www.nation.co.ke Pain of bereavement husbands endure after losing their wives
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@evidenceestellestar79964 жыл бұрын
If both of your parents are still alive , thank God and appreciate them
@ntfombiyenkhosidlamini82304 жыл бұрын
That is one loving dad. God will help you overcome all struggles and He has already. Awesome God!
@millicentsamapundo22414 жыл бұрын
amen to that
@ruthachayo80384 жыл бұрын
I know the struggle when all of them are not there , we've gone through it ....let God see His people.
@marymwangi30904 жыл бұрын
These stories remind me of how my dad single handedly brought us up. , he choose never to remarry, being girls, it was nit easy for him . I have this strong rapport with him. He is my first love and the man who has taught me soo much . He is my hero..I had just turned 12 when mum passed on.Long live my dad and these great dads who work so hard to fill the gap.
@ruthkamwi_youtube4 жыл бұрын
I can relate too🙏🏾
@beckyr28054 жыл бұрын
God bless him abundantly 💜 may the soul of your mum keep resting in Peace and you stay blessed too
@shaniquepaul4 жыл бұрын
Sorry dear 💗
@mercymuso83043 жыл бұрын
Sorry dear.
@pragz1004 жыл бұрын
Real men who never abandoned their kids and still keeping strong. My hat out to you gentlemen
@barbarabunya75794 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating a platform where people who have lost their loved ones can share their experiences
@joskyshams47584 жыл бұрын
These men are real and full of wisdom. May the Lord give them peace.
@jackyw19104 жыл бұрын
These men have been good dads may God bless them 🙏..I am a widow my husband Left me with two young kids who are adults now it's never easy in the beginning that's why I thumb up to all widow and widowers.
@joskyshams47584 жыл бұрын
@@jackyw1910 May the Lord be with you
@abbygael13304 жыл бұрын
Soo amazing
@susanwanjiru80534 жыл бұрын
I absolutely honour these men for their selfless sacrifices. May the Lord bless you immensely and watch over your children. You are great men!!!
@sheechege40844 жыл бұрын
So sorry for them, I was raised by a single dad and it wasnt easy but the grace of God is sufficient. Now we are all grown and he is out there ,no longer around like he used to,emotionally detached and maybe broken but God knows I love and respect that man.
@caroandayi74614 жыл бұрын
The group that is always forgotten "widowers " God continue to see you through.
@irenewangeci40463 жыл бұрын
Very true.we are the lost tribe in Kenya
@annemutua74694 жыл бұрын
I appreciate my mum for taking care of my sister and I single-handedly since my dad passed away in 1993.
@linetotieno21634 жыл бұрын
Dear God Pls bless me with a long life.. I dont wana die young and leave my future husband and kids 😢😢 Amen 🙏 I am so sorry You are strong men, keep going on, May God be with you all.
@Mafa__B4 жыл бұрын
That’s always my prayer.. Let’s it be in Jesus mighty Name.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@TheJakamburi4 жыл бұрын
Am the future husband just call me. You won't die and leave me just know that
@TheJakamburi4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful men here
@linetotieno21634 жыл бұрын
@@TheJakamburi hehe
@SM-mh1kq4 жыл бұрын
Amen you will have a long life ....
@lynelee58464 жыл бұрын
Women play a big role in the family i feel these fathers may God strengthen you guys 😱😱😱😱
@violetnanjala19994 жыл бұрын
I extend my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your wife's. I am a widow too. With four children. I lost my husband 23yrs ago. My children were very young and now they are at university
@antoniokwayamba24794 жыл бұрын
Take heart babygirl.God is in control
@wilsonogot70094 жыл бұрын
Usijali, Vio...am a widower now too n i just know hw it feels. U'v endured 23 years! Amen
@wangarimuraguri37954 жыл бұрын
Congratulations mum.hugs
@nadamata13034 жыл бұрын
Congrats mum,hugs
@beverlykadenge20954 жыл бұрын
Hugs sweedy
@mariacindie82624 жыл бұрын
I lost my mum at the age of 1 and my dad remarried shortly after that.... gladly God gave me an aunt who neva made me feel the loss n actually discovered I didn't have a mum at the age of 17....and now 22 n very Happy with life.... though it hasn't been easy knowing that deep down am different from my siblings
@leledladla16374 жыл бұрын
I feel you n may you find peace n closure of knowing that you cannot keep on having a heavy heart of knowing that you are different. For the fact that your aunt never made you feelnthe void that enough. Big ups to her may she be blessed.
