Hey guys! The link to access the form I-94 will be in the description box! Don’t forget to like the video and share 🤍 Edit: thanks to my “super thankers!” I really appreciate you guys lol, I honestly wasn’t expecting it 🤍🤍
@tawan34062 жыл бұрын
Hi please pamala I can't find link to access from I-94 , I will print it out
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
@@tawan3406 it’s in the description box; scroll down.
@PatriciaAbijah2 жыл бұрын
The sun is looking good on your skin
@timewithbel2 жыл бұрын
You can get state ID and Driver's learners permit with your SSN. You can always typ your home address in the GPS and it will direct you home. With several use of the same route you will not need help.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I eventually got the state ID. I didn’t have a sim so I wasn’t connected to the internet
@Blecyn2 жыл бұрын
Your hubby’s support for me ehn… 💯 Congratulations dear. 2022 is really yours.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yessssss ooo
@okonkwochinweanthonia40132 жыл бұрын
Hi Pamela, I love watching your videos cos it inspired me and got me ready for my own k1 visa interview. You remember me asking you sometime ago about where you did your PCR test? Goodnews! I got my US k1 visa and finally travelled to the US in June this year 2022. Thank you for your videos. its was very helpful to me especially. Am beginning to settle little by little in my new environment. I will just say that you should continue being you. I like your person.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn thank you and welcome!
@nyhabhattee2 жыл бұрын
After how many months your visa get approved? I applied on oct 21 and still no news
@okonkwochinweanthonia40132 жыл бұрын
@@nyhabhattee Hang in there, they will respond to you. Maybe they are still working on it.
@ibisodvlog57992 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@akinwalefalajiki49272 жыл бұрын
Me too she’s the only helpful one in the whole KZbin, I get all I want from her channel and guest what all this Crystal clear information goes for 0 $ thanks u Pamela o. We love your union
@ebitiollora.94922 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you settling in just good. The weather timing was so cold perfect, before winter comes you will be a Jagaban😀. All your videos are educative, inspiring, fun to watch and self explanatory. You touch areas other KZbinrs don’t touch. Thank you. 👏👏👏 Best wishes and please continue the good work. ♥️💡
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🤍
@osumanuinvestigations23752 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the USA. My husband is coming from Ghana soon. We have done the K1 Visa and our interview is Soon. Rain Blessing upon Us.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Wish you both the very best!
@ibisodvlog57992 жыл бұрын
Blessings.
@bernicedede46332 жыл бұрын
Which year did your husband apply
@osumanuinvestigations23752 жыл бұрын
@@bernicedede4633 we applied in March 2021, recvd approval in April 2022, NVC in May 2022, & embassy letter In June 2022. Interview July 2022. If u have any other questions please let me know. Hope this was helpful
@bernicedede46332 жыл бұрын
@@osumanuinvestigations2375 Ohk thank you,I have applied for B2 visa last month but I can’t schedule an appointment for my interview because they said the available time is 2024
@joysiamullin2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, i go he notification on my phone but didn't know what it was lmaooo,na as i carry my laptop now come see the thing, thanks jare i appreciate❤❤
@ogomsseries2 жыл бұрын
Pamela don miss road for Obodo oyibo😃😃😃, this one is osuofia in London.. traffic in Obodo oyibo too😳😳😳😳. Don’t worry you will adapt in no time nne.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆 na traffic light Dey control this one hehe, Omo I fear oo, I think say I don lost
@Kulungile382 жыл бұрын
Different States have Different regulations here,and the rules are always changing, so it depends on where you are and the existing regulations.I was required to wait for 21 days after arriving in my State. Nothing is same everywhere.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Good to know 👍🏾
@PattysophsticatedMoney2 жыл бұрын
Waterbury i live close by and lived also worked. Travel around there are beautiful towns here in CT over Waterbury. You will enjoy the infrastructure and environment.
@Slimphizzy2 жыл бұрын
Wow those prices are very low!! Your husband takes note of nice places to do shopping on average budget. Very nice!!
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed lol
@sunnypeter38132 жыл бұрын
New to the channel. Welcome to the DMV.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@lifewithchristabel2 жыл бұрын
Nice videos😊😊 do you edit them yourself?
