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Humans of VR

Humans of VR

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@plebao51
@plebao51 3 жыл бұрын
"and this is my dad" oh my god my heart broke on the second one, that poor dude
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
my heart dropped when i head that
@argotheinformant
@argotheinformant 3 жыл бұрын
wait what part
@paper_says_no
@paper_says_no 3 жыл бұрын
@@argotheinformant 1:18
@einstein9063
@einstein9063 3 жыл бұрын
I donnu you kinda feel a little hate for the girl, but than I have to remind myself that it's not her fault, I mean she doesn't know any better.🙁
@zerosk8ter9
@zerosk8ter9 3 жыл бұрын
same, just thinking about my daughter calling another man her daddy sinks my heart deep
@tabellebertrand2750
@tabellebertrand2750 3 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the soldier. He signed up to go to hell and back for his country and his Ex wife made it triple hell that lasted long after he finished his service.
@CCodenameken
@CCodenameken 3 жыл бұрын
Glad the he said he found someone new who loved him
@reaperking7748
@reaperking7748 3 жыл бұрын
This kind of situation happened to me twice. At least with me there were no kids involved
@lilrice7865
@lilrice7865 3 жыл бұрын
@@CCodenameken don't worry they'll come and find their dad
@A_Bag_of_Potatoes
@A_Bag_of_Potatoes 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilrice7865 No she'll ruin his name and image and manipulate them into thinking he is the worst person on earth. I've seen it happen time and time again with these vile parasites playing victim.
@sirissacnewton5338
@sirissacnewton5338 3 жыл бұрын
ewwwww furry but yeah that is pretty sad
@DovahTheHero
@DovahTheHero 3 жыл бұрын
That guys Ex wife needs to be punished for literally stealing everything from him wtf
@sonarchy343
@sonarchy343 3 жыл бұрын
Take her to High Hrothgar, make a quick save and repeatedly use Unrelenting Force tier 3 shout on her. And her new mans. Paarthurnax can eat em too
@DovahTheHero
@DovahTheHero 3 жыл бұрын
Fus Ro Dahhhhhhh!!!!
@21_meme39
@21_meme39 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@England91
@England91 3 жыл бұрын
@@sonarchy343 no tier 4
@benjaminhedley9212
@benjaminhedley9212 3 жыл бұрын
Theres always another side to a story
@plvtofrfr
@plvtofrfr 3 жыл бұрын
"depression is a fight best fought with friends" Bruh, this hit hard, I needed to hear this shout-out to that guy
@bluefroggames5451
@bluefroggames5451 3 жыл бұрын
The little kid after that though “what if they laugh at you”😂😂I feel bad but that was funny
@Chiller-pc1dv
@Chiller-pc1dv 3 жыл бұрын
facts
@mpiernik8386
@mpiernik8386 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, if it weren't for my friends, Idk where I'd be now
@appetitumscientiae
@appetitumscientiae 3 жыл бұрын
Dead ass bro. I’ve dealt with it basically my entire life. The better your support group is the faster you can move past it/ deal with it. Don’t deal with psycho girls with bpd, realize your probably a better person than you think you are. Etc etc.
@AxnerSaab
@AxnerSaab 3 жыл бұрын
The one with the EX-Wife situation is just dumb. She literally took everything from him and basically blackmailed him in a way. And went to a toy store to distract them from talking to their real dad.
@connorkaravakis9987
@connorkaravakis9987 3 жыл бұрын
the way soldiers are treated by people is gross
@nemiisisfps6071
@nemiisisfps6071 3 жыл бұрын
Women get to manipulate men so easily and it just is so sad
@michi9152
@michi9152 3 жыл бұрын
ikr
@connorkaravakis9987
@connorkaravakis9987 3 жыл бұрын
@@nemiisisfps6071 It is very true this type of thing happens to often in the military they have a slang for it in the military they are called Jodi's it is sad how often the people signing themselves to the government to protect the country get treated so terribly
@WorstDBDPlayer
@WorstDBDPlayer 3 жыл бұрын
@Gage Ebert learn how to spell before insulting random people
@Potatisco
@Potatisco 3 жыл бұрын
The story of the guy that married the demon of a woman is very very inspirational. Went through hell and back and seems to be living such a good life now.
@electricfirework356
@electricfirework356 3 жыл бұрын
yeah it made me real happy when he said he recovered and found a new wife.
@EcnalKcin
@EcnalKcin 2 жыл бұрын
That is why I have nothing but scorn for feminists. The laws are so one sided in favor of women in divorce and child custody cases that it is mind boggling. My sister, a terrible person, gets child support from her ex-husband, for a kid that he proved with a DNA test is not his, because the actual father dodges the people sent to serve him a court order for a DNA test, and since they "can't locate the father", it defaults to her ex-husband. In other words, she slept with another man when married to her ex, got pregnant, he proved it was not his child, and now he pays child support for that kid and will until she is 18, or the state finally ID"s the actual father.
@ki11aqueen5
@ki11aqueen5 2 жыл бұрын
@@EcnalKcin it's hilarious when they say men have privileges
@willdouglass6391
@willdouglass6391 2 жыл бұрын
@@ki11aqueen5 what the fuck
@Zyborggian
@Zyborggian 2 жыл бұрын
@@EcnalKcin Yeah on that particular issue usually what I've seen the woman usually wins custody no matter what and it's fucked. My best friends ex wife is a physically mentally and verbally abusive psychopath and has custody of his only son and I'm TERRIFIED for that kids developmental years. However, there's one instance I saw on a VR chat story where a pedophilic soon to be murderer man got custody of his son instead of the woman and he speculated it was because of her race and the area they were in. So sometimes the man gets custody... That can happen. I'm just sitting here thinking... Why in the FUCKING HELL is it so hard to not give kids to fucking psychos to raise them after separations and be egalitarian about it and base it on whether or not the child will be fucking abused in the household.
