oversharing and overthinking (q&a) | Riayn's Room EP. 06

[@bekkkabby]

literally any time I’m feeling even slightly stressed I tell myself “this doesn’t matter because everything is made up” so when u said that I was like SHE GETS IT 🥲

[@riaynchristina]

bc this is all just made up

[@stormiomalley7757]

The interesting thing is, I'm 33 and I'm 27 weeks pregnant and married, I had been a stubby for the Schultzi collective and her vlog channel for a long time and kinda fell into watching you and Rachel after you guys coming on the scene in like 2020. Now my personality aligns more to you and Rachel, and maybe not so much the original youtuber. But that's OK. But would consider this to be my preferred content even though I'm not really your preferred audience lol I used to be wild, single 29 year old and than met my husband. 🤣 I'm glad you have taken to making this your focus as its a lovely channel, so interesting watching your life and watching you grow. 😊

[@riaynchristina]

if you can hang i’m down to have ya hahahah!! thanks for being here 🫶🏾

[@Jenalamah]

Girl same!!

[@TarynBreAnn11]

Your take on turning 25 is so damn relatable!!!! I noticed. Huge change in how I processed things and saw things

[@riaynchristina]

it literally felt like i woke up for the first time…. terrifying HAHAHA

[@kanunes695]

I mean it’s none of my business but the end of the podcast & y’all also leaving the collective still sounds really weird to me - I’ve heard everyone talking about it and in the end it just feels like y’all had a fight & this just wasn’t working anymore

[@daisydog]

Maybe I'm naive, but I can take the logical explanation. Riayn doesn't have a car, so getting to San Diego without Paloma is difficult and stressful. And I think her explanation here is to justify why she is giving up the much bigger audience: it's not her target audience. 🥰 And really, I think most podcasts have an endpoint anyway.

[@ebby51811]

I genuinely enjoyed this. As a girly in her early 30s, who looks like a teenager apparently, everyone always has a lot to say about how I live my life. The number of strangers that walk up to me and share their unwanted opinions is crazy. Sometimes I need to be reminded that other people’s opinions about me and my life aren’t important. I’m living for me and that’s all that matters. Thanks for the life advice!

[@erinboggs5269]

Just wanted to say your take on leaving the collective makes perfect sense, I know you didn’t say it but it’s been clear that the thesis statement for the collective has been a bit unclear, and you are very clearly an unhinged person (not in a bad way lol) just like living her best single, late 20s, Free life, which is like a clear message from this channel, so I get wanting to also just appear professionally more coherent in that way…. Xoxo a gardening 🍃 mom in her late 20s who lives vicariously through your free spirited life

[@victoria-e]

Girly we need a Justin bieber lore episode lmao

[@riaynchristina]

ON IT!

[@bellaghidossi6077]

“who is buying houses” KILLED ME 😭💀

[@riaynchristina]

i’m genuinely asking bc how??? 😭

[@Fizzylizzy230]

As someone who doesn't know really anything about Justin Biber I would be sat for the tea and lore lol😂

[@riaynchristina]

say less

[@emmmmaaaa4444]

I love this! Love gardening and chatting with you. I’m bi and a mom and also living an unhinged life! I love that for us❤️

[@riaynchristina]

legend!! thank u for being here!

[@meglud8681]

You seem like the kind of person I would be had my life not went the way it did. I’m not your target audience, but I love to see women doing what they want, not giving a fuck, dating/ not dating, therapy, exercising, just seeing what the “girls” are up to because I have less and less friends I’ve gotten older (which is completely my choice) I’ve given my all to people who never reciprocate. Much like a relationship. Well anyways that was my rambling. ❤ much love

[@lilbitweird00]

GIRLLL! I related to the "25" chat so much. It was like a light switch turned on the minute I turned 25. I thought about every impulsive decision I had ever made. I regretted mostly all of my tattoos, I wish I had taken better care of my teeth, wish I hadn't taken some relationships for granted. I wish I could have a do- over with the mind I have now.

