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Things They Don't Tell You About - Moving In With Your Lover

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Over Twenty Five

Over Twenty Five

Күн бұрын

On this video we share our collective experience on living with the opposite sex! Let us know in the comments if you agree or disagree with what we say.
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Ivy, Julia, Shikie, Lornzie
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@joewasike9960
@joewasike9960 3 жыл бұрын
I just pray that one day Jules will find the Mr. Right
@bintimrembo
@bintimrembo 3 жыл бұрын
Amen sis! In God's timing :) It's coming
@misskidokei7868
@misskidokei7868 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss. I'm also praying for her. I love her soooo much. She will get someone someday.
@sharonabigael2051
@sharonabigael2051 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mrs.andersson2854
@mrs.andersson2854 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! And that he will do everything right with her! She deserves the best!
@carolm4691
@carolm4691 3 жыл бұрын
@@bintimrembo have you just called Joe, sis🤭
@janeshiko8299
@janeshiko8299 3 жыл бұрын
When jules said she has nothing to talk about,I thought she will be quiet 😅🤣🤣🤣
@DianaMarami
@DianaMarami 3 жыл бұрын
I actually thought one of the other 3 would take point in the discussion
@TimothyNdungu
@TimothyNdungu 3 жыл бұрын
😆😆
@kijana2030
@kijana2030 3 жыл бұрын
You must be new to the shano. Karibu.
@mikekibicho3611
@mikekibicho3611 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 😂
@kamara381
@kamara381 3 жыл бұрын
Please do a male perspective of this topic , would be nice to hear what they think
@loreenkomora
@loreenkomora 3 жыл бұрын
Yeesssssss!!!! Part 2 should be with the boys so we get a male perspective
@yvonneradidoh2804
@yvonneradidoh2804 3 жыл бұрын
Yyyyeeeesssss mandem series should come through
@anneritawakanyi5834
@anneritawakanyi5834 3 жыл бұрын
Yes,..please do a part 2 on guys perspective
@slyedwards4776
@slyedwards4776 3 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@essnjora9904
@essnjora9904 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, please.
@faithkilonzi7804
@faithkilonzi7804 3 жыл бұрын
Who else wants to hear all the Jules' "clownery" experience?
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 3 жыл бұрын
Faith Kilonzi please watch 8 videos of Jim Nduruchi
@lanreadeoye965
@lanreadeoye965 Жыл бұрын
Faith I found you here 🥰
@limukiikamathi8162
@limukiikamathi8162 3 жыл бұрын
Lornzie is looking all sorts of cyuute
@annmunyi901
@annmunyi901 3 жыл бұрын
She's my all time favorite
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 3 жыл бұрын
Limukii Kamathi please Subscribe to Jim Nduruchi
@CuddlyBear383
@CuddlyBear383 3 жыл бұрын
I've done home improvement mpaka a whole TV...ended in premium HD tears 😂🤣
@claireelijah
@claireelijah 3 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it 😭😂😂😂.. What happened
@sylviawanja7602
@sylviawanja7602 3 жыл бұрын
Claire Chege I can relate 😭😭
@lanoisiyomit7104
@lanoisiyomit7104 3 жыл бұрын
About our periods, Hygiene is a yes and always. However, personally, I stock my pads/tampons in the toilet. Right where I stock tissue. For everyone to see. It's a supply like tissue, like soap. In this way, I'm quietly protesting period shame.
@Alien_civilizations
@Alien_civilizations 3 жыл бұрын
3rd year watching this channel. As a man, never thought I'd get objective advise or opinion from this gender. But by watching this, I get all the opinions I need to build a relationship. All the best Peeps 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@anniehnjambi4701
@anniehnjambi4701 3 жыл бұрын
Coming in late
@beckybrenda2599
@beckybrenda2599 3 жыл бұрын
Mmmmmhhh... Respect this gender
@conradmbugua9098
@conradmbugua9098 8 ай бұрын
from a gender?
@Alien_civilizations
@Alien_civilizations 8 ай бұрын
@@conradmbugua9098 this lol
@kendih362
@kendih362 3 жыл бұрын
Moving in with boyfriends; DON'T.
@Nemaiyan
@Nemaiyan 3 жыл бұрын
Point blank periodttt!!
@hellenwiththegoodlife7635
@hellenwiththegoodlife7635 3 жыл бұрын
Hehe
@amaruaugust1722
@amaruaugust1722 3 жыл бұрын
Lol i moved in with my boyfriend years later our relationship is still strong and we got used to each other....depends with how strong your relationship is.IMO
@LolaBugzy85
@LolaBugzy85 3 жыл бұрын
Kabisa.. if someone has not married me I am not moving in with him. As time goes by you dnt realise you are making the man so comfortable and he will never see the need to commit. Secondly you start playing wife to a man who is not your husband. Men are like babies ni venye umemzoesha.. if you giving him everything he will not bother.
