PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR YOUR KIDS OR GO TO JAIL || Justice Court EP 192

[@AfricanTalesStoriesAndFables]

One word... Narcissist. Any word... Irresponsible.

[@mercybliss3558]

The man is so hard to deal with. I can’t imagine what the lady must have been through in the marriage!

[@Ibhasky2016]

Me too! She must have gone through hell.

[@josephezimora8995]

Narcissist

[@francisca27]

When I said this man is the one lying I know what I'm saying, this is how narcissistic people behave

[@MsLady-gb3gy]

❤❤Exactly ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dceezsignature]

Pure narcissistic. They'll turn everything around and make you the villian.

[@EE-px3me]

They lie 🤥 a lot too. The worst part is when you have children with them. may God Almighty help us all that have children with narcissist people. Is a horrible thing.

[@annieapel8756]

This lady is so calm

[@TrendingGames513-w3p]

​@@annieapel8756 yes o I feel for her

[@Cookie10_20]

Werey no wan pay for child support but wants to see his children😂

[@Iyobor-zr3fg]

Nor be juju be dat

[@ezeezibenna9240]

Lol 😂 na serious Juju my sister 😂😂😂

[@SugarLon]

This man don't listen 😳😱plus he's a bully. 😮 I can't imagine what this lady was going through

[@egodisist119]

The man is the one lying from start to end. He's just playing victim card.

[@TrueTalkeTV]

I celebrate this lady for walking away from that bullish fool

[@flakkie6711]

How did she manage with this narcissistic being for those years😮. Wt!

[@chineduokoli1]

Im sorry for supporting the man in the first case. This man is irresponsible. Useless man

[@victorezeagu1893]

When u marry u no get money n ur wife leave u go know

[@ezedaniel172]

@@victorezeagu1893what are you saying?

[@praiseohunenigbin6639]

Kudo to the men that stood by the 2ruth. U are forgiven sir

[@bossbaekamsy]

@@praiseohunenigbin6639 onye ara

[@EnubeeStyle]

😂😂 Thanks for your honesty. This man can complicate any simple issue 😅

[@numokeji8023]

I don’t understand these people that appear here, whenever it comes to upkeep of their children they begin to complain about their funds yet they keep having so many children??? Ridiculous!

[@immanueljames176]

Not a responsible dad, yet ignorant of the law. Children under 18 years are unlikely to be handed to him in any case. His conduct also aligns with the accusations. Women de marry sha.

[@dceezsignature]

Marry nonsense o not just marry.

[@Zion-et8fb]

My instinct told me right from the start that the man was a liar. I felt terrible when some women blamed this poor lady in the last episode.

[@ijeomamargaret1639]

Thank God this beautiful lady took the bold step and come out of the abused marriage alive.

[@CynthiaPeter-rm2jh]

Please where is this court located at

[@arabawellness]

The law on return of dowry is absurd. Why should a woman return a dowry after having 3 children for a man? How about the wear and tear on her body? Who pays for that? That law should be repealed!

[@NelsonIghodaro-v3j]

Theif

[@dondomoses4118]

I think it's a law🤔

[@arabawellness]

@@dondomoses4118 Thats why it should be repealed. It's unjust and demeaning.

[@gladysantonza6822]

I don't think returning a dowry is law. It is tradition in some cultures

[@virnessaperez9593]

I agree. I can see if they were married less than a year with no child, but after three children that is beyond ridiculous.