@lilyfrankkiambu89354 жыл бұрын
Am very sorry for dat...am widow from 2012 .,..my hubby die on road accident ..my kids was 8yrs & 9mnths..am always strong for them
@ashcablee76694 жыл бұрын
I feel them,we lost both parents wen we're little kids we used to look at they're bed n we cry 😭😭the pain is permanent 😥😭
@rtsoca55604 жыл бұрын
Yes. I can understand. It is never easy losing loved ones.
@adongofaith73744 жыл бұрын
Me too
@priscillamunjita83164 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@princesssophievicsophievic7444 жыл бұрын
Bambi sry swtie
@juliethhouseofdesigns1474 жыл бұрын
I understand you I lost my parent between 9 -16 I remember going to their room and there was no one and till now am married but still that memory roaming in my mind
@favouredblessed26314 жыл бұрын
Am so sorry i lost my dad 11yrs ago i was 15yrs, our last born was 6months,but i thank God for my mom she is amazing strong and prayerful the journey of mourning is still hard, my sister who at the time was 9 she is into alcohol we dont what to do, am way from kenya am studying my mim is really stressed Please pray us and everyone who is mourning God have mercy on all single parents❤️😭😭
@machariajoanne15954 жыл бұрын
i like how they are honest about their experiences
@carolinemakezi59264 жыл бұрын
Death is such a cruel master, when it happens we are almost left at its mercy. For Christians we have the hope of seeing our loved ones again and find comfort in our God with whom we can converse and share our grief and pain. May God be your ever present helper in your time of need.
@rtsoca55604 жыл бұрын
I agree. We will see our loved ones in heaven
@a.muchemi43604 жыл бұрын
Poleni for sure it was beautiful to see men who stoond with their vows. My Big brother After 20yrs he is remarried, but all his kids from my later sister in law are aldults. I see him happy and we are all for him.
@agnesndumia17134 жыл бұрын
These guys are true heroes, Mutahi your kids will still grow.
@nahyialetomia92844 жыл бұрын
Mutahi is good looking
@naturerazzi7shi4954 жыл бұрын
Its disgusts me that 2020 children are been punished for a curriculum that is so rigid and so insensitive to the ever-changing circumstances of child. Curriculum should be fitted to accommodate all sexes. Dad can cook too ! Its sexist and out-dated! Needs an overhaul asp! Great dads u are a gem!!!
@JessicaAfricaOfficialke4 жыл бұрын
Women are taken for granted if you are reading this mad at your spouse for some reason, just forgive, embrace and appreciate each other
@stefwambui84394 жыл бұрын
Pole Chesaina! One of the greatest Zain distributors who really invested in his team's welfare and training.
@davidkimani37844 жыл бұрын
Great courage to open up, share such painful experiences. May God continue to uphold you gentlemen and your families.