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
True it’s a NO NO. 🙅🏾‍♀️
@virginiamuthoni3746
@virginiamuthoni3746 3 жыл бұрын
I think it's best moving in with someone who you are married to not a boyfriend/girlfriend.
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
True
@J_K_.
@J_K_. 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@Tata-bd9nx
@Tata-bd9nx 3 жыл бұрын
I would move in months before getting married,Wouldnt want unpleasant surprises would you?
@tomatopaste1936
@tomatopaste1936 3 жыл бұрын
You are right dear
@digitallocations1423
@digitallocations1423 3 жыл бұрын
@@Tata-bd9nx It can easily turn into an endless trial period with children and bills piling up. Then a wedding stops looking important because you have other responsibilities. If you've known him long enough, you don't have to live with him to know him.
@elizabethndegwa8233
@elizabethndegwa8233 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies just move in with your husband Boyfriend ❌ Don't be a wife to a boyfriend
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
True sis! 👍🏾
@misskanyi
@misskanyi 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@living_water-
@living_water- 3 жыл бұрын
Preach darling!!
@ndondiafrika249
@ndondiafrika249 3 жыл бұрын
also please don't also accept money from him, don't accept his husbandly privileges
@elizabethndegwa8233
@elizabethndegwa8233 3 жыл бұрын
@@ndondiafrika249 Hahaha.... I like that! I agree
@kendij8487
@kendij8487 3 жыл бұрын
Just when I was about to buy this guy some stuff... Bless y'all ladies.. I shan't clown !!!!
@nettynyakiambori4780
@nettynyakiambori4780 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 amen
@digitallocations1423
@digitallocations1423 3 жыл бұрын
😊😊
@annmichelle6549
@annmichelle6549 3 жыл бұрын
It's the *I shan't clown* for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@yvonnemaria2120
@yvonnemaria2120 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@collinsmakamu4544
@collinsmakamu4544 3 жыл бұрын
Normalize arranging your dishes before washing
@bellaauma9489
@bellaauma9489 3 жыл бұрын
Babes it's not luck, it's respect and having values that align. It really matters in friendship
@bintimrembo
@bintimrembo 3 жыл бұрын
True
@legibitiqua2
@legibitiqua2 3 жыл бұрын
I grew up with brothers who made fun of me for my period. Listen, by the 3rd year of my periods (14 y/o) I was done. One of my bros came at me with his "jokes" and infront of everyone I schooled him on biology. He's never ever attempted to say anything about it ever again. My thing is, why did my mom condone it. Then again I'm glad because I stood up for myself and came to the realization that periods are natural MYSELF, ain't nothing I can do about them and no one will shame for it. Periodttt!
@janemigwi3727
@janemigwi3727 3 жыл бұрын
Can we also talk about how they never find the laundry basket?......Like pants are dropped NEXT to the damn basket!! not inside...but NEXT TO!
@carolinethuita8148
@carolinethuita8148 3 жыл бұрын
I know right !?!?!
@elyzerkerubo2517
@elyzerkerubo2517 3 жыл бұрын
Lawwwd can we just talk about it
@risperachieng1199
@risperachieng1199 3 жыл бұрын
I knoooooow🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 its so funny how this is a common thing
@beakarwimbo1829
@beakarwimbo1829 3 жыл бұрын
The next to is code: can be worn again.
@the.victorgeorge
@the.victorgeorge 3 жыл бұрын
It's called the principle of waiting for a problem to be substantial so that you can deal with it😂😂. Sometimes we wait for them to pile up then we can put them all inside the laundry basket
@rng9871
@rng9871 3 жыл бұрын
Just realized am an Ivy.. Once I get comfortable with someone I have no problem with going number 2😂
@Mindfencemd
@Mindfencemd 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!! Even farting!😂😂
@nifesiayo
@nifesiayo 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@kijana2030
@kijana2030 3 жыл бұрын
Marriage material right there. Even this upuzi that my man has never seen me without makeup is rubbish. After the first hanky panky, we are showering together as we both first pee in the loo as we watch each other. Kwani iko nini?
@catherineomondi7850
@catherineomondi7850 3 жыл бұрын
@@kijana2030 hii story ya "if he hears my poop he will not marry me" is bullshit. mimi kwangu hata you finish and you warn him to not get in that toilet for at least twenty minutes because the smell needs to dissipate.
@Ayanaa_20
@Ayanaa_20 3 жыл бұрын
How can we not notice shik's tee?..Mood🙌🏾..i hated people touching me too..loved the episode..❤
@sallygosbert9886
@sallygosbert9886 3 жыл бұрын
When i do get pregnant i'm gonna need this tee
@wanguigrace2957
@wanguigrace2957 3 жыл бұрын
You ladies are blessed to have such trusting bond. Nowadays most chics cant be trusted around your man.
