Pat Benatar on Falling in Love at First Sight

[@markbirchette8740]

Pat has always been absolutely beautiful and still is in 2024...🎸🇺🇲🦅

[@adquinta]

Not that she isn’t any less beautiful now, but this interview is from 2015.

[@SamBell7]

Yes I love some Pat Benatar and when she was hot on the charts everybody loved this little hard rocking beauty I remember we use to jam on it daily along with all the other great music of the 70s and 80s

[@markbirchette8740]

@@adquinta At age 59, I'm well aware of when it was and saw Pat live in the early 80s and forward.

[@denieledwards6893]

AGREED LOVE HER 11-12-24

[@SamBell7]

@@markbirchette8740 i'm 59 December 3

[@ylekiote99999]

Thank God these two hooked up. Not just for them, but for us too!

[@lynnpeirce3205]

Love how he calls her "Patricia"!❤

[@redhotchilifan98]

That’s how it was with my wife. All my life I only had bad luck with finding love, but as soon as I saw her I immediately knew she was the one I was always looking for. We’ve been together ever since.

[@adiohead]

I'll give it a year.

[@Mellie_H]

You're a lucky man, and I'm happy for you!

[@redhotchilifan98]

@@adiohead we’ve been married for 5 so lol

[@Dooguy]

Your very lucky

[@AnimaOB737]

How Sweet!

[@charlescdt6509]

Her face lit up telling their story.

[@raywalsh9152]

Born in '64 and grew up listening to Pat and all that music. I knew that her and Neil were married but I didn't know the back story. I met my wife, now 32 years and going strong, when she knocked on a door of a friends house that I happened to be visiting. We married 7 weeks later. Sometimes it just be like that.

[@canuck64]

I'm from 1964 also...great year

[@BRIANDER100]

why was she the one ?

[@layniac0146]

That is so cool

[@taintedlove202]

Jan 1964…….and proud of it! ✌️❤️😎

[@amynaddra7230]

I fell in love at first sight too. My husband and I shared 28 years together before he passed away. A match made in heaven. I love Pat!!!!

[@kristalraya730]

Sorry for your loss

[@bond7459]

Back in the 80s, Pat's career was in the very top of the mountain. Awesome band.

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

I’m still love her so much!

[@SloaneHomeAlone]

I love the way he calls her Patricia. ❤

[@HowieDash]

She is and always will be , one of the greatest forces in modern music history ..... truly a superstar and great role model for girls/women .... and let's not forget the other half and support , Neil ....

[@hiho8084]

So rarely do couples in the business, [Hollywood...] survive. So glad these two did. Mega talented as well!

[@LillyMarz777]

Barry and Linda Gibb have been married 54 years

[@crittersintheyard3993]

I LOVE Pat Benatar!! She is a kick ass rocker!! I was a teenager in the 80's and she always stands out as awesome music from that decade!!

[@hellolittleflower]

I grew up with Stevie Nicks, Aretha Franklin, Annie Lennox, Alanis Morissette, Chrissie Hynde, Tina Turner and of course my favourite Pat Benatar. To hear how her love story started and her career partnership began is wonderful. Great interview.

[@stevenholquin2127]

Neil Geraldo Was a Session Player Back in The 70’s He Would Come Over To The BCRICH Guitar Shop On Valley Blvd and Eastern Ave Which Was a Garage Behind The Sip n Shoot Bar Nothing is There Anymore Yet I Used To Service His BCRICH Eagle Guitar The Action and Intonation I Remember He Had Just Landed a Session with Pat Benatar and He Needed His Guitar Set Up and Intonation For This Session with Pat….That Day He Asked if I Could Take All The Electronics Out and He Wanted Just a Volume Knob…I Took Everything Out And Just Gave Neil a Volume Knob and The Rest Is History 😮 Neil Geraldo is One of The Best and Kind People You Will Ever Meet 😊

[@dirkgibbens377]

WTF Is Up With All The Caps? 🤷‍♂️

[@rottingcorpse6002]

One of the greatest pairings in rock history...and it has lasted a lifetime. His guitar work is as legendary as her voice. You can "sing" his solos. And absolutely iconic pair, as tasty and good as a Reese's peanut butter cup. Thanks to you both for all the great memories.

[@kevinthompson629]

I am really glad for her. I've always liked and respected her. She deserves happiness.

[@karenbrown2135]

I love Pat Benatar!!! I saw her in concert in a club in LA and I took my daughter as well. Pat was awesome!! She sounded the same as she did back in the 70’s/80’s. I will never forget that night. Love you Pat!!

[@julieclayton-west624]

When Pat came to New Zealand in the 80s she gave us a concert I’ve never forgotten. What a knees up. Brilliant.

