Getting my life together: How I got my spark back after I lost my passion | small business vlog

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Life is never short of embarrassing moments. Sometimes, we just need to own them so they'll stop living rent-free in our heads. Yes, I was at a very low point in my business, and that number is truly embarrassing considering the number of followers that I have. But I believe every "rejection" is a redirection. This slow period gives me an opportunity to explore sustainable ways to better myself and my business. Whatever happened, happened. Tomorrow is a new day. So let's reset our lives together, shall we?
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[@mana7412]

The way you shoot your videos is absolutely brilliant You couldn't imagine how far I am from fashion related stuff, yet I keep watching your videos for that cozy, personal... I don't even know what to call it... feeling you're able to capture Well done my friend!

[@JenishaCreates]

Been there . I literally lost the motivation to do my work that I once loved so much. At points I felt like a failure and wondered why am I being like this. It took a long time for me to understand myself and find new ways to find my love for life and work back. We all are fighting our own wars and all we can do is be kind to others and ourselves as well ❤Lots of love

[@mrsaveabuck5969]

I am glad that you worked it out and well said! Thank you!

[@overthinker_apparel]

🫂💖💖

[@CatarinaQuei]

I am there right now. I'm going to start little things around the house today and try to get 1 work thing done per day, then 2 things.

[@CatarinaQuei]

Skippy is a very hard worker. Give him a raise.

[@alisonfranklin4494]

You are simply a genius!!!! Your craft is phenomenal ! I speak prosperity for your business!!! Think outside the box a little more and do events, fairs ect.

[@itsdaksha]

It was lovely seeing you build up courage and be back again 😁 you have a lovely business! I am in this rut right now but taking this as a blessing in disguise ❤

[@jeannineclover]

I’m watching from India. I have always wanted to start my own apparel line. U are such an inspiration, love your creativity and hard work. Stay strong and keep growing. Sending u much love 💛💛💛💛

[@wushdishmeen]

I stumbled across this and watched your video about starting your business because I've always been an entrepreneur and have survived without a 9 to 5 job for the past 18 years since I was 18 years old. One thing I notice is that you're always alone which might be depressing and only working with your mother. At a certain point if your business is successful you should try hiring friends to help, or actually put out an ad to ask for help. If you don't have friends you should try opening up more and taking the chance to make some! Also an easy boost to your business is to find a significant other who will bring creativity and joy into your life. Not sure if you have a significant other but a good one can reinvigorate you and build your confidence. If they're REAL good they will have good ideas of their own and might just be the missing puzzle piece to your business and life in general. At a certain point, you will plateau as a business if you're too successful but can't handle all the work yourself and also the honeymoon phase dies and it becomes work instead of a passion. With hiring people you will have a refreshing aspect and could build this into you being the CEO. You still having the clothes crafted the same way, but you just oversee it rather than having to do it all yourself and you can process orders quicker and in larger quantities. You may even be able to work directly with factories in China and other places to source your own custom cut-n-sew blanks so the clothes look different and be a competitive clothing brand or apparel brand. It's really sad because when we're broke all we can think about is money and that drives us and is a problem to focus on. But once you solve your main money issues you start to have time to focus on your actual mental health and that's where the underlying issues spring up. Broke people don't have time to think about being depressed they just complain and go back to work day after day. But once you get the money you finally have time to fix your ultimate problem which is your mind and learning to love yourself. Your brand is very unique, and cool, and I can see why it appeals to people. But I think branding tends to reflect the person behind the brand. Whether you realize it or not it's a reflection of YOU. So if you're happy the brand will start to spread happiness and give off a vibe of happiness and joy. The world works with ENERGY. If you are depressed making the products the products will have a depressive energy no matter what the design or message is. Hope that makes sense. You put out positive energy and you get it back and the brand will reflect that. Lastly, I imagine a lot of your sales and views were during the pandemic where people were sitting at home. A lot of home businesses and social media accounts boomed during this time. Now people are going out more but also financially hurt by the pandemic and are spending less money on stuff they don't need. But we're starting to put the pieces back together and see people spending again in 2023. 2024 will hopefully be even better. This is just my opinion though! GOOD LUCK! Don't give up. Think about hiring people and bringing some friends a long for the journey! Never know...

