Part 2 - What a Mom’s Salary Would Be

Real fam, do you think you can put a price on all of the work it takes to be a mom?

[@xixi3476]

Those are very realistic real-life salaries. Funny to see how they think it is so low. Yeah, welcome to the real world girls! 😂

[@abigailsandoval9224]

Xi Xi yupppp

[@deandraowens7936]

Keeping it REAL!! Thanks for being honest!!!

[@johnybipo6945]

Xi Xi right! When Adrienne explained pouring more into nannies, I'm like not everyone has much more!! If it's the nannies choice to take the salary, I see nothing wrong

[@beingmariiee]

Same!! I'm like shoot I would love to get paid $88,000 a year, especially for 1 person! You are well taken care of! They are just used to a certain life style.

[@rosamelendez8093]

😂😂😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@monicacinco577]

Thank you Loni for shouting out to the dads as well

[@amandasteiner3616]

Not every parent is a TV star and can afford to pay their nannies six-figure salaries. Y'all need to be a bit more in touch with reality. Tamera CHOOSES not to have a live in nanny, other moms CANNOT AFFORD to have the help they need.

[@lynn.d1015]

Amanda Steiner you had them you raise them

[@amandasteiner3616]

@T Y that's why I said she chose not to have a live in nanny. She could have one if she wanted to. She's not constrained by finances.

[@imaniluvsu1]

Damn.

[@MaRi-fz8ny]

T Y and that is why marriages ends too. The nanny not only taking care of children but the hubby too.

[@boluadebekun9370]

These ppl said 88,000 ain’t enough ! It’s good to be rich lmboooo

[@milenaclark1184]

No for the amount of work that the job requires

[@kaitlorenz7264]

@@milenaclark1184 well they also live there for free. They dont pay bills so that is a lot of money

[@ballerslim9281]

@@milenaclark1184 the work is not that much

[@ashwinkumar7055]

The person who doesn't have a dad (Loni) was the only one to remember the dads... smh

[@risingstars3478]

ashwin kumar that makes sense though

[@CC-si3cr]

what happened to loni's dad?

[@Parisroam]

@T Y you must also be fatherless.

[@person8520]

@@CC-si3cr absent. It happens to a lot of black people sadly

[@zullyvettemuniz7427]

teachers also take care of some rude ass kids and are extremely underpaid

[@zullyvettemuniz7427]

@T Y yes it is, maybe not in higher grades but definately for elementary school and pre-k.

[@kookysis2741]

Lean on me.

[@beautyofmykonos3791]

My mum is a warrior. I've never seen someone as multitask as her. She is able to not sleep for THREE DAYS (I'm not even kidding) when a family member (me, dad or my siblings) is sick. Then she goes to work the next morning and bravely perform her day. She is always there when I need her (emotionally or spiritually). She always has THE bible verse that will heal my heart. For all that and much more I LOVE YOU MUM❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Who else has a super mommy?

[@justinidle7086]

M U M

[@fayepatrice1672]

I am a Cool sloth Meeee!! What an example! First female director of a prominent social organization and kept that position for 22 years until she retired. Increased their holdings by 1000%. Up at 4:00a.m. every morning to work out for an hour before she cooks breakfast and lunch for the family. I went home for lunch every day until I left home. In the church 3 days a week, and acted as the church treasurer. Clothes and hair always on point. And she had 3 kids in 3 years. Still there for us although we are grown now. Reading the Bible at retirement homes every Saturday and volunteering with special ed d children several times a year. The list goes on and I wish I was exaggerating. The best part for me is that she is loving, present, and motivating to all 3 of us. Superwoman!

[@fayepatrice1672]

T Y my father is an economist that worked with the government in a very public role. He worked like hell, obviously. But he was always there for us when we needed him. He taught us about life. He is a wonderful, but busy man. I am blessed to have had them both when I was growing up but we were talking about mothers.

[@beautyofmykonos3791]

@T Y unfortunately my father is regularly absent from the house because of his job. But when he is at home (and not sick), he his is her greatest support. They work together as a team. Personally I wash the dishes and do the laundry when mom is at work. And I take care of my junior siblings. Don't worry. My mom is not a slave or something like that. In the main comment I was talking about the fact that she can do everything when there's no other option.

