Karrueche Tran: "The Man I Loved Hurt Me and Betrayed Me" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN

Aspiring model and actress Karrueche Tran says that during their tumultuous on-again, off-again relationship, she and ex-boyfriend Chris Brown spoke about starting a family together. Now, just weeks after discovering that Chris is the alleged father of a 9-month-old child by another woman, Karrueche sits down with Iyanla Vanzant to share her side of the story. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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Karrueche Tran: "The Man I Loved Hurt Me and Betrayed Me" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN
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[@daricnd]

when a man says "I'm not ready for a relationship/commitment" ladies believe him the first time

[@EmpressQueenB]

Amen

[@gloriaspratt2837]

Truth!!!!

[@daricnd]

Catira App exactly! girl run even if he pretends to love u n still doing all the "bf n gf" stuff- it still doesnt change the fact that he doesn't want to be in a relationship... men tell the truth when asked the first time and its up to women to wise up

[@carineblake5050]

true...right about that

[@kekelee569]

right

[@jadicampbell2879]

Chris did this girl wrong he cheated on her, left her came back and still had a child behind her back and yet folks are coming at her. She was obviously in love and was betrayed

[@lunaymaarman4501]

its true

[@gemmaaboagye7386]

is unacceptable .she will meet the right man

[@iseldahernandez9362]

it is so true

[@heyitsdestinee4932]

So tru 😞

[@riccasharmaine7165]

jadi campbell i was the 1k like✊🏾😂

[@SimplySteph.]

I don't get how people call her stupid and make fun or her and call her weak.. She was in love with this man and she made excuses for his mistakes to keep the relationship that she wanted to last.. People act like they never been in love and never been in situations like hers, where you make foolish decisions because you love someone.. it happens to the best of us

[@workingmom2687]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@SadiyaK]

+Stephanie Samuels very true ... some people just act as if they have not been through the same thing....

[@keishabrown3672]

+Daniela Dellavecchia she is a very well paid model. She was doing good before she met him and she is still doing good. Positive Chris wouldn't date someone who didn't have anything. I feel so bad for her.

[@rabeccaspoon1797]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@misshotii1]

+Stephanie Samuels frfr

[@user-ti5jw6rs4b]

Ever since I heard Steve Harvey say, “don’t let a man have to tell u twice he don’t want you” I felt that and I been going on ever since

[@tk567]

!!

[@MrMarla123]

Too many women fall into the trap of thinking their love will change a man. But if he tells you what he is, believe him.

[@samanthagrahamxo4942]

it depends on the man. if he's a man he will.. he will grow

[@damnmuggle]

Yea

[@valevaleria9425]

Thank you 👌❤️

[@saif162]

How could you lose her smh, she's gorgeous

[@oscarortiz4154]

It's not all about looks

[@SharonBoo0305]

+Oscar Ortiz exactly Oscar. Being beautiful doesn't mean you're not going to be hurt, abused, disrespected, humiliated, cheated on, etc. where do ppl come up with this logic? LOL

[@afqueen2809]

+Oscar Ortiz she's beautiful inside and out !!

[@Godly-Brat]

exactly

[@SparkleInMyEyes]

Right😯

[@glodielitious]

I really do feel sad for her. She's not the first woman that lost herself in a man. I hope she can find the strength to love herself before she loves a man

[@denchbruv523]

Shes gonna get bak wiv chris yessss shame on u

[@shericewillis1006]

glodielitious Yes

[@damnmuggle]

@@denchbruv523 lmao she found someone better

[@tyrondubois5253]

134567890. QWERTUIOP. ASDFGHJKL. ZZCBNM. 123467890. $!:# ASDFGHaJKL

[@gabrieljohn7381]

She is jus stupid and will continue to be

[@iiAngelic]

When she teared up, it made me tear up because it truly hurts to give all your love to someone and have them deny that true love, even if you're willing to wait.

[@darleneachille491]

It’s True!

[@shaunsuper4485]

Looool, try being a guy

[@ashlyb.3208]

she's a psychologist, its her job be honest with her and get her to face the facts and get a deeper understanding.

[@nunyabiz2854]

Thank you finally someone gets her.

[@biobelewilliam-west1310]

naw she's a lawyer

[@ashlyb.3208]

Ook

[@nuux1560]

We understand what her aim is....she's just not doing it well, so badly that she's doing the opposite. She interrupted Karueche at almost every vital point. There is nothing to defend.

[@sarahalci]

+N.A K Trueee

[@kanishapee7786]

I remember when Rihanna was sitting on a couch crying over the same man 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@strawberry10261026]

Exactly .. these guys have no idea what they have until it’s too late.

[@gastonseneza45]

I mean if he couldn't keep the Queen Rihanna, I don't know who else he could keep.