[@truthhurtz19]

Judge Funmi was lenient with this man

[@maureenoderoh2199]

I totally believe the lady, he beat her in their marriage until she said she had had enough. Kudos to the lady for choosing to life

[@CynthiaPeter-rm2jh]

Please where can I locate this court

[@dondomoses4118]

One thing that really shows this man is an irresponsible man is the boldness of asking for dowry after divorce 🥺

[@chiomafloraitah5003]

He has pride. E dey pain say the woman no want the marriage again

[@osricjohnson3235]

​​​@@chiomafloraitah5003he did not want the marriage that's why he refused to show up in any of the several court and palace meeting. He wanted to suffer the woman and thought that he could do so by not give her a divorce. The judge wanted to vary the order and helped him but he was clearly there to create more problem so she simply reinforce the original order. Whether you has 750 salary or not you go pay the 30 thousand. A court made an order concerning you and you are aware about it and you say you have not seen it and don't know anything about for over a year because you want to bondage by keep on denying that you are divorced. He is clearly heading for jail if he refuse to pay. The matter will not be in the hands of the woman so no one will blame her, it is in the hands of the court.

[@oladipupomesole8542]

@dondomoses It's the culture, so that both of them can be free.

[@brightekhator3499]

@@chiomafloraitah5003which marriage a cheating wife ?

[@calcal408]

Asking for a refund of the bride price is the culture in some parts of Nigeria. The reason is reason is free both parties particularly the woman.

[@TutuLolaAboh]

Imagine displaying this level of nuisancy in the court of law, he def done worse in maltreating her in close door.

[@91filmz]

I am really sorry for thinking this woman was wrong at first

[@TonyaEL]

“He who comes to equity must come with clean hands.” -Judge Funmi Asaolu That is a strong message. May we all remember it.

[@Eteawan]

That’s the position of the law

[@TonyaEL]

@@Eteawan Thanks. My first time hearing it.

[@nancyrameau8665]

Judge Funmi you were born to be who you are, there's no pretense about you, understanding, passionate, patient, I pray Africans appreciate you for devoting your work to them

[@Gray_Studytube]

Judge Funmi is harsher on the woman than the man…she should have kept him shut several times. This is a silly man. What would it take you take care of your children - Mshewww

[@olamideainaamuzuvi1230]

Because it’s clear from the beginning that everything would end up favoring the woman with all the evidence provided, so the woman need not to make any alterations so it won’t be as if the judge wants to pity her, that’s why she was shut to give the judge the chance to explain in details to the man how he has been handicapped by the law in all jurisdictions

[@godsproperty625]

​@@olamideainaamuzuvi1230How did 30k a month for 3 children favor the woman in this hyperinflation Nigeria. Nigeria law needs to be reviewed

[@TheAfricanGist]

​@@godsproperty625 Don't mind him. I have two kids and, God forbid, if my wife and I aren't together, 100k a month per child is meagre.

[@francispromise5855]

​@@TheAfricanGistSee your teeth like 100k is Meager. Are all pockets same? So a man earning 80k salary for instance would curve out "Meagre 100k per child every month"... Child support is PURELY based on What you earn. Not Meagre 100k or Meagre 1Million Naira.

[@TheAfricanGist]

@@francispromise5855 what I gave was my opinion and I'm entitled to it. What's wrong with you disrespectful kids? You think we are all mates because we are on the same platform? Francis, you had better watch it.

[@siphamandlamkhize9766]

I'm proud of my partner who always emphasize we stick to one child, Really proud to have such an intelligent woman , Why have three children? Women have to start using their heads seriously

[@ariamason9324]

Exactly. But I think they have multiple kids so the kids can take care of them and give them money when they become adults.

[@siphamandlamkhize9766]

@@ariamason9324 life has changed , people are struggling , u can't be so sure that ur child will take care of u, it's like playing the lottery

[@kleo7534]

​@siphamandlamkhize9766 having 1 child isn't good atleast 2, it might affect him/her loneliness

[@ariamason9324]

@kleo7534 I am very happy to be an only child. If my mother had 2 I would surely suffer.

[@kleo7534]

@@ariamason9324 well that's good 👍🏿, because I have a friend,an only child sometimes sad,and feeling lonely

[@bossbaekamsy]

This man lied through his teeth from start to finish and glad Judge Fumi kept telling him to go get the court order. This woman must have seen the devil himself in this man's hand

[@pascalaigbokhan6995]

The man is cunning, he don't want to spend shi-shi

[@nwoluoluchi109]

He is the type that says I can't give you my money again for any reason so he wants to keep to it not minding what dey are telling him...