@wahufrashia2224 жыл бұрын
I know the pain of losing a loved one 😭😭😭 am a widow for 11yrs now i hv two boys 23yrs old ad 13yrs old ad it has not been easy bt i thnk God for everything
@LeshaoL4 жыл бұрын
For men watching this stories especially the unmarried one I hope it’ll help you see the roles a wife plays in the family . A lot is taken for granted. Hope their sad stories will help you treat and love your future wives unconditionally...😁
@tettmoh4 жыл бұрын
How i wish my dad was there for us when mum died, though in my case they had separated since i was 2 years old but still he should have put some effort to know how we are coping without mum, the issues was between them not us, life could have been better if all men are like this dads. Watching this brought me tears cz i had to look for him last year April but couldn't even cry my pain out 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 the pain we went through, left me with depression, I was only 13 and the last born in a family of 3 💔💔💔, i just pray to God to please allow me to bring up my kids cz can't imagine them going through what we went through. It's been 22 years and i really miss my mum😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Big up all this dads and the one's out there who really cares for their kids. May God bless you and sustain you with good health, prosperity and above all happiness.
@julietboachieyiadom11784 жыл бұрын
This is so much my dad. I lost my mum at age 12 to a car accident, it's been 23yrs now & the pain never goes away. It's been God & my sweet, kind & loving dad who has seen us to this time. And now that I have my own kid, I miss her more. I see my dad still cry & asking her why she left him with us this way as if she could hear whenever he bows to pray. He's been everything & anything to me & my 3 other sisters & my only brother. I pray God bless us to be a blessing to him. He has done so much for us & still worries abt how we're doing with marriage & our kids. You are great dads, my hugs!
@bettyelizabeth43894 жыл бұрын
I lost my dead in 1999 wen I was 6 months but I thank my the almighty lord for where we are now, am now 21 years happy and grateful
@twosugars9664 жыл бұрын
This was a beautiful segment of honoring dads,wives and their children.Not easy but God has a way of hugging us through the toughest times.Trust in him even through such times when it doesn't make sense.I wish there are support groups for families going through loss.God bless you all.
@risperoseko62974 жыл бұрын
Thanks Daddy for everything you did since mommy passed away even myself I never knew her but u took Care of us since 1999 now that I have opportunity to do anything for you Daddy I promise you I will never let you down.Salute to all single daddies love you y' all so much kisses
@Sunshine_Amy4 жыл бұрын
May God give you more strength....Mr. Chessaina as well as the other men who went through a lot and still played good roles to their kids
@asandasam78934 жыл бұрын
We that God for making these father's strong and to be able to handle everything by not getting married again. much love ❤❤ from SA
@swaphiyyahumwali83104 жыл бұрын
I felt his pain when he said "sometimes i het out my phone "it has happened to me verymany times when i want to call my dad but then i remember he is no more😭😭😭😭😭😭😭my Allah forgive the soul of all our beloved ones who passed away
@beckybundi45464 жыл бұрын
I cried about the second dad and the daughter it reminded me of my own life I miss mom , sometimes I wish she were around to see what I have become
@christinewangari15984 жыл бұрын
I was raised by a single Dad I know it was not easy during the first year . I love you dad
@annsitymakena23823 жыл бұрын
Its sad Kenyan men seem to miss the wife due to wife duties she did mainly.
@pa7983 жыл бұрын
Love is a verb. Its the role they played as a wife. A woman is a helper
@akinyiomollo-musau32764 жыл бұрын
@Roger, (10.10) Nice seeing you here and sharing your experience. It's always nice to talk and share coz others get encouraged by such and realize they are not alone in these things. I went through this too... But I've managed to keep my head up and move on with the kids. Blessings Kwenu, all who are in this.
@annanjoroge18904 жыл бұрын
Teachers should know why children give some answers before punishing the child 👶
@connie71924 жыл бұрын
They shouldn't even beat up children
@fridahbirungi68833 жыл бұрын
This made me cry sooo painfully
@drkatendifwalanga4104 жыл бұрын
How is wish Dad would feature on this program.... It has been 5yrs since Mum answered the Lord's call. He doesn't want to remarry... His only focused on us the children. I thank God for giving him the strength.... rising 3 girls who are goal oriented ain't a joke... it is by the Grace of God
@abatetsiangela45233 жыл бұрын
So touching stories my God! I couldn't hold my tears back! To all the widows and widowers out there, Jesus is your strength, Holyspirit is your conformforter. Am married for 30yrs now, my husband was hit with a stroke 5years now. He is bedridden but I thank God I still have him. Life isn't easy but every day I can see a smile on his face because he sees me. Thank you for this programme my dear brothers. Angela Baguma from Uganda.