@thesophisticatedbaby8594
@thesophisticatedbaby8594 3 жыл бұрын
This is the kind of stuff they SHOULD be showing us at school to raise awareness. Real, genuine stories from people like us that we can relate to, backed by real encouraging messages from voices we can hear.
@chrystynec1496
@chrystynec1496 3 жыл бұрын
and even if they're fake it doesn't matter, it still inspires people
@maetrashfire1213
@maetrashfire1213 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, cause this is the kind of stuff that would've saved from attempting or relapsing as a kid :/
@clos3078
@clos3078 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry school won’t help you with that but if you want to transition you don’t even need your parents permission.
@beepusboop8678
@beepusboop8678 2 жыл бұрын
Fuck yeah. Watching others be vulnerable and being supported by others is beautiful in so many ways. And it's slowly allowing me to build confidence and share my traumatic experiences, even if the only people I'm sharing with are online. No stupid animation singling out people who self-harm with happy-ass voice acting. Real people, experiences, and real emotions.
@ChaosWithMars
@ChaosWithMars Жыл бұрын
@clos3078 Fr
@6AncientCharms9
@6AncientCharms9 3 жыл бұрын
What kind of aweful person did that solider marry??? Just hearing about her makes me mad
@_Shotox_
@_Shotox_ 3 жыл бұрын
it happens a lot 3 of my buddys same thing they get deployed or sent somewhere there wife didn't come and they come back and another dudes just chilling with there kids fucked up shit and woman win 99% of the time the mother has to be fucked up to lose
@RabbitConfirmed
@RabbitConfirmed 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah dude, reminds me of a girl I met in VRC.. She is some kind of psycho I think.. I was only friends with her.. and then she kinda put some distance between us.. And then I did one mistake, like I insulted her because I thought she had blocked me (I know now she didn't). And after that, she never really forgave me, no matter what I did though. It came this far that she tried to cyber bully me by posting private conversations of ours on her Instagram! Thank god, some of the people who saw it were just like you guys, they didn't buy the shit. I mean they saw the insults of me in the conversations she uploaded, but she cut them in a way, that made me look really bad. But thank god, not all people believed it and knew there must be two sides to the story. The ones that I could send all the messages, they always were on my side afterwards! I mean.. I was just friends with her.. I did a mistake yes.. but yeet.. what she did, it was just crazy in a way.. And even after that though, I kinda miss her, but she will never allow me to contact her again, she will never forgive me, even tho, she is kinda the one who did the only unforgivable thing.. I do not wanna know what this woman would be capable of, if she would be married with someone.. And I am probably not gonna mention her name here, even tho she is kinda popular in vrc, because I know if I do, she is gonna come after me.. And I honestly don't know if I want that. Even tho I miss her, Im alomst glad it's over.. I just don't understand how someone can be like that.. It's hard for me, because otherwise, she was my dream female friend.
@Michael-oq9ci
@Michael-oq9ci 3 жыл бұрын
The shit happens more often than you think. Me i was dating a chick and i went away for a 9 month contract so when i came back my "now ex" was like Meet your new daughter. got the DNA test wasnt mine and now im a workaholic who just works and builds towards the shit and dreams i want to strive towards
@6AncientCharms9
@6AncientCharms9 3 жыл бұрын
@@RabbitConfirmed Yikes... Personally it be good stay out while shes giving you the chance to but I'm sorry you lost a friend it sucks but its better than whatever fresh kinda hell she could come up with the more you try. I'm guessing shes pretty strong minded and pationate? Personalities like can be so endearing and magnetic at first when its not directed towards you. Who knows what kinda people raised her or other kinds of people shes around. Thats usually how I've seen people end up like that.
@6AncientCharms9
@6AncientCharms9 3 жыл бұрын
@@Michael-oq9ci yeah I grew up on an Army base. Military spouses are a special kind of breed... I'm sorry you got your trust fucked over like that. Soliders really dont deserve that nonsense.
@Malakai__WeLoveYouMafumafu
@Malakai__WeLoveYouMafumafu 3 жыл бұрын
People comforting/supporting each other through their problems, and that one white/red haired midoriya patting sad jotaro on the back was just really wholesome, this is why I love the vr chat community
@Chiller-pc1dv
@Chiller-pc1dv 3 жыл бұрын
After going through abuse from ex friends, I learned to value real friendship a lot more.
@chairforce664
@chairforce664 2 жыл бұрын
@ayo 😳 the whole video
@SP_PLAYS_YT
@SP_PLAYS_YT 3 жыл бұрын
i hope everyone has a great life after experiencing these events, God bless them
@pawelkowalski7775
@pawelkowalski7775 3 жыл бұрын
I agree god bless
@claire2994
@claire2994 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you all have a great time and you move on from these events
@JulyCocoaMonkey16
@JulyCocoaMonkey16 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is almost what pushed me over the edge to full on crying from this video.....damn lol
@aivarsgraudins8423
@aivarsgraudins8423 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah god bless them
@anonymouslyweirdperson6129
@anonymouslyweirdperson6129 3 жыл бұрын
Oh god I just went through the state of losing and getting depression all over again at the same time from watching this video. I hate this physical pain.
@6ixdy
@6ixdy 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine serving your country for 4 years and having this thought that you would come back to your pride and joy but you just come back to everything you lived for gone
@yellowsnowbird
@yellowsnowbird 3 жыл бұрын
Biggest F in existence
@aceofblades4279
@aceofblades4279 3 жыл бұрын
I've been in for more than 8 years now. His story is so common that it's become an expectation for a lot of guys. It took me years to not be actively destructive of my marriage generated from the paranoia.