[@fantasticmrfox7497]

I hope he is made to backdate the payments, school and medical fees. He should also pay for his children's accommodation and rising cost of living.

[@ScorpioEnergy247]

Exactly! I wish the judge addressed all this

[@virnessaperez9593]

He had better be glad he had Judge Asaolu because I would have held him in contempt. He doesn't want to be responsible, but wants to play the victim. Piss poor....SMH

[@promiseikonne7613]

The judge keeps talking about the upkeep, what about the children's medicals and education. She didn't allow the complainant to say her mind, but kept pampering the defendant. I'm not pleased at all 😔

[@theresatessy4327]

Your opinion is being sentimental, the lady is being dramatic and trying to get support from audience, by us8ng oral means to communicate. The judge didn't make new rule but rather standing on the existing court order.

[@isiomaajufo3046]

@@theresatessy4327 What??!!!!!! you must be joking!!! Watch previous cases and you will know the judge pampered this man. The law requires him to pay school fees, feeding allowance and healthcare. The man was the dramatic one and the obvious liar in this case. Will you not flinch if someone is accusing you wrongly?? ome of it please!!!!

[@princeetu8831]

The judge allowed her speak for close to 20 mins uninterrupted in the first episode. Once he started speaking, she started doing all sorts of side reactions. Why won't the judge be irritated with her. Una dey only see things one side in favor of women.

[@OluOgbobine]

Nothing sweet about this man. O girl, what did you see in him. Full of himself

[@victorgoddard9438]

The woman seems to be very good hearted. The man is something else

[@victorgoddard9438]

30,000 Naira equivalent to about £18.00 for three children per month is just too little 😢

[@isiomaajufo3046]

Waoooh this woman would have gone through a lot in this marriage.. he kept gaslighting her

[@NGOZIOBASINDUKWE]

Comply with the court order or go to jail. As simple as that. They always come up accusing their wives when they know they have lost

[@EmmaChannel539]

The man thinks he's living in a lawless country and can dribble/ disobey the court as he wants. He deserves to go to jail to learn.

[@scpalex2288]

This man is shrouded with liars. He lost this beautiful heart that God gave him. Sorry, but he's not a match for this beautiful lady.

[@brightekhator3499]

Which beautiful woman ? A cheating woman You try ooo I guess you are in the same thing with her

[@MsLady-gb3gy]

❤❤True Indeed ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sophiaudeh8707]

You know say you no get money you dey beat woman

[@Iyobor-zr3fg]

Mumu man

[@user-ew8yl9kb1g]

Give the woman an order to speak a word, please.

[@M.O.G-yx8hc]

The judge was speaking for her that was why she told the woman to keep quiet 👍

[@temidayogreat8646]

Judge Funmi as observed that the man is lying. That's why she is speaking for the woman.

[@agnesalbarka5366]

The judge is too gentle on the man... What's this? A man is in contempt of the Court and the judge is treating him like a kid? He's a father n should be forced to pay maintenance. The woman is suffering yet, she's being forced to keep mute in court...thats unfair

[@nancyrameau8665]

The judge is wise, she don't want the woman to say things that will contradict herself in court. The judge knows who's lying and who speaks the truth

[@omobosedeanthony1010]

​@@nancyrameau8665exactly what it is...

[@TheFikky40]

What good will that be? Not everything should be forceful

[@olurantiidiattinubu6696]

Beauty and he beàst, they dont compliment each other in the first place, children listen to your father and mother, the lady learnt the hard way. This man is not responsible

[@oluchukwuobioma1127]

This judge is harsh on the woman but allowing the man to speak freely. This is wrong. I am a lawyer and this is unacceptable

[@styleandstethoscope4700]

Very unfair and unacceptable

[@tejudaniels3109]

She allowed her to speak at length at the first episode.