[@cecikirakira592]

I want a table like that 🥺 it's great, please share the link

[@bgirldskco]

I’m currently in a motivation slump with my sticker biz. Sigh. It’s so hard.

[@CPfaith]

I love the designs on your shirts. Do make designs for sale?

[@MaribelCampos-d2r]

Where do you buy the sweaters and Tshirts machine??!!

[@onlineserviceissue]

super

[@JaserikaRodriguez]

How do you get the drawings unto the sticky paper then stick them to the shirts ?

[@rubyrahman1524]

Hi...hw u managed to buy printing machines....i am from india...any possibility

[@atizzlefoshizzle]

I’m starting my own channel and business brand for my art soon as well, but struggle with mental health issues that make me demotivated and continuously overthink. It discourages me because it makes me feel like my dreams will always be thoughts and preparation with no launch or results. Watching your successes and habitual motivations makes me feel seen and encourages me that I could succeed in these ways too. 😊❤ I wish you the best of luck throughout your process recalibrating yourself and your passions; stay kind and stay beautiful!

[@mariamoin2464]

Me too I'm thinking of starting a business since two years 😢but still scared

[@laurenyoung1801]

@@mariamoin2464 Try your best to accept and realize your fear, and find solutions. Best.

[@indicamberr]

This is what has kept me from trying out so many things throughout my life. It's sad, but I can only do with the time that I have left on this earth. No regrets 💛

[@overthinker_apparel]

Thanks for your kind words! Wishing you strength and success on your journey. 💖

[@Ahmedraza-o8u8q]

@@overthinker_apparel please share your details i want to star this type of business just need your assistance and what tools and machine you use please contact mr or share your email address

[@thelazyvirgo]

thank you thank you thank you.. for this video, I am stuck and I'm gonna be 19 this year, a lot of things happened, some good, some terribly bad that have got my self-esteem so down that I thought my life had ended up and felt like I've no time left. I can't thank you more for this realistic vlog which portrays that bad things happens but don't let it stop you. Take your time and make a comeback even harder. Everyone out there struggling i wish you all my love and support and girl I'm so proud of you for making this video and kicking back up!!!!!!!!!!

[@overthinker_apparel]

I’m proud of you too! Thanks for the love 🫶🫶

[@thelazyvirgo]

@@overthinker_apparel you're an inspiration to many 😊

[@MichiganderGirl]

I've had to reinvent my embroidery/decorating business several times in past 30 years. It can be a struggle sometimes. Seeing your story, reminds me, and inspires me to keep growing. You are very talented! Keep moving through the ups and downs and make lots of time for Skippy. ♥

[@overthinker_apparel]

Best luck with your business 🫶🫶

[@Manfijfj67]

It's good to see you back. You're an inspiration.

[@mrsaveabuck5969]

I am so.... very proud of you to see were you started to where you are at now! You're very talented and you are such and inspiration! I thank you for sharing your journey and for being such an inspiration!

[@overthinker_apparel]

Thank youu for being here!🫶🫶

[@tammydinh]

2 minutes in and already in tears. Friend, you are one of my biggest inspirations, and seeing you struggle in the same ways I do made me feel so seen! That feeling of missing who you were before.. god, I could cry again thinking about it just now! I just wanted to pop in and say again that you are amazing, so inspiring, and that everything will be okay

[@joseywales1150]

Life is a roller coaster there are highs and lows but I would never change anything to get on a merry go round. There is no excitement no one’s taking chances. All they do is go round and round how boring. Each up and each down builds character.

[@overthinker_apparel]

We’re very proud of you too!!💖💖

[@candaceleslie5064]

It's really beautiful to see you and your mom working together. What a blessing!