@Crunchy166
@Crunchy166 Жыл бұрын
Not only that, but your child calls another man dad
@theholyramonempire
@theholyramonempire 3 жыл бұрын
Picture of that soldiers ex wife: Picture of Satan: Me: The're the same image
@LilLeanne4810
@LilLeanne4810 3 жыл бұрын
No the satan picture is actually beautiful compared to the other one
@quack5225
@quack5225 3 жыл бұрын
@@LilLeanne4810 DAMN!!!
@sushikatt4215
@sushikatt4215 3 жыл бұрын
@@LilLeanne4810 haha good one
@zaynehurst5914
@zaynehurst5914 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@chimmichurri6940
@chimmichurri6940 3 жыл бұрын
@TheHolyRamonEmpire i think even satan has higher standards/ values, whatever the word would be lol
@empty3073
@empty3073 3 жыл бұрын
Bro i felt bad for the dad in the military like he literally had children and then gets robbed
@kaylaharkless876
@kaylaharkless876 3 жыл бұрын
This reminds of Valentines day. I was chilling on VR Chat when me dad came into the room and told me that a family friend had gotten into an accident. Their daughter, my best friend of 10 years passed away on impact, their son was taken to the CCU, and mother underwent surgery. I thanked my dad for telling me. Then stared bawling. I tried to calm down to tell my friends that I was going to go, and they encouraged me to stay so I wouldn't be left alone. It's been 2 months and I miss her a lot. Her mom and I are looking into getting tattoos in memoriam for her. Thank you for those who read this, and for all of those who have lost a loved one recently- due to covid, the ice storm, or any other circumstance: I send you my sincerest regard. I can't imagine what you are going through, or your story.
@mr.yeetrodriguez1586
@mr.yeetrodriguez1586 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, dude, are you okay? You can talk if you want to talk
@kaylaharkless876
@kaylaharkless876 3 жыл бұрын
@@mr.yeetrodriguez1586 Her mom attempted suicide the other day. So we are praying for the family again. I just wish she'd see how much her son and husband need her currently- and not needing more grief. She was behind the wheel when they hit ice, and thinks it's her fault.
@mr.yeetrodriguez1586
@mr.yeetrodriguez1586 3 жыл бұрын
Well, i don't want to do anything to make you feel sad or do something wrong because I'm not very good with words. But i will pray for you, and that will be a gift to you. I hope that you grow into a great person♥️ have a great day and an even better tommorow
@kaylaharkless876
@kaylaharkless876 3 жыл бұрын
@@mr.yeetrodriguez1586 Thank you very much for your kind words and prayer. I hope you have a good day, and that your future is bright as well. Thank you for taking your time to reply to my comment. It was a pleasure chatting with you.
@mikehawk5829
@mikehawk5829 3 жыл бұрын
Damn...just thinking about this is horrible for me i am sorry for your friends loss i hope you are getting those tattoos❤️
@jellyzondo7535
@jellyzondo7535 3 жыл бұрын
Yo. poor dude in the suit. he had so much loss, like Idk how a single man could handle that, man got his kids taken from him after paying full in child support. thats hard stuff.
@luna-8296
@luna-8296 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad my message made the cut at the end. I hope that’s gonna help somebody that watches this video Edit: Yes, my real name is Leonardo hahahaha
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
thanks again for taking the time to talk with me
@kweenviper
@kweenviper 3 жыл бұрын
you were the person who said that? wow, have an amazing day
@luna-8296
@luna-8296 3 жыл бұрын
@@kweenviper I’m happy I could help
@mangedesepinard
@mangedesepinard 3 жыл бұрын
@@luna-8296 I'm not in a bad situation actually, but thanks to you ! You're a kind person, and kind person are sometimes not thanks enough, so thank you, I hope the best in your life ^^
@luna-8296
@luna-8296 3 жыл бұрын
@@mangedesepinard aww thanks. Same goes to you :D
@gaminggladiator06
@gaminggladiator06 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like vrchat is just a really great place for doing this sort of discussions. It’s got the sort of ambiguity that makes people feel more comfortable to be more open to complete strangers, the headsets have built-in microphones so anyone who has a headset can easily just be do it, and the use of cartoonish and sort of outlandish characters gives a sort of ease to others. Because nothing makes it easier to talk about serious, scarring memories of your past than with leonardo, zuko and mountain dew storm trooper.
@Potatisco
@Potatisco 3 жыл бұрын
VRchat is the reason I don't feel lost anymore. I never realized how lost I was until I realized it. I still know the exact date when I realized I was lost and that my life is getting better just because of the people I have met online and literally talk to every day.
@lordhellsoul3480
@lordhellsoul3480 3 жыл бұрын
trust me never trust people with bright avatars
@cloroxdbleach9474
@cloroxdbleach9474 3 жыл бұрын
@@lordhellsoul3480 so true
@vOWavy
@vOWavy 3 жыл бұрын
Where do you because every time I go to VrChat everyone is just talking to one another ignoring me lmaoo
@jaydabomb2510
@jaydabomb2510 3 жыл бұрын
@@vOWavy You’ll find a group I promise. When I first started, I literally had no one and when I did have some friends, I don’t even remember who they are because that never got back on. But once I started to do more, I finally found people. It also depends how you are as a person and if you have manners or not. I think you’ll find some friends!
@jaydabomb2510
@jaydabomb2510 3 жыл бұрын
@@vOWavy If you ever want people to talk to on there, you can add me: JayDaBomb
@Yainked
@Yainked 3 жыл бұрын
I had to wipe my eyes a couple of times throughout this video. At any moment anything can happen you know? I haven’t visited my dad in about a year now. He texts me everyday but its just the same text. “I love you”. Theres just going to be that one day that he never sends that text again and i will regret everything. Covid hit him hard and he had to move houses. Hes been through alot and i respect him so much but i never visit him for no reason. I will always remember the story of how he saved multiple families during a huge fire. Hes a hero and he will always be one to me. Typing this makes me want to just drive to his house right now. He knows i love him too.