@mariancruz12614 ай бұрын
i salute every parent especially fathers , after loosing my mother on April 2nd . My world has never been the same again ,, may all our mums watch over us IJN. May they rest in peace as well
@nungaris46244 жыл бұрын
Very powerful !! Thank you for sharing your stories Dads.
@gracekyale43954 жыл бұрын
This as really brought tears in my heart,I'm happy to see strong men like you guys,may the lord bless you
@relaxverse39864 жыл бұрын
I see you're not wearing your capes today but I know heroes when I see them. I salute you gentlemen. May blessings and good health be your potions.
@akinyiomollo-musau32764 жыл бұрын
You mean there is such a group? Would like to join. Been widowed 19years now and had to learn on the job (totally new to me then) Left with 2 daughters.
@vickyk.m95964 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, the best gift you can ever give your kids is being present in their lives and allowing them to express how they feel. You all are gentle giants and it speaks volumes. I love how you engage your children in cooking meals and doing chores and that is how it should be. You are raising well rounded children so kuddos to you. I pray that God continues to Bless you and sees you through it all. It shall be well🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽
@loismuiru16474 жыл бұрын
Waa i salute u Dad's my God give u strength to big up the ,I understand how painful it is,I a widow for 24yrs now my husband left me with 2yrs boy & I thanks God this for, but too hard to be single, but mungu ni mueza yote,
@kitakaflora39484 жыл бұрын
I have been widowed for a year now, but its is taking a toll on me. Some one help.
@alicec65894 жыл бұрын
Hi Flora, The Lord is your refuge and your strength. HE HOLDS YOU AT THE PALMS OF HIS HANDS. You are in my prayers 🙏
@Zen-cx5tc3 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗🤗
@kemigishajesicca83324 жыл бұрын
This is so touching ♥️♥️Single fathers are the true unsung heros. I salute them👏👏👏👏.They sacrifice so many things to raise their children right. They are often judged by society wrongly regardless of the effort they put in to raise their children.There is that obvious option that society thinks is a solution to widowhood.... re-marrying. People forget that re-marrying is first of all, a choice and it doesn't necessarily fill the void. Secondly, the truth is that your deceased wife is in every way irreplaceable. I was raised by a single father and the older I get I appreciate him for all that he has done for Us. May God bless all Single fathers. You are special ♥️
@Mafa__B4 жыл бұрын
People always say when you lose someone that the pain goes away with time,I can assure you it’s doesn’t go you will just be heal and make peace with it and cope.. God bless all the widowers and give them strengths.
@jackiekabute61594 жыл бұрын
Ave been a single mother of one daughter for 19yrs now.....the far we have come, I got nothing to boast about. She is a 2nd year university student as for now....but all this, to God be the glory!! May the Lord give them strength!
@catherinesumner97084 жыл бұрын
Godbless you all ,I never knew we still have good men in Africa.
@glorialouiise4 жыл бұрын
My Dad could cook clean iron bless him.✊🏿 Black men do not appreciate their Empress neither their children.
@devothaniyukuri56194 жыл бұрын
I thank god everyday when I remember that me and my husband are still around for our children.
@edykirimi33204 жыл бұрын
My mum left us when our last born was below 2yrs. I was in form 2. As we continued if our last born felt hurt would go to 'report at my mum's grave' it's never easy to loose your mum. Myself didn't know how to peel even potatoes and my dad could not sleep at night. But we have seen God.
