Parenting Mistakes, Raising A Child, Ideal Routine & Psychology - Schweta Gandhi |FO264 Raj Shamani

[@militarymindset.8606]

In this Era when children nd teenagers are going anywhere under the influence of social media a strong nd educated parenthood is very essential.

[@amrutakalenaik]

Yes, the main reason that teenagers are going on wrong paths is they absolutely lack proper communication and guidance at home. Parents have become busy and at times grandparents are not present too. Whatever is taught at home, by the child's close people, always stays. Even when you come across situations, you always tend to choose the right one.

[@rajshamani]

I agree 🙌🏻

[@CBHcreativeartscrafts]

Today's child knows everything, good and bad, if the surrounding is bad it's our bad luck , no child will listen , main thing is surrounding should be peaceful and truthful other wise no one can help , to come out of today's child behaviour. Great namaskar to those people who hold the bad surrounding and raise their child in such surroundings.

[@dikshashukla1769]

Every parents are doing their best according to their situation and circumstances.. there is no rule to raise child .. i just agree on point that u should understand ur child before react ..

[@flyupp]

There are rules but we don't accept it.. Every brain works in a same way so,, parenting is really should focus more on single steps that can cause harm or can do good to our child brain. Follow.Rules have good result

[@asmamasood9970]

There are rules....those who hit their child say the same thing..."iski behtari k lye he kr rahy"

[@engineerofemotions1183]

It's not about rules, it's about evolution, how you evolve your way of living or parenting or anything else with the need of current time... Change is the only constant and healthy for our survival 😊

[@rishiraaj.580]

Parenting - Serious Responsibility. It's Not Entertainment. 👍

[@kislayajha4712]

Raj's questions are superb🤣🤣🤣

[@p217217]

Raj , I have been watching your podcast since 1.5 years . This has been the best podcast for me so far . Thank you so much Mam 🙏🙏🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@swapnilthakkar1001]

I love Raj’s podcast and his questions to the guest. This time I m not as enlighten as I m usually after I hear guest on this podcast. This was not Raj Shamani’s level not because of Raj; just because it could have been more scientific and fact base rather than I as a mom do this or my son does this. Just my view; Raj keep doing what you do.

[@rishiraaj.580]

Raising Children - Tough Job. It's Not Easy To Raise Them Well. Efforts And Investment Required. 😐

[@rajshamani]

100% 🙌🏻

[@ayeshas95]

Thanks for introducing me to her!!! I don't agree completely, I cant imagine following completely, but if i can control my emotions and understand my child better it will save me from so much "mom guilt"! This is GREAT knowledge! I loved the concept!!!

[@kyaati]

Every human has their own individual inner personality. No matter the parenting style we become what we think to become. Our core thinking and habits are the factors to shape us.

[@rishiraaj.580]

Only Educated, Well To Do Parent's Understands And Follows These Thing's. Majority Parent's Are Harsh, Tough. They Get Angry, Frustrated. Don't Understand Children's Feelings. 😕

[@manojbora4769]

Every child deserves good parenting whereas Not every parents deserve kids

[@shilpamanocha3195]

I loved this podacast a lottt! Esp Raj asked so many genuine questions that might come across as cliche for some. Even how sometimes people might confuse being gentle with softening the kid etc etc. He din’t shy away from asking all traditional questions or doubts without any fear of judgement. I genuinely learnt sooo much from this single podcast. Not a parent yet still hooked throughout.👌👌

[@cheytanarora]

Much much needed podcast on this topic - thanks team

[@rajshamani]

Thank you for listening bro! Which part did you like the most?

[@rajupadhyay9564]

Super strict parents are not raising child they are raising psychopath. I'm facing that problem that's why I'm saying

[@nikitaakash3251]

😂😂😂😂 you

[@someonesomebody716]

Blaming parents for your own screwed mind 😂

[@kitttyMiaw]

Not exactly psychopath bt traumatized where we r not able to tale decision. We do all the things jo ird duniya ko dikhane k liye!

