Permanent Side Chicks? ©

[@Mrs_RaquelRose]

When my husband and I dated. He never tried sleeping with me because he had a full roster of ladies at his beck and call. To get rid of them without asking him to I started buying him small items like CDs, worked my way into cologne, and then sneakers and so on. He’d be so impressed that I was thoughtful enough to think of him outside of dating. I paid for dates too, not often, but he’d let me pick up the small things. He got rid of all those women. In two years we were married. Kevin’s right, Ladies. They can tell when you are a selfish lover.

[@marcusberry8404]

That's beautiful to hear u deserved marriage

[@Mrs_RaquelRose]

@@marcusberry8404 Thanks Marcus. Pray for me, I just bought him a fancy cologne Kevin talked about three shows ago, that I have never smelled. Trying to knock out his Christmas now. Happy Holidays!! 💛

[@stevendunn2501]

So, he was OK with you withholding sex from him?

[@henofit]

The pick me police are coming to get you! 😂😂😂😂 All jokes Aside. Congratulations 🎉

[@deaconfrost0051]

You had to compete you understand...

[@buyi249]

Truth is most women today would rather be side chicks to a wealthy man than be a wife to an ordinary good man.

[@giveme24hrs72]

The African caller? She looked like she was all in. Sounded like she made as much money as the guy. I feel for women in this day and age....so many mixed messages. After all her sister got married doing it the same way.

[@buyi249]

@@giveme24hrs72 Yes she was all in, I just think she went about it the wrong way though. Cohabitating with a man still finding his feet hardly results in marriage, my own sister is doing this with a boyfriend of 7 year. It doesnt end well for most

[@giveme24hrs72]

@@buyi249 ooops I think ur original comment was just a general reaction to the title /monologue. I agree with both comments:) Cohabitating can be hit or miss it seems.

[@angelinah7782]

Oh you nailed it!

[@sergeistepanov114]

What about you - Which type of woman are you ?

[@Deshawn1]

Time stamps 0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Written in the stars by Spring gang Feat. Asta 🎵 3:03 🎵 Ode to Ullr by Guustavv 🎵 5:03 🎵 Oh my oh my by Amaroo Feat. Don Bacilón 🎵 7:55 🎵 What in the World by Wildson Feat. Ed Mills 🎵 12:12 🎵 Bulls by Mary Riddle 🎵 14:48 🎵 Crea2 by Ghen 🎵 17:58 🎵 Your good lies by Vividry 🎵 21:00 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Lebo Laurier 62 , Fragrances of the evening Dior Fève Délicieuse and Dior Vanilla Diorama Monologue, Permanent Side Chicks? 3 Ways a woman moves like a side chick 31:00 3 Ways a woman moves like a permanent side chick 1:15:26 📱 Only Caller Eva age 24 2:01:05 Closing words 2:09:18 Closing song

[@Bklynmason72]

Appreciate you for the time stamps. Thanks!

[@static9061]

Come around more often 🎯

[@kadirermis5582]

The legend is back. Thank you sir.

[@Bigmanstyling101]

Mr top C.I.A of the comment section

[@ceeb107]

Thank you for your hard work brother. It’s much appreciated. I hope one day he will interview you so we can learn from you as well!

[@Mrs.Terry17]

I remember my husband, which was my boyfriend at the time always saying he wanted a nice chain. I went to the jewelry store with a friend at the time. The jeweler had the matching bracelet and gave me a good deal if I purchased both. My friend kept saying I would never spend that much on a n$gga (her words). I was so happy buying it because I knew it would make him so happy. A few months later on my birthday I got a proposal and a engagement ring. Women need to understand when you take care of a man it's in his nature to take care of you.

[@jamesmitchell3615]

That last part is the most priceless wisdom a woman could share with another woman. You're husband is blessed 💯

[@zionequitygroup107]

The line of this should be burned into woman Brains congratulations sis you are 100 correct we respond when you respond we feed off your energy it's so simple but made to be so difficult

[@genderisnotasocialconstruc2968]

That’s true but my type of love isn’t spending money on a man however I’m happy for you

[@beatdown3361]

Truth

[@beatdown3361]

Truth

[@thepursuitofknowledge5245]

Best line of the show; 'If you have to come on to a KZbin show to get clarity on a guy you've been with for 5 years, there's already problems'

[@ebonyb6603]

Bingo.

[@orubek355]

👌

[@zionequitygroup107]

Yahtzee

[@ramonsimpson9473]

FACTS!!!

[@aliveandwell2965]

Before I married my husband, I noticed that he worked so damn much that he never took care of himself, barely ate home cooked meals and so, there I went cooking for him and taking it to his work and making sure he ate well throughout the day. I have also bought him a whole wardrobe due to him being so busy to be able to shop for himself . Eight years later he will not get rid of the things I purchased for him. He mentioned being grateful for thinking of him like I do and mentioned how he was even scared to date women at the time because they felt entitled to his money after the first date.

[@ramonereese6145]

This is one of his best shows low key. He dropped an immense amount of knowledge.

[@cyndan]

"When a woman is a permanent side chick, they always seem surprised!" This really resonated with me because I have known several women in my family or just casually who would spend YEEEEEARS with men and have the audacity to be confused or disappointed when things didn't work out. The sad part was that many of them were not honest about the lack of energy, time, and....well sex was never the problem but they only felt like sex was all a man needed to stay put.

[@cyncerevideos5111]

Bars!!!!

[@justswanginn]

I know a few women now in this predicament probably blind to the fact!

[@misterjones7522]

@@justswanginn They aint blind, women have selective sight.

[@briandsouza303]

Q

[@thisoldlady1105]

Nailed it! “Woman to Woman” Shirley Brown!

[@michaeljones2773]

Kevin is so right about if the man wants to marry he will. I met my wife when she was 18 and I was 21 and l knew she was the one . I told her I wanted to marry her after only 2weeks and 2 months later we were married. 38 years later I'm still married. When a man knows he knows u r the one

[@venicec3310]

“The one” vaginal words

[@kingwillie206]

You were 21 and inexperienced enough to chance it. I almost made that mistake, but someone stole my briefcase with the money I was going to buy the ring with in it. If I could go back in time I would thank that person for saving my life because that woman definitely wasn’t “the one.” Now I’m 46 years old and my house is paid off, so unless a woman is coming in as a competent business partner I will never get married.

