Smoke Week Q & A - Overtime ©

[@donel77642]

So many women say they want "happiness" in a marriage, but if they were happy with themselves already...they would bring that happiness to the relationship!

[@LightofJehan]

this is true cant look 4another person 2 MAKE u happy so 2 speak.but rather seek happiness in oneself cause when u get that man imma tell u what appreciate a good man even thru his flaws ppl mess up we human dont let urself mess up what u think supposed ta be perfect.

[@TheMFTRUTH]

Happiness is within

[@scaryterry8958]

Didn’t Kevin say marriage isn’t about happiness a few shows ago? Where did the topic of happiness come from now???

[@jhnxavier]

Yes! They often get the order of operations _inverted._ Happiness _(which comes form within)_ is prior to matching with ones complementary half...

[@scaryterry8958]

@@jhnxavier So many women got cussed tf out and muted by Kevin talking about love and happiness in marriage, now all of a sudden he’s talking about happiness in marriage… So he can say it but they can’t? Something ain’t adding up here 🤔🤔🤔

[@eirelative]

This man was exactly what the culture needed. So sad that people hated him so..

[@Deshawn1]

Time Stamps 00:01 Giants Nest by Daphne Blue 3:12 O Além é Aqui by Clara Mendes 5:45 Sei Que Tu Virás By Ghen 8:11 Stockholm love by Mathilda June 12:20 The show starts, a few facts about Kevin 15:10 8th Caller Brittany age 39 21:12 9th Caller Monique age 31 30:50 Back to Tierre age 30 45:00 10th Caller Sami age 25 51:30 11th Caller Ms. Paterson age No man's land 58:40 12th Caller Natasha age 32 1:26:15 Closing Song

[@sly9812]

Thanks bro

[@ziningikolwapi7866]

From the bottom of my heart thank you.

[@kobbyscratch5799]

Big ups bro. You the man

[@gw6496]

Thanks for the time stamps!👍🏽

[@MissyRichmond]

Thank you so much!🦋

[@williex9097]

This brother was a Angel. Thank you brother for your service and sacrifice. Your ideas are being cemented in so many others. Just wish you could’ve been around to see the product of your works.

[@kevindunlap5525]

He's not done yet........

[@user-cq7yb1gs5q]

Man.. has already been 11 months, i miss Kevin.

[@shannonrichard7982]

Amen❤️❤️❤️

[@missladybug73]

I just had an epiphany. Toxic masculinity exists. It comes from the MODERN woman trying to RULE. Trying to be masculine instead of feminine. There. I said it.

[@cynicalskeptic4517]

🏆

[@CiluhStyle1]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@tfarahan27]

That’s the main reason why they’re depressed and lost identity role.

[@ginomoreno5117]

This comment needs 10K Likes!! I screenshotted it and will absolutely commit it to memory. THANK YOU so much!

[@daveshore8671]

Yeah it’s the deadly feminine. Pandora, Medusa, Eve, Hansel & Gredel witch, and many many more

[@jhnxavier]

Notice how tears suddenly dried up when K.S showed it wasn't going to phase him? Too many men fall for the emotional manipulation of crocodile tears. 💧

[@erictoomer5665]

Big Facts

[@solvingthrillers5294]

I fall for I'm not gonna lie.

[@jhnxavier]

We all have at some point or another,@@solvingthrillers5294 It's the _protector_ part of our protector/provider nature... With experience _(good & bad),_ comes *wisdom.*

[@albertnile6778]

@@jhnxavier We be simpin for years Brothers...lol

[@jhnxavier]

I dunno about that,@@albertnile6778. There's a _clear_ distinction between simpin' vs being conned.

[@samsungtv7924]

Stop having kids out of wedlock. Period!

[@worldrenowedcasemanager]

That's it that's all

[@nataliemoore9965]

Yess and expecting the system to take of them.

[@relaxlove.3678]

From this platform, I have officially learned more in a week than I have a 5 years at University

[@kevindunlap5525]

5th year seniors know all the best parties.

