Pattaya Girls working in Bars can easily make you slip up and make some funny mistakes like these.

[@tonymatthews2344]

i remember one night i had a lady knocking on my hotel room door for an hour!!, no matter how much i tried to ignore the noise she just carried on knocking.........in the end i had to get up and let her out!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

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[@jz3689]

Now that’s funny shit lmao 🤣

[@justdoit6085]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ericpowell4350]

😆😆😆

[@hugornne3556]

He,he… funny boy.😂

[@st8pl8guy]

A mistake I made is buying dinner. Thai girls can eat! Never underestimate how much food they can put away, or how often. They are like Hobbits, they want Breakfast, Second Breakfast, Elevensies, Luncheon, Afternoon tea, Dinner, Supper, etc.

[@vagabondvibes2578]

LOL! They can certainly put it away, though in Cambodia the girls can knock back even more! And what about sleep! Thai girls can sleep! When I used to have regular night flights I would make myself stay awake for all of the next day but even then I could not, that night, ever sleep more than 10-11 hours, but Thai girls can sleep for 24 hours! They are not just being lazy and staying in bed, but are dreaming!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol

[@davidcoleman2796]

I made that mistake one time in Guatemala. I had 2 girls at the same time . Then we went to eat . Omg . They ordered everything . Took me for a extra $50 . But I did do both of them for $50 AND THEY WERE NICE . I was out $100 but will never forget the time I had . Lol

[@juliolopez7783]

Yes sir they can eat my thi gf eats more then me and gets muddy when she wants to eat amazing how much she can eat

[@vagabondvibes2578]

@@juliolopez7783 They have astonishingly fast metabolisms.

[@ghostwhitecrab]

I used to visit Pattaya regularly 25 years ago and after a very long hiatus began to come back just before the pandemic. The one thing I learnt very quickly was if I was there for a week and wanted to play the field I would bar fine the girls furthest from my hotel on the early nights. I used to stay at the Weekender hotel now long gone that used to stand on 2cnd road, close to where the Central Marina Mall is now, there were beer bars both sides and on the oppositte side of the road but I would never use those on the early days of my holiday, That way I would avoid walking past them hand in hand with my girlfriend for the night. Pattaya has changed since those days and I am older, perhaps not wiser as I can still let other body parts rule my head especially after having had a drink, but much of the advice given now was valid back then and vice versa. Things now complicated by smart phones. The one thing you have to keep in your head is that Thailand is disneyland for mongering males and as such is just a money making business that is there to provide experiences that are not available in the real world. Enjoy it for what it is. Don't try to think that you are special and that you have found someone special. Your princess is as real as a disney one, a fantasy to be enjoyed for the duration,

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing your experience with us

[@paulmcfarlane3250]

@@ghostwhitecrab very true

[@newtondelmar4416]

When you get "accused" of being a "butterfly"...I always ask the girl how many "customers" she has had that week...Bar girls are not angels for the most part and if they need to be reminded that they are as "guilty" as you...I have no problem calling them out... :)

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Same same but different

[@paulmcfarlane3250]

@@newtondelmar4416 they working

[@paulmcfarlane3250]

@@newtondelmar4416 she working 😊

[@yearight9185]

Yea the easiest way to crush the photo problem is just forward it to a private email and then delete it off your phone. It amaze me all the the people that keep incriminating photes right on their phone for someone to see that you might not want to see.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Tactics mate

[@silverfox6883]

Regarding bringing a girl back to your room, make sure you stay in a place with 24 hour reception and guests are required to leave their ID at the front desk, treat them well and always pay them the agreed price, gentlemen. Have fun, be respectful, always smile, always wear a shirt (walking around the streets bare chested is very disrespectful for Thais and a bad look for farangs) and stay safe, gentlemen ...

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Great advice

[@kallenby40]

an amusing story from 1997 - me and a mate went to koh samui for a long weekend break; were in chaweng and at a bar and these 2 stunners walked up to us; then proceeded to show us their photo albums of basically naked photos - i dragged my mate out of the bar cos i knew they were LB's - went back to our beachside hut; then the next day we're on the beach and then one of the same LB wearing the tiniest of g-strings and no top embraced my mate and knew his name which was never given the night before - he'd obviously gone back out when i was asleep and hooked up with LB - to this day he denies it but how would she know his name !! lol - amusing.....

[@Buzzinpattaya]

555 busted

[@bigdaddysamui3914]

A tip or two: 1. When going to a nightclub w the lady of your choice...soon there will be 5 of her friends there suddenly gulping the drinks! Beware the farang pays. 2. Taking a highly drunk girl back home is a pain in the ass IMHO. She gets to your toilet, throws up all over, gets into bed and passes out, meanwhile you lay awake all night listening to her SNORE! 3.Thai ladies can drink until they drop and leave you with a kiss on the cheek. Money lost but smart of them. 4 IMHO Go out Hunt, find, then get a short time room and go home (after a burger) satisfied. :) All good fun!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Excellent tips there my friend thank you

[@jz3689]

A 10 in a go go bar will quickly turn into a 6 or a 7 after you bar fine them. They go into the dressing room, take off their high heels and put on their regular cloths and step outside away from the dark lights inside the bar and bammmmm just like that a 10 turns into a 6 quicker than you can blink an eye.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

So true made me laugh when I read this spot on

[@graemewetherall1053]

Just snuck into Thailand last night, before they bought the curtains down again This is unbelievable No wonder that many people are not continuing with plans on coming to Thailand It’s okay for me, I’m retired, but it would be a major worry for holiday makers !!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good move mate

[@evvil77]

Most of these "mistakes"are easily avoided if you are just up front with who and what you are. I never hide the fact that I am the biggest butterfly in town and that i see a new girl every evening. I think most of these problems start happening if you give the wrong expectations, just dont play that game, it's a business and if i wanted a gf i wouldn't pay her for the night.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair enough

[@paulmcfarlane3250]

@@evvil77 every man pays for a woman

[@patrickhughes3587]

My pal lost £50,000 because he stayed in touch with a lady he met from Indonesia. On returning home several weeks later he was asleep and his phone got pinged with a bunch of message. His girlfriend who was awake opened the phone and was able to track the conversations back for weeks. A split up, house sale, cars... £50k mistake. Also a schoolboy error by leaving your phone out and unlocked.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sad to read this

[@MrRedResorts]

Just buy a basic burner phone text and call don't need more....