[@viktoriadimitrova877]

I felt so unmotivated to make videos and to work on my Etsy store all month and I saw that I have vitamin D deficiency, now that there is more sun, I am starting to feel better again. It's not just you

[@noonseen2017]

SAAAMMMEEEE!!!! I was going to write her a comment to check her vit D level. I spent my last winter entirely in bed 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@overthinker_apparel]

I knew it was bc of the gloomy weather! I need to move to a sunnier place asap😂thanks so much for the heads up!

[@thecookiequeen143]

First I noticed you are showing you face more and that makes me so happy! I think you are so pretty and its nice to put a face to a wonderful company. I saw someone's dad wearing one of your shirts on my last trip to disneyland and it made me think of you and why I hadn't seen your videos in a while... I get the feeling. As someone who loves to create but too scared to start a business this was truly helpful, thank you for being vulnerable with us and being honest. It's hard to accept that you need to restart but i'm glad you did. Your shop and your vlogs always make me happy.. and I know skippy is happy for the cam to be back on him. I hope you get back into your new groove and you keep going! I know you probably wont see this but know people are here to support :)

[@overthinker_apparel]

Aww you’re so sweet ! Thank you for you kind message! It truly means a lot🥹💖

[@CLMarshal57]

Wow, another video showcasing how much of a rockstar you and your mom are! The phone grips are adorable, and the embroidery clothing is still so cute. I like how you give us a view into how much care is put into each piece - I'm excited to see where you take us next!

[@Tiffany-oi4wv]

New subscriber here, I haven’t watched your channel before but I can definitely relate with you in this video as a small business owner. Thank you for sharing your story and I’m over here rooting for you too. I really love your merch and saw all the hard work and effort that goes into making quality products. You’re blessed to have such a wonderful Mom to share your journey with. Your consistency is paying off. Wishing you all the success ❤

[@LanieBug14]

What machine do you use for embroidery? I’ve been looking for one recently but haven’t had luck. If your is very expensive do you have an recommendations for more affordable ones? Thank you and I love what your doing

[@jennimaieron723]

Hope you won’t take this the wrong way as I am a supporter and empathize, I think it would be helpful to broaden the sweatshirt designs that is a little less childlike. I genuinely think it’s cute and I would love to make a purchase and support your business if there was a broader or diverse designs as I’m a woman in late 30s. I realize that your brand and style may intended to be very cute but I think many of your clothing designs are more attracted to younger audience or kids who may not be able to afford clothing items as they are relatively more expensive than an accessory. It might be helpful for your business trying to target audience that are older so that you may have better chances of getting more sales. Wishing a huge success and thank you for sharing the transparency ❤

[@Pixelpugstudio]

I love your videos, choice of music, Skippy. Hang in there. Loved the cell pops. I been looking for something similar.

[@matthewhuynh1197]

I wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for the wonderful KZbin videos you have created. Your content has been inspiring and has given me the confidence and knowledge to create my own swag for my business.

[@overthinker_apparel]

Glad they’ve been helpful for you🫶

[@katec9893]

Wow this is so relevant to me today. I've been working on being a self employed designer on and off for years. I've been through a lot of losses and bereavements and lately I've been very depressed, feeling a failure and wondering why I'm still here. I am going to try again whilst being kind and gentle to myself rather than shaming myself. Thank you for sharing.

[@Xezoclothing]

ngl i watch ur videos in the background on repeat while i wokr on my own brand. glad your back i love the youtube content. always wondered what happen because you havent been active in a while. please keep going!

[@BlueDive-o5b]

You are my heroine thank you for the inspiration I wish you luck and good health

[@sammmm07]

Whats the name of this sewing machine?❣️....💝

[@grownprosper]

Would outsourcing production to a manufacturer allow you more time to yourself?

[@cayenarosada]

Great idea 🎉

[@j.m2586]

Plese Where can I get transfer paper & sewing machine?

