People Think I Married My Therapist

[@EulaliaSchultz-y2e]

The chemistry between you two is absolutely undeniable!

[@TotalTennisGeek]

"I needed you. I always needed you." Awww ❤

[@catloverKD]

I'm 36 and perpetually single, with an invisible disability similar to autism. This gives me hope that my person may be out there somewhere. We definitely need more videos like this!

[@evelynsaltnakabazzi2941]

Ooooooooh may God give you a partner who will bring light and true happiness in your life....may you also get that joy that Cole has with charisma .

[@elinakeranen4499]

Same, I feel like it's harder when it's invisible, like people are taken aback when they see something unusual and they think I'm a weirdo or purposefully mean or something.

[@eagledice2008]

Your person is out there ❤

[@elouise5593]

They should have a dating app for you all! My nephew is on the Autism spectrum. He is 37 and though he has had a girlfriend, he has yet to find the right woman.

[@romanovamarianikolaevna]

Are you lived where? Are you have social media?

[@jacquelineroachr5990]

Haters are usually ignorant (unlearned), unhappy, or just plain jealous!!! You're right Cole, you guys rock, and I truly admire you both. Stay in love, stay committed to each other. You are so blessed to have a beautiful, loving wife who loves you dearly💕 Keep Looking Up🤗

[@coleandcharisma]

You’re so kind, thank you!!

[@rainymakgati4097]

❤ Beautiful love history 🎉❤❤

[@anncott]

Charisma - you are an inspiration! You teach continually how to love fully and deeply. I am a widow since 2022. My husband and I were married for 54 years. We had a very successful marriage but ups and downs for sure. My deepest regret is that I did not use every moment to affirm him and to appreciate his amazing attributes. You are such a model of this deep and accepting love. I wish that I had had your example earlier. Cole is darn loveable so that is inspirational in itself. My only advice is to continue daily appreciating the wonderful life you two share together. Thank you for your podcasts!

[@DarksideCMB]

HELLO! LOST MOM, THEN HUSBAND 2021. I UNDERSTAND AND PRAYING FOR YOUR STRENGTH!

[@lydianamuyingo674]

Grow together Gracefully. Love you beautiful people.

[@ALCHEMICORACLE.universe]

i became disabled in 2018 + it's absolutely led me to my most authentic + fulfilling life thus far

[@biddiemutter3481]

Love your hair, Charisma and I don’t understand why people would ever think you were a 'last resort ' you're beautiful and intelligent and I am glad you found one another. Congratulations on 7 years.

[@elouise5593]

I don't understand that, either! They were both fairly young when they became a couple and Charisma is so pretty and with such a great personality, she could have had any man she wanted, but she chose who she wanted, Cole.

[@waldoswife.4485]

You guys shouldn’t edit those moments out 🤣😂 they are gold

[@coleandcharisma]

🤔🤣

[@pettynettie5514]

I agree!!!! I love the unedited video - it shows more of your personalities! ❤

[@novybonyoonyu8618]

You guys are Sooo PERFECT for each other and amazing together. You're 100% authentic. May God bless your marriage always and forever 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🧎🏿‍♀️

[@brendagiles359]

You two was born to be together...I live you guys!!

[@shellylavigne5913]

Of like minds. ❤

[@CARATMom]

I am so glad that in the retelling Carisma took time to briefly mention her past dating life. I wish she spent more time talking about it. Sometimes in these How We Met stories it is centered on Cole and we spend most of the time talking about Cole’s concerns/inseurities; Carisma’s journey is very important too. Still one of my favorite love stories. Loved the detail that Momma Kelly was not only a wingman-it culminates with the fact that she was a part of the proposal. ❤❤

[@dreamingmusicgal]

Charisma, I'm glad you didn't edit this or cut stories of things that happen in therapy such as what was happening with Cole. It's good to know and learn it can happen and normal to just because not just because it was a beautiful person a man sees.

[@dee4justice]

Un-edited conversations just enhance the beautiful souls you both are - love you and hope to meet you both someday. From your favorite Aunty lol - I claimed it.

[@nancymattingly8645]

Hi kids, "unedited" is just fine. You two rock, no matter what the scenario. I'm so glad you two met and have made a wonderful life together. Love to you both.

[@karolinaa.6183]

You are both lovely and lucky to have each other. You don't have to cut anything out, that kind of organic videos are the best.

