Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Raped Me For The Second Time - Busola Dakolo | Part 3

[@LadyTii]

In Busola's defence (assuming the allegations are true) : for those asking how it happened in her house with her sisters upstairs... My take is that Biodun had 'groomed' her over time. Now, that's not a common concept in Nigerian society but it happens more than we recognise. And grooming breeds a level of 'infatuation' in the victim, which makes the BOUNDARY LINES of a mentor/mentee relationship become so BLURRED that by the time abuse takes place the victim is confused and unable to fight back PHYSICALLY and EMOTIONALLY. Remember, Busola also mentioned that she had an absentee father and that Biodun had said he wanted to be a father figure to her. So she was already a vulnerable target. It adds up! Just my take!

[@annyvincent]

You are so right. I ve read some cases that are so mystifying you would wonder how it could have occurred Most sociapaths know the right victims to select and they groom them till the hope is gone

[@eisenhower9069]

Oh yes. I've experienced that myself. I was just lucky

[@spencererick4766]

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[@jamiedarren2384]

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[@gbebemary9599]

You are so right! I went through the same and my neighbor are around, I couldn't shout or scream being a face to face apartment and my so called pastor was having his way with me, despite having church members living in the same building! I cried like a baby. I was powerless, defenseless and all the process was like a drama to me, but it happened and not once just like busola here! 😭😭😭 It is an unforgettable scar! Even if you try to be a super woman the wound will still open up when you see or hear of incident like that! You can just help it!

[@tygold2020]

God bless Timi Dakolo for being a man still standing by his wife. The devil has lost the battle

[@evangilefiga4599]

AMEN!

[@MsLemonpielover]

The girl child is such a vulnerable being ... this is so so sad. The culture of silence in Africa leads to so much untold trauma in later years. Many women bury the hurt and refuse to acknowledge it .. Mother’s today still refuse to talk about what happened. The stigma and shame perpetuates these type of monstrosities. God help us

[@Tolanteeno]

The girl child in Nigeria has really suffered. We need to make sure we teach our girls the concept of "grooming". Young girls need to know that there are predators around that may want to exercise power over them. Most importantly, we need to raise our boys to know better and do better.

[@okusanyayewande]

This hurts me so much,her pain,oh how she must have hurt.the girl child is so vulnerable, so so vulnerable.

[@ovighorachael2342]

I think this monster needs DELIVERANCE. Thereafter he should be prosecuted and thrown into jail where he belongs. He is a predator that shouldn't be allowed to pastor a church where he gains easy access into the pants of innocent girls.. They always blame their misdeeds on the devil. Why dont they just call themselves men of the devil instead of men of God.

[@helenblessed3911]

The boys are vulnerable too. So many cases of consented sex are now being turned to rape.

[@sharonOB]

So so sad 😭

[@knightoyin6500]

So when would we get #RapistFatoyinboForPrison trending? I can't believe that he is going to get away with the evil he did to this innocent lady and many others who are currently dying in silence. Thanks for speaking up Busola. You are a real hero. I hope more ladies speak up. We clearly have a Nigerian Harvey Winestein on our hands.

[@victoryokolo7734]

Honestly as a lady if you haven't had such experience you won't understand this feeling it's so painful when you are not courageous enough to talk to anyone about it .. 😭😭😭😭😭

[@akofabulous]

Thank you!

[@Tolanteeno]

From 2:10 made me cry. You are a superwoman for coming out and telling this story. In telling your story, Biodun Fatoyinbo no longer has the power to hurt you. Your story has now turned into the power that will be used to stop Fatoyinbo forever. #MuteBiodunFatoyinbo

[@benskales3698]

Tolanteeno ...go and stop him.....

[@asmrjessy2989]

All those pastors that came to beg for him are also doing it. Wicked people. They all should be arrested and close down those churches they have. Its well with you Busola. Abeg they should find security for she and her family.

[@ifeanyiosmond9030]

It's true my dear

[@ifeanyiosmond9030]

It's true my dear

[@marychukwu8371]

Thank God is a married woman that is speaking up, had it been it is a young girl, they will find a way to manipulate it. Let me see the lies he will come up with.

