People Share Their Proposal Horror Stories

[@margaretpelcher1506]

I feel so bad for the first girl

[@Stella-xy2bk]

Margaret Pelcher same

[@eunice9930]

worst part is that I know who her ex-fiancee is...

[@nicholeb7998]

Margaret Pelcher yeah, but thankfully she seems like she has gotten over it.

[@jasminejenkins4761]

Eunice don't be shy drop the addy

[@margaretpelcher1506]

Jazzy no respect his privacy

[@taylorlynn-art]

My husband just went to his dresser drawer one night (when we were dating) and pulled out a box and laid next to me in bed, didn’t say a word, just super nervously let me open the box and slid the ring on my finger, then we kissed. He didn’t say anything, didn’t get down on one knee, and I just remember how his eyes kept looking at me so nervously and how sweet the moment was... Everyone gives him crap for not making a big show, getting down on one knee, or saying a speech. But honestly, I didn’t care! It was special in its own way.

[@sambandviks5365]

Ooooooo definitely the way to do it! One on one it’s a special moment for you not everyone else yk?

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

Shy carming prince is the best, aye? 😇

[@heeyitscathy]

Awe that’s so sweet 🥰

[@kibummmm]

That is so sweet and intimate! I love it.

[@tatyana137]

I love this

[@lizbethv4369]

the first girl didn't deserve that :( but at least she's happier now

[@abbystephens9766]

The guys friends are so rude if he doesn’t want his friends involved then they shouldn’t force themselves into the situation

[@bossgamer6332]

Exactly

[@psak3797]

Abby Stephens, ikr.

[@bribriibri]

ok but i want to be friends with the first girl.

[@boominyourface8630]

I just wanna hug her for going through all of that

[@nusayba864]

can u stop commenting im tired of liking them lol

[@bribriibri]

Aziza Aman BAHHAGAHAHHA i thought of a bunch of comments (like 3) so you probably saw me a few times

[@TsukiKatana]

She's got her cheeses in order. Def good friend material.

[@francescapiano9166]

There’s one girl

[@juliettekaupp5350]

My dad gave the engagement store his home phone number rather than his mobile number so of course the store called my parents apartment and my mom picked up the phone and they said that the engagement ring was ready to be picked up. My mom was so happy that she was going to be proposed to by my dad, but she decided not to tell him that the store called and later that week my dad proposed and she acted all surprised and didn’t tell him that she already knew about the ring until their honeymoon.

[@parvindarkaur9612]

I wonder your dad's reaction 😂😂😂

[@klaraleblochova]

When people learn the lesson, that proposing infront of a crowd, doesn't matter if it's family or random people, is never a good idea?

[@darkangel4994]

it’s actually usually a perfectly fine idea.

[@iceunelle]

Many people don’t like being the center of attention of a crowd. I def don’t and would prefer a more private proposal.

[@euphoria7372]

That is like my worst nightmare.

[@rivernoellesegreto656]

I feel like, depending on the personalities involved, big/public proposals are awesome if you’ve already mentioned together that you both want to get married. Mutual interest in taking the next step and long term collaboration. 👌

[@kk-nt3qy]

I feel like doing it in a large crowd puts pressure on the person to say yes bc if not they may look bad

[@ifyouseekamimi]

My fiance was going to propose on the Farris wheel in Las Vegas but ended up not because it didnt feel right with all the people around, so he kneeled down on one knee out side the bathroom of our hotel room and waited 20 minutes till i was done getting ready. I opened the door butt naked saw him with the ring in his hand and tackled him to the ground screaming yes! before he could even ask. It doesnt matter how you get engaged as long as you love the person, you dont need some big flashy thing.

[@AlaskanWildChild]

Talk about “Flashy” though.

[@abijahlevi937]

That's amazing!😂♥️

[@ammya97]

@@AlaskanWildChild 🤣🤣

[@somebodypiano6191]

When someone says "I'm not good enough for you", it's never true. It usually means they have already checked out of the relationship and don't know how to break up.

