Parenting is HARD 🫠 GRWM peach makeup + anxiety chats ✨🍑

[@Rositasmom]

So refreshing to see an influencer that doesn’t pretend that everything is perfect. It makes me feel very inadequate to watch someone that claims to have a perfect life so thank you for sharing your life with us. It definitely makes me feel like I’m not alone.

[@Ashleyyyy_xx]

So true. Makes your own feelings feel so validated ❤

[@samanthameyer8419]

You have no idea how refreshing and comforting it is to hear the good, bad, and ugly from an influencer. It can feel so disheartening when influencers only report on the amazing parts of their life because it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong with my life. Your authenticity is so appreciated ❤

[@kandirain_1172]

U’re not alone. Moms all over the world and thru the ages have felt the way u’re feeling. Take a breath. Is ur baby fed? Does he have a safe place to sleep at night? Do u try to teach him to be good to others and to himself? Do u talk and play with him? In my book, u’re doing great! Today is the first Thanksgiving without my mom so I understand how it seems like there’s always some hurdle to get over. But we all made it and we’re all thankful to have each other and to have had her so it’s a win. And u posted which just made everything better 😊❤

[@kellycarlson3061]

First, nobody is perfect and there is no such thing as a perfect parent. All you can do is try to be the best parent for the child or children you have. It is really great seeing you talk about this, because there are probably plenty of parents watching this who think that they are failing as a parent because they don't have everything figured out and that they are struggling. Nothing in this world that is worth anything is easy. Everything meaningful takes effort. Being a parent shouldn't be easy, it is and should be one of the hardest things you ever do. Loving them is easy, raising them isn't. You are doing a fantastic job.

[@paytontucker5483]

Girl. Yes. You can be a happy, positive person and still struggle with anxiety. It is a real struggle and i appreciate you being so vulnerable with us! And when you’re in the moment, and you’re overwhelmed and stressed and worried and anxious, it IS SOO hard to keep that positive mindset. But that is 100% human. I went through several traumatic experiences one right after the other, right before, during, and after Covid hit and i developed SEVERE crippling anxiety, to the point that I couldn’t leave my house without having an anxiety attack. It affected every part of my life and I felt completely alone and crazy and it wasn’t until an old coworker of mine, who had suddenly left work for several months (this was well after everything opened back up after Covid) but he came back and I asked where he had been and he proceeded to tell me how he had developed severe anxiety and couldn’t function and for the first time in a long time; I finally felt understood and having someone to relate to was so healing in itself.

[@vanessaalves1762]

I don't normally comment but as an empath myself I understand how overwhelming it can be, it is very refreshing to hear you talk about this 🩷

[@eunheS]

Parenting IS hard and that is exactly why I refuse to be a parent, I am too anxious and too worried to have a child, I do not think I could ever want to put that kind of stress on me, I do not feel capable enough to do so, but this is why I am choosing a childless life. I do really respect and admire the moms out there fighting every day and doing their best!

[@CorinnaAtHome]

My youngest sibling chose the same and I respect that so much. I wasn't thinking big picture when I decided to start a family. If I had, I'd probably have chosen the same.

[@Georginamullinsmakeup]

Shan you are not alone at all! I’m not a parent but I still have just as much anxiety about my family being safe and okay at all times and it’s exhausting and you loose sleep and it’s just a lot, and when you’re but sleeping things get so much worse just because you’re not at your full capacity so seriously give yourself so much grace around this time! You’re doing an amazing job ❤

[@makeitup2112]

Honestly so glad you posted Shan. I was having a really hard day today with my 5 month old son, nothing was going right and seeing your video just now made me feel so much better. Thank you

[@helenavas5622]

Parenting definitely teaches you so many lessons like patience etc

[@KierstenWhite4040]

Haven’t seen your videos in YEARS and it notified me today!🎉 I feel so blessed to have found you again🥹

[@KierstenWhite4040]

This was my OLD account and I just realized it signed me into this one and that’s why I stumbled back on your page, happy accidents😂

[@shaaanxo]

omg hi again!

[@KierstenWhite4040]

@ hey girl🥳 happy to be back again❤️

[@chickentenderanna5416]

You're not alone and hopefully talking some of your feelings out helps like it helps me. We've had bad viruses over in the US too. Colds that last a week to 10 days. It's great that Porter can communicate with you how he's feeling!