[@cayd3185]

11:34 What is the name of the print paper that you print on the T-shirt

[@lin90210]

Have faith gal! You will find a way I know it :)

[@solankitarun911]

Which devices you use for print on cloth

[@topshelfgirl15]

Hey! Glad your back ! ❤❤ Was wondering what habit tracker you were using it looks amazing ! 13:54 thank you !

[@KrimiLounge]

I wanna know too!

[@QueenXKnit]

Have you thought about opening order to europe and other countries? It should push your business further and allowing people like me to purchase your creations❤❤❤❤

[@saturno3285]

Acho engraçado que do nada vem uma musica br kkkkk

[@TechClassen]

How to machine purchase

[@bishoj8912]

Everything in your vlog it’s wonderful ❤

[@kalialor7841]

Awe babe yea everyone how’s through this phase in life. You are not alone. I’m somewhat going through this crisis as well, but this is about you. You got this. Take care of your mental health, once you have you’ll be back and inspired. I can’t waist for any new designs that you have in store for us.❤

[@sumizvibes6556]

Hi mam i m from india ilike ur videos

[@agot-cc]

hi,I would like to ask, what is the brand and model of the embroidery machine you use to make clothes,thanks

[@agot-cc]

我看到你家里贴了个福字，好亲切啊老乡

[@Caults]

Just binge watched your whole channel, and I'm loving it! Keep it up : )

[@jonaekyoshee]

I enjoy your channel so much! I just found you and you scream BOSS!! Keep your head up and keep being creative you got this. I do budgeting on my channel ❤

[@VeronicaG_777]

I got really emotional watching you and your mom run your brand and business 😢you guy's brought back memories of when my moms and I used to do everything together before she passed away in 2021 honestly having someone supporting you in any way shape or form is everything it brings so much peace and joy to your heart and mind I really miss that feeling, but anyway I really am an over thinker, I've been stuck in my own head which caused me a lot of sadness and in a way anxiety, I've just started my own resin and uvdtf business, it has not been easy I may not be where I want to be now, but I know in my heart that it's not going to stay that way I can do anything with God by my side 🙏💖

[@thea4442]

i believe in you, please keep going and don’t doubt yourself! I’m also an over-thinker bur no one starts their brand with everything planned in perfect detail, you just gotta start somewhere and build yourself from there as you learn ❤️

[@QueenXKnit]

Thank you for sharing with honesty what you went through. I’m sending you tons of love and hugs❤❤❤❤❤

[@johnnguyen_etsy]

can you tell me what kind of camera do you use to record 4k video? I really like the videos you make, it's really high quality

[@luvvynails]

Its all happen when we're too tired with the same everyday routine. Glad you have come back. This video is really what most of us feel. Be stronger and you will grow more than you can imagine ❤. Big Hug & Cheers 🤗🥂.

[@Linda656-d3f]

I literally cried

[@mertozcan7244]

Machine name?

[@BrookeDarrow]

I absolutely adore these types of videos, but just some constructive critisism, instead of switching songs every minute/few seconds, try keep it consistent? Or, if you're trying to go for more of an ASMR type vibe, make it a little bit calmer? I lost focus on the video quite a lot because it felt really jumpy at times T-T. Love your stuff though!!

[@kissykiss81]

I find myself in the same position I just never really gave my business a true shot... Life just keeps throwing curve balls but we must press on. But never give up I love your channel. And I got my coaster which I love and so do my kids I have to hide it ALOT hahaha.... I will be posting a review soon I love the handwritten note that comes too it brightened up my day... Keep it up

[@aykaptyur]

Hi! I hope you'll notice my comment. If I may ask, may I know all the equipment you have in running your embroidery business? How much does it cost to start this kind of business? Where can I buy all the same equipment you have? Thank you!

[@TheNerdArmory]

12:46 Is there a step here that's missing? I can't imagine it's shipped out with a big rectangle of tear away inside it, right?