[@IXcircle]

i said the same! omg.

[@chocmilkshake24]

Actually it’s true in this case bc he was a cheater

[@lilly_ann]

Which technically still makes it true because a decent person would just have respect enough to break it off instead of stringing along 🤷

[@nonoticarly8778]

I hope the second guy and his wife never divorce because he's not great at this proposal thing

[@recoil53]

Life isn't like the movies. He's just lucky his friends didn't give it away.

[@nonoticarly8778]

@@recoil53 What?! life isn't scripted and rerecorded when things go wrong? How long have you been sitting on this information without sharing it?!

[@Ohhcynthiaa]

Oh wow that’s a plot twist I thought she was going to say he wanted to purpose to her not that he was cheating 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@yaz.austin]

I thought he was going to say that he was angry for being exposed like that but the end oh boy i didnt expected that

[@gaeaalexa4697]

Omg me too!

[@val1407]

Purpose?????

[@bossgamer6332]

@@yaz.austin Same! I thought that he was going to be like oh why did you do it in front of such a big crowd and maybe like he didn't want to get married yet but he just said yes because there's a big crowd....

[@Abcde-ww3hs]

And in the beginning he was worried she didn’t love him???? Bro...

[@silver1000]

Lesson: Typically, when someone says “you deserve better”...listen to them & RUN.

[@bribriibri]

i can’t imagine myself in any of these situations... yikes.

[@Stella-xy2bk]

brianna rae same

[@JoseRamos-hp2vg]

bananarama

[@judahhh4594]

You neeeeeever do until it happens to you. And even then it’s like “is this my life? This is real? What a cliche.”

[@victoriaalexander7805]

I was so proud of my fiance when he proposed he planned it out himself he took me to the place that we had our 1st date and he proposed on the top of the Ferris wheel in the amusement park we rode together. I always said I wouldn't cry but when his eyes welled up I started balling. It was really nice we're still happily engaged.

[@rivernoellesegreto656]

Thanks for sharing something so positive and congratulations!! 🍾

[@justicegriffee2806]

Love how everyone’s first date is so cute and romantic... mine was Taco Bell 😂 but CONGRATS!!!

[@nillamig7109]

My husband proposed at 3 am in front of our Christmas tree after a supernatural marathon ❤️

[@mikiefambro]

That’s the dream, I may have to divorce my husband just so he can propose to me again in that exact way.

[@hey_its_abs]

I actually love that

[@nillamig7109]

Abigail me to☺️

[@indiigobluee]

well now if my SO doesn’t propose like that i’m just gonna be disappointed 😂

[@informaticaaplicadaalasalu818]

I've never liked the thought of marrying someone but if they proposed like this, I may give an absolute yes!! hahaha

[@zoerichman5989]

Is it just me that thought the guy was gonna say that when she told him she found the ring after two days and didn't say anything was because she didn't want to marry him? Literally gave me anxiety waiting to hear the end of the story omg

[@recoil53]

Well he opened with they are together for 11 years - 5 dating, 6 married. I think it was because he realized how the story sounded.

[@jenellebelton8984]

Women this is a really big lesson. If a man says “ you can do better” leave.

[@lilly_ann]

💯💯💯

[@danielleclayyy]

The “anyhoo”s from the second guy had me sent 😂😂

[@bribriibri]

“18 types of cheese” 😂

[@BTA08]

Cures everything.

[@helenameyer9778]

I was reading the captions and they cut off at "18" so I was like "glasses of wine, definitely" and she was like "cheeses" and I f***ing DIED

[@amyartlover]

Honestly, mood

[@makh4072]

Why do people feel like someone else's marriage is there business?Stop trying to intrude unless they want you too.

[@girly339]

My husband literally just said “So do you wanna?” We picked out the ring together so I knew he was going to ask. He said he was still nervous I would say no even though I helped pick out the ring. Obviously I said yes but sometimes I wish I had gotten a real proposal.