@PattysophsticatedMoney2 жыл бұрын
You will do great. My husband is due to come soon and I will be so excited with what he experience in his new US home. You will do beautiful! Welcome and enjoy the journey.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@kikalitebeautyefeyini63332 жыл бұрын
Pamela so always happy to watch you, anytime I watch your videos I say to myself you worked hard for this and you're a strong beautiful lady keep it up.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn this made me emotional 🥹 thank you so much 🤍
@bloodofjesuscovermeandmyfa98482 жыл бұрын
Double blessings dear
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Amen oooo
@efelonge67432 жыл бұрын
Welcome Pamela, i wish the both of you all the best. I got deja vu watching your vidoe. I came in on the K1 visa 5 years ago. Just keep chilling, no worries as You will adapt real quick to all the highs and lows of living in American. You should shop at Ross, and Burlington they carry quality stuff for less prices. 🌳🌳🌳💖💖
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Oh really?! Thanks for the suggestions🤍
@lovlover132 жыл бұрын
TJ maxx and Marshall too
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
@@lovlover13 great! I’ll try these
@PELLAS-fashion2 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. Congratulations once more Pamela😍😍
@officialjoysia_2 жыл бұрын
Full size mirror issa must periodt 👌🏾
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Periodt!
@ikwuamaesi2 жыл бұрын
These thrift stores eh... They're supposed to be cheaper... But even the prices you called out are better than the ones near me
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Really?? I went to another one and it wasn’t as cheap as the last one, so that makes sense
@timewithbel2 жыл бұрын
I think it is cheaper at my end too looking at the prices Pam was calling out. It is sometimes annoying they want you to donate after making things expensive
@ikwuamaesi2 жыл бұрын
@@timewithbel smh asin
@JudithNwaigwe2 жыл бұрын
Is not screaming Pamela😅 Nice Vlog girl ✨🤍
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Hehe yasss girl! Thank you 🤍
@Trinilucian2 жыл бұрын
So excited for you! Huge official welcome to America. You’re doing the steps right this far. SS, and opening a bank account. And yes not quite to work, but enough to start your driving lessons. Lots to do in the meantime while you wait on the official legalities. It will come. But in the mean time welcome welcome....there’s no place like home (Nigeria) but I’m sure you’ll love it here. 🥰
@Trinilucian2 жыл бұрын
Not quite ENOUGH to work*
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Valerie
@lolastj2 жыл бұрын
Hope you are settling well. Your vlog made me miss Maryland a little. Welcome 🙏🏽
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lol, thank you
@redjewel832 жыл бұрын
New to your page. I love that you share your experiences. 🌳🌳
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaaay welcome!
@Simplyalbie2 жыл бұрын
Enjoy your new environment b🥰🥰
@IFEOLUWA-IJEOMA2 жыл бұрын
Hi Pamela, good to know you're settling in nicely... it's amazing to see that you both are now together. We always watch your video but this is our official first comment on your channel.🎉🎉 We are excited on the growth to your channel, we wish you both a happy married life. Can't wait to meet you guys someday. Much Love and God bless 😍😍😍
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🤍🤍
@chinenye.u2 жыл бұрын
Been looking forward to your American vlogs.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
They’re rolling in!
@chinenye.u2 жыл бұрын
🌳
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
@@chinenye.u yasss, thank you!
@maryjohn29542 жыл бұрын
You are such an honest person,don’t worry it takes time to settle.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@jasonandestelle2 жыл бұрын
The gym session was nice 💪
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Hahah thank you 😊
@ganiru13512 жыл бұрын
🌳😁 The early days are so fun lol. I wish I could go back sometimes because after a while everything seems so rubbish 🤣
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo I know right! The rubbish shouldn’t come yet 😩
@Banigostv2 жыл бұрын
hopefully the adsense gets sorted out
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks sis
@mehriean_o44022 жыл бұрын
Hi Pamela. So happy to see you together with your man and settling in nicely. I love watching your videos as they have been really helpful in getting me ready for when my application is finally approved. Fingers crossed 🤞🏾 wishing you and your family all the best 💝
@deebaby192 жыл бұрын
Me too !!! Are you for K1? What year ? Mine is this May … waiting for Noa2
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn I’m glad 🤍
@mehriean_o44022 жыл бұрын
@@deebaby19 Yes K-1. We applied Nov 2021. I heard processing time was extended to 10.5 months.