[@jaymiewright526]

So the fairytale does happen, really thrilled for you guys!

[@MayorOfBodybuildingTV]

Very rare. Must marriages are DOA.

[@mmorrissey41]

This is the sweetest thing I've heard evah! It restores my faith in love at first sight!!!

[@sjgrall]

Pat and Spyder are amazingly talented. I've seen them live at least 3 times, maybe more, I've lost count! This story warms the soul!

[@guidosarducci3047]

Great story - Yes Pat is amazing but Neil is absolutely one of the most highly underrated rock guitarists to ever record - I'm glad they found each other - her career might not have been as big as it was with anyone else but him. Great team = great music. Just one mans opinion.

[@MsRocker961]

I agree

[@donsaxon1169]

I agree.

[@216Numbskull]

Not only is Neil a kick-azz guitarist/songwriter/producer, he was just a good dude with cool tude all the time with me back in the day. I'm very grateful still today for being fortunate enough to get quite a few guitar lessons from Neil when I was a young budding musician. The first garage band I formed was with a good buddy of mine from school Jimmy when we were both 13. One of the best things about it was Jimmy's nextdoor neighbor happened to be Neil Giraldo's parents house where he grew up in Parma, Ohio. We had a 5 piece Rock/Metal band with me & Jimmy on guitar & thought we were pretty decent for 2 young punk kid rockers. However, not so much when Neil would periodically knock on the door while we were practicing in Jimmy's basement. Neil could have easily been a dlck to us after hearing us doing a hack job on a RUSH or Zeppelin tune. But instead Neil was as cool as they come & not only took the time to help us play the tune the right way. He always went the extra mile to teach us a few new tricks, scales & different techniques to practice & have down the next time he knocked on the door or else. 😁 Although, that's the way we roll growing up in The-Land of the (216). Just keeping it a buck! +Peace Funk & Rock n' Roll 4 Your Soul My Friends+ 🤘😜🤘

[@thebreathalyzer]

100%. She called it...she needed the heavy rocking musical partner like those classic bands. The synergy between the two of them is unbelievable. I think they perfectly compliment each other .

[@UnitedSoundVideo]

He was well know in the industry. Certainly NOT underrated!

[@rockfordrocker8971]

AMAZING vocalist and performer. She's just SOOOOO good.

[@Stratocaster-2112]

I can relate so much to this video. Pat and Neil are one of the very best duos of all music time. Just fantastic together!

[@jergervasi3331]

Spyder is one of the best guitarists AND nicest guys ever. Just a normal, nice, friendly person. I’m a huge fan.

[@Danny-fs1hk]

This interview segment was so f’ing cool. I’ve loved this duo since the early 80’s and it’s so great to hear about their journey. Thanks for the post!

[@khismet]

Pat Benatar is a legendary figure in the world of rock music. Her powerful vocals and captivating stage presence have earned her a place among the greats of the genre. Her music has inspired countless fans over the years, and her fiery spirit and unwavering passion for her craft have made her a true icon. From her chart-topping hits to her electrifying live performances, Pat Benatar has cemented her status as a true rock and roll royalty, leaving an indelible mark on the industry and the hearts of her devoted fans.💗💗💗

[@USA92]

So what writer did you steal that from?

[@Mellie_H]

It was a dream come true, getting to meet Pat & Neil. They are SO normal, and down to earth! If you liked this interview, you should read her book. I believe it's called, "Between a Heart & a Rock Place." It was a great read.

[@jergervasi3331]

Great book!

[@sharonjensen3016]

I loved Pat's book. Could not put it down.

[@islandofmisfityoutubers6734]

In 1991, one afternoon this man walks into the bookstore, came up to the counter and as soon as he asked me a question I KNEW HE WAS THE ONE FOR ME! So I listened to his interests/favorites in the world of literature, we walked over to the New Age section, which now it's called Spirituality (something like that) and handed him my favorite book: "Demonologists". One evening, we talked on the phone at one point for about 2 hours and I made a mental note that "OH YA HE IS THE ONE FOR ME!" Then I didn't hear from him for what seemed like 10 years. So 3-4 years later he walks into the bookstore I transferred over to since the other one closed down, and was so excited, then he suddenly springs on me that, his exact words ,"I just got hitched" (to his high school girlfriend). WOW it felt so surreal, I just swallowed my heart. We stilled remained friends but at a certain level of awkwardness. After about 8-9 years later, they separated and he wanted to be with me 💗❤‍🔥💋. It was meant to be!! 🌹🌹🌹 My SOULMATE/SOULSPOUSE ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥💋 We officially got married almost 3 years ago December 7th 💝💝💝💞

[@rachelright8720]

Sweet story❤

[@melissajanaemiddleton6811]

Wow... really a beautiful story!! Sometimes it's a matter of each of us evolving to that point of true readiness, mind, heart and soul. I'm so happy for you!💖💖

[@islandofmisfityoutubers6734]

@@melissajanaemiddleton6811 YES mind heart and soul! ❤

[@melissajanaemiddleton6811]

@@islandofmisfityoutubers6734 ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

[@lynnboyd33]

What an amazing story! I just love it and congratulations to you both!