[@florablake949]

I'm a single 15 years old girl why am I even watching this-

[@katiechambers1319]

Flora Blake same 😞

[@zoerichman5989]

mood

[@lucylokovic5800]

Literally me too

[@florablake949]

@@katiechambers1319 ooooh, don't be sad ! It's a great thing ! You don't have all those couple problems : dispute, gifts, anniversary, heart break, toxic relationship,... You are free ! And we don't need someone in our intimate life to be happy ! Single and perfect😆😘

[@user-gu4yr4jw1x]

Im twelv-

[@kellyklapp1232]

We always knew we were going to get married, and my husband regularly 'jokingly proposed' with random objects. Cute and all but it 100% backfired when he ACTUALLY proposed and I didn't want to look like an idiot and jump up and down saying yes if he was joking (likely he'd roll with it 😂). Usually I knew he was joking, but he had a ring this time and I feel so bad that I just asked 'are you serious?' about 3 or 4 times before saying yes 🤦‍♀️ Married 6 years, 3 beautiful babies 🥰

[@hermystic_ways]

Awwww

[@YourDadsFav818]

*Tbh id be so disappointed if my bf put a ring in my bag and expected me to find it. I think its lazy, not creative. And if i was the guy id be anxious , you'd never know when she'd find the ring or if she'd ever find it*

[@CyclingUrchin]

Same but I think this guy's situation is different he's trying so hard 😭

[@somebodypiano6191]

If I found a ring in my purse, I would assume that it was there by mistake. I'd probably take it out and put it somewhere where he could find it and pretend I never saw it XD

[@blaykeb9348]

id say more of if lets say : they were out on a date and then he said he had a gift for her and give her a purse (of her liking) then telling her he has sumn inside too and then maybe a pic of them on top over the ring / ring box or lipstick or sumn so that first catches her eyes and she checks that out then she would see the rig /ring box and take it out and while she is takign it out go down on one knee so by the time she looks up (well down) she gets the idea pop the question boom!!! if she doesn't notice the ring/ring box immediately after the 1st / distraction thing(s) then say 'there is moreeee' and as she goes in n gets in to get it out. down on the knee n boom!!! ~~~~~~ but I agree with what ur saying tho my scenario that I typed is better for putting it in a purse but the dude in the vid is crazy n what ur speaking of is indeed laziness

[@itzjowii]

Ur bf wouldn't give u a ring P Jkjk

[@credendovides20]

I would love it in all honesty. But tastes are tastes. At the end of the day, everyone likes different things, and your partner should know what kind of things would make you comfortable and happy.

[@farazul1360]

Idk why i love all of the horror stories They are just fun🥺

[@kal9758]

I feel so terrible for that first girl, she proposed to help him and make him relived and her broke her heart. Idk how anyone can do that.

[@slayvannnnnnah2415]

Y’all ain’t ready for this one... big theater nerd here! I was a senior in high school and it was spring musical time! At curtain call, in front of a sold out house of 400, my boyfriend of almost 4 years proposed to me. Of course i said yes! Within the next few days, i found out he had cheated on me numerous times with under class men and other cast members. When i confronted him, he took the ring from my finger and told me that he didn’t love me anymore😂

[@prd__5894]

Damn bruh

[@selinaaylin7224]

Well damn!

[@ericag5346]

Why would you be getting engaged in high school anyways?

[@slayvannnnnnah2415]

Erica Goff We were both 18 and only had 2 months of school left. He wanted it to be an event. I was just sharing my experience😂

[@nalesnikiuwu]

@@ericag5346 people can get married when they are ready

[@Bumblebee67544]

My fiancé and I went to New York to see the ball drop. On New Year’s Eve Eve we went to Central Park, he pretend to take a photo of me looking at the buildings. When I turned back around he was down on one knees and asked me to marry him. The great thing is that no one was there. It was sort of a rainy day, it was cold, and all the little activities around were closed. Besides the actual proposal and me saying yes, he was mostly happy that something he planned went well for once!

