it’s crazy how much a stranger can be holding inside and you would have no idea
@ana.mndc013 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought
@iwannadreamforever38233 жыл бұрын
sonder n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own-populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness-an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.
@mikeyjoe3 жыл бұрын
@@iwannadreamforever3823 Came here to post that simple word.
@iwannadreamforever38233 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanm9436 it is a word made up by John koenig, indeed the author of the dictionary. Since he gained popularity, I think it's used more and more, but before its never been an official word.
@jonathanm94363 жыл бұрын
@@iwannadreamforever3823 Hey, thanks for the extra detail. Such an excellent word and meaning - I shall do my part to help it be absorbed into our language.
@zin82e983 жыл бұрын
I love the guy with the ring. He’s so sincere. You can tell he has a good heart and grew as a person. Maybe that lesson was more valuable than the ring. I wonder how much good came out of that in the future because of that one experience.
@camilagrijalva41093 жыл бұрын
he knows even though he didn't directly hurt that lady that he DID hurt her by keeping the ring and he should have helped, that's telling of his growth
@yayag.89903 жыл бұрын
Isn't that common decency?
@foxyscraftycorner90003 жыл бұрын
Something similar happened to me when I found a golden ring and it belonged to someone who lost it in the lake and I gave it to them and they were so thankful
@Thalia_Rueli3 жыл бұрын
@@yayag.8990 common decency and morals aren’t fully developed until you’re in your late teens to early 20s and even later for some people…….
@skiiscott38123 жыл бұрын
@@Thalia_Rueli yea people have to grow first
@sageturner78283 жыл бұрын
It’s pretty crazy to think about how literally every person on this planet has a story to tell even if they don’t know it
@23lemons3 жыл бұрын
Billions.😳
@aidenlav3 жыл бұрын
fr, it’s insane to think about
@JunixZzHD3 жыл бұрын
Literally _literally_ *literally*
@shadingoat33603 жыл бұрын
I think about it I am like Damnn humans are amazing we never give humans the credit we deserve we have come a long way
@simitha60353 жыл бұрын
And most of the time we do not know anything about them. The people in their cars going to work, the people in the supermarket. They all have their ups and downs, their own story unrecognised by others
@seeliejane3 жыл бұрын
I love the woman who said she never had a boyfriend, the way she turned and smiled lol 😁
@flowerfields23793 жыл бұрын
Queen status👑
@philiplitsegard55183 жыл бұрын
Dont need a partner to be happy
@austinbeige3 жыл бұрын
Wasn't she awesome? Not only does she deserve love, she deserves someone good.
@tessann8183 жыл бұрын
Me too! She is so beautiful.
@redbetta21913 жыл бұрын
yep. another cat lady
@Luna-er5cu3 жыл бұрын
these people always have such nice hairstyles. like i don't know if the back of my head is that nice to look at.
@nevadag6063 жыл бұрын
Mine definitely isn’t 😂🥲I don’t know how people keep their hair looking so nice
@subormypotatowillbesad63383 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@mastermaltese87313 жыл бұрын
*Cries in balding at 18 years of age* Edit: bald to balding @Lisa
@lisahinton96823 жыл бұрын
@@mastermaltese8731 Pardon? What did you say???
@benilsonrui59503 жыл бұрын
@@lisahinton9682 He said he is bald (Or he's getting bald at a very young age, as I am too... )
@sillavie43223 жыл бұрын
This ist to the guy with the ring-story: I wish you wouldn't regret this so much. Life consists of lessons and I am pretty sure that this experience made you grow and become a self-reflecting man. Be understanding with the 13 year old boy inside of you ❤️
@tjvienneau27003 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼 amen
@thankyouuniverse36823 жыл бұрын
Aww. Sweet answer.
@devincoyne3 жыл бұрын
He’s a pos, knows it and too embarrassed to reveal himself.
@rogerc233 жыл бұрын
A POS is always a piece of S. I would never have considered doing something so horrible at any point in my life.
@JameZel9133 жыл бұрын
"Isn't a person just a collection of their mistakes And also their, kind of... undoing of their mistakes? I mean, what else are you? You know, you're always... You're always just the reaction to the bad parts of yourself I think... And I think that's what is kind of like A driving motivation behind any human being that's... Who wants to continue to grow and live life 'Cause they're looking at their flaws and trying to, go beyond it" - Michael Eyedea Larsen
@evelynerannaud42703 жыл бұрын
It's crazy that we are so self-absorbed that we don't realize that other people go through tough shit as well.
@Wyldnoob3 жыл бұрын
“Everybody just wants to be heard” I am aware of this. As someone who struggles with feeling worthless, knowing this makes things a bit worse, so I try to be as considerate as I possibly could and a better listener too.
@Wa._.li13 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@kileyslife75413 жыл бұрын
Yea, I was talking to my sister's friend the other day and he's talking about his time being homeless as a teenager and I'm just like man, people go through so much. I guess that's why I try to be nice to everyone. I don't want to make their day worse than it might already be.