[@cicising7585]

Liked the honest dialogue between Cole and Charisma. It is so great that they found in each other a partner whereby they can relate and act as their authentic selves. Their video clips not only help couples support each other medically and physically but emotionally as well. God bless them both. 💖😊

[@kanditallant6740]

Love the no edit version. It feels like we’re all just hanging out at your house visiting

[@brittanyb6889]

Y’all’s energy is immaculate! ❤

[@Chosennotbroken]

I love how he says karisma is the full package because she definitely 100% is . He’s blessed to get a shortie that’s a 10 in a wheelchair. May God bless there union and may they grow old together and be happy .

[@rebekahheffner5242]

I'm sure she feels she is equally as blessed! They both got it going on!😊

[@yvonnewashington7538]

If you marry a disabled individual. You have a responsibility to help care for them, you know what you're getting into. For better, or worse, in sickness, and health. I see the true love in this couple. That's all that matters.❤

[@IrenesConcierge]

It’s the same for abled relationships- anything can happen and as long as we have committed to till death do us part, we are to help our partners unconditionally

[@aykay9328]

All relationships should be for that

[@YosemiteOnMyMind]

I'm also a C-5 complete quadriplegic but I was in rehab 37 years ago, when patients would spend four months in rehab. During that time, my primary nurse and I got to know each other well and got very close. I didn't marry her but we did become a couple after I was discharged from rehab and stayed together romantically for a couple of years. We remain platonic friends to this day.

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you for sharing!

[@annettebrewer3508]

Now that you told us to go back and watch the old video….I can’t stop watching a bunch of the old ones. I just love y’all!!

[@josieyearall7498]

Finding your perfect match is so rare. You guys did it. Keep posting I love seeing your relationship get better and better

[@kerry-lynnekryvenchuk1881]

I’m glad you met each other. What a great couple. What a deep love you have for each other

[@themaneidea]

He has gotten so much stronger physically since the last time I watch you guys❤

[@RianShafer]

I have seen ALL your videos so I remember the one from how you two met, it was so cute! Now you two recall it like married people do, still sweet. I've noticed like all mom's/grandmas do how much you have changed in looks too. Cole, you were always a good looking guy but your wife gets more beautiful, your relationship is more beautiful because you've grown so much together. I'm looking forward to what comes next!

[@livemaschristen]

Charisma you look so pretty!!

[@dieterhunger6192]

❤Love you guys. Continue to Tell us your Story. You help Us Beleive in Humans. Still hope to Love no matter What. We follow You From Africa-Rwanda. See u are not a speck .U ARE THE UNIVERSE(GOD WITH US)❤

[@dawngreene6145]

I love you two 💕💕💕 keep being happy !! Haters will always be jealous

[@verettataylor1407]

It was in the STARS 🌟 and meant to be...this was the plan for two great souls to entwine together! Much ❤ to you both!!

[@jenniferkoehn776]

Y'all are the sweetest couple!

[@lindamurphy9883]

Yeah I never thought you married your therapist, she was just helping him. I love you two guys. All the best.

[@adelinepossok]

Usually I don't like to comment on social networks. I love you both, I love the way you love and care each other. May God bless your relationship and may you grow old together.

[@kss8866]

How they get paid, nice

[@Kaitlyn24992]

You and charisma were meant for each other.

[@herstorylives7405]

I showed up way back when you all had 140,000 subscribers. I have loved the journey watching you all commit to each other and continue to grow. You are soooo good together. TGBTG!!!

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you!! ❤❤

[@Shea3224]

Haters are going to hate, let them hate!! 🥱💯💜

[@coleandcharisma]

🙌

[@Am_Manasa]

COLE THEIR ARE LOT OF NEW TECH COMING UP I BELEIVE YOU WILL WALK

[@sireeshak1979]

Precisely

[@tanastoiberg7981]

You are both the nicest and most sincere young people i have ever seen. The kind and respectful behavior you show towards each other is why your relationship is so effortless. Charisma, you are an angel inside and out. Cole, you have a heart of gold for her, and she doesn't take your love for granted. I'm 59, and if i met someone like Cole, i would be happily married as well. I pray that you have an exciting life with many adventures throughout your marriage. You both deserve this much happiness. God bless you both. 🙏🙇‍♀️✝️👩‍❤️‍👨 ❤

[@maggieaminat8511]

I keep on praying for God to person that miracle for Cole and I believe one day it will happen

[@nokwandambuli3010]

I can never get use to this story it’s beautiful 😊😊❤

[@berthagreen1620]

We can see the love in your looks. I love you kids, from this grandmother.