[@EveryOneLovebiome]

I started doing the dress up Saturdays. People do look at you differently. Thank you for this platform. 🙏🏿🔺

[@twotymer4458]

Before I got married, Tuesday was my day. New suit, new everything, every Tuesday. Women, women, women....

[@newmoneymarcus]

I work in a competitive sales environment I’m the best dressed banker in my area people notice and I win a lot of clients.

[@denwhi317]

Ate you high value though? Simply dressing up doesn't make you a high value man. Gtfo

[@davidtolbert716]

@@denwhi317 Dressing the part sometimes doesn't hurt!👍

[@jeremyallenfitness]

Ii

[@oncebefore3671]

I love that Kevin is now addressing how so many callers laugh through the seriousness on the subject of babies out of wedlock, dead-end relationships, and female masculinity. This targets the lack of seriousness in their conscience and lack of direction. BRAVO ! ! !

[@queenlex4138]

It completely AMAZES ME how selfish people are. News flash: when you have kids life isn’t about you anymore! Over here looking for a bunch of step daddies and having all types of different men around your children (doesn’t matter if they’re boys or girls) is freakin dangerous! Our grandparents (and some of our parents) knew this. I’m tired of people waiting until something happens before they realize they made a bad choice all because they were “lonely”.

[@blacksocrates1]

Preach!

[@CookWithStephh]

Exactly!!!!!!!

[@azure8696]

BIG FACTS

[@angiewoods9697]

so true

[@onlythetruth596]

It’s because of this selfish madness that I now have custody of my k1ds today. They are extremely selfish and neglective .

[@mikerichter1694]

I like how Kevin promotes family stability.

[@jacobjorgenson9285]

Although he had two divorces himself

[@nathaniel972ful]

I started working on my image again thanks to that guy. I was fine before, but let myself completely go from my mid 20's to now in my mid 30's. Now it's back to my perfectly ironed black long sleeve shirts, fit jeans, traded the timbs for soft footwear, sport fragance, shaved the cornrows off to go back to my signature low fade, beard is gone, no more earrings, traded my big ol chain for a discreet tiny little gold necklace. A complete 180, and the effects were immediate on my surroundings, my associates, my children, and of course the type of women i like to attract. The feeling is incredible. I just feel like myself again. The hood aura is hard to get rid of though, it's been like a glass ceiling so far. Killing that aura is a day by day effort, but far from impossible. And it has to be done, because being talented doesn't mean much if the important people you're supposed to talk to, throw you in a no-go box as soon as they see you, just because of bad presentation. Let's stay out of our own way folks. We got this, God willing🙏🏾💪🏿

[@nathaniel972ful]

@@terence.j 🙏🏾💪🏿

[@blessed1_4life80]

Respect Young Brother

[@KimmieB1993]

Congratulations and enjoy your journey.

[@nathaniel972ful]

@@KimmieB1993 i appreciate that, thank you 😉

[@PassportG]

Yeah that hood aura is hard. Glad you changed for the better.

[@josealexi5141]

"If you have a problem with that man you need to talk to *HIM* !! He's the one you've chosen." -KS, A man with integrity.

[@peterrose8886]

The problem is they don't talk respectfully and expect us to listen when they don't give us with respect

[@keishapuryear8180]

My daughter loves the series Grey's Anatomy because she aspires to be a doctor. When I watch the show with her I'm amazed by the glorification of dysfunctional relationships. I tell her all the time as intelligent as the characters are, most lack emotion intelligence and boundaries. The scrip often includes jokes about the countless years spent studying and not living. Thus the characters are inept at relationships and interpersonal communication. That is exactly what I see as the drawbacks of a society that has become so advanced that years if education are required for many professions.

[@chadricrobertson8496]

Facts,,scientifically marvelous....

[@rentmane]

Bingo! Pharm.d's, FNP's, Ed.d's, Ph.d's are the absolute worst to date. Run!!

[@brianbest6097]

Well said. Relationships are supposed to be boring and simple. People make it more dysfunctional and chaotic than it has to be

[@julesfalcone]

@@brianbest6097 Keisha: maybe you shouldn't let your kids watch stuff like that.

