This will go down in history as one of the most important speeches on homosexuality and homophobia in Ireland. So beautifully articulated. We've all had the car that drives past us, the 'look', the hand holding worries, checking ourselves at the traffic lights. I just can't thank you enough for this, Panti.
@Ennis855 жыл бұрын
"Homophobia" as in having the opnion that marriage is the union between man and woman?
@markcocanougher9105 жыл бұрын
John Carey Yes. Exactly. Choosing to define marriage, and the attendant rights it confers, as exclusively the provenance of a man and a woman is homophobia.
@Ennis855 жыл бұрын
@@markcocanougher910 What "rights" and explain how its "homophobic"?
@markcocanougher9105 жыл бұрын
John Carey Don’t be obtuse.
@bartwilson25134 жыл бұрын
John Carey no, homophobia as in actively campaigning for gay people to have less civil rights than gay people. She specifically mentioned that it wasn’t about people’s feelings. To be fair, she said that near the end of her speech and your homophobia probably didn’t let you get that far.
@jjlama94183 жыл бұрын
It has been, YEARS, since I saw this speech by Panti. I have come back to hear it again, because it is LITERALLY, one of the best speeches, by any LGBT person, I have ever heard, in My life. Love you, ALWAYS, Ms. Panti!!
@BillieJolene111 жыл бұрын
Thanks Dara O'Briain for sharing this!!! Wonderful! Will be checking out more of Panti Bliss!! You should check out one of my favorite queens from this side of the pond. Coco Peru! The ultimate Bronx queen!
@TheHazelHayes11 жыл бұрын
"A spectacular and neat Orwellian trick" indeed, Panti. Well done for highlighting it so passionately and articulately.
@bambis469 жыл бұрын
I am a middleaged ex housewife, 2 grown boys, 2 dogs, my own house etc. I am 100% heterosexual (even though I do sit up straight in my chair over some stunning women)! My life - is FAR away from yours - BUT, ALL I want to do is hug you! Give you a kiss on the head and say "I am SO SO sorry that you have EVER felt oppressive by some louts"! In my heterosexual opinion - you ROCK - and I am SO proud to be of the human race with someone like yourself!! You did a FANTASTIC job in this speech! Hugs and love!
@JackFknTwist19 жыл бұрын
bambis46 Great post ! Thank you.
@bubbly9126 жыл бұрын
As a lgbt person I am so thankful for that post, great to have a ally🙂
@stookinthemiddle5 жыл бұрын
If everyone thought like you, the world would be such a safer place.
@royjacques56503 жыл бұрын
Great Post i am a transvestite good to know we have some heterosexual people on our side.
@tommycorbett67697 ай бұрын
10 years later and it broke me down. I hate them a little bit for having done this to us and I hate myself for carrying it with me.
@toltschin11 жыл бұрын
There are quite a few people who've made comments about this Excellent speech, who were unable to hear what was said, too busy writing their own '500 word column' about what they don't like. Well done Rory O'Neil, your words are eloquently spoken, very meaningful and from our shared experiences. Thank you!
@AttackOfTheBees11 жыл бұрын
It's funny, I'd never really thought to label self-censorship as homophobia before. You kind of just accept it as practicality, but when it's put into this kind of context, it's mind blowing. It has connotations for my view of racism as well.
@storageheater11 жыл бұрын
It doesn't take many gay guys to say "Straight-acting only" or "I don't like THAT kind of gay" to clarify how strongly homophobia runs through everyone. We're raised to be straight, after all. What was also saddening is how much this speech described women and their rights to dress and control of their body, too
@amitcohen226911 жыл бұрын
That was probably the most eloquent, heartfelt explanation on what it is to be gay in a heterosexist homophobic society, i've ever heard. thank you Panti
@JDKelleherMusic11 жыл бұрын
What a moving speech. I identify with every situation that Panti has outlined here...of checking myself, of butching up (or down) as required, of being called a faggot from a passing car as an egg hits the pavement in front of me...been queer bashed badly twice. Rory is very eloquent and beautiful and very moving. I say Rory, because he shines through here, beautiful and glamourous as his alter-ego. Haha. "I don't hate you because you are a homophobe, but I sometimes hate myself because I check myself, but sometimes I hate you for doing that to me." Panti. Bliss. Bravissimo.