[@beautyofmykonos3791]

@@fayepatrice1672 yeah. Mums are the real superheroes 🤘🤘🤘🤘

[@sarah_atkins]

Also think about daycare workers who are watching over so many kids at once that are getting paid minimum wage

[@sarah_atkins]

T Y actually, to be a lead teacher in a classroom it does require certifications and education. Also, every year both lead and assistant teachers are required to take a certain amount of classes to ensure that they are staying up to date on all the educational techniques.

[@imaniluvsu1]

On top of THAT the daycare centers want you to have a degree. For WHAT? They should pay degree wages then.

[@deandraowens7936]

80,000$ PLEASE my sister was giving me 20$ every two months & her son calls me momma!!

[@candacy32212]

Deandra Owens 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@daniellax334]

IM WITHHH YOUUU!!! I would watch my brother for free.99

[@deandraowens7936]

@@daniellax334 I KNOW ITS THE TRUTH!!! There is ALWAYS someone doing MORE than you for LESS!!!💋

[@maerunway8694]

Lmao my sister paid me 20 a day but I was working from dusk till dawn, barely had any sleep. It really humbled me and made me appreciate the work my sister had to do because boy being a stay at home mother ain't easy at all

[@deandraowens7936]

@@maerunway8694 I respect ALL mothers especially those that dont have kids!! Good looking out for your family much respect!!!💖💋 Thanks for your reply.

[@halomerric8611]

Whose gonna apply to be Adrienne's nanny...she sounds like she's gonna be a generous boss...

[@CC-si3cr]

doubt it. being a boss and a new mom are two different things. she's chill now, but wait until she has her first baby. she's going thru a lot to get pregnant. she is probably going to be an overbearing new mom w/entirely too many hands in the pot from family when it comes to the first baby. that is a job I would not want. adrienne will probably call on all of her commercial breaks to talk to the nanny.

[@Mel__21]

Yes praise single dads too! 👏👏👏

[@Jaysaflame]

@T Y like 3 years ago the news said they rose 45% so thats something to chew.

[@soleebsa]

It depends on what state and area you live in but 88,000 a year, that’s more than I make and I’m a LPN, where people’s lives are sometimes in my hands...but I live comfortably in area I live in. I would say 88,000 is more than enough for most “regular” folks. These host are living in mansions so can they really relate anymore 😒 no shade I love them but just keeping it real.

[@CC-si3cr]

loni lives in an apt. not a mansion. $88,000 was based on nyc which isn't bad considering it's for a live-in. that same pay for a nanny who has to pay rent and other monthly expenses isn't that much for nyc when a one bedroom average is $6,500!

[@Parisroam]

Girl you better take your LPN and get your BSN! More money sis

[@meredith8625]

A live-in nanny also lives with the family, so their pay generally includes their “rent” to live in the home. So it’s that pay plus the benefit of the room/living quarters on top of it. That’s probably why that amount seems a little low for the work.

[@tiffanybrown8856]

Was just about to say the same thing!

[@lynn.d1015]

Meredith Welch more is expected from a live in , longer work days , weekends, nights , that means they should not be paying rent but be paid more

[@estheriyilw6890]

Wait $88,000 isn’t enough??? $37,000 isnt enough? Shes a nanny not. Nurse or engineer

[@HerLovesBooks]

Sometimes they are plain stupid on this show.

[@noidea6558]

Right!

[@lynn.d1015]

esther iyilw I wouldn’t consider taking care of someone else’s kids for less than 100 grand a year that’s a 40 hour week

[@daniellereid131]

Perhaps they play into their demographic. The nanny and stay at home mother is likely to be watching more than a person with an office job.

[@tovah8841]

Nurse ? ? Lol you mean a “doctor or engineer”....