@Varaidzo13 жыл бұрын
Who's that self absorbed though to think that? Surely if you've lived enough years on the planet you know everybody's got a story
@yayag.89903 жыл бұрын
Lol what? Literally no one thinks that
@Weird_dude2653 жыл бұрын
Hello Thoraya. Would you ever consider doing these videos in a different place? People who live in different areas tend to think differently and have different life experiences. Some suggestions near San Diego: The mexico/america border, Chula Vista, Encinitas, Long Beach, L.A., Tijuana, Ensenada, Mexicali, Yuma.(once travel restrictions lift). Plane and train tickets are cheaper than usual right now, so there's also Las Vegas and the Hoover Dam further out. Everyone upvote this so Thoraya sees, and add suggestions to other places she can go.
@user-vu9gd8ed1h3 жыл бұрын
I think this is an amazing idea and have commented this suggestion before.
@bmendiajohnson3 жыл бұрын
The thing about where she films is a huge tourist attraction. The odds of everyone being actually from San Diego is very slim. I think that’s really cool.
@deathic3 жыл бұрын
You should come to Eastern Kentucky. You would be very interested in what the people here have to say!
@lisahinton96823 жыл бұрын
@@deathic I agree! I have family from Ashland and I had lived in California for so long when I met them. I was in a little bit of culture shock, but just a little, as I had gone to college in Lexington. But yes, definitely a different way of thinking there in eastern Kentucky than San Diego.
@pottymouth98913 жыл бұрын
Y’all funding her?
@zxhan3 жыл бұрын
I like how these strangers are brave enough to talk about their darkest times on the internet. Obsessed with your videos thoraya.
@mdc123-v2v3 жыл бұрын
Ahh yes. Those dark times where you don't wear a seat belt because you want to live dangerously.
@suave6053 жыл бұрын
@@mdc123-v2v they should interview actual roadmen not softies like her LOL
@angel123198233 жыл бұрын
It's always interesting how you can be honest with a stranger but can have difficulties sharing with the people closes to you.
@umcamry3 жыл бұрын
exactly this, i lived in phoenix a couple months ago and ran into a "crackhead" on my way home. stopped and had 5 hour conversation, told her every single detail of my life and she did the same but till this day even my closest friends know nothing about me
@Varaidzo13 жыл бұрын
Because you actually know the people close to you and often they judge
@iwannadreamforever38233 жыл бұрын
@@umcamry there's so much beauty in that
@quirogatnonerrat32143 жыл бұрын
Because they will condemn you because they know you. They are prejudice and attack you
@traceytansley16593 жыл бұрын
I think that's because sharing your deepest secretes with ppl closest to you is a perceived greater risk.
@sonata16213 жыл бұрын
I love the guy who took us on his life journey of his grandpa passing, breaking up with his girlfriend, getting his masters, and losing basically half of his weight. Great advice: trust your parents, friends, and believe in yourself
@juliusl52113 жыл бұрын
He has the brightest smile!
@polly21993 жыл бұрын
Sometimes parents can be your enemy. They can also tell u wrong and painful things. I hope no one have parents like that.
@danni19933 жыл бұрын
Yes, I really liked him!
@HumansOfVR3 жыл бұрын
after talking with a bunch of people myself i've realized being unfaithful is waaaayy more common than I expected
@Weird_dude2653 жыл бұрын
One of the many reasons that most people shouldn't get married.. to any single person or group of people. I'm not against monogamy, but most people aren't ready for a serious monogamous relationship. On the flip side, I think polyamory is just as bad. (a lot of poly people I've met seem flighty, vapid, and selfish, and do it for the wrong reasons.) Not against polyamory either. I just think people should attempt to be the best, most genuine version of themselves.
@GatorTv3 жыл бұрын
It’s sad because social media really tries to normalize cheating. It could really be a big influencer. People are just terrible
@FirstLast-nz9vo3 жыл бұрын
@@GatorTv but isn’t cheating normal? Pretty sure monogamy is unrealistic
@Weird_dude2653 жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-nz9vo Monogamy is unrealistic... for some people. For others it's extremely natural and completely attainable. I think it's more that most people have no idea what they want in life and do what society says they should do(monogamy), and then there are others that have no idea what they want in life and do the complete opposite of what society says they should do(polyamory) and a lot of people in both parties end up unfulfilled because they aren't doing what THEY want to do, but they can't even get to that point because they don't know themselves enough to KNOW what they want to do. Don't try to push your views on others because I think that's part of the thing that keeps people from knowing themselves.
@GatorTv3 жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-nz9vo oh my 🤦🏽♀️you did not just say that… just because you have difficulty committing your self to ONE person doesn’t mean the majority people are like that. Monogamy is not unrealistic. That’s just an excuse for people who do cheat. I hope your mind set isn’t “cheating is normal” because that is truly disgusting. If you do think that way , I hope you dont get yourself in a relationship or marriage. You truly don’t want anyone else when you find the one. Maybe people who can’t stick to one person has a trouble with love. I have no idea, but dont normalize cheating please. That does so much damage
@susane40783 жыл бұрын
To the gal who’s in love with her girlfriend. By pretending you love your boyfriend, you hurt him, your girlfriend and yourself. There is nothing wrong with loving your girlfriend. Your fear of parental or society’s rejection is keeping you from being your AUTHENTIC self. It is ok to be gay. Please do not pretend to be something else. Courage is doing something authentic even while you’re afraid. Be honest and transparent. It will stop a lot of future grief. You can do it! Be courageous.