@elaineirish313111 жыл бұрын
Panti's speech is about oppression! We need more people like this in the world who are good, kind people! I teared up with this! Coming from Ireland and having a gay brother I felt a kindred spirit with Panti! Panti you are precious! Elaine
@Sidoniasbeadedjewelry11 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.
@TroyTolley11 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful person. I'm so glad there are people like this on the planet who can speak up so eloquently and with such inspiration.
@fnortyfnour11 жыл бұрын
Amazing, I will be showing this to my kids when they come home from school, thank you for your honesty and you bravery. xx
@snazzzzz11 жыл бұрын
I always knew Panti was such a unique and incredibly special individual from the first time I saw her perform in Belfast. This brilliant speech was a hammer blow to the last vestige's of bigoted, patriarchal Ireland, mesmerising in it's integrity and moral authority. So beautifully delivered, in it's enunciation every single word seared with recognition, yes this was/is my life! So moving, so powerful, so unforgettable, so important. Thank you.
@ProfessorTimWilson11 жыл бұрын
spectacular.
@Nakedolive11 жыл бұрын
Thank-you so much Rory O'Neill for sharing this AMAZING, POWERFUL, and INSPIRING explanation of what daily oppression feels like. THANK-YOU with ALL my heart and soul, your courage and DRAG are helping to heal the world. Much love and blessings to you and your loved ones, always.
@KerryLuckett8 жыл бұрын
My partner's co-worker is here on business from Ireland. We are in Chicago. He played this for us last night, and I almost cried because she thoroughly articulated my life as a gay child, teen, and now adult. No one had ever put it in quite the right terms, but you just don't feel whole when everybody hates you, and then you learn to hate yourself and brothers and sisters next to you, and then people, who are not you, talk about you and your life, as if you are not even in a body. I am thankful for you, Panti Bliss, and I will be seeking out more from you.
@jlcrowe8 жыл бұрын
Same.
@anthonymurphy302111 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. I'm 54 years old and have never been able to put into words, even to myself how I feel about myself as a gay man, but you just have, every single word. Never let your voice of reason that shines like a candle in the dark, be silenced or extinguished. You words teach love,compassion and understanding.
@iakovoskyrlitsias214511 жыл бұрын
This is phenomenal work, well done Rory O'Neill. Both for Panti and for your message. Many people will be forced to watch you today..
@paulcorrigan530011 жыл бұрын
lucky enough to have been in the ABBEY Theater on the night, super play rounded of with a excellent speech, take a bow Rory O Neal ( Panti )
@paulcorrigan530010 жыл бұрын
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@rhiannonoleary84768 жыл бұрын
i am doing a project on my hero for school and i could not think of anyone better than the queen yourself! you are a true inspiration to all of us! thanks to0 you we are eaqual:)
@pikachu268911 жыл бұрын
There is a God, and he has blessed us with drag queen angels like this. God bless you Panti, God bless you.
@deviljam410 жыл бұрын
And God bless you too, Pikachu. Gotta catch 'em all.
@pikachu268910 жыл бұрын
In his name, we level up.
@kevinwright50813 жыл бұрын
Idiots
@Pictonapd10 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I'm a Welshman in my 50's and you described my teenage years. Thank you.
@DJDanMurphy11 жыл бұрын
This is AMAZING! Thank you.
@paulineogrady00111 жыл бұрын
Wow. How heartfelt. You have certainly opened my eyes Panti. And I have dropped a few tears. Thank you. This country needs your courage and honesty. Respect.
@robyndwyer41082 жыл бұрын
Me too❤
@kathish11 жыл бұрын
Articulate, intelligent, reasoned yet passionate. Thank you from Canada.
@ThiefKingFlorence11 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech Panti, I hope you know that there are people out there supporting you!