[@oluchukwuobioma1127]

@@tejudaniels3109 yes but in this episode she also has a right to respond to allegations against her

[@Koksybaby]

Exactly my point

[@daviddonkk8836]

you are not lawyering anything..

[@bidemifolakedada8457]

Old man like this saying 75000 for sellers oge you dey lie go and do business so you can take care of your child

[@Iyobor-zr3fg]

Hahaha 😢 old man

[@chiorazu8047]

DEAR WOMEN, THIS IS HOW YOU OUTSMART A NARCISST ex-husbabnd ...SHE WENT TO COURT IMMEDIATELY !...6yrs imprison for not taking care of your children, sounds good to me

[@pattinahukah3146]

No sane woman can stay with that man in peace! No, not possible 😢.

[@samuelgodbless9310]

Why is the judge harsh on this lady...she gave the man much opportunity to talk but shutdown the lady any how

[@kelechiasinobi3940]

Honestly

[@emmanuelidoko1727]

What was she to say again after the part 1? The judge understands very well the situation. The only thing she wants to talk about is to refute the lies of the man and then argument starts again. She had already finished the hearing. It was judgement time

[@bolarinwarc3927]

She is not, she’s only protecting her

[@mabeluwandu4374]

Ma, you're a blessing to the world.

[@ahmedsuleimon6986]

God bless your Lordship with this judgement matter settled 😊

[@Beckzmama]

This man hummmmmm this woman definitely saw hell in his hand. The man is abusive and a bully

[@vivianeoke5170]

I want to see my children, like he cares. An obvious narcissist

[@victoriaharry1048]

90% of Nigerian men ate Narcissist

[@okwuchiphilomena5640]

I think the man feels to remove 30K from his salary of 75K is too much but didnt know how to say it!

[@AncientHebrewNeverDied]

When the ex-wife and kids lived with, did it cost him less than 30k per month to feed them? It is more about him not wanting to hand over any money of his to the woman again - as is the situation with most men whose wives escape their 'abusive' regimes. They never appreciate the sacrifices the ex-wives were making to hold the family together while they were under one roof.

[@OlaMiji-vd9it]

What a man 😢

[@tomomewobosede5439]

The judge did the right thing kudos ma

[@gscalesworld9864]

Wetin Dey pain me is we. Dem both Dey knack we Dnt know

[@zizibelle2753]

Ohhhhh chimmmmm!!!! The man is impossible to deal with. With his 75k salary. I really don't like how the judge handled this in terms of keeping the woman quiet and allowing the irresponsible man air all of his irritating opinions!

[@AncientHebrewNeverDied]

Man thinks he can refuse to pay maintenance despite the Court Orders! 😂😂😂 "I cannot be giving her money ...... I can take care of my children on my own". The court Order has been read to his ears, he can't deny knowledge of it. He is a time-waster, paying nothing for his kids despite a year-old order for maintenance.

[@TutuLolaAboh]

He is such a joker!!!😢

[@MsLady-gb3gy]

🎉🎉 Greatness for Leaving 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Edith-z4o]

I knew he was a liar by saying the brother said she sleeps around

[@ihemehelen1454]

Clearly, his mouth dnt allign with his pocket

[@eliana_hair_plug]

Why is this man stressing everybody ??? What kind of human is this ?

[@DorathyNto]

This man is a narcissist. This woman has seen shege,hence the divorce 😢

[@lorretaresume1193]

I learnt everytime from this channel.

[@patienceumajie3983]

So primitive, court ordered! how could you ask a woman who had four children for a man to refund dowry, at least she had three children even without a child, a used up lady by an abusive man,to return a dowry? the abuse of a woman by men in Africa is appalling. You guys should stop that nonsense.

[@Everything.with.Peck1ee]

My thoughts exactly

[@Mikyhandsome]

Hmmm, I just thought about it now. She is to return the dowry and the man is claiming father & owner of the children of the failed marriage.

[@oofsv]

Law is for the people & so the law around returning dowry is Afri-centric and not primitive in anyway, Are you aware that the woman pays dowry in some cultures?