[@Whyiseverynametakenwtf]

The first story broke my heart

[@cheese4147]

I was suspecting a “the ring was gone”

[@EmiIy7662]

"I found it on Facebook Marketplace that evening"

[@conniegodar8146]

Second story went on FOREVER.

[@wendyoyo]

These two are the most normal people I've ever seen on this channel and I mean that in the best way

[@boominyourface8630]

2:38 my jaw DROPPED

[@irenedim2210]

First story: Sad. Second story: Funny & cute.

[@greenheart4295]

The second one gave me serious second hand embarrassment

[@cs-nq2cz]

I thought the ring was gonna get lost in her purse and never find its way out of the jungle...

[@IXcircle]

When someone says "you deserve better than me" they either want (1) attention/validation or (2) you to initiate the break up so they don't have to.

[@credendovides20]

It can be, but it is also a common feeling that many people who are going through a mentally rough time have, and they really mean it. It should be considered a red flag that there is something wrong with how they value themselves and their self esteem.

[@catebrooks6779]

Thank you for acknowledging cheese in your recovery. Oh, and your therapist. HUGS!!!

[@weekndconcert]

YES MORE OF THESE

[@psak3797]

I feel super bad for the first girl, like I just wanna give her a big hug.

[@ellaperez537]

ohmygod when he said his wife found it like on the second day my jaw dRoPpEd

[@MRRVADrums]

Daaaaamn. That first one. She didn’t deserve that and will find someone SO MUCH better.

[@jncchang176]

Omg! Jordan. I love your attitude! Your depth of self awareness. Well spoken. Confident composure. I love you! No. Not a proposal. But I still love you!

[@rhi3698]

That first story is just horrible 😭

[@sparklejanet5156]

Jordan. Girl. I needed that from the bottom of my heart. Had this happen, and it SUCKED. I needed the boost.

[@alysswhite7992]

16 years of dating and he cheated on you? That’s rough

[@annaschwarz5747]

Only 6 years

[@zekeross6542]

Well if even after 16 years he didn't propose he was definately cheating (I wonder if the co-worker was a guy because that happens alot and the partner rarely notices)

[@Christina-mo5wh]

it was 6 yrs lol. if it was 16 yrs sh would be so old!

[@applesandoranges9916]

it’s really funny because in my culture, getting down on one knee is considered cheesy and cringy and embarrassing lol

[@felisha209]

Akane where are you from?

[@yourdad4427]

How do they propose in your culture?

[@eaqua56]

Akane Interesting. Where are you from?

[@areneej1]

Akane that’s pretty interesting! How do they propose in your country and what country?

[@applesandoranges9916]

I’m from Japan! and I guess people see the knee as a “Western thing” that people in movies do. some drama-lovers do it though. I think proposals are just done by asking sitting or standing

[@official_aperson]

Yass more of these horror stories

[@yesterdaydream]

I had to freakin pause this to cackle when Victor said "The Act of Killing." One of my favorite documentaries, but damn if that isn't the...least romantic film of all time

[@natashaphiase7363]

I've come to learn that when a man says that you deserve somebody better than him.. He's definitely doing something shady on the side 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@AirQuotes]

I was proposed to in the middle of a party but they mouthed it to me from across the room I loved it because no one else noticed

[@amayamaitet4426]

My mom always says that if your significant other tells you that "you deserve something better than him/her" is because they know something you don't and it's definitely not something that is because of you, it's something they're hiding.

