What's The Problem With Objectifying Women?

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Jeff & Alyssa

Jeff & Alyssa

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@jonnahhartford1460
@jonnahhartford1460 6 жыл бұрын
This is one reason so many women are jealous, some of us feel like objects and if we’re not perfect objects we just get thrown away
@McMahonHater
@McMahonHater 2 жыл бұрын
Really, well, welcome to men's world.
@mariahlavacova6466
@mariahlavacova6466 2 жыл бұрын
@@McMahonHater bro shut up fr
@unconcernedbeast9190
@unconcernedbeast9190 2 жыл бұрын
valuing someone based on his looks in normal .modeling agents objectify men and women . if you want more value then just your looks SHUT THE F** AND WORK ON YOURSELF
@wolfstyle8945
@wolfstyle8945 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of the many reasons men are jealous, some of us feel like Wallets and if we’re not rich enough we just get thrown away
@McMahonHater
@McMahonHater 2 жыл бұрын
@@wolfstyle8945 Amen
@Benjamin-mf6me
@Benjamin-mf6me 8 жыл бұрын
I hate how lust saturated our world is right now. It's difficult as a young Christian guy. Thanks for going deeper with this issue Jeff!
@KianoUyMOOP
@KianoUyMOOP 8 жыл бұрын
+Benjamin Price I have the same problem, and suggestive commercials are not helping.
@epicstacker413
@epicstacker413 8 жыл бұрын
I can relate man.
@TheMrMKultra
@TheMrMKultra 8 жыл бұрын
yes! my thoughts, too!
@TheMrMKultra
@TheMrMKultra 8 жыл бұрын
Kyle Chermak yes, that's absolutely right. but the society makes it more difficult to get away from that. because such things get thrown on you. i am glad that god looks into our heart and sees that we really just want him to be in it!
@Yararar
@Yararar 8 жыл бұрын
Ugh sex is just advertised everywhere! I hate it! I want to have a pure heart! It's really difficult for women too 😭
@faithchristina3688
@faithchristina3688 8 жыл бұрын
I love your view of women. Sadly, with the way our culture is, some women truly believe they are just objects to be used and forget how human they are. I personally struggle with this sometimes. I'm thankful that God reminds me that I'm His daughter and He made me beautiful every time I see a guy starring at my body like an object.
@sicksadworld1376
@sicksadworld1376 5 жыл бұрын
it's not usually women who think of themselves as sexual objects, it's almost every man who sees them that way.
@jannieschluter9670
@jannieschluter9670 5 жыл бұрын
It was the same God who created men to be stimulated physically at first. Your physical look is what attracts a man but it takes your personality to keep that man with you...
@jesuslovesgunviolence2718
@jesuslovesgunviolence2718 5 жыл бұрын
Have you read the Bible?? Lol.
@trahapace150
@trahapace150 4 жыл бұрын
@@sicksadworld1376 please provide proof that nearly every man alive commits objectification....or are you just pulling that sexist comment out of your ass
@thatgirl0642
@thatgirl0642 4 жыл бұрын
Jannie Schlüter same thing for girls
@GroudFrank
@GroudFrank 8 жыл бұрын
This is eye opening and timely. When we think objectification of women we think "as long as I don't use her for sex I'm good." but it goes so much more deeper than that. This week's spiritual project is to constantly remind myself and see everyone as creatures who bear the image of God. Everyone including myself.
@NoName-yt7lv
@NoName-yt7lv 8 жыл бұрын
+Groud Frank I like that you have spiritual projects! That's cool :)
@GroudFrank
@GroudFrank 8 жыл бұрын
+NoName lol, thanks. Every week I give myself something to do to advance my spiritual life. Last week it was reminding myself of God's presence in and around me as much as possible. The week before that it was being as open and brutally honest with God as possible.
@NoName-yt7lv
@NoName-yt7lv 8 жыл бұрын
I think I might work that into my life at some point. That must really help you round yourself. Thanks for sharing :)
@xnamansanasya
@xnamansanasya 8 жыл бұрын
"Women's bodies are not an inherent temptation" snaps snaps snaps 👌🏾
@francispena2818
@francispena2818 8 жыл бұрын
oh looks its an sjw...
