Oversexualizing Women’s Bodies

[@swvp-ri3ux]

There's literally no way to hide her curves. What is she supposed to do, wear baggy clothes every day? Wear clothes twice her size to cover her body? If that was the case people would complain she's dressed sloppily. This is a case of oversexualizing a womans body. She's in a dress that ends right above her knees. Everything is covered. There's no problem here. Next.

[@JW-qz4jl]

It’s tight, body con dresses are meant to be sexy, what is the definition of sexy?, to attract, arouse, excite, there is a time and a place, just because you are fully covered doesn’t means it’s appropriate, but that’s my opinion, to each his own

[@swvp-ri3ux]

@@JW-qz4jl are you implying she wore a body-con dress to her job as a school teacher to arouse children?

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed. Thank you. There would be complaints that she is dressing sloopily

[@prahasiniselvakumar7110]

@@user-wn6nm4bn2g exactly. i agree. no matter what i wear even baggy bin bag, my curves still be showing

[@bbri75]

Excatly! I can relate. I have to wear baggy clothes but then look tomboyish. If she were to wear fitted light color pants like beige. Her curvy body is going to still stand out and show her behind when she writes on that board like Tamera said. There’s no way to hide it! Would def not get talked about if she would’ve been a stick and ugly face.

[@ceirrathompson4787]

Ik this is old but I agree!! Its bc of her body type..if she was rail thin NO ONE would care!!

[@jacobTheeCreole]

Exactly

[@JeremiahWalton]

NOT A RAIL 🤣

[@arieljackson1093]

I wonder what happen to her afterwards I’m sure her school didn’t care what she was wearing until she went viral did they approach her about what she’s wearing did she change her work attire did she decide to quit being a teacher or did she get fired because of this I could imagine what people be saying to her when they see her now

[@summerlyric506]

Right. It's always that way.

[@angeliquerenteria7908]

I had a friend who was in grad school and teaching one semester. After class some older guy approached her telling her the way to erase the chalk board because she was shaking her butt too much. She was in pants and a shirt. I think, if people are going to look, they’re going to look no matter what. Teach students and adults to be respectful and pay attention. Her dress wasn’t super short and her shoulders were covered. I don’t see the big deal in what she was wearing

[@magpiecake1067]

She looked hot AF honestly. I wish I had a teacher like that back in school. 😂😂😂

[@magpiecake1067]

@London You are right! We should let women dress however they want! I would love to see neked women walking on the street!😅😝

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed. Thank you!!

[@heatherkemp7903]

Adriane looks phenomenal

[@EnchantedReader89]

Right! She killed this look 👏🏼👏🏼

[@WannaBesProductions]

She always does

[@MajesticMyronn]

Honestly every damn year up to her being a legal adult... Malia & even Sasha has been scrutinized over the SMALLEST things just because their father was the president..we need to remember they are YOUNG GIRLS who although they are under a small lense, they are good girls and are simply trying to live as normal as a life as they could and can even though their father is in the world of politics! It infuriates me when the first children are expected to live up to some standard when one they didn’t ask to be here nor did they ask to be on lockdown or be judged for every little thing! LET THEM BE!

[@Diamond92189]

💯👏

[@thedrasc1465]

You missed a key word. It's because their father was a *Black* President. Remember the "controversy" over the tan suit and Michelle Obama's arms being on show? That family is so non-problematic they have to pick them apart to find problems, and this is the best they come up with 🤣 Tell me again why we never heard of Tiffany fooling around? Because the world was too busy with the piles of embarrassment her father was up to on a daily basis.

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed

[@annatar6453]

No teenage boy is going crazy over that dress. He’s seen far worse on the internet

[@jacobTheeCreole]

Exactly

[@AppleBottomJ]

If I know teenage boys, they will do exactly that. Even though they might not get “crazy” they still know this women has curves and is wearing a body con dress.

