shaming us for doing well enough to afford stuff she can’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Epikerthanu]

@@missyyy-nobody is shaming you. You missed the message completely. Decorate for the holidays, just don’t buy new stuff every year when you’ve already got last years Christmas decor stuffed away in the attic

[@jennifernabrahamable]

her point was to not buy new seasonal decor every year when the stuff you bought in the past is perfectly fine

[@missyyy-]

Well, I use all of last year’s decor AND buy additional stuff each year to continue adding to my spread. And I don’t feel guilty for enjoying that particular excess.

[@emmabarr7783]

@@missyyy- no one is shaming you, overconsumption is killing the planet and its impacts will be felt by future generations. the whole point of her videos is to give suggestions so you can still have nice/special things without spending money on new stuff every season. no one is asking you to apologize, if it makes you feel uncomfortable then that is your issue.

[@darkraven5424]

Hobbies like reading shouldn't be included in this. That's a passion and a valid one at that. While libraries do deserve support, just signing up for a card gives them that. But you shouldn't be taking away from supporting the author. In general, a lot of things that get attacked for supporting over consumerism are honestly stupid. I see a lot of channels like this miss the mark.

[@lilmissmonsterrr]

I feel like candles are one of those things that are cheaper to buy than to make. The materials are pricey. And it doesn't make much. Correct me if I'm truly wrong tho.

[@apercy]

I totally agree.

[@entirelybonkers8832]

You're right. It's also surprisingly difficult to make candles correctly and is really a science you have to have the right ratios and wick size and vessel and if you use random things from the thrift store they can explode

[@NaturalAegyo]

It probably is cost effective long term, but so incredibly cost prohibitive in money and knowledge to start.

[@ashe767]

Yes, especially if you aren't experienced, or don't have all the supplies, or like a variety of colors and scents. That's what I was thinking too.

[@lavender3260]

Omg yes yes yes! I was looking for that comment! I was on a course about making candles an I promise it's no that easy. You need a scale, soy wax (or beeswax), special containers, so many essential oils, special knots, thermometer for food or smt like that. You need a lot of stuff, a ton of space it takes, and just a lot of work and failed attempts to get the candle turn out good

[@RaeBryant-s9b]

Thrifting is my all time favorite thing to do! I was taught at a young age that anything can be worth something to someone and I’d love to teach my future children that as well!

[@jillian7882]

SAME!!! 🙌

[@celiameaux7880]

Yessssss ma'am way to go!!!❤❤❤

[@leviadams1389]

I agree, my sister used to make fun of me for second hand shopping, she would say it's like shopping in your own closet, but I'd say no it's like shopping in someone else's closet 😊

[@TheBerylfly]

It only takes one bed bug hitching a ride to highly rethink your thoughts on thrifting

[@RaeBryant-s9b]

@@TheBerylfly that’s why you use your eyes and carefully inspect what you’re buying, also there’s employees in the back that sort out the donated items- it’s quite literally part of their jobs to throw away items they can’t sell lol

[@Ksjdudjehi]

Thank you for your content, it’s so important for those who get influenced to fast

[@DeeDee-lx1ef]

I purchase my books from charity shops. Love used books, and sometimes people who have read them before leave little notes in the front, its quite sweet. Then i re-donate them, or if the condition is too bad, i use the pages for crafting.

[@ricarellan]

So true. I worked as a seasonal cashier at Target during the holidays and (especially past 10pm when most bored, impulse shoppers come in) I realized some people buy a ton of stuff they don’t need. Some come to that realization when I ring them up and the total is steeper than what they expected and that they don’t actually need the items. From that retail experience I’ve learned to prioritize needs over wants and not to easily get sucked in to purchasing something cause it’s cool or trendy at the moment.

[@Cuteemogirl94]

I usually only do that during Halloween, so I get cheap new decoration for my home

[@HAIRHOLIC_1]

I struggle with need and wants because I’ll convince myself that I need it 😫😫😫

[@susandeath0813]

As someone with ADHD, decorating seasonally helps my space feel new and different. However, I'm trying to make smart choices, like keeping blankets the same, but getting pillow covers to just refresh the look but also need a lot less storage for such things.