[@cheryldingley4546]

You two are wonderful, inspirational, beautiful souls that were meant to be together. ❤️You are both a blessing to the world and each other.

[@emp556]

This take on your video was very refreshing because we saw a different side to both of you but a very fun bubbly side. Fun fun!

[@janielabruyere8382]

I love you guys together, ive been watching you two since the beginning and one thing that i love the most is that Charisma still looks at you the same with so much love for you Cole , and that you guys are so happy together as always i wish you guys the best

[@aretha4899]

Charisma is not a trow away. She has a personality and class.

[@cerseilannister9263]

And not to mention beautiful. And Positive.

[@bell9930]

They are the CUTEST people I've EVER seen!! OMG so cute!!

[@beatrixjansen6297]

Love you guys. You are genuine and a perfect match. You were meant to be together.

[@moda78z]

Settle?! Charisma!😮 You’re not only beautiful but you’re also smart, loving and a caring person! You do NOT have to convince us. He hit the bloody jackpot! You both did! ❤️🇸🇪❤️

[@4everafanofcc857]

I liked your "no cut video and the length of it too. Keep 'em coming.

[@samiyahkams5547]

I loved the No Cut concept. Makes for an organic video. I just love you guys, a great match!

[@jessicajohnson8378]

I met My boyfriend at a summer camp for people with disabilities we met in 2018 we were best friends for 4 years and we got together on October 23rd 2022 we've been together for almost 2 years

[@coleandcharisma]

Aw we love that! Thanks for sharing 🤍

[@jessicajohnson8378]

@@coleandcharisma you're welcome guys I really don't mind telling that story because it's a great story and it's our story and honestly I had no idea that I would ever fall in love with him it just happened 4 years later when I met him I just thought of him as a friend I just thought of him as a friend the whole time but all of a sudden I just fell for him actually what really happened was I asked him out like I asked him to be my boyfriend one time and he rejected me and then I waited and then I asked him again and he said yes after he stopped beating around the bush I actually had to push the answer out of him because he was beating around the bush he said that he always liked me and I asked him why he didn't ask me out I guess he was just nervous but we're together now and we're happy we've been in a long-distance relationship and trust me it's been hard but we fight through it and we go through it we get through it and get through it we go through obstacles and we defied beat the odds we continue to defy the odds because we refuse to give up on each other one time I felt like giving up and throwing in the towel I almost broke up with him but I realized that I couldn't because he's the love of my life is everything I've been searching for and everything I ever wanted and more he's the man of my dreams and the love of my life and if I didn't have him I would be alone for the rest of my life because I would never be able to love another and I would be kicking myself for letting him go and I would be heartbroken and shattered he changed my life he made me a happier person he's so happy so positive so full of life and so loving he makes me want to be a better person he pushes me to be a better person everyday he's so patient with me I don't think he ever gets mad at me haha 😂 Not only has he made me a happier person he's also made me a better person he pushes me to be better but he does it with love and tenderness he doesn't verbally abuse me he doesn't put me down he speaks to me with love he brings meaning in my life before in my life was meaningless and I feel like my life was pointless I felt nothing nothing but sadness and hurt and I was always in the darkness I've been through so much in my life that has caused me to be in a depressed state but God sent me a beautiful wonderful man who gives me peace and love

[@jessicajohnson8378]

@@coleandcharisma you're welcome I love telling our story

[@kaderkhan972]

may I know more about it​@@jessicajohnson8378

[@mylene.b2336]

My dear friends Charisma and Cole, 7 years already! I can't forget it, I've been following you from France since you started on the networks. It is not possible to forget this period because in my private life at that time (without saying too much) I was at my worst morally and you helped me 🙌🏼 I am sure, to get through this bad moment. . with your sensational story, your sensitivities, your aura and your kindness... Your respective families are also truly exceptional 🤗👍🏼👏🏼🥰 May God protect you all..🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙 Mylène from FRANCE 🇫🇷

[@shannonanderson1529]

I absolutely love the way yall look at each other! ❤

[@markpomerville9413]

Hi Cole & Charisma - Thank you for sharing. It's amazing to see how the Lord brought you both together. I find your journey inspirational. Blessings to you both.

[@IrenesConcierge]

Amen

[@waylandetheridge1875]

Thank you very much for not doing any cuts. This wasn’t meant to be a Hollywood presentation but real life. Thank you for sharing. You don’t know how many people you have blessed.