[@wshelby83]

Wow, she’s a lucky lady! That’s awesome!!

[@wshelby83]

What did your parents think?

[@ChapterofRomans]

When she said “that’s not my experience” I think it goes back to what Kevin says: men, please STOP sleeping with, living with and having children with women you would not marry. You’re confusing the hell out of these women lol

[@lkofie6670]

Good point...because she did seem conflicted and confused when that reality check was being cashed.

[@giveme24hrs72]

Or do so but let them know where they stand

[@ChapterofRomans]

@@lkofie6670 Right! She seemed very confused cause her everyday life doesn’t reflect that at all!

[@goldrays4862]

It's really nice of men to do that but it doesn't hurt the men not one iota it's in the women's interest to leave. But their rebellious spirits won't let them hear it.

[@ChapterofRomans]

@@goldrays4862 I get that, too! I watched a podcast yesterday where a man told his girlfriend of 9 years that he wasn’t ready. She still pursued. Restraining order!!!! Lol

[@payso559]

What I've taken from this "If a Man wants to Marry you, he will Marry you"

[@KeiwarrenLuke-u6l]

Plan and simple

[@castortroy9373]

You hit it right on the head. It's not about control, its about respecting his wishes for your safety. Heaven forbid something happened to you..not only would it effect you...his life would forever be changed too. Nothing like a man feeling totally powerless because he could not protect his love when she needed him. Therefore, your respect/love for him is by not tempting potential danger. That's real love! Thanks for sharing...just made me realize I'm not overprotective...I just really love and cherish my wife.

[@Meandyouisnus]

It is not even about love it is about avoiding inconvenience, if something happens to your wife, you and your children will be inconvenienced as she is a useful mule. Then you will have to start the dating game again, it is not that you love her

[@DrunkPhotography]

OMG you're killing me. My ex is what you said here. She is in the danger zone, did exactly this, told me she can't handle me and doesn't deserve me, which turns me off, that lack of confidence. We didn't want anything stressful in life so there was zero pressure (on my side) but she felt SHE wasn't good enough. She'll rinse repeat with other men, trying to find someone who will be a fit so she never has to acknowledge her huge flaws as a person, and mess up her life up more. Right person, wrong time, means they think they have infinite time/mulligans/men. Pure arrogance/ignorance and lack of self awareness.

[@DeNi.NiCara]

Exactly! I always see women my age dating men purposely ignoring phone calls because they don't feel like seeing the men they are dating. Talking about some I need my me time. Umm mam it's not all about you. And I am tired of being called a pick me because I understand how a relationship should be. I may be a pick me sis but I am married to a damn good MAN🏁

[@Rosko_de_Soul]

You crossed the finish line 😂. They still switching lanes

[@MsDragonbal776]

@Black Boy King TV THIS. These kinds of problems perpetuate because women are far too comfortable sitting on the sidelines, on the outside looking in.

[@SuckerPunch92]

Dating and marriage have two different criteria‘s. Dating is a joke nowadays. It’s just people sleeping around

[@donvee2000]

Your man's a lucky guy...keep your beliefs, they have and will always serve u well.

[@Lifeishard237]

Yikes

[@jeanfalzon7743]

Honestly I was never bothered about getting expensive presents. Expensive presents without any thought are of no value to me. I like presents where she puts in effort and thought, that is when you know you got a good one. Best present i got is a picture she drew herself and framed. She is not an artist but she knows how much I like these kind of gifts so she made the effort and honestly its a gift I will treasure forever.

[@bigpump2620]

Bro you not even a real grown man we talkin about real grown woman not to little girls....

[@refioenale3768]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jeanfalzon7743]

@@bigpump2620 Should really update that picture that is 10 years old hahaha

[@RandomPerson-nd2ey]

A picture, huh? I don't know, maybe we are missing some context here but that doesn't make sense to me. You see, the best present a woman ever gave me that was financially cheap (not including her hand in marriage or kids) was a "Book of Letters to My Future Husband" that she had been writing in since about 12 or 13 which she gave me on our wedding day when I actually became her husband.

[@PassportG]

@@jeanfalzon7743 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 update it. Please

[@riveramedina8101]

My wife is the most unselfish person I have met. Listening to these women... It makes me appreciate, love my wife that much more. I really lucked out. She feminine, submissive, and most importantly *not* *lazy* . I've been with ratchet for-the-streets women before -- I keep having flashbacks of them because of this show making me realize the type of women a man should have. So many mistakes I made but to land the woman I have now that is my wife... It was worth it.

[@mauricewiggins8095]

Damnit boi I’m happy for you !!!!! not LAZY

[@kinardak]

Damn....all it takes is listening to a K.S. monologue to then realize that you've been experiencing exactly what he's talking about over the last 7 years. But then as a man you remember that you still have room for course correction. Let the vetting begin! ......to be continued.

[@THESEVENDON]

I concur and doing the work, thank you @KS.

[@ceeb107]

Brother remember we all started somewhere. Kevin is 53 and has decades of experience that’s why he’s so refined in his knowledge wisdom and ability to make good short as long term assessments. He has admitted she made all the mistakes himself. He’s truly rare he’s giving back real game and blueprints and being transparent so he helps us and gets paid too. I’m 25 and I swear I try to talk to and learn from as many Og as possible it can save us decades of trouble.

[@Drugsanddragonslul]

@@ceeb107 im in the same boat, 25 next month and met so many OG guys these years its crazy.

[@ceeb107]

@@Drugsanddragonslul man bro it’s crazy. I’m a basketball fan a huge Kobe fan. If you have a coach specialist for every skill it can accelerate your development and understanding. I’ve spent a good amount of money on books on every aspect of life and it amazing these books breakdown things I’ve experienced to a tee. Stay in the grind bro seek out the knowledge books mentors and you will be decades lifetimes ahead of most people your age or older. The stronger the training the bette the performance.

