[PART 2] The Tragic DOWNFALL of FAMOUS BL SHIPS!

Hi nerdies! As promised here is the part 2 of my content about bl ships that unfortunately went there separate paths in many different reasons. Some of the reasons are officially disclosed to the fans while others are still unknown and still in question up until now.

[@Priyakumariamber]

Ship is a lie . As BL fan i only love the story and plot of a series and i am really not into companies fan services . I found this creapy. I don't like show up

[@mariarossa13]

Like, yeah, it would be great if they were real off screen as well, but I'm not a child anymore and know the difference between the fairy tail and real life

[@freewolf27]

@@Priyakumariamber @mariarossa13 To all non-Thai (aka:foreigners) who keep calling BL actor's CLOSENESS a lie. First of, how can it be a lie when almost all couples stated clearly that they are either brothers or best friends from the beginning. It's only delusional fans blaming them for keeping to their words. Also, FYI, for example to those who do not know the Thai's norm, Mile and Apo's behavior is normal for bestie in Thailand and by Thai culture and standard. I have been teaching English in Thai bilingual school for over 10 years (Y10-12) and I have seen some boys calling one of their classmates "mum" or "dad". (doesn't matter what gender) they're given the nickname cause they're either super neat like their mum or super strict like their dad. A girl can be call dad and a boy can be call mum, it's their behavior that dictates their nickname-title. In class, some boys/girls would sit with their shoulders stick to one another, some even rest their head on the others laps like boy-boyfriends/girl-girlfriends during breaks. I saw 4 girls sharing 1 ice-cream in the cafeteria, 3 boys sharing 1 bubble tea with only 1 straw. Boys play truth or dare with kissing each other as dare, they laugh about it. BUT they are not boyfriend/girlfriend! I asked many students cause I was curious. They all said similar thing, that it's normal to show this level of affection with their best friends cause they are "our safe zone" person. Apparently it mean, more than best friends, more than brothers/sisters, but not a *fan*(lover/boyfriend /girlfriend) . So I hope foreigners would stop saying things like these actors are showing their closeness because they were made to do them or for the camera/show. I know that in some country like Taiwan actors are made to even made out on stage as fan service, this doesn't apply to Thai BL actors cause they were never forced to go to that extend. FYI, if you are close with someone in Thailand, it's normal for all genders to show affection like Mile and Apo. It's only in countries where acceptance of LGBTQ+ is low will you find it strange for 2 men or women to show their affections physically. In Thailand, what you call a lie is a norm. Plus some couples like Both&New year or Porch&Arm(married) are together in real life,so how can it be a 'lie' Eg. EarthxMix were super close even before Mix enter the industry, he knew Earth since he was around Y11! Earth often take Mix to dinner or lunch cause Mix was a minor back then, Earth paid for meals. 😄 Or TayGun, a ghostship couple. Gun is super close with Tay and his family, enough that Gun was invited to Tay's family outing by Tay's parents themselves. New is Tay's official ship but didn't even get invited. When the clip of TayGun smooch on the lips was live, people condemned both of them. So stupid. Gun is close enough with Tay to casually video chat with Tay's grandmother! And Tay also said in the live-clip that "we're playing like *GMM*" (referring to the lip smooching trend the boys in gmm are playing). And even if they were really going out, so what? It's their private life. So, I hope that all foreigners who have no understanding of Thai's norm, would stop calling them liars and so on, their behavior isn't a lie cause in Thailand it's normal to show affectionate behaviors to people you are close and care for. It's also normal to emotionally adopt their work colleagues as their family. For example: In my English Department we call one of our fellow teacher *Mae*, meaning mom. And she is the third youngest out of us 7 teachers. We call her mum cause she is responsible and caring like a mother to all teachers and to show her that we care for her like family. This is Thai culture. If you are trusted and loved, you are considered as a family member.

[@Priyakumariamber]

@@freewolf27 I Said that Ship is a lie. And I am not into fan service only I like in any series or movie is plot. I never said that actors are liar... offcourse TayNew are friends and never tried to show up as lovers. Always likes bickering each other. And I love First Khao also who says that their partnership is a blessing for them . And many other actors. Maybe it's the company they made them show up as couple in name of fan service and many fans who are crazily made them lovers and can't think anything else over it . whatever. And I didn't wanna hurt anyone's feelings. So no hate for anyone.

[@phenao_Bto7]

I got into the bl world due to The Untamed. Still very sad to what happened to Zhan Xiao. Sometimes fans' obsessions are very scary.

[@loftyradish6972]

I just don't get how people confuse characters in dramas, and the actors in them. They are real human beings, not characters being written by the audiences will. Always seemed wrong of me to ship people. There are actors I love seeing together because they work really well on screen, but I don't expect them to be everything and more in real life. People need to remember that fantasy is only fun if you keep it in your mind, project it onto real people and everyone gets hurt in the end.

[@sherrygadberryturner9527]

Companies shouldn’t do that, it’s ridiculous!