[@MajesticMyronn]

I honestly give it up to ALL moms... they worry when they are home with the kids , they worry when they aren’t home with the kids and yet somehow still try to make sure to take time for themselves while trying to be the best version of themselves for that child so they can live , love and learn from them ! It’s a hard yet I feel like it’s the “ hardest job you’ll ever love “ as Tam would say

[@jonnydavis6066]

Fathers>moms

[@lungelonosiphomnyandu7794]

At least when Adrienne read off the $88000 she said she can't read. 😂 Our former President told us to listen properly. And he still said the number wrong after countless times of trying😂😂

[@moimeself1088]

Girl... that was some bs we lived through!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@simthandileqeqe3486]

Jonga🙆🏾😂

[@lungelonosiphomnyandu7794]

It was a tough time 😂

[@kavyaprakash1218]

This is a beautiful topic. Thank you real for being real. :)

[@snoopz2]

This are some of the reasons I never take my momma for granted. Mothers are there through the bad times and the good time, all I know is I love my momma.

[@daniellereid131]

My mother went on vacation for a few weeks and I had to takeover as the “woman “ of the house and I have a whole new respect for her 🙌🏽

[@REBELLOGIC]

Tamera is probably an awesome mom to have

[@HerLovesBooks]

Please. Most people who know better have au pairs. Those folks earn $250 a week. Miss me with this BS research. The 2% of the population that can afford it hire nannies at the pay rate Adrienne is talking about.

[@CC-si3cr]

I think Adrienne was doing the research and might not have known anything about au pairs.

[@HerLovesBooks]

@@CC-si3cr According to the USCensus, the average household has a median income of $59,000. I just find it insulting that she would throw a number out there like that and then say "I would would pay that and more to make sure my child was taken care of." The research was horrible. Definitely not REAL.

[@JayHarmony37]

Wth?? 88,000 Is Not Enough? C'mon Man

[@jyn88]

88k is based off of working 96 hours a week.

[@jaymelynn9835]

i’m obsessed with Jeanie’s outfits 100% of the time. drop some links girl!!!

[@adalysgrey5807]

Lmao low ?! I’ll be set for life with that money 😂

[@An93la.]

You can't pay anyone any amount of money to make "moms spaghetti" 🍝🍝🍝🍝 shooooooot!!! Yo momma make that with love...Money can't buy love!!!! #MomsSpaghetti 😜😜

[@daria4484]

Lol you just made think of the rap song " lose yourself"

[@An93la.]

@@daria4484 😊 i went there !! 😜

[@burneyshakeria]

My mom is my live in nanny! I'm so blessed

[@Thepeacefulwellness]

Yes honey moms do it all and we look fabulous doing it 💁🏽‍♀️

[@dulcebombon007]

I agree with Lonnie!..I was a stay at home mom..living on an emergency account for 3yrs after I had my son due to complications after birth and being diagnosed with Lupus etc...the most difficult time of my life...I sacrificed a lot with the help of no one...and I wouldn't have it any other way...no amount of money can show value to a mothers work..day in and day out...

[@jerricajai1871]

Never had the privilege to have either parents. I am motherless as well as fatherless. But I am an amazing mom to my beautiful children.

[@leahcoye4750]

It’s true what tamera said about the child not listening to the mother and obeying the nanny

[@kristyhinkle1308]

I'm a stay at home mom and it's not easy at all. You have a lot of hats you have to put on. Especially trying to raise a 16 year old and an 11 year old. You don't get breaks.

[@ailsajudge1247]

When I was growing up we had au pairs because both my parents were always in some other country as they are health professors and had like these ‘really important careers’ so the mum isn’t always just partying in my case they were working and our au pair ( nanny) was like 20 and she enforced rules my mum had set so me and my siblings always knew that my mum was doing the parenting.

[@trisha896]

If you chose to have kids, why should you get paid 100,000? When people go to school and debt to get a JOB that pays that much

[@eliskacharlottew.2408]

Well the thing is, with a live-in nanny, you pay them to take care of them, not to be their mother. Nannies shouldn't get paid the mom "salary". Tamera is right

[@vsg5549]

Tam is like what are they doing to get paid so much.....bish what you doing to get paid so much😏😏😏😏😏😏

[@tadiwam6011]

I like this topic because people don't take enough account of the importance of raising the next generation. We need people to take our places when we retire and future doctors, nurses, carers etc to look after us in our old age and if no one takes on the challenge of raising kids we will find ourselves in some real difficulty.

[@dancersingerlover]

I want them to have this salary talk about teachers.