[@carolyncornelius1492]

Cole And Charisma, We All Absolutely Love Watching You Love On Each Other! ... You Make Us All Smile All The Time We Are Watching The Videols. .. What A Blessing That You Two Met Each Other All Those Years Ago!! .. A Match Made In Heaven We Believe!! .. God Bless You Both For Ever!! .. STAY POSITIVE!! 🥰❤❤❤

[@Aprilgrant-e8f]

In the words of the poet Taylor Swift, "People throw rocks at things that shine.

[@dee4justice]

Amen!!!

[@yvonnewashington7538]

Perfectly said!👍

[@bjarnetollevsen2163]

She doesn't write her own lyrics.

[@paulmcdonough1093]

@@bjarnetollevsen2163 how do you know

[@rosegamer188]

B​@@bjarnetollevsen2163 AND SO WHAT😢

[@kittykat3540]

I love and admire Cole and Charisma so much...Their love, commitment, respect, friendship...the list goes on...They have what I've always wanted but unfortunately never obtained...I'm in my 60 's and remained single because one thing I always promised myself is that I would never settle for less then I felt I deserved...Hey who knows what the future holds...Maybe it can still happen 🤷‍♀️ Anyway, this couple is a true inspiration on so many levels...Thanks guys for sharing your story...Great video !! 🥰🫶❤️

[@Chosen-y4w]

Let your life together be Your happiness and ignore negativity ❤

[@MariniFacey]

Y'all are wonderful and blessed! I'm sorry people are unkind, unhappy, and lonely! It's definitely not you and Cole's responsibility to make them happy, but you bring so much light and positivity that people don't always know how to receive kindness and love. Keep being who you both are Charisma and Cole! Blessings to y'all! I'm thankful for what you both share.

[@claramcalister]

You guys are so the real thing I love it. True love last forever. God continues to bless ya'll.

[@V123afr]

Great sense of humor and I love your content.

[@bettyfreeman9253]

I have watched you long enough so I kind of knew your story. It was cute to get a refresher version on how you met and feel in love! Praise God you have each other. You both are so special!

[@mariannemay4760]

Very cool to hear how therapists think. I did PT for a knee. I saw how each therapist needs to keep several patients working with separate PT plans AT THE SAME TIME. Such a busy job that (eventually) is so appreciated by the patients.

[@Shea3224]

He met his Beautiful Wife, & She met her Handsome Husband at the Hospital, & now they have a Beautiful, Unconditional Love Story!! 🥰💜 EDIT: Accidentally deleted last comment had to re type it. Y’all two love birds had me not paying attention!! Love Y’all!! 🤣💜

[@coleandcharisma]

😂😂 thank you!! 🤗

[@Shea3224]

@@coleandcharisma, Aww. You're welcome!! 🤗🥰💜💜

[@joannabbangi2882]

You are a beautiful ❤couple

[@rebeccaokeefe5041]

I remember back when you guys lived with his mom. Love love love

[@kimfarley6198]

Love your story and both of you! Y’all are a beautiful light in this world ❤❤

[@phyllis9750]

You are absolutely, most definitely, the cutest couple EVER! 😊😊

[@snugglybear7379]

Good timing and both you guys lives God brings you guys together this woman wanted you to be with.

[@marthainsalaco9266]

You two are the sweetest people ever ❤❤❤Love your story on how you met 😊have a great week 🌞

[@MarcellaSikolis]

Love u both Cole and Charisma…Stay positive❤️

[@Lannan3067]

You both are so blessed to have one another !! May God continue to bless your marriage and give you all the joy peace , love, happiness and everything that your heart desire ...because you guys are so good together. Such a beautiful couple! I like the way you both communicate... continue to keep that open . Wishing you nothing but the best! 👌🏽👏🏽👌🏽❤🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@serious7179]

Nice looking couple! I think for many people, they just can't get past the fact that a beautiful, healthy woman would marry a handsome yet permanently disabled man. Watching you all together, your chemistry, your love, your friendship, should answer that question. You both seem like you were meant to be together ❤

[@marynamurray9385]

I have been following you for many years now and it's amazing what you both have achieved and what you do for the disabled community🌻

[@janaeradack3865]

God's timing is so perfect!!! Thank you for sharing this breakdown more so to show His timing in both of your lives and proving we each have our person. That's how me and my husband feel we met.

[@EmpressChernobyl]

We may not remember every minute detail, but the big picture is that all of the stars aligned and one of my favorite couples came into existence 🥰 It’s crazy that I’ve been watching you guys all these years LOL Awesome❤

[@simplystormie]

Don’t usually comment but I admire your both communication skills and uplifting each other. Idk how to explain how I see it (if it is not already apparent) but all I said during this video was “jeez they love each other so much 😊!” My heart felt full for the fraction of what you have for each other. Okay now I am done being weird … bye.