@katekane6697
@katekane6697 7 жыл бұрын
Marah Madness So aren’t men's.
@myusernamesmellsodeosyours4204
@myusernamesmellsodeosyours4204 5 жыл бұрын
Every fucking person think only femifeminists hate getting objectified...think again 🙄
@Isaac-ji7or
@Isaac-ji7or 5 жыл бұрын
Yes they are. You know nothing.
@annachrisslo173
@annachrisslo173 5 жыл бұрын
@@Isaac-ji7or ....WHAT ????
@yunyunpilled
@yunyunpilled 8 жыл бұрын
this was needed on the internet
@ItsAvonti
@ItsAvonti 5 жыл бұрын
funny we definitely need more impossibly untrue cult teachings.
@kriskross4308
@kriskross4308 8 жыл бұрын
He didn't come to use us, he came to love us. Great! Thanks so much!
@Serenoj69
@Serenoj69 8 жыл бұрын
+Kris Kross Yeah...He is just about is loving as that abusing father that lives around the corner. He beats them up, if you do not adore him he gives you hell, he is worse than than the worst dictator ever since he wants to make people suffer for an eternity, And like that abusing dad...he can be so kind! And some think morality comes from the bible or kuran. Haha. We created god, allah when we were retarded when it comes to empathy and it shows. The most peaceful societies on Earth are in Europe and mostly northern Europe where 70-85% of the people are non religious,...
@liamtaylor1490
@liamtaylor1490 8 жыл бұрын
Sounds like there is a lot of pain coming from you. I wish you only the best for the future :)
@benjamingeorge874
@benjamingeorge874 7 жыл бұрын
Serenoj69 Dude, that's not the truth. Thing is God is the good dad who takes care of you all the time. Satan is the thug that hurts you and tries to give you hell. He knows he can't be God so he'll try and beat you. All the crap in life is not from God, it's from Satan. There are a lot of Christians who'll talk about God without mentioning Satan, which is why it sometimes sounds like sugar-coated BS. God isn't your enemy, Satan is. As for the abusive father, it's a person who has allowed Satan to control them, temporarily or permanently. I can't imagine the pain someone feels being abused like that. Must be horrible. I hope you find peace and most of all, find the Truth.
@rayandaas1695
@rayandaas1695 4 жыл бұрын
Serenoj69, I see how peaceful China and North Korea are, they are non religious, but they have the record of kills, I think it was like 100 million or something like that, you should stop disrespecting other religions and saying that “we” created God or Allah, if you don’t believe then mind your own business, but deep down you know it’s the truth, but you were from those who took their desire as their lord.
@CaseyWindom
@CaseyWindom 7 жыл бұрын
This is amazing, I pray that this message reaches even further to more and more people and that it would speak life into them. Your messages give me so much hope and joy, you are truly a light in this generation. Thank you!!
@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee 8 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful.
@rijakunwar7655
@rijakunwar7655 4 жыл бұрын
Breeny ur talks r awesome!
@175cool
@175cool 8 жыл бұрын
Goes perfectly with 6:22 Matthew 6:22-23 “The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!
@ChristineMAbrell
@ChristineMAbrell 8 жыл бұрын
So refreshing to hear a godly and Biblical based perspective on this.
@CommissarKozlov
@CommissarKozlov 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah like a religion that is intrinsically bigoted should be viewed as "refreshing."
@jesuslovesgunviolence2718
@jesuslovesgunviolence2718 5 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderhrabar3515 religion is man made. Garbage! Scam! Con!
@mariusleroy8895
@mariusleroy8895 4 жыл бұрын
Why don’t everyone view eachother as souls and not genders? That way it would be easier to treat eachother equally
@steezyastro
@steezyastro 4 жыл бұрын
Christine lemme at dat assss
@oliviah1866
@oliviah1866 8 жыл бұрын
Jeff thank you so much for this video. As a Christian and a part of the feminist movement it can sometimes be hard to be both; when often the religious modesty rhetoric is being blasted throughout the Christian community and the disdain toward those Christians within feminism. This is truly a life changing video and something I will refer back to for a long time.