[@elishaghotra4592]

Trust me dear keep them strict or free they will become wht they are i hve 2 kids and both kids completely opposite one outdoor another one indoor , one too much speak for self and otherone adjust ,one day and other one night , one saving and another one spending in same environment how can kids different… its hard and complicated i really don’t know wht I done wrong in my life

[@kyaati]

@@elishaghotra4592Same in my family. I have a brother who is completely opposite of me! He is a spendthrift, doesn't take responsibilities, very dependent on parents even at 30+

[@Dr.KomalShinde]

I related this podcast to myself where I used to be in a school from morning 8 to evening 7 as my both parents were working. But they definitely taken a lot of care by taking me out to have anything that I want. Today I am full of patience because I have experienced a routine where I used to be in school for around 11 hrs. When I see other people having difficulty in talking to parents or taking decisions, I do it really well as my parents always explain why they are saying no to something and why I should or should not do something. When people try to show sympathy for very very difficult childhood, I never felt anything abnormal to stay in a school for so much time. Today I feel I'm very practical and realistic may be because of my childhood where I developed a lot of patience.......

[@ashsid9650]

Thanks Raj always looking forward to getting your new videos. Best regards from Karachi Pakistan

[@sadhvi3098]

Thank so much ma'am 😊

[@TheVanshika]

What about single parents? I am a single parent and I have been raising my daughter on my own. Raj sir I request you to call someone who can throw some light on single parenting, parents who are living separately.

[@maniyamihir4177]

It should be same parenting. It's better in some case imo bcoz 2 parents fights, conflicts, trauma dump on children but if you are single mentally normal parent then it is better than 2 broken parents.

[@mitaliksahni1033]

Thank You So Much For this as it was need of the hour !!! I would request you to shoot some more content related to mental health, mental hygiene and psychology

[@divyaa2959]

Amazing podcasts by Raj Shamani

[@rajshamani]

Thank you divya 🙌🏻🙇🏻‍♂️

[@mehreenrasheed989]

Thankyou so so much shweta ma'am. I have followed your Instagram account as well and trust me you are such guiding hand for new parents like us! ❤

[@ur-amitkumar]

my question is :- agar sab kchh payar se he sekhana hain to jb uski life main bad days aayega fir wo to demotivated ho jayega like mind hang ho jayega wo react he nhi kar payega bad days ko.

[@rishiraaj.580]

Must Watch Podcast 👍

[@shubhangisharma8590]

Very comprehensive !

[@flyupp]

Gentle parenting isn't a very new concept..As even 20 years before too,, every type of parenting coexist..So there would be many kids brought up by gentle parenting..

[@INLITDESIGNS]

Being an educated parent is the only take away from this and then whatever power you have to exercise that knowledge will be subjective parent to parent . It’s never a one size fits all parenting as it was explained by her with all the rules. Educate yourself as a parent and justify to your parenting and your child’s life with that. That’s pretty much what will be enough! Knowledge is power! What people, including raj, wanted to hear, when it came to finding a solution to this is when the scenario of a family isn’t as ideal as hers, which is hardly there! You can parent good if u hv support or else There was “nothing can be done if ur family/partner or circumstances aren’t supportive” narrative to this podcast. But self education is still the most helpful or ray of hope in every situation.

[@GyansutraTech]

a child having bad negative toxic surroundings in childhood impact their brain and it reduce the growth of logical part I mean the brain part which help think logically and they become more like emotional, their thinking abilities are not so good.This type of children after teenage surely going to be in the trap of addiction, alcohol.

[@KiranKhandare-c2q]

Raj sir u r great aapne jo saval puchhe hai o best hai

[@Varun_dholakiyawala]

Saw the entire podcast and I feel so bad for the kids of this lady !! 💔 It seems to me that she is treating her kids like a project that has to be as per her rules and regulations. For her kids are not kids but a set of brains she wants to wire according to her perception of perfection. She talks about empathy but such rules dont raise empathetic or creative kids.. Some rules are ok but dont make it a project of yours.. Kids are kids.. let them free.. let them learn what are good and bad things by doing them and experimenting ... STOP INSTITUTANALZING PARENTING !!