[@katie7748]

That has nothing to do with your brain...that's simply how some people are. Just saying.

[@dreamweaver444]

this doesn’t have anything to do with adhd but your likes are still valid. i honestly just like seasonal candles because the smell makes the whole place feel different without changing much else.

[@djlivvy46]

​@@dreamweaver444- how do you know it doesn't have anything to do with ADHD?

[@vegan.3176]

As a side effect of my depression I compulsively throw all of my plastic garbage into the ocean 😢

[@vegan.3176]

​@@djlivvy46 Because it's insane

[@gabrielledavis7011]

I actually really needed this. The whole bedding shit has me in a chokehold

[@Kony-2012]

A body scrubbing brush doesn’t smell like a tropical island, so it’s just not the same to me lol

[@easystreetwithjen]

I love your message! I'm a 60 yr old engineer who is a 50 yr. thrift store queen who is now growing more food than ever! I love my outdoor grocery store! My last car was a $4500 Daewoo that I had for 15 years. I got a new car for the first time in my life in 2019. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 It will be the last car I own. 🤞

[@hunkneeti9244]

Oh my golly, you're literally my inspiration 😩. I love thrifting and I want to grow my own food and stuff.

[@easystreetwithjen]

Thanks

[@emmabenton-rx4lr]

congrats, youre living the life :)

[@Mtooma139]

Everyone needs a silly little treat now and then

[@ratqueen3809]

sure...are we dogs?

[@Mtooma139]

LOL nah just you

[@victoriahuzenko2758]

closing your happiness need by material things is a dead end. not solving the root problem

[@SS-ui7by]

Hyper/overconusmption is wayyy different from a little treat. A little treat is someone splurging on a really pretty, soothing smelling candle once.

[@KyokiPon]

You said it, little treat. I had this problem before, now I ask myself if I truly need it before buying, if I have one at home in good working condition then I do not need it. If I had this mentality from a young age I would have saved so much money.

[@kalaylay9086]

These videos are very needed in our materialistic society

[@johnharvey1168]

Let’s also remember to hold politicians, celebrities and huge cooperations accountable instead of just starving ourselves from basic things like body scrubs and candlesz

[@sussybaka119]

Honey if you consider body scrub and stupid candles as a basic necessity you have a problem

[@johnharvey1168]

@@sussybaka119did I say necessity? No. But I don’t think we should deprive ourselves from all human enjoyment just so celebrities and politicians can privately fly all over the world wearing non sustainable clothing they throw out after one wear.

[@johnharvey1168]

@@JosDLM maybe we should use our critical thinking skills and understand that when the wording “basic things” is being used for things that are obviously not a necessity, that maybe they’re not being referred to as such.

[@misspacino4081]

@@johnharvey1168omg I saw nothing wrong with your comment the fact two different people felt the need to ramble on about your comment is so odd to me. Like who does that? Lmao I could see if your comment was something out there wild or mean or funny something that stood out but no lol it was just a simple comment about your opinion. 😂 I get exactly what you mean tho! And to me candles and skincare are necessities and idc who comes for me about it! 😂😂❤

[@melindaroop1346]

​@@sussybaka119If it brings someone enjoyment, perhaps they see it as a necessity. Nothing wrong with that

[@wheezingandcoughing3848]

Having a shelf full of books you own is cool, everything else I agree with

[@animeotaku307]

I’ve been trying to cut down on the books I keep on my shelf by only buying the ones that I know I will reread.

[@heehoopeanut420]

Refilling old candle containers is actually so freaking useful. I got a little candle making kit for Christmas, and I use the pitcher from that set to mix up a new candle whenever my latest one burns out. Sometimes the jar is so pretty or matches my decor, so it's nice to get to use them again and again pretty easily.