[@CC-si3cr]

I'm really surprised none of the ladies knew why a live-in nanny seems so affordable. Live-in nannies are charged for housing, food, and sometimes transportation (access to the family car if they don't have their own). Technically, if that "live-in" didn't "live-in", they just might make six figures. Whatever a one-bedroom would cost in Beverly Hills, Brentwood, or Malibu is what that nanny is getting charged out of her monthly stipend which might go through an agency. Plus that is not a glamorous job. You are always at work bc u never leave the house. A nanny can also make a lot more if they have an early education degree, childhood psychology degree, or some other additional education pertaining to children.

[@XingsPeachyAnus]

Look, as a stay at home sister & homeschool teacher, I WISH I got payed more than I do but most of what I do, I do for free 1.) because I love my sister 2.) because if I don't do it, no one else will. The problem with being a stay at home anything, daycare worker, teacher, nanny etc. is the fact that we aren't respected for the amount of work and love that we pour out into these kids. And the problem with getting paid so little is that people belittle us for said work. To many, this isn't a fulilling job, it isn't an important job, it isn't a STEAM job so it's viewed as labor work and not a job of intelligence. People don't understand just how much intelligence, wisdom, and stamina it takes to be an [x,y,z] & say we deserve to have so little because if we do it for love then we should just accept the disrespect, the bullying, the low standard of living, the health issues, the immense amount of stress, ect. and be happy. I'm glad that Jeanie & Adrienne are standing up for this issue because we neither get the credit nor the pay that we deserve. Just because we do it out of love, doesn't mean that we should be abused by society to believe that we are monetarily worth less than the amount & difficulty of work that we put in all day, every day for the benefit of everyone. The fact that I taught my sister how to be a good and loving child but my parents take the credit for my hard and loving work and I get so blantantly disrespected by 90% of society for my life choice is proof that we as a country have so much more to do for the child rearing workers.

[@ineedya123]

Tamera I have been a nanny while you are at work on your talk show, that woman was the mother

[@joses.m.43]

88k not a lot? ... I mean, I'm not putting a price on your kid, but 80k a year is a DREAM! ...

[@haza123b4]

*This salary means there should be a cap on divorce settlements. Some of them don't like that.*

[@neonpandas]

1) The live-in nanny is provided with housing (no rent/mortgage) to pay. 2) The live-in nanny is provided with food PLUS a salary. I feel as if parenting by a father and/or mother should be based off of wanting to carry on lineage and wanting to love their children. If you have to prove to the world how much parents should make taking care of the kids that THEY wanted should not even be a topic. I like this show but this show displays too much feminism at times. If you feel as if being a mother/father is not worth it then don’t have kids. Having and caring for kids should not even be put on a pedestal with salary. We are aware of the hard work that parents do. But YOU decided to take on that responsibility. Even being able to be a stay-at-home parent is a blessing because some are not fortunate enough and both parents have to work at times. Parents also get tax deductions for children being a dependent from the government so people need to chill.

[@Thepeacefulwellness]

She shouldn’t pay the ppl rent when she is working there duh!!!!

[@poeticlovee]

You sound like a person who must not have any kids or raising your kids. Bc no active parent would ever say what you just said.

[@neonpandas]

T Y According to the 25 people who liked my comment, I’d say that you are the majority. There are 25 against 1 so take a seat 💺.

[@MarianSylla]

Guys that’s good money. Reason why “live in” seems “cheaper” is because they get to live in your house rent free, eat your food and so many other benefits that they would be paying for otherwise. 🙇🏾‍♀️

[@kaylasimmons3906]

88,000 sounds like a lot to me 😂😂😂

[@halliwellfamily]

$88,000 is quite a bit considering a paramedic makes $50k if they're lucky. Plus, for a live in nanny they probably deduct room and board from that as well

[@idelizclarke9050]

Cost of living is also different depending on where you live in the country plus, wouldn't the nanny's pay also be based on what the parents make??

[@thehamfamhomestead]

Ha! When I was a nanny I got paid $1000 a month.... And I didn't live with them so I still had to pay living expenses! Lol

[@RosesCaliente]

its a live in. she is getting a room, electricity, and in some cases a car plus their salary sounds cool

[@CC-si3cr]

plus the nanny goes on vacation with the family.

[@KatsObsession]

I’m in Maryland just outside DC and that is not the average for a nanny. That’s crazy cheap!!