@viollettemocherry9987
@viollettemocherry9987 3 жыл бұрын
tell me abt it
@mwangishee7453
@mwangishee7453 3 жыл бұрын
😫😫😫
@abwireojiambo6870
@abwireojiambo6870 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao blaming everything on the women. Kwani hao wanaume hawajui wao ni boyfriends wa watu 😵
@rosemarymaina752
@rosemarymaina752 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, they are lucky. Last weekend I walked on "my friend" kissing passionately with my guy... and blamed it on the alcohol. I've blocked both of them. Back on the dating game. Though I'm still deeply hurt. I know I'll pull through. You girls are awesome. New subscriber.
@SirKelvin
@SirKelvin 3 жыл бұрын
I still remember when i asked her to move in. I took her out for a whole day just to talk about it, write stuff that she finds okay or doesn't approve. I am more of a perfectionist which i knew would be a challenge to her. Especially on little things that usually make me irritated, like how the bed is made , dirty dishes lying in the sink , Serving me food with the old plates or cups ETC ... About money issues we agreed for one account one ATM which she keeps -, then whatever remains goes to savings. I think it's all about communication & understanding each other first, before making that step... MOVING IN WITH THE RIGHT PERSON IS BEAUTIFUL ...
@nifesiayo
@nifesiayo 3 жыл бұрын
You guys inspire me always with your discussions... feel like my virtual big sisters🤗🤗🤗.. i started my channel due to your influence... much love from Nigeria💕
@bintimrembo
@bintimrembo 3 жыл бұрын
Love right back! Naija!
@bluebookdots8812
@bluebookdots8812 3 жыл бұрын
If you cant trust your friend around your man she aint your friend Just let them go!!
@stewartmuwangala2053
@stewartmuwangala2053 3 жыл бұрын
Same for not trusting your man around your friends.
@beakarwimbo1829
@beakarwimbo1829 3 жыл бұрын
Both of them need to go.
@odhiambo2419
@odhiambo2419 3 жыл бұрын
Who made that rule even the Bible says cursed is a man who puts their trust on another man 😂😂😂
@agathapaul2285
@agathapaul2285 3 жыл бұрын
Both the boyfriend and my friend i don't trust them,they is nothing like trusting two grown people
@chebetwhitney67
@chebetwhitney67 3 жыл бұрын
I love how openminded Ivy is
@cmadegwa
@cmadegwa 3 жыл бұрын
Hmm, its like I am having 'that talk' with my big siz and her besties. Really insightful. Its crazy just how oblivious we are about these things, kicking cans down the road until we have to deal with them and things go 'left' really quickly. I am a little wiser, thanks to you ladies.
@njokimbugua1693
@njokimbugua1693 3 жыл бұрын
Notice how Ivy is quiet on story za kuosha vyombo😂😂... Me I just love this girl honestly😂
@candymutwari7430
@candymutwari7430 3 жыл бұрын
I see people here writing ati don't move in with your boyfriend move in with your husband... Who told you being a wife is a guarantee mtakuwa pamoja forever..pple are being married and being divorced in 2years so what is the difference btwn you and a girlfriend who had moved in with someone and wakakosana in 2years ????
@nancywanyeki
@nancywanyeki 3 жыл бұрын
I like your perspective. And marriage is not a goal for every woman.
@adrianneakinyi2156
@adrianneakinyi2156 3 жыл бұрын
They will never see it that way ni kuongea tu
@bintimrembo
@bintimrembo 3 жыл бұрын
I like your perspective
@moraamaina
@moraamaina 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah plus there are people who moved in together and doing so well than those who are married
@LolaBugzy85
@LolaBugzy85 3 жыл бұрын
Yes you are right. Even marriage is not guaranteed but if you choose to live with a man who has not married you then just act like a girlfriend but not as a wife. Why some of us are against it is bcos men ni venye umemzoesha.As long as you live with him please tell me how many African men will be okay with you just being a girlfriend without doing household chores and playing wife. Ati you sit,he cleans his house,wash your clothes and leave his. Come to the house anytime you want cs lets be honest you have every right to do that bcs you are not his wife. The moment you start living with a man especially in this continent of ours most expect you to start playing wife even if you dnt want to get married. It works in the West very well cs men there dnt mind doing household chores and even cook lakini Africa please tuache kujidanganya.