[@kenethw172]

Great show KS one of the best, it goes without saying but fellas don’t be stepfathers to Pookie or Ray-Ray kids it’s not a good deal.

[@SkyylyfeOrNoLife]

This Man Is Legendary👏👏👏

[@TyMarl3y]

“Just because everyone in your class is passing doesn’t matter your still failing” definitely felt that one and that’s straight facts🙏🏾💯

[@bantublood]

KS is so full of wisdom I believe he really is King Solomon reborn.

[@Kyle5K]

*you're

[@TyMarl3y]

@@Kyle5K appreciate it sis✊🏿

[@onikapinkk]

@@TyMarl3y right🎉👏🏼👏🏼

[@EVERETTOVERTON]

Brilliant Broadcast, Fam. You Killing The Game in that white, too.

[@darightpillswhitepills6096]

Both of y'all content are helping the fatherless youth, thank you

[@romeoo5272]

Im goin to go get me a white suit tma 😆

[@icemanx5085]

That white was ballroom fresh!!!

[@everyonedeservestogohome2949]

Purrr

[@flowersphotoswpbshay8019]

People sleep on KS's geek cred. So many knowledgeable comic, pop culture and anime references. Keep up the good work, sir!

[@eliflihi]

Facts. Strong movie knowledge

[@macman9689]

very nostalgic

[@z3fs8]

Low key stuff

[@askinfinity]

it caught me off guard too, I'm impressed

[@ImCallingFromSpringfield]

Rip Kevin. Was a real one

[@Young_Amadeus]

It’s really disappointing how these women are in their 20s, 30s, and 40s but still act like they’re still in their teenage years, then wonder why they’re in the position they are in now.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@DeeFitnessLifeBze]

No one taught them.sad truth

[@beeburner5685]

They really feel like the way they act is the way of a mature woman. I be stuck when I hear how they speak. The audacity of some of these woman who wasn't taught to be so demanding and loathe when this man speak with informative information and models and good points of how keep relationships strong within the black community

[@jjstatic102]

It’s more sad when they share our color. I want better for black folks

[@Bidness100]

Most Of Them Never Really Grow Up

[@onikapinkk]

@@jjstatic102 well dont leave your wife with your kids then if youre sad most men leave once their partner is pregnant i have seen it myself.

[@TheTiredMomma]

Have children with a willing participant. I’m married. Have 1 child with my husband and pregnant with my 2nd. Pregnancy is HELL pretty much. Children are a huge sacrifice of time, money. Birth is a serious health risk. Children: Life and legacy is the greatest gift that you can give to someone. Why the hell would you give up your body, time, money energy, life to a man who does not want you or your child? A Committed relationship, a Marriage, a Home, being provided and cared for is a mans way of telling you he wants you and the offspring the two of you produce. Anything less is not worth it. If you’re with someone and they are not making plans or moves towards this GOAL, get out. Don’t sit there and have a kid thinking that’s going to jumpstart him. It will not.

[@triplea2443]

They be willing.....people change their minds...thats reality..after that second child ya coochie gets wider...be on the look out....kegels baby

[@carlcwms]

These childish mentalities and reckless decision making are a major turn-off.

[@jiemalboy]

Men, do not fall for the tears Kevin handled that situation so perfectly. 🔥👏🏽

[@nhlakaniphomaxakana5706]

We as SA men need to learn that.

[@wRAAh]

When a female starts a sentence with "First of all, I feel like: for ME...", I'm already gone.

[@clarkvaughan]

It's all that, while looking up and to the left. Whatever they say after that came straight out of their a$$, and makes no sense.

[@SeeLasSee]

They ‘feel’ like being a female entitles them to goof around and be girlie when in the bright headlights of accountability. They also feel that men should treat them as adults professionally without them acting suitably for the role.

[@AffluentBlacks]

Yep. After that comes an endless stream of random consciousness 👀

[@thaxtonwaters8561]

Everything after that sounds like Charlie Brown adults.