[@marychukwu8371]

@ Is God that will punish all of them involve in it

[@burlarbanton6027]

She is lying. Because she is talking gently dont mean she is innocent. How can he force himself on you in your house for three times and you cant have courage to tell your sisters, please stop believing her

[@eebong79]

Our God is a merciful God, but we should not take Him for granted. From a foreignsic psychological stand point, I will urge the world to study the victims very well. Listen to the tone of her voice, look at her body posture, follow tye story line very carefully. Read her eye movement as she speaks. Look at her emotional stance, you will come to the truth. From my professional observation following evidence-based on this interview, a previous relationship has spaked this out.

[@ja3deah]

@@burlarbanton6027 What has she got to gain by lying? In this world we are in when women are still blamed for rape, she shouldn't have to come out at all even if the pastor was doing to other members. An attempted rape happened to me in my own house, by my neighbour. I managed to escape and told my cousin but my parents didn't take it so serious as I would have expected them to. I still had to walk past him in the same neighborhood until he eventually moved away. She was probably still in a state of shock. You won't know how you will feel until it happens to you.

[@BeterConcepts]

@@marychukwu8371 Amen oooooooooooooo

[@willywhyte6681]

Watching this... it seems as though we the viewers and commentators are all seated in a large hall listening to her speak with rapt silence and attention... And to think the monster of a pastor had the guts to file a law suit against her tells the height and state of the wickedness and deceit in the heart of this COZA pastor... It is well my sister...The Lord is your healer...Thank God for your husband who has been a source of pillar and strength to you all these years...

[@jaykaduru5315]

His wife is an accomplice. Even if you're the dullest and slowest person on earth, you can't not know that your husband is messing up. She knows.

[@geraldineketchanti1109]

Definitely dear. So heartbreaking

[@leokajoh2809]

You are correct

[@stellathehype]

@@promiselucky1563 apostle Suleiman is a rapist too???

[@Lizzeeyyy]

She was charmed with krest also...

[@UdegbunamChuks]

Thank you

[@ebitulagha3198]

God will heal you Busola, what he did to you is unforgivable. and i know he will never go unpunished. thnak you for speaking up.

[@kekennysaint]

She needs justice period. The system is rotten. Stop saying only 'God will heal you'. That is part of our problem as Africans and Christians. We need to be practical and come out of all these illusions.

[@sirjesse5278]

what he did... if it's true... is forgivable.. otherwise we won't be living... people do worse and get forgiveness OK..?

[@ebitulagha3198]

@@sirjesse5278 keep that same energy when it is done to your daughter or sister.

[@ebitulagha3198]

@@kekennysaint you are right.

[@chigosblog6805]

I totally believe you sis. You are indeed a super woman. Omg! It is well with you. Your voice though soft is so loud and strong. Bless you

[@ellasstudio360]

I had chills watching this. How is this man still a pastor. I stand with you Bisola💕💕💕

[@olatunjiamele9211]

Listening to u busola u,u know biodun fatoyinbo and I believe everything u said,I tank God for ur healing and for u coming out to share this God will bless u.pls return to been active in church remember matt6vs33.Pls u can impact lives with this satanic encounters by enlightening parents in the church,it is equally a ministry pls.u won't lose it reward IJN.Concerning what Abbey told u about men of God doing such was a lie,this was what he told Ese d girl dt firstly came out to expose him about this same act some years back and also added dt Grace was on men of God.BUsola pls return to God and be active for him.

[@jjabb]

Pls na wa o... I pray they don't hurt this lady. Hope she has a strong plan B. The authorities need to check into this. Enough is enough.

[@cynthiaagbi218]

I was also a victeem of this and as at now I couldn't come out boldly to tell anybody. If it happened to you your world will be shut. As if the world is coming to an end. I can feel your pain. You have all my support

[@jessicauchechi9674]

Cynthia Agbi pls be strong ok

[@euniceaggrey6547]

Cynthia Agbi I also feel your pain

[@hopeoluwabori862]

Cynthia Agbi it is well,my Dear.

[@zeea6507]

People need to put God first and not people. I believe what she is saying but some so called members will disagree. God may your will be done.

[@ToluSeyiDaniel]

I salute your courage....the nerve of this man!!! I hope a lot more young women garner courage to speak their truth.