[@ceeb107]

@@j.g7743 the beta has to give her money and she gets testy when he asks her to spilt bill and he gets spotty sex sometimes won’t do certain acts that are within reason and many canceled dates. Bread crumbing that dude to death. The in between guy gets sex more often and she spends a little money reluctantly. The alpha man she has high interest in she does all the sex acts he wants and she treats him financially often and doesn’t moan and groan about it. There’s some exceptions If she is struggling financially but when then she will compensate with her femininity and high sex interest and time.

[@yaalove3736]

You ladies are SOOOOOO blessed that you are getting this information before you make mistakes. We are well I am soooo emotional. A logical man is like a breath of FRESH air. A logical man can always clear out the fog and make it make sense. That's soooo😍😍😍😍😍

[@GODMade2388]

Teach it to your daughters or nieces

[@jamestateIII]

Kinda funny you said logical hahhahah.....seems most women are not logical

[@yaalove3736]

@@jamestateIII many women are full of feelings so his logic brings such amazing balance that creates feelings of safety.

[@jamestateIII]

@@yaalove3736 people meaning men and women are full of feelings. It's call being a human being. Men supposedly mask it better. Those who care show it...those that don't really care move on

[@yaalove3736]

@@jamestateIII I wholeheartedly agree. I believe some men have the capacity to compartmentalize their emotions in a way that it doesn't serve as a distraction.

[@theactiveactivist515]

There aren't enough rich Russell Wilson's out here for yall all to be saying "Ciara's Prayer". If you aren't happy with an average or slightly above average earning version of "Russell Wilson", just accept you will never have your perfect man and plan accordingly. Yall choose cash over character and that is why most of yall will always be side chicks at best!

[@tailoredbyyhwh1007]

👏🏽

[@theactiveactivist515]

@@paulbunyan9436 I'm doing fine. I make above average pay. I'm above average looking. I'm a top 20% man. I will have a wife and kids.

[@keantemarshall679]

ALL of yall are average in the eyes of a black women and a white man

[@theactiveactivist515]

@@paulbunyan9436 Prenup I'm with, because I'm making moves to be a 1%er in the next 2 to 10 years. My kids will never not be in my custody. If my wife decide to leave, she'll leave by herself. I'ma navy vet with a 145 IQ. It aint sweet over here. ✊🏽

[@theactiveactivist515]

@@keantemarshall679 I'm a model with skills and many ways to make income, and a tv show. I stopped being average when I retired from the Navy. I'm a D or C list celebrity on my way to the top. I watch this because I'm an advocate for all decent Black men. I been preaching this stuff for 10 years.

[@veronicahardeb547]

Kevin you are so right! When I met my husband we were married after only six months now going on 22yrs. But what made him know I was the one. Was when we went to dinner and I went into a gym shoe store and purchased him and his eight yrs daughter at the time new sneakers. And like he told me it wasn’t about him it was about me thinking about his daughter. Cause most women he meet only wanted to impress him and do for him because they didn’t want to get attach if it didn’t work out.👍🙌

[@wshelby83]

That’s awesome!!

[@zay_tiggygaming]

I didn’t think i would actually see pretty girls homeless on the streets this winter but here in Atlanta they are definitely out here. Winter really is here and i honestly didn’t believe it would go just like he said

[@Losochill]

U ain’t lying bro! I live in the country and I can’t tell u how many nice looking women I see walking down the road at 4/5am in leggings with a back pack and duffle bag.

[@zay_tiggygaming]

@@Losochill yea it’s crazy. Saw a woman yesterday that was at least an 8 and she had to be 20. No older than 21

[@zay_tiggygaming]

@Nina cuz she wouldn’t do that for me. Also i have a woman i take care of and the relationship is reciprocal. Why don’t you take care of the homeless men you see?

[@medusa8019]

It's sad and scary.

[@Hefdotcom]

@Nina what does you being a virgin have to do with you helping people? Troll

[@kha_leesi2596]

From my pov, I think the fear is;you do all this, spoil and love on him and he still hurts you.Women that are into you will spoil you.I mean, took over my ex'smeal preps (he was trying to lose weight but hated cooking), I cooked home meals atleast 4 days a week, I gave him pedicures+facials at home, would book him spa days,would gift him even if it's not his birthday but he still cheated,with multiple women. Therapy was my saving grace because I was scared to do all this for the next guy. And what KS said about another men paying for another mistakes, we need to seek therapy and heal.There are good men out there and you spoil your chances of being married to a good man because of your past.

[@Likexner]

The sad truth is that sometimes you can do everything right and still lose. Keep your head up, i wish you good luck!

[@ebbaynes]

Getting and giving gifts was never that important to me (not really my love language or my husbands) our way of showing we valued and loved each other when dating was choosing specific experiences that were very personal instead of many random dinners, gifts etc. For example he took me to a formal ball in my city.. we had fun and took dance lessons ahead of it as part of the experience. I would pack picnics for us and give him books with inscriptions so we could read outside together and discuss. Intellect and critical thinking is something we both prioritize so a reading date fit. I also started helping with aspects of his real estate business.. not daily.. but if my professional skills could be of use. Just a gentle and consistent caring of each other made it natural to get married. I also had my career and individual hobbies and pursuits. it’s been an honour and a joy.

[@jamesgarrett6848]

"love language"...what kinda of modern woman physco babble is that?

[@IrinaVanRonkel]

When I was dating my American boyfriend in Russia, I knew that no one in his life surprised him with a birthday party. I sold the song I wrote, made a decent amount of money and threw him a surprise birthday party with all his friends, food and drinks, waiters, a professional photographer, security and a DJ in one of the most beautiful places in Moscow. We are now happily married and in February 2024 we will celebrate 10 years together.

[@rollingcalfmusic]

True, millions of women ‘young and old’ will spend they whole checks on cat 🐈 and dog 🐩 toys, kennels, strollers, rhinestone collars, vests, prime cut meats, and vet bills and won’t buy her man a McDonald’s happy meal or gift 😂😂😂

[@JDubThaMenacePCB]

Bruh!!!! I asked my ex for $20, she damn near had a stroke, then about 30 minutes later she asks me for $60... Like damn, I can't get a dub but you want a 60 piece smh... Can't make this shit up!