[@julesfalcone]

@@thaxtonwaters8561 I thought I was the only one who used that reference. Now a' days, I hear Charlie Brown's teacher about once a week.

[@delleonthompson3234]

Respect Kevin! “It is not our job to make woman happy” that’s a statement of an insure woman. Men protect your honor.

[@s.r.hadden525]

The Caller Natasha IMO was one of Kevin's most important interviews. It sums up what Kevin is all about. It should be mandatory listening for women between the ages of 17-30. When you have babies for whatever by whoever you cash yourself out the game. Protect your self so you don’t wind up like her having a mental crisis about being out here having \ wanting to start over.

[@tallanddark89]

58:40

[@jbb8261]

I knew that having kids out of wedlock was absolutely not an option thanks to my father. I didn’t get pregnant until a ring was on my finger. But as I got older I was really shocked that kids out of wedlock seemed to be the norm.

[@GoofyFlan]

I agree. No one should doubt Kev's credentials after that one because that was as pro as it gets.

[@8beazy]

@ S.R Hadden FACTS!!! The only thing that I would add to what you said is that this could be a VERY dangerous time for her daughters. My fear is that as reality sets in more and more for her she will start to resent her daughters as she could see them as the reason she “settled”. We’ve seen this cycle again and again in the black community and like you said it encapsulates what KS is all about. That woman has all the components of someone who will now go out of her way to undermine and destroy her daughters out of jealousy. With all that being said, the father of the girls still wants to marry her!!!! I really hope they work everything out because the recipe for complete and utter disaster is looming large.

[@ZShenlong1]

Why do you think they’re pushing for infant deletion so hard? They know this, but would rather fetus deletus than stop the poor behavior.

[@drakegregory369]

One of the best episodes ever. Much respect Sir

[@Ruckerpark98]

It’s hard to disagree with this 🤷🏾. It was a very powerful show!

[@debervin9121]

I agree, both shows were excellent.

[@Noname-wz1yy]

Kevin is turning into a surrogate stepfather to a whole generation of women.

[@getnanoed]

Fatherhood is vital, fatherlessness growing up whether they passed/walk away/or absent messes with the human psychi ie inner voice/sub conscious!!! The voice of the father plays a huge role on how people function. Lack of positive self talk is the root of misery, depression, and toxic mental thoughts!!!!! Counselors help with healing past trauma... YESHUA delivers God speed!!!!

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

... And they still disrespect him smh

[@Killerqueen-oi7si]

Facts

[@michaelthevisionary]

Lol

[@timgreen2426]

And their kids.

[@ronniebar3857]

Kevin is getting very much more patient.

[@tiffanymilton-mack8210]

In the words of Lauren Hill, how you live when you ain't right within ♥️. Come again 🤯.

[@skinfanjay]

💯

[@juniorleslie4804]

Was not Lauren Hill a single mother?

[@DeeboX-vv8ji]

@@juniorleslie4804 yes, because Wyclef took advantage of her, and knocked her up at like 16. She is married to Rowhan Marley, who is the father to all her other children.

[@DeeboX-vv8ji]

How you gone WIN, when you ain't right within. Bars 🎵🎶

[@octobersfinest8865]

@@DeeboX-vv8ji doesn’t matter let kevin say it lauren should have choose better… 🙄

[@phillipj_007]

I give up, don't ever listen to women. Just react to what they do and how they treat you. When they talk, it's like an alternate universe where everything's an Oxymoron surrounded by pets. lol!

[@deaundrecummings3469]

Complete facts I don’t ever listen when they talk I watch what they do

[@dwalk13live]

Actions always speak louder than words. It doesn't matter regarding gender.

[@rockneverknow3247]

Facts man🤦🏾‍♂️

[@supremec2476]

Facts 🤣🤣

[@JaiStallworth]

@@dwalk13live 💯

[@angelaburke9451]

Thank you for saying stop having kids outside of marriage!!! If we really want to change the dynamic, we should stop having premarital sex altogether. We should focus on self-care to get ready for a decent relationship. Unfortunately folks so caught up in the immediate gratification they can't progress together.