@michaelumba5456
@michaelumba5456 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣..Someone to tell Ivy is the real deal...can't stop laughing about the sounds she made
@doc89b
@doc89b 3 жыл бұрын
Jules is the single friend advising other singles on what to do
@bettyb.6435
@bettyb.6435 3 жыл бұрын
Lonzie is soo cute!! 😂 What a fun episode, I'm the Julia in my crew aki😂
@sharonjosephine519
@sharonjosephine519 3 жыл бұрын
We are together in this😆😆😆😆
@chebetwhitney67
@chebetwhitney67 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂mkae strong
@bettyb.6435
@bettyb.6435 3 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 Aki guys where did we go wrong
@annmunyi901
@annmunyi901 3 жыл бұрын
Lornzie
@Rhenadhis
@Rhenadhis 3 жыл бұрын
@@bettyb.6435 you didn't go wrong, i actually think you are exactly where you need to be
@zoekibui8179
@zoekibui8179 3 жыл бұрын
Mimi mniite niwaambie about living w a S/O who is the same gender 😁
@mimikanini7259
@mimikanini7259 3 жыл бұрын
Jealous
@lillyk254
@lillyk254 3 жыл бұрын
Clean the egg and fish dishes with white vinegar, this will leave your dishes fresh
@AngelaNony
@AngelaNony 3 жыл бұрын
dish soap combined with white vinegar ama you rinse with the white vinegar?
@mumbi-maina
@mumbi-maina 3 жыл бұрын
Very true...
@mumbi-maina
@mumbi-maina 3 жыл бұрын
@@AngelaNony wash with soap kwanza,then put vinegar direct to the dish,sugua and rinse ☺ i have plastic for eggs anyway i also hate eggs all over....
@janeshiko8299
@janeshiko8299 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅
@Ladyfaithke
@Ladyfaithke 3 жыл бұрын
Ivy’s facial expression is a whole mood !I love you girls .
@Joy-xu9wk
@Joy-xu9wk 3 жыл бұрын
The #2 thing is quite interesting. I like Ivy’s approach. It’s a normal function, so let it be so. No need to be hiding around and being uncomfortable especially in your own house. Also- especially if you’ve had children, that man should understand you and if he judges you based on that, then good riddance! N
@tilly174
@tilly174 3 жыл бұрын
Lornzie’s face when Julia said she even bought a duvet!🤣🤣lol!
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@githiri
@githiri 3 жыл бұрын
True. Your significant other might end up stealing from you when things go bad and they move out ukiwa hauko
@faithmukabi3564
@faithmukabi3564 3 жыл бұрын
Shiku really laughs at Julia's jokes😂😂
@santanamilkahkamau6698
@santanamilkahkamau6698 3 жыл бұрын
This was very educative and fun. I can't believe 40mins felt like 10min. The number two thing also happens in a family setting, where there are brothers, sisters, mum and dad.😂
@queencocoh2883
@queencocoh2883 3 жыл бұрын
"Even just to save the planet" Lornzieeeeeeee!!,,You had me at that
@wanjiku_chege
@wanjiku_chege 3 жыл бұрын
This is the premium content I signed up for👏🏾💯❤️😂
@johnogilaodindo9698
@johnogilaodindo9698 3 жыл бұрын
Lornzie is looking especially BEAUTIFUL today!
@justgracious3196
@justgracious3196 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my man 3 years now n no complaints, he will even clean, cook, shop for the house and still pay bills 🤗
@claireelijah
@claireelijah 3 жыл бұрын
You're blessed
@maxinemuigai2613
@maxinemuigai2613 3 жыл бұрын
Julia's Character development, wau😂😂
@sylviamagerer1824
@sylviamagerer1824 3 жыл бұрын
I never really buy it when Jules says she has little to say😁...She is just a vibe😂😂😂😂.This episode was fun and we can say "Now we know"
@bintimrembo
@bintimrembo 3 жыл бұрын
Love right back Sylvia
@gracemoses3062
@gracemoses3062 3 жыл бұрын
@@bintimrembo I thot Jules was mjules
@daisyndege7047
@daisyndege7047 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all look really cute as always❤️ Lornzie is looking extra pretty in this video☺️
@ivy5497
@ivy5497 3 жыл бұрын
The way ivy was shocked with lornzie's and miss tiramisu's experiences about number two🤣🤣🤣🤣. Jule, lornzie is right hio ni yako
@jw8856
@jw8856 3 жыл бұрын
Woiii . A guy can ask you and still change his mind . Just don’t do it before he commits to marriage . Don’t
@Mindfencemd
@Mindfencemd 3 жыл бұрын
My mum said the same thing when I asked her opinion on moving in with my significant other😅
@wereskikate5259
@wereskikate5259 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly.then u find you have wasted your time playing wife
@LolaBugzy85
@LolaBugzy85 3 жыл бұрын
@@wereskikate5259 DNT PLAY WIFE IF YOU ARE NOT WIFE.