@deebaby192 жыл бұрын
@@mehriean_o4402 yes even to 13 months 😩😩. My center is California yours ?
@mehriean_o44022 жыл бұрын
@@deebaby19 California too Ventura 💃🏽
@shelisshepp-nduom38032 жыл бұрын
Glad you’re settling in well.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yesss, thank you!
@lifestyleofprecious2 жыл бұрын
🌳 I wish the both of you all the best nice vlog 😍😍
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks precious 🤍
@isaacjusom22682 жыл бұрын
Congratulations and welcome!! You are lucky in getting your ssn, what state are you in though?? Cos am in New York and was denied the ssn until I get my work permit.. I know other folks in other states who were denied as well... Also I think it will be best to link your husband's financial account to your KZbin adsense, you are not allowed to earn any sort of income under a k1 visa until u get your work permit.. KZbin depending on how much they pay you will report your earns to IRS for which u have to pay taxes on and technically you're not allowed to earn so u shouldn't be paying taxes
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion, I’m in Maryland
@isaacjusom22682 жыл бұрын
Oh OK and to clarify, you can earn but it shouldn't be from an American company and directly to your name... Else you are obligated to pay taxes on that income in your name... And if uscis finds out you are paying income taxes under a k1.. It could harm your AOS.. So best to direct your KZbin earnings into someone else account who can pay income taxes
@ZakariaSuso012 жыл бұрын
@@PamelaO Where in Maryland? Am in Maryland too Rockville
@kehindekehinde97192 жыл бұрын
Enjoy your stay Pamela .
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kehinde
@mike4dsp2 жыл бұрын
i did not know that you could apply for a ssn while on a k1 visa. Did you guys have a marriage ceremony already, i must have missed that video...
@Ebubechi_Anya2 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you'll settled in nicely. These things take time❣
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yes hun 🤍
@adabenjamin74822 жыл бұрын
Much love ❤❤🌳🌳🌳
@petersonkourtney2982 жыл бұрын
🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳Nice vlog I totally enjoyed it. Don't worry with time you will get used to that place. Love you loads❤❤
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks kourtney ☺️🤍
@folaflames2 жыл бұрын
Awww... Congrats Pam... This is all so beautiful to watch. I came immediately I saw the notification. Finally a long video 💖💖
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn thanks for watching 🤍🤍
@officialjoysia_2 жыл бұрын
The Amrika vlog that i av been waiting for. Enjoyed watching ♥️
@sophianyanful62192 жыл бұрын
Woooow u r so sweet when it comes to vlogging
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn thank you 🤍
@brenanice2 жыл бұрын
finally !been waiting for a new video
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yasss
@MissMaryMak2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you’re having a hard time with the food but glad you’re settling in well. When you and hubby were on the patio the outdoors looked really good on you 🌳. I hope your Adsense will be sorted out before the 3 months ❤️
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mary 🤍
@Olatoyosi_x2 жыл бұрын
The way you held your waist on the stepmill, DKM abeg 🤣
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo leave me oo 😩🤣
@ikwuamaesi2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 ready to wrestle someone
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
@@ikwuamaesi make una leave me oo lmaoooooo 🤣🤣
@abdu-latu15562 жыл бұрын
Much love @Pamela ❤❤❤pray you get settled well in your new home🙏🌳🌳🌳
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Amennnnnnnn, thank you 🤍
@rosemariescorner2 жыл бұрын
Now this is the vlog I’ve been waiting for! That mustard bag is giving! I wish you well in your new life and I tap into this cos I want to leave this country soo bad!
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rosemary 🤍
@viviansdiary2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad to see you’re re having fun and settling in well. Sorry about the Adsense issue. We live in traffic here in Lagos and honking is our thing 😂 All the best girl
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo thanks sis 🤍
@preshbyram1162 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy all your vlog
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😃
@Raetalkss2 жыл бұрын
Loved this!!!!