[@favouroladepo]

Waoh... I know sango very well and if it was 7 to 10 years ago this could be true as the place is usually quiet

[@toluwanioni6915]

Lol...I don't know which Sango. If it's Sango Ota where I live I think its true.

[@favouroladepo]

@@toluwanioni6915 Wasn't talking about sango ota, she was talking about sango in Ilorin.

[@toluwanioni6915]

Oh okay. I see there are many Sangos. I hear there's one in Ibadan too

[@favouroladepo]

@@toluwanioni6915 Yeah maybe

[@HM-rm3jq]

I weep with you Busola. I pray you overcome this & get the healing you deserve. I most happy you have a supporting husband.

[@omololakomolafe5169]

I ♥️you Busola! You are a blessing to our world! Thank you for speaking out, I can relate, it's not easy to speak out

[@mignonnebebe6702]

Omg, I'm so sorry! I didn't know this would make me this emotional. No, there is no ignoring this abeg! You ignoring this = enabling! Simple and too short!

[@princessnyeni5548]

Unfortunately,her parents let her down....

[@lanreikuesan]

U took the words out of me sir. The real people that let her down are her parents. So unfortunate

[@sharonOB]

They failed her in every way God have mercy our parents are too timid sometimes I don’t get it

[@ADiva4life]

I feel her pain..this is so sad. He took her quietness for granted and devoured her innocence. Smh

[@AA-oe3pq]

This man should never handle anything this sensitive ever again! Thank You for being strong for us and most women that are yet to come forward, I pray God heals your core ♥️

[@labi2140]

You are a Super Woman. There's nothing like trying to be a Super Woman. You're one of the Amazons of a Woman I have ever seen.

[@omololaopaleye5476]

Sending lots of Love Busola.. stay strong

[@itunuoluwatobi]

She’s so strong 💜

[@ToluSeyiDaniel]

I’m so sorry Busola Dakolo. I’m really sorry this happened to you. No one should have to go through this.

[@ademilade1]

I'm so sorry... I believe you. I can't stop crying.

[@zenaniv]

Thank you for speaking out. The effects of the events of sexual assault seem to last forever. It's like one carries the wound and heals over time. But things happen that cause you to go back and feel that pain again. So traumatic. I've been there. Thank you sis for doing this interview.

[@ijeomanwankwo3802]

Mr Chude is so compassionate. God bless you

[@bustabus6]

Oh my God!!!!!😭😭😭 Thia man is an animal. He's going down. May God perfect Busola's healing.🙏🙏🙏🙏💗💗💗💗

[@Akandei]

Biodun slept with a lot of women in Ilorin , I used to b a church member ! He even slept with a friends girlfriend who was an usher in his church in Ilorin. I wonder what the docile church member will come up with this time ! #biodun4prison

[@paschaln9811]

Some of his church members are trashing this story saying it's all made up etc The anger in me erh!!!!

[@sirjesse5278]

David if you are saying the truth what's stopping you from stepping up as a testifier also

[@Akandei]

... I haven’t said I wld or wldnt ...

[@DolamandaS]

If that was the sister In the house that day then maybe she saw it but she was traumatised could not believe her eyes and turned it to a dream.

[@simplyesse]

Wow definitely possible...

[@Baabajacks]

Ajetunmobi Amanda Adedolapo Oluwaseun she actually said it wasn’t the same sister

[@DolamandaS]

Jackie Baaba Mensah yeah got that eventually. Thanks. Still a moving story though

[@nanaf8887]

Men of God do not do this. I pray for strength for you Busola even after all this years. I am 100% positive that God wants this person exposed it’s the hard hearted members that refuse to see the hand of God in all these

[@kekennysaint]

Again, I say that people should stop giving undue reverence to these so-called '' MEN OF GOD''. We are all equal and we've all got different gifts from our CREATOR. A pastor's calling is not different from that of carpenter or teacher or neuro-surgeon. We all have our roles to affect our society positively. But these guys have capitalized on how gullible our society is and elevated themselves so much that people equate them to GOD. RESPECT, I agree but REVERENCE/WORSHIP, I say capital NO !!