[@monkey93xf]

I’m sure there’s about 4 things around the house she’s still waiting for you to take initiative on

[@zekeross6542]

40

[@kortneyheimerman7426]

I don’t know you... but you should probably do the dishes and start a lid of laundry. Make sure to clean that stubble off the sink too! Put the toilet seat down! Maybe vacuum too

[@WritingtheUnwritable]

I really feel for the girl. Went through a very similar situation. Went to college together, dated for 6 years, I proposed, he said yes... and then he snuck around behind my back with his cousins girl. Good times. Still processing. 😬

[@barbedwirebow]

'and about eighteen different types of cheeses' oh my god i LOVE HER

[@fatiziouani555]

And here we are, so single that we can't even live a proposal horror story let away a good romantic one

[@yayyaygreen4989]

Okay, for the second story, I thought he was going to say someone stole her purse. That would've been even worse.🤣🤣

[@rivernoellesegreto656]

I just came for the proposal stories. I don’t really need the “horror” part. I hope all the people are living happy awesome lives after these experiences. 💕

[@marileegarcia4294]

My husband had planned to propose to me during the fireworks at the end of the Lion King show in Hamburg we would be attending. But we were at a festival the month prior to our musical weekend, and we were walking and talking through the campsites and he just proposed there and then. No ring. No photos. Just us under the stars.

[@kenya1067]

Knowing where traverse city is makes this so much better lol that place is honestly pretty romantic.

[@cementcarlot]

i feel so srry for the first girl, if a guy did that to me i wonlud cry for years!

[@eliyannahatcher7101]

Ok so like for the first story I had to look back at the title of the video to make sure that this was a horror story video cause of the fact that it was so sweet of her to do this and then I hear the rest an it just 🙃took a turn I wasn’t expecting

[@gigigans]

I love the first girl her story is inspiring to other women too!

[@queengeorgia8594]

Ohhhh this is going to be cringy

[@moristulti9806]

Omg... I’m not 10 months late for this video.....😮

[@39suhanamakhija44]

I wish I was as confident about my self as the first girl

[@ema8459]

The first girls story really hurts my whole heart.

[@mohammadnauman8451]

I feel sorry and bad for Jordon! I feel her pain!

[@HigherHeartWarriorChannel]

Lmao the last story cracked me up for some reason 🤣 I can quite place why 😂… like I legit cackled

[@Doriansgirl19]

I got sunstroke walking to the place my fiance planned on proposing to me...he still feels bad about it.

[@mayurichatterjee2993]

"You deserve better" is a classic. Everybody should note.

[@nxkkisharma3902]

On a scale of 1-10 I felt 10.5. cracked me uppp😂😂😂

[@geofferypmeyers]

My mom accidentally texted my sister “my daughter is getting engaged today!!” Instead of texting her sister 🤣 Lmaoooo

[@i.grace.i8903]

Who else is so happy they aren’t these people ⬇️

[@sophier315]

I personally don’t want a whole bunch of people around at my proposal. I love personal events.

[@candidlycandace]

My fiance (we'd been together for 10 years) told me he was cheating on me with a co-worker too... Not a good feeling. I feel you girl! It was a blessing in disguise tho! I'm so glad I'm not with him anymore!

[@tamakiamajiki3767]

Her:and I threw my freaking shampane bottle at him Me: that is probaly what I would do if someone cheated on me Her:and also a lot of cheeses helped me threw this Me:oh shampane and 🧀 cheese what a great combo

[@recoil53]

She got to discover 18 cheeses.

[@tamakiamajiki3767]

@@recoil53 yup! Wow lol that FUNNY I bet she did lol what an adventure 😆 lol

[@wolfpup1233]

CHAMPAGNE*

[@tamakiamajiki3767]

@@wolfpup1233 😕😶😶😑😑😇😇🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mbr7156]

i was proposed to in front of my father..... the man was a jekyll hyde alcoholic.... it was Thanksgiving. i didn't want to embarrass anyone, and said 'yes'... but i knew that it wasn't going to be a thing....i eventually left because i really hated having to cover up bruises he never even remembered giving me.... (not to mention living in angry anxiety)... i found out that he gradually, eventually drank himself to death.