@polo-yn7kg
@polo-yn7kg 3 жыл бұрын
you should pay him a visit, i know he's going to be really happy about that
@habibijee5838
@habibijee5838 3 жыл бұрын
@@polo-yn7kg he will get the virus. But this story made me shed a tear anyway. 😔😭
@magix33
@magix33 3 жыл бұрын
text him/call him back man
@Eddie_Sto
@Eddie_Sto 2 жыл бұрын
Just be his kid again.
@astralamanz
@astralamanz 3 жыл бұрын
I just want to say, Thank you Life Progress for giving me the opportunity to be in this video (#23). It truly felt honorable to be in one of these videos. Thank you, once again. -Astrality
@astralamanz
@astralamanz 3 жыл бұрын
And thank you, people watching this video for just listening to what others had to say and what I had to say as well. Thank you.
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
thank you astrality I appreciate you taking the time to talk with me
@yumiyums
@yumiyums 3 жыл бұрын
💕💕
@eldiablo7215
@eldiablo7215 3 жыл бұрын
When the Ninja Turtle said "We love you" at the end. I deadass almost broke out in tears man.
@kingbazvr
@kingbazvr 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who hosted hundreds of hours of drinking nights in VRChat, it's been a real eye opener to see just how broken some people are. A saying that I started using a long time ago is "A drunken mind speaks a sober heart", couple that with the anonymity of VRC and it's very easy to learn about people. That being said, as someone with major social anxiety, VRChat and its community has been a godsend to me in terms of overcoming life's struggles, some of my current closest friends I have I've only known through VRC so far.
@peanutbuttercrackers6534
@peanutbuttercrackers6534 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to that, i have social anxiety as well, but i have really bad depression and anxiety, and also no friends, So i have nobody to talk to...
@corndogbin
@corndogbin 3 жыл бұрын
If I may ask, how do you meet people for conversation on vrchat? Are there like particular worlds for that purpose moreso? I’m pretty new and I’ve only really been around places where people joke and have fun, but I’d like to reach a more conversational side with people
@lofisky4355
@lofisky4355 3 жыл бұрын
@@corndogbin It depends, if you like playing games or anything there are specific worlds for that, such as ‘Never have I ever’, you can talk to people while gaming. Or if you just wanna sit somewhere and chill you can go to cafe type worlds or sleep worlds such as ‘Rest and sleep’ (one of my favourites)
@molonlabe5090
@molonlabe5090 3 жыл бұрын
I’ll drink to that, man. Cheers 🍻
@craftymind2913
@craftymind2913 2 жыл бұрын
"You look better when your smiling" I love that because it's not really about looks and more about loving in a way.
@tinango6150
@tinango6150 3 жыл бұрын
aww the story with the guy getting married at 11:31 was so heartwarminggg ,_,
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
i'm so glad he changed his life around
@JoseFerreira-de7oe
@JoseFerreira-de7oe 3 жыл бұрын
Sameee!!! I was like: let's goooo bro so happy for you
@JessetheFury
@JessetheFury 3 жыл бұрын
Hard to take these people serious in a animate/cartoon style but their voices merit the true emotions/feelings they portray. Everyone has a story and nice to hear bless all and peace to everyone!
@xghunt3r551
@xghunt3r551 3 жыл бұрын
13:53 OMG ITS MEEEEE THANK YOU FOR THE PUTTING ME IN!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for talking with me!
@innocentdog7933
@innocentdog7933 3 жыл бұрын
jotaro got drip
@xghunt3r551
@xghunt3r551 3 жыл бұрын
@@innocentdog7933 indeed
@panchoisthebest870
@panchoisthebest870 3 жыл бұрын
res in peace bro..
@xghunt3r551
@xghunt3r551 3 жыл бұрын
@@panchoisthebest870 thank you bro
@anitaremenarova6662
@anitaremenarova6662 3 жыл бұрын
Fucking hell, my heart breaks for the second guy even though I don´t have kids of my own. How evil must a person be to do that to someone?
@thatoneleaf9895
@thatoneleaf9895 3 жыл бұрын
someone who deserves to be tortured for days until they die
@temesis03
@temesis03 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatoneleaf9895 No one ever deserves something like that. Unless they’ve done that to someone else.
@moistmathafraka1013
@moistmathafraka1013 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatoneleaf9895 jeez
@woodsy.2977
@woodsy.2977 2 жыл бұрын
@@temesis03 Yeah they do.
@temesis03
@temesis03 2 жыл бұрын
@@woodsy.2977 huh, you’re so edgy and cool. 😐
@wolfsky695
@wolfsky695 3 жыл бұрын
I literally started crying, not by everything else in this video but by that one guy saying "smile, you look better when you smile"
@nashydrew8596
@nashydrew8596 2 жыл бұрын
hugs with consent, bruh. my tears also suddenly burst when that particular phrase was said.
@benny5309
@benny5309 3 жыл бұрын
I feel really bad for the guy who lost his kids, I hope he is doing good and he is happy
@Vespei
@Vespei 3 жыл бұрын
Not me here at 4am crying at these clips because I needed to hear a lot of this.
@idiasweet8191
@idiasweet8191 3 жыл бұрын
“Find whatever reason to stay even if it’s small.” Yep that’s really true!
@ebazz3297
@ebazz3297 3 жыл бұрын
I feel sad for these people, thx for making my day better and keep up the great work.
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
thanks again for being here again sebastian
@ebazz3297
@ebazz3297 3 жыл бұрын
@@HumansOfVR no problem I’m always here to enjoy the great videos.