[@martysinq4831]

What a fun format, I like this no cut version best. I think your life story is a God thing, He’s got a plan for each of us. He knows what we need and when we need it. You’re both very special, your love is shining forth stronger than ever. Bless you both.

[@rhondadines3287]

You two are wonderful ! I met my person in a nursing home. We both were nursing assistants. The heart wants what the heart wants 😊

[@shantereed]

You guys are so cute. I remember seeing y’all on some news channel which is how I found y’all some years ago. I am so proud of y’all.

[@Pisceanrage]

Everytime Cole tells a story he sounds like a movie narrator 😭🤣🤣 “a long time ago in a land far far away”🤣🤣🤣

[@tommyjazzinc2516]

God. bless you guys! You share a great gift. Stay strong ❤

[@modupeoladeinde8995]

My first time watching this couple's video, and you are both so authentic, so genuine, so in love! I am so happy for you and pray for marital bliss for you forever! 🙏🎉💕❤

[@jacquelinetaylor9447]

You are a great couple!!! Completely positive and uplifting!!! God Bless you both!!! ❤❤❤😊

[@monicaseaton9794]

Loving the vibe of this video. Thank you for sharing. Keep up the amazing work. . 😊❤

[@Kanesha]

I love yals sense of humor lol

[@Wheely55]

So glad you two are still going strong. I met my late boyfriend of 16 yrs online the old school way in a yahoo chat room. After we met in 2001 we realized we had probably crossed paths many times growing up, going to the same mall, etc. I really believe things happen for a reason and when you know you know the right person has come along. Wishing you two a long amd happy journey through life together.

[@kirstylfc28]

I've been watching your channel since Cole lived at his parents, however long that is! Honestly never seen such an amazing couple! You two always put a smile on my face and I look forward to seeing your videos pop up. Ignore the haters, they are just jealous they aren't as positive as you!

[@deborahdreher6601]

Thanks for your story. I’ve always wondered where you met. You guys are a beautiful couple-soul mates.❤️❤️

[@zabavnaya-xt8tb]

Cole don't sell yourself short, you are just as great! Handsome , kind, compassionate, you'd make a great parental figure! You both look great together 🔥🔥🔥

[@pcrummer1]

Love you two! You are meant for each other!

[@faitimsalami]

I like this family so match ❤

[@Beautywithapurpose4]

Hi Cole & Charisma I been watching you two for sometime. I am happy that you two met when you did. You have come so far. Keep doing what you do. Don't listen to the haters. They have nothing better to do but hate. Stay bless

[@hfjr1000r]

Beautiful couple the both of you are love the content you provide to share with us all! Continued love, happiness and good health! 🙏♥️

[@ritabarnes2440]

I never thought that but truthfully had you been his therapist, I wouldn’t have thought anything of it. You two were attracted to each other and I truly believe the Lord brought you two together.

[@DinTyson]

Awesome couple!! Stay blessed🙏🏽❤️

[@P.S.Loveddd4484]

You guys are the sweetest most loving of each other couple❤❤.

[@lillywildflower]

You two are gorgeous together. I am married almost 30 years and my husband is still my best friend. Over 4 years ago an accident changed my life and I now live with permanent disabilities both physical and brain injuries. Cole, your comment about your emotion on your first date with Charisma - I think I know what you mean. I think when our lives are changed by an accident, we work hard to make progress but still feel like we are missing something because nothing is the same as before the injury. We are happy but not as free as before our accident. I feel like there is still something missing and I’m still finding myself. Then we have an experience which makes us feel like we are breaking free from the cocoon that felt so restrictive. It’s like we have found our way in the new version of ourselves and really allow ourselves to be free and happy again

[@Susie-b8b]

Love the real uncut version! Nice to know how you met. You two are meant for eachother!😃💞

[@rethagroenewald856]

Cole, I think you are just a true Taurus male - not a disabled Taurus man - I am a Taurus female. Feel proud of yourself, as you do! I am so happy for the two of you! Enjoy each other and many more years to come🎉🎉

[@ambit38]

I loved hearing your story, thanks for sharing!

[@estrellitarecibe7307]

Beautiful love story & beautiful loving couple! ❤❤

[@anne-mariemcinnis9143]

I like this uncut video as it's way more natural.

[@wunmikeji]

I'm here smiling and loving you guys!