@trocfreiburg131
@trocfreiburg131 8 жыл бұрын
+Olivia Hedderly Whats the message that your feminist movement is trying to get across?
@seider780
@seider780 8 жыл бұрын
+T. Best its mostely no sence arguments
@natemarchesi3472
@natemarchesi3472 8 жыл бұрын
most doesn't end with an e.
@jannieschluter9670
@jannieschluter9670 5 жыл бұрын
You cannot be a godly woman and a feminist at the same time.
@jannieschluter9670
@jannieschluter9670 4 жыл бұрын
@Robert Raghav Read in NLT Bible: Genesis 3:16
@sierrawoods
@sierrawoods 8 жыл бұрын
I only recently found god. I was so lost. I always believed christianity = religion then a good friend of mine kindly directed me to your jesus versus religion video. since then I watch 2-3 of your videos daily and you really helped me see. I thank you and your beautiful wife for helping pave my way to the lord. p.s.this video was really good!
@watsshakinbacon20
@watsshakinbacon20 8 жыл бұрын
And we encourage you to search for Hod on your own as well, through his physical word (the bible) and through prayer. Find a church that you can grow in also. But nothing is more important and your personal search for him :)
@Jay-bx3dh
@Jay-bx3dh 8 жыл бұрын
amen!
@jazzypanduh
@jazzypanduh 8 жыл бұрын
+Sierra Woods Same boat as you!!
@Finalsuspect1468
@Finalsuspect1468 8 жыл бұрын
welcome to the family!
@KpopManiac4Life
@KpopManiac4Life 8 жыл бұрын
+Sierra Woods the real shit is only getting started being a christian is no longer a bed of roses.Go check out christianmomthoughts for evolution,atheists and all that :D
@lilalabasterbox8729
@lilalabasterbox8729 8 жыл бұрын
I seriously love how fast you talk. I feel accomplished for keeping up haha!! So awesoms you posted this, it's been on my heart lately!!
@charliedaisynjinks
@charliedaisynjinks 8 жыл бұрын
I'm a messianic Jew and I agree with this so much! So nice to hear people talking about the Torah beyond just the word 'law'. Well said!
@trocfreiburg131
@trocfreiburg131 8 жыл бұрын
+debs cooper Whats the difference between a messianic jew and a christian?
@charliedaisynjinks
@charliedaisynjinks 8 жыл бұрын
Messianic Jews are Jews that believe Jesus is the messiah. He is usually referred to by Jews as Yeshua which is his original Hebrew name. The only difference is that we follow the instructions of the Torah. Not for our salvation, as Yeshua has kinda got that sorted! Haha but we do follow the Torah because Yeshua did and the apostles did all through the new testament. Some people will use certain bible verses to say that what we're doing is wrong, but its' usually out of context or just a little misunderstood really. And on the other side, some messianic Jews think that they are superior to christians because of what they do... That's not true either! Promise! We're all equally saved and redeemed. If you have any questions do ask! I'm really bored on my week off!
@trocfreiburg131
@trocfreiburg131 8 жыл бұрын
debs cooper i mean i didnt knew about that but all i know is if u dont believe that God came to this world in the flesh in the person of Yeshua died and rose from the dead, and if u dont have the Holy spirit in u, u arent saved. If u fulfill these conditions, God bless but if u dont u need to seek to brother
@charliedaisynjinks
@charliedaisynjinks 8 жыл бұрын
we believe Jesus is the messiah :) that's what messiah means... God coming to Earth to save us :) I believe he died for you and me brother! :D I agree totally, to get to heaven, Jesus is the way!
@trocfreiburg131
@trocfreiburg131 8 жыл бұрын
debs cooper Nice great praises to God for that. But do you have the Holy spirit in u?
@GraceMarieVicente
@GraceMarieVicente 8 жыл бұрын
This is what every man and woman needs to know! Thank you for sharing your wisdom Jefferson! Hello from the other side of the world! ☺😊
@Smileovertherainbow
@Smileovertherainbow 8 жыл бұрын
This video is so good, is one of those ones you send to the youth group group chat, one of those that impact your life so much you can't forget about it, you just carry those words around all the time, a complete switch of perspective, God bless you!