[@rollingedges9469]

My dad's guilty pleasure, dude loved hard rock and metal but always had pat in his tape collection.

[@jamievana8991]

"Shadows of the Night", was an everybody-on-the-floor-skating-song at skating rinks back in the early 80's.

[@lynnboyd33]

Always, always was in awe of Pat! Her Voice, her boom, her style, and her music!! She really stands out amongst all the rest! Really enjoyed this interview as well as her sweet, laughter and raspy voice! So happy these two found each other!

[@lisawheeler53]

What a wonderful story. Have loved them for years. Soundtrack of my youth. Pat was a ground breaker for women in rock and not many can approach her range and control. Is there anything Neil cannot do:)? Amazing together!!

[@nightranger3430]

I knew all this the first time I saw them in concert together back in ‘79…I was so caught up in the Neil G & Pat B dynamic that I ditched my pretty date at the event just to eliminate the distraction. That look & then the music! Man it was perfection…The rest is history. God bless you both for the memories!❤️👍🏻

[@prairiestrong1106]

She was my first major crush back in the early eighties She’s timeless and beautiful .

[@bermudaguy5003]

This is such a fun interview! Luv her voice & songs

[@gailzaranek6958]

I love their story. You can tell how much they're still into each other, and a long-term love and work relationship is so hard to sustain.

[@SeanOG88]

Both are bad asses. Both are musical geniuses. Both are personable. How could anyone not root for these two? ❤

[@preciousone5496]

That was fun to watch. I was a teenager in the eighties and LOVED Pat Benatar. She was so badass!!! Their happy marriage makes my heart soar. 😘

[@REDZ28won]

What an Amazing woman! They dont make them like this anymore! They make a Great Couple!

[@loriburling8360]

Pat and Neil are just AWESOME!!

[@jamesfetherston1190]

Neil is a flat-out excellent, excellent guitar player. Good producer and writer too.

[@ia5662]

I think it's so great how human and down-to-earth both of these people are and it allowed the rock world a gift of music that could only have come from the two of them. What a great story and how cool is it they are still together after all these years in a typically crooked and shallow industry?

[@HRGreenShark]

Excellent story telling from both Pat and Neil !!!

[@sandiecalvert]

Pat is so naturally beautiful and always will be LOVE HER

[@fraankhanon]

True Love. Just awesome!

[@ChuckSchickx]

That voice ❤

[@LaurieValdez-zk3dy]

Opera and everything else. ❤❤❤❤

[@CDU916]

Neil’s Reagan quote was sublime. Every creative person should consider this philosophy and take it to heart. People are happier in general when their approach is more “we” and less “I” and the notion of credit comes in many ways. Great dual videos, thanks for posting! 👏🏼

[@EscutCavaller007]

I am a fan--always been since the first time I heard Pat's voice through the Pizza Inn speakers when I was a pre-teen (love them both)!

[@amycovey6595]

Sooooo glad to hear her mention Mr. Plant AND Mr. Graham!!!!😊

[@MatthewCostantinoDC]

Saw them live in early 80’s, San Diego sports arena Great show!

[@Eden639]

They are perfect together. Love at first sight, I wish that happened to me.

[@sharonjensen3016]

I love the fact that they didn't have a big white wedding (Pat had already done that with her first husband and it didn't end well). They just went to Maui in Hawaii and got married.

[@slate49]

How did I run up on this gem! Man! This was such a pleasure to watch. Never knew this side of Pat Benatar

[@HollyCranfan]

I have seen them a couple of times. He introduced her as my beautiful wife Patricia. That’s great that they have such a wonderful marriage. It’s nice to see that.

[@Syamhouse]

She’s so nice.

[@boomerlady]

Great Story. "I need a lover" Wonderful song. Yes to all above.

[@markrigg6623]

She's aged really well. And sounds very down to earth. Good on her.

[@rogue___tr00per24]

much obliged you guy's worked it out ... REALLY !!

[@rtypepe]

Saw her at the airport in Hawaii... she was so nice and cordial, and so happy to meet a fan

[@umouthingme]

She and her husband look really good for their age.. I love their music.

[@rosemartinez1116]

Awe! Sweet story! I love Pat Benatar!! I'm happy for you both!!!