[@aprillen]

A lot of people don't seem to understand what acting means. It's a job, and the job is to sell a dream or a fantasy to an audience. Very few actors play themselves on stage or screen. As an actor, you don't need to have a medical degree to play a doctor, and you don't need to be a psychopath in order to play a villain. You don't need to have kids of your own to play a parent. And you don't need to be gay to play in a BL. It all comes down to how good you are at putting yourself in someone else's shoes, and emoting on screen well enough to be convincing. I don't get why (some) BL fans can understand all the other cases, but not the one that pertains to BL.

[@phenyospace]

I wish I could put this up on a billboard in my country. Not related to bl, but in my country old people have a really hard time understanding acting. They'll go to extend of harassing an actor if they see them in public, just bc they play a villain on screen- it's so insane!

[@aprillen]

@@phenyospace Wow, that's seriously crazy! Poor actors!

[@glendene45]

The industry has to take some responsibility they overindulge the fans with these ships byencouraging the actors to participate in intense fan service. Unfortunately money takes precedence over the actors mental well being. The BL industry needs to be held accountable because they play a huge part in this to the detriment of not only the mental health of the actors but also a lot of fans who can’t separate fiction and reality. Right now bl is riding the gravy train but they are in danger of derailment.

[@lovely5D]

it’s very sad how much hate mew got and it’s still getting just because he said the truth and news flash the truth hurts 😂. some fans love fan service until they find out it’s fan service which is so stupid honestly 😭😂

[@WittleJeh]

I got into BL rea~lly late. So it's a shame a missed the Untamed era. The YiZhan pairing is still hot, but I would have loved to experience the "craziness" at that time....

[@blureader1164]

I still have not watched The Untamed because I read the story and know there has to be redactions, and didn't want to be disappointed. Maybe I'll watch it this summer, since it has been years since I read the story.

[@SanchariDhabal]

In my opinion actors should not do fanservice and not try to make their fans believe that they are more than friends at the first place. If you have acting ability, good script then automatically fans will love the series. No need to fool anyone. Because after they are done with their series they start to say to their fans not to be delusional. If their is no fanservice then their would be no problem as well.

[@b.j.g.1996]

The Untamed, my N1 favourite BL 🥺😍 Wish both Xiao Zhan and Wang Yibo an unlimited happiness ❤❤❤

[@JeonginSunshine]

3:07 Netjames was the couple that got me into BL i am that they like end the ship but if is that that they want we can’t do anything 😢

[@music0452]

I am glad to find someone else that feels like I do: we can’t control couples that are together a long time and then go their separate ways. ❤

[@JeonginSunshine]

@@music0452 exactly we cant do anything about it anyway and jj is saur cute!

[@music0452]

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[@graxiaaveria7342]

the only thing we can do is support them individually and be thankful atleast the friendahip is there❤

[@noshinshimu3103]

Really miss xiaozhan and wang yibo 😢 unteamed is a masterpiece

[@AcoolUchiha]

I love BL I found it during the pandemic and the first one I watched was Hello Stranger at that time I had no idea how many their were out their! And since then I’ve watched several more I’m not into the fan service or anything these actors are playing fictional characters and more often times then not no where near their on screen counterpart they are in the public eye daily so it’s hard to get a sense of who they truly are. but I also don’t think it’s fair to me to infringe on their lives with these delusions that their on screen partner and them must be together in real life very informative video thank you! ❤

[@user-yo3zk2ew9l]

Unfortunately, the broken up couple is very sorry The best movie couple MewGulf YiZhan NetJames BrightWin OhmNanon the most beautiful magnificent couples broke up I miss them, it's a pity that this happened Net I cried when James broke up 😢😢😢

[@freewolf27]

To all non-Thai (aka:foreigners) who keep calling BL actor's CLOSENESS a lie. First of, how can it be a lie when almost all couples stated clearly that they are either brothers or best friends from the beginning. It's only delusional fans blaming them for keeping to their words. Also, FYI, for example to those who do not know the Thai's norm, Mile and Apo's behavior is normal for bestie in Thailand and by Thai culture and standard. I have been teaching English in Thai bilingual school for over 10 years (Y10-12) and I have seen some boys calling one of their classmates "mum" or "dad". (doesn't matter what gender) they're given the nickname cause they're either super neat like their mum or super strict like their dad. A girl can be call dad and a boy can be call mum, it's their behavior that dictates their nickname-title. In class, some boys/girls would sit with their shoulders stick to one another, some even rest their head on the others laps like boy-boyfriends/girl-girlfriends during breaks. I saw 4 girls sharing 1 ice-cream in the cafeteria, 3 boys sharing 1 bubble tea with only 1 straw. Boys play truth or dare with kissing each other as dare, they laugh about it. BUT they are not boyfriend/girlfriend! I asked many students cause I was curious. They all said similar thing, that it's normal to show this level of affection with their best friends cause they are "our safe zone" person. Apparently it mean, more than best friends, more than brothers/sisters, but not a *fan*(lover/boyfriend /girlfriend) . So I hope foreigners would stop saying things like these actors are showing their closeness because they were made to do them or for the camera/show. I know that in some country like Taiwan actors are made to even made out on stage as fan service. But if you are close with someone in Thailand, it's normal for all genders to show affection like Mile and Apo. Eg. EarthxMix were super close even before Mix enter the industry, he knew Earth since he was around Y11! Earth often take Mix to dinner or lunch cause Mix was a minor back then, Earth paid for meals. 😄 Or TayGun, a ghostship couple. Gun is super close with Tay and his family, enough that Gun was invited to Tay's family outing by Tay's parents themselves. New is Tay's official ship but didn't even get invited. When the clip of TayGun smooch on the lips was live, people condemned both of them. So stupid. Gun is close enough with Tay to casually video chat with Tay's grandmother! And Tay also said in the live-clip that "we're playing like *GMM*" (referring to the lip smooching trend the boys in gmm are playing). And even if they were really going out, so what? It's their private life. So, I hope that all foreigners who have no understanding of Thai's norm, would stop calling them liars and so on, their behavior isn't a lie cause in Thailand it's normal to show affectionate behaviors to people you are close and care for. It's also normal to emotionally adopt their work colleagues as their family. For example: In my English Department we call one of our fellow teacher *Mae*, meaning mom. And she is the third youngest out of us 7 teachers. We call her mum cause she is responsible and caring like a mother to all teachers and to show her that we care for her like family. This is Thai culture. If you are trusted and loved, you are considered as a family member.