[@notsofamoust]

Rihanna was crazy anyway

[@edwinmugo7801]

@@notsofamoust 😂😂😂

[@psycherevivedby]

proves what a manipulative abuser he is

[@shierocshieroc3735]

She's a sweet girl. His loss.

[@kevonseymourks2790]

Nah he has Royalty that's his gift.

[@immortal_inanna]

Kevon Seymour #KS27 that’s his daughter. She can’t be his partner. She’s gonna grow up and have her own life.

[@kevonseymourks2790]

@@immortal_inanna You didn't understand my point. Because he cheated on her, Royalty was born and Royalty saved this man. That is my point royalty is like a gift for him. And Karrueche was more of a distraction than a real girlfriend for Chris.

[@mellissastjuste5497]

This girl is a liar and a manipulator. She knew that Chris Brown was still in love with Rihanna. He told her by hus songs, he told her when he was having threesomes with her and Groupies including Nia. she know what she was doing .She was waiting for her name to ring to be a celbrity and have that lifestyle. So she made sure to use Rihanna move ment to get Rich However Rihanna situation was real and her songs was making more money than Chris Brown.She is no victim.

[@femarieclinkscales8556]

@@mellissastjuste5497 are you forgetting the fact that he cheated on her and had a baby by another woman and what does this have to do with Rihanna this is about karrueche and Chris you don't know her personally to say all these things about her it's pretty obvious in this video that they loved each other and she was hurt by what he did

[@libfinejue]

And Chris said girls ain't loyal.

[@Crystal-HR]

+Mary Page!!!! Exactly...and apparently he wants her back,as if he even deserves her...

[@harrymiller5754]

He said “these hoes are not loyal” not girls.

[@demileigh347]

Melody Rose key word: SOME.

[@ebonynash4809]

Men like him are the main ones always talking about women aren’t loyal. Cause they’re men whores themselves

[@sarahjohnson8514]

Mary Cooper That’s called projecting. He is a narcissist.

[@turtlewub]

Iyanla is trying to stop her from blaming herself she's guiding her to talk about how SHE feels and not make excuses for chris. She's not being rude.

[@teetee2732]

Agreed!

[@jordanscott2886]

Exactly! You’re exactly right!

[@aspirallingmess8319]

I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago and I struggle just like Karuche. We don't like to talk about what exact what we feel because we are afraid that we are wrong for feeling them. She doesn't want to speak from the heart because she is afraid of being judged. Even when I know I am hurt I always make excuses for his actions and words. I always blame myself and look at what I should have done. I don't let myself call him out. My friends are like Iyanla, they help me call a spade a spade, they help me accept what I am feeling.

[@roserey9064]

she's like a sweet lil girl, becareful who you give your heart too

[@dlsquad3010]

rose your right

[@kyannawilliams3844]

That part

[@raodenraoden9796]

She looks barely legal. Insecure men like younger girls, because they are easier to control

[@deficator750]

Raoden Raoden shes 32

[@swtlikecndy4119]

Raoden Raoden She’s actually older than Chris but sure, go off queen... 🙄

[@donotwatch5055]

It's so upsetting to see a woman who doesn't know her self worth. If a man hasn't done his inner work it doesn't matter if you're the nicest, prettiest, most understanding woman in the world he's going to end up disrespecting you in some way.

[@thatgirlchan]

LISTEN!!!

[@zanim98]

K went ahead and healed. She loved herself and Vic came through ready to love her. She's happy now. Fulfilled. May she never lose herself again, in love and life. I'm happy for her

[@Katlady001]

The raw truth is that she moved from one cheater to another but hopefully hes able to hold himself together because she had the same problem with Chris that Victor's X had with him. I wish them well.

[@christydixon1484]

Hey what happen to Tran & Quavo

[@rosandrah]

This did not age well 😩

[@tracymumbi]

She was not weak, she was naive. She thought she could change him, even when he said he didn't want to change😕

[@damnmuggle]

Truth

[@queennefertiti3686]

That was a little stupid and not listening to what he said and showed her was worst. Honestly, if he was a regular guy that didn't have that money. She wouldn't have stayed

[@knowledgeiskey6544]

@@queennefertiti3686 I agree

[@bambinoesu]

We are all a sucker for love, that's when reality has to kick in and teach us a lesson

[@thegiftedseer6764]

She wasn't naive either.

[@Lizdep]

It just proves that no matter how beautiful you are, if a man doesn't want you or want what you want from the relationship HE WILL CHEAT. It sucks because there are so many men out there who would love to give her what she wants/deserves but she didn't love and respect herself enough to see that there are better men out there.