[@SqueegeeKid.]

I got greens, beans, potatoes, tomatoes, hogs, blogs, I don’t the rest but you NAMMMME it!!! 😂

[@codeworldentertainment4890]

😂 IKR‼️ 🤣😂 you can't make this sh*t up ‼️

[@MD-xb1qw]

Drop thousands on all the baby showers of their single mother friends too

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

This is actually so accurate it's pathetic. They take in as many pets as possible and smoke weed and get tattoos, then talk about planning to buy a house. What a bunch of idiots with no real priorities in life. 😂

[@brandydavis6782]

I’m too spoiled to be a side chick! Never been that type. My husband does very well for himself. I never played the side chick role. No late night booty calls, no last minute dates. I’ve never been an after thought. I thank my dad and mom for schooling me. I dated my husband, we got to know each other on ever level. We learned one another habits, likes and dislikes My husband treats me and our children well. I take care of him too. Side chicks might get money but the other side of that bed gets cold.

[@wshelby83]

Brandy this is amazing!! This is what I hope I get for my future! A wonderful husband and beautiful children

[@Nusaiba89]

As a woman, I must say. You girls shouldn’t be getting upset by him or what he delivers. Be upset by the fact that you fit the mold he’s talking about. Be mad at yourself. 🤔

[@TheMFTRUTH]

💯

[@medusa8019]

They should also be upset about their mothers and fathers not telling them this stuff. It's sad they have to learn it from a non-family member.

[@TheMrsOShow]

💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@lkofie6670]

Yes agreed...and at least use the information to give yourself the opportunity to make BETTER CHOICES AND MAKE WISER DECISIONS going forward.

[@sedevri864]

Based

[@bennyanthro4891]

Miss the GOAT 🐐 You are with us always🙏🏾

[@ibma14]

Kevin you really leading us in the right direction. Thank you.

[@joewhittle801]

The breakdown of the caller’s situation was surgical, spectacular and superlative 💐

[@lebmc2148]

Side chick is basically modern day terminology for concubine.

[@jasonBGI]

A concubine at least had more honour and knew her role.

[@MRSTyMcC]

Worse. A concubine had a role dedicated to the man.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

@@MRSTyMcC no the wife was dedicated, a concubine isn't there to obey him. She is there to birth and be fed. This is what the vast majority of you actually want you just won't all say it yet because you think being a wife is possible for you when for 95 percent of you it's not. You simply aren't raised nor posses the character and core competencies that are required for the elite position of WIFE.

[@MRSTyMcC]

@@TURBOBEATZZZ a concubine is defined as ," a woman who lives with a man but has lower status than his wife or wives (a mistress). In this sense, I stand corrected. The vast majority of black females are not raised with an overstanding of the traditional role as a wife and mother. I , myself, learned by studying my Great grandparents' relationship. So, your comment has much truth. Where i disagree is generally stating BW do not possess the character or core competencies to become a wife. I strongly believe differently. I am proudly and humbly married to a black God/man. I had to learn and earn the title of Mrs. McCleveland and it wasn't overnight. With my God/man's instructions and fatherly love, along with my total devotion and respect, did I get there. I say this because there are black women who are willing to put that effort in but don't know better. They need guidance. That is why I do respect Mr. Samuels. He knows strong black fathers weren't in the house to show us daughters and black mothers dropped the ball . He attempts to guide with fatherly advice instead of just throwing his hands up, saying BW are hopeless and walking away. Thank you for your correction and time.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

@@MRSTyMcC with all due respect I said "95 percent "😉.

[@curtisjordan5303]

The worst relationship I ever had was one of those 90 day chicks. Then there was the mommy/daddy issues. Don't do that shit young bucks. If a woman is interested, there are no games involved.

[@andreh8908]

Kevin Samuel may God continue to bless you with more life and prosperity. Thank you for your existence, wisdom and knowledge.

[@retroconservativeswirlerso6609]

Kevin is speaking truths. Before I got married, If I went on a second date with a man, I wanted to hunch!😂 And if I was turned off by him at all I ghosted after first date. We, as women know if we want to get it in or not. If she’s playing with the 📦 just move on quickly.

[@JT-bt6jy]

Respect to you for ghosting after first date.

[@passerau]

Kevin is really consistent Marry before you Carry or Moving in long-term with someone. The first caller is a clear example of that. You can clearly see KS was definitely helping her and open her eyes to reality. She is in deep love of her bf that's good, but she also has to be practical and lucid for her future. That was very helpful for all these young ladies. Although he was though on the man, but I think KS was fair and just to the bf.

[@uuloveguccii4729]

I have watched my aunt and my cousin go all in my whole life. Even went as far as buying vehicles and paying all the bills and building up the man. They have taken on a masculine role. Yes they have both been married but it’s only because they proposed or came up with the idea. Women do these things because they want a man to marry them. I believe there needs to be balance. You can go all in without going all in. It’s okay to reciprocate the energy but it should never be one sided. Only go all in when the person is going all in for you. Don’t do no more or no less. In the meantime do not sleep with every guy that you meet. Only sleep with ppl who are SHOWING you that they want something with you. Don’t get so desperate for a spouse that you become the hunter.. Step into your feminine power, love on you, level up and have some self respect.

[@Noflexing100]

Women will always use all in the wrong way. Just buying gifts isn’t all In. Doing the normal role of a women isn’t all in. That’s bare minimum. Meaning being actions is everything

[@celiaferreira2028]

Girl you the Female KS!!!👏❤

[@JerseyRican]

I love when Kevin makes a point and follows with why is this important? 😆

[@MrCanelover]

He always broke it down to the tee. Miss that dude...

[@abab9622]

When my husband and I were dating, I always offered to pay. I used to sneak my card out to pay a couple times bc he never let me. 🤣 We did things for each other and traditionally, knew our place. I grew up with the women in my family telling me: “take care of your husband and hold up the family name.” I find no insult in that. It’s my pride, duty, honor and love for him. Not sure when ppl got to be so lost. Hope it gets better for everyone though.

[@Lifeishard237]

The reason he never let you pay is because he knows his place and he knows yours. Never offer to pay for a man that’s emasculating.