[@saitama-]

Target Audience: 👪 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦 Actual Audience: 🧔‍♂ 👧

[@K_ME_sarvottam]

lol

[@saksham_yadav756]

Miss Ratan Tata 💔💔

[@CorpLaws]

Niceee topiccc ❤❤

[@rishiraaj.580]

Nice, Informative 👍

[@prachipatni29]

Loved this! 🙌🏻 such a good conversation!

[@gaurichaturvedi3578]

This podcast is exactly for my dog too... 😅😅😅 No wonder my dog is my bacha. Ditto same advices.

[@origamibox9849]

Raj trying to defend video games 😂 but we believe you, it did helped us.

[@gajjarpooja9630]

Thank you so much sir ❤️ 😊

[@HimanshiRathore-t9x]

Excellent podcast, next podcast with hansraj raghuwanshi please

[@kislayajha4712]

She is being a like a strict parent to Raj🤣🤣

[@kyaati]

They say break them to make them. But some will break and some will make

[@neymarJr-pw9bi]

Acc to you my parents did all those things which they shouldn't Still I am doing good.... Yeah pretty good Psychology isn't same for everyone

[@harishkandekar1098]

Thanks for this ❤

[@kishorerajurkar2271]

She knows nothing. Pink has minerals in addition but the amount is negligible and of no use. Also it is not fortified with iodine. White salt is ok. Only thing moderation is required. Same thing about sugars. All should avoid added sugars whether children or adults

[@khudabaksh28]

Bro it’s pinch of salt not pink 😂

[@NaveenYoYoDude]

​@@khudabaksh28Nahi yaar, she said pink salt. Kids SHOULD have iodised salt, if at all they are taking salt

[@gauravugale532]

Trueeee

[@mandarsalunkhe09]

Which specific age group are you focusing on in this discussion?

[@satyamram28]

topic wise bana diya Karo bhai ❤ pls 🙏🏻

[@kudarat_patel]

Hey Raj. One suggestion I would give you. You know sometimes the guest is speaking and you speak in between, so it's difficult to hear both of you. If you can, bring Rachit from Motoroctane. You've already made podcast on the luxury cars with BBT. But India is still a mid segment cars market. So, it would be great if you can do this.

[@prashantmishra_007]

Thank You Bhai ❤❤

[@INLITDESIGNS]

Being an educated parent is the only take away from this and then whatever power you have to exercise that knowledge will be subjective parent to parent . It’s never a one size fits all parenting as it was explained by her with all the rules. Educate yourself as a parent and justify to your parenting and your child’s life with that. That’s pretty much what will be enough!

[@mayurdomale8238]

Excellent podcast ❤🎉

[@rajshamani]

Thanks for listening🙇🏻‍♂️

[@tanmayzalavadiya1345]

Must make all clips of this podcast,, because we will share some parts to family members because they will close video by just watching the time period of this podcast, they don't spend this much time on video

[@user-hy5dw7sj4m]

I agree watching TV stimulating TV shows, cocomelon songs can be harmful, what about songs? Like listening to to cocomelon songs is it also harmful or will help kid development. Also like if the kid is throwing tantrums for an hour and if you agree to basically let the kid do what the kid wants eventually just to calm them down ..would it mean you are bending boundaries and it's not good or it's fine as long as you keep coaching your child to not do it next time.

[@Saimaz.a2z]

❤❤❤ Good topics

[@swativamney3098]

She seems/sounds like too strict anf dominating parent . What if your kid dont want to read book in morning,you are forcing correct. Even the tone is not soothing/calming . You can't teach toddlers so easily, till 5 they simply follow their brains. Kids many a time won't sleep properly at night, and they were irritated in the morning, so good morning ,I love you bla bla don't work. They woke up many times crying for no reasons. They simply don't have any reason/logic for crying ,not following rules, and I belive that's the beauty of being kid !