[@megami7373]

Liz Peralta well yeah. just because somebody is attractive, doesn’t mean that they can’t hurt anyone or be hurt. like society acts so surprised when attractive people are hurt in relationships because “how could anyone do this to someone this beautiful / handsome?” . it’s so weird and makes no sense, as if being fine is supposed make you immune to pain / disappointment.

[@gabrieljohn7381]

@Richard Byfield you spoke with a lot of wisdom i respect u

[@megami7373]

Richard Byfield men do the exact same thing, humans period do it.

[@gregehirim9974]

Richard Byfield oh man you really gave some good insights here, are you a life coach or sum...😁 anyway, respect💪

[@mouna3242]

Karrueche is settling for Chris Brown, he isn't the type of person she wants to marry, but because she loves him she's settling for less than what she deserves. Nice girls who want to settle down like Karrueche, need to stay away from guys like Chris Brown who just want to have fun, and don't take commitment seriously. I feel so bad for Karrueche.

[@andrewakers6944]

It is that Chris is bad guy or thinks commitment is a joke it is just that he is a normal young black man he loves his fun and is still enjoying being young and right now marriage type commitment is something he is not quite ready for

[@andrewakers6944]

It is that Chris is bad guy or thinks commitment is a joke it is just that he is a normal young black man he loves his fun and is still enjoying being young and right now marriage type commitment is something he is not quite ready for

[@myat.9373]

+Andrew Akers honey boo child Light Skinned young Man Repeat Light Skinned Young man LIGHT SKINNED

[@5slumsD]

+Mya T. what that oppose to mean

[@sunnylee81]

+Devyn Williamson *supposed

[@Ril014]

This lady interviewing her is going wayyy to hard for no reason

[@karizmaw6237]

That's her job lol, she is in some type of therapy, you need to do your research.

[@alienc]

This is actually how legit therapy works or goes. I know on camera it looks very cheesy and overdone but then that just means that this was actually legit and not a staged KZbin/Television clip/bit. Source: I have personally been to counselling and therapy but for other issues (other than dating or relationship problems) mostly personal issues i.e depression/anxiety/grief/loss of life-happiness/stress/etc

[@karizmaw6237]

Zac Efron Like the person above you said, that's how therapy works.

[@Ril014]

Holo The Wise Wolf Who dis?

[@karizmaw6237]

***** Dang really lol

[@jordanscott2886]

A lot if people are complaining about the "interviewer". Baby that's IYANLA! That's her job Lol.....she always gets you to pull the truth out of yourself and face reality. Sad part is, this generation hates the truth smh

[@berlenskadesir6977]

Amen

[@Ladyjay083]

Exactly!

[@eduardodasilva1767]

There's a SMART way to pull out the truth. In my opinion, her approach is just too clingy....makes u wanna run away instead of open up. That's the opposite of her job.

[@sarahalci]

I know but there is a way to tell someone. Not to just slap it in her face. Like she already knows she messed up but the fact that the interviewer keeps spinning the knife in her chest it's not cool.

[@ilovetrevorsmith]

right on point Jordan

[@roxxylala26]

SHE sound sooooooo heartbroken...we've allll been there. I'm glad she sticking to her work and away from Chris. He did a number on her

[@VenusVoice]

I love how honest she was. She is so sweet. When she said "I can wait for him to mature" I felt a lot of women can share that experience.

[@ChloeMorello]

poor karreuche :(

[@jailine12]

Chloe!!!

[@tatianaowenx]

Chloe 😍

[@caseycorbett-west3476]

CHLOE 😍😍😍

[@manelmanel9635]

Always striking to see huge youtubers comment on unexpected content

[@StellaCharm]

right, such a sweet lady 😔

[@wanjikuk7662]

I always come back to this interview after my breakups...in some way it gives me strength as she moved on 😭

[@baybeeuneek89]

And she’s doing better than ever love

[@ChrissieLindsay]

"Just speak what you feel, just speak what you feel." Then shut up and let her, stop putting words in her mouth and using influential questions! Counselling 101. 😓

[@MrsTruthTeller]

But she wasn't speaking her feelings, she kept making excuses for him. That's a tale-tell sign of a woman that put her man before herself. She was trying to get her to think about herself first! DUH!!!

[@ChrissieLindsay]

+MrsTruthTeller She didn't even get the chance too though, maybe she could've if the interviewer had waited for a longer response and let her think about what she was going to say...

[@MikeZothansanga]

yes yes yesss

[@luanivaz695]

I agree 100%

[@funkeymonkey5533]

HONESTYT gale was forcing those words down her throat she was smothered. Gale WANTED to see her break down like smh

[@KushQueen9]

The power is not in the heart, it is in the mind. Our hearts are weak. We women need to build up stronger minds and stop being led by our hearts.