[@dondomoses4118]

Imagine! The thing just pain me

[@tejudaniels3109]

It's their culture.

[@bidemifolakedada8457]

This man can lie for Africa watching from Iraq 🇮🇶

[@mbasseynelson6995]

Why is it that when baby daddy’s don’t want to look after their children after divorce?and be coming up with stories and accusations 😢😢

[@judithegemba4764]

Oloriburuku of a man .chaiiii women please where una dey see nonsense to marry 😢😢

[@augustaikeaguzi7503]

Why is Judge Funmi speaking to the lady like that though?

[@MsLady-gb3gy]

Sad❤

[@ebiaroko9822]

This man seem difficult i pray he does the needfull for the sake of the children, may God help them and may peace reign

[@maureenoderoh2199]

Bitter man not listening to anyone and doesn’t care about a standing court order so he wants to use an excuse that he didn’t know anything. He is not telling the truth, ignoring a standing order will never make it go away. He is just stubborn and punishing the kids because of the hate he has for the mother.

[@omotayofolusho6406]

Kudos to you my lord

[@yvettewilliams5967]

I so DISLIKE the word, ‘baby daddy’! Lacking class and good outcomes. Change it to ‘child’s father’!

[@ibnmohammedali2416]

ماشاءاللہ اللہ نگہبان في أمان الله SOME HOW😮😮😮😮

[@gloryekanem281]

This would have been my case but thank God i didn't end up with a useless man like this man

[@krish8765]

30,000 is like 23 USD right 😢 can that feed the children I am genuinely curious in my country that can’t feed one kid for a week…

[@immanueljames176]

Cost of living is cheaper in Nigeria plus the support can only come from what the man earns. His whole salary can barely feed two kids in a decent Nigerian home though.

[@blessingnzubechi]

Sir please ,which Nigeria is cost of living cheaper???

[@chimdy7006]

It is very inadequate and cannot even feed one child

[@abdullahsannim6437]

all i have to saying is thank judged fumi nd the Lagos stste government #saynotoabusivemarrige

[@kidscomedy6481]

it saddens me when a lovely marriage becomes this toxic...

[@obatarheblessing376]

How did she get herself into this man?

[@Zion-et8fb]

Great question

[@chukwudebeluchidimmacynthi2789]

The man shock as judge fumi is still remaining him of the court order 😢😢😢

[@taiwoabodunrin8000]

I can tell this is going to be an interesting one

[@adegbolasegun3985]

The caption says it all 😂

[@chrisidjoko]

70k salary with 3 children. Why will you give birth to 3 children with 70k salary? This man is not serious. He must pay child support.

[@9jadogtv]

We're in this marriage together so play your best lemme play mine 💯💯but in a situation like this all I just see is that Jealousy amidst them both and their emotions are dead so to the woman this the best she can do to revenge through this means.... well may we not marry a wrong choice

[@chrisidjoko]

@9jadogtv there is nothing like revenge here. The man has been ordered by the court before now to pay child support of 30k, he has not being doing that. It is the duty of a man to care for his children. How can a man be earning 70k and still moves further to have 3 kids in this present Nigeria situation? Is that not inviting trouble to oneself.

[@azunna173]

All these social media billionaires wouldn't allow people to see road. Amount earned is not an issue, taking responsibilities is a key note here.

[@origami_vibez]

You know you're stupid for saying this abi? At your age, you're allowing social media to rule your useless life

[@chrisidjoko]

@azunna173 how can he take care of the 3 kids with 70k as monthly income? How much is school fees? How much is a bag of rice? Don't you know that responsibility fulfilment most times is a by-product of income earned? Sometimes, when we are talking, we should activate our thinking caps. It will do us lot's of good.