@تالين-ي8س3 жыл бұрын
People hate gays more than killers, she will feel excluded on many levels, btw Do not advise anyone without realizing the danger of this act even though I am bisexual as well 🏳️🌈.
@jonathanm94363 жыл бұрын
@@تالين-ي8س I agree that only she can understand the true weight of the consequences of any decision to come out. But, i am sorry to hear that you think 'people hate gays more than killers'. I have never been anywhere where this is true, and I am sorry to hear that you are located where this is true. Stay well.
@jonathanm94363 жыл бұрын
Her reasons for not coming out are more potent than her desire to do just that. Maybe she would lose her parents and community - I don't know, but it must be too big to face. At least now.
@borednow3 жыл бұрын
@RedSeaGull totally agree with you... she is holding him back from finding REAL love... just be single and "best friends" with your boo... you can decide to be "just roommates" together for the public and even have some cats while both being fake "single" and "bitching to your social circles" how difficult it is to find a good boyfriend lol
@MarcT19953 жыл бұрын
@RedSeaGull agreed!! There's nothing wrong with being single.
@m.b.93053 жыл бұрын
To the guy with the ring, I hope you’re reading this: Very often I find myself thinking about bad things I did when I was young and immature. I then feel this guilt, regret and also big embarrassment for myself. But honestly I believe it’s a good thing that we self reflect, not only our recent actions but also things we did in the past. It helps us to learn from our mistakes, to avoid future mistakes and to grow into a mature person! Edit: It‘s important to self reflect but it’s just as important to forgive ourselves for the things we did in the past
@brockheidle30003 жыл бұрын
I have two I am 12 and will be 13 in 2 weeks and I am a bit popular and I often am scared that my friends are slowly drifting apart because I am doing better in school than they are and one of them is very jealous recently and has started saying bad things about me to my other close friends and I keep my mouth shut even though I know so much about him that I could tell but I just take it and stay quiet and my second one is I fear not being proud of more than learning from failure I get so nervous trying to get hurt that I hurt my self doing it I just got my first girlfriend and I was so afraid to ask her even though everyone around me told both of us it is obvious we liked each other and when I try out for sports I do worse than I can even tho I know I have what it takes but I am still scared to shine because I am more afraid of falling but I am getting over it and gaining more confidence in myself by working out and talking to more people and taking chances
@wally69143 жыл бұрын
I did alot of bad things in the past. I was a tyrant..
@exdoode3 жыл бұрын
@@brockheidle3000 I think you are doing the right things, practice makes us better, keep trying and confidence is sure to follow. Everyone gets nervous, it only natural.
@sarabeaarr3 жыл бұрын
that girl in love with her best friend should just dump the boyfriend
@edwbh3 жыл бұрын
Cc
@halamadrid23703 жыл бұрын
Cc
@Purpliz3 жыл бұрын
Yep broke that man heart and go directly with the best friend seems like simple
@whatlol30033 жыл бұрын
@@Purpliz its better than forcing yourself to be with someone you dont even want to be with. it will hurt more if you drag someone its better to do it right away, ive been through it and its horrible to keep going.
@Purpliz3 жыл бұрын
@@whatlol3003 but y don't break like that and just go free with your best friend if you are a little bit compassionate
@Gurgeetsinghs3 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe people when they say they are proud of me because I am not proud of myself. Wow.😢
@mamapegg3 жыл бұрын
Would your younger self be proud of the decisions you have made? That's one thing I think about...and my answer is yes. It's hard to be kind to yourself. I am proud of you ❤
@Weird_dude2653 жыл бұрын
@Martha Speaks That's good. Use it to motivate you.
@maximilian28433 жыл бұрын
@@mamapegg my younger self is dumb as fuck, i'm not that smart now either but i think there was a rising curve
@premonition55083 жыл бұрын
i thought the same way especially as like a pre teen, id get like 80s in school and my parents would tell their friends and theyd all congratulate me and say theyre so proud but i never believed them because i thought i could do better, still in school and i think less like that but i wont lie i still kinda do
@stoptheuyghurgenocide34453 жыл бұрын
"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always." - Robin Williams
@quirogatnonerrat32143 жыл бұрын
Yea, like battling the horrid reality of having to be responsible for yourself and try not to spend all your money in fast food and games and have zero for rainy days. Fighting to get up out of bed and throw some clothes in the washing machine etc. I know some dead beats that just fight decay and laziness. I have no respect for such people
@LA-cm9uo3 жыл бұрын
The guy at 6:55 had a lot to say. His words touched me. Then, he turned around and showed a shining smile. He is so brave! I hope his life keeps getting better and better.
@jedidahakinyi96813 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I really liked him too.
@shangxinhemengmian6793 жыл бұрын
To the women that’s never been in love at age 30. First of all age is irrelevant, u are so gorgeous and amazing. Your eyes are beautiful and I can only bet u have an amazing personality. I go by true love is true love and regardless how long you have to wait for it, it’s worth it. GOOD LUCK! ♥️♥️
@thedoublehelix56613 жыл бұрын
...that attitude will have her end up dying alone
@juliebrown40873 жыл бұрын
@@thedoublehelix5661 So what's your advice?