[@bman7956]

Phones have better security now, fingerprint recognition, pin codes etc to prevent this kind of thing.

[@anthonywhite4559]

Great point about going back with the girl to her bar. Did not realise I was still paying Lady drink prices. Never too smart to learn something new.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah the take every opportunity

[@surinfarmwest6645]

I spent an afternoon with one young lady would wanted to learn English and so, being an English gentleman, I taught her, for free. A very enthusiastic and conscientious student who worked hard on perfecting her accent. After 4 hours of sitting outside of a friends restaurant repeating the drills she had reached near perfection. I went near the bar where she worked to ensure she was confident as she started her shift, it being next to a boxing ring on a main street, and awaited for my student to perform. I was pure magic! Her English was crystal clear and her voice loud enough to be heard over the crowded street. The bar owner, however, was not impressed, in fact he was livid and accused me of committing all sorts of heinous crimes, to which I protested my innocence. The young lady was just trying to attract customers by communicating with them. "Hello sexy wallet!" did not seem to driving the customers in for some reason. True story and one of the reasons I was never welcomed back to a boxing ring bar complex in a large city in the North of the country.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

555555 brilliant

[@hufclufc]

What a funny story

[@hufclufc]

@@bigwaidave4865 cowpat le kaidow

[@MrRedResorts]

🤣🤣🤣👍

[@davidcoleman2796]

I guess I better not make the joke about her having a sick Buffalo back in the village . Lol

[@jerkaborg4974]

Thought about what you said about the Thai girls being detectives, it can be added that a Bar girl you talked to for 5-10 min will remember you the next time you get there 2 weeks later Which is amazing considering how many other people she had time to talk to during that time

[@Buzzinpattaya]

They have incredible memories

[@johnclark7973]

Great, great advice. I could put quarters in you and listen for hours. You had me wanting to laugh because I could see you holding back and wanting to bust a gut a few times, like before talking about unnecessary cuddles, ect. Bagging up hit home the hardest though. I'm not going to be stupid and return home with my mini me looking like it got shredded with a cheese grader. I'm gonna leave the burnt meat to my BBQ skills.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

haha cheers mate

[@soihoy]

A good one to remember if you have a regular girl is not to think you can get away with a crafty massage or short time and then go back to her indoors as if you were Mr Innocent. She will be able to know easily as you will come back smelling of a different soap than the one in your own bathroom. I know this to my cost !

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Mate they just know I don't know how but they do LOL

[@antoniovega4978]

Great video Trevor, I think all of us made one or two of these mistakes. I believe at 2 o'clock in morning being drunk we will make one or two these mistakes again. But thanks for the tips on what not to do, keep up the good work Trevor.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah it's all fun and games

[@jamesclarke1625]

95, ate the local dish and got hospitalised. Woke up to find my lady friend sleeping under my hospital bed waiting for me to come to. More than any Australian woman would do.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thai women are so caring it's beyond belief sometimes mate as ya said

[@stephenphilpott2699]

Cant wait to make all these mistakes again next year.. Lol

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol

[@charlieanderson3775]

Been planning to come to Pattaya for 3 years. Watching you has given me enough confidence to come. I’m coming tomorrow Friday 26th August. Really hoping to bump into you 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fantastic mate safe journey and come say hello

[@charlieanderson3775]

@@Buzzinpattaya checking your bar out now mate 👍

[@stlvillianlive3769]

@@charlieanderson3775 how was your trip?

[@frankiesmart1113]

Lol! Good advice. Man have I made all those mistakes, and not just in Thailand, but around the world! Rock on Trev! 👊👍👊

[@Buzzinpattaya]

haha cheers mate and yeah, I know by my own mistakes too ;)

[@peterharris4386]

I was in Pattaya for six months, on my own, living on a "dark-side", and never went to a bar (I don't drink). But I can still relate to many of the issues raised in the video. I had a WeChat account, and looked for girls online... a lot of fun, but I had to be very careful too.😉

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair shout mate

[@CZAR-]

Can you please explain to me what a WeChat account is and how does it work?

[@peterharris4386]

@@CZAR- It's an app like other apps, like Line or WhatsApp. But with WeChat, you can set it for visible, which allows other people to see you in the same area. One kilometre or 10 kilometres away, people can see where you are. So if a girl likes your profile, she will make contact with you, similar to a dating website.

[@peterharris4386]

@@CZAR- I forgot to say also, you can search for girls in your area too...

[@obsessed_angler]

@@CZAR- Its an app mainly used in China as a messenger app and for payments/ order things. However you can also use it to hook up with some desperate women as it has a feature to search for people in your vicinity, to chat to.