[@ReubenKincaidJr]

Been in love with her for 45 years.

[@joadhenry]

she looks fantastic!!

[@jstevenj1]

How cool! Thanks for sharing Pat...😎

[@57athina]

I remember staying up all night waiting to listen to the first release on radio of their album 1979 like it was yesterday. I dressed like her at a concert I went to see them sewn by me. I wax 5’2’ 92 pounds and in a rock band myself. She has the voice of an angel and their relationship, well, couple goals.

[@robertrussell9336]

Thank you Pat, For sharing your gift with us, love your work.

[@Dangergirl88]

I love Pat Benatar! It is awesome that they have made great music together and their relationship has stood the test of time! Amazing couple! ❤

[@paulapenna-loveyourvoice]

She went to my high school! It’s so cool listening to our chorus recordings and hearing her teen voice

[@CosmicChild1111]

I love them♥️✨and awesome music…Pat is phenomenal and I still listen to their hits “Shadows of the Night” is my favorite!

[@maryjogreen1706]

I was there when you came on the scene!! My son got to see you! It was amazing

[@privatepenguin3137]

I fell in love at first sight too...with Pat 😍

[@LauraRoberts-g6s]

So did my brother and I fell for 🕷️ 🎸 .They are Still the cutest couple ❤

[@TheNadaladaDOTnet]

There are few great things in life; Pat B and Neil give me so much happiness. What a story, WHAT SONGS.....gimme a fuckin' break. Thank you to you both.

[@WasatchTraveler]

What an incredible woman and team

[@dawnmaestascowell6930]

I saw her in concert ! Absolutely amazing

[@dawnmaestascowell6930]

I was 22 girl !

[@UNCHART3DGAMING]

“I need a lover” - rocked out to that in my youth!!!

[@22RosesGrow]

Great interview!They are a cool pair, and she's an excellent musician.

[@misssicily100]

Thanks Pat for all your great kick ass music!! your beautiful.

[@Christophertracy09]

Glad she went back to brunette!! She looks so great at 71!!♥️

[@sharonjensen3016]

I'm glad she hasn't resorted to Botox. She's aged gracefully.

[@franko6677]

They both aged very well.

[@RPMCanes]

Undisputed Queen of Rock and Roll

[@markpolinsky5560]

You Two Rock , The Soundtrack Of My 1980's. Thank You Both !

[@LeileeBaker805]

I remember this story love thier love❤

[@tonychavez2083]

AXS tv is the best!

[@CorndancerHawkeyes91254]

A Beautiful story to share, Forever True Love the deserving of each other heart and soul. A'ho!

[@skyavalanche]

They will be INVINCIBLE 💞

[@Big_Island_Boi]

It's so rare that two talented people (or 3 or 4 or 5) can put their egos aside and care more about the partnership or the group than themselves. In fact, the more people you add to the mix the less likely it is to happen. The made some great music for a time and it's part of the soundtrack of my youth so I love them for that.

[@AnotherGloriousDay]

One of my favorite love stories.

[@strawhousepig]

She deserves to be on more best Rock vocalist lists.

[@ChristChickAutistic]

There's 3 women who I consider my unofficial vocal teachers, Karen Carpenter, Donna Summer, and Pat Benatar, even though I didn't realize it then. Karen taught me how to sing, Donna taught me how to project my voice, and dearest Pat taught me how to rock with a big voice. She was IT for me as a teenager, and she still is. It makes me so happy that she and Spider are still going strong, such a handsome and talented man, perfect for such a gorgeous, talented woman like Pat. A true rock and roll power couple. ❤

[@deanallen927]

Love Pat! And Dan is the absolute best.

[@gabriellagiavanni7062]

Haven't seen Pat in a long time. Remember her back in the 80's with very short hair, like the long hair.

[@annrodriguez2891]

Pat Benatar❤❤❤❤

[@janiceg7661]

Grew up listening to her, she is so talented and beautiful. ❤

[@bctwitty]

An incredible partnership, indeed!

[@charlene.elovitzChannelYT]

I'm starting to think many people should have several important relationships during their life-- However it's always great to hear when people find their true match!😊💕

[@ctlt-pg4tm]

When she was at the height of her popularity I dated a girl that was her absolute Doppelganger. Boy was that fun

[@Cicilo1983]

When was this interview done ?

[@Citrusfruits50]

Wow!! Amazing story 🥰

[@molassescricket6663]

Grew up listening and watching her on MTV! Neil is a bonafide BAD ASS & she is TOO! They are two BAMF’rs! Great story! BTW Neil wrote Rock & Roll Hootchie Koo for Rick. He even came up with the legendary guitar riff. He and Pat have to be the greatest duo in rock history.