[@therebex23]

I think there are males above the age of 25 that might go crazy over that body in that dress, and teenage boys who have parents who monitor their internet browsing that are just as innocent as teenage boys have always been seeing that and feeling excited (girls too). I don't think there is anything wrong with the dress in terms of usual dress code for schools - it hits the knee, no cleavage, sleeves...the strappy high-heels are weird for a teacher to wear but whatever. It's up to the school to make a dress code for their teachers. It looks like she teaches elementary school so I don't know why teenage boys are being pulled into it (I'm not from the US so I don't know what grade you guys stop putting the ABCs up on the wall haha).

[@marieworthenbrown1126]

We also have to consider the home life of the teen. It may not be her body it may be a misunderstanding that has him trying to be the center of attention in class.

[@lifeisgolden41]

Exactly tamera is so sensitive about every little thing and likely would be one of those moms who’d complain especially if Adam noticed her

[@ClaireHaire]

Let's be real here, the dress code was made to punish anyone who isn't 5'5 and under/ skinny. If you have any resemblance of a curve or long legs all of sudden there are rules. I got dress coded back to back b/c I'm 5'10" and all leg so I would wear a knee length skirt & they would suspend me. Yet, I've seen short girls wear mini skirts & shorts and they're allowed to go about their business.

[@JobJN323]

I support you.

[@jellyacc]

good for tam for being completely honest and not automatically saying what everyone thinks or wants her to say.

[@tarawrr20]

She looks great in that dress! But that is not appropriate for a school teacher to wear to school/work.

[@succorosolano1582]

But why isn’t it appropriate? As much as I hate to say this, it’s just facts but I’m pretty sure the kids have seen worse on the internet

[@pare5108]

Its not that her outfit is too revealing, but the look was not professional ,looked more like a date outfit, maybe if she had thrown a blazzer over it it would not have caused any controversy

[@Aishya476]

That's what I was thinking.

[@Aishya476]

@London they don't do it to teach a class do they... Time and place for everything?

[@pare5108]

@London totally missing the point

[@Aishya476]

@London who says no one cares? I haven't had any of my teachers or my kids teachers dress inappropriately whether male or female dress inappropriately before but if there was a stereotype, it wouldn't make one right.

[@chinweadele2662]

@@Aishya476 your piont is that because of her curves she shouldn't dress like that.

[@cookiecookielookies]

I agree with Tamera. I do think curvy girls get criticized more for what they wear normally, but this is a school. Body con dresses are just not professional. She did cover her skin, but it is skin tight as body con dresses normally are. You normally wear them at clubs or bars. A skinny girl with less curves would also be criticized for wearing that.

[@mckenzie.8653]

Just wondering why we don't hear the same heat for male teachers who wear skinny/slim jeans or tightly tailored shirts. Oh, right. Sexism.

[@hayleebug09]

Y’all are wild. I’m an education major and would never think of wearing a body con tight styled dress. It’s not appropriate. Not because of her body, but because like Tamera said there is a time and place. The teacher is absolutely stunning and obviously can’t do anything about how her body looks, but she doesn’t have to wear an outfit that is like a second skin in front of a class of children.

[@robynbeckles]

Save yourself the headrache! Bodycon dresses don't belong in school. When I wore mine to work (which is at a school) I had a sweater, cardigan or jacket over it and still got the eye from some teachers.

[@jacobTheeCreole]

They don’t wanna see your busted shape

[@nonhlezikhali782]

I really love this show all the way from South Africa❤️

[@ntombiemanzini7534]

I love it too

[@celestinembuyu848]

Me too 🤗from South Africa

[@sneezesingay5132]

Me too!

[@noxolomalgas8074]

Me too fellow South African😊

[@mathapelo4781]

Sbaningi

[@glittery566]

Adrienne looks so amazing, her hair and make up is perfect! my favorite look of her

[@FranzyMa]

Love the new thumbnails 🥰😍

[@simphiwehlatshwayo5007]

Yeah although it's for old videos

[@14loveuall]

She's beautiful, her curves are awesome! but definitely, you can not wear like that being a teacher. Like Tamera said, there are moments, and thats not the moment to be looking like that.