@goodmemory58934 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why but I’m crying 😭single parents are heroes ❤️🙏
@faithchebor96984 жыл бұрын
You are all amazing and trying your best, may God give you enough grace and strength to soldier on
@blossombenter56084 жыл бұрын
Moving on is hard especially where the kids are involved coz getting a woman who can take care and love ur children is hard I feel for these guys
@rayray81374 жыл бұрын
I know but I would think that if the person is loaded it helps ,coz let's face it if am childless am not using my money to raise Your kids,am just stepping in to help raise them so you have to continue providing for them
@roseshiombo96073 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@hisgracesuffient60464 жыл бұрын
Kudos to all this Fathers. May the Lord heal your broken hearts. And strengthen you in all ways. Your children and call you blessed.
@monicahnjoroge81684 жыл бұрын
The death of a loved one can disorient you properly. Life is never the same again, it's like learning to live with an amputation😢😢😢. I lost my mum 23 years ago when I was 13 and my dad about 5 years ago. The hardest things I ever faced
@estherlabaru73334 жыл бұрын
Am so sorry
@ekakhumalointombi52864 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss sir...May God comfort you...
@genovevashitsama38314 жыл бұрын
Am a widow my husband died in 2017 it has never been easy ...experience you can not even wish your worsed enemy to go through.
@wambui1854 жыл бұрын
Hugs dear
@felliesweetie4 жыл бұрын
Pole mami. Mungu akupe nguvu
@dorcasmakotsi21354 жыл бұрын
We appreciate great work you're doing,,God bless you all
@phyllisplays38114 жыл бұрын
The children should understand that their fathers need some in their lives and its healthy, they deserve to be happy, step mum will never replace their mothers but will help their father to cope with life a little bit, i lost my mum at the age of 3yrs and my dad took care of us for 10 years alone, but later we all agree dad need someone..., and we all needed mum to come home to...
@kentosh1204 жыл бұрын
Some step mother's ate evil, and control the man,I went through it but luckily i moved out.
@triciakaranja9114 жыл бұрын
It’s really sad when you lose your life partner. You men have done well really proud of all of you. It is well
@alajmialajm87943 жыл бұрын
Na kuna wanaume wanatia wasichana mimba alafu wanawakataa..waje waona wanaume wenzao hpo vile wako humbled.. may God continue to give these men strength to take care of their children 🙏🙏🙏 your my hero's
@eunnymbugua104 жыл бұрын
Sorry for these wonderful and strong men for their loss of their wives si kawaida mwanamme kuongea uchungu wake bt i salute them all 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Himpossibleinternational4 жыл бұрын
May God keep you all. Thanks for sharing your powerful testimonies. God be with you all.
@janewakariti42734 жыл бұрын
It is sad he says he had to learn the price of groceries and how to be home to make sure everyone is fed and safe......it shouldn't take lose of a wife to do these things!
@sifisosithole76564 жыл бұрын
Sad stories but information very helpful. Well done dads for persevering 👏👏!
@wenyma53494 жыл бұрын
Mr.Rodger Ogolla,my teacher.Such an amazing man.You ain't aging,good to see you strong..God bless you and continue to strengthen you.
@awuorwenwa56514 жыл бұрын
wow such a beautiful feature. I am glad the fathers are soldiering on. All glory be to God.
@melthrinas90604 жыл бұрын
Wow! May God bless all these strong men. 👏🙏
@agathakphiri13844 жыл бұрын
May the good Lord bless all men who is there for their children after the passing of their wives, your in my prayers always ❤️💕
@roselyneandeka20784 жыл бұрын
My sincere condolences to you strong men and your family's! I'm praying for you all. I didn't know some men never remarried. My own dad remarried after 4 years! I respect you all even more!
@wanyamuthimookariuki20124 жыл бұрын
Guys,,,you are doing a good job...may the Lord continue to carry you through...it tough we admit but God tougher than every problem we go through...take comfort in Him..be encouraged..look for others going through same,,,encourage them in love...they are your brothers....
@annanjoroge18904 жыл бұрын
God bless you guys you are wonderful and great 👍
@doriswangari20484 жыл бұрын
This really makes us appreciate the role that mothers and women play in a family set up. So important.