[@cettina2110]

NetJames ,MewGulf😢❤❤❤

[@pennyta9057]

Mewgulf ship was a lie

[@prathyu2690prathyu-qb9zb]

Yes n mewgulf big lie n next mile apo lie yes mile apo never doing fanservies but mile apo behaviour like couple so many think mile apo real lover but no mile have girlfriend I see some pic mile n his girlfriend so ithink one day mile apo fans heart also break

[@pennyta9057]

Frrr and that's the reason I don't ship bl actors just like brightwin People thought they had something together when they were just friends and bright has a girlfriend

[@LynetteMcGrath]

Mew certainly has a cheek blaming the fans. He is the worst for over the top fan service with the actor he is paired with at the time, and then dropping them like a hot rock when he doesn't need them anymore.

[@LynetteMcGrath]

@@pennyta9057 I never understood the hysteria surrounding 2gether. It was obvious that Bright and Win were both straight and there was no 'gay' chemistry at all - almost no touching, stupid head rubs and high fives every time a real couple would have kissed naturally.

[@freewolf27]

​@@prathyu2690prathyu-qb9zb how can it be a lie when both couple stated clearly that they are brothers from the beginning. It's only delusional fans blaming them for keeping to their words. Also, FYI, Mile and Apo's behavior is normal for bestie in Thailand and by Thai culture and standard. I teach English English in Thai bilingual school (Y10-12) and some boys would call one of their classmates "mum" or "dad". (doesn't matter what gender) they're given the nickname cause they're either super neat like their mum or super strict like their dad. A girl can be call dad and a boy can be call mum, it's their behavior that dictates their nickname-title. In class, zome boys would sit with their shoulders stick to one another, some even rest their head on the others laps like boyfriends during breaks. I saw 4 girls sharing 1 ice-cream in the cafeteria, 3 boys sharing 1 bubble tea with only 1 straw. BUT they are not boyfriend/girlfriend! I asked many students cause I was curious. They all said similar thing, that it's normal to show this level of affection with their best friends cause they are "our safe zone" person. It mean, more than best friends, more than brothers/sisters, but not a *fan*(lover/boyfriend /girlfriend) . So I hope foreigners would stop saying things like these actors are showing their closeness because they were made to do them or for the camera/show. If you are close with someone in Thailand, it's normal for all genders to show affection like Mile and Apo. Eg. EarthxMix were super close even before Mix enter the industry, he knew Earth since he was around Y11! Earth often take Mix to dinner or lunch cause Mix was a minor, Earth paid for meals. 😄 Or TayGun, a ghostship couple. Gun is super close with Tay's family, enough that Gun was invited to Tay's family outing by Tay's parents. New is Tay's official ship but didn't even get invited. When the clip of TayGun smooch on the lips was live, people condemned both of them. So stupid. Gun is close enough with Tay to casually video chat with Tay's grandmother! And Tay also said in the live-clip that "we're playing like *GMM*" (referring to the lip smooching trend the boys in gmm are playing) So, I hope, not just you, but all foreigners who have no understanding of Thai's norm, would stop calling them liars and so on, their behavior isn't a lie cause in Thailand it's normal to show affectionate behaviors to people you are close and care for.

[@user-mv4dx6js9o]

Так же с ЮнТоном, сразу был ФС, а все поверили в эту игру.

[@tinacingrani5128]

😥❤

[@bringceremony]

Stop shipping the real people for the love of god!! Weird ass behavior. You can do the characters all you want. And have really always found the extreme fan service weird and letting the so called fans drive the narrative. Hollywood can never. These people are not 2D characters

[@Yoonshii07]

I think fans will be less delusional but some ships really do over fanservice 🙂

[@joeyandres6740]

I watched the Untamed, but after Episode 20 I slowlt lost interest, as there was no BL interaction.