@lavenderleahy
@lavenderleahy 8 жыл бұрын
Wow. this is so good. thank you for talking about this subject
@emersoncustoms719
@emersoncustoms719 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jefferson, for your commitment to Christ! I pray that you never feel defeated or that you aren't making a difference! Because you are! Your a big influence on so many others. To God be the Glory.
@aliciajo4618
@aliciajo4618 8 жыл бұрын
Would you ever consider closed captioning your videos? I love watching you but it's kind of hard to follow along without captions. It would open up your channel to the deaf/hard of hearing/attention deficit community and so many more people could hear the word!
@natalyajacqueline7673
@natalyajacqueline7673 8 жыл бұрын
good idea!:D
@blurbthenerd
@blurbthenerd 8 жыл бұрын
There are captions already.
@natalyajacqueline7673
@natalyajacqueline7673 8 жыл бұрын
okey dokey:D
@aliciajo4618
@aliciajo4618 8 жыл бұрын
+Blurb The captions are auto-generated, so they aren't super accurate. I challenge you to mute the video and try following along based on the captions alone, you'll see what I mean :)
@clovercounty
@clovercounty 8 жыл бұрын
As a high school student I find that your words really get through to me and I really want to thank you for what you do. :^)
@jenrivera5893
@jenrivera5893 8 жыл бұрын
I LOVE EVERY SINGLE MOMENT OF THIS. You put words to what I've been trying to communicate for years. Thank you. The Lord has totally gifted you with wisdom and the power to communicate it to our culture. It's really incredible.
@gauridwivedi463
@gauridwivedi463 4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS LITERALLY THE MOST LOGICAL VIDEO I HAVE SEEN
@christopherchappell4209
@christopherchappell4209 8 жыл бұрын
I appreciate so much your holistic comment on important issues. It shows you have wisdom and discernment, and its a blessing for us viewers. You cover all ends of a subject and have the courage to expose some dogmas within our own christian environments. Even more importantly, you do it with love and a sound mind. Awesome video! Thank you
@haltcontinentaldrift
@haltcontinentaldrift 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, and especially for pointing out how sexual objectification leads to rape culture. You are a such an encouragement to me about men and Christianity -- that there are people who recognize these problems and are attempting to put things to right through Christ. Bless you!
@axd2312
@axd2312 2 жыл бұрын
Don't women also play role in this objectification? Or only the Men are at fault always?
@sarahthomas2922
@sarahthomas2922 Жыл бұрын
As a woman you have no idea how sweet and reassuring this video is for me!
@mimineko1019
@mimineko1019 5 жыл бұрын
I really respect what you said about how we shouldn't disrespectful to say that our minds aren't the problem bodies are just devious objects. I'm glad God never commodifies us.
@dave4shmups
@dave4shmups 8 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Jefferson! The best talk that I've heard you give yet!
@allthingsfruit6606
@allthingsfruit6606 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! All of this is so true! I was brought up in a more conservative religious background my sister and I struggled with our self image because we thought it was wrong to want to look pretty/look good. I have dealt with the "Modesty Police" that you were mentioning, and they make you feel like you are the worst Christian in the world because you were showing your knee. It is true that moment should not dress in a way that draws attention to her body so that men will see how good she looks, but I have had men at Christian college that objectified me and I was dressed in a super conservative manner. Thank you for your balanced videos that speak the truth in love. :)
@Theilleste4k
@Theilleste4k 8 жыл бұрын
I never had a prominent mother figure in my life...and never knew my father... i love God, and i've always been trying to follow Him closely...but sometimes i yearn for someone (especially near my age that i can relate to) to help guide me through things in life... in Jeff, Man....ugh, your videos are so awesome. Thanks for helping me without even knowing it bro... God bless you, you are definetly anointed by The Most High 🙏
@TheMrMKultra
@TheMrMKultra 8 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video! this topic is so hard right now. i see the world falling apart more and more but i see that god is waiting for us in heaven! i often listen to the song "I'll Fly Away" by Attalus where it is "when i die, hallelujah, bye bye. i'll fly away" which always gives me joy for what's to come!