[@engineerofemotions1183]

Traditional or conservative parents create obedient, progressive but depressed children. But modern, extreme liberal parents create wise and versatile but can be individualist persona 😊 Both have its pro n cons❤

[@NihalSoni-u6o]

Don't give birth to children to suffer in this world please 😮😮😮😢

[@SEKHAR-EL]

Perfect

[@javeriakhan6499]

When we were kids everyone used to say , " listen to your parents " and then when we became parents "everyone is saying listen to your kids "!! Whose gonna listen to us😅 Hamara turn toh aaya hi nahi😢

[@b.v.1012]

U r sounding like dominanting parent..As a single parent mujhe sunkar acha nahi laga toh if i behave that way bacha robot ban jayega and i feel he will loose his capacity to take decisions..!!

[@ramshamunir2786]

Raj u didn't discussed about single parents. We do exist

[@VinnyyZone]

MAKE VIDEOS ON OCD DEPRESSION ANXIETY .... THESE ARE INCREASING ON LARGE SCALE IN YOUNG PEOPLES

[@arojitdas8256]

Kya gazab content ❤

[@rajshamani]

Thank you! Let me know what all topics or guests should i get?

[@SrushtiShinde-fy6lu]

Can you do a podcast with criminal lawyer seema samridhi kushwaha about rising crime and failing judiciary system of india???

[@harshitjain8121]

Amazing guidance 👏

[@openminds9706]

Raj sir bring some capf personells in your podcast

[@rishabh050592]

Too many rules, restriction and dominating - kids will just become robots, let them grow naturally and ensure we dont overdo things (good or bad)

[@JEEASP2025-xy1rf]

Mere mummy papa muje marte nhi h pr ab 16 ka hogya hu 12th+jee +school exam, practicals ye sb ak sath sabala nhi ja rha merese isiliye rona ajata h or parents ko kese batau vo bhi sad ho jayege

[@JEEASP2025-xy1rf]

Parents ache h m he hu gdha 🙏🏻

[@JEEASP2025-xy1rf]

pta nhi acha collage nhi mila to kya hoga aage dr ka mahol h age bhi hoti ja rhi h ab 16 ka hogya hu

[@b.v.1012]

Try talk to your parents whatever it is..they will understand..and make them understand ki tum apni life mae kya krna chahte ho ..uske liye life mae goals set kro ..and plan karke baat kro ..Dnt wry end of the day vo samjhenge kyunki tum unka hi toh hissa ho.. 😊

[@flyupp]

Batana to padega..himmat karke..Agar tumhara koi aur interest hai to woh unko batao..

[@gauravugale532]

Bhai parents ka zyada load mat le. Khud ke hisaab se zindagi jeena shuru kar. Ek unar ke baad Darna nahi hain parents se. Experience se bata raha hoon and im successful in life

[@JurrasicWorld.]

Where are the English subtitles???

[@mohdismaheel4290]

Podcast with some aircraft ground staff or pilot. So we ppl can understand the delay or why they don't allow boarding.

[@arewecool177]

Gotta talk to ritu rathee then😂

[@nikhilgautam6963]

This ep is for multi millionaire

[@NikhilrajSingh-h3h]

Raj shamani, which book are you reading these days?

[@Uday_singh555]

Aaj kl ke bachhe aadhe se jyada to nashedi hai, ghr walo ko barbad kr rahe hai gaming me. Padhai gai bhad me pehle pesa kamane ke piche bhag rahe hai. Izzat/respect naam hi chij nhi rahi... Nange paan me uttar aai hai new generation..

[@greeshmamishra9265]

These concepts of raising the child is good but it's not practical completely. In lot of areas we cannot implement this. For working parents it's not easy to monitor their child like this 24x7. The child will be with grandparents / nanny and they will have their impact on the child. We cannot control it. It's not practical. We can only monitor and control in certain manner but we cannot make such rules and run the show. It's not possible even if we want to. Even she could not answer how to explain and convince the grandparents to be with us and raise the child as per our rules. Like we as parents, we shall deal with the generation gap with our parents, learn parenting, be patient with our child and also focus on office (work). How will we deal with it.