[@labelladulce5569]

You're spot on. The heart is treacherous. Just as it say's in the Bible.

[@slurpeasmr6281]

exactly . thank you

[@TheBlackPumps]

Thank you! If I were Karreuche I'd be looking at this woman like, woman, why you lyin! People, the Bible gives proper advice. "Listen to your heart" will throw you right into a ditch.

[@sandran.117]

+Abei Aluong AGREED

[@sunflowerpwr.8821]

I found that out the hard way.

[@alyciabagwell9633]

She's a young, beautiful, strong girl. She needs to focus on HERSELF.

[@gottalovetheinternet]

Ive got mad respect for this girl after seeing this. She is so sweet and easily pushed around. Men like Chris are awful. Karrueche girl we've all been there. you are so brave to do this show

[@brianajohnson6147]

One of the most beautiful women I've seen in my life!!!

[@user-FBA-1]

Really

[@celeste9473]

Same

[@missj3434]

Yup. And the great thing about is she seems that way inside too.

[@dericknotderek]

Exactly

[@terrimartin2807]

I gave my everything to a man that I thought was going to be my partner for life. I stood by him and gave him confidence to start his own business and we moved away from everything and everyone we knew and I was there helping him through every obstacle. Bad weather, cold very cold conditions that we were not use to, even drove in black ice by myself to pick up his supplies, long hours in the negative numbers to do whatever I could to help pull my part. We have been all over the states and I was willing to go outside my comfort zone to do whatever it took to help. For him to come back to our home state and betray me while I had my surgery and couldn’t drive or be there for his very demand! I lost myself in this man, I pursued his dreams and let mine fall by the wayside. Now his with the one he cheated on me with and I’m left with the thoughts in my head where did I fail? What could I have done differently? Where am I ? Who am I ? How do I get me back? Where do I go from here? Why wasn’t my love and commitment enough? Why did the see me? It plays over and over likes broken record! A lot of prayer and telling myself something positive everyday about myself is pulling me up of the bottom of the floor! It’s not easy! It’s a process! I tell myself I’m striving to make it to that light at the end of the tunnel because I know it’s there! God is my strength and he’s never left me, even in my darkest moments, and believe me you go through some dark moments that feel like a cloud hover over your head that’s about to swoop you up! I called on payer warriors and I thank God everyday for them. I do have another chapter, and I’m stronger in this next chapter, I see me for who I am in this chapter, and I love myself again moving forward in this chapter.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Terri Martin,your story is too long

[@heebadeeba7279]

@@oscarwilliamson1264 you know, it is at your own discretion if you want to read something. Its called freewill

[@oriseht9234]

Praying for you sis.

[@sharonakello5515]

@@oscarwilliamson1264 😂😂😂😂

[@Rayv21]

Always remember that..After God fear men.

[@ShortieRides3]

Omg I can feel her pain. Even before she started crying. We’ve all been there. Love is blind and when a man tells us he’s not ready we think we can change him cause we have alllll this love to give and it’s so amazing. Unfortunately we waste it on them and end up getting hurt. Stay strong ladies 🦋🙏🏼

[@1st_b]

Mary S Then you blame guys for your own stupidity and suddenly he was ‘narcissistic, abusive and controlling’ lol.

[@ShortieRides3]

Chukz Fitness Well we live and we learn. Thank you for your opinion 😊

[@augustrose5]

she needs to be single so she can find herself

[@abigalewhyte2397]

True she loved him very much +Brittany Turner to the point that u see she lost a piece of her self when they broke up

[@Mimi24177]

steelersfan5 No, She needs to find Jesus Christ first, before she can obtain an helpmate. Seek first the kingdom and everything shall be added unto you.

[@Mimi24177]

Carina Lacayo How ignorant for you to think this way, you just as lost as she is. In which the word speak of ignorant fools.

[@carinalacayo6745]

Agreed.

[@abigalewhyte2397]

Fr thats true God first

[@sayehfbaby]

this makes me so sad :(

[@xScarlingx]

Shes so beautiful. I hope she's finally going to move on

[@thekidd5585]

I love Chris brown's music but damn when him and Karruche broke up because of the cheating and baby scandal I was really disappointed. First Rihanna and him break up because of the assault and now karruche and him break up because of him cheating on her and having a baby mama! I feel so bad for Karruche because people are making out it was her fault. Karruche seems like a classy and loyal girl I think Chris screwed up. I think Karruche and Chris were meant to be. I think she invested more time into Chris and his problems than any other woman.

[@thekidd5585]

I think Chris has learnt the hard way that Karruche was the one for him. I hope Karruche can move on because she can do so much better than Chris.