[@ifesola9218]

God Bless you real good for posting this. Everybody regardless of social standing or background or material possession are equals. We are all tiny sparks of the Supreme Being. Sadly not so many people realize this. They have missed this universal truth. They do not realize how damaged they are. The root of all this is the entrenched beliefs forcefully projected on their minds by "religious leaders" most importantly by parents. People seek validation from other people. They lack the capacity to think independently, reason dispassionately, looking up to "men of Godc" to solve their problems. They don't know who really they are. They aren't their true selves. They are not free inside. They are enslaved. But the good news is that this damage can be fixed, undone. Every one has an equal positive role to play on this planet. Anyone who wants to be free must discover this from within. Every human being's fundamental obligation is to find his true identity in his lifetime. To discover the real self within. That is the Supreme ideal which transcends all material and worldly aspiration and acquisition.

[@sirjesse5278]

Ogaaaah...Weldon... go and compare yourself with Elijah and David and Elisha And The rest of them... You don't understand yourself.... please know the meaning of those words 👆

[@ginawilliams3616]

Right on

[@favany2159]

So sad,when will this stop!!!!

[@odiapaul305]

Jide seems more interested in having the story continue, than even attempting to relate with what ever she was feeling. He just made it so obvious

[@greyside1696]

weird, i actually heard his voice when she said --> I am yours, you will do what I want you do, 6:25.

[@nanaf8887]

GreySide oh wow. Same here

[@Sarah-c9j1s]

May God heal you dear girl

[@shinninglight5996]

Pastor please, confess openly and genuinely seek repentance from God.

[@LifeUnfilteredWithARIKE]

What I want exactly

[@judeirapada6966]

You are so strong.

[@sherifatstevens5230]

Bisola I feel for you and congratulate you for your courage. May the Almighty continue to heal you and bless you. On the note of the interviewer, this guy is so gringing and annoying. His not letting Bisola tell her story and he kept interopting her and very unprofessional about his questions..... Pls Mr go back to school. Lobatan!!!!!!!!

[@missbettybooo8694]

💔💔 It is the people close to us that hurt us.. I went through this from the age of 7-10 and nobody believed me

[@sharonOB]

So sorry for your pain I can relate no one ever believes but these are traumas which affect our future and must be addressed #saynotorape#

[@missbettybooo8694]

@@sharonOB Exactly we need to open up. It doesn't matter how long ago it happened but it still affects you so much.

[@cynthiaagbi218]

Good one there my sister I thank God for your life. Is only people who have been through this would understand her

[@ShayRee-pe6oe]

He saw you as a treath to Heaven and wanted to take you down. This is their structure. To sow hurt, so you can forget who you are and what you stand for. To live in self pity, forgetting who God called you to be

[@temilolaolowookere1505]

You are definitely a superwoman, I love you!!

[@iboronta]

She was a child. This is wrong.

[@taymitawpeh]

He is so controlling. A lot of men do this to women, this must STOP. Who is he to say " Nobody ignores me"

[@wonderfulera63490]

Said pastor is still on youtube till today, delivering sermons, having many followers and walking about a free man. Nigeria , Nigeria

[@nanaf8887]

She was 16! This is wrong!

[@christianaomadivi4650]

The lord will heal you...

[@ovoade]

Am sure this man also did same to boys,such characters don't have conscience. That means those people that helped in his house went through the same time,You have won already Busola

[@okorochukwunonso2563]

F M exactly.. The boys are just so afraid to speak out looking at our society... He did this to boys too... 💔

[@adeyemihassan9025]

Sis

[@taiyeadewole7163]

I was eating and immediately got nauseous hearing her story. May God give her the strength to heal from this.

[@kcnwagba]

Inspite of how serious this subject is, I can't help but laugh at Chude Jideonwo's antics. More like leading her on to talk. Kinda 'Make sure you say everything ooo'. Acting surprised at what she says yet not too surprised to break the gist with his expression.

[@Precious-pn3oz]

Please Busola, Forgiveness: Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. Colossians 3:13 Forgive & move on with your life. U r now married with children. How does u relating ur story resolve ur grief or what u endured?! Cast all ur cares on Jesus &move on with Him

[@kambwalikatenga9542]

Just so sad, it's great you have a strong husband by your side.

[@tobsadtobsad2308]

MY OKUN SISTER GOD WILL HEAL YOU PERMANENTLY IN JESUS NAME.