@muscleboi4use11 жыл бұрын
This video clip is incredible, wonderful, inspiring, eloquent, amazing. SO much respect and love. Thank you for this... thank you SO much. Shared on Facebook, of course!
@DollyPopCorp11 жыл бұрын
Beautifully put! You are a wonderful human being, Panti :)
@YesItsMeGuys6811 жыл бұрын
it's been quite a while since I have felt this amazed by someone who voiced their truth .. wow .. amazing
@emcg12711 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Brilliantly said and moving.
@kensington2511 жыл бұрын
A powerful and articulate speech. Well done Panti :)
@TimErringtonSydney11 жыл бұрын
I'm in Australia and I loved Panti's wonderful speech. Thank you.
@parsifal314211 жыл бұрын
I bow respectfully to you, Panti, for speaking with such conviction and eloquence.
@johnPaul-qn3dg11 жыл бұрын
WoW what an oratory and orator, one of the greatest speeches I have ever heard. "Opressed" really does describe accurately any victim of exclusion.
@TheOneWithNoFNnick11 жыл бұрын
Perfect words. Thank you.
@JoeBloggs2505196411 жыл бұрын
thank YOU for your courage and eloquence!!!
@raisefalcon84369 жыл бұрын
This is amazing. She manages to help people understand what it is like to be gay without insulting everybody and he is funny at the same time. he shows them that is is perfectly normal to be gay. this is so amazing
@RichardMcWolff9 жыл бұрын
I've watched this yet again. This speech just leaves me so emotional. I can totally relate to just about everything Panti stated. At 55 years of age I'm lucky enough to live where I live and have a great support system and feel mostly comfortable where ever I go. My wish for all is that THEY get what I got but allot sooner than later. Panti is truly the Queen of Ireland and I hope some day to see that film titled as such. What a blessing for us all that Rory brought this fabulous lady to life and it led to this, part time, gig of educating all of us with heart and soul and humor! XO
@dexdexter6511 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Rory/ Panti
@simonmaddy698 жыл бұрын
Panti You are a hero and heroine rolled into one. Thank you for opening my eyes clearly - I recommend you to everyone where a conversation comes anyone near to this subject. I can't thank you enough Simon x
@shellyoc11 жыл бұрын
Very well done what an amazing speech from an amazing person xxx
@stefanljung674110 жыл бұрын
Today was my first encounter with Panti Bliss.. A nice day it turned out to be...
@Taumpy9 жыл бұрын
Almost two years later, this speech is still as powerful as it was when I first heard it.
@LexiGoreLovesYa11 жыл бұрын
You're amazing, Panti!! Was moved by your words,shared it and I urge others to do the same.
@nicolaobeirne10 жыл бұрын
What an amazing speech, congratulations to her on winning a person of the year award tonight!
@owenlunney71004 жыл бұрын
Firstly my apologies for not responding sooner Panti! You were concise,positive,enlightening,truthful,engaging and of course spoke truly.True to yourself and most importantly true to as you said the young girl and boys coming up know. You gave a most empowered positive speak which I know will be referred to in times to come to describe the need for quality acceptance and love. I am writing this now in 2020 December in Brighton things are changing on Wednesday I walked from the train station down to my ‘corona’ bubble of friends to spend Christmas. On my way I passed separately 3 gay couples 2 female 1 man couple all probably in early 20s the 3 couples were jus talking laughing with each and just holding hands cause there in love. They were on the street holding hands without a care ‘obvious wearing COVID mask but still it was so lovely to see that. Panti/Roy you and your work made that happen that the now feel safe. Big hugs Owen 😷😘😷
@finmoh11 жыл бұрын
thank you Rory I'm a grandmother who has spent her life in Ireland and I'm also painfully middle class but somehow I grew up to know we all deserve to be treated equally and I feel sad and horrified at the homophobic comments from people who should know better and most of them have the audacity to claim they are christians.
@Ennis855 жыл бұрын
And homosexuals aren't being treated equally how?
@netnel11 жыл бұрын
Thanks from Brazil, for speaking up for all of us.