[@Kenny-Alpha]

Reall? Premarital sex isn't the prob! Just stop having babies!

[@mosaictwinz9490]

This is one of the best shows I’ve seen from him! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@user-ri6lq3mm1v]

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[@MrGontime11]

"You wanna be happy? Eat a chocolate chip cookie pet a puppy" lmao 🤣

[@tammy1426]

Lol!!

[@tuntejaable]

Watch a movie lool

[@mdunlimited653]

Holla at Ron M....he got happy meals... Holla at P.D.M,,, he got happy saks

[@ricardosimms8548]

"If you want to have a better future, you must do something in your present about your past" Amen brotha 🙏🏽✊🏾

[@kashnation8980]

Omg from 40:00 to 45:00 is very important! I almost wanna shed a tear for how important that is for our community! God bless you brother this is apart of the work God has designed you to do!

[@MCC876]

Men, don’t get into any kind of relationship with a baby mama or single mother. Don’t marry them, don’t date them, don’t even talk to them. No exceptions. Save yourselves.

[@gw6496]

True it will not work out!!!

[@Dtt4]

Not even the one time "Pipe Down"?

[@HORSEZOX]

@@Dtt4 LMAO STOP IT

[@gaitsmarialegae8080]

@@HORSEZOX Baby daddy's are making most of the communities babies, so that in itself should tell you where the difference is

[@wham7125]

@@HORSEZOX I will when family courts start forcing women to pay for kids that are not theirs.

[@michaelriley7295]

Kevin said "all of our best decisions get us to where we are at this point". That was, FIRE!🔥

[@coolrunnings5173]

I was born in 69 in Jamaica and man those are my kind of music 😄 CD 101.9 was my station back in the day when i was living in NY splendid taste 👌😊

[@LordeGainz]

I kid you not what Kevin is saying about immature women is true. The women I have dated came off really mature at first but as I got to know them I felt like I was raising them more so than being in a relationship growing together. It doesn’t matter what they had materially at the time but what I invested in them was life changing positively to them and detracted from my trajectory. Getting with a bad partner is dangerous to a man. The baffling part is now they have the audacity to look down on me because currently they are better positioned than me but that will soon change

[@tailorfittedmypain]

Been there done that a couple of times.. lesson learned let no one knock you off your square ever again...

[@danebrowne8017]

This!! 👏👏👏👏

[@sha_black]

Man listen I went through it as well

[@rohanbrown893]

I feel you brother… they come around with their depression & bad energy drop it on men who they see with ambition to help build that female bk up then they bounce 💯 I tell chicks if u take care of them I’m their guardian at that point… they take u off ur 24hrs to give them comfort etc ….. bro single is better than these modern day females

[@LordeGainz]

@@rohanbrown893 to add to that is they act like they are not doing this...but I’m seeing cases rise exponentially. Its not like it one case it’s 100s of thousands of cases with video evidence. And nothing is being done about. And they act like it’s not happening

[@s.p529]

“If you want to do something about your future, you have to do something in your present about your past.” ~Kevin Ain’t this the French toast truth!!!?

[@tezdidit]

IF YOU WANT TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR FUTURE,YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING IN YOUR PRESENT ABOUT YOUR PAST!!!!

[@kashman1100]

I am so happy i can fast forward through the rambling of the guests…

[@HebrewHakaishin]

I love the Portuguese/Brazilian Genre of music you chose in your show!

[@gumbeauxorleans]

1:02:11- Kevin asking "Settle?" + The sit back! Priceless! She obviously doesn't listen when she watches the show "all the time."

[@PillsInThePudding]

Aye yooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@munib1000]

The biggest takeaway from this show for women aged between 18-30 is "You don't get higher than your baby daddy" - A lesson learnt too late for Natasha.