@twothirdsostrich
@twothirdsostrich 8 жыл бұрын
Wow Jeff, great job on this one. This was something that desperately needed to be said and I'm glad you're bringing awareness to it! We need more talks like this which are real and bring the sin out of darkness :)
@creativereindeer
@creativereindeer 8 жыл бұрын
There was stuff here I hadn't thought about before like the wallet example and the ruler to the knee doing the wrong thing - thank you so much for the time and effort you've put in to make this for us, great value shared, thank you :)
@lachtay4736
@lachtay4736 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, it actually made it a lot easier to understand human minds, and todays society and culture and the way we think and communicate. Normally, I seem to misunderstand what I, myself, wants, and whether it makes sense, and you have made this so much easier.
@gabrielleneves1181
@gabrielleneves1181 8 жыл бұрын
Goosebumps listening to this msg! Thank you, I really appreciate this. WOW. I honestly never thought about this topic, until I watched your video. Thank you! God Bless
@minajackson4634
@minajackson4634 8 жыл бұрын
Wow that's nice that you talked about this. Puts things in perspective and we should all learn this. Amen!
@TheAulim
@TheAulim 8 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you! Your words just breathed life in to me! I can't say how much I needed it now and how alive I feel now. Thank you! :)
@ashfotopro
@ashfotopro 8 жыл бұрын
This was one of the most inspiring talks Ive ever heard from you. Fantastic. I loved the background of scripture, the articles you researched and the wisdom you shown down on this. I would love to see a follow up video of you highlighting conversations that emerged from this video, I think there will be a lot!!!
@NoName-yt7lv
@NoName-yt7lv 8 жыл бұрын
I just finished the video, and I wanted to add that I feel love for you.
@BeautifulGrace97
@BeautifulGrace97 8 жыл бұрын
I love Monday messages! Thanks Jeff :)
@MarianaLopesoficial
@MarianaLopesoficial 8 жыл бұрын
What's up Jeff! Huge topic you've just bought up in this video! Loved the way you handle it. Just want you to know that I'm from Brazil and love to watch how you talk about our God and grace and Jesus and all good stuff. May God bless you. Peace!
@abigailstanley8455
@abigailstanley8455 8 жыл бұрын
This was the best Monday message I've seen yet! Thanks Jeff!
@lenacoogan6151
@lenacoogan6151 8 жыл бұрын
Excellent word, why is it I always attract men who just want sex when all I want is marriage, love and family, I don't dress sexy or come off that I want sex, when I feel a man wants this I shut down to that person. Thank you if you can answer, God bless🙏🏼
@TheTpointer
@TheTpointer 8 жыл бұрын
+Lena Coogan maybe try to talk to them!! they are human beings they can talk.. Say what you want and that they wont get what they want! This "shut down" is the kind of disrespect that hurts very much!
@lenacoogan6151
@lenacoogan6151 8 жыл бұрын
+TheTpointer your right on the shut down, I'm really bad at it, I've been told I need to be more clear on what I want from a man and just tell him but the sex thing is just a big put off for me?
@TheTpointer
@TheTpointer 8 жыл бұрын
Lena Coogan okey.. i just wanted to give a feedback on how i interpreted your comment! like jeff said: we should all look in our hearth to see if we promoting this pharao culture! Maybe you see the husband, father and friend in man that you "want" but dont see the whole person! A man can be a husband father and friend but he allways wants sex too! That probably the reason why god wants us to have sex in marrige only. So nobody get exploided. But its probably better if you keep distance from a man who only wants sex but explain why you do this! english is not my first language. i hope you understand what i mean :D
@luvs2playtennis
@luvs2playtennis 8 жыл бұрын
+Lena Coogan it might be that you are afraid of marriage, love and family. With me, I would always attract guys that were already in a relationship. The few guys who weren't already in a relationship I would always run away from. At a certain point, I realized this was because I wanted to know that guys found me attractive but I didn't want the commitment or vulnerability that happened in a relationship. I do eventually want to get married. Something that's helped me is praying to God to help prepare me for my husband and help my husband be prepared for me.