[@Flowerchyld222]

You hit home on the self reflection part of parenting. I’ve been looking inward to ensure I pass along healthy habits and mindsets etc to my children and I can relate to how being a parent forces you to work on these things. I love hearing you open up and it makes me feel less alone on the things you talked about!

[@kaylamoores1276]

I've been looking at old school christmas glam make up looks! Yours are still my go to

[@BsmhGorgeous]

Omg your video is my treat at the end of long day 🤍🤍 I love you 🥹 after watching you for years and years feels like you are my friend

[@Paper_Ghosty]

Yay! I’m going home from work in a snow storm and I’m gonna snuggle up, get cozy, and watch when I get there 💕 wishing for easier days ahead Shan! 🙏💕

[@CarolinaMello-v5v]

I was feeling totally gross today, but your video made it a bit better. Thanks Shan, you’ve motivated me to put on some makeup and go run the errands I’ve got to do

[@bmvlogs6648]

Been watching since 5th grade (10years old) and i'm 22. My sister had a baby 3 days after you had porter and it's so interesting to see you go through the same parenting stages as my sister. Her two kids were so sick just 1 month ago, in the hospital for 3 days :( NOTHING is sunshine and rainbows but you keep going and trying your best! Your quote about "it takes the same energy to have a good day as it does to have a bad day" is something I live by because your have said it in a previous video and it's so true!! Thank you so much :)

[@genevalawrence-parks1229]

I luv how real u r. I totally understand I'm 35 with two daughters that r 11 and 4 and there r amazing times but it is the hardest job in the world. Keep on keeping on Shan u r killing it.

[@emilyjacob1051]

It’s winter in my country and everything is freezing and everyone is sick. I started a new job at an airport (the 7th busiest one in my country) and I’m constantly surrounded by viruses and challenges. I’m currently trying to settle into my new job while navigating becoming a fully independent adult for the first time in my life and it’s so nerve wracking. I’m going through the application process of renting my first apartment while also deciding on important, life changing decisions like what kind of insurance plans to pick. People always appear to have their life together on the outside, but it’s just a mask. There is no guidebook to adulthood, and as stressful as that may be, it helps to remember that everyone is in the same boat. Your videos always remind me of that, and they offer me peace and comfort in a time where I feel like I have no answers. Thank you for sharing your experiences Shannon, remember you are not alone ❤

[@shaykahnjoanne5440]

Parenting is hard, said by parents who show up all day all night and do everything they can for their children. You rocking mumma hood Shan 🫶🫶

[@sarahbelle5878]

I hear you on being impatient! I didn't really I was until I became a parent, being patient with a toddler is so hard. I can totally relate!

[@sarahjames1612]

I'm so keen to see some Christmas looks - especially something for those of us who celebrate in summer! Xo from South Africa ❤

[@laurenklatman6918]

We love you Shan! Happy holidays sweetheart ♥️

[@JackieHe520]

You’re doing an amazing job Shan, I’m a full time mum and can’t imagine adding work on top of caring for a toddler!

[@Mandye8912]

I love the look! Beautiful 😍. I really like the lip liner and the gloss. It looks good together but also separately.

[@tyanaleek]

Yeah I agree being a parent is hard I have 3 little ones , 2 year old , 5 year old and 6 year old and we just got over a flu and we all got it and the no sleep is horrible I’m so glad we are all healthy now but when your in it , it feels like absolute hell , the headaches and body aches . We also don’t have much help from friends or family. But yeah I know how you feel , thank you for sharing bc she on social media do only share how easy parenting is. & not how exhausting & demanding it is

[@marie-louisebloch3166]

being an adult is terrible ☹️ we are with you 💖💖💖

[@LakinRhianna]

I always appreciate how real you are Shannon! I love a good vent haha. I'm not a mum, but i'm a massive empath and i always worry i'll be constantly anxious if i have a baby hahaha

[@Persimmon_112]

Happy Thanksgiving from the U.S. ❤ I am thankful for you and your videos being a constant in my life for so many years

[@harrietlane-tobin8872]

That Makeup by Mitchell brush colour hard out reminds me of a shade from the Lime Crime unicorn highlighter pallette back in the day

[@janedockery5844]

no one's life is perfect. your make up looks beuatiful

[@tsteel305724]

Thanks for putting out content during these crazy life times.