@bennett5319
@bennett5319 3 жыл бұрын
Hearing the soldier’s story ending the way it did made me so happy. Something terrible that was completely out of his control happened to him, and he didn’t know what to do with himself. He took some time to build his life back up again and is at a place where he is happy and content. I think his story is something that anyone who is going through anything like this should be inspired by him to know that even if you are in a place that you are not satisfied with, it can and will get better with time. Just know that there will always be someone there for you that loves you. ❤️
@sean3116
@sean3116 3 жыл бұрын
12:30 she makes a very good point about suicidal thoughts, curiosity can keep you alive. I once had a friend who said the only reason he hasn't killed himself yet is because he wants to see the ending to one piece
@bingwen469
@bingwen469 3 жыл бұрын
Thank God it's one piece But seriously I hope your friend gets the help he needs
@LetMeEatIt
@LetMeEatIt 2 жыл бұрын
Get him help. In his current state, he is immortal, but miserable. Make sure he gets what he needs.
@yearoldChineselove
@yearoldChineselove 2 жыл бұрын
Man. Even the manga has not finished idk about the novel but I hope your friend stops having suicidal thoughts
@CurvedBladeofTheWinds
@CurvedBladeofTheWinds 2 жыл бұрын
well i think hes gonna live his full life which is good 👍
@bagel4943
@bagel4943 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like your friend will be the first immortal human! But in all seriousness, im so glad that your friend hasn’t killed themselves yet and that there is something that makes them happy and keeps them wanting to be alive
@Zyron416
@Zyron416 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my dad have literally thought out a future together, I am his youngest child and he has nothing... He went through a divorce with my biological mother who I don't talk to her anymore... She took everything away from me and my dad... He doesn't want me to leave because im all he's got left ya know and I don't wanna leave him because he is all i have left also... And i have veryyy bad separation anxiety... I wouldn't mind just living with my dad for the rest of my life tbh... As long as I'm happy and he's happy... Thats all I want in my life
@Pdsaures
@Pdsaures 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone has their story even me it's hard to get out of that hole of sadness but when you realize stuff happens it will make life so much better for me anyways sorry if I made you mad it's just what works for me it's corny and expecting alot but if you think about the bad stuff enough it will make it worst but you will find your way to happiness all I have to say is... You will feel happy again trust me I thought the same thing
@Pdsaures
@Pdsaures 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the heart man kinda means alot ❤
@gredgar
@gredgar 3 жыл бұрын
..."keep your friend's around you." 16:00
@-Mari.0-
@-Mari.0- 3 жыл бұрын
Quarantine is breaking me
@kitta8060
@kitta8060 2 жыл бұрын
I've been a hermit before covid hit. For quite a few years now. I'm a victim of SA since I was 4-5 to 15 and knew death since the age of 6. I was an only child to a single working parent. She worked 12hs a day since I was born and I had taken it upon myself to wake up every day to go to school so my mother wouldn't worry about me. Self taught cook and cleaner. Homework always done. I'm not sure what changed between my mother and I, but this past year has been so hard on a lot of my family. Nov. 18 2020. My grandfather (practically the head of the family) passed away (not covid related) and I tried to donate my kidney to my mom, became her live in aid as she was diagnosed with CKD and was on dialysis. Got exploited out of thousands of dollars that was made so sound it was a favor to me before being completely disowned by the rest of my family when I asked for a little respect and appreciation. Back in grade 10, I remember my teacher showing the class a video of starving children in Africa with the point of we have it better here. The only thing I was about to take from that lesson at the time was that I'd rather face starvation in a third world country where I have a valid reason to be hurt and effected. Being gaslighted by my own mother for so many years was so hard on my self worth. That any time I had a problem with something (eg. cleaning up after my mother when I've just cleaned.) or when I was hurt by something she did or said, that it was a me problem and that it was all in my head. I wonder why it is, that I never told my mother about my abuser. It's all just in my head. I'm 27 almost 28 in jan. and I can barely find a reason to even look out my window. Seeing all those people living normal lives. functioning like regular human beings. And here I am. Sitting in my hole and one of the only reasons I won't Kill Myself is because I don't want my mother to have my kidney. She's not very nice to me. I felt she loved the kids she worked with more then she loved me cause it was all she would talk about when she'd get home from work to a freshly cooked meal and a clean house. And the rumors.... Smalls towns where everyone knows everyone or you're related to over half the population. You can't take a trail through the bush if you didn't wanna be labeled a drug addicts or slut. I was determined to prove them all wrong. Which is why I out of 8 cousins am the only one without a child, drug addiction or an alcoholic. But I'm the biggest disappointment apparently. Starving in South Africa sound like a vacation.
@jackashmore
@jackashmore 3 жыл бұрын
This video is a miracle really. Makes you feel like your not alone. It’s one thing to believe that everyone has dark struggles it’s another thing for people to talk about them. Being proud of all these random people is a strange feeling but an amazing one.
@chevyslim4200
@chevyslim4200 2 жыл бұрын
The one girl taking about finding something, even small, to keep you going truly hit home
@xenyadot
@xenyadot 3 жыл бұрын
"you'll never be happily married until your fist happily single." this man's grown wise from his misfortune...listen to everything he says when he's up for the 8th clip there...it's actually some hard truth that having adopted the mentality myself I can say works out great in life, happily engaged now...it's better to be self-dependant and not need anyone, but willing to happily welcome someone in their life then to be someone needy and lonely that comes across as needing to be in a relationship to be happy...because at that point you make the partner into more of a parent.
@badrott8028
@badrott8028 3 жыл бұрын
I feel for that girl who lost her grandma in that way, I lost my grandpa a few monthes ago and it broke me just to see him like that, I can’t imagine how it must feel to have someone pass on top of you
@TheM4stermind
@TheM4stermind 3 жыл бұрын
Some feedback for the editing: You're cutting very agressively which is fine, but I think having some breaks would be great for pacing, else it gets exhausting to listen to a unrelenting stream of talking. :)
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for the feedback!