@savanna39854 жыл бұрын
It's great to give men/fathers a platform to open up and talk about challenges and emotions in their life, not the old day mentality of "men are meant to be tough and stomach everything" a good old cry is also therapeutic for them. Kudos to these fathers and others in the world going through challenges!
@polinekilengelu91634 жыл бұрын
Poleni sana #Dear Dad.so lovely and encouraging.
@amo27434 жыл бұрын
It is Very true men breakdown in tears but on their private rooms
@JJJJ-wx1yv4 жыл бұрын
God bless u all and guide r hearts. You have done an amazing job to r kids and am sure they know it. Lots of l9ve to u all.
@Vee.49914 жыл бұрын
This is deep, to my resilient dad you're blessed 🥰
@Dianaemanuel8884 жыл бұрын
That group is awesome.amen.may God be your strength always.
@beam-biblicalencouragement88124 жыл бұрын
May God give all of them strength and comfort. May God grant them long life and health to care for their children.
@modest89174 жыл бұрын
It's not an easy thing,I can relate when my mum died in 1999.Things were never the same
@millicentmusewe38764 жыл бұрын
All is well. May God give you strength & wisdom to bring up your kids.
@nardasimpson33334 жыл бұрын
My heart bleeds for every single one of these men. Such honour, such respect, such love in the way they speak about their decreased wives. Much healing and strength to all of them and their respective children.
@iamaggie4 жыл бұрын
Kenyan men, please respect your wives.God bless you.
@twosugars9664 жыл бұрын
Hi Mike what a suprise to c u here again??love from Canada fbk friend.i loved ur work remember?Sorry for your demise too soon.i hope the kids will get through this and become great!HW
@gracehellen23114 жыл бұрын
it feels so painful but may God comfort n strengthens you dads always, may live to see ur great great grand children, strong men💪
@priscillamunjita83164 жыл бұрын
Am praying for these great men! God's love & comfort abound in your lives.I personally have so much respect for you especially on the stance of not remarrying. Not remarrying is always the best option to consider when you have children. I wish you all God's peace, love & comfort
@naomif67744 жыл бұрын
What a programme! I know Ches (Bartonjo) Lovely selfless guy, never knew about your loss. My condolences to all you dads who are keeping it real!
@annefranciselizabeth38404 жыл бұрын
Kenya is my favorite nation in Africa. The average Kenyan has got so much love. Just look at these struggling fathers.
@keepondreaming12404 жыл бұрын
Where are you from if I may ask
@rtsoca55604 жыл бұрын
I must say that I like Kenya n's. I like their peaceful and calm nature
@hopeinHisgrace_official4 жыл бұрын
May God give all of you strength to press on. I lost my sister to cervical cancer April this year. She left her husband three young kids. The youngest, 2 year old girl keeps on asking when her mum is coming back from 'school' . Death is so cruel
@ntombindaba8064 жыл бұрын
Beautiful stories regardless they lost their spouse ❤️🙏wow! Wish all fathers were this loving n caring💕my heart is melting for the beautiful love they give to their children. God bless the more.
@shalom35224 жыл бұрын
Waooow, this is a group of people who are so forgotten. Thanks for getting into this very sensitive topic. I never ever knew my father was a smoker until my mother died. Then my father became a chimney. He would follow her after 5 years. I really pray that widowers can be reached in their grieving process. It is always not easy for them. They are usually seen as the rock of the family and society just takes it for granted that they can go through grief and come out strong, but they need to have people around them who understand the grieving process to stay close to them and help them through.
@mmantwathakadu29823 жыл бұрын
painful yet beautiful to watch, grateful of all fathers doing their best for their families.
@lilmatui_lovesrunning4 жыл бұрын
I basically salute and respect this mens.It takes courage and determination to accept what happened and make a decision to take care of their kids.How I wish these other men's who have kids and are not helping them in other way to learn from this them .