[@russuk2360]

Wish I watched this 10 years ago. I done most of this but still loved every minute

[@Buzzinpattaya]

haha me too

[@vagabondvibes2578]

Slightly off-topic, but following on from the observation made by one poster about how much Thai girls can eat (also true for other SE Asian girls), what about how quickly their body returns to normal after having had a baby! I have bumped into Thai (and Cambodian, Laotian, Vietnamese, and Burmese) girls the very day after they have given birth and you would never know that just the day before they were carrying a baby! In fact, you would never guess that they had ever been pregnant!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing my man

[@fposmith]

If you say "I love you", be prepared to say it to her drunken brother, her mother, her unemployed father, her grandmother and her grandmothers sick buffalo as well ! Because after all, it's all one package !

[@Buzzinpattaya]

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[@tomgodheart4557]

Lmfao dude so fuckin true

[@moxy666]

A tip I got off another channel to help get attention or gets some P&Q - The Thai language, the girls prefer the inexperienced because they can dig deep into their wallets. So the advice was, if you want company crack on like you are a newb, if you want space talk a bit of thai. The gold diggers will flee, the decent bar girls will chat and be decent company (if you want it).

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Very true mate

[@rickgalla3377]

Trev great video as usual, I had a friend from nyc visit me in pattaya in febuary, he's married, I'm single, every bar we go he's taking pics with girls on his lap, I told him thats not a good idea at all, he said it's no problem,,, he gets back to usa, he's taking a shower his phone rings, wife answers it and looks thru pics on his phone,,,, game over for him,, he told me I should have listened to you

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Ouch, yeah you were spot on telling him, shame he didn't listen.

[@jesusisunstoppable4438]

Watched a Video series of - "Thai Bar life" - A Swedish Woman Rang the Bell in a Bar and then her and her husband left.. The manager lady

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah ringing the bell is not always a good idea

[@pistenbroke4933]

Yeah there was some good stuff in this video Trev . Thanks for the heads up !

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Any time!

[@michaelbaker5424]

Great video again mate,i loved the 1 about the hair the girls are great at finding them😁😁

[@Buzzinpattaya]

The best lol

[@kenanderson589]

You work hard Trev, it's impressive that you replied positively to nearly all the comments. Wow! Once you open your bar I'll buy you a drink.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Just my style mate, thank you

[@MrRedResorts]

What a lady drink ..lol

[@kenanderson589]

If Trev wants a lady drink, no problem. LOL. I'll still have respect.

[@kenanderson589]

But I'm def not going to bar fine him. Sorry Trev!

[@thomaswardroper1022]

I needed to have seen this video about 7 years ago. Some good advice.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate

[@charlesharris9692]

I rented a room in the old slums on Sukhumvit Soi 22 back in 1982-'84. One early a.m. some random freelancer from the Grace Hotel coffee shop trundled back to my room with me, She was good fun and a great cook and was still there several days later when I had to go out of town for a couple weeks to work. When I got back she had moved in! That was fine with me. I didn't mind having someone in the room when I was gone. After about a month, she decided that I wasn't what she was looking for, (the sleeping pad on the floor of a slum room may have been a clue! ) and she moved out again, taking everything but a small electric fan. I guess having a belonging still in the room gave her license to bop in any time she wanted and have a bite to eat and some drinks! I found out through the grapevine where she was going to be hanging out one night. I grabbed the fan and took it down to Soi Cowboy and handed it back to her right in front of a bar, in front a bunch of her friends, and I said bye bye, good luck! I knew I was treading a fine line with her losing so much face, but felt that it had to be done. Sure enough, she came storming back the next morning. I was sitting on the edge of my pad facing her while she ranted away. Then she took a swing at me with her left. I caught her wrist in my right hand so she took another swing with her right. I caught that wrist as well, then she tried to stomp me in the jewels. I caught her ankle between my knees and there she was, madder than a wet hen, stretched out wide and hopping up and down on one foot! I was laughing my ass of and got up and ushered her out the door. A few days later, she was hooked up with one of my friends, so the heat was off. She was forever after known among my crowd as Freddie the Freeloader. Cheers! YakYai.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing

[@PaulDaviesish]

I actually had a 2-year relationship with a girl in Grace Hotel, Nana. She was a really nice girl.

[@Andy-f5p]

Making the mistakes are part of the fun , I’m bring my brother for his first time in October and I’m letting him learn the hard way, I’m just gonna sit back and laugh

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha

[@damon3487]

Great video trev and the best advice. You put me in a cold sweat 😰 thinking about it all 😂.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

All good mate

[@martypoll]

In my very limited early experience I would go to a bar several times. If all I did was sit and have a drink with the girl(s) then talking to different girls on different days was OK. If I bar fined a girl then I assumed she was now exclusively mine in that bar. Also, always choose the girl when you walk in. Don’t let them choose you.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good shout

[@StokesyslivingtheThailanddream]

Yeah good point on don’t let the girl choose you, for beginners it’s a buyers market don’t feel pressured into buying drinks etc for girls you’re not interested in just remember to be polite

[@vagabondvibes2578]

A few people have mentioned Thai girls' love of money over 'love' for a man, but in all of SE Asia they have a more pragmatic 'real world' understanding of life. Remember, there is no social security safety net in Thailand. 'Love' is all very well and good but if you are homeless and penniless then 'love' won't put a roof over your head or food on the table. Besides, even in the West I do not see many (any?) women seek out tramps and beggars as partners.

[@gregbrown81]

@@ianshaw5766 you, yes, you, just don't get it.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@majinmj1663]

Yes the Thai guys get instantly dropped for a richer guy too. It's not something they do to foreigners only.

[@PedrosmsPedrosms]

@@ianshaw5766 so you admit you did marry a bar girl!! No one cares what or who they did!!