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
True as a girlfriend never move in with a guy. No playing wife roles when it’s not yet your time.
@lavinessochieng4347
@lavinessochieng4347 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree
@SO-xi6vm
@SO-xi6vm 3 жыл бұрын
When my brother does the dishes aki...you see when you do dishes lazima utoe the washed dry ones kwa the dishes thingy first ndo uanze uosha ueke the freshly washed dishes..... Uyyuuu ataosha viombo bila Kutoa the dry clean ones na azimix sa ukiingia kitchen you meet a pile of viombos........ We've fought about it adi nimechoka 😭😭😭😭😭😭..
@wanguigrace2957
@wanguigrace2957 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh you look so gorgeous babes!!! ♥️ Lornzie.. ponytails look good on you
@MatwanaMatatuCulture
@MatwanaMatatuCulture 3 жыл бұрын
Discussion about finances and chores is very important
@samiyamya1121
@samiyamya1121 3 жыл бұрын
Ivy's face when kina lornzie and shikie were talking about number 2ing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@apriljoy5754
@apriljoy5754 3 жыл бұрын
Never related more to Ivy🤣😂💃🏾. 🥂 To the bruh girls
@evanskariuki1214
@evanskariuki1214 3 жыл бұрын
For us money isn’t a problem. We have consolidated everything and achieved so much together. Hapo kwa sleep over, we’ve had to negotiate and come to a consensus. Don’t move in with anyone unless you’re sure. Being sure involves having uncomfortable conversations on money, what you both want for the future, projects you want to do together among other things
@yvoonneouma8703
@yvoonneouma8703 3 жыл бұрын
I just turned 22years 2months ago and am already learning alot from you guys, thank you soo much❤
@claireelijah
@claireelijah 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎊... Kindly Subscribe
@cessngesh9403
@cessngesh9403 3 жыл бұрын
From my experience, moving in with a boyfriend is just clownery and fuckery 😂😂 just don't do it 🤣🤣 I learnt the hard way. Finally in my own house and have never been happier
@naomi3781
@naomi3781 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I'm chatting with my elder sisters...love you guys
@moseskamwigu
@moseskamwigu 3 жыл бұрын
Kwani ni mimi ndume pekeangu uku? 😂. You dolls got some opium kinda content 🙌👌
@ianwesley2569
@ianwesley2569 3 жыл бұрын
Delete hii kitu wewe. Hatufai ku comment 😂😂
@angelaashiono6345
@angelaashiono6345 3 жыл бұрын
@@ianwesley2569 there's no harm😅
@the.victorgeorge
@the.victorgeorge 3 жыл бұрын
We were silently following until now😂😂
@moseskamwigu
@moseskamwigu 3 жыл бұрын
@@the.victorgeorge 😂😂👊🏾👊🏾
@ikb8373
@ikb8373 3 жыл бұрын
@@the.victorgeorge banaa...this guy blew our cover
@lennie007
@lennie007 3 жыл бұрын
Even after marriage you dont know where the relationship is going so just move in anyway
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
NOP! 🙅🏾‍♀️ Bad idea
@kakkoifly8980
@kakkoifly8980 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@justdoit710
@justdoit710 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@wambuikiiru2474
@wambuikiiru2474 3 жыл бұрын
Bad idea, Marriage is a serious committment, thats why you get that cert to make it legal if things go south, there is a legal way of division etc cant say the same for boyfriend, girlfriend
@laureenamondi6913
@laureenamondi6913 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@wanjikumahugu9662
@wanjikumahugu9662 3 жыл бұрын
Monday made.....Julia please dont leave again 🤣🤣
@morinenyawira946
@morinenyawira946 3 жыл бұрын
she is the life of the party
@kimberlee9312
@kimberlee9312 3 жыл бұрын
I love Ivy and her mood💯pure resonance of being the extremely happy to one
@lucywambui8072
@lucywambui8072 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you can be sure like you've dated fir over 3yrs and along the way you just discover you're both in a different space despite living together and it starts to get toxic.Life just doesn't have guarantees😭😭
@findinglela
@findinglela 3 жыл бұрын
I need to get your experience. That would save me much time I would waste in a rshp going nowhere
@Jameskarundu
@Jameskarundu 3 жыл бұрын
That point on house improvement hit home.
@kijana2030
@kijana2030 3 жыл бұрын
I like Ivy's eyes 👀 when she laughs 😄
@amandaamanye2922
@amandaamanye2922 3 жыл бұрын
From a Ugandan view,a guy takes care of the lady and every home bill plus give the lady money for groceries. This money issue would be a new world for Ugandan girls.