[@nadiaahmed1938]

Same, I can understand the feeling that if we give input and don't receive appreciation, we never give up at any cost. I also doing my online store MAAN ABRAJ FASHION HOUSE but I couldn't receive a good amount of orders but just I keep trying and paitently doing my job

[@kik549]

Soo beautiful! 🥰 I can't stop watching your videos! ❤ Can you pls tell me which machine you use for embroidery and also printing? I live in Germany and would like to start that business, but have no idea at the moment where to start from.. 🌹❤️ Lots of love to you 🥰🩵

[@oofy291]

Tnx for giving me a motivation dear..I'm 21 yrs now.I want to start my own business soon while studying..keep it up ur good work & best of luck more & more 💜️💜️💜️

[@beatrizduarte8179]

I just loved it! And there's a book that I truthly think you'd like, it's 'SYSTEMology' by David Jenyns. All the best!!😊

[@katrinaleow3481]

hi, just wanted to chime in that if the winter season affects your mental health a lot, it's high likely cause you're not getting sufficient sunlight. So I recommend finding a supplement for Vitamin D that you're lacking due to the lack of sunlight in the winter season :)

[@michelepap1]

Greek yogurt!!!!, Hope you like it ! Thanks for sharing your Life and work with us!!.. greetings from Greece!

[@gabrielleblake8822]

Hi! I’ve watched a few of your videos and your story is so inspiring and I love your designs! I am now a proud subscriber❤️. I have very little experience on the business side of clothing but as a consumer, and sorry if you’ve already considered this, I would love to buy your designs on crop tops. As a pear-shaped shortie, regular sized tees don’t look great on me, but I would gobble ur products if u had them on crops!

[@BarKeegan]

Once again seeing all the effort, amazing. You have to try some limited editions! Charge big prices! Reel in some whales (do whales exist outside the gaming industry 🤔). Anyway, when somethings rare, and there’s a small window to get it…

[@maria01412]

Wonderful. You’re voice is so soothing and loved the way you spoke, delivered the message and everything perfect❤️💯

[@lordtette]

I love your cow slides, where are they from? Even though you were going through a burn out and dealing with your mental health; I want to point out that you did good by reminding yourself how well you've done and how far you've come, to help your ground you. As someone who has done DBT skills you actually put one of them to use. And that's a big deal cause it's not easy when you're int the midst of it. Love your vlogs. Personaly they're my favourite to watch.

[@dikulaa]

Since summer is coming up you should definitely make more tees! I looked at your web considering to purchase one but a lot of the graphics were rlly big and im hoping you’d consider making some tees with smaller graphics/ embroidery!

[@agusvega4660]

Hello !!! I love all your work! It gives me a lot of inspiration, could you tell me the name of the machinery you use?? Greetings from Argentina!!

[@WDG14]

Hello, I like what you are doing, you are creative, where did you get the sewing machine?

[@jaylagurl168]

This video was just what i was looking for. I want to start a business of my own either this year or next. The business i want is going to be a house of brands business. I want to sell jewely, t-shirts, designed glasses (cups, mugs) and key chains and probably more.

[@fherlynguzman5843]

Can You show us, how to operate Embroidery Machine? I mean step by step if possible Hehe Thank You so much.

[@mariantruly]

Hi beautiful, I was in search of peace joy and fulfilment too. Truth is, nothing in this world will fulfil any of us because this world is passing away. We can try to distract ourselves with hobbies, lose ourselves in a relationship or pursue our passion. But I’ve found that there is only one way to feel an everlasting peace and joy that the world can’t bring. It ain’t found in this world. It’s found in a person. In a relationship with the one who created us, died for us, and loves us with an unconditional everlasting love. His name is Jesus Christ. Honestly never thought I’d be saying this. I hated God / Jesus / Christianity because of bad experiences when I was a kid. But when I realised those experiences were with people and that God is always there for me, neverchanging, ever-loving, I bought a bible and started reading it. It changed my life. Now all I wanna do is share His love with the world so others don’t have to feel lost, sad and alone like I did. If you don’t know where to start, try download the free Bible app called “YouVersion” and click on either the ESV or NLT version that is easy to understand. There are 66 books in the bible. Start by reading the book of *Proverbs for wisdom, *Psalms for comfort in pain, *John for Jesus’ life story or *Romans for the low-down on how to be saved from death so that your soul will live forever with Jesus even when our body dies If anyone reading this has any questions, I’d happily help. Know you’re not alone and your Creator wants a loving relationship with you. God bless each and every person reading this ♥️ PS. I’m starting my own fashion business designing & making my own clothes (timeless and modest style) and love seeing how far you’ve come. Thanks for sharing your journey! You’re an inspiration. ♥️