@raulandrade6921
@raulandrade6921 3 жыл бұрын
❤😣😭
@thewanderer1618
@thewanderer1618 3 жыл бұрын
Holy shit, positive feedback?! ON KZbin??
@MmeHyraelle
@MmeHyraelle 3 жыл бұрын
Also, following more than 3 stories at once sometimes confuses me. Thanks for making these video nevertheless.
@nigelwest5776
@nigelwest5776 2 жыл бұрын
Nah I don't mind it, I can always pause
@raj-mp7rp
@raj-mp7rp 2 жыл бұрын
The story that military guy told has to be the most heart wrenching thing ive ever heard. The twisted things that women did is so revolting. Imagine doing that to another human.
@t26e3pershingtank
@t26e3pershingtank 3 жыл бұрын
I lost a friend and dear classmate during the fall of last year, an 8th grade student shouldn't have to go through that, she passed away in her sleep one night and I was even considering asking her out the next day, and I regret not having expressed my feelings to her earlier, I miss her so much, and it's sad to know that I will never be able to. I knew her sense I was old enough to play Tee ball. No matter how hard I try to think of her I only wind up replaying her last days here before she passed in my head. requiem in peace emmerson, I love you girl, you might be here to see this but I do. I should probably stop here because I'm starting to tear up just thinking about her. 😥😭
@peanutbuttercrackers6534
@peanutbuttercrackers6534 3 жыл бұрын
I hope it gets better for you, i mean, i can't really give any advice because i don't exactly have a "stable" mental state, But i hope it gets better for you.
@James-vg3fq
@James-vg3fq 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for that soldier. He went through literal hell
@sullygtx9350
@sullygtx9350 3 жыл бұрын
"You'll never be happily married until you're happily single." I told one of my best friends that just the other day, she is recently divorced from her cheating high school sweetheart and lost everything. I want to be that person by her side until she's ready to give it another shot.
@Tronnbro
@Tronnbro 3 жыл бұрын
Man number 7 really hits hard. I don’t have much to look forward to in my days with all my friends getting full time jobs and whatnot so I kinda just live like this day to day.
@topicallyuanova5826
@topicallyuanova5826 3 жыл бұрын
At 16:05 that's me! Thank u for putting me in to your video! It's true what I said keep your friends around always.
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for talking with me!
@happyinsideg
@happyinsideg 3 жыл бұрын
Same. My friends (2) I moved out (I was 4th grade) I never seen them In irl since (I’m going to high-school now) we play on PlayStation like almost every day since then, his grandma passed bc of a aneurism in her brain. We were playing red dead, and his dad walked in with a broken toned voice (open mic), and stated (name) I need to tell u something, they go on for 20 sec so his dad can get together. And said “grandma passed away” , they both started crying, the dad went away but i was helping him calm down. I will never forget that I am his go to for emotional support. Like 5 months later his dad had a Od and only lived with his step mom He was thinking of selling his PS4 and ps5 bc he gave up for a good bit. One day he said “screw it I have nothing to lose” I started crying harder than anything else In the world. I think I said “but you will lose me” there was a pause and said “I don’t know what you will do but you need to stop now” and I heard a heavy thud hit the floor and he start to cry. And that’s how I realized I stoped a suicide we are still friends to this day
@topicallyuanova5826
@topicallyuanova5826 3 жыл бұрын
@@happyinsideg I'm glad that u prevented a suicide and you're friend is oki I'm glad that u take from what I said to heart I really do mean it 🤗
@losswert
@losswert 2 жыл бұрын
"People who are celebrating my birthday even if i tried to hide it from them" Yes that is true friendship and i wish everyone that kind of friends!
@nimakhosravi9181
@nimakhosravi9181 3 жыл бұрын
Dude vr chat seems like such a wholesome place
@uhmimik
@uhmimik 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this in my recommended today. I often forget I'm not alone in my struggles and this reminder was well needed
@PryfticsOpp
@PryfticsOpp 3 жыл бұрын
These videos hit so deep, and give me feelings of life. The quotes these people use are so inspirational that it gives you the chills. This MAN, THIS LEGENDS wife cheated on him after serving in the army for 4 years. Soldiers don’t deserve the hull shit they get from women. THAT WIFE IS CANCELLED!!!!
@valeraey_
@valeraey_ 3 жыл бұрын
this has to be one of the only videos on youtube where i actually cried at the end, when he said they loved me and that i look better smiling and that is should keep smiling. feels like i actually got some love. i am binge watching these videos and they make me realise more and more about myself. thanks for the videos they are amazing:D
@filipfec3068
@filipfec3068 3 жыл бұрын
Geez I feel so sorry for them. I would love to give them hugs🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺👉👈
@R-E-V-E-R-B
@R-E-V-E-R-B 3 жыл бұрын
Ive been through a lot and im only 14, i was born and raised in poverty kinda but not on a mainstream level, but it was like some days i didnt get to eat or money was low so we couldnt have electricity, and to make it way worse was the only person supporting me and my 2 brothers was my grandma and i lover her but she passed away a few years ago and i dont know why but i didnt feel sad because it just felt like another one of those bad days that i had, but now im with my other grandma and now were actually financially supported, nothing bad that has happened up from that time has been hard because ive been through way worse, i guess what im trying to say is im numb to the pain so to speak, i try to be positive but it always sounds like im being negative and it really sucks, i hope everyone who is going through hard times, try not to let it get to you, save your emotions.