[@stuartmccreadie8258]

Added to which I would comment about this blog where I just wonder about the individuals involved in these stories; their characters and their objectives after all I am assuming these are mature males both resident and holidaying? Citing the guy that has too much to drink, 'lipstick on the collar', shit Connie Francis released that number over 70-years ago and as for unprotected sex you make it sounds like it is only a risk here in Thailand. All of which had me convinced you are preaching to morons who can't hold their beer and you are having to resort to conducting a sex education blog. As for turning the spotlight on the girls that is wholly unjust because the bars and their customers are their bread and butter and I know some very attractive and educated ladies who would give much to avoid having to make up to old or middle aged, immature, overweight, beer swilling, undersexed foreign males some of whom think they are Tom Cruise.

[@lwmson]

I think that it's great that you do these videos. Most guys view the Pattaya videos here on YT and seem to think this is a sexual Disneyland and or Garden of Eden, but don't realize there are potential traps. Some are naive about this "paradise" and should know they are potential pitfalls to be aware of.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@darrengibson2571]

My mate & I were living/working as teacher's in Chachoengsao we used to come to Pattaya for the weekend, this one time he saw a girl that he had seen before & got quite annoyed that she was with another customer & ignored him. I tried to explain to him would he be just as annoyed if he saw someone riding the bike he hired the last time he was here..... Needless to say I'll just leave you with the analogy 😁👍🏻😜🤦

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Mate had a few people like that and I just try and explain it's a business it's not real....

[@al69420]

How did you become a teacher in thailand ? I’m looking to do the same, and leave my American grind behind for a while. Response would be greatly appreciated I’ll even pay you if you help me with this

[@CalebJD]

I made the mistake of being... socially unaware of the situation at one bar in Bangkok. It was my go-to bar for drinks after work; the atmosphere was relaxed and I had fun there. So this 1 girl (let's call her A) would always come sit with me. We chatted a bit, even went out after her work shift with some of the bar staff, but I assumed she was just doing her job. I wasn't really interested in her and I was just having a great time. One day I met her friend (let's call her B) and it was instant attraction. So one day I went to the bar and it was A's off day, but B was there. So I bought her drinks, she sat with me, we had a great time and I got her LINE and started chatting with her. Boy, was A mad. What I didn't know was they were actually room mates, and A actually kicked B out, who moved back with her parents. It was somewhat awkward, but A didn't stay long in the bar after, as based off her LINE, I'm guessing she got a Japanese/Korean boyfriend/sponsor. B too didn't stay on for much longer, as she said she was leaving to set up her own hairdressing shop at Pattaya. I realized that the distance wouldn't be good for us, so we slowly drifted apart. Looking back, I really regretted doing so. So I went back to that bar, around once a month or so, and then COVID hit.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

As you said my friend it's a learning curve

[@ian3902]

As you said swapping numbers is not a great idea, but you should have mentioned Line, you can swap Line details and if it gets out of hand you can just block them. Also when talking about photos watch out for apps like Google photos, Dropbox, MS one drive etc. Unbeknownst to you they can be uploading any pictures you take to your on line albums. Later if your gf, wife or even kids are playing on your phone they may end up seeing pictures you thought had gone forever! 😑

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely make good shout thank you

[@craig2963]

You can simply block the regular phone number as well. It is just as quick and easy.

[@scotth4713]

1. If you plan on giving out a phone number, get a burn phone (that you don't access personal apps with) first! Create a level of separation between your personal life and the rest of the world. That same level of separation should be applied to your room, photos, etc. 2. Never EVER associate a drunk women...PERIOD! Too many nightmares have happened to men from drunk women who made claims about them the next day. Of course it also stands to reason you should make sure YOU don't get drunk either unless you have good people watching over you. 3. NEVER, EVER have unprotected sex. Did I mention NEVER?! As a Navy Corpsman I can't EVEN tell you how many stupid STDs I've seen from idiots that didn't protect themselves. A lot of what he's provided aren't just rules for Thailand but rules for life period. Listen to the man, apply the rules, because he knows what he's talking about.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@brap5829]

If you do have to use your room for some reason and they agreed o leave watch they take all their personal items cause they leave stuff on purpose so they got a reason to come back and retrieve it

[@Captainblack710]

Yes happened to me, in shower with new girl and the two days ago girl friend was banging on the door , I slid her 2 inch ear rings under the door 😂 I was lucky I tell ya ☠️

[@Buzzinpattaya]

True, had that myself once

[@ayethein7681]

Very good advice. I have had to pass up some stunners - because I had a regular girl there. I couldn't risk ticking her off.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you

[@chrisdavies5395]

Went to a night club with a new friend, her friend put up a video up on a social media site. As she panned around the club you could see me and my new friend drinking together. The girl I had been seeing also that holiday saw the video. Caused so much trouble. Still had a great holiday thou 😎

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Ouch!

[@Brad-lt4lw]

complete novice here about to embark on my first trip and would like to thank you for your videos and advice..Q-if everything is a transaction why do I need to worry about being a so called butterfly? Obliviously I will be respectful so the girls dont lose face etc...but not sure why the girls would get upset ?

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate, for the girls its all about losing face that's all

[@Dimatical]

A friend of my made the misstake on Koh Samui when we went on holiday. He brought a new girl to the hotel . The previos "girlriend" was a friend of the owner at the hotel. Suddely the door opend ;) The cooment was "if you leave me i rip your neck of" Is that a classic butterfly experience ?