@IsThatEtchas11 жыл бұрын
Bravo Panti for an eloquent and moving speech. I love your bar and I love your work. As a young gay kid living in this country, you make me proud to live in it.
@YesItsMeGuys689 жыл бұрын
Pamti never fails to wow me with her intellect , grace and courage ... So bloody impressive !
@adrianandshaneartist151911 жыл бұрын
Wonderful speech. Truly inspirational. ♥♥ xx
@rolandbaldwin11 жыл бұрын
That was incredible!! Really incredible. Thank you so so much for speaking up!
@ziweiyuan11 жыл бұрын
Much love and support to you, Panti. The world is watching now and if the haters take you on we'll do whatever we can to get your back.
@182genevieve11 жыл бұрын
Panti/ Rory, this truly a great, great speech. You are a wonderful orator and you do our community so proud. Thank you xx
@adelucas4824 Жыл бұрын
As a gay man who's nearly 60 and came out in 1985 I identify so much with this. Panti is amazing and the voice we all wish we had.
@YourQueerGreatAuntie11 жыл бұрын
Heart-breakingly beautiful. I'm currently reading "The Well of Loneliness", from nearly a century ago, and the crushing defeat of the lesbian protagonist is that she cannot marry, and thereby protect, the woman she loves. Oppression comes in many forms, and all too often in the "Western" world, that form is subtle and insidious. So well said, Panti. Thank you. And thanks to the Abbey for giving you the stage!
@sophiehotyogadundrum602710 жыл бұрын
Amazing Speech. Congrats on her people of the year award!
@jamierichards400111 жыл бұрын
To see such courage makes me cry. We need more people in the world with such conviction to combat the degree of ignorance and hate
@caoimhe201210 жыл бұрын
Inspiration, moving and to the point, your a shining light x
@burrendoorus11 жыл бұрын
Wonderful speech. Congratulations Rory. So glad you took this opportunity to speak out and so glad this opportunity was offered by The Abbey Theatre. Thank you. As a people we Irish all need to hear this spoken so clearly and powerfully. Well done.
@travisterry11 жыл бұрын
Oh My God. I've got tears streaming down my face. Bravo, Panti, bravo!!
@ado7511 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant. As a straight, Irish, father of three I believe Rory is the most courageous people in our society. Equal rights for all should be a given.
@johnainslie8811 жыл бұрын
That's a beautifully worded and very powerful speech. I hope after seeing the positive reaction to her speech she loves herself a bit more.
@MauriceRyder11 жыл бұрын
Just incredible. I watched the fuzzy version last night and watched this version today and it still sent shivers down my spine. Inspirational is not strong enough a word.
@quiggy929 жыл бұрын
I watch this over again every so often. Thankyou Panti!
@MrStoneyburke8 жыл бұрын
+Gavin Thomas when i was young in Waterford gay men were called steamers.i think thats a lovely description.
@davidgarrahy529111 жыл бұрын
I've listened to this 5 times already and am still finding new things and new ideas in it - thank you Panti for standing up for us xx
@CallumRickard11 жыл бұрын
I experienced this EXACT thing. Standing at a pedestrian-crossing just off the North Bridge in Edinburgh - arguably one of the most modern and cosmopolitan cities in the world - and a group of guys in a blue ned-mobile drove by and shouted "poofter" as they sped by. I often 'check' myself now as a result. Thanks for the speech Panti!
@MsCherade95 жыл бұрын
Oh love I am sorry. As a woman in a wheelchair I've had nasty misogynist things shouted at me from the same place. I've live here in Edinburgh for 15 years now, but in that regard it's no better or worse than much of the rest of the UK. Its better than it was 30 years ago I'm sure, but it's still very much a work in progress to change hearts and minds!
@Torontopia11 жыл бұрын
That was brilliant! I loved every second of that and agree with everything that was said. Three cheers from CANADA! YOU GO GIRL!
@BinaGodiva11 жыл бұрын
Beautifully, eloquently, and very incisively expressed! Thank you. One of my psychology lecturers used this clip to show us the nature of (experienced) prejudice.