@Novacash0360
@Novacash0360 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know who that red panda onesie girl is but that’s exactly what I’ve been doing and I said I’d wait to see the end of one piece so I might become immortal
@iluvlotty
@iluvlotty 3 жыл бұрын
lmao
@sh1zuk65
@sh1zuk65 3 жыл бұрын
6:04 I can’t just imagine how hard it was to go trough something like that, like your own daughter calling this stranger her dad. Yeah I’m crying
@KC0407
@KC0407 3 жыл бұрын
I swear everyone in vrc has some hidden lore to them
@thatautogarage3644
@thatautogarage3644 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this today. I hope everyone can find the happiness you deserve.
@kioshemi
@kioshemi 3 жыл бұрын
i rarely get sad and hearing the guys daughter call another person dad instead of him that was heart breaking :(
@JoshDoes
@JoshDoes 3 жыл бұрын
These videos make me cry bro. VR has the best community in all of games.
@Holty2k6
@Holty2k6 3 жыл бұрын
i had to take my headset off at 1:57 it was vibrating too much that guys voice is powerful
@infyiniti640
@infyiniti640 3 жыл бұрын
the girl at 8:09 I can really relate to because for the longest time I have had very depressive inclinations, but I would always think "oh I'm just being dramatic, I'm sure it's just some stupid thing that I'll get over" but as time went on and I kept realizing that more and more these symptoms kept showing up, I started growing confidence that I might actually have depression, although I do often still go "oh well I MIGHT have depression, but at the same time there's always the chance that I'm just overreacting and I'm really perfectly fine"
@kyxliz
@kyxliz 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the person who was in the army and their wife treated them like and its pretty sad after he left to work for his country like that i always think like after someone you are with is serving to protect you and your country how could you treat them so bad Well atleast its good to know that there is still hope for the human race
@seanmurphy7051
@seanmurphy7051 2 жыл бұрын
There are no unique human experiences. We all have our dark moments, keep that in mind when interacting with others, especially the ones you don’t particularly get along with.
@leonardojago7997
@leonardojago7997 3 жыл бұрын
The fear of someone else’s life and you’re own ending having that thought is one of the most horrible things ever especially if it’s your first time feeling it
@ZimothydaAlien
@ZimothydaAlien 3 жыл бұрын
These stories just remind of the time my grandma died. It was only a few months ago, and the night she died I was on the phone with her, and she couldn’t respond because of how sick she was. I don’t remember much of what I said(since I was crying and couldn’t understand much of what I was even trying to say)but I think it went like “I wish I could just go back in time and spend more time with you, since I haven’t been able too in the last few years.”(I was extremely introverted, so I didn’t spend much time with family other than my own parents and brother). I haven’t thought about that night in a long time, and now that I mention it, I’m not sure how to feel. Just make sure to spend time with family members, because you never know if you might lose them.
@calebpeters191
@calebpeters191 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, that's Preacher! I know him in VRChat! He told me his story! Really good person.@1:25
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
great guy
@frappy0
@frappy0 3 жыл бұрын
bruh the depression without reason hits hard. I mean I got reasons just like everyone if you think hard enough you'll always find a reason but for me those things I kinda have moved on from and now it's just reason less depression
@gizehprod.4457
@gizehprod.4457 3 жыл бұрын
“And just smile, you look better when you’re smiling” I actually teared up goddamn 💙
@seanbreen1193
@seanbreen1193 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, these videos show how strong the VR community is. They seem to always have each other’s back.
@Endiiii
@Endiiii 3 жыл бұрын
The lad with the EX-wife getting married again, what an amazing chad, god bless him and hope his life becomes even better
@tylercollins5222
@tylercollins5222 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could go on vrchat and tell my story. Honestly I its amazing to hear that people still try to live after all the bad times. It gives me hope
@stacywacy4113
@stacywacy4113 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the guy. His wife LITIRALLY THE ONE HE THOUGHT WAS THE ONE. Took his money, kids... and blah di blah.
@idk-gs5hc
@idk-gs5hc 3 жыл бұрын
My most traumatic expirence is when I had recently broke my leg, and I was really sick too. My cat was laying with me, he was so sweet and could tell I was in pain, he snuggled up to me to make me feel better, and died in my lap. He was an old cat, but he was very sweet and always cared for me. I went through 2 years of depression after that, just thinking about him spending his last moments not doing what he loves, but protecting me and making sure i’m ok.
@simplybead6637
@simplybead6637 3 жыл бұрын
this is the saddest thing i’ve heard all day. hope your doing better now
@Sk4lli
@Sk4lli 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, the "stay hydrated" part at the end made me laugh.
@angvllcs3984
@angvllcs3984 3 жыл бұрын
bro this is so sad but I love listening to their progress, it shows that things get better
@theguy9910
@theguy9910 3 жыл бұрын
Theyre all sad but the dad loosing his kids made me want to cry the most
@blinkemonke8520
@blinkemonke8520 3 жыл бұрын
It's not the dad who walked out. It's the mom.
@luvittodeath7031
@luvittodeath7031 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t make me want to cry it makes me wanna punch a wall
@Fionacle
@Fionacle 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the soldier divorced dad guy, serious props for getting his life back together Also his hand, mouth, eye, etc. tracking is AMAZING
@pman7588
@pman7588 2 жыл бұрын
i fucking love vrchat because of this community, just bros supporting other bros. then theres the memers
@chrisjean2881
@chrisjean2881 3 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel on my recommended, and this video had me in tears, I've just been watching your vids on autoplay because the stories help me to pause and re-think my life. Thx
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@TokaTuupi
@TokaTuupi 3 жыл бұрын
you know what, this game is a good place to seek this kind of stories because it's an anonymous 3d space
@Homie_1111
@Homie_1111 3 жыл бұрын
10:27 "What if they laugh at you?" When I was younger I had people laugh in my face for this. My saving grace was randomly befriending the craziest crew in school. They wouldn't laugh at me they'd laugh with me because we were all in the same boat. They treated each other as if they were family...hell we would even call each other's mom's "mom". Haven't seen most of them in years but they will be my homies till the day I die and beyond.