@thedoublehelix56613 жыл бұрын
@@juliebrown4087 my advice for her? Well I don't know much about her, but first I would advice her to get therapy. Then I'd have her lose a bit of weight.
@thedoublehelix56613 жыл бұрын
@@equusamans Of course love, and sex has intrinsic value! They're human needs.
@thedoublehelix56613 жыл бұрын
@@equusamans oh I'll just go and tell someone who has no friends, family, and gf that he's just missing the "concept of love" and those things have on value in themselves.
@lkding83703 жыл бұрын
It’s good that the guy with the story about the ring thinks about it all the time. He is wrong that it didn’t really benefit him. It may or may not have been sentimental to the woman but the experience certainly became sentimental to him & changed him forever in what seems to be a more thoughtful person. His ongoing remorse reflects this.
@ittybitty6873 жыл бұрын
I lost my engagement ring and it sucked so much not gonna lie, but to the guy that pawned the ring, it served as a learning experience, and it sounds like you did learn and that's what matters.
@myaccounttorun34853 жыл бұрын
Pawned*
@ittybitty6873 жыл бұрын
@@myaccounttorun3485 I live in MN, I commonly use the word 'ponder lol, thanks for the correction.
@MakaylaLynnOnYoutube3 жыл бұрын
Shoutout to the kid going to Spain, safe travels buddy.
@sitcomchristian68863 жыл бұрын
And tell your family where you're going.
@MakaylaLynnOnYoutube3 жыл бұрын
@@sitcomchristian6886 That’s true… At least one person needs to know so nobody is truly in the dark 😭
@walkerstalker04533 жыл бұрын
@@sitcomchristian6886 Or don't because it's his choice
@weirdoodee12163 жыл бұрын
@@walkerstalker0453 tell at least one person tho seriously
@crescenthaven89693 жыл бұрын
It's interesting how people's big secrets could range from something a little insignificant (like the lady who sometimes refuses to wear a seatbelt) to full on identity theft.
@brockheidle30003 жыл бұрын
I am a popular kid in school I am 13 mine is lacking of confidence and fear of being a disappointment this year gave me a weird message I did not make the basketball or baseball team during quarantine and it made me weird I felt down on myself lazy always tiered and I got my first ever c and d and b in schools first semester because of me being sad and lazy and not see anyone because it was online and I did not even try out for academic team this year even though I was sate champion for social studies last year and my team got first in state then we went back to school and I started acting how I wanted to act and be myself and I got straight A,s the rest of the year I started working out I got super popular in that time and got my first girl friend
@brockheidle30003 жыл бұрын
It made me think what else can I do and I have been asked to play football for my middle school and I am going to try out for baseball basketball and academic team and have gained a lot more confidence
@anadd61952 жыл бұрын
She could die though :o
@anadd61952 жыл бұрын
@@brockheidle3000 Yeah, when we are popular people expect a lot and we end up creating quite some weight for ourselves too... But you will do well. I know it's hard to deal with expectations sometimes but really do stuff for yourself, little by little. You can do it. :)
@almakehlerbrown39353 жыл бұрын
I'm so ashamed of talking to my hair stylist now while she's shampooing my head 😫
@Misanthr6py3 жыл бұрын
Right 😂😂😅
@anotherplanet58283 жыл бұрын
I will never say ahhhh or make purring noises again! 😳
@byattawandili71413 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@LemooZ3 жыл бұрын
nah thats their job that THEY chose out of their own free will, i paid for the services so i will look in their face and moan and groan till their ears fall off😌✨
@camilagrijalva41093 жыл бұрын
I always have like, tried to not even tilt my head too much because it definitely feels strange for them haha. Though it's ok that it took you a while to notice this, we all like to talk .
@nobodynowhere80613 жыл бұрын
To the girl who loves her best friend more than her boyfriend of a year: I know you’re under a lot of pressure, but please tell him. He deserves more than to be committed to a relationship over feelings that are not mutual. If he already knows and you’re just using him for cover then you can just ignore this :)
@chammycham29363 жыл бұрын
YEAH!!!!!!
@1Tako13 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I feel bad for her but I can easily imagine how heartbreaking it would be if I were in his position.
@fxjrulpzxi3 жыл бұрын
I AGREE!!!! She is literally using him, that’s awful
@angelmiuu3 жыл бұрын
@@fxjrulpzxi i don’t consider it to be “awful”. they’re in a difficult position where they aren’t sure how to approach it because they don’t want to be seen as a horrible person or have that guilt trapped inside her for not being able to easily tell him that she is in love with her best friend. yes, she definitely should tell him, but listen to her. she said for the sake of herself and for society AND her parents, it’s hard to go a different way. she needs time and confidence to stand up and say how she truly feels, but for right now, it’s probably the hardest thing for her. i can’t imagine the amount of overthinking she’s done and the regret she might feel if she hurts him. :/
@monicaledesma4084 Жыл бұрын
What are you guys talking about? I didn’t see that girl in this clip. Are you commenting in other video?
@VOIICENetwork3 жыл бұрын
Hey Thoroya, I'm Richard from Ghana, West Africa. I love your channel. I run a non-profit in Ghana, and we also make videos with Africans that address unspoken issues in Africa like you do. In a nation where marginalised persons and issues are antagonised and ignored, it's truly inspiring to me and the VOIICE Community to do what you do. We look forward to incorporating what you do too. Thank you so much for being here.