[@1SwiftAngela]

If God is in it …. Life changing for her the children and the right man in their life! Praying that she finds God more and he puts right man in her life

[@dwaynehiler5735]

Dang, just realised the 1st part of the name natasha is actually satan backwards 🤔🤷🏽‍♂️

[@peterrose8886]

She did it to herself she was cheated on and let herself hit pregnant again sorry lack of accountability it seems like she did this on purpose thinking he would change it never works

[@Mostopinionatedmanofalltime]

@@dwaynehiler5735Yeah Natasha backwards is AhSatan.😅

[@dwaynehiler5735]

@satyrrob speaking of satan backwards. I also recently learned that the Emmy awards (which is basically a statue of satan) winners are chosen by a committee called the National Association of Television Arts and Sciences, The N.A.T.A.S. 🤷🏽‍♂️. Since "ha" is the Hebrew word for "the" (HaSatan - the satan), i guess Natasha has her own award committee lol

[@Regina770Managment]

@48:54 “You wanna be a wife, but are you a wife already? Where’d you learn how to be a wife? What do you bring to the table? Why should the man that you want, want you?” Thank you, Kevin. You provide questions and insight that many of us haven’t heard before.

[@MrBKuv]

I have learned so much from KS. He performs a great service.

[@Akeemtheceo]

Thank God for this guy work, a blessing to many, I honestly wouldn't have the patience for these woes. I rather die single and peaceful then deal with passed down stress. Peace is a man highest commodity. Wish you all peace n joy😇🙏🏿😎👊🏿💯🧘🏿‍♂️😎

[@s.r.hadden525]

Basically, if you’re selling your car and someone keeps acting like they are going to buy it keep coming around promising this and that at some point you are going to drop that prospect in favor of finding a potential buyer. If you keep entertaining buyers your cars value goes down. Potential buyers moved on. You dating life is no different

[@s.r.hadden525]

@Trey Most people understood where I was coming from, If your holding the car for someone who claims they are going to buy it, you can lose solid prospects. It happens all the time and you may have over priced it to begin with and someone else would have bought it. Car value drop by the minute you lose money the minute you drive it off the lot. Buy a car wait 40 days and take it back to where you got it from see what they will give you for it.

[@themasterteacher]

Also like this: Your statistics 📊 need to prove what you think 🤔 you deserve. Many 🚺 think 💭 that men 🚹 are 🆓‼️

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

Nah it’s more like you’re allowing them to drive it and put miles on it the whole time

[@s.r.hadden525]

@@IncredibleIceCastle LOL that is in there too bringing the value down, basically poop or get off the pot

[@Ruckerpark98]

@@IncredibleIceCastle yea they out here leasing the box and when the mileage is crazy and had some major issues to it (baby) now they want to sell it for new prices😂

[@StruggleBeard91]

Single mothers should date single fathers. They both have parental experiences, that a childless person doesn't have first-hand experience in.

[@darightpillswhitepills6096]

Preferably broke or average single fathers imo, cause single fathers with high value have options

[@sindylanes6983]

Nah I have no kids.. could care less to date a single father 🤢…high value my ass I’m never dating a single father.. stop having babies out of wedlock single fathers!

[@StruggleBeard91]

@@sindylanes6983 Single "Mothers"

[@darightpillswhitepills6096]

@@sindylanes6983 so you'd take a childless man who flips burgers over a six figure earning single father who takes care of his kids?

[@TheSuperchill97]

Yes!!!!!! I totally agree! It makes sense and it balances out.

[@spartanrealah2121]

There is nothing wrong with choosing duty over happiness especially considering happiness is a state of mind & a feeling that comes & go through out most marriages staying is worth it for your kids sake✊🏾🖤

[@spartanrealah2121]

@@benisroodI Agree 100% this is something we need to understand alot couples with children tend to invest in themselves more than their children I don't get that if 2 people that made children together can't find happiness in raising,supporting,loving & investing in their children there's some deeper issues rooted within

[@bhillboy37]

I think if wmn focused on the duty part, the happiness comes along with it. Once you take out the option to divorce or break up, you can find the happiness there.