@marilynsaidu22112 жыл бұрын
Walmart, or Ross have a good mirror
@rebeccaawuku24412 жыл бұрын
So happy for you Pamela. ❤️
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@rebeccaawuku24412 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@cynthiaadams76892 жыл бұрын
Had missed you. This was an amazing vlog Pam. I'm glad you were able do some stuffs. Going back to the gym like you never left. 😅 I thought I was crazy when I don't like sugary drinks. I love big mirrors. 🤍 🌳🌳
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks hun 🤍 yeah I do not like sugary drinks, you’re not alone babe
@ikwuamaesi2 жыл бұрын
Wishing you many more blessings to come 💙
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks b 🤍
@euniceolawoyin10412 жыл бұрын
God will see you through 🙏
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Amennnnnnnn
@LuvlyGift2 жыл бұрын
Awww🥰🥰 so beautiful to see you settling well! Super excited for the vlogs to come 💃🏻💃🏻 so happy you’re with your man❤️ wishing you the best 🌳
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot gift, I appreciate it ☺️
@xtopherj1638 Жыл бұрын
Hello Pamela arrived California March 8 applied for ssn March 13 still yet to receive my ssn card,can I apply for Ead before Aos?
@ItsMaerii2 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed watching 🌳 good to see that you’re settling in nicely 😁 much love from this side ❤️
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks hun 🤍
@TammyTamuno2 жыл бұрын
🌳 Happy for you
@parkeranthonia12882 жыл бұрын
You're so fun and sweet to watch. " Pamela did not come to America to loss"🤣🤣
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lol yes ooo 😆😆
@tawan34062 жыл бұрын
Hi Pamela, how are you doing ,am in the USA now. please can I get the social security number before summiting the adjustment of status
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@omolaniayanshola42782 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making life easy for the poor people like me to live in it doesn't have to be designers like thanks hor your realness
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo you’re not poor, you’re just living within your means and that’s okay 🤍
@jummy88312 жыл бұрын
Congrats on ur wedding. Tk God for journey mercies. Welcm to d US. U should learn to be independent. Go for walks. Then u will know ur way around. Ask questions. No one can shut u down for asking questions. D more u ask d more u will know Good luck.
@selinamukka89992 жыл бұрын
Finally a long video🥰
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo, watch till the end oo 😩
@adedoyinfolashade46562 жыл бұрын
Aww. I'm so happy for youuuu
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Fola
@davidandchy2 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!🥰😍
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤍🤍
@tatianaeffiom80052 жыл бұрын
Hi Pamela, so with your social security number you can actually work even if you don’t have the ID/driver license. There are employers who allow you to work with the restriction on your SSN, they’ll use your passport for an ID. That was the case for my husband as well, we’re still waiting on his work permit but he has been working with his socials and passport as ID for the past 8 months.You can reach out in case you need more details. I’m more than glad to help
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Omg, I came across this yesterday but was skeptical! Thanks for clarifying, do you know if this will clash with the AOS??
@tatianaeffiom80052 жыл бұрын
No it will not because a fiancé visa is considered an immigrant visa which is why they give you an SSN in the first place. When filling out the AOS form just put the SSN number you already have, that way when it goes through they don’t have to issue another one, they’ll just remove the restriction on it. I’m not sure when exactly you came into the country from the day this vlog was posted but you can apply for a job using your SSN number, your passport for ID and your I-94 form. When applying for the AOS still fill out the AED form together. Since Things are really slow right now, you can be working while waiting for all of that to go through
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
@@tatianaeffiom8005 that makes so much sense, thank you
@tatianaeffiom80052 жыл бұрын
@@PamelaO you’re welcome
@Alwaysmediatv Жыл бұрын
Please I need to know more about this
@obi28412 жыл бұрын
Hey Pamela you can get a state ID for now, that was what I used in place of drivers licence until I got one. I enjoy following your story goodluck
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yess, I realized that and applied and got one. Thank you
@Anthonia_vlogs2 жыл бұрын
🌳 I'm happy you're settling in well... And yes I've always enjoyed your videos 😊
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
You’re a real one 🤍
@amkuatajk48872 жыл бұрын
Im May filer for k1, and we are still waiting (400 Days 😒) .. when was ur NOA 1 and when NOA 2 :/? So glad to see that u are happy there 🍀❤️❤️
@KashRoxcorner2 жыл бұрын
😁🥰😘 nice vlog hun
@Destberryspace2 жыл бұрын
I landed once I got notified Interesting vlog
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaaay thanks for watching
@yvettengom24472 жыл бұрын
welcome again Pam.Love you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Love you right back 🤍
@Banigostv2 жыл бұрын
See okrika de organized Nigeria my country, some are organized in naija sha, hahahhaha it's the JJC FOR ME
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@bagonzatriumph96702 жыл бұрын
@@PamelaO hi good job on your K1 visa God is good. Though one piece of advice if you can can open a joint account that would be cool. You will use it in the future as some of the proof for your marriage. USCIS may ask for things like that in the future it's not yet over until it's over. Just saying please don't throw stone at me. Enjoy your stay in America with your husband
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
@@bagonzatriumph9670 🤣🤣 if I want to throw something it will not be stone 😂 but yeah thank you, we’re aware lol
@ememobongnkana2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on joining your husband to be etc... I wish you both success with your plans. Since you can't earn an income for now, make sure you are very nice to your husband and I hope you saved alot of money when you were in Nigeria? Take care.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo, thank you.