@lenacoogan6151
@lenacoogan6151 8 жыл бұрын
+luvs2playtennis I was with a man for 13 yrs who abused me in every way he could, I loved him so much it almost killed me, I am no longer with him and he tells me that all men want from me is sex, I think I'm hung up on that plus I think I still love him, I know I can't go back but would love to be in love again to someone who respects me for me and not my body etc, thanks for your feedback, I think thru all the hurt I've given up on God in away😥
@halladay34
@halladay34 8 жыл бұрын
This is so dope dude. I was literally writing a social issues speech for one of my college classes about how pornography affects our society and was feeling a little uneasy as to whether it was truly something important and worth talking about. This definitely convicted me man, I honestly can't wait to give this speech now.
@sonpreetkaur3905
@sonpreetkaur3905 3 жыл бұрын
I am a Sikh with weak english but I don't know how, I understood every single thing in this video. The guy was talking as fast as light in the starting but then I was able to connect to his statements. Maybe because he spoke from heart
@joellukewarriorforjesusthe293
@joellukewarriorforjesusthe293 2 жыл бұрын
Thats great God bless you :)
@abigail_nyathi
@abigail_nyathi 8 жыл бұрын
It's 1:30 am in South Africa Jeff it's Tuesday here lol 😊. Great subject, I love these topics, talking on the issues that affect us a society and may dilute our view and thinking
@KirbySonicTeam
@KirbySonicTeam 8 жыл бұрын
Fantastic message. Much needed.
@brandonharleeharlee1424
@brandonharleeharlee1424 8 жыл бұрын
Finally!!! Yes I've been waiting all day!
@star4eak
@star4eak 8 жыл бұрын
This is so inspiring! And knowledgeable! Ive been watching your videos for a long time and this is my first comment. Great topic! I totally think this is opening my thoughts and making me think! In a good way! thanks for sharing👍
@7sanctuz
@7sanctuz 8 жыл бұрын
BLESS YOU brother for taking your time to talk about this topic! I really want to be free from my old mindset. It disgusts me..
@Serenoj69
@Serenoj69 8 жыл бұрын
+Erik Hedberg Karlsson What is so disgusting? Why are you so judgemental of yourself? How about acceptance? I do not objectify women. I love how they look and get aroused by the female beauty and that is (also) with their cloths on. I can fancy many women in my bed far more thanthey fancy me of course ;-) I fail to see any harm in that at all. It does not prevent me for treating every person in this world equally kind, mindfull and empathic. Most people have many layers, in which all things together play a part but it varies per person. And one of it is also physical attraction, loving the opposite or same sex just for how they look. Sometimes also for who they are but sometimes not. And at least to me, that is fine. I am not going to deny my personallity cause some dogma tells me so.
@jch12341
@jch12341 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, Jeff! So full of love, wisdom and truth. God bless you!!
@VrieChica078
@VrieChica078 8 жыл бұрын
This is my new favorite video on the internet.
@lochtessmonsterxoxo
@lochtessmonsterxoxo 8 жыл бұрын
Seriously cheering during this whole video! THANK YOU!
@ReminiscentMelodies
@ReminiscentMelodies 8 жыл бұрын
"Commodification of image-bearers" wow this was really profound; thank you for the video (:
@hunited
@hunited 8 жыл бұрын
So much intense wisdom in 8min! Had to rewind twice to understand! Ouf!
@Josueabrahamluna
@Josueabrahamluna 8 жыл бұрын
I love this video. So much to meditate about.
@MountaineerMadness08
@MountaineerMadness08 8 жыл бұрын
The devil will never let it be easy for us as young Christians. For guys, we're force fed a message that girls are only worth to sleep with and stare at. For girls, you're told to wear less and more revealing clothing to be "worthy" or seen as "attractive". This is a product of our society. We should ALL strive to FLEE sexual immorality.
@katekane6697
@katekane6697 7 жыл бұрын
Job Nyangacha It's not about wearing less. It's about feeling free and dressing the way we want: beautiful. A skirt can be short or long, but both is beautiful. And women look at men too.
@karissacross5477
@karissacross5477 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I know it's a tough topic but I'm really impressed with how you addressed "both sides of the coin." Thanks!
@chloewoods4866
@chloewoods4866 8 жыл бұрын
I wish kids at my high school had this mentality. Love this message.