[@SamanthaN92]

Jeannie looking like she stepped out of 1942! 🤣❤️ She rocks the vintage hairstyle well 👍

[@raisinthestakes]

So proud of the Real for finally learning how to label their videos. Gone are the days of clicking on a chat from 2017 on accident

[@marisolforonda6811]

To all those saying her curves were going to show no matter what she wore: You're right but there is a difference between tight and fitted. One shows a lot more detail than the other. What she is wearing is tii-ight.

[@sstrugglinginthe]

Thank you! I’m a teacher it isn’t even reasonable for her to wear for elementary. You are moving walking , bending, reaching up , dancing sometimes and you can’t do it with super tight clothes

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

@@sstrugglinginthe Right. It’s the fact she’s an elementary school teacher, but dresses like this that’s concerning for me. People excusing her are missing the point. This isn’t even appropriate attire for high school or college.

[@breannaanglin2645]

I’d be honoured to try some of Loni’s bad cooking 🙌🏽😍

[@JustRay1988]

We’ve been quarantined so long, it feels weird watching them around the table. Feels more organic with the split screens at home lol

[@ddd7613]

I'd say it is too sexy for the school setting...If students has dress code, teachers should have one as well.

[@medicokannadiga5440]

okay tbh it doesn't matter even if we wear bikini to work , school , college or anywhere else . people around us should keep their eyes , tongue and everything else in control . don't snatch a woman's freedom and make her look like it's her fault . its 2020 stop judging , sexualising people already

[@Liza-gd7jf]

exactly

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

No, ma’am. There is a time and place for everything. What you said is ridiculous.

[@veronicalopez6187]

😭😭😭 I miss tam tam. Garcelle is an amazing addition to the show but still missing tamera 😭

[@leahgudeta655]

Is she coming back?

[@veronicalopez6187]

@@leahgudeta655 no. 😭she's working on other projects

[@NgataNare]

I kinda miss Tamara. I also enjoy watching Garcel, I think we can have five women on the show! Both Tamara and Garcel blend so well with the other three ladies.

[@bleeka325]

Tamera was ready to go though. So I don’t think it would have worked even though all 5 of them would be nice on a panel together

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed

[@nadia_collins98]

DWTS.. haha nice timing y'all... also i know this is an old video... but damn about the teacher, I agree 100% with Adrienne.. her dress is not plunging/short/etc...

[@ItsSelu]

lets be real real if the lady was skinny stick they wouldn't say anything nor would you notice anything wrong with what she wore , its def because of her body time!

[@yadira2j]

I agree with tamera...I don't think her curves were the problem. She was wearing a bodycon dress, which in my OPINION doesn't belong in an elementary school. I'm sure she wouldn't be getting so much hate if she had worn an a-line dress for example.

[@MajesticMyronn]

I’m sorry I’ve had some women teachers if anything it is not a teacher’s fault if a student looks at them in a different light whether it’s based on what they wear or don’t wear... there are some students who just have crushes on their teachers and truly can’t focus and not because of their body but just because of their good looks/beauty and thats innocent... but it happens! Now I think instead of telling people how to dress , we should talk to the children on what’s not appropriate when it comes to the eye and actions of one that likes what they see...

[@Tan87ful]

I agreed. 💯💯💯👏🏼👏🏼

[@jenniferdelgado2758]

Adrienne looks amazing! 🥰

[@ntombiemanzini7534]

I really love you guys all the way from Zimbabwe

[@lonelystarr444]

she can wear a dress but why it gotta be a skin tight one ? sorry i don’t find the dress appropriate

[@mckenzie.8653]

the only people pressed and making big deal about what's she's wearing are ADULTS and not children. 🙄 10 year olds are NOT high schoolers. They care about iPhones and tik tok. The parents and adults are the ones sexualizing this. PER USUAL.