[@adamwatts2200]

Jas D Most ppl thought Rihanna and Chris were meant to be and look how that ended. The problem is Chris

[@jisootrash8820]

Watch chris' documentary. Karruche and him were broken up when royalty was concieved

[@PPPPSSSSCCCC]

Jas D we r so quick to judge women in these situation.. nd so quick to say... oh i wouldnt hav done that.. or accept that.. wen the truth is.. 90% of women would have.. we all ... no mattr hw strong or weak.. we would hav given another chance.. accepted him.. waited him to see our pain.. Ohh we r all sisters in this suffering.. lord..

[@greyalien826]

After they split up because he was having a child with another woman, all of sudden felt abused. The only reason she is still on tv is because she dated chris brown and tells her stories on wendy williams. And it's not hard to get a restraining order from chris brown if chris doesnt even want to be around you either. If you don't fight the case, there is no case. He fought for custody of his child and he got partial custody. If he was a repeat abuser with as much evidence as you claim, he would never get access to his child. NEVER. judges are strictly against that.

[@lailap9068]

I'm glad ilayana was blunt + straight up with her, because karreuche was clearly in denial about the whole thing..

[@Xwaterwicca]

Not going to lie when she started crying tears rolled down my face, because I've been there and I know every girl in this comment section has.

[@soursixteen3112]

Oprah interviewed Rhianna Iyanla interviewed Karrueche ABOUT THE SAME MAN!

[@Lovebirdd]

This woman is beautiful, she has personality, she knows how to cook, and she's caught up in a woman beater? I hope she can realize she's worth so much more than that. I know she will in time.

[@lovemyprince143]

I think it's kind of wrong and insulting to call her weak. A weak individual wouldn't have the guts to sit there & talk about the situation. Yes, its unbelievable that after all the things Chris did, she continued to stay with him but at the end of the day, none of us know what their relationship is like. From what I've seen in life, Sometimes when people really love someone, they do the craziest things & hold on to the hope that it'll work. I believe in loving something that has flaws, and that being said, I think it's obvious how much she loves him. However, it's probably about time she starts putting herself, and her well being first.

[@keryssaApril]

What do u mean nobody can know what will happen. He's irresponsible and careless. Status and money got to his head. These women who are blind to all this just want to delude themselves thinking he would change and they can change this kind of man. Maybe they can but but for long. It's like if they can it means jackpot!

[@keryssaApril]

taurus ap *not for long

[@adaobiezeodum3913]

Exactly! Love this!

[@jessicah6597]

Love this!

[@damnmuggle]

Thank you!!

[@actortanisharachelle]

I can understand how people may feel as though Iyanla was trying to manipulate the interview; however, Karrueche wasn't going deep enough. I felt like Karrueche was skating over the real issues. If you want true counseling, you have to be transparent and completely open up about your feelings and why you feel that way. If you don't expose your true feelings, counseling won't be as effective. I agreed with how Iyanla was coaching her. Don't just say your truth, explain how and why it hurt you and what you could have done to avoid it. Most of time, we are the cause of our own pain in relationships because we avoid those powerful red flags as warning signs that something just isn't right. With that being said, I feel bad for Karrueche and I hope in time she's able to heal.

[@quintonmiller8266]

She did what she needed to do. She was teaching her how to get to the root of the problem. Everyone needs to do this, or have some one who can like her. Stop the thinking and go off feelings.

[@nigeriansista]

I really do like Karrueche despite all her haters. I hear that she wants a traditional relationship and wants kids. I just don't understand why she thought she could have that with Chris. He is far from traditional. Everybody can see that, even his fans, There are so many good guys out there, and she decides to be with Chris...

[@ice8889]

U are so right! I guess she thought she could change who he is and that he would see her as being "different" ...

[@sharon21924]

She fell in love. I guess people make excuses for the ones they love.

[@damnmuggle]

She probably thought he would change with her. It's not baffling.

[@baby_d777]

Watching this and seeing where she’s at in life now gives me hope. She was so young here, soft, genuine, such a dreamer. I’m glad she’s being taken care of now, she deserves it. ❤️

[@CindyValencia]

Hopefully she can move forward. Sometimes you just gotta have your deepest love be dead to you in your mind to move on. In order to do that you gotta cut all ties. She's blind in love, and deserves so much better

[@alexistyche]

Such a beautiful woman and spirit ....... smiled while she cried .......

[@ThatoImmaculate]

all she did was love the man, just because you are strong enough to walk away from someone who did you wrong, do not think that others can do the same. Whether you decide to stay or leave you still love them. She is a woman who loves a man that is bad for her, nothing to get mad about or turn into little demons about. Stop being mean it's disgusting and childish. Pain is pain!!!

[@damnmuggle]

Thank you

[@jhenerose5365]

You'll know you've found a real one when he ain't afraid of commitment of any kind.