[@OlumideOwaduge]

You don't want to obey the court order but you want to see your kids. Your salary is only 75k but you want to put up with three kids. Useless man

[@petiese]

I could tell from the beginning that this man was lying. His story was inconsistent and full of ad hominem instead of rebutting all the accusations levelled against him - hacked his wife's Facebook, impersonated her and requested for another man's nudes just so he would accuse her of cheating, beat her up almost to the point of death, disregarded every attempt by their families and respective communities to sort his marital issues, showed contempt of court, abandoned his minor children at a junction, abdicated his responsibilities to provide for them as a father and still got to walk away scot free. He wanted to frustrate the lady by holding onto the fact that the bride price was not returned, while at the same time making it impossible for the marriage to be conclusively dissolved. Which responsible man drops his kids at a junction and asks them to find their way home under the guise of not being able to reach their mother, when he could have returned them right where he picked them up? He could not afford to be in court physically but wants the world to believe he will have time and money to take care of the kids. He has no respect for law and order that's why he felt he could ignore the court proceedings he was duly notified of without consequence. He should have been ordered to pay all arrears of the upkeep he had not been paying from the date the customary court judgment was delivered until this case was filed. He is lucky to have been asked to pay only 30k for three children (10k per child; covering education, shelter, clothing, feeding, medical care and fun treats that every child should have) and he's frothing in the mouth talmabout I want to be seeing my children. If they leave them for him now, in 2 years they won't be recognizable cause he'll use their eyes to see shege.

[@aaa-pp]

Why does he need a court order to support his children, smh

[@blessingnzubechi]

Mine even with Welfer order he’s still not bringing anything. Not even a kobo

[@exclusivepatriotism8439]

This Man's body language says it all. Hes a liar.

[@chinixcity7252]

This man is not your match at all.... freedom at last.

[@bidemifolakedada8457]

I don't know why marriage is not working again 😕 it

[@val-bm3so]

Sir if you love or hate your children you are responsible to support them. Don't try to take the children and drop them off to you ageing parents to care for to save money. His man talks too much and is not responsible. PeAcE from USA

[@mercyodion9892]

I'm speechless over this issue I'm sorry to say the Man is somehow stubborn you know any Man called Jonah they're like that, what of the one in bible that God sent him a message and he refused 😂😂😂😂

[@vashtiwilliams4030]

so if the dowry is returned. does he have access to the children? he's trying to say the marriage should be annulled. meaning anything in that marriage is off the table. that man is a fool.

[@JulieGold0]

This man mental health should be checked😂😂😂

[@MomMom-yy4co]

Shameless man .

[@giftedchild9490]

Please this dowry collection has to be reversed true... When a woman has given birth and suffered in a home...which dowry again. Na why some parents dey return that thing.

[@suppaprosolutions6639]

It is returned so that the woman can remarry

[@labakeogunsola565]

The first time the man spoke, i knew he was irresponsible and seems like a liar

[@okeoghenedesigns]

You don't want the marriage,she doesn't but a man that's not accountable is a lot of red flag. Lies everywhere

[@KpokpoweiNaomiAyebaekipreye]

The man no wan pay anything haba!

[@mariabonaparte1574]

You are resumed married untill are legally divorced, Africans get that right what ever you think going to a village with a crowd of people to drink milk in a cup then dance isn't a legal marriage

[@onyekwereiwobi1195]

This court order no make sense. So the man go leave work go see him kids for School. Some these laws no work

[@rehobothmorayo6418]

Yes if he is so much interested in seeing the kids.

[@abosedesunmola291]

This man will be a monster at home to any woman

[@samuelgodbless9310]

Since the beginning of this case I knew the man was lying black lies.

[@labakeogunsola565]

God bless you. Immediately he started speaking. I knew he is a liar

[@kalujoy6928]

This what would have been my life 😢😢what a senseless Man. God Help so many Woman,I honestly don’t like this Episode because judge Funmi seem to be siding this irresponsible Man.

[@adesinafavour4918]

I'm a single mom I hate dragging and my children are doing well

[@poshmidwife4685]

Definitely waiting....

[@StephanieIkechukwu-vz8rm]

Why will the judge be shutting the woman and allowing the man to talk well.