[@Darkdongwha]

Hello. I really enjoy watching the video you uploaded. Can you tell me what kind of embroidery machine you are using?

[@jioh8091]

Wow. you have a lot of skills. You draw your own character, embroidery by yourself, and the thread thing? wow...

[@KaterynaM_UA]

I'm a new viewer so sorry if it was asked already! But why don't you add temporary helpers and focus more on social media and fun parts for you and maximazing volume of orders through longer opening hours of the shop? It looks like the bottle neck and the fun drain are menial tasks that can be outsourced?

[@yurahan6438]

What's the Playlist in the background music, please ?

[@disneywithus90]

Def make some vids about your time management approach. Curious about the app and what made you choose it:

[@sd.m3521]

Is Skippy an American Eskimo or another Spitz breed? He's so cute!

[@fotomagrol]

hi..lots of love ..keep creating your shop is so beautiful all products are amazing, you are doing really good. Take care

[@maseyez1]

❤thank you for sharing. Sending you happy smiley vibes. Xo

[@PutraJatra-v5r]

Hi! I'm your new follower, may I know the brand of your embroidery machine 😊😊😊

[@jtabano]

Congratulations to you and your determination to a very nice creative design and decision in life we have same passion I work with my corporate and Promotional gift 🎁 item business here in Kuwait

[@waleska.ohtani]

Hello, I really like what you do 😊 and your designs, I wanted to ask you what model is the embroidery machine you have♡

[@jujuescoba8572]

Hope all is well, video was amazing. What embroidery digital software did you use!

[@pixpusha]

I lose my mojo at least once every 3 years. It's like the thing that tethers me to this planet just evaporates. Really there are no words to describe the feeling and do it justice. I've recently just completed extensive therapy. I'm waiting to see how I weather that feeling when it comes in the future. I think I have better tools now but we shall see.

[@pr3tty0bnoxious35]

I would be more than happy to run your business, overwhelmed with hundreds of orders? Bruh people barely get any customers at all

[@BlackThornRose]

Does anyone know what habit tracker app she uses? I love the ‘clock in’ feature and would like to try as a tool to help my productivity too!

[@VersatileRaps]

12:50 what do you call that shirt folder thing

[@citrinehills7131]

i want to buy a sweater! sounds like you could use a business mentor. any successful biz owner has had a mentor at one point, someone who's been there, done that. It might really help you when you face a lull!

[@ducksavage]

This was such an amazing transition, glad your back on track Awaiting your next video 🐦

[@avee237]

ive been there.. lost interest on my passion for two years already. accepted a new project just today, but i really dont know.. i hope ill be back on track

[@MentalHealthCalmingSoundsRelax]

Inspired. Thank you for being honest about your struggles.

[@DanesBee]

May I know the brand/model of your embroidery machine? It looks sturdy

[@CloeWest-q7h]

Hello I am a kid and I'm trying to build a clothing brand and you inspire me so much thank you

[@Thathijabivlogger]

This was literally SO REAL

[@lifeisamess9512]

İt seems like you doing vlogs only but can you make a video about how do you manage the advertising and shipping?

[@bubblegirl324]

i think if you switch out the new overhead light for a warmer tone, it'll be more cozy vibes aka more motivation to be in the room :-)

[@profitparadise7]

Mam may i know where you get those hoodies and DTF transfers, please