[@melaniethetruckdriver]

I love Danny Go! Its always me suggesting it now 😅 Means I can get a cheeky workout in ✨️

[@olivia-ann7970]

24:07 I had the same issue with the mbm chance of peach, I found putting some on my hand and applying with a brush worked a bit better but ended up decluttering because it still wasn’t great 😢

[@kobebabe909]

Hey Shan…idk if you’ll ever read this but from a single mom of a 12 year old with a deathly peanut allergy and asthma….you ARE NOT ALONE! No one is perfect and every child is different. You and your partner are different and have different parenting styles. It doesn’t mean that you or they are wrong. Porter is your first child, and trial and error is the name of the game. You do what you think is best, even if it’s not “correct”. Fuck everyone. Do you and don’t let anyone make you feel like what you’re doing is wrong!

[@stephanietorres5679]

I know how you feel even tho my daughter is grown. I know how I fell short...she reminds me. Take care!!❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊

[@mushmush55]

Hey Shan - I'm a therapist and sometimes I feel focusing on the positives can have a backlash effect of self criticism, or a sense of being inadequate or just doesn't feel believable. Sometimes using statements that focus on the positive *and* acknowledge your feelings can be more balanced. Hope that helps, and feel free to ignore if it doesn't. :)

[@silkbuttons]

Most polite way of saying stop complaining.

[@laurengallagher2076]

This video popping up as I try and settle my son back to sleep at 3:50am 😅 Parenting is SO hard, but us mums have to stick together ❤ Excited to watch the video when I can

[@laurengallagher2076]

It took me 4 days but I'm watching!😅

[@tiffanypattee6082]

I’ve always been one who falls asleep to the TV. I would literally wake up and turn the TV back on when the episodes ended. Yet when I met my Boyfriend he did not have a TV in his room, he says the body needs to unplug and it can’t if the TV’s always on. After 7years of living like this I would agree with him because I sleep like a baby now. Try it if you can. It’s a big step but we’ll worth it. Truly.

[@sierrabeauty9933]

So happy I clicked on this video. As a single, only parent mom I don’t have the time to watch KZbin like I used to. But this video definitely hits home. I’m over watching “perfect” influencers making me feel like my life sucks. I want the real! My daughter and I were sick at the same time. Luckily, hers was just a cold and over in a few days. But unfortunately mine has turned to something more severe. It’s been about a month and I’ve had to start rituxan treatments. Which is a type of cancer treatment but not as harsh as chemo. I’ve been diagnosed with autoimmune disorders and awaiting results to find out if I have cancer. I am very weak and sick but the worst part is worrying I won’t be here for my daughter. Worrying about your child trumps everything else. Ugh, life is hard. I’m trying to stay as positive as I can be and hoping the diagnosis stays at just what it is now and the treatments get my blood counts back to normal. My baby girl means everything to me and the thought of not being here with her terrifies me. Hugs for you Shan, Love, a long long long time subscriber ❤ you may have been the first KZbinr I started watching. So I love that we joined the mom life together 😂 (My daughter was born April 2022)

[@shaaanxo]

im sending you so much love and strength

[@sierrabeauty9933]

@ Thank you so much Shan 🫶🏼 that’s the best compliment!

[@lils6334]

You should totally check out the monochrome blush duo by coverFX in the peach shade!! The metallic side in particular, it’s great as a blush topper (very forgiving on texture for something metallic) but I LOVE it on my eyes

[@norrisjane34]

Well I never got to be a Mom although I would have loved to. I only had a chance to take care of my nephew when he was a toddler which I loved. So while I can't really say I know what you are going through I can say I have been the queen of insomnia for way too many years with literally dangerous levels of sleep but .. I am still standing but I credit the Lord for that. I think your little boy is sooo adorable and very cute. Also, Hammish seems like he is a rock which every woman needs a man like that. You are a sweetheart Shannon and I don't doubt but a very good Mom too. Hugs Diana Dubin

[@jaskiew63]

your natural brows are perfect. you don't need to enhance them at all.

[@lobnasaeed]

hello shanon, I missed your videos so much. you have always been my fav youtuber since I started watching youtube

[@karlieprozanski8250]

Would love to see you using all xo beauty products for your makeup

[@lynettefinnigan9540]

Most common statement made by make-up influencers: "I really must clean my brushes!!" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sum3855]

Hair looks stunning!