[@KatsObsession]

And 80k+ is great! You can live on that.

[@afroabe9950]

88k that is how much my father makes working for 20+ years in Software Engrineering and mom's should get paid alot more and most families don't have the money to hire a nanny this days in the USA.

[@twentysvn]

Cmon single dad shoutout !!

[@imaniluvsu1]

I'm the youngest in my family. At age 9, I WAS the live in nanny. No pay. Alot of families lean on people in the family: grandparents and siblings. No pay and people end up taking advantage of THAT.

[@chevonnelewis6832]

That is more than enough. Live in she getting bills paid and everything so that money is hers

[@ivelisse2650]

In Puerto Rico the average person it’s anual salary is $5,000

[@mgeijho]

that's 416.67 a month...are you guys getting like free housing?is the cost of leaving THAT low?

[@sophdali9830]

I had a nanny and we would give her good amounts. But once I grew up to my age, we decided for her to work for our grandmother

[@mgeijho]

I need to quit my job and go be a nanny in the US!im a whole pharmacist and im not getting $88k a year!

[@annagarcia2790]

Not enough 😑88,000 is an RN’s salary !

[@2centsfreelancer]

And in the real world 88k is not a lot it’s a lot to many cause average salary in USA is about 50k and many ppl don’t make that. And 88k / yr for a live in nanny! Is not a lot when they there 24/7.

[@antwanpena171]

💙💙

[@livh928]

GIRL... What nanny is getting 6 figures??? WHERE? I need to come work for them lol.

[@johnybipo6945]

Finally, fathers get some form of recognition 🙄

[@ValerieAbena]

I wanna know what mums leave their nannies to go and ‘party’. That’s extremely rare but yet mothers with nannies are unfairly seen as less serious

[@BATOOLESK]

iam planning to get pregnant and my mother in-law told me she would like to take my baby and raise him in her house and she wasnt joking , now iam so scared of having a baby

[@majestic6303]

What about those women who can’t wait to be pregnated by basketball/football players, not to be in a serious relationship. They know that if they can have a child they can live comfortably. Selfish, nobody cares about fatherless child.

[@jalalemoti738]

My mom makes like $36,000 in general and she works 8 hours a day 5 days a week. AND is an amazing mother. And her job is very professional yet it doesn’t pay enough.🙄

[@Spaceysgurl]

It's called real life people. Not everyone gets help on the regular. People he been having kids and raising them while working for AGES. Working with their babies on their back. This conversation is so tired. I believe there should be appreciation for all parents.

[@riseup6112]

They're fronting. They would never pay anything. They earn alot yet cheap asf

[@jasonmackey7872]

Where I'm from the. Average salary is 10,000 annually.

[@queenlfosterd]

Facebook INC you need to move

[@DatVideoDoe]

It’s probably lower because since they’re live-in, they likely don’t pay for food or board.

[@dorothylashonjefferson3374]

Nannies and Teachers

[@carlton2361]

I neeeeeeeeeeeed to date these women

[@MissSarahEdelHughes]

I’m in Ireland and for someone working in childcare they earn well under 30000 a year and very rarely will get a raise 🙈

[@emierehema5593]

I'm from Ireland as well and I'm studying childcare in college and the pay is not good at all x

[@Tyler84838]

I understand live in nanny's are obviously not the same as daycare workers, but daycare workers di alot for our children, and get paid nearly enough. In Lincoln county Kentucky our great daycare workers, make $8.00 an hour. That's shameful. And I have no other choice but to send my kids to daycare , but it is not my choice how much they get paid.

[@hebab7197]

I think the number of the salary was to show how much work moms do ( since the world relate high income with alot of work ) .. plus it should be an open limit income hahahah for moms

[@cwchris_]

I hate being a guy I would totally be a live in nanny. I love kids but there’s a weird stigma against male babysitters 😭

[@valerieutley7901]

I made $12 an hour as a nanny several years ago.

[@Elle_Hodges]

We have to make more money to lay more money...

[@orlenecharles6590]

$88 000/yr is not a lot?? Wow.

[@oftones]

$88000 isn’t enough? With food and bills paid for? (In most cases) 😕 correct me if I’m wrong

[@batwoman1847]

Well I mean they don’t pay for food or rent while they’re there so....