[@Doing_things_with_Dev]

Sirf agar ye didi Baccha ki jagah Kid ya kuch aur bolti toh thik lagta, plus Raj was curious about listening she was making him feel bad for asking something , not a good human {DIdi}

[@shilpajain2278]

I Follow a lot of practices she said but Disappointing conversation in last 10mins that she herself is not confident enough that following this all will give enough emotional empowerment in a difficult situation.

[@JashanBajaj-n8p]

Bhai episode purely Hindi mein bnao Jai Hindi Jai Bharat

[@BhuvanSandal]

प्रकरण पूर्णतय हिंदी में ही निर्मित करें। जशन जी पहले आप तो हिंदी का प्रयोग करें। जय हिंद जय भारत

[@DarkGaming-ku7js]

❤❤

[@alpha88max]

These so called dumb experts are so much annoying....making things so much complicated everything🤦🤦🤦

[@thoutamchandana4281]

Plz convert videos in hindi

[@poojalalwani3481]

All these things what she saying is possible for her as she may have help to do house chores, and all other things what a women need to do. But when you have manage your whole work own your own you don't have energy left to tell your kid a bed time story or ..correct him. How easily she says talk to elder and say this is my kid I want to raise him like this ....do you really think they listen and won't find loop holes when we are not around we cant take our kids every where with us. Gentle parenting is not a really gentle as you explain because you are not a leader you are a dictator..it's just you don't hit and other do.

[@nidhimishra5856]

Grandparents k hath se mobile phone hata do ye sab exercises wo baby k sath din bhar krte h aur busy rehte hain।।।।। sari baat yahi se bigdi h jab se nuclear family ka concept aya h just for the sake of carreer growth।

[@Safariya320]

Who is watching in 2025

[@katharbatcha6101]

bro timetraveled

[@shabinashah3563]

Me to

[@nicolethomas0729]

😂😂😂​@@katharbatcha6101

[@ShormiDebnath-w8u]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 epic question

[@santoshbirajdar21]

yeda banna reha.... ye nahi ye nahi kahana .....

[@rajlal2587]

Bhai kisi aur ko bula liye hote, kitne ,% log ye kar rahe hai ya kar payenge, kyu koi compare kar raha hai past with present.bewakoofi hai ye.

[@arewecool177]

Baccha mat kro khush rho😂 inn sbki dukane bnd hongi aur mam toh big bang theory mae Leonard ki maa type lgi😅

[@scrollwithdeepak-k4v]

MAA Kasam jisne subscribe nahi kiya wo exam me fail ho jaega 😂😂😂

[@killermotivation2758]

Traditional parenting is good and modern child is making only reels😂

[@Infinity_Learn_JEE]

2nd comment

[@joyjitpal]

First

[@INLITDESIGNS]

Being an educated parent is the only take away from this and then whatever power you have to exercise that knowledge will be subjective parent to parent . It’s never a one size fits all parenting as it was explained by her with all the rules. Educate yourself as a parent and justify to your parenting and your child’s life with that. That’s pretty much what will be enough! Knowledge is power! What people, including raj, wanted to hear, when it came to finding a solution to this is when the scenario of a family isn’t as ideal as hers, which is hardly there! You can parent good if u hv support or else There was “nothing can be done if ur family/partner or circumstances aren’t supportive” narrative to this podcast. But self education is still the most helpful or ray of hope in every situation.

[@INLITDESIGNS]

Being an educated parent is the only take away from this and then whatever power you have to exercise that knowledge will be subjective parent to parent . It’s never a one size fits all parenting as it was explained by her with all the rules. Educate yourself as a parent and justify to your parenting and your child’s life with that. That’s pretty much what will be enough!

[@saismitamishra2751]

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