[@CoachPaula05]

I feel you I have a 6 year old and almost 2.5 year old twins. All 3 are giving me a run for my money lately. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Good thing they’re all cute and I love them. 😆

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi Shaaano how are you happy Friday night and happy Weekend and this was amazing video I enjoy your channel

[@renneallison]

My daughter is only a month or two older than Porter, and she was having similar symptoms, turns out she was getting her two year old molars finally! Motrin saved the day!

[@lozm1070]

I like the highlighter. It makes me think of the peachy colours that were popular in 2018?

[@ceciwolfcat7]

Hi Shan, so good to see you, been a long day and you're who I need to unwind🥱🥰 From what I saw this promises to be a gorgeous look that will make the list of my faves😍 Please share where I can find that list of programs that are questionable for kids. I watch over my grandkids (3 & 1) like a hawk, I never imagined anything wrong with Peppa Pig, please Shan I need to find out what they should be avoiding. Mind you I know quite a few and we keep the KZbin down as much as possible. Thanks Shan, lots of love to you and your gentlemen!❤❤❤❤

[@Kerrieannbeauty]

Thank you for putting your hair back and not let it constantly fall in your face!

[@karenwaraich]

🫶🏼 best notification. thanks for staying so real and down to earth 🥹

[@shaaanxo]

ily

[@nancicelenko3144]

You’re not alone. I’ve been having severe financial issues, and the stress is preventing me from eating and sleeping. Trying to focus on the positive, but it seems impossible at this point.

[@pinkkkngirly101]

My anxiety is crazy right now too, I have a planned c section on Monday and so stressed out about it after my previous birth experience so just trying to distract myself

[@reganocallaghan4955]

I'm the same with my worry. I found around the age of 28 it started to hit. The anxiety hits hard. 30 was like the age of anxiety attack. I swear 20's was the era of freedom, not a care in the world. 30's I'm overthinking everything and the slightest inconvenience is an anxiety attack waiting to happen. They slightest change in my body it's DR Google. It's a crazy time. Speaking of kids entertainment do we remember Suzy's world from back in the day? (NZ 90's babies should know). I grew up on Sailor Moon. What were the shows you grew up with? Necessity is the mother of invention, gurl. If there isn't a perfect peach palette, create one. With a range of pinky to orangey toned peach shades from light to dark shimmer, mattes and metallics. Come up with some cute palette names like perfect peach, peach perfection, peach smooth. Also miss your era looks. We never got 90's and 00's. Xx

[@kyleechristensen2217]

Awe girl, I spend my whole life worrying about everything and everyone as well. And just wait until Porter is old enough to fake being sick and then you have to determine whether he’s actually sick or just trying to skip school 😂 my kids are terrible with that because they know I don’t want them to feel bad all day at school or get anyone else sick…but I swear they try to stay home “sick” every single day 😂

[@CC-cv6gx]

I would love there to be more z palette styles where you can buy little magnetic blush, bronzer, eyeshadows individually and then put the shades you’re currently using all in one place. Feel like there’s not many options like that and I usually don’t use every colour in a palette of whatever it’s for

[@simangel90]

The makeup look is beautiful even if the eye look is a bit chunky it's still beautiful 😊😊

[@jordanwright5921]

Your not on your own with illnesses my daughters had more time off nursery than going to nursery. Ear infections, water infection, stomach bugs, colds and flu, gastroenteritis. She was in hospital in June with staphylococcus scalded skin syndrome. It’s been crazy with illness this year. You are well within you rights to worry so much you wouldn’t be a good parent if you didn’t worry. Keep going your doing amazing. X

[@Axpression]

My 4 month old is sick for the 1st time, it's a struggle 😅 I've felt like being a bad mom for a bit but hey, he's not the 1st sick baby and won't be the last.

[@melodyhawkins6227]

Omg where is your mirror from? ❤

[@jannahutchison]

Hi lass! Is that pale lip colour anything like Ubuntu! I’m running out 😢

[@donnamackay6006]

Read the happiness trap. May give you some tools to help your anxiety etc. I've loved it.