[@HearttoHeartTV]

so many women go through alot especially at young age. this is a lesson to so many to voice out on time. #hearttohearttv

[@nze2556]

Likewise men too

[@chikaonuh3239]

So very true

[@HearttoHeartTV]

@@chikaonuh3239 very true

[@ireigweb5389]

Hopefully other women that are currently being sexually molested report such a horrific incidents to appropriate law enforcement . Wish that rape laws in Nigera is as strict as here in United States. Hearing this woman Narrate this horrific traumatic nightmares is just heartbreaking...

[@oluwatoyinadepoju7463]

I cried seeing this.. May God heal you.

[@floBar51651]

So, he convinced the prayer minister that it is is weakness and the prayer minister should not leave him now, typical narcissistic behavior.

[@REMMYFAY]

Thanks Busola Dakolo. I stand with you from London. Nigerians or anybody at all who casts a vile tongue at your accusations of rape is either a "Church fetishist" or a complete "ignoramus". I admire your presentation and the location of the interview is quite strategic. Having said that, I would like to add that the vilification of Biodun Fatoyinbo is not sufficient but that he should equally be perceived as a pervert who needs help ( spiritual and psychological). Given his numerous sexual scandals enough to last him for a lifetime, I personally believe he might be masking under ministry instead of dealing with deep rooted issues around sexual sins. I will not be surprised he is a sexual abuse victim himself. This however is not in anyway to exonerate him but as a body of Christ, I strongly believe we should pray for him for healing "not for restoration" at this point and also offer help and counsel to all who have been his victims. God bless you all.

[@victoriapaul7368]

Busola you are indeed really brave

[@johnichie6130]

Devil has suffered. So many people accusing him of things. Konji hook Broda Biodun..im talk say na devil #muteBiodun.

[@Unclechyke]

Kudos to Busola for speaking out. Hopefully this will ignite a 'me too' movement in Nigeria.

[@twinkletwinkle4944]

Be strong 💪🏽 I know isn’t easy

[@chidubem826]

Busola: Busola: Interviewer: "I'm going to ask another stupid question." But seriously, RAPE is not a joke! I sympathize with every woman who has had to go through this experience. Be Strong.

[@Socialmediagossip13]

You are a very beautiful women. Sorry for this horrible ordeal. Such a tragedy. I can not believe the COZA church pastor who I watch almost everyday on youtube, did that to you. God will surely deal with him for disobeying his commandment in the word of God. Vengenance is mine, I will repay sayeth the Lord. My dear get the counseling that you need. Thank you for sharing your story. I also have a talkshow channel, and If you are interested in being a guest on my show, send me a message. May the grace and glory of god, heal and set you free in Jesus Name. Why isn't his wife enough for him? God will surely judge!

[@mersomms840]

This interviewer pls let us hear word, we are not deaf stop repeating her words.

[@DoubleEm8]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Fredas_Lifestyle]

Yeye interviewer. I know Oprah Winfrey will interview you Busola...

[@MsChinny11]

I swear he's so annoying..hes the wrong person for the interview

[@raymondelina1245]

He is good interviewer, dat how German immigration question people to know d truth

[@endl1234]

This is how you interview someone with trama. Repeating her words over and over gives weight to her story because she is not straying from her story. Its like your at a crime scene and you must go over the scene thoroughly and sometimes go back to make sure you didn't miss anything, even if that means going back multiple times.

[@femmyo9273]

With tears welling as i listen to all this i say God bless you and your family. May the Lord strenghten you more and more. Thanks to your lovely hubby who is helping you to be free and be a total woman. May Christ be rooted and built up in you both. I pray that this brings a closure you deserve.

[@floBar51651]

Off course, he came to check up on your because he was afraid that you had gone and told someone.

[@aiken_voka]

Oh My God!

[@prettyadei]

Am mad angry right now ...even some people still had guts to support him ..for goodness sake this woman can't be lying now ...so many people complain and reported about that man but people don't believe cos they think he's a pastor ...I said God never sleeps and he looks after his own ...justice will be served ..am sure he never expected his sin of many years will come back to haunt him cos he didn't change his ways ...thunder will fire him ....he will surely go down for dis ...I repeat thunder will fire him and God wrath will surely come upon him

[@abigailcoleman]

adewunmi blessing ohh I’m sorry angry, he needs to be jailed ahh my heart is beating fast, wicked man

[@oseicosmos9515]

Pastoral work is not an easy task at all.Pastors should be vigilante

[@carloswestover476]

I am very sorry about your experience but then I think there is more to this story that has not been said .....