[@saradactalmama1102]

Have you seen the help?...back in the day the babies were more connected to their maids and nannies!

[@vanessam7769]

But that salary usually doesn't include the fact that they have a room, food and other stuff they don't have to pay for.

[@jasmineallen4344]

Umm how much y’all get paid? Because that’s a lot lol

[@courtneylyn6896]

Stay at home mom (2 boys 5 and 2), no help from any family EVER. I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TODAY.

[@YoutubeOverTV]

3000 euro a month is low for a nanny?? Bankers make 2800 when they first start working after their bachelors here in Luxembourg... idk I feel like it's more than decent...If I follow they reasoning, that means I should leave my job and become a nanny in order to afford my nanny. Come on now...

[@itsme-mt2fo]

And what about how much a dads salary would be?

[@tovah8841]

m kay whatever he makes at his “career”..

[@itsme-mt2fo]

@@tovah8841 you seem bitter....who hurt you, girl?

[@tovah8841]

m kay lol 😝😂 GIRRLLLL, ALLOT of people hurt me REAL BAD in the past .. But that ain’t the point ...lol ..The point is I personally think men should always have the careers to support their families.. Women do the hard and dirty work Already like damn we gotta carry the baby, we gotta nurture/keep our families on point and take care of everything... So what’s the point of having a stay home dad ?

[@itsme-mt2fo]

@@tovah8841 I hope ur in a better place in life now. I do agree with u! I think women are naturally created to take care of the household and kids (not saying anything against working mom's, if u wanna work that's ur choice) and the men should be bringing in the money. But, alot of the times mom's can't take care of their kids for wtva reason and that's when dads need to step in. Everyone talks about single moms but noone says a word about single dads..

[@stephaniegarcia801]

@@itsme-mt2fo I totally agree with you !!! Iam not a single mom thank God I am a stay at home mom I do have my bachelors degree but am not working at the moment my husband is such an amazing father and dads dont get enough credit society has such a messed up view on this and I feel bad for ignorant people who feel the need to not acknowledge a father. It takes a mother and a father to make a child it also tale them both to raise 1. And also the single dads they deserve so much props to take on the role society has brought up the women to play and when a man takes on both that is amazing and takes alot of courage!!

[@katithimusyimi7032]

What's à living nanny ? Am from Africa, I don't know

[@No1superjuicey]

a nanny who lives in the home to look aftrr the child

[@mgeijho]

LIVE IN hun.not living...im in Africa too[Southern],and we do have them.

[@marquisbryant]

Live in nannies get free room and board and food. So $37k with no Bills isn't that bad

[@miiah1930]

But how come no one is talking about how much of joy etc kids give you back? 🤔 And 37k/year for someone who doesn't need to have any kind of a degree sounds a lot to me. And it also depends how many kids you are watching after, if they have any special needs etc... Anyway, I appreciate moms, but it's their own choice to have kids.

[@andre-nellabrowne2567]

I love the women of the real Lord knows I do, but the all the average people that I know are making these salaries a year. Not to mention the people that I know are nurses or PSW‘s.

[@NellieKAdaba]

I love them too.

[@safucci]

I just don't like how Tamera was judging people who have at-home living nanny's. Tamera, you have the luxury to be at home with your kids and to take care of them when your off work. Some people don't and have to make ends meet.

[@haza123b4]

*Breathing is a 24/7 job. Us breathers don't get anywhere near enough credit from society.*

[@zora99ny]

Breathing is involuntary

[@haza123b4]

@@zora99ny *You're trying to minimise the important role of breathers.*

[@shoppingbeauty3756]

How much do the real girls get is my question?

[@rosemarymonique]

Are you serious Adrienne?

[@duckiie15]

Adrienne go to 5th grade. Please.

[@jonnydavis6066]

Fathers>mothers

[@stephaniegarcia801]

A mother and a father are both equal it took both to make the child not one is better than the other if they are both in the childs life.

[@mc12396]

what about fathers? man this show has so little gender equality

[@vibewithlou7491]

I have like no respect for this video. that’s more than enough money.

[@sharkyyyx5653]

Tamera is so unrelatable!!! Everything she says is just so privileged and spoiled brat-ish