[@StephTheYah]

The matter of the fact is that from what i'm seeing here, Chris Brown loves himself a weak woman because he is not man enough to be with a strong woman who will not let him act the way he does. It didn't work out with Rihanna who was not going to let that last for too long, but it's working with Karrueche who obviously has not enough experience to see through his behavior. If ever Karrueche moves forward, Chris will go on and the cycle to seek women who are weak and easy to control will continue. Unless he decides to change, because no woman can and will ever change him -- he will be doing this. Karrueche in general baffles me because she pursued into a man that she knew had way too much baggage, and continued to love him anyways. In the beginning she had a choice over whether she really wanted to be with a man like that. She KNOWS it's because he's Chris Brown because i bet if he were a normal guy and she did her research and knew about his baggage, it would have been no right off the bat. Karrueche had a choice. All of the signs of what was to come in that relationship was crystal clear and for that reason i do not feel bad for her.

[@lpslondonandherfamily2560]

Stephanìe Heart. the fact that she said she let herself down was the first real thing she has said and for that i felt her pain, cause for once she was taking responsibility and for that moment she was not playing a victim.

[@StephTheYah]

***** she's not with him now, and hasn't been for some time now. Karrueche continously, over and over kept coming back and still seems hesitant about leaving to this day. I never said Rihanna was any better or not on the same boat, any woman that was with him for a while is most likely in the same boat. thanks anyways

[@naimacalivibe2340]

To be honest right now I think (maybe) Karrueche would be a really great person for Chris brown and actually make him see wat he's doing wrong and maybe be an "influential" person for him. In other words when Karrueche said that she let her self down and all that I swear I got tears come down cuz to see how much she's in pain and to think that she loves Chris and yet she still waiting for him to be mature, really hurts me. I feel like she's strong and that she'll move on but at some point appear in Chris brown's life to help him out or something.

[@StephTheYah]

NaimaCaliVibe#23 I agree, she should help him but after she's controlled herself enough to stay away from him intimately which for some reason i feel like Chris would just try to manipulate her into giving in eventually everytime, and it'd be the same thing over again. I feel like if she drew that boundary she might be able to but that's a very hard thing to do when you want someone.

[@evelynchambers952]

It was sad

[@nataliepena7088]

WHOOOOO HIRED THIS INTERVIEWER!? She even made ME feel uncomfortable!

[@sparklejan3]

Oprah Winfrey

[@ReneeDreams]

She is a therapist and she has her own show where she helps people. Iyanla Vanzant has been around for many years and has a great story herself. Personally, I don't even care about Ms. Tran - I just like the advice Iyanla gives out. Yet, I hope Ms. Tran moves on and does well with her life.

[@wikipedia0]

Her speaking the truth made you uncomfortable? Lol

[@silentnight1820]

I really hate this comment..do you think u are greater than iyanla? Then go and replace her !

[@aubreyjames8795]

this isnt an interview, its a therapy session. how did you end up here o.O

[@crazy4corbinbleux]

This lady is making me feel really uncomfortable she needs to back off and let the girl breath.. she's basically breathing on her face and very demanding "CLOSE YOUR EYES, NO.. STOP TALKING, TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL.. YES YES" ew.

[@kerr1538]

crazy4corbinbleux yhh..like i felt kinda disgusted like whyy...and like i think Karrueche didn't wanna go so deep but like the lady was just backing her up in a corner and forcing her, basically, to say what SHE thought Karreuche should say..like ladyyy..please.. chill!

[@sharon21924]

Karrueche was totally blindsided because it was just supposed to be an interview not a "fix my life"

[@kerr1538]

sidekickin721 exactly..i totally agree w/ u

[@anishamason8862]

sidekickin721 Agree and she is weak, cause no strong individual would stick around that long for all that nonsese.

[@seanwatkins5643]

crazy4corbinbleux She is hypnotizing her right in front of our faces!

[@celesteosborne7853]

She is adorable and he found her at a time that she didn't know better. I remember being that naive at her age

[@upenngirl18]

You'll be okay Karrueche, unfortunately we've all been there! You're beautiful inside and and out. Chris Brown is the last person to deserve your tears.

[@eddisonsands8541]

Get a f****** life

[@ashketchum1377]

Man the interviewer ate her alive lol you can tell karrueche tried to talk her way out of a lot of subjects but that just didnt happen

[@bluestyleReal1]

iyanla is not an "interviewer" she's a motivational counselor who changes people's lives

[@sarabaig1900]

I feel so bad.... She's hurt 😥

[@Neverseenstars]

what sane woman would date Chris Brown after hurting Rihanna?