[@adelowooluwabunmi265]

Yes

[@mahrairene4142]

Sorry I want to ask a stupid question.... Why is the background a Catholic altar

[@chiadisly6990]

Mahra Irene 😂

[@mercyadoda4683]

I wondered too

[@madumadu4329]

The level of detailing!! Gosh!! She cleaned the house for them, slept with his wife and baby on same bed and the bloody clown says no private interactions?? Fucking Hell!! So pissed 😡 😡

[@usmanidris4361]

So so sad Bukola, other sisters out there beware of randy rowdy (wolf in sheep clothing) "Men of God"

[@sirjesse5278]

smiles

[@ratidzosigauke2936]

So graphic😭😭😭this is sad

[@bookqualitysupplies2135]

This is surely has taking over #youtubeng . Make sure you watch the updates on #hearttohearttv and people's comment; they included details of what will amaze you.

[@eboheghosa5524]

You are indeed a super woman and voice to the voiceless. Istandwithbusola

[@elokabenson8921]

They did it more than once

[@ochonganokwu]

You are a strong lady my dear. My only grouse is that you waited for this long to speak up about this. Anyway, I can’t really blame you cos I know how our society is. I commend you and admire your courage.

[@naijaman1]

Please understand that it takes a lot for someone to open up about something so traumatic.some never even talk about it all their life

[@Fredas_Lifestyle]

I'll have this interviewer do sports journalism and hire someone else who has better empathy and communication skill to connect emotionally to a woman who had been abused.

[@kolawolekushimo]

Oh my! Busola was a minor😢

[@Missforexcharts]

Please interviewer stand up n give this girl a hug😥😥😥😥😥breaks my heart

[@isiedeoghon9430]

Abeg o, interviewer don't o before.. Ehen!

[@ChristineN.14]

😂​@@isiedeoghon9430 please he should not😅

[@odinakaodinaka6721]

Interesting story

[@bridgetkyeibaffour8778]

Oh my God,the second time?maybe Budion will be set free in the sight of human being as it is no news in this world but he never be set free by God for the deeds he has done.God will punish him

[@devathadiva3]

Please LadIES SPEAK UP!!! AT ALL COST

[@busolaoseni6271]

Ladies hear and hear good. keep urself Biodun wife Will never leave her husband .Busola Dakolo is only panting her dirty past claiming innocent which is not true.Timi Dakolo should had known that her wife was not a virgin and anything mighty had happened why digging d past. What did u except Busola to do when her marriage is being threatened bcos of that. Busola only want to safe her marriage. If how come d pastor gave her car for wedding gift .

[@yemidynamyte]

This is sad

[@stellathehype]

What in the actual fuuuuuuck!!! I've never been so mad at a video..this is so sad... Biodun, and to think we respected you.. well, just as you were given that respect that's how you've been stripped of it...this is outright disgusting

[@evolvewithcoachline2447]

@Gloria Ochai you're the idiot!

[@stellathehype]

@@evolvewithcoachline2447 don't mind her, she's obviously naive

[@ireigweb5389]

Mennn, this is sad .

[@weyinmiawuzie5014]

What is this ooooo. Pastor Biodun you are not a man of God you are supposed to be dealt with like Cersei in Game of thrones(Strip naked and paraded on the streets). Jeezzzzzzzzzz.

[@conversationswithdes3720]

Jude please when you’re interviewing someone giving a testimony or trying talk about something that happened in the past stop repeating what they are saying and let them talk without any cut ins. It doesn’t help the triggers or interviews, thank you.

[@kolawolekushimo]

If Flow and Wole were there how come Biodun released a statement he didn't rape anyone. We should recall Busola was a minor then, raped in her house and along the road. So then, who gave Biodun consent?

[@acustenstani6616]

Any man that disvirgined a girl is through raped, so is very common among man, whether they will marry each other afterwards or not is a very different story entirely, so men or woman how did you marry your spouse? correct me if am wrong

[@acustenstani6616]

This second time is your agreement with him not forced, ok