[@eastwaters4082]

@@Lifeishard237 Well she has the ring, you don't, so I'm pretty sure her perspective is validated more than yours will ever be.

[@abab9622]

@@Lifeishard237 I did bc we didn't have money then. I was a student and he was a new 1st generation immigrant about to get into residency (even a seat there wasn't a guarantee then). I wasn't emasculating him, I was being considerate. 1 dollar is to 100 where we come from. Today he's a Specialist but we don't forget where we came from (and that 10$ taco we split and over-paid for lol). It was a lot for us at the time.

[@personontheinternet2164]

@@Lifeishard237 don't justify your selfishness.

[@Lifeishard237]

@@abab9622 glad you’re happy that’s great

[@brandoncarter2756]

the beating out better looking competition by over performing point is 100% ACCURATE!!! my current wife did just that, my life is so peaceful/fulfilling…

[@tavisshipp2225]

When I was single and in college, I would always say that I didn’t want to wait until I was 30 to begin engaging with baby mommas and women my age, mostly due to value differences. Im 24 currently have a fiancé who is one year older than me, and that first call was rough to listen to, because it hit close to home. I’ve always felt under compensated for my degree/ resume. So I could be making 50k with my accounting degree, but im working contract jobs for $16 an hr. In my case our marriage date is set in March 2022, but I get nervous because I’m not the best planner so I understand his 30+ eligibility to marry.

[@kingkoldvsjoker8833]

Good luck bro hope it turns out good💯💪

[@brixtonmystery]

Yeah you don’t really figure shit out as a man until then

[@wshelby83]

Have you guys gotten married?

[@tavisshipp2225]

@@wshelby83 We got officially married in March and are having another ceremony in September. In the small time I’ve been a married man I’ve been able to experience highs and lows that I would’ve never had just dating people

[@veteranredbeard6222]

He really is a no nonsense dude. This is why women respect him and his opinion. I'm not the type to follow his videos, but I can see why women would be both angry and follow him.

[@brofessormex]

It's mesmerizing

[@lertub]

Women respect strength but they don’t want strength when it works against them but when it works in their favor they love ❤️ it

[@prayingmother]

Yeah as a woman we need to listen to him

[@MzBrown_]

Yes respect is due to this man. He speaks like my father, who says such things as smile more, be respectful, be ladylike marry up and don't gain too much weight. Nothing wrong with such advice. I was the only one of his daughters who listened.

[@lertub]

@@prayingmother my sister is a prime example of a permanent side chick but no one can tell her anything. Now she is living in my mother’s basement. SMH

[@MikeLitirous]

Its funny and crazy how Kevins critics will claim he hates women, black women in particular, but he helped that woman realize shes in a dead-end relationship by being brutally honest. Something she’s clearly not accustomed to receiving or giving 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

What today's people keep forgetting is; that the truth hurts, nd it hurts for a reason, nd not everybody is going to accept it...📬

[@j0hndobile802]

Have they seen his content when disciplining men? It's nothing compared to what these women experience with him. But you need to be called out in a harsh tone sometimes to make you realize you've dropped the ball, and have outrageous expectations from others, when you aren't giving your 100%.v

[@stevel.2759]

Kevin is very warm with people that act accountable for their outcomes. As a man, he's way harder on men because he knows what it takes to win with the odds against you. If you can't handle how you're feeling with Kevin's facts in a conversation, how are you going to not self sabotage....you can't make this up.

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

@@stevel.2759 I love it when now my brethren are holdin da women of colour accountable 4 their action... Now more then da majority of'em aren't lettin'em off da hook on their pretty privilege @ all... Dun nun dun dun, I'm loving it 🗣️.📢...

[@SanctifiedLady]

Stop whining! One of two calls and here YOU go 🙄

[@jamalhaleemtucker8425]

Yup, the whole “It’s too good to be true” syndrome. They always self sabotage their relationships. My ex wife would go looking for problems and reasons to start fights when I was just being naturally good to her

[@Mrs.704]

That’s me. I feel my husband is too good to be true so sometimes I find myself looking for reasons to be upset with him.

[@marcusdingle3114]

I have a fiancee like that. Do I need to break up with her before I get married?

[@DK-gl3ih]

@@marcusdingle3114 that’s for you to decide

[@Businessmindedjamaijan]

@@marcusdingle3114 Red flags dont disappear after marriage they tend to get worst. If she loves you then get couples therapy and see if you both can work together as a couple before marriage.

[@superleague5900]

@@Mrs.704 bad treatment engages her emotions. Good treatment pisses off most modern w because they don't respect themselves enough to be loved. High body counts, cheating, and searching for butterfly feelings makes them dead inside

[@SuperCapuka]

KS is right my woman got me an iPhone 12 Pro Max 256gb and paid in full in the Apple shop no contract or paying monthly. That’s when the phone was released officially. Yup if they love you they won’t let you go out with holes in your timberlands, they take ownership on how you look and represent them.

[@belizegal29]

All those materialistic trinkets don’t amount to displaying how much you love someone. That’s nice that she did that, but that’s frivolous.

[@Lifeishard237]

This is the most feminine shit I’ve ever read in my life. Buy your own damn shoes. You expecting a woman to be responsible for anything related to money is a sign of your lack of leadership of the relationship. Gifts are one thing but never depend on a woman for your necessities. Bad look.

[@pickmeisha]

I started dating my fiance like a month before his birthday. It was technically our 3rd date and it was on a weekday. He said he didnt have any plans and it wasnt a big deal to him. I only asked him to wear a jacket for dinner and be free at 5pm. I booked reservations for dinner, got tix to an open mic event and scheduled uber from/to his house so he didnt have to drive; we started the nite with happy hour. His gift was $150 worth of lotto tix, a goofy card I actually made and a bottle of whiskey. He was like ‘first time I went out with a woman where I spent zero dollars and made zero decisions.’ He stopped being so ‘busy’ after that.😉

[@stormship1647]

That’s why he is going to wife you..bless u both !

[@afreecanbomaye5283]

Is this a movie script or are you shxtting us ?

[@jamesmitchell3615]

💯

[@celiaferreira2028]

Reply when u married.