@VOIICENetwork3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤗❤️
@JuliaPedro3 жыл бұрын
You have my sub too even if the jollof rice war goes on 😉
@VOIICENetwork3 жыл бұрын
@@JuliaPedro hahahaha. we have a video on that war too lol.
@JuliaPedro3 жыл бұрын
@@VOIICENetwork Way to go! Nigeria wins the war regardless. (Chuckling) Like I care about the war 😁
@JuliaPedro3 жыл бұрын
I loved the jollof video. I was thinking along the same line you went as I watched. Wouldn't want to mention it to get others to go and see for themselves 😉
@Sincerely_lolo3 жыл бұрын
“I can make it, just give me a little more time” I love how patient he is with himself
@marisa31483 жыл бұрын
“I don’t believe people when they say that they’re proud of me because I’m never proud of myself” felt that one so hard😭
@beautifulleaves86163 жыл бұрын
The first woman, just wow😍...her voice is lovely and she seems to be so sweet. And the last guys smile was too cute
@GBCuddLe3 жыл бұрын
That guy at the end is amazing & so inspiring. Everyone that can reveal a secret is amazing, but he hit different. Thanks so much for the videos and happy you're back 😊
@nonenone98563 жыл бұрын
He has such a wonderful smile and looks so genuinely happy
@danabrennan6283 жыл бұрын
The "unrequited love" girl !! She's friggen gorgeous ! It's not only shocking, but it breaks my heart to know that she's not ever been in a relationship. You need to put that shit out to the universe, girl ! You are too fabulous and have way too much to give to keep yourself to yourself ~ ❤
@risksandhope18493 жыл бұрын
To the guy who found the ring- -that was a strong learning experience, and the fact that it still weighs on you today is a sign that you have grown because of it morally. Don't regret the things that shape us, just grow from them and live your life as a better person for it. 💜
@bretts9373 Жыл бұрын
"Don't regret the things that shape us, just grow from them and live your life as a better person for it." Very. Well. Said. 🥲
@taylorkelly77903 жыл бұрын
This channel I found last year and it's made me feel so wholesome, like the universe is truthful. It's beautiful.
@keiron.46123 жыл бұрын
I feel less alone when I watch a thoraya video
@keiron.46123 жыл бұрын
@@leannek8726 I'm here to talk to anytime I feel pretty alone now it's late where I am to
@shyinsomniac3 жыл бұрын
Much respect to the young man in the camo hat who lost his grandfather and lost a bunch of weight. I hope life treats you well
@tinaa4863 жыл бұрын
the smile of the last guy is so cute, im glad he's better now :)
@fuzzydorito61053 жыл бұрын
I feel awful for that 30-year-old woman who's never found love. I see many comments about it claiming that "she's clearly happy being by herself, she doesn't need anyone!" but just because she acts all confident in front of a camera doesn't mean she is. And even if I'm wrong, and she is perfectly okay with being alone, she would be happier with someone who loves her just as much as she loves herself.
@Shiro6423 жыл бұрын
Also if it didnt matter, according to all her fans, then why did she bring it up as one of her greatest regrets. Obviously it bothers her. Im single and 30 and it sucks
@desertmoonlee66313 жыл бұрын
Yea i hate how people say you don’t need love to be happy but everyone is different me as a person i can’t stand living alone i already have no friends so at least i need relationship to feel good and talk to someone i trust
@siqxyre84733 жыл бұрын
As someone who's aromantic i can understand her. I do not grieve never finding love, but i do feel like i'm out of place when everyone always says its something all humans have. Her secret isn't regret, its her sharing she isn't like others, that she feels weird and different. She regrets that she is different, not that she can't fall in love. I hope someone can tell her one day that the label she's searching for is Aromantic, she isn't alone.
@blahface2403 жыл бұрын
People always pity people who don't feel the need to be in a romantic relationship, as if there is something missing in their life. Maybe in yours, but not in theirs- that smile proves it.
@SarahExplainsItAll3 жыл бұрын
If it takes another person to make you happy, that’s unfortunate. You can be a complete person with a full life without a partner.
@nourmaltoufi17533 жыл бұрын
The guy in 2:22 actually gave a really good suggestion to thoraya. Ask strangers if you could go back in time and change one thing , what would it be ?
@stefanb52663 жыл бұрын
6:30 the pain she must feel because she may never be able to have what she truly wants
@Varaidzo13 жыл бұрын
@@leannek8726 best friend though may not feel the same way as her...
@denisebiddick88773 жыл бұрын
The last one made me cry. He's awesome. Having gone through this with my own child I hear the hope for the future he found which is all a parent wants their child to have.
@Panda720213 жыл бұрын
As someone who rarely gets their hair washed by a stylist (I usually just go in for a cut), eye contact makes me uncomfortable too. Glad to see I'm not considered a rude person if I just close my eyes and sit in complete silence (unless I'm asked a question).