[@princedizzytoon]

Xochitl Rizo that was 7-8 years ago that point is irrelevant at this point

[@princedizzytoon]

Legendary Winner 9/11 is an actually joke/meme nowadays so people aren't 100% completely serious about it. Since this IS the internet, I will not believe that rape statement you made because there are multiple factors that play in that.

[@mariabrown6926]

She deserves better

[@TaebbO4]

You can tell that she's hurting even when she's smiling and laughing. I do that too, I can't help but smile when I'm breaking down sometimes. She's trying to hold back the tears by smiling

[@StandazjahGunn]

I'll hate to sit down with Iyanla. She'll make all your feelings come out. Even feelings you never thought you had.

[@_january]

Karrueche PAIN was so deep from that relationship.

[@MJ-pi2ci]

she's so beautiful

[@biebersqueen]

This lady is too controlling omg 😑

[@taram.4365]

IKR 😑 she's doing too much

[@Ad-Lo]

Loooooool!

[@laylagolden9632]

yh that's what I was thinking to

[@vickieseuula634]

OMG YES! frik

[@vickyr300]

Psychotic

[@queenbitch9422]

she is seriously so gorgeous

[@treeseer1573]

She’s so young it’s so easy for young women to be deceived and played. Every woman has experienced this.

[@princesskay8374]

Where the whole video at doe 😓

[@viXXenNiQuE716]

+Dannille Belle jobs with odd hours for 100 Alex" 😆

[@princesskay8374]

+Dannille Belle I definitely I have cable Hun and a a TV that was never the case !!!

[@bye230]

+thatskayy I don't think she was saying you didn't have one lol, some people out there actually don't though.

[@angeladavis669]

lol

[@jaelesilaba1404]

Yea i keep looking for it too never found it 😏

[@snicky82]

I’m sure she’s learned her lesson now. Sometimes you have to go through hard times to realize what you deserve. When a man tells you and shows you he’s not ready for commitment believe him. You cant change a person. They have to want to change.

[@Nandi998]

karreuche so cute i can't, her face is small and youthful and the way she talks😍 lol i wanna hug her

[@cassidypaige6078]

My man got another women pregnant and I didn’t find out until a few months after the baby was born.. that’s their own issues and my heart feels for her. It’s a kind of betrayal that you truly have to work yourself up from. Always stay true to yourself.

[@AshleyMintz]

"I need to keep you in your heart." ❤️ Iyanla is the Mama we all need.

[@workinprogress3329]

I can totally empathize with this woman, it brought tears to my eyes while watching this. When i first met my fiance he was the same way, didn't want to get married, we were both coming off longer term relationships so I was right there with him. Cut to 9 yrs later and he still does not want to get married, "its just a piece of paper" is his go to reason for not wanting it. Tells people to ask me why we are not married since I have not planned the wedding yet. You can't plan a wedding when both parties are not 100% wanting the same thing. It's what most women do, as Karrueche stated, you hope to grow together and expect your partner to mature and change their mind so they want to marry you. It rarely ever happens this way. ps. Iyanla is not an interviewer

[@alyshar2157]

she's such a beautiful strong woman, it's so sad seeing her go through pain like this. I hope she gets the true man she deserves

[@PingaCheese]

Man... two women on OWN crying because Chris Brown seriously hurt them yet he is still adored by people around the world.

[@PingaCheese]

OH that makes sense now. Thanks for informing me about that (:

[@yosi8246]

Tell me you’ve never listened to him and enjoyed it

[@quashawnmurphy1456]

We've ALL been dumb for someone before! Even if it was just once!

[@TabithaaLynnn]

QuaShawn Murphy Exactly!

[@amarige25]

Karrueche, you are a beautiful spirit. Your light is bright girlfriend. You are too good for Chris Brown. Don't throw your pearls to swine darling. This is a bible verse. Check it out. I'm sorry he hurt u. I know words won't change that, but I see your shining spirit and you will come out for the better in the end.

[@Zanderthegrape]

Lol, some of yall dont even know Iyanla, which is apparent because some of yall think her occupation is being an "interviewer". Read her IMDB biography and come back and tell me what this woman has not gone through.

[@JvNelsonn]

You can tell all through this comment section who isn't ready for change. yall too worried about how the interviewer got to the answer instead of her getting to the answer in general.

[@xboricuajennyx]

I feel bad for her because she's beautiful she really is. Someone hurt her and many girls go through this. It's not her fault, she was blind sided. Let's not give her fault, just help her out so that she doesn't get fooled by men like this again.

[@C.T.JRichEmpowerment]

She’s with Chris brown!! What did she expect ??😂😂

[@himzalvin4278]

She's gorgeous...

[@bel5755]

WAIT omg...is that oprah?!?! Sorry I haven't watched her in a long time!