[@pickmeisha]

@@celiaferreira2028 married almost 2 years now…

[@SymGenie]

This is true about the manipulation. My wife doesn't withhold sex from me for stupid reasons. If she says she isn't in the mood, she almost always has an understandable reason like discomfort, sadness, or menstruation. If I'm not in the mood, she knows something is wrong and its defcon 1. Sex is to maintain our bonding and has a high priority. As Chris rock said, monica should have never had a chance because Hillary should have already been under the desk.

[@wshelby83]

Thanks for leaving your comment!!!

[@aswaswasw2323]

My dad and aunt taught me this. I was moving on that, after we married I will spend all my energy doing blah blah .... When I tell u they snapped on me 😂. Followed their advice, and I'm now engaged!

[@mark4d101]

All due respect I believe the laws of this land and the mistreatment of men by the courts have reduced the women to permanent side chicks back in the day if you made a mistake married the wrong girl no harm no foul today if you make a mistake marry the wrong girl it can cost you thousands or millions

[@7DMEDIA1]

Amen.. look at my comments

[@PassportG]

Yep

[@kenneyp.9456]

Exactly that’s why a lot of men don’t wanna get married now

[@Lifeishard237]

Most black men don’t have thousands or millions to lose though? So why don’t they get married?

[@mark4d101]

@@Lifeishard237 why don't you get married to a guy who works at McDonald's ????

[@Omilloadams]

Ladies please to this man because he speaking facts I got homegirls who wish they could become someone main chick instead of a side chick…it’s sad because they don’t have relationships skills 💯‼️

[@tubehax]

"Just because she is not sleeping with you doesn't mean that she isn't sleeping with somebody else".

[@monstar2746]

Kevin been hurt that's all. Lol. He mentioned in the video how he has invested time and money before with no return.

[@jycbeauty]

Men deserve women that study them!!! Look deep into yourself and remember how amazing that feels ladies! Over perform! If it doesn't work out, you should still NEVER have moved like you were afraid it wouldn't!

[@tonylowery3844]

He is telling the truth. If they can’t get the financial situation up. She will become unhappy blame it on him. Then get a divorce take the kids and leave him in financial shambles.

[@KStatus7]

Which is why I see marriage as a liability

[@casket8530]

The issue is a societal one. Marriage laws need to change, there needs to be an incentive for women to stay in marriages.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

Been there done that smh...

[@ankhenaten2]

@@KStatus7 marriage in biblical times the husband owned his wife and he bought her from her father, this modern day so called marriage is not biblical and is a sin

[@starkfuture1057]

Kids don’t really feel middle class lack of resources like adults do. They won’t even notice it. But poverty - putting a kid through that with full knowledge of what lies ahead is cruel. It will bend and break them.

[@JULO-I]

Appreciate this type of content. I always knew that VVomen are more manipulative but you breaking it down is high upper echelon. Keep up the great work sir!

[@myisglim7801]

Women aren’t anymore manipulative than men

[@JULO-I]

@@myisglim7801 yerh ok then.....

[@quality_steppa_]

Straight facts cause I'm 35 yrs old but I didn't know how to love or be loved properly until now

[@ibexy]

Kevin is really patient. I must say.

[@Farfar3881]

This was a learning show. I like things that help me seek to understand first. I don’t think that it works to take every word from anybody but learn to think for yourself and invest in your own life.

[@roolyfe]

3 dates sex is a must! Facts! No cap 🧢

[@alexbrown4196]

Sir Samuels, where I'm at being a side chick is a cultural hypnosis and it's celebrated here because these ladies over here aren't interested in the work of commitment/matrimony. They consider it to be modern day slavery and they embrace being on the side and then complain when the side is all they are offered. It's a strange phenomenon.

[@cheflaco]

😂 he's Madd funny. Even when he's not trying.

[@lightskinanticsjiggin8129]

👍

[@Spokentruths725]

Especially when he’s not trying

[@RBG-ez7pd]

“Roof roof”

[@vivecacoleman]

YESSSSS !!!!!

[@vivecacoleman]

..what about when he dance ?🕺 ..I'm screaming at that time 😆🤣😂😹...get it Godfather 🤣😂!!!

[@CFAB8453]

This is facts. I have major investment in my man. I don't wait for holidays. I take us out to eat, by clothes and he does just as much with and on me. These women need to wake up get up and be fit.

[@cassiusaojuederie5418]

Cant lie, I needed this subject. Are you dating with intent Y/N Are you dating for fun ...red flag, move on, save money/time/energy.

[@rockenroller9749]

Facts my printer is not able to keep up with this man KS too strong ! God Bless you brother.

[@jonm57]

If this topic of the “side chick” doesn’t make sense to these women, I don’t know what will. Women who aren’t wife material end up the 3-year girlfriend, and that’s a side chick.

[@ZaneCase1]

"The 3-Year Girlfriend" that's iconic and genius

[@Lamontemcneil]

It's mind blowing the lack of awareness women have sometimes.

[@Lifeishard237]

So now being a girlfriend is being a side chick? Y’all just admitting comfortably that your disloyal and treasonous?

[@Lamontemcneil]

@@Lifeishard237 anyone who has sold you value in being a long term girlfriend, would be

[@Lifeishard237]

@@Lamontemcneil interesting I’ll keep that in mind when I started dating.

[@GoofyFlan]

Kevin is missing the fact that most of these people don't ever plan to be homeowners.

[@Minervastouch]

Kevin is also talking about people who have the money to do so. Remember Kevin likes the average man and understands them but his advice is geared towards men who would have the money to buy a house. Non high value men, henrys, hit and average men all watch the show but KS is speaking in advice for men who want to succeed greatly in life. Men who willingly work 60+ hours a week, work two jobs, invest etc etc.

[@jayoh2k]

Unfortunately we attach "value" to monitary gain.

[@Olyphantman]

@@jayoh2k it’s not unfortunate and you’re missing the point. Earnings are one of the main ingredients of a “high value man” it’s not the only ingredient. But real talk if a man is making 35-40k a year he can’t protect his family from financial strife and he can’t provide. He shouldn’t be thinking about marriage and family, he had to get on purpose and work and or study his ass off to get from 40- to at least 70k adjusted for cost of living.