[@MisstressMourtisha]

Yes this I love doing that Made some with my dad

[@zeaskyy]

If you know where I can get some good sense, let me know however, every time I’ve ever tried to make a candle. The smell is never strongest when you buy them I’m not gonna waste my money on a kit if I’m not gonna be able to smell the candle when I light it

[@rs-mt6kl]

THATS A GREAT IDEA, IM ADDING THAT TO MY NEXT XMAS LIST 😭

[@heehoopeanut420]

​@@rs-mt6klI will say I never would've picked it out, but it was like top 10 most fun and most useful. It was really fun and easy to do with friends too.

[@StellaMonroe-mg3ps]

I love this woman. we need more like her!

[@nut2964]

as a conservation major, i love this! keep it up :) so glad to see ppl giving realistic, accessible alternatives to over-sensationalized, needless spending

[@BuckPolitics]

I used to be an environmental science major, now I’m an economic major about to graduate. What type of jobs are you hoping to do after school?

[@WhitneyBrooke-gb8ru]

I'm here for the reply

[@WhitneyBrooke-gb8ru]

I'm here for the reply

[@WhitneyBrooke-gb8ru]

I'm here for the reply

[@WhitneyBrooke-gb8ru]

I'm here for the reply❤

[@nikkiberns1365]

The linens thing is an actual necessity most of the time, though. Dust mites gather and flourish in bedsheets, the dye from the pattern rubs off and fades, and the average bed should have around 2-3 different sets at a time so laundering is consistent (and once a week).

[@emmabarr7783]

those are valid reasons to buy new linens, but influencers have normalized unnecessarily buying new blankets, pillows, etc every few months

[@richakushwah3679]

That's normal We have 4 bed sheets for every bed We change bedsheets every week or twice a month But buying things because of aesthetism is stupid

[@Alixir1228]

You don't need this girl's validation. Buy whatever you want.

[@HellenaHanbasquet]

That's not what she was talking about. There are people who swap out ALL of this stuff monthly as if it's disposible because, be honest, there will be a new trend before the next year's season comes around. Yes, 3 or 4 sets on rotation until they wear out is reasonable....it's also not overconsumption.

[@nikkiberns1365]

@@HellenaHanbasquet I’m all for repurposing and upcycling to save on waste, but this creator has quite a few tips that aren’t as great as she wants them to be. The linens being one of them.

[@mary-maru]

Unfortunately the local thrift stores are often more expensive for me 🥲 I WANT to thrift, but man I can't afford it

[@MsBrendalina]

The thrift stores aren't much cheaper than normal stores these days. Why would I pay $10 for an old shirt when I can get it new for not much more?

[@mary-maru]

@MsBrendalina that's exactly what I mean-

[@coulorfully]

love all of these!

[@boo-la-la_666]

True about the bedsheets though. I genuinely have had my same set of cotton bedding for just over 15 years. It's still comfy and gets the job done.

[@dmsviola1]

I enjoy decorating my space for the season, even if I'm the only one seeing it. Makes me more invested in keeping things tidy and orderly where normally I'm more than a bit of a slob. Just my perspective.

[@khgshorts7369]

AMEN!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE SPEAKING THE TRUTH GIRLLLL

[@stellarsteph7]

Yes! The library plug is so important!! They're more than just a place to get books, go support your local library!

[@ryrybreaded]

Yeah but a lot of people like me like to write in their books, make notes, plus if you’re especially like me and messy then if you dog-ear all the pages the other people at the library won’t have to deal with it. It’s just nice to do what you want with it and read it whenever you want.

[@danabenson4125]

Yes, I love my local library. I reserve my books online and go in and pick them up.

[@stellarsteph7]

@@ryrybreaded that's great, then you can buy books to mark them up and use the library for things like music, movies, or a class (if they offer any)! Like I said, libraries have more to offer than just books :)

[@orangutansoda]

YES LIBRARY YES YES. I will always promote this. Buy books you know you love, Borrow books you’re not sure of. For example, I bought the entirety of a series i love because i knew it would be something i wanted to display. But i borrowed most of my books from the library because it’s cheaper and better! Supporting your local library is the best

[@stephaniethesoprano]

I don't read a lot, but I have so many cookbooks I want to try so using the library to look at them and decide if they're something I want to add to my collection is so valuable. not to mention the hundreds of services and things libraries provide for communities! so so important.