[@electricladyland4421]

Yes! She's changed huh?

[@wanjikumwangi1]

lol!yes its Oprah!

[@deljean]

Lawd Hammercy

[@StandazjahGunn]

Baby Baby I can't with this today

[@kimkim9838]

I'm not sure if your serious or not

[@zanetasmith9954]

Iyanla is very great at her job. I'm not the type to open up or break down my walls. Everytime I watch her on certain episodes I really cry because she helps me through the television and I'm not even in her presence ! I commend her. Yeah sometimes her approach is a little intense but she's GREAT

[@shopperoo99]

Karreuche is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She reminds me of Jessica Alba. I hope she will outgrow this stage with Chris. Every beautiful woman have had their share of being heart broken. The only difference is that there is publicity on her case.

[@amandapink36]

She is gorgeous and she don't need him. I'm sure she can get somebody to truly love and appreciate her. She deserves to be loved by a REAL MAN.

[@teresaguzman9167]

God bless you K. May you one day find the happiness you truly deserve. And say "thank you Lord for removing this darkness from my life" 🙏

[@thekid8983]

She is so beautiful and seems like a great woman I can't believe he hurt her like that smh

[@longeomomolade3286]

"I feel hurt because the man I loved never loved me as much as I loved him!" Just assisting you Karrueche.

[@Pvang444]

I watched this 3 years ago & rn I am going the same thing Karruche went with CB. It’s is not her fault. This lady is telling her it’s her fault when it’s not. She loved honestly & was hurt and betrayed by CB. This lady needs to stop making Karruche feel like it was her fault that she should have seen this because men like CB is charming, builds a perfect persona & potential you’re looking for in a partner but will never be that partner in their life time. Narcissistic person, who gaslight you & manipulate & control everything.

[@bambinoesu]

Exactly potential and not the reality. Being naive leads to suffering

[@lah_bang2179]

OMG! She is so beautiful. Chris Brown is not for her. Hey girl wake up!

[@spoiledsandi]

LOL "Wait Wait HOLD ON stop the interveiw what are you feeling stop and close your eyes and let your tears fall tell me now". Dang woman.

[@Byunniq]

shes really pretty

[@Trenchfost]

he did this to rihanna and she forgived him and gave him time then he came to this goergus and same happend , if you see both of their interviews it really shows you women can be understanding , resonable , wise and forgiving so take note boys if she forgives after you hurt her she really loves A lot but it will mark her forever .

[@bluediamond5695]

It’s crazy how he wasn’t ready to have kids but cheated and got another girl pregnant and continued to have 2 more kids. 🤔

[@dribaby91]

I'm glad she got out that relationship nobody deserves to be dogged like that it's crazy the things we allow for love

[@toyacurry84]

I feel bad for her as a woman as I would any woman who's man has hurt them emotionally or physically, however she knew this man had a bad reputation and still decided to date him. Her mistake was thinking she would be the one he was willing to change for. I have a very difficult time feeling sorry for a woman who purposely decides to stay in an abusive relationship, especially when he is not your husband. I know it's not easy to walk away, but she is young, beautiful and seems intelligent she should have left a long time ago and find a man who deserves her.

[@damnmuggle]

Give her a break jfc you guys are mean af

[@nthomengmajara8575]

In life, you need a person like Iyanla who will hold you accountable for the role you played in your heartbreak. It's not harsh, it's not judgemental, it is essential. We tend to give our all to people who have told or shown us that what we want is not what they are willing to offer. How does a man physically and emotionally abuse you, lie to you, cheat on you, and you still want children, a house and a marriage from that man? That has nothing to do with him, it has everything to do with you.

[@leolady2314]

So true I'm going thru this now

[@nthomengmajara8575]

@@leolady2314 I wish you light, live and healing. It's a dark place to be in but you will come out stronger, wiser and better.

[@brittany90vt]

I love Iyanla like for real.

[@queensnazzy1]

Now he regrets it every day!

[@itsbritt9155]

Right, still talking about her

[@kamseumelanie5911]

Well that’s all he’s good at anyway..regretting his actions

[@celeste9473]

Smh he got what he deserved.

[@joeylee5437]

I have met a guy and been together with him for 3 years .... and after that he betrayed anyway ... he said he didnt break up with me because he fell in love with another girl, but deep down in me, i know he did.

[@tayloranderson8738]

I feel that was therapeutic for me as well. I was in denial for soo long and didn’t want to believe it. I need to do and be better. When he first tell you how he feels or his goals. Believe him the first time.

[@moniquewalker4763]

I know what hurt & betrayal feels like it SUCKS there are no words to describe that kind of pain💯

[@shaunzblueroses4024]

In 2022 kaeruche has grown I claim that GROWTH