[@riaynchristina]

literally sameeeeee! i try not to have regrets but i simply just do 😭

[@jillisenberg9704]

48 year old Mom living in far north Minnesota here! I love watching your content, because it lets me see what a different way of living is like from afar. I am cheering you on and wishing the best for you! ❤

[@riaynchristina]

love it!! thanks for being here 🩵

[@ayc53]

Hi Riayn!! I’ve been a subscriber for a long time and love your content! I was the one who sent in the question about enjoying your current season of life and my bf going to propose soon and I loved your answer ❤️❤️ I definitely needed to hear that!! Can’t wait for more podcast episodes!! Have a great day 😊

[@riaynchristina]

thank you for sending your question in 🫶🏾🥰

[@christinamidnight]

ILY!!! Also happy fall. Resonated with how you felt a big mental shift and introspection around age 25, I feel like for me that happened at 27 but it’s exciting to think deeper about stuffs and yourself

[@meaganm9779]

Love this episode !! My family has been over so I feel so behind but even at 27 I feel like I can still feel my brain finishing some development 😂❤ it’s amazing when you’re just like different lol idk how else to explain it.

[@erin07697]

I love the answers and the questions! ‘Down to clown’ sent me 😂 ❤

[@kirstenholder7270]

Your current dating situation sounds like my life lol!!! I dated people then had long periods between relationships, I was not looking for my current partner when we met, now we are married... but that was all just a case of it was at the right time. My opinion on dating is what it is, pick your own adventure, but do what feels best for you.

[@jodicosman102]

I too could gossip for hours 😬 also, really enjoying the podcast!!

[@riaynchristina]

yayyyy i’m so glad!

[@sometimesyaya5110]

I find more now than before that many people feel some way that is more than fine and asking how are you is necessary bc we (pretty much all of us) won’t volunteer it without prompt

[@riaynchristina]

wait that’s so true

[@emarieand]

Omgggg, the wisdom is coming through in this podcast. Love being a listener and being part of the kiki 🫶🏼🙂‍↕️

[@riaynchristina]

thank u for being here ily ily

[@LuceroH]

Work tea in due time?!? No Riayn, we need it now 😭😭😭

[@riaynchristina]

🫶🏾

[@meaganm9779]

AND enjoy your twenties single fr fr that’s one thing I wish I did at 19-25 that’s the best advice

[@kenzziekay]

i'm sat

[@meaganm9779]

A styling video ? Idk if that would be too hard to just talk about lol

[@madelinekramp8554]

We need a JB lore episode lol

[@meaganm9779]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥HOT tea 🥵🥵😱

[@pooja1994-j7k]

It would help if you added question boxes on the screen or at the least created chapters because this one seemed very hotchpotch. Your editing is typically on point but this one was a miss for me, sorry!

[@riaynchristina]

you’re very right! i only had 2 hours to edit this and was definitely in a rush. i will do better next time 🫶🏾

[@TMB62]

Hiello 👏🏼

[@IttBeeMee]

I need to know what going through a break up is like. Like how did you decide to break up and what was the first week of not having them like I feel like I am approaching this season of life and I need to “be prepared”

[@riaynchristina]

there is no “one way” of going through a break up tho. even how you decide to break up sometimes is decided for you. it’s just so personal for every single person. if you feel it coming, my opinion is, there’s no need to wait for it to come? address it head on and go from there i guess.

[@IttBeeMee]

Thank you! I needed new perspective 🫶🏽

[@skylarsa]

I'm sorry but I hate that you're wearing sunglasses during these types of videos. I find the lack of eye contact just gives off the attitude you're not genuine or you're too cool to be here, and so when answering personal questions it just doesn't feel connected to us as an audience.

[@hannah_wommack]

It’s just her style, it’s not that deep lol

[@margipacceber]

KZbin, get this gal a premium account 🥲😅🫶

[@riaynchristina]

truly 😭