An animated interview with with Kate from Autism and ADHD, in which a boiling kettle metaphor is used to describe the process of meltdown, and how to prevent it
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@tmompeller1113 жыл бұрын
My entire life ... makes sense.
@lrwiersum10 ай бұрын
I have to prepare myself to act, act, then recover from acting.
@nicolakarilainen35974 жыл бұрын
I've only recently found out about PDA and it explains so much about me and my son. Such a relief to understand it better! Thank you
@eponymoususer89238 ай бұрын
Unpressured peace is needed. Exactly.
@BobbyKakouris3 жыл бұрын
Most relatable explanation of meltdowns I’ve ever heard. Thank you for sharing!
@mikemorris97814 жыл бұрын
Amazing video, explains exactly what my son goes through, thank you so much. I just wish other people could watch this and appreciate what we all go through, and we can do nothing to help. Thank you so much.
@SallyCat1234 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your positive feedback. It validates me and inspires me to make more videos in the future
@mcnlimited2664 жыл бұрын
@@SallyCat123 Thank you for this video. I have been watching many of your videos and your poster is really helpful - it simplifies the meltodowns my eldest daughter has but she remains unapologetic so we can never move on from shockingly wicked things that are said and her objectional attitutde... sadly its either quietly objectional, verbally objectional, indifferent, pleasant, joyous or meltdown objectional (which I now understand better) but it is really the inbetween that is hard to accept as if feels like she dislikes her entire family never says sorry and constantly critical. Can you do a video on what to expect as I feel like I am walking on egg shells, so does grandma and so does her younger sister .. its exhausting for us and it must be exhausting for her but I feel like I am going round in circles - she refuses to have a diagnosis and I think without it we will remain to her the causes of her behaviour :( I love her dearly but dislike her behaviour immensely ..
@roxsta111311 ай бұрын
I can relate to this in some ways. I'm sorry you are also going through this and wish you and your family all the best. Sending strength and love your way @@mcnlimited266
@EvilAsh_AuDHDer Жыл бұрын
Thank you for perfectly describing the evil side of me that can come out, whilst the rest of me looks on in horror. Thank you for showing me I'm not alone.
@vanessapassmore32953 жыл бұрын
This is a really great explanation of meltdown. It’s definitely one to show people to explain what’s happening to you. Thanks very much x
@becgarnett5861 Жыл бұрын
Gosh, I can see why people are misdiagnosed with BPD
@jimwilliams3816 Жыл бұрын
New to PDA and still trying to figure out where I am in it. The meltdown descriptions were so on target, thanks! The devil has access to my knowledge of loved ones is absolutely right. I am just figuring out that the bulk of my meltdowns used to the implosion type Tony Attwood talks of, but the devil has been taking over. It is the very worst thing, not least because it can happen to neurotypical people to some degree, which made it hard to realize it was a meltdown. Still feels like I am somehow choosing to be a terrible person or making excuses for myself.
@annonkitsch42242 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your content sally cat! This explains so much of how I feel 🫂
@gapastorelli11 ай бұрын
This describes my son, my husband, me. My father, every ex I've ever had. How does one access this quiet time? And how does one help the cooled down kettle learn that they need to repair? Because apparently most of us are really shitty at that part.
@eleanordavies1467 Жыл бұрын
I can’t ever have quiet time because the demands my body imposes on me are too loud
@beadingbusily Жыл бұрын
I live in the U.S. I've had epilepsy for a long time. If you call seizures 'fits' over here, no one will appreciate or understand it, FYI. I appreciate the video.
@Elysian777 Жыл бұрын
It's not funny when they kick the tv through a 100 year old plate glass window because they have a melt down over reaching a milestone on a timeline on a project they instigated but can't perform because of their PDA.
@HappyHoney419 ай бұрын
I need a relief valve...
@lrwiersum10 ай бұрын
I implode
@theautisticpage Жыл бұрын
Well said. Actuallyautistic just figured out I am PDA.
@neilhart5775 Жыл бұрын
When the demon is gone, when the kettle is cold, does the rational moral person who had watched on in horror say sorry to the person they have verbally and maybe physically damaged?
@SallyCat123 Жыл бұрын
It would depend on a lot. We might do, but we might feel so ashamed and traumatised over what we'd done taht we can't face this? This wouldn't necessarily mean that we don't feel guilt. I might simply be that we can't express it. I think it's important to bear in mind that PDA meltdowns are never within our own control.
@BirdNatalie2 жыл бұрын
They are called 'epileptic seizures' and not 'fits' anymore