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Oh dear I can picture it now LOL

[@Sean-nb9sn]

Interesting information ... always good to know as we don't all see everything that's going on ... looks like I've been pretty lucky in my 15 holidays 😊 ... I do recall back in 2001 I took 3 Thai ladies back on 3 different nights at The Patong Beach Hotel and never had a problem ... I also thook to other Thai ladies back in 2014 at The Ashlee Heights Hotel in Patong formerly called Critus Heights ... I actually been pretty decent as all the other 13 holidays either thook one lady back or never did ... Joy was the one I actually had throughout my holiday on two holidays in 2016 and two holidays in 2019 ... in 2018 I only drank at Joy's beer bar 3 times on a 15 day holiday as had other Thai friends I know before Joy to have day trips with ... on the 2nd 2016 holiday I found out Joy had a Australian boyfriend since 2014 by 2018 they broke up

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing mate

[@jlhkia]

It is very true about pictures - one turned up several years after the event.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yes it does happen

[@rexnex277]

One of the strangest situations i found myself in was one day at the start of soi exite when one of the girls there told me she hadnt had a customer all day ,i started feeling sorry for her but told her i only wanted a proper massage ,she assured me that is what i would get so i told her i would return the following day at 11 am and she would be the one to do the massage .I arrive the next day on time but she wasnt there so i asked one of the other girls if she was in but was told she wasnt but the other girl would do the massage for me so i went ahead and had it done but when i went to leave the first girl that i had waited for was waiting at the front door and she went off her head ,she even took a couple of swings at me in the street.All the explaining to her made no difference ,the funniest part was when she called me a typical pattaya man.one of the things you could have mentioned was the habit of some girls to leave personal items in your room so they have an excuse to return.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol, happy ending massage for sure

[@gshock123ist]

Never take a lady friend from a bar on a short trip with you unless you have known her for a long time and you are on good terms with her. If you go with someone you have just met outside her normal environment she will become shy and nervous and things can and will go south or bad. Some great tips . i have made all of these mistakes but I am learning and I only come on holiday if I find a new friend tell her I am a butterfly.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@robertburnett5561]

At the Chiang Mai boxing arena clubs the girl I was seeing went ballistic and hostile. Stopped talking to me She saw me flirting and talking with the other girls. I really didn't understand how serious the "losing face" thing was. But sure found out.

[@vagabondvibes2578]

Guys have been stabbed over less than that! I once saw a Thai girl scream out that the Western guy next to her (who was obviously with her and who had obviously made her jealous) had sexually assaulted her (whilst watching the Thai boxing)! I did not understand every word as she used some vocabulary I did not know but I did hear her offer THB500 to all guys who would help her deal with him. About 5 or 6 Thai guys proceeded to lay into him. It was quite vicious. I think all he had done was to offer to buy another BG a drink. Remember, lots of Thai guys harbour derp-rooted grudges against Western guys coming to their country to pay for sex with Thai girls, something which they can't afford to do in many cases. Many will jump at any opportunity to 'get one back' on Farangs. Also, many Thai BGs are mentally unstable. Some have 'yabba' habits. Some are alcoholics. Some are both. Some are orphans. Some grew up in orphanages because their parents were in jail. Some grew up in dentition centre as their parents used them as drug mules. There are exceptions, of course, but a large portion of Thai BGs did not exactly get the best start in life. Also, as my friend Tim Ward (aka 'Sharky'), who used to offer protection to the girls who worked around the bar I had shares in, would say, "Give me a girl. Line up 200 guys. Have the girl s*ck each one off in succession. Will that girl ever be the same again? That is what has happened to all BGs, either in a week or in a year." Truer words have never been spoken.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing

[@philipnicholson4843]

Trev, I love your refreshing honesty! On my way to Thailand next year for retirement. Hope to meet up :) (40years army)

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@jasenwright1178]

After a 'wee bit of fun' I took out of my pocket some 'blue pool cue chalk' and put some blue powder at the to and behind my ear. When I got home the girlfriend said: 'Where have you been for so long'? I replied' I have been playing with some girls in a bar' She's said 'Liar, you've been playing pool , there's blue chalk on your ear!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

hahaha reverse angle mate love it

[@bravewarrior1218]

This is called reverse psychology.

[@jeasy1221]

Great REAL WORLD advice indeed! Thanks Trevor!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate

[@billsmith981]

I'm a veteran of the old FLB Bar and I made the mistake telling one of the newer girls one night near closing time that I was hungry and then asked her if she and one or two of the other girls would go and get me something to eat I would be happy to buy them whatever they wanted... I made an assumption that since we were near a Burger King or something similar and it's pretty obvious that I was American that they would go there...well after a while they came back with a large helping of bugs.... It then fell to me to react....the manager and Mom were watching with a grin...so I smiled and ate a few bugs .....we all had a laugh and I gained a lot of street cred.... 😂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

hahaha love the bugs

[@billsmith981]

@@Buzzinpattaya it turned out OK....the evenings alcohol saved me ....and I learned to be specific when asking for things.

[@fasthracing]

Must of come as a huge surprise to an American that the whole world doesn't live on burgers.