@elonnaya2 жыл бұрын
Please what's the name of the thrift store you went to?
@NaturalOmaa2 жыл бұрын
🌳🌳🌳🌳 Lots of love from here Pam Pam💚
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn thanks hun
@blessingchukwudi15342 жыл бұрын
Hi Good evening ma'am I've been watching your video lately and I enjoy every bit of it ...cause I have a boyfriend who is an American in new Jersey US he would be coming this year to see me in Nigeria kaduna to be precise so I can start processing my K1 visa ...hope I get approved cause his way older than I am pls I have alot of questions to ask
@Delalisfood2 жыл бұрын
Well done dear 😘
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤍
@smallderick90992 жыл бұрын
You glowing big time I'm coming to Washington I wish I can meet you so I will be on your video.. Make mesef fame😂
@akinmolakikelomo62932 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁😁
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo 😆
@natashaessien2 жыл бұрын
🌳🌳❤️ enjoy your time Pam Pam
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Thanks babe
@parisdoublemc2 жыл бұрын
You 2 look so nice together as a couple 🥰i am so happy for you . Abeg any good single guy around in US make you alert me oo abeg, i also want my life to change oo like yours.
@Luxuryglow_tz2 жыл бұрын
Hello miss How long did you wait to apply for K1visa ? Seeing you makes me not to loose hope😍
@Deola.bellaree2 жыл бұрын
What state are you in? When you’re settled in you should come to Newyork! I’d be your tour guide lol.. welcome to The Junited States.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Omg I want to come to new York so bad!
@MissYenec2 жыл бұрын
I still have a year before I’ll be with my LDR fiancé, you give me hope❤️
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Sheesh, soon 🤍
@la_fanta57862 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy your videos 🇿🇲❤️
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn thank you
@officialjoysia_2 жыл бұрын
I like wen you said “it’s not really screaming Pamela” i just smiled 😍
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Heheh thanks babe 😁
@Dami_diary2 жыл бұрын
🌳Thank you
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
😁🔥🔥
@eustace78872 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂😂 Enjoy your stay there baby girl.
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍
@Dohyin_2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 You're so cute even when you are scared of missing your way
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo 😩☺️
@akudohemeson55612 жыл бұрын
Did u use finance visea
@frestanmil64742 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the United States I love your channel🌳🌳🌳
@chelseaguaman82212 жыл бұрын
Hey love! How long did you wait to apply for your ssn?
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
3 days
@akinwalefalajiki49272 жыл бұрын
Hello good morning Pamela o have been here for the past 1 week and 3 days can I always apply for ssn without getting marry yet, because the marriage is on the 15th
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Yes, as I said in the video; you would need your I-94 and your international passport.
@Vibewithfiona2 жыл бұрын
Just here watching advert ,😀
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
You’re a real one 🤍
@ogomaangela2 жыл бұрын
Biko we need dat bum bum to come out ooo🤣 Congratulations pam pam So genuinely happy for you 🥰🌳🌳🌲
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
😆😆 thank you
@Ebubechi_Anya2 жыл бұрын
A whole Lagosian like you PamPam 😆
@PamelaO2 жыл бұрын
Abeg o, before dem arrest me 😩
@thesogie31232 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you. You have given me strength in this long distance relationship journey. I'm looking forward to getting my visa in a couple of weeks so I can move from Nigeria to my husband in canada 🌳