[@Saint-Christopher]

At they end of the day Good meaning good men build their women up together. Those chosen women help build up those men. Those couples become homeowners. Who has time for older pick me's who don't cook and just wanna own shit? If you want to sit on the sidelines looking to slide your way into the game without the work. You'll never own anything. The fact missing is you being dusty looking to game your way into a business. Don't work that way goofy 🤣 Your destination is a side chick whether you like it or not. Shoo Shoo side X Side effects..

[@Saint-Christopher]

@@Olyphantman and you get your nails checked, check your hair, feeling good as hell! Get off welfare and show your children some pride.

[@sun-801]

Godfather dropping dimes as always 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

I'm Glad you (Mzansi chick) is actually learnin/watching, coz y'all are just f*d up 🇿🇦

[@deettamonique4968]

Everything kevin said is true. Women spoil the hell out of their man when they’re in love.I remember i noticed my ex had some no name cologne .I asked him his favorites he said he only got them from family on holidays or basic scents randomly. I surprised him the next day with big bottles of sauvage by Dior & light blue by Dolce & Gabbana.

[@gnhun101]

That's sweet. But it's more for you than for him.

[@alp.9672]

@@gnhun101 lol that’d why woman don’t have a problem with buying cologne for their man

[@dinerofromdar1113]

@@alp.9672 literally 😂

[@deettamonique4968]

@@gnhun101 ii disagree if that was true why didnt any of his exes buy him some. Plus scents attract other women.

[@deettamonique4968]

@@alp.9672 but yet none of his exes did before me . What you’re used to some dont get that .

[@andresportland1800]

Y'all notice how Kevin is low-key practicing with different camera angles for when he gets on TV? Prime time needs prime time! Great work Godfather! I thought i was crazy until I found your channel a year ago. Godfather speaks nothing but facts.

[@LanceStephenson215]

My great-grandfather worked for the water department for 50 years and was married twice but only had two kids with his first wife, by the time I actually knew him he was 70 and retired middle class but back then he probably made 50k a year which was good back in his day(60s 70s) because everything was in deed way cheaper, but today 50k with a wife and two kids is POOR and 100k is barely middle class especially in popular cities like New York.

[@easylee4uify]

"Give what you're getting!"- RIP KS

[@rollingtinfist]

“If she’s not investing her body...” “Winter is coming.”

[@gilbryan2485]

I came from Fayetteville NC to Charlotte NC to visit my brother and I was saying the same thing to him… That I am surprised to see so many women, that were young on the streets. One woman, I couldn’t tell for sure because she had a placard in front of her stomach but looked like she was pregnant! And all I could think of was Winter is coming! Nay winter is here!

[@jasminesaez5061]

I wish Kevin was still here so I can say thank you for everything ❤I got married this Saturday short and sweet 🥰rest in power king 👑

[@JustBree716]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I'm so happy for you. I thank God I have the tools to at least pass on to my adult daughter thanks to Kevin. Blessings

[@whysoserious-vt4hf]

That Nickelback drop was priceless and on time, I knew what song he was talking about as soon as he said Nickelback.

[@bastiat6865]

"Too damn good..." The translation is "I'm afraid that I don't have what it takes to maintain this, so I'd rather not have it than have it and deal with the sadness of losing it" It's an attitude of the lazy. All things of value take work to maintain. Men with top quality women also have to work to maintain the relationship. Love is irrelevant because most people have no idea what love is.

[@rubyhild4089]

Wow. That translation ! So true..

[@gregorythomas4366]

KS literally gave women the recipe for the ring for free!

[@starznmyeyez8906]

To the lady: Young heart run free, get help for healing and make yourself into a woman who a man will truly want to be with. If you stay knowing he doesn't want to marry you, you will be stressed out, beaten down and scarred emotionally very soon. Healing is needed now. 💯

[@treyparker3775]

I've had to explain to some female friends that they were side chicks.... they were never with their so called dude during the holidays. Those days are meant for the main woman not you. If his phone never rings when you 2 are together, you're the side chick. If you can only see him in the evenings or at night to Netflix and chill, you are the side chick.

[@mortenthryse3392]

Love your work Kevin. In Sweden the solution seems to be men becomes feminist providers that go in therapy to deal with toxic masculinity and work out on their way home from picking upp kids to make work and clean to support there huge wives who are depress because the negativ effects from the patriarch and dealing with supremacy dominated society that keeps the on the sofa shopping and netflixing. - or just married's a traditional 19 year old Filipina or Belarus virgin.

[@fredflinstone6601]

Sounds like a nightmare

[@dcg590]

Masculinity is far from toxic.

[@bpric13]

"Women will spend their money on themselves." No. They will spend your money on that broke dude that they're sleeping with

[@dollarwil1234]

I don't keep all the fish I catch. Some I throw back. Designating certain women to permanent side-chick status is a necessary part of "the game."

[@Alejandr0varsay]

In a nutshell: Men getting into relationships =Sky diving. Women getting into relationships =Bungee jumping. It's clear. For those who missed the analogy: *Sky diving (50% chance to die) *Bungee jumping ("Retraction system", and in any case there's water below)

[@Likexner]

Its a nice creative analogy, the only part that doesnt make sense is the implication that skydiving means a 50% chance to die. I would just leave the number out.

[@Alejandr0varsay]

@@Likexner It means the parachute (marriage), can fail, and you plummet. It refers to the 50-50 chance you get a good wife.... or someone who just want to take half of what you have acquired throughout your life. (hence the 50%).

[@Likexner]

@@Alejandr0varsay I understand that. The issue is that a parachute doesnt have anywhere near a 50% chance of failure.

[@Alejandr0varsay]

@@Likexner There's no issue. An analogy is meant to represent a point, based on SOME of the characteristics of the example being used, and not to be taken literally.

[@Likexner]

@@Alejandr0varsay I know, but you included the number which brought ot light the disparity between the risk of getting divorced and the risk of going splat while skydiving. I wouldnt have thought about the number if you hadnt included it.