[@johnlyons4391]

Great video again Trevor, I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas, take care

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you so much and merry Christmas to you and your family too

[@kenhutchinson2333]

Hi Trev I am smashing it , think i have only broken 7 of those rules have to be more careful when i come back in June LOL

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Only 7 lol

[@CanterburyTalesBookshop]

I remember a guy who came to the bookshop who asked me to ask my Mrs to check the ID of the girl he had taken to his room at a nearby hotel the night before as he wanted to confirm she was legally old enough he showed my wife the ID copy that the hotel had given him, my wife said "yes 18 but not a girl" he was genuinely unaware as he went crimson red in embaresment

[@CanterburyTalesBookshop]

by the way I did ask him if he slept with her and he said "yes and now I know why she wanted me to do backdoor as she said she was on her period"

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha brilliant

[@johndillon5767]

Some of my buddies used to have 2 phones - main one for general use and second one for girlie bar use hidden in their golf bags and turned off unless needed!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

A good idea

[@vagabondvibes2578]

Never 'lend' a Thai BG money. If you want to *give* them money then go ahead. If you want to *donate* money then by all means do so. But remember, people who borrow money can't afford to pay it back, so you need to write off any loans at the point of 'lending'.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Agreed

[@aragorn2203]

This KZbin channel checks all my boxes! Lol

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you very much

[@ratchfordgeorge]

haha happened to me three times. once at the Nana hotel, Discovery beach hotel in Pattaya and Azure in Pattaya. i was shocked that the massage girl new my room number and name and was able to call from reception to me that evening. I just went back to the hotel with her to take a quick shower and we went off to dinner. I stayed at the Centra Azure in Pattaya across from Grand ave. i stayed on the first floor where there is a long walkway along the pool. My friend was able to find my condo pool side and knock on the glass. Also, when i stayed at the Grand hotel in pattaya my ladyboy friend was able to find a strand of hair on the floor.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

hahaha all a learning curve mate.....

[@jamie1944]

Several years ago I was in Bangkok, I met a lady and eventually after a few too many sherbets she come back to my room, her phone rang, it was her Canadian boyfriend calling her from Canada. He was paying I think §400 dollars a month, he was asking where she was, I nearly shouted out where she wa but kept my cool. He must have known she wasn’t in her room as it was a video call.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

sad but funny

[@robertburnett5561]

I made some be really dumb mistakes with the girl. But never considered sending money from home. But never know.

[@jz3689]

$400 a month is a joke so yeah why couldn’t you see this happening lol.

[@dovoso5685]

I really loved those stories, lol. Merry Xmas 🙂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers

[@davidwright2706]

I think it's a foregone conclusion that first time visitors to Pattaya are going to make a few mistakes. Hopefully by seeing your videos we will at least avoid the most costly errors or an unpleasant experience with the police.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah live and learn

[@gazz1468]

Sage advice Trev' - having used up a few of my nine lives I've definitely been a scalded cat! Thanks for the great content and a lot of laughs!!!!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha hold on to ya lives that are left lol

[@kempenaersstijn]

I had a cuddle with a black spider (seamans terms for african lady) in Singapore in the famous Orchids tower, and i had to trow that shirt away. No many times i try to clean it, it would stay on.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you for sharing

[@TrainwreckBxl]

Haha Lol that story of the girl waiting for you at the reception desk reminded me of the time the receptionist (and friend) called and texted me to warn me the girl I had taken to my room the night before ran through past the Lobby, even though my friend told her I supposedly wasnt there. I was just in time to snatch my shoes from the bungalow porch, turn off the lights and close the curtains to find myself hiding on the floor till she left 😂Like you said, great girl but I wasnt ready to start spending every night together, especially not unannounced!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

mate they are sharp as razor blades lol

[@robheb1355]

I had a Deaf Mute, NANA, in the room fixing to leave then knocking loud on my door was the night before girl, I had to hold the Deaf girl in a chair so she wouldn't leave OR make noise, close call girl finally left.@@Buzzinpattaya

[@silverfox6883]

Every newbie must read 'Private Dancer' by Stephen Leather before or during their first trip to LOS ...

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good shout

[@biodiversity9808]

My freelancer took me to where her mate was working, she kept ordering her on duty friend lady drinks and i ended up paying. She was polite, asked me first if she can order tho and i said go ahead so i cant blame her but i think the mistake was agreeing to go there. Lesson learnt.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Not good mate

[@tbirdgrafix]

My story .. I was leaving one relationship to another .. I was dating a girl for 4 months but her English was poor. I met a new girl that spoke great English and I knew her more in 4 hours than I did the other one for 4 months. I took her back to my place and the new girl found a hair in my bed. I said it was from the maid and she bought my story but girlfriend #1 (who owns a bar) desided to give me a SURPRISE visit at 6:00 a.m. Thank God she didn't have a key to my place. She sat outside my apartment banging on the door until 11 and the only way I got her to go was to return her call and say I got drunk at a friend's house and stayed over at my mate's house. .. I ended up marrying Girlfriend #2 five months later. .. That's story. ... HAHAHA

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha thanks for sharing

[@sai9154]

Fantastic advice. Works anywhere in the world as well. Great content!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate much appreciated

[@phabio7839]

Everything you said is in line with the rule that - if there's any transaction involved - that's not for the relationship/companionship but rather for the end of it once "it's done". All but one advice you shared in this video are all about keeping your past encounters ... in the past (the girl, her pictorial representation, or any STD she may have had at the time of your encounter). Let's say that, if I ever had to enter myself into one of these bar girl transaction, I would feel that what I pay for is the "bye bye", not the "boom boom" :) (the latter is thrown in for free, because I'm so handsome:))))))

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing

[@jerkaborg4974]

The best thing as a first time visitor is to visit Sabailand as soon as you have arrived and checked in and relieve the pressure.And that treatment is royal 👍 1 hour costs as much as a Barfine.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good shout

[@CarlWiganerUK]

This isn't related to Pattaya or Thailand,, but one thing hit home. I was in Las Vegas & this lady came up to me in Caesars Palace Hotel & asked if I would like a massage or sex. I wasn't drunk so I refused, in Las Vegas the costs are scarey. However then I couldn't stop thinking about her, she was absolutely stunning. So I phoned this place where she worked, but got cold feet & left it to go out. When I got back to my room, the telephone was flashing. So I answered & I had told them nothing, but they knew my name, hotel, hotel room number the lot. I was told the lady was on her way, so scarpered very sharpish. 😂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

bloody hell mate!