[@animashrestha1658]

I really love all you guys 😍😍

[@marieworthenbrown1126]

I must say that this is something I have experienced so much. I believe that pictures are innocent as long as they are nonactivity -. Meaning that if you are just in a pose alone then that is innocent. I work out so every so often I will take a picture of me in my bra and panties. I will post the pictures on my Facebook page for comments on whether or not my workout is being effective. I believe that no matter what you wear or what type of picture it is there are some people who are going to attack you based on jealousy, and vindictive or deceitful motives in order to bring down someone especially the person in the photo self-esteem. I personally have had the same problem posing in a picture with a dress, blouses and etc... I know that I have a nice body and when you have a nice body then people should be able to recognize it without jealousy or being vindictive. There is nothing wrong with going a compliment and then leaving it alone. Once it is left alone then others will leave it alone.

[@Vidaesuna]

We should be teaching our kids to respect everyone, regardless how they are dressed. shes dressed fine in my opinion.

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

She is not dressed appropriately for school. This isn’t about personal opinion. It’s about what’s appropriate attire for the situation.

[@-.a9942]

There’s nothing wrong with the dress it just that someone people don’t know etiquette. That dress is for a party y’all. There are other type of outfits that she would look amazing but more work-style.

[@midnightmave]

I was told growing up that I look exactly like Malia. I got to go on a trip to New Orleans and celebrated my 21st birthday on Bourbon Street. As we were walking down the street, people asked if I was Malia. I thought about saying yes, but then I remembered how people gave her crap for being at parties and I didn't want to be responsible for any more hate coming her way.

[@BATOOLESK]

every place we go to have some type of a dress code ( hospitals-funerals-schools-corporate companies....etc) her outfit is beautiful but not suitable for school thats what i think

[@MajesticMyronn]

In my opinion it was fine ! However i can see why they parents would think that it is inappropriate because we’ve had this conversation many times on this show.... , certain jobs live up to a certain stature & you have to represent what the school is all about ! There is a time and place for everything ! In my honest opinion there was nothing wrong with what she wearing , it was really close to the knees ! Like it was a very classy look but I still see the parents side

[@magpiecake1067]

Do you think we oversexsulize women today?

[@MajesticMyronn]

Yo... i didn’t know Ryan was on DWTS in 2016... but who allowed those men in ?! I really question certain things when I see incidents like this happen... because something VERY serious and dangerous could’ve happened in that ballroom... like health & safety concerns should be number one priority before touching that dance floor... if I see someone with a “ Anti Lochte” shirt on I’m turning them away cuz that gives me an idea that something is doomed to happen especially knowing he as on the show at the time... that was ridiculous! And even if you disagree with someone... it is not that deep to bum rush them on stage!

[@shadezxz]

*what’s up wit the thumbnails? y’all ain’t tryna get copyrighted by tamera?* 💀

[@CocoFrankie]

Has she left the show

[@abidanielson2747]

@@CocoFrankie ye

[@bubyvargas2502]

I don’t see anything wrong with it and we are supposed to teach out kids to respect their elders and peers because no matter what she has on she isn’t showing skin you can just show her curves, y’all let kids watch music videos with Rihanna Beyoncé ect and they be wearing no clothes lol

[@AmaHo225]

We all just gonna pretend we don’t watch porn when we were teens or see people in undergarments on beaches?

[@vlo4829]

It's apples and oranges. Bikinis are acceptable attire on a beach. If a teacher showed up in a bikini, parents would be rightfully upset, just like if a male teacher showed up in a speedo. They could be amazing teachers. That is unrelated to the clothing issue.

[@vlo4829]

@London A male teacher CANNOT teach without a shirt in the United States. Parents and students would definitely complain. That would be very weird...

[@AmaHo225]

@@vlo4829 I get that but I’m commenting on how people act like so pure but we all seen things. I get that but her outfit, a dress, has nothing to do with being unprofessional but people comment on how inappropriate it is.