[@spartanrealah2121]

@@bhillboy37 I 100% Agree this is fact men we value our legacy we are very protective of it I can't count how many times me & my wife was at odds but I just set back & looked at how she took care of our children & held the house down & despite being at odds I still have a sense of admiration for her & she has said the same to me also

[@jahkarimirza7286]

We need arranged marriages.

[@spartanrealah2121]

@@jahkarimirza7286 Modern-day black people would probably never go for that even though it makes sense it's amazing how we are the oldest Tribal people in the world but display the lest of those traits

[@justaguy8976]

it's such a hard task for most of these women to keep it under control for at least 30mins. They routinely try to act friendly and in order but it crumbles so fast.

[@chadricrobertson8496]

Bingo...

[@DTreatz]

When the mask slips

[@amandajelks2599]

Life is about negotiation. I have been married for 11 years. Our strong faith for our creator is what keeps us together. Our morals keep us disciplined as well groomed always.

[@LBxType1]

Ambiance, the fit and the soundtrack. It's a whole mood.

[@ericmontano1267]

41 yr male here. I've been married twice and now I'm gone solo. To small amount of women are marriage material the rest are trash. Will do what they need to do to catch you but once they get their hooks in make you life a living hell. I'm done. Good luck men.

[@marinachristodoulides3914]

what did they do ? also how long were you dating till you proposed ?

[@GoofyFlan]

Done tOO and been there TWO. It doesn't matter the ethnicity. American women have the same agenda.

[@marinachristodoulides3914]

@@GoofyFlan what agenda ?

[@GoofyFlan]

@@marinachristodoulides3914 What agenda? Are you an American woman? To give as little as they can to a man to get as much as they can from a man. That agenda.

[@marinachristodoulides3914]

@@GoofyFlan i am greek . i love to watch tho even tho i am far away ahaha

[@mungwebongumenzi1070]

Well firstly, Kevin has supreme taste in music.

[@roclang9118]

1:06:13 “I’m bringing me” I literally laughed out loud. Kevin should clip that sound byte 😂😂

[@devinblume5707]

I see it everyday with so many "strong independent women". I laugh at them. They think I'm crazy. I say let them either learn, or learn the hard way. 😆

[@julesfalcone]

@Christopher Surdak Every time I read a comment like yours I ask myself: "Why exactly am I not planning a vacation to Eastern Europe and meet an unadulterated woman, who actually appreciates men?"

[@CiluhStyle1]

🔥🔥😂😂

[@wattjock]

@Christopher Surdak ~ you are doing a disservice to your daughters teaching them that they are equal to a Man. Teaching them this will ensure they will grow up just like these Women calling in to this show. They are not equal to a Men. Teach them to be Women and Wives.

[@justinl9426]

I can't imagine the chaos of their lives. I can't imagine bringing that into my life.

[@Sagepage818]

Women put good men on the bench and wonder why they keep get played by the players.

[@H1GHD3FF]

Very gd analogy

[@chadricrobertson8496]

Holidays and hospital days,,,is ,when most women only self check,,then back to hot girl summer.*/*

[@canadianbrotv1303]

While on the bench those good men become players, or join the cc of a woman who wants a rotation

[@Ruckerpark98]

The Godfather looking like Quick😂. Very nice!

[@thaxtonwaters8561]

Quick You accuse me of stealing, now I have to steal yo face.__Vera

[@cinquentakhamseen3124]

“Quuuuuuuuuuuuiiiiiiiiccccckkkkkkkk’” 😂🤣🤣

[@julesfalcone]

@@thaxtonwaters8561 Mr11: great references everybody.

[@dondattaford5593]

KS has great image skill this dude is sharp always gleening something

[@erictoomer5665]

The “out of wedlock” stuff must stop, it’s just not a good deal as Kevin always says. If I see a woman that I’m remotely interested in physically and then I see a little one behind her… NEXT

[@dbxlkevsmith787]

And as men get older which is the danger zone for women that site gets Dreadful!

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

I don't really think women understand how detrimental it is.