[@stevearno100]

Lol.... I made the mistake on booking into a hotel off grid ( over the main road at the top of the central main road for 1 week) ...there was a little bar opposite hotel , it was a Thai area . I went into the bar one night as couldn't be fucked too walk down too beach which even though the distance shouldn't have bothered me , it did in the heat . Anyway when I went into the bar I was the only guy in it - immediately the "PREDATOR" bar girl made a bee line for me . She most certainly was not the girl I would have picked , I thought fuck it and bought her drinks ,played pool and asked her to come with me ....on leaving we decided too go the road ( she knew a bar ) got there it was dead and miles further away from the nightlife....we stayed had a few ,then decided to go back too hotel . We had got there by motorbike taxi - something I never do , I never ride motorbikes in any part of the world . So we got a motorbike taxi each and on turning into the road to my hotel . I found myself on the floor knocked out for a few minutes and not really knowing what happened. Of course I was involved in a motorbike accident , gashes on legs and arm was a bit fucked but thankfully not broken . The worse thing was I had lost 2 packets of Doritos , my wallet had gone missing but the girl seemed to have checked on that first before she came over to me . Anyway went back to hotel just about managed too do the deed , then took her out the next day ie: breakfast etc etc . We must have walked into a shop every 2 minutes and each shop she bought cigarettes and loads of other unnecessary shit . Cut a long story short - as my hotel was opposite the bar she appeared at my hotel room door the very next day . I had a splitting headache and was aching after coming off the bike the night before ( ambulance patched me up ) . I told her I was going to sleep and was in no mood for company. She told me she had left work ( bar ) and could not return ....she left after trying very hard too persuade me too let her stay . She left and then since I was awake now after about 20 minutes the Samsong brought me back too life and so went back to the little bar opposite and left with more feminine women who was lovely and didn't make me feel like being manipulated. After that I never went back and moved hotel . I actually feel the hotel choice even though bad at the time ( location - I was hell bent on a swimming pool ), was a great chain of events ... Due to the walk I found some great places , street food etc etc even cheaper than in central . I found one of my favourite restaurants and decided I wanted a massage after - I then found the girl who I would spend a lot of the holiday with and even come back 2 months later too see . I had a great time with her and she even came around too be quite loving and affectionate - moments that can't be forced or unnatural.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fantastic comment mate thank you so much for sharing I really enjoyed reading this. The fact that you managed to perform after a motorbike accident make your way up there in my estimations of being a top top performer LOL. All jokes aside I'm glad you lived to tell the tale. All the best and thank you again for sharing

[@anonymousofficial437]

I hope you are a lot better now my friend

[@BillCollins0707]

Also, on the photos, remember saving them a certain way, they often times end up on some saved drive in the cloud that they pop up in some strange way on Google, or elsewhere. Be careful. I've seen it happen with my account.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@joegiccominato7402]

Hi Trev thanks for the tips or advice. Its amazing on just how easy it is not to think about all those things. I get the cuddle's and not smelling like another woman but would not have thought not to take her back to my room just as she might be there the next day waiting. Cheers mate for all ya tips and help. Stay safe mate

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate glad you enjoyed it

[@ericyucatan4472]

I concur however, bringing them back to your hotel room is just asking for trouble. Some girls are cool and will leave when its done but most women will want to hang out, deplete the mini bar and ask for another tip, in some cases demand another tip. I could go on but the point i want to make is short time hotel. Take the time to find out where the short time hotels are or just frequent bars that have short term rooms upstairs., if your objective is to get a load off.., or several. This way, when its over, you clean up, settle up, exchange pleasantries and she gets to go back to work envied by the other girls. YOU get to go back to your room, recharge your batteries without interruption, eat whatever you want and then go on another..,, escapade.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Agreed

[@tilapiadave3234]

You DON'T pay a bargirl for sex ,,, you pay her to LEAVE after sex

[@starwalk3r]

Great video. Perhaps your best one yet.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@davidsmith1225]

Wisdom I remember from back in the 80’s. I will say that back then the girls were a lot different from the girls today. Cell phones and the internet screwed that up. I have known a few very nice girls back then but a 4 day inport visit is never long enough to really get to know them. Even if you return in 6 months she may remember you but don’t expect anything more than that.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Totally agree

[@Retire-py2yk]

Thanks, all good advice. but when are the darn countries going to open? I'm going half mad now. My last trip was Oct 2019! I'm pulling my hairs out - getting BALD !!! and crazy...

[@Buzzinpattaya]

mate I wish we could open now I really do

[@Ron-rk6iz]

They won't open up for half mad people.....sorry.

[@Retire-py2yk]

@@Ron-rk6iz I'm 3/4 mad.. does it count ?