@christophergoode447111 жыл бұрын
You're a wonderful, eloquent human being Rory, thank you.
@BHNative11 жыл бұрын
Cheers from Brazil, Panti! That was an amazing speech. I wish more people were able to realize what we go through every day and learn from it. I'd love to be able to perpetuate your speech around here, unfortunately I can't get that big of an audience. You go, girl! :)
@stormrevenger11 жыл бұрын
Beautifully spoken..and was wonderful on channel 4 news too
@thomasjohnbauer111 жыл бұрын
This was the best ten minutes I have spent today! Great job on telling it like it is...like it really is. Keep on standing up to those who oppress! You are an inspiration!
@heartbreakvigilante11 жыл бұрын
Antony Cotton brought me here, through twitter. thank you
@DanielSilverstone11 жыл бұрын
Very very well said.
@richardroth46612 жыл бұрын
I saw this years ago and I'm just rewatching it now in 2022. Respect to Panti! Thank you for standing up for us and speaking about an experience that so many of us can relate to! You are a champion!
@martinjager921911 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thank you! xxx
@brettgibson855811 жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing, what presence you have and you're so concise with what you say. Just brilliant.
@cosmicconcern56456 жыл бұрын
Outstanding as always
@KaitlynLeah9 жыл бұрын
We watched this in my class today and I got teary-eyed, everyone started clapping when it was over.
@rainbowvegan11 жыл бұрын
watched this several times now, incredible.
@edwardqueen57919 жыл бұрын
I've watched this speech SO MANY TIMES - easily more than 100 - over tha last few months on another channel, and never knew Rory himself had one! OMG!
@alancashman8811 жыл бұрын
As a gay Irish guy in my early twenties, I was ashamed to say I was probably the most homophobic person there is especially towards drag queens. Having seen this now I am ashamed. When I watch this speech, I do not see a man dressed as a woman, I see a human being fighting desperately just to be accepted. That's all. and nothing more. I like to think that someday I will find the man I want to spend my life with and hell nor high water will not stop me getting married. Panti, well done.
@jssherrard11 жыл бұрын
Looking for the 'LOVE' button!!! Panti knocks this one entirely out of the park. Thank you for sharing your voice with the world.
@francoas649 жыл бұрын
I am an italian gay guy. I was in Dublin during the referendum weekend.I didn't want to miss it and was in the castle celebrating with you and feeling like crying, imagining one day the same in Italy, I saw Panti (I was just near her) and I soon loved her. So I browsed internet to know more and I am impressed by this owesome person. I am proud of what you irish people did. And thankful. What you did will be an example for all the world and I hope for Italy as well.
@kieron823 жыл бұрын
Loved the speech, from New Zealand, shared it all over Facebook too since everyone to needs to see this
@sjswords11 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@declanhayden883211 жыл бұрын
Incredibly proud of you Panti. The most articulate and clear explanation of the oppression at the heart of being different I have ever heard. You are providing a catharsis for all the hurt and sadness many of us have felt inside of us for years but could never express. Thank you so much!
@yescandles11 жыл бұрын
Well spoken. Kudos to Panti Bliss and to the Abbey for granting him the time to share with us all.
@robyndwyer41082 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! Thank you so much - deeply insightful - a speech easily remembered by the heart❤
@joefrancis271211 жыл бұрын
Great speech..Well done and Thank you
@oddvarornhjartarson412510 жыл бұрын
wow - what a hero - thank you so much...your awsome!!
@swamisamantharella11 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sweetie that was the most beautiful and honest thing I've heard in a Long time x X x
@andyjones972411 жыл бұрын
Perfect, i commend you, and the reaction of the audience shows the support you have.
@LidiaEdithMongeArias11 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!! Thanks!!!!!!!!!
@wcares80625 жыл бұрын
You are amazing. Watching the documentary queen of Ireland. Thank you. Congrats.
@JonInCanada111 жыл бұрын
Eloquant, poignant and so beautifully put. Brava and Bravo!
@danielajauk91189 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, Panti. SUPER STUFF, thanks for not giving up and thank you for taking the time to let us learn from you.