@cdnest3 жыл бұрын
To the man who withheld the ring: Everything is fine. You have developed wonderfully! Very few people who do something wrong can reflect on themselves like this! This insight makes you something special and this mistake has brought you a lot further spiritually. I bet you are a very helpful, open person! You understand others and you can forgive mistakes because you know that people can develop further. The woman will be fine. Maybe her husband bought her a new ring, maybe it was a sign for her that it wasn't the right man for her. You do not know. Please forgive the 13 year old boy that he was more fascinated by the shiny gold than by the second he made the decision for a strange woman. Believe me everything is fine! I forgive you.
@shashavashasha3 жыл бұрын
These videos sometimes seem like a group therapy to me... no matter how much it sucks to see people going through shit, it's easier to deal with something when you realize you're not alone... ♡
@bretts9373 Жыл бұрын
That's why I keep coming back to these. It makes so much sense. You don't feel alone
@AmadeuShinChan3 жыл бұрын
Golden ring: laying on the seashore. 13 years old boy: it's free real estate.
@user-cu3ts8of8x3 жыл бұрын
In a coral reef
@-ray-75853 жыл бұрын
Bruh 💀
@iChelleWin3 жыл бұрын
I always like watching these videos. It really puts "sonder" into perspective - that every random passerby is living a life that is just as complex and vivid as our own.
@brettmcintyre76833 жыл бұрын
not the girl saying "i never thought it would happen to me" as if she didn't CHOOSE to cheat
@lisahinton96823 жыл бұрын
@Brett Mcintyre Your thoughtful comment is ruined by the juvenile "lol" at the end. Just letting you know. Maybe think about it and stop with this bad habit (which is everrrrrrrrrrrywhere all over the Internet).
@brettmcintyre76833 жыл бұрын
@@lisahinton9682 you're right i guess it's more sad that she's playing the victim than funny... seemed funny in the moment in a ridiculous way though. I'll edit it just for you
@based79003 жыл бұрын
Probably expects people to feel sorry for her, I hope her fiancé finds out and leaves that disgusting degenerate. He deserves better
@shannilove28013 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@prisonisinourminds80703 жыл бұрын
Some things just happen. Maybe she was drunk and high and couldn’t control herself.
@cristiansoutside3 жыл бұрын
To the girl that has never had a boyfriend, you’re a catch my love! You will find someone who is the right fit for you❤️
@meriamj51503 жыл бұрын
This channel is just beautiful , sincere , open , heart and soul touching and full of acceptance . Thank you Thoraya for this wonderful Channel , just keep going. Big love 😘
@elisamartellini403 жыл бұрын
The guy who said that after going through 4 traumatic events he just dealt with one thing at a time and he's now in a good place has made my day and given me hope. Thanks ❤️
@Jupiter-ng1yi2 жыл бұрын
The guy who stood out the most to me was the last one. His smile seemed so genuinely happy, and since I've been struggling myself with my weight and the stress of school, it's good to know that maybe someday I will get over it and be truly happy again.
@zahavasantos9023 жыл бұрын
Every person is so complex a whole world 🌎
@mica1k3 жыл бұрын
it's weird bc this makes me like super aware that the strangers i walk past everyday have a whole story to tell. like it gives me literal chills.
@sandrascheffer4033 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for the fact you show people that everyone in this human life has his own struggles and secrets. You make me - and alot of others - feel more human, despite of the mistakes I made myself in this life. Thank you.
@xLiviPoox3 жыл бұрын
These videos really just make me feel close to absolute strangers. It really shows us that people aren’t just people. We have so much more to us.
@Thorayaa3 жыл бұрын
Here's the link to my new podcast channel: kzbin.info/door/t1QoCI87TAkX5uAjlIh-fg
@saracristinadesantana50013 жыл бұрын
só queria que as legendas estivessem ativadas
@DarkAce13 жыл бұрын
This honestly means alot for a 15 yo like me, Tysm 💙
@Acider.3 жыл бұрын
Here
@jackien4043 жыл бұрын
Hi Thoraya, are you still selling merch? Could not find a link in this video's description.
@bendeoliveira27683 жыл бұрын
Why did you gave up on Strangers Call Their Crush? Those were so good. I missed 'em.
@blakeismyname3443 жыл бұрын
Nothing but respect for those courageous enough to show their face after their confession, no matter how big or small.
@aftoncrain20423 жыл бұрын
For the lady who is 30 and single, good for you. You don’t need anyone else to be enough 💕
@orangesunset99013 жыл бұрын
I love the last guy. His secret is somewhat what I’m going through but I believe in myself too and I’m happy to know there’s someone else out that who is motivated and just got broken down by life. It does get better with the right people around and a positive mindset.
@giselleg.34973 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for these videos Thoraya! I love the fact that it helps people feel like they aren't alone, but also the chance to get these things off their chest.
@turquoiseturtle76643 жыл бұрын
Just looking at the girl/lady in purple when she turned around, it makes me feel like she is actually a lovely person.