[@d3ndr0ph1l3]

Love the library, got a library card a few months ago have only check out one book as a lot of libraries in smaller communities/less accepting communities don’t have have many lgbtq+ books 🥲 I mostly order books from ThriftBooks though. 🙃

[@eavye95]

I actually use an exfoliating mit, but I ration out a tiny bit of body scrub to use with it, a little goes a long way and I still get the added moisture and softness from the scrub without having to go through it so quickly. If it's somewhere I don't need as much exfoliation, I'll use just a little body wash on the exfoliating mit instead of the scrub. My stuff has been lasting SO much longer since I started this

[@TheRealPaperflower]

Unfortunately I am allergic to all moisturizers and My skin is so dry that it sometimes breaks, scurbs and other moisturizing bath products like oils and butter are the only things that work for me

[@anime-girl9743]

I use baking soda as a scrub then put baby oil on after

[@jauntydamemusic]

I make body scrubs out of sugar, cheap oil, and the cheap perfume I wear. Voila, scent-layering!

[@plaster.art.ho3]

A breath of fresh air!!!

[@nillabunn]

lets not shame people for buying books. 🙄🙄🙄

[@princesspuppy571.2]

Buying Manga is one of my joys in life and Library, used book store or free library can't replace it and i get some Manga on my Kindle but even multiple of the series i have on it are ones i want the physical books Lol

[@catharina532]

don't feel guilty about it! buying books is good for the market AND good for the libraries to stay functioning. I'm saying this as a librarian 🫶💜

[@bestgirlonyoutube]

ok? congrats? what do you want us to say

[@pinkybro5671]

There is no issue with that considering they are clearly important to you. It’s not like you buy them and throw them out, it’s an important collection of yours.

[@djlivvy46]

​@@bestgirlonyoutube- I would have liked you to say less or even nothing, but here we are...

[@vegan.3176]

​@@djlivvy46 Jesus. cringe

[@Stand.By.Morgan4Ever]

You won’t stop me from buying books,candles or scrubs cause I love them all

[@emeraldbutterfly4680]

Thank you. I almost bought new bedding today and was thinking about it on the way home and now I feel good about myself again.

[@lifeisanenigma213]

I usually get those sugar scrubs because the real exfoliation is chemical. It gently mosterizes and clears my pours. without, I usually get terrible in grown hairs. 😅

[@roslenev]

I use sugar scrubs too now. I stopped using loofahs since they harbor bacteria.

[@d3ndr0ph1l3]

⁠@@roslenev I believe loofahs can go in the washing machine as long as it’s not on high heat but can’t go in the dryer.

[@Sarafara7]

Libraries are SO underrated. Do you know you get free subscriptions to so many websites, apps, programs, courses, etc through your library card? It’s insane what’s available to us for free yet many people don’t know.

[@gracie1901]

That last point you made was what I needed to hear!! For years I’ve felt like I needed to be someone who changes their bedding/throw pillows/ towels/ etc for every season and holiday. I realized as I got older that many, many people DONT! And that’s ok!

[@serinadelmar6012]

Wow this is the first time I’ve even heard of that preposterous activity. Definitely stop, especially considering that so many fabrics are literally made out of fossil fuels.

[@AmazingRebel23]

Dawg in the summer my only blanket is a linen piece of fabric I paid a dollar for and never felt like sewing the edges of. It has pieces taken out of it from other projects and stains from pressing eyeshadow shades together.