[@clairemilberryxx]

Any time you refer to your under eyes as ballsacks I die 😂😂😂 ballsack nation - nationwide

[@simangel90]

My son likes to watch Steve and Maggie, chicky, sharky and sparky on KZbin and kids KZbin and I watch them with him and he likes to say his colors while watching them just some ideas for you and Porter 😊😊

[@DorkieRix]

I get it kids r a hand full....... When r we going to see another declutter I luv them😢😢😢❤❤❤

[@teenerbean1974]

Where did you get your necklace?

[@moyralouise7123]

Anxiety is real, my Mum recently passed away and I ended up checking in with a paramedic because I thought I was having a heart attack leading up to her funeral ❤

[@tonidavie3635]

Hang in there. Thanks for sharing

[@PaulettaBocanegra]

can’t believe this is what people focus on instead of reading something like skin radiance recipe by mrs. d maybe that’s why their skin struggles never improve

[@SarahMcAsey93]

Nnniiiccceeee ❤😊

[@jennamercedes]

Love❤

[@beyoncejnr]

Also yes i feel like the shittest parent, my sons growing and doing new things all the time.. but im just like wow, this kid deserves better.. but yeah parenting is so wonderfully hard

[@JenJen-zh2of]

We use KZbinKids for our daughter. I have a 21 year old son, a 13 year old son and a 1 year old daughter. It gets better my dear. You’re doing fantastic ❤

[@Nella_roxy14]

❤❤❤

[@tiffanybrowder793]

my babies are 21 and 16 and I still worry about them

[@desgibtsdochnetey]

Oh girl, seems like there's a lot on your plate! Maybe it would help with all the worrying about everyone if you'd to talk to a professional? ❤ Thinking of you 🫶🏼

[@MaryRoby-p6v]

most people stay stuck with their skin problems because they avoid books like skin radiance recipe by mrs. d which actually show you how to transform your skin

[@superara1]

Everyone has anxiety . This was the thing years ago, every KZbinr had it and now it’s back 🙄

[@CodySteen]

Hey Shannon harris its me you're boyfriend Cody Ray Steen while I'm living with you in California on Sunday December 29th can we go eat at in and out burger for dinner and for desert we should get some ice cream for dessert and we should watch scary movies ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@CodySteen]

Hey Shannon harris its me you're boyfriend Cody Ray Steen iam so excited to see you on Sunday December 29th at my providers patty and jaun reays house around 5.00 pm here in napoleon Ohio and also my love can you please tell my friend Jacob hetheth that you will talk to my providers patty and jaun reays about me living with you in California forever

[@ashlenesingh9954]

worry,it iz covid.make heerbal tea

[@CodySteen]

Hey Shannon harris its me you're boyfriend Cody Ray Steen I am ready to come live I am being serious about it this time I am ready to come to live with you can you please come to napoleon Ohio on Monday next week and can you please bring my birthday presents too and also my love my brother Ryan Steen was being a jerk to me on Thursday on Wednesday night ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤and also my love I do want to go to Disneyland for our first date and go to universal studios hollywood resort and go to SeaWorld and go to the beach with you and go to San Diego zoo too

[@toxxicjayy4680]

Definitely keep your son away from Peppa Pig she’s so disrespectful and definitely something you don’t want your kids watching and thinking it’s okay to act.

[@DARRINNavarrete]

so many people invest their energy in the wrong products instead of exploring skin radiance recipe by mrs. d which teaches you exactly what to do

[@abigailrae1592]

am i a 20 year old college kid with no kids? yes. did i still watch and enjoy every second of this? also yes. you’re gonna get through this shan 🫶🏼

[@GALEIslam]

this is good but if you haven’t read skin radiance recipe by mrs. d you’re only seeing part of what’s possible for your skin

[@ShaneReese-j4x]

not saying this isn’t helpful but books like skin radiance recipe by mrs. d make this advice look like child’s play

[@WHITNEYLomeli]

if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read skin radiance recipe by mrs. d but maybe it’s not for everyone

[@BerilAysel]

can’t believe this is what people focus on instead of reading something like skin radiance recipe by mrs. d maybe that’s why their skin struggles never improve

[@YingLarson]

if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read skin radiance recipe by mrs. d but maybe it’s not for everyone

[@JulienneUrrutia]

if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read skin radiance recipe by mrs. d but maybe it’s not for everyone