@achooe5443
@achooe5443 6 жыл бұрын
Chloe Woods I’d say the same but I’m not even in high school yet
@achooe5443
@achooe5443 6 жыл бұрын
But I wish everyone had this mentality
@masonrichardson2672
@masonrichardson2672 6 жыл бұрын
yo. I like how he said what he said in such a quick way. some channels on youtube can say 4 or 5 minutes of content in 10 to 20 minutes and I thought it was cool the way you did it.
@melindawolfUS
@melindawolfUS 11 ай бұрын
Thanks! This was a beautiful, gospel-centered take on this subject that you took in a fresh direction. STRONG AGREE. And sometimes women commodify men as only how much money they make: I think dating culture is broken and women aren't given enough time or ability to build trust with men, so this becomes an unhealthy shortcut to choose a guy but just like exclusively eating fast-food; is not in anyone's best interest. I think the way we've been dating since the 50's should be entirely re-evaluated (since the results have been especially dangerous for women) and bring back match-makers in churches and/or communities. I don't want my dad to choose a guy for me, but neither do I feel safe/confident choosing which strangers to trust without some help getting a background check and setting expectations so we match expectations better at each stage of a building a new connection.
@reneetoebe8821
@reneetoebe8821 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeff. We need this for the church!!
@sadieesther9721
@sadieesther9721 7 жыл бұрын
The commodification of people 💯so true that embodies the whole Fall
@ellenmeabhdhobrienhall4645
@ellenmeabhdhobrienhall4645 8 жыл бұрын
This is an issues very close to my heart, thank you for talking and sharing and opening up the conversation about it, particularly in relation to modest dress etc. I have had conversations with other women about this who just simply believe that the way it is and to move on, I not object and nor is a man.. but creations of God people with a soul who are so much more then physical..
@kyranekko
@kyranekko 7 жыл бұрын
I am actually an athiest (former Catholic) but I fricking love you and your way of thinking, you bring up really interesting points and ideas that I really respect.
@lenakib4185
@lenakib4185 8 жыл бұрын
Amen! Thanks Jeff and Alyssa for your work in the kingdom of God! A lot of blessings
@piratekr3w1
@piratekr3w1 8 жыл бұрын
YASSS Jeff !! 🙌🏽 thanks so much for this!
@Expiredal3kz
@Expiredal3kz 8 жыл бұрын
thank you dude, I needed to be reminded of this, at one point I let this truth and depth of it fade from my fellowship with Jesus. the beauty of this when we practice it, it's just amazing(:
@CanaldoFogoTV
@CanaldoFogoTV 8 жыл бұрын
Man, fantastic, im a christian brazilian and vlogger to. I knew your channel now and I subscriber here. Congratulations.
@aarinhowe5070
@aarinhowe5070 8 жыл бұрын
thanks so much for sharing Jeff, really needed to hear this!
@bennysmiley
@bennysmiley 8 жыл бұрын
Jeff you nailed as usual, and the comparison between God and Pharaoh that is such a revelation! 👊🙌
@RC-de3vy
@RC-de3vy 8 жыл бұрын
When you were talking about what pharaoh says defines us vs i thought of that song from Prince of Egypt about looking through heaven's eyes.
@mikegreathouse9640
@mikegreathouse9640 8 жыл бұрын
+Rachel C that is my favorite childhood movie :)
@RC-de3vy
@RC-de3vy 8 жыл бұрын
+Mike Greathouse Mine too! We've watched it so many times that we can say all the lines of the movie. Comes especially handy during long car rides.
@susanblue3694
@susanblue3694 8 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha that wallet analogy is my FAVOURITE thing that's amazing. "are you sure you didn't just give him your wallet, and now you're embarrassed about it?"
@FireBreathingDapperBoi
@FireBreathingDapperBoi 8 жыл бұрын
PREACH!!! This video is so true, I see this all the time,especially at school. My prayer is that those women wont have to go through that , and that I will never treat a woman like that
@margaretkeefe1924
@margaretkeefe1924 8 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. This is fantastic.
@mindofiris
@mindofiris 8 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome! You're so knowledgeable! I do miss the vlogs though!
@thranduilselk
@thranduilselk 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jefferson. Your videos have really touched my soul and are opening my heart back up to God.