@melaninandaura97133 жыл бұрын
I would like to see the politicians tell their stories. Even if we didn’t know it was them. We all need to heal, even them. Speaking is the first step
@jordanwall75943 жыл бұрын
My secret is i hide my depression fear and anxiety by making jokes and dodging questions
@ece-hr5fg3 жыл бұрын
i do that too, my friend. it's not that bad of a coping mechanism, all things considered. and it can be a good way of communicating with others who have similar issues since many people have this type of coping mechanism. so don't feel bad about it! :)
@yannapositive3 жыл бұрын
I love how revealing this program is. Our secrets can sometimes make us do things and feels like you're about to explode
@TJ-tu5xc3 жыл бұрын
"I do not show up as my most authentic self, because I'm afraid of abandonment". I felt that ❤️💔 I hope one day you can show up as your most authentic self and be embraced ❤️ you're beautiful
@cattledogandstaffy3 жыл бұрын
I hope the girl in love with her best friend finds happiness. Her story broke my heart
@lisahinton96823 жыл бұрын
@CaptainJacFrost I hope your heart broke for the guy being hood-winked, and not for her greedy ass.
@cattledogandstaffy3 жыл бұрын
@@lisahinton9682 Yeah, there's absolutely no nuance to the situation at all 😒
@Shiro6423 жыл бұрын
@@cattledogandstaffy She could easily dump the guy and stay on the down-low. No need to string the guy along. I really have no idea why she feels pressured in this day?
@cattledogandstaffy3 жыл бұрын
@@Shiro642 It's very likely she has family that may disown her or kick her out. We don't know the full situation =/
@Shiro6423 жыл бұрын
@@cattledogandstaffy Im not saying she has to come out. Im saying she SHOULD dump her bf. There is No excuse to string him along. No family will disown u for dumping a bf?
@laylam32343 жыл бұрын
i love that man at the end !! he has the brightest smile and was just so positive :)))
@elsaken28403 жыл бұрын
The ring guy. You can tell he still hasn't forgiven himself. I already knew he wasn't gonna turn because he still feels guilty and blames himself for his last actions.
@prathamkumar73013 жыл бұрын
This saying changed my life "Don't ever think your problem is the biggest problem it's just that you don't know what orthers are going through".
@clipaqua88483 жыл бұрын
cheating fiancé is cold to the core
@based79003 жыл бұрын
And the worst part is they’re everywhere, many cases of women just like her who get pregnant and lie to the boyfriend/husband pretending that it’s their kid.
@chickensaladwitmayo3 жыл бұрын
i truly hope the woman who said she was in love with her best friend got the courage to come out. it was so heart warming how she described how she feels about her girlfriend and i hope they’re really happy together :,)
@HawaiianForgeStudios3 жыл бұрын
I hope for the opposite. Nothing like being strung along in a relationship and starting to make plans only to find out not only she cheated but she was never was really into you putting a huge dent into your self confidence and opening up the possibility to be made fun of for having a girl leave you for another girl.
@chickensaladwitmayo3 жыл бұрын
@@HawaiianForgeStudios that’s a really good point, but if she stayed with her boyfriend it would be at the expense of her happiness, and her and her boyfriend would be stuck in a lie. If the boyfriend is understanding, hopefully the girl can be with the one she loves and the boyfriend can find someone he loves, y’know? It might sting at first but the girl deserves to be happy too.
@HawaiianForgeStudios3 жыл бұрын
@@chickensaladwitmayo Depends on the person. Some people are very cold or vindictive about it, while others can part amicably, but human nature is human nature and im a pessimist so i vote for the worst case scenario.
@chickensaladwitmayo3 жыл бұрын
@@HawaiianForgeStudios lmao fair enough
@Elisseable3 жыл бұрын
I think this is the most amount of secret sharers who haven't turned around. Thanks to them all for sharing what they did 💕
@antoniah56603 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why, but the last guy’s story made me cry.. I think I resonate with him in a way and his words really touched my soul. I want to thank him for sharing his story and for being so honest! One thing that he said really stuck with me: “In the future after five years, will you really care about it?” This made me realize that every problem is temporary and even if it affects you, in the end, every struggle will turn into something good and you will be ok! This video was very beautiful! Congratulations!
@clairegrace78623 жыл бұрын
That one girl was like: *”teehee sometimes I don’t wear a seat belt. So rebellious”*
@antonellawall64713 жыл бұрын
Not me wearing no seatbelt yesterday when my dad was driving the car at 230km/h 😂😍
@Tronderose3 жыл бұрын
@@antonellawall6471 RIP
@VioletJoy3 жыл бұрын
She must really lead a strict life. Yikes!
@attilacishar3 жыл бұрын
She was iconic
@SilverTheFlame Жыл бұрын
7:56 “I can make it. Just give me some more time” Such an awesome mindset. Love thinking about the perspective 5 years in the future
@brian_79343 жыл бұрын
Hey thoraya!! Every time you post a new vid it makes my day! There is somthing so uplifting and warm about them. Keep up the good work👍👍
@chemelilm95133 жыл бұрын
the story of the guy who never met his grand father brought tears to my eyes….you could tell his encouragement words were genuine even after all he been through and it’s so inspiring to me.
@coffeerevival78122 жыл бұрын
The whole story of the guy who went down to 160lbs from 300lbs really gave me hope about my life and the things that are weighing me down. Thank you!
@shadingoat33603 жыл бұрын
The first person who said I don’t show up as my authentic self cause I am afraid of abandonment I felt it as a person who lives a double life constantly
@Prieta1003 жыл бұрын
Girl that has never been in love.....YOU GOOD! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@annaheya21093 жыл бұрын
The one going to Spain instead of college is like my brother 🤣👌
@zijing95483 жыл бұрын
For real??