[@erica8165]

1:30:00 This lady is in denial. She's coming up with all excuses why the man hasn't proposed and KS laying down facts that dude don't want to marry her. She's blaming her parents and culture but she got no one else she has to blame but the person in the mirror. This conversation is prime example of the need to be right. Her story is more fluid than a flashflood. She keeps adding/changing her story to make her look innocent/naive and suit her narrative. KS saw through it all and called her BS.

[@lolivingston6827]

Joe Budden said it Best..."Females would rather be a Made Ninjas Smut, Than a Regular Ninjas Queen".... Its been 10 years since I've heard this quote and W/ social media. It's becoming truer and truer... smh

[@JustBree716]

This is exactly why I will defend Kevin at every turn when I feel it's necessary. I have seen him call himself just a guy on KZbin many times. Never claimed to be any thing other than an image consultant and a guy on KZbin with wisdom and information.

[@dwyaneshowers3312]

Love your work Kevin for the average guy in these streets!

[@MikeLitirous]

Self sabotaging behavior runs RAMPANT amongst women. I’ve seen, heard, and personally experienced women self sabotaging good things they had going on for no logical reason. Therapy therapy therapy, ladies!

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

I don't even think that therapy can save all of'em...🤦📢🏝️

[@daviedood2503]

Because it's become reduntant and BORING to them. They want SOME kinda drama and chaos. They don't care WHAT it destroys. As long as their drama need is fulfilled. You gotta keep their mind engaged on you. "why u take so long to get home, store is just down the road" Gotta keep them wondering about you. Drive slower coming home, don't answer the phone, don't respond to the texts. Women ha w admitted to leaving a man because he built her up so much she legit felt like she was better than him and she coukd go out and get a better man. Straight USED that damn man for stuff, and ego boost. Confidence boost etc. There's a reason narcissists don't give alot of compliments they're afraid it'll make ur head too big and you'll leave. The cluster b disorders are t exactly dumb folks. They're on to alot of things with people.

[@greatredshrike1234]

Eh, most therapists are feminist indoctrinated. That majority won't help but merely narrow the focus of the average woman to blaming everything and everyone but herself for her problems.

[@gadohimself]

Spent her money and body on me, but never her time. She broke it up in the end. Turns out the trifecta went into another guy during the ENTIRE relationship. Kevin knows what he's talking about.

[@carlwright8677]

I don’t understand why people get mad at Kevin for telling the truth if men wanted to marry a woman it would happen

[@GenosideTV]

Really... Cause I've watched episode after episode where women broke up with men that could've been or was their husbands.

[@casket8530]

Men have to marry when they are ready though. You can't go into a marriage without your shit together, this isn't the 1960s.

[@GenosideTV]

@@casket8530 why can't you?

[@iwannagetlit]

The most powerful video you made in my opinion

[@alessandroluciano8211]

"IF SHE'S FEEDING HER DOG BETTER & MORE THEN YOU,YOU ARE NOT HER PRIORITY"!!!( F_CK'N OUCH"!!🤭)

[@mr.blademonktravels1880]

Like Anthony Mackie(guy that plays Falcon) said, you want me to go downstairs when you hear that bump in the night? Wendy: Well, yeah!! Mackie: Then you make daddy a sandwich!!!

[@shellsopinion5837]

😂

[@MrMatGila]

After her shower Dammit.

[@briandortelus8030]

Kevin, tell them the truth. The cost of living increased. Haircare ,clothing allowance, car insurance ,health insurance etc costs. This show alone debunks women women being innately so called smarter than men.

[@charlesjohnson74]

Just throwing this out there. I was married with three children living in Southern California with a combined income of $180,000. I owned a nice home, had two nice vehicles. We took a family vacation every year, enjoyed all the amusement parks, my kids got cars at 16 and college. You don't need 225 thousand per child to have a good life. And we only have about 3800 hundred dollars of debt.

[@karlbennett1886]

I totally agree. I’m here in LA and I bring in around $250k a year with 4 kids. Very doable and we have nice cars and a house. Sometimes Kevin is out of touch with his numbers.

[@traderhines76]

@Jay & Laong's World!🤪²⁰²¹ 😂 That’s what I was thinking while reading this. “Why is he talking in the past tense?”

[@The_Dutch_Jaguar]

@Jay & Laong's World!🤪²⁰²¹ I, too, like to unnecessarily denigrate strangers on the internet because I'm a loser. Oh wait -- that's you.

[@BLASTIC0]

Inflation.

[@singingchef23]

Your combined income divided by 2 puts both of you as above average earners or you OR her in the 1%

[@drewinsur7321]

44:20 knowledge right here, where she is investing her time, body and money 55:17 the summary, where she puts that Godamn money tells the truth

[@cmcwoodson]

So many facts In this !!!! I spend money on men I love !!! I have paid bills for men, went in on cars, paid for lavish birthday and bought clothes! If I don’t spend money , I don’t like u 💯

[@darrylmitchell4995]

Most of these modern women will happily be a high value man's side chick but won't be an average man's wife.

[@terrylanier8595]

For the 1st woman he asked "do you know how expensive a child is?" She said yes. Then he asked "how much is daycare?" She said I dont know I never experienced it. Why did she lie and said yes to the first question if you didn't know the answer to the 2nd question. Yall women lie to yourself to make your self FEEL better not thinking or caring what the man thinks.

[@jackc70]

She also said she made about $5,000.00 per month and later in the conversation she said she made 55 grand a year. That math just doesn’t add up. She in fantasy land

[@myisglim7801]

You can know how expensive kids are without knowing how much daycare costs. Not everyone puts their kids in daycare. I think women would definitely know how much kids cost, 80% of kids in single parent homes headed by their mother.

[@terrylanier8595]

@@myisglim7801 Because most of those women who don't know daycare cost either are stay at home mother or have family members to take care of the kid. And not to many women have those opportunities, specially this woman. A woman and man should know at least the cost of daycare. That why he asked that question.

[@Orgizo08]

The Godfather strikes again. Thanks for dropping gems sir!

[@codyc8138]

"Get'em Likes Up 👍 ". The God Father.

[@onenonlynino]

“Smile and keep on walking”🚶🏾‍♂️😎✌️🏾