[@GetCareless]

Facts

[@SeeLasSee]

Especially for boys. In schools today boys are put down increasingly for being impulsive. They are taught to be quiet and listen to girls, but not taught to listen to each other. Boys will need a fun and fair structure best provided by a father’s interactions.

[@dbxlkevsmith787]

@@SeeLasSee this is facts for men raising boys into men! If you could compare men and women to the lions! A male lion is stronger boulder more ferocious and have a bigger will than his mother and nobody has to tell him that it will come to him naturally! When he comes into his right age a disagreement with his mother or any older female will quickly show who has the power! Now you take those attributes they are the same for a human man and let a mother raise him With that emotional and impulsive energy! It makes a human man really dangerous because that power and will in a male dna makeup is not gone it’s just unstable now because a mother doesn’t have what it take to teach him like a father to keep that under control and stable. So That’s why you see women raised men Shooting, stabbing, and killing a woman with weapons when he could have just beat her so easily with his hands over the most senseless things which normally would have ended in name calling or just walking away normally because he has been groomed with no man around and in her impulsive emotional way of thinking that natural power and will in a human man dna can not be taught but it can tamed by another human man raising!

[@rairai574]

The women of past generations,.. has been saying this for years. But, I am glad u ladies are listening to Mr. Samuels. STOP HAVING CHILDREN OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE. CLOSE YOUR LEGS. FOCUS ON IMPROVING YOURSELF. STOP IGNORING ADVICE AND THINKING ANY ADVICE IS BASED ON HATE. SOME ADVICE IS BASED ON LOVE. PEOPLE TRULY CARE. MR. SAMUELS TRULY CARES, THE WOMEN OF PAST GENERATIONS TRULY CARE. Focus on loving God and Yourself. GOD BLESS :)

[@vchild]

Thanks for focusing on 34 and above. We need it. Great show ❤️

[@jbb8261]

58:40 was CHAOTIC! Kevin was trying to introduce accountability into her and her brain was just malfunctioning in real time. What a mess.

[@oddstuff6137]

Hallmark marketing really did something to women...

[@RobertDGordon]

All of these calls were chaotic.

[@jbb8261]

@@RobertDGordon no lies told

[@thegreatnessoftheraiders4948]

@@oddstuff6137 that’s good (no sarcasm).

[@azraelfirstofhisname8695]

I remember growing up as young boy and thinking Oh boy I can’t wait to take care of a another mans crumb snatchers.... Then I woke up from that awful nightmare 🤣

[@gw6496]

Good you did!!😆😆

[@Marschand]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 good one bro

[@juniorleslie4804]

My the sarcasm. Somebody has to be a step daddy. Didn't Brittany Renner said " It's Step daddy season " she is now opened.

[@dondattaford5593]

This man sounds Soo much like how my Dad spoke and alot of people feel like that's a quality dad telling us what's right and exposing that people are infallible my dad said that to me

[@essentialentities1272]

Our Fathers, Grand Fathers, Great Grand Fathers and Great Great Grand Fathers are Smiling upon you Mr. KS. Your services are doing a great work 100%.

[@kthomas8968]

My happiness as a man comes from making money, going boxing, hitting the gym. I meet my women as an already happy man. Why do women always expect us to 'make them happy'. We're not clowns or some form of entertainent.

[@Kenny-Alpha]

Lol word

[@jakaryreason8696]

They flat out expect us to do a magic trick when we first meet them.Treat me like the 50 guys before me that got the milk for free.

[@sugarcane2318]

I really enjoyed this after session. I also agree with Kevin when it came to the young lady getting married to her baby daddy. Grow up no one is perfect be wise we are only getting older after all

[@154angel154]

Brittany has been trying to talk to KS for "MUNTZ!"

[@314DatBoi]

Monster on the content.. 5 hours beast mode 💪🏾.. Speak truth to power. "It's called self-esteem " happiness comes from inside your-self

[@TheDCGuitar13]

When women start that “so you’re saying” crap, I say “so I’m saying I’m out”….

[@jhnxavier]

That *Cathy Newman* _(vs Jordan Peterson)_ style of discourse. Smh.

[@TheDCGuitar13]