@annaheya21093 жыл бұрын
@@zijing9548 haha it's no longer a secret only I know about it lol
@zijing95483 жыл бұрын
@@annaheya2109 haha😂
@elibestie80723 жыл бұрын
imagine seeing your most closest person ever on here and they share their secret and its heartbreaking to know they act different around you to make you happy…
@elliedoesit3 жыл бұрын
" I deal with everything one by one" He really said a whole word
@lisahinton96823 жыл бұрын
@elle does it. What does that even mean? What's a "whole word"? And how does one say a whole word? Seriously, I have no idea what you mean.
@Momma_AL3 жыл бұрын
??? What???
@cheezwhiz132 жыл бұрын
im so proud of that last person, they deserve all of the good things thats happened so far. brightest smile ive ever seen, makes me feel like things will be alright
@nthlns3 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of the last guy, he made me feel more optimistic about myself
@amsl_zainab3 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of secrets but my one secret is that I am scared in situations where there is nothing to be scared of. So the root of my fear is that I have no courage, I am not confident in me and that I have a number of insecurities.
@tlouitas3 жыл бұрын
Ok I gotta say the second girl really resonated with me Also I LOVE her shirt GIVE ME THATTT
@ashton88783 жыл бұрын
Horrible men’s shirt.
@bathnoodles27533 жыл бұрын
@@ashton8878 nobody cares, anna
@zanroellames81983 жыл бұрын
There are tons of people in this world and tons of secrets yet to uncover. Its super crazy to think about how everyone has a deep dark secret that appears threatening or shameful to others or at least to themselves and we don't know. I always believe that i don't my close friends very much and so do i think for other people.The best way to trust someone is by giving them time to open up. We have 2 eyes, it never hurts to take 2 or more looks. We have 2 ears, its not bad to listen twice or more. We have skin, to be able to touch and feel what a person feels. And we have one mouth, one chance to speak up. I learned by this that i shouldn't judge other people first before i know the whole person. Everyone has a story to say, yet it always has an end, it gives way for more.
@nvm40863 жыл бұрын
Omg the last guy is just amazing!
@MssLvgd2 жыл бұрын
Its so sad and ironic at the same time, that so many human beeings feel the same thing.. Especially when it comes to be truly yourself or fear of beeing rejected. You are not alone 🌼
@explorer92393 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful.
@littlemermaid86382 жыл бұрын
6:52 her smile is amazing! I hope she gets what she wants in life! 🤗
@Weirder_the_better3 жыл бұрын
How is no one talking about the guy who found $1,500 in ones in an elementary school bathroom? There must be soooo much more to that story and I hope that woman is alright.
@anadd61952 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I would have given that to the police without a spare thought.
@laurabev1232 жыл бұрын
Yeah he definitely should not have kept that money
@liseyboop Жыл бұрын
what…? are you referring to a different video?? that story isn’t a part of this video.
@mrchrischrischrischr3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all who shared especially the last guy who probably will end of helping MANY people. You made me feel better.
@progaminghub15733 жыл бұрын
i wish i was given such a chance, just to open up 😕😕
@mamapegg3 жыл бұрын
We're listening 💛
@salmon12903 жыл бұрын
We can help, is there anything you want to say?
@Weird_dude2653 жыл бұрын
Make a video like this and put it on you tube.
@bluerain3693 жыл бұрын
You can open up here.. Pour it out..
@hobimin30913 жыл бұрын
Same but I'm too afraid to open up :)
@damariso.74633 жыл бұрын
I love the last guy's thought about "If it matters in 5 years or not" honestly puts alot of things in perspective! I am so happy he is doing better and succeeding
@jenhitch51993 жыл бұрын
I remember a teacher doing something like this and we were better people for it. We all put a secret and a fear in a bag anonymously and she read them out. We were all shocked that deep down we were very much alike.
@soulfullygraced25213 жыл бұрын
The ring guy .... What a lovely conscious
@imkindaboredioi3 жыл бұрын
my secret is that i feel hurt when people don’t trust me enough to tell me stuff like my best friend of 7 years told someone else that she was bi before me and i’ve never shown hate to these kinds of things but um i guess she just didn’t trust me lol
@kashootmyself43 жыл бұрын
you can know someone for years but still not develop that kind of trust. I understand it hurts but atleast she told you eventually, yknow? coming out is hard as fuck even if you know they’ll accept you.
@kileyslife75413 жыл бұрын
I had a best friend of 7 years and when I came out to her she outed me to 6 other people. Coming out is hard, please don't take it personally. Maybe that other person was also bi so she felt more comfortable telling them.
@tovanille3 жыл бұрын
Maybe she just really wanted to get it off her chest, don't take it to personal please because she felt comfortable enough to confide in you anyways so why worry about when she did?
@angstyburrito80713 жыл бұрын
I love these videos. Thank you for all you do Thoraya!! You bring so much light and hope to this world. Thank you for allowing people to have a voice when they feel like they have none. ❤
@reagracefajader32963 жыл бұрын
I have been waiting for the new episode. Thank you for uploading. ❤️