[@trixiebeldon579]

LOVE YOU LADIES healing hope & happiness to you all 💟

[@noelle2654]

I don't think what she did was wrong but I don't think we should view underage drinking as a "normal teenage thing"

[@victoriajohn7079]

I agree with Adrienne since when do students care about what the teacher wear.

[@The-r2y]

Nothing is wrong with her dress!!

[@Liza-gd7jf]

Tamera is being unrealistic here, like Adrienne stated this is part of the reason grown man can't keep a certain level of professionalism when they interact with attractive women they must be taught young to control themselves. The problem would be if that women would be dressed in something truly inappropriate but in this case having a healthy body shouldn't be villainized and seen as something that must be hidden.

[@RiahMunnblock]

I miss you tam tam 💯👌

[@htennek1]

Jeannie "If you ever intend to lay hands on someone or get physical with somebody. It is never Right" So I guess I should just let my family get attacked and hurt and stand there saying "Jeannie Mai said not to ever get physical with someone because it is not right?" I just have no idea what goes through her head, not only is some of it completely bonkers, but she is the single most hypocritical person I have ever known.

[@MajesticMyronn]

She’s referring to incidents like this... they were strangers just running on Ryan... she’s saying as a person just INTENDING to cause harm... meaning with ( on In this case without an actual purpose) that’s dangerous... she’s not referring to people defending themselves... it’s not the same

[@htennek1]

@@MajesticMyronn Did you not read the quote?

[@MajesticMyronn]

@@htennek1 ur using a situation that is not the same as the one they are talking about.... if someone attack’s you obviously you’re going to defend yourself... did u listen to what she was saying or were looking for a reason to say u don’t agree...

[@htennek1]

@@MajesticMyronn Nobody in that situation was physically assaulted. Stop trying to put words into her mouth. I literally quoted what she said in context. Why you are failing to grasp that is beyond me.

[@MajesticMyronn]

@@htennek1 we don’t know what their intentions were but if ur intention is to harm somebody it’s not ok... that’s the point !!! You’re comparing a scenario to a statement made by a person said...

[@CapeverdeanBarbie1990]

Ugh adrienne u can say your opinion without being rude and obnoxious, bye. I agree with Tamera on this segment.

[@anon2218]

It’s not our fault curves are in the female dna. That’s just how we’re made.

[@mykealbellingham3437]

Great

[@itsthatmuffin_4114]

But even though she is 18 year old people who’s drinking doesn’t mean that teens should be normalized for drinking

[@cherryllhill477]

That booty dress is a bit much for a teacher. In Pre School we can not wear such things because it simply does not work with our daily schedule of activities.

[@JenniCampestrini]

DANG Loni! I'd be down to try your 'bad cooking' any day!😋😋😋

[@kellycraddock269]

Hey I'm a big fan

[@carolpineda5527]

I miss tam tam 😪💔

[@sonyvalencia]

I feel like she's getting shamed more because she has curves. I don't think it would be a problem if she was shaped differently. Her dress wasn't a neon color or too see through.( I agree, with Adrienne)

[@phucumolmansplahhh1576]

Bruh this is the 2nd time I see this video.

[@sportr_]

“LOOOOOO-NIIIII”

[@shareechildcare]

👑

[@truthserum106]

Fan of d real... But never got d donut on jeanni's head!

[@rabiamata9339]

Jeannie and her weird hairstyles lol

[@sandrokozlovski9965]

i miss tamera on the show

[@zebutyhaque1189]

izing

[@vivfilias8931]

Says the pastor's wife....

[@weg9084]

Tamera needs her own show... she’s the ONLY likable one out of all of you phonies

[@kirst1903]

No offense but I’m so glad Tamera is no longer on the show, I respect her opinion but almost never agree with her high and mighty approach to situations! 🙈

[@helliw6748]

I wan’t lonis foooooodddd

[@jeremybrown459]

cantioinfinty

[@J-Lynnn]

Oh I’m gonna miss this voice of Tamera saying: Are you girls ready for some Girlchat? Ahwww❤️❤️❤️❤️