@sandrasashaeveta422
@sandrasashaeveta422 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I'm half Ugandan and no no 😅 we don't all have this opinion
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
My dear, I’m a Ugandan lady but I don’t agree with your view. Things changed along time ago....Couples share bills. That type of mentality was left for slay queens 😂😂 not a lady who wants to build a home with her husband or boyfriend. Responsible ladies lately do support their partners & help each other to grow & run their homes plus businesses or investments.
@winnieeldama4687
@winnieeldama4687 3 жыл бұрын
lm Ugandan but l do disagree with that
@kihiuwanjira6921
@kihiuwanjira6921 3 жыл бұрын
Dont know how i bumped to this video but i can relate...When my hubby does the cooking,i find the sink is full of utensils...You just earned yourself a new sub. Good content.
@mochaleaves
@mochaleaves 3 жыл бұрын
I once got a period while chiling with female and male friends and because I didnt feel it I stained myself and the chair I was sitting on. When I went to the loo one of the guys quickly wiped the chair with a handkerchief and sat on it to avoid others seeing it 😁
@faithmu8405
@faithmu8405 3 жыл бұрын
Bless his soul!
@diannaachando9160
@diannaachando9160 3 жыл бұрын
That is the kind of man I will try to raise my son to be
@tinamweru2583
@tinamweru2583 3 жыл бұрын
That's a keeper
@makenafaith5756
@makenafaith5756 3 жыл бұрын
OMG😭
@teejay9071
@teejay9071 3 жыл бұрын
Aww.....did you get his number you share 😜😜
@nompilokhanyile8100
@nompilokhanyile8100 3 жыл бұрын
I love your guys' content. Sending love from South Africa 🤗
@bintimrembo
@bintimrembo 3 жыл бұрын
Love right back, SA!
@marionyano9746
@marionyano9746 3 жыл бұрын
Such a fun episode, before I had a problem with going number 2, now I couldn't be bothered.
@owenkariuki4438
@owenkariuki4438 3 жыл бұрын
I said I was gonna wait until I am over 25 to sub to the channel BUT I can't wait that long so here is a new sub! Love the video!
@cateshiru9253
@cateshiru9253 3 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂
@tracythriving
@tracythriving 3 жыл бұрын
I have laughed so hard watching this. I also think this cohabiting thing can go either-way, it is a matter of luck, actually. However, listen to your gut when you are sober. #primecontent.
@nailah3492
@nailah3492 3 жыл бұрын
I think one shouldn't move in with a guy till you are officially married my opinion though .
@OnelineadaywithLaura
@OnelineadaywithLaura 3 жыл бұрын
I am not married and I'm moved with my boyfriend for 4 years...he doesn't give a f... for asking me after 8 years...I'm so disapointed and even I don't belive in marriage I think it's better to not move until marriage.
@WanguiGathogo
@WanguiGathogo 3 жыл бұрын
i agree. however, you can move in with your boyfriend once you are sure of where the relationship is heading. has he met your family, are there plans for traditional ceremonies. that level of commitment is necessary. but if you are just dating, no plans in sight, then stay alone.
@nailah3492
@nailah3492 3 жыл бұрын
@@WanguiGathogo with love I always feel you can't be sure aki maajabu nimejionea na mapenzi machooos Tu
@doriswandia6781
@doriswandia6781 3 жыл бұрын
@@WanguiGathogo you can't be sure
@gakiikinoti4514
@gakiikinoti4514 3 жыл бұрын
@@OnelineadaywithLaura watch Asha Christina She says moving in could crample a good relationship Sometimes the man could be seeing you as a roommate if he doesn't love you.
@philipokoth4218
@philipokoth4218 3 жыл бұрын
Nice to have an insight into how women think. But I find it odd for women to want to take back a gift they bought for you; if a man did the same, the backlash.
@mercylinejohn
@mercylinejohn 3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait for that silver button....i see that 100k subs coming...YOU DESERVE IT!!!! keep winning ladies.
@biwotisaac9851
@biwotisaac9851 3 жыл бұрын
How to sort number 2 problem. Just make it clear to her that you are headed for war she will be prepared both psychologically and emotionally😂😂😂😂😂
@risperachieng1199
@risperachieng1199 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@biwotisaac9851
@biwotisaac9851 3 жыл бұрын
@@risperachieng1199🤣🤣🤣
@margiemusyoka9640
@margiemusyoka9640 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 aii
@SoAnesu
@SoAnesu 3 жыл бұрын
If it’s a permanent thing just wait to get married... why the rush?