[@nicolederrickson9132]

I got really drunk the night before my husband proposed. The next morning I had just got done puking my guts out and he proposed right before I had to puke again. ❤

[@SoLuVaBle299]

“...that’s good right?” OMG I’m dying 😂 That one definitely is a horror story (so’s the other one of course). I was starting to lose faith the creators of these mini episodes knew what a horror story was.

[@hollie_marie]

When she said 18 different types of cheese to get me through it I felt that 😆 I looooove Cheese

[@yazziewarsame583]

lets just take moment to appreciate how good these stories times are =)

[@katicasey4610]

Ok, here’s my story: I was dating this person over the internet for 2 months. They lived in Mississippi and I lived in Massachusetts. Anyway, one night we were talking in a group chat and they said they needed to say something to me. I had kinda known what they were gonna say because they had half joked about it before, but obviously I wasn’t ready to get engaged at 17 with someone who I had never met in real life. Anyway, they did it in the group chat. I obviously said no, and we broke up a few weeks later because they needed to focus on their mental health.

[@mixy_is]

Bro got worried for a sec there that the first one was gonna end with death

[@ablabe]

2nd person: Traverse city Michigan *shows a picture of Detroit* Me, a Michigander: you didn't even try!!

[@emmasmith1743]

I loved the picture of "Traverse City"......... Who would have thought that Traverse City looks a like Detroit.

[@emmabrauer9764]

My fiance proposed to me on New Years Day 2020. I always said I wanted my family around and he did it when we were all sitting down to New Years Brunch. I was actually sicker than a dog that day and the day before. My throat was hurting so bad and I was so stuffy. I also had a mouthful of toasted bread when he knelt down on one knee... I was sick and had a mouthful of food but hey, I wouldn't have it any other way :)

[@Zubzub1995]

Honestly what an amazing woman

[@aspendeslongchamps4029]

They should do martial arts horror stories! That would be funny

[@RachelBonura]

these people are great storytellers!

[@mythicaldragon6803]

Oooooooof that first one hurt 💔

[@amyartlover]

My dad proposed to my mum when they were living in Japan and it was a really hot day so they were sitting on the sofa in their underwear and my mum suddenly said "we've been dating for a while now, are you gonna propose to me soon?" And my dad said yes. So my mum asked "ok, when?" And my dad just proposed right there, yes, they were both in their underwear and he proposed. And then a few days later, he gave her a ring when they were having lunch in a KFC 😂😂😂 I know, so romantic

[@haleylafferty9870]

You go, girl!

[@aaryalouise6391]

My co-worker's husband was so nervous before the proposal that he got in a car accident. Nobody was hurt but the mood was killed. She was super confused as she didn't know why he was so worked up. Later that evening, when they got home, he was shaking and crying but he proposed nevertheless. She said yes but asked him to calmly propose again in a few days the way he had planned it

[@CelebrianUndomiel]

I will say that big public proposals reeeeally rub me up the wrong way. That's a lot of pressure to put on a person in that moment.

[@girlwiththeblueglasses8284]

My dad didn’t even ask my mum to marry him, technically. He just wrote “will you become engaged to me?” on a banner at the small party he threw. Bless my dad.😂

[@khaoulachatt7703]

oh man! I hate bad endings, the first girl had such a nice story but the plot twist was horrible.. the man is with the right person, because she knew he was nervous and knew he's bad at these things so she just kept calm and waited for him to do his thing and just accept it

[@coolbeansss1148]

BAHAHAHAHHA that picture was not Traverse City, Michigan 😂😂😂 it’s not that big

[@martharodriguez6644]

How about never getting a proposal Rather it falling out of his shirt pocket in a little plastic baggie and he just saying “Well crap...you want to marry me, I got this for you.” Oh and it’s a ring that is the complete opposite of what you would ever want in your life. Red Flag: should’ve said NO

[@draki7917]

So I hope you are not still together with him?!

[@strawberry1093]

😬

[@baileydonnelly8792]

The dude :says yes. Me : WeREs tHe RInG.