@UncleKikiOfficial
@UncleKikiOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
As fucked as the soldier’s x-wife story was, that was a MAJOR blessing in disguise .. be glad she showed her true colors early 😭 .. the good karma is going to shower all over him, and he’s going to be majorly blessed.. I’m so proud of him for getting himself help, and doing the work to get himself back on the right path.. what a painful, but beautiful story
@illestvillain1971
@illestvillain1971 3 жыл бұрын
2:10 Damn his voice is deep.
@Eltrine_scal
@Eltrine_scal 3 жыл бұрын
Corpse
@Obamahamburgeravatar
@Obamahamburgeravatar 3 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling he’s a little high. I’ve been addicted to the shit he took for 4 years, it makes your voice mad deep
@obeliskofficial7342
@obeliskofficial7342 3 жыл бұрын
thanks. i was really fucked up in this. just got it shared back to me lol
@pingiq5412
@pingiq5412 3 жыл бұрын
I know this is serious but 8:18 made me smile while I was in tears from all the stories
@maetrashfire1213
@maetrashfire1213 2 жыл бұрын
Being someone who has gone through a pretty shitty childhood stripped of a lot of nurturing that I needed... This really helped. I've been 2 years sober from self harm, suicide attempts, and relapsing with anorexia and bulimia, but it gets really hard sometimes especially since I haven't been able to support myself moving out of my abusive parents' house. Earlier today I felt myself succumbing to a depression, I wasn't able to get out of bed, I felt numb, I couldn't move no matter how much I tried. But being able to connect with others pain and knowing that I'm not alone in feeling the way that I feel on a daily basis, really helps me distract myself from all of the dark thoughts I have. Thank you to all the people who shared their stories in this video and to anyone else who connected to them. You're not alone, you're loved and worthy of the good that life gives you.
@ericbrown8507
@ericbrown8507 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos is one of the reasons I am getting vr. I've gone through alot of shit in life. And I think I can help people talk through things they normally would hold in. I've had a lot of life experiences from small to deaths. I feel talking could help these kids
@lilymetal8267
@lilymetal8267 2 жыл бұрын
This video made me realize that there are people in this world that've had these things happen to them, and it's so heartbreaking. I feel so bad for all of these people and what they had to go through.
@idiasweet8191
@idiasweet8191 3 жыл бұрын
“and I lost it all.” That right there it’s just…..wow damn….
@KiperV2
@KiperV2 2 жыл бұрын
"find the little things in life to stay alive." God, I felt that so much.
@jokoplush420
@jokoplush420 3 жыл бұрын
Man: *talking about something very serious* Venti from genshin impact: "excuse me"
@pikontsubomi3599
@pikontsubomi3599 2 жыл бұрын
at the end when the guy said we all love you, that hit hard.
@sanghaikamara7713
@sanghaikamara7713 3 жыл бұрын
im glad you ended it on a wholesome note. i wouldnt have been able to sleep.
@dazaiosamurela
@dazaiosamurela 2 жыл бұрын
Those people comforting that guy are literally so nice I wish I had rlly cool ppl to hang out with
@CoastersTravels
@CoastersTravels 3 жыл бұрын
....so I had no idea VR chat was THIS awesome! What a great community!
@youknowlesthisman1928
@youknowlesthisman1928 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the shining examples of the positivity of technology in today’s generation because the drawbacks of people not being able to have face-to-face interactions or being able to talk to girls or guys face-to-face anymore and build meaningful relationships human to human because they’re always behind a keyboard and our fearless to say whatever they want usually negative because their Internet gangsters. This is an example of exactly that same situation but in a positive way because these people don’t feel the fear of expressing these things because of the virtual environment and even people who aren’t actively in the VR get a lot out of it just watching it so I really hope these end up getting even bigger than they are already because I really do truly think this is an incredibly positive environment and to hear how many young people are on it and expressing the very intense serious issues that they do is beautiful because it would be so much harder to talk about a lot of these things directly to a person so I only wish the best for everyone organizing these participating and posting. Sincerely an 80s baby to the millennials
@theavantribe
@theavantribe 3 жыл бұрын
The glasses and tie guy has a such a great outlook on life instead of getting "red pilled". As a woman, I know there are women like his ex out there, but the majority of us AREN'T. take the time for yourself like he said and you will meet someone. Love yourself and show compassion to yourself as you would someone else. 💕💕💕💕💕 Most women like gentle men. Also a black girl will change your life 😅 👸🏿. As a black girl with a middle eastern partner, I couldn't be happier.
@jacksonthompson7099
@jacksonthompson7099 3 жыл бұрын
I'd argue he actually did get red pilled but he didn't take it to and extreme degree. Good comparison would be a woman who gets treated like trash from a man and she turns to/finds feminism but adopts a "all men are trash" mentality and she can't be convinced otherwise. Lots of things can be taken to and extreme degree and it's important to not take things that far.
@CristanioPeweyyy
@CristanioPeweyyy 2 жыл бұрын
Most women are like that, stop lying lol.
@ctrlaltsad3433
@ctrlaltsad3433 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video. My dad is in hospice right now for lung cancer and I just talked to him a couple of days ago and he seemed completely fine. Went up the yesterday (2 days later) and he can't even talk more than two words. They've got him so sedated for his pain that he just sleeps all day and wakes up for 2 seconds. I told him my twin brother and I would be fine and that he could finally rest. Told him I loved him and he could hardly say I love you back. He went back to sleep and it just hit me so hard. This is my first experience with grief and losing a loved one. Now only time will tell when he passes but the doctors say it will be very soon. But hearing these people talk about their experiences helps a lot though.
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