@Scarlett_witch616
@Scarlett_witch616 3 жыл бұрын
Bought a whole non stick pan....Jules you're not alone.... Things we do for love mahn
@varchellecandace6846
@varchellecandace6846 3 жыл бұрын
I really wanted shikkie to prank you guys or shiv on the water breaking 🥰💛congrats my favourite over 25 girl
@tokyococo6996
@tokyococo6996 3 жыл бұрын
Lornzie is so cuteee 😭😭❤️
@Gem17211
@Gem17211 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't help subscribing to get more of this... Your vibe is lit and contagious... What I like most is how real you guys are even with each other its a rare thing having that esp with ladies.... Ivy big up rep - bruh chics😉😆
@jadevanessawambui1692
@jadevanessawambui1692 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Ivy is soo open😆😆😆
@lizziewanene6942
@lizziewanene6942 3 жыл бұрын
Aki Lonzie is a mindful lover. . . .love this dame!
@olivekabisa2914
@olivekabisa2914 3 жыл бұрын
When Julia said, "coz me I thought I knew babe," on 37:41! YOH! Imeniaffect! Imeninyonga! :)
@WanguiGathogo
@WanguiGathogo 3 жыл бұрын
Such a timely video for me. I am yet to live with mine but I can relate to everything you've said. I am comfortable with his number 2 and he is as well. We've had the financial talk and I'm glad we did earlier on. House improvement ni mwanamke for sure and so is what you are gonna have for dinner.
@karenmburu6888
@karenmburu6888 3 жыл бұрын
Am glad you chose to comment. I needed to hear this because sis we are in the same boat about this video being timely.
@lucynjoki3807
@lucynjoki3807 3 жыл бұрын
That bit on us selecting dinner is so true. I always ask out of courtesy but after I've already decided what we'll have
@evewandaka8630
@evewandaka8630 3 жыл бұрын
Great episode kama kawaida.... I feel like the expectations of sex and monogamy would have been a great lesson. There is a KZbin channel called The Ellises and a subsection called Couch Conversations where they talked about sex drive of niggas and how we as women want and sometimes even need our men to be monogamous and vice versa but then when it comes down to it (we can't keep up with their sexual needs) and so it becomes an issue because he can only have sex with you, you know... Until the point where the convo also goes on to say it's also physically taxing on women with the delicate nature of our vaginas, frequently contracting UTIs, yeast infections because you'll get treated but because he's asymptomatic he will not get tested and he will continue to re-infect you and sooooo much more but yeah sexual needs and wants when you are living with a man definitely change and issa whole new dynamic....
@agwataslifecaptured4972
@agwataslifecaptured4972 3 жыл бұрын
Very informative
@MatwanaMatatuCulture
@MatwanaMatatuCulture 3 жыл бұрын
Moving in into a new house is advisable as much as one or both parties might have their own place
@neemaochieng
@neemaochieng 3 жыл бұрын
Hahah i resonate with everything eh. My boyfriend moved in to mine. We had no talk about it whatsover, i look back and all i can say is just DON'T do it!!! Wueh!!!
@_Sharon_J
@_Sharon_J 3 жыл бұрын
What happened?
@neemaochieng
@neemaochieng 3 жыл бұрын
@@_Sharon_J like i said, we didnt talk about it,.....he just started coming and sleeping over and suddenly all his clothes were at mine. I was paying 98% of the expenses. He was still paying for his house 🤦‍♀️ Then I had to move to another town, (was moving back home) and now he expected me to leave things for him because he didnt have anything just his clothes. I feel like, i invested in myself and he was just there and expected to 'inherit' most things, then i start over coz im going to my parents house. Also, i got cheated on by the same person over the same period he was staying at mine. Imo, from my experience i wouldnt do it again, and wouldnt advice anyone to. Also, i think talking about it would have made things better.....maybe. there was many grey areas.
@martinmwangi5504
@martinmwangi5504 3 жыл бұрын
Lol! The bit about how people arrange things in the kitchen or around the house tends to be a gender myth. A number of men are super organized while their significant others may not be. More of a personality thing. :)
@thegurlnextdoor9269
@thegurlnextdoor9269 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree, my husband is more organized than i am which is one of the reasons we work really well. He's also a really good cook, thats why i agree its more of a personality thing than gender
@sharonmercy8032
@sharonmercy8032 3 жыл бұрын
Wah so so true...
@irenemueni2187
@irenemueni2187 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Kwanza Mimi wueeh😂😂
@aygeem1764
@aygeem1764 3 жыл бұрын
You make a very good point..I see this with my parents..thank God they had many hardworking daughters 🤗😂😂
@WILMA_
@WILMA_ 2 жыл бұрын
Mr. Mwangi, right on!
@OnTheRoadAF
@OnTheRoadAF 3 жыл бұрын
I think we all see how differently women in relationships ‘glow’😬😬😬.
@shade_ofnite7autopsychogra411
@shade_ofnite7autopsychogra411 3 жыл бұрын
Tebu explain kidogo
@sharonkimaiyo8953
@sharonkimaiyo8953 3 жыл бұрын
@Jules making the girls laugh😂😂 plus us,,, Please don’t miss out in all episodes.😍
@chantalivane294
@chantalivane294 3 жыл бұрын
Was looking forward all day to watching this! On the story of pooping and smell. Try using a match stick to burn the smell for me it works.