[@SerwaasWorld]

Do what you like and can afford. What makes you happy. Who cares what others are doing. I change my home wvery season and holiday. My home looks amazing and feels great. It makes me happy . Do what you want! 😊

[@jacquesbrat2834]

Exactly! Do what brings you joy. If it doesn’t bring you joy, don’t do it. I love changing my bedding and decor seasonally. It feels so nice to me. Besides bedding and seasonal decor isn’t wasteful. They will be used for years to come. My bedding will actually last longer because it’s rotating.

[@bettyparker3317]

As I got older-and moved out on my own-I realized I had more important things to spend my money, and use my space, for, than decor for every holiday/season. Some, for sure, but not like mom had or did.

[@EdithBurchett]

Love this series!

[@waitwhat6056]

I used to buy books, only to read them in less than 2 days. Started relying on the Library and saved so much money.

[@insatiableivy]

If you buy them at target, they have a return by date on the receipt. Even if they are used you can return them.

[@cynthiahembree3957]

@@insatiableivyyeah Barnes and Noble does the same thing. I just return the books I didn’t like

[@djlivvy46]

​@@insatiableivy- what do they do with the returned books?

[@joycarey]

Used books, reusing your pillows by washing them, and putting new covers on them can make a difference, and having interchangeable seasonal bedding is great to have, saving you money in the future! Too many people buy what is trendy and buy things that they get tired of too quickly. As you get older, you will know yourself better and figure out what you like in your home, even with your clothing. Classics never go out of style and are more treasured in all areas of your life! Invest in well-made items that will last for many years!!! You will save a lot of money if you go that route!❤😊

[@amabrothon9911]

Wtf?? Changing bed sheets is a new concept to some people??? What the he11 do you mean?

[@triggeredcat120]

Facts. I only replace things when I’ve had them long enough and they are deteriorating. I chose to keep my iPhone 11 because it still works fine, it gets updates, and I got the battery replaced. Running good as new when I first got it.

[@Jessica-ch1yi]

I’m still using my iPhone se from like 2017 too :) I replaced the battery once and might need to again but don’t plan on switching till I absolutely need to (but mostly only because I like how small it is, it actually fits in my pocket)

[@blueseptember2174]

I just replaced my flip phone two years ago with this free kinda crappy smart phone 😅

[@stephaniethesoprano]

I recently upgraded to an iphone 14 from an iphone 7 on black friday, because I got an absolute killer deal. the 7 was breaking down and it was also already old af when i bought it... it stresses me out how people will get every iphone as they come out

[@triggeredcat120]

@@stephaniethesoprano exactly. If it’s still good why toss it? A lot of older phones, though not as quick, can still keep up with the newer ones.

[@Mrs.Envy723]

I love doing diy things!! Making my own body scrub is one of em

[@skeinofadifferentcolor2090]

You can also make your own body scrub at home for pretty much less than $2 a batch and put it in a sealing glass jar. 1 C granulated sugar 2 Tbs preferred body wash 1 Tbs each jojoba and almond oil 16 drops of your favorite essential oil

[@bleeka325]

This lacks the preservatives to keep it safe

[@nostalgiaandsound61]

It’s why I love thrifting, especially from small vendors. I get lots of blankets, makes my home comfier, AND it feeds a family. My blanket pile is constantly growing. Win-win:)

[@curlygirl98]

I agree on everything but not on the book thing 😂 for me reading is an hobby and I love my shelf being filled up to the brim even if I pay full price on all of the books.

[@SamanthaSauceda-kk7pu]

I love this! Yes!!

[@BlankComicsMain]

What I do is I check out library books, and then if I really like that book, I buy the physical copy. I move a lot so the libraries often don’t have the same books which is why I do this.

[@Yelwel]

To anyone who might see it, please, PLEASE be cautious when thrifting older plates or glassware, especially China, as they are known for having minute traces of radioactive materials in them due to it being a popular trend to add things like Uranium into products. This is also true of older jewelry, so just be aware of that from a safety perspective

[@katie7748]

I couldn't help but hear Plankton singing his verse of the F.U.N. song when you said "uranium" LOL

[@blueseptember2174]

Especially pink and green glass.