[@argonaut816]

My biggest mistake was getting involved with a beach freelancer. This person was caught in possession of methamphetamine, crazy drug (ya ba) or speed, which involved trips to both Jomtien and South Pattaya police stations, bribing one of the men in brown for preferential treatment in the cells and a fine at the Courthouse to stop this person wearing orange and leg irons for 30 days

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah not good mate

[@henrikpeterson1652]

Stay away from freelancers unless it's from bamboo or similar places, that should be common sense, bamboo bar is closed 😪 but many off the ladies use to go there is now to find in triangle bar on soi pothole, happy mongering 😁

[@dannysharp8181]

I take girl back to room all the time. I stay at hotel that always want girl to leave ID card Never had a problem although l quite often stay with a girl a few days. If then l send her on her way l tell reception she not to come to room unless with me. I alway tip receptionist

[@Buzzinpattaya]

That is fair enough each to their own

[@johnjwhitbread]

You're very funny. Great advice in other places too. Not just Thailand but great specific advice. Thank you very much

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Mate I have to have a sense of humor because if you look at my face I don't wow girls into bed that way LOL

[@andrewcooper615]

Never had a girl come to my hotel on her own after taking her back. Most hotels I've stayed in check who's coming and going through the lobby. Understand some don't.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

fair one

[@seamusdoherty]

Yes my biggest mistake was adding some of the girls I met on Facebook, then they starting on my family photos from home haha.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

To be honest with you I absolutely loathe Facebook

[@pete531]

haahahahahahhaahah

[@19bootsy68]

My younger work mate (24) came over for the first time with me and my godfather in 2016...he caught gonorrhea from a Soi 6 girl. On his return he was nicknamed "The Breakout Creep Of 2016". He went back last November and apparently caught gonorrhea again 😬. Another one...my mate went to Hua Hin to visit our friend who lives there...he'd went with this bar girl on a previous stay...anyway, the girl was out of town only to return on my friends last night before he was off to Phuket the following morning. He explained it all and the girl wa gutted...she asked where abouts in Phuket he was staying then the name of the hotel...they said their goodbyes. The next day my friend got the bus to BKK airport then a late afternoon flight to Phuket...he got a taxi to the hotel and when he got to the hotel the Hua Hin girl was there waiting for him...she'd only travelled over night to get to the hotel to surprise him 🤣.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Hahaha what a brilliant story, never a dull moment

[@19bootsy68]

@@Buzzinpattaya The break out creep of 2016 took a girl back to his room, she said.."Me like you"...he was like, "Well, you're only human"...she said..."No, me really like you". He was again..."I hear it all the time"..then he told her to hurry in the shower...she came back and he pulled her towel off...and true to her word she really was like him....she was a ladyboy!.

[@trondrogersydeng]

"You are going to end up in a world of trouble" 555 ;-) It`s probably unavoidable if you are out and about playing this game. But love it anyway... 🙂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

haha true that mate

[@hiramabiff2017]

I feel kind of left out on this one. Not saying I have been a perfect husband, but In 27 years I have been a bad boy 3 times in my life. But never ever stupid enough to allow it to land on my doorstop or bite me in the ass. Use your common sense FFSK LoL ...Best one I ever saw in my life....Puerto Banus in Spain 1998. Five of us nursing a hangover in Sinatra's bar on the docks at around 11am eating breakfast ,and as much as it was exciting to see Tom Selleck ( Magnum PI ) drive past in a open top Lamborghini our attention was drawn to a couple arm in arm....It was a friends dad and a young mum who lived on our estate. Being the fuckwits we are , we all waved and said hello. Nothing more & nothing less, we just all smiled and said hello. You have never seen a man with a dark tan go so grey in such a short time. He was about 50ish & she was in her 20's. The look on their faces will stay with me forever.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

fair one mate

[@nevvi4766]

Use your brain,respect these girls they are smart and intelligent ,I had a nice girl for 3 days was remembering the 3 day rule, just as i was paying her off to free myself up she hit me with a sob story to get another 3 days money ,i paid her and got clumbered with her again but on the bright side...boy did she really take care of me !!!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair one

[@reggiec6981]

Get an account with a Cloud storage provider for photos and videos that you don't want to run the risk of being seen. As soon as you can connect to WiFi, or if you have a good data plan, photos and videos should be uploaded to your Cloud storage and then you make sure you are logged out once the photos and videos are safely uploaded. Once the photos and videos are safely uploaded to the cloud then you can delete the photos and vids from your phone or know that you can delete them at a moment's notice, if needed, without worry of the memories being lost forever.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Great advice

[@pielmeierdieter]

Never paid Lady drink prices on a bar where I bar fined a girl. Only one bar resisted and wanted to make me pay for lady drinks, (I told them before ordering) so I (we) sat on the next bar and no money at all for the place I payed bar fine.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah I get ya

[@alunedited4545]

i avoided most of that just by telling them up front i'm a butterfly

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Eagle mate, eagle lol

[@johnclark7973]

@@Buzzinpattaya lol

[@johnclark7973]

@Thesolotraveller 007 I love it. Well, the girls can't complain when you double dip now can they? Lol

[@scottthompson8946]

But Trev, I love you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol

[@hadrianopolis1968]

I went to Thailand for scuba diving after last minute change of travel plans. I arrived in Patong without any knowledge of what really was Thailand...I think I've lost my mind and made every single mistake you mentioned in the video 🙄.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Hold on tight my friend it is an emotional roller coaster as you are experiencing I wish you all the best and if you need any more advice don't hesitate to email me

[@craig2963]

10:33 That is easy to solve. Put all of those pictures into a password protected folder. You do not need to keep them in your main photo library. Technology has provided the solution for this problem, you just need to learn to use it.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

And pray that you don't mess it up LOL

[@abaddonaskap]

havent had a girl waiting at the hotel for me in pattaya yet touch wood but i did in HCMC vietnam, very awkward because im sure it was illegal as she wasnt my wife. And she sat there for hours waiting for me and im from new zealand

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah it can be a bad time lol

[@mojolivinginthephilippines3503]

Go Kiwi