@teresaochieng6844
@teresaochieng6844 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched many of your videos, but this was fun to watch! One thing I know for a fact, No wife duties on a girlfriend certificate!
@ericmunyasa2992
@ericmunyasa2992 3 жыл бұрын
My two cents for most guys moving in together must have been discussed between the man and lady. I don't know about ladys but most men probably even women love their personal space I will not share it unless I feel ready *personally. As for periods unless a guy is grossed out by blood most of us understand basic female biology, periods are not really a big issue. As for dishes I am OCD stuff has to be inorder my mother is to blame for that ( this goes for home decor I do it in my own house ) but most men are not like me. As for stinking dumps or shit whether you believe it or not everybody's shit stinks I think most guys especially if you ever went to boarding school you have accepted this as a truth.
@mwangishee7453
@mwangishee7453 3 жыл бұрын
Eish are you single😂😂😂
@eunicemwangi4065
@eunicemwangi4065 3 жыл бұрын
so true on the personal space you hv to be ready to share.
@susankinyanjui7344
@susankinyanjui7344 3 жыл бұрын
Uko na Mtu tuishi pamoja😎😎
@ericmunyasa2992
@ericmunyasa2992 3 жыл бұрын
@@susankinyanjui7344 😂😂😂 your coming too fast.
@susankinyanjui7344
@susankinyanjui7344 3 жыл бұрын
@@ericmunyasa2992 its 2020 we go straight to the point .Tulifunzwa kwa women conference 😎😂😂😂
@fattysquats
@fattysquats 3 жыл бұрын
First time here. I'm so happy that Ivy has a deep voice like mine. Love yall!! #NewSubbie
@2009baglady
@2009baglady 3 жыл бұрын
This episode was the iiiishhh! You ladies are always very entertaining as well as quite informative! Your friendship with each other is admirable. A lifetime fan here, let’s grow old together, I’m watching all the adds too. Lots of love ❤️
@missmwotei4799
@missmwotei4799 3 жыл бұрын
Shiks I hear you and Jules. Hii ni kukua control freak ama. Even arrange the same plates together😂😂
@joanmerab8394
@joanmerab8394 3 жыл бұрын
It's Ivy with the wine for me😂
@Dunbury
@Dunbury 3 жыл бұрын
This is a fantastic conversation. You guys are fabulous. Please make more of thesecoz a lot of young women are getting into relationships and winging it. Information like this is a good guide. Y'all are awesome.
@OnelineadaywithLaura
@OnelineadaywithLaura 3 жыл бұрын
I need this. We have a huge "fight" after 4 years in the same house and 8 years of relationship. And all because we don't save enough money. He left me like a tornado not even thinking it's not only my fault.
@moseskamwigu
@moseskamwigu 3 жыл бұрын
Left like a what? 😂🤣🤣😆. I love that.
@OnelineadaywithLaura
@OnelineadaywithLaura 3 жыл бұрын
@@moseskamwigu 😊
@chiku4082
@chiku4082 3 жыл бұрын
Research shows that in most cohabitation relationships, women tend to foot more of the bills and support the financial expenses of the household more than men in actual married relationships. Thus, cohabitative relationships tend to be the second poorest cohort financially in many societies...the worst off being female led single parent households. So yours was part of the statistic unfortunately. Look it up. Cohabitation is not equal to marriage
@OnelineadaywithLaura
@OnelineadaywithLaura 3 жыл бұрын
@@chiku4082 Wow thank you. I didn't know this. 😯
@cikanyoro
@cikanyoro 3 жыл бұрын
The thing for periods is true...had a gal roomie once and she would sometimes leave the bathroom bloody. I used to find it disturbing. Like leave the toilet clean.
@linetmwangi6935
@linetmwangi6935 3 жыл бұрын
Ivy isn't talking apo kwa eggs because she loves eggs😂😂
@Tata-bd9nx
@Tata-bd9nx 3 жыл бұрын
I remember she loves eggs tooo..Just like me.I actually hadnt noticed i usually use any available cup to bet my eggs.Guilty..lol
@linetmwangi6935
@linetmwangi6935 3 жыл бұрын
@@Tata-bd9nx 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kijana2030
@kijana2030 3 жыл бұрын
I use the plastic containers that come with Chinese takeout.
@kijana2030
@kijana2030 3 жыл бұрын
What's the problem with eggs? First I'm hearing of this.
@vivianochieng7411
@vivianochieng7411 3 жыл бұрын
NO SHAME AROUND PERIODS! At all. What Jules said!!!!!
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