@dagman85
@dagman85 8 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! I hadn't thought about the ways in which Pharaoh was the antithesis of Jehovah before. Great teaching! Thanks for posting it, Jeff.
@HamudiChi
@HamudiChi 5 жыл бұрын
As a Muslim, I agree with a lot of the points you used and find parallels between Christianity and Islam. No, Islam does not abuse or mistreat women. It liberates them from what the over sexual culture expects of them. Thank you for the video and points brother. God bless
@emilyyager
@emilyyager 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is spot on.
@jrios109
@jrios109 8 жыл бұрын
You should do more SPOKEN WORD Videos!!! I MISS THEM!!!...
@aortizmiller
@aortizmiller 8 жыл бұрын
It's so refreshing to hear a man say this. Thank you for posting.
@YaminiKalluri98
@YaminiKalluri98 Жыл бұрын
This gives me hope!
@karik5610
@karik5610 8 жыл бұрын
So helpful to draw the connection of objectification stemming from the lack of humans being see as image bearers. The contrast of creation/God's culture and Pharaoh's culture were fascinating. Very clearly put.
@jennicam.4322
@jennicam.4322 8 жыл бұрын
Really love this video Jeff. Men's and women's intrinsic dignity is a beautiful theme in your videos. I like how you show how objectification/dehumanization comes in many forms and happens to both men and women. I love the ending conclusion when you challenges us Christians to create a culture that is influenced by God who values humanity than of the Pharaoh who commodifies others.
@Grace0724
@Grace0724 3 жыл бұрын
Wow that video was amazing and so important. Speak the truth brother. All glory to Christ
@M0101EP
@M0101EP 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!
@NoName-yt7lv
@NoName-yt7lv 8 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that you chose this topic. It's extremely important for men to talk about this and I don't feel enough do. I think you insight into the Bible was really genuine and helpful, not preachy. I am curious to know what you think about our connections to objectifying women and the nature of survival? I know a lot of evil's in the world stem from our brains just trying to find a way to best survive (accumulate food and resources, control the environment to avoid danger, secure a womb to continue on the species, etc.). How much of this do you think is linked to our problems of objectification modern day? I know you have a lot of comments, so I'll just be happy if you at least know that I asked! Have a nice week.
@esthercharis
@esthercharis 8 жыл бұрын
So appreciate the time and effort put into this video. I learned so much!
@123gigiroxx
@123gigiroxx 6 жыл бұрын
Dating has caused me a lot of pain. It's hard Carrying a conversation with a man . And seeing in their eyes they are plotting. They tell you what they think you want to hear and in their hearts it means something different. I believe people need start viewing each other as humans first . And respect the souls within.
@kathrynfisher2982
@kathrynfisher2982 4 жыл бұрын
123gigiroxx yessss
@marybronaugh
@marybronaugh 8 жыл бұрын
This SO needed to be said.
@cyriljohns
@cyriljohns 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Jeff!
8 жыл бұрын
Brother, this is awesome, I need it in Portuguese to show here in Brazil! Could you make the transcript available? Then I'll translate it and maybe if you guys could make subtitles out of this translation... May God bless your work always! May he bless you, Alyssa, Kinsley and the new baby =)
@Novjuly
@Novjuly 8 жыл бұрын
this was a very well put together video!
@natalinanunez5702
@natalinanunez5702 8 жыл бұрын
ITS MY B-DAY and this just pleased me today :)
@jazzyrobot
@jazzyrobot 8 жыл бұрын
This video deals with this topic perfectly. It's so true that there are flip sides to objectification, and that objectification comes from the place of wanting to gain from other people. You've given me lots to think about, thank you.
@crystalformation
@crystalformation 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeff for continuing to shed light on this issue. I would like to offer some practical advice for any Christian brothers (and sisters) who struggle with this. Turn to Jesus. Turn to Jesus as your rescuer. Turn to Jesus as your redeemer. Turn to Jesus as your reward. He is worth it all.
@karanewsome
@karanewsome 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. It is wonderful and makes so much sense no matter what your religion and beliefs
@sammylg22
@sammylg22 8 жыл бұрын
So good Jeff!👐🏼
@ratedrashawn
@ratedrashawn 8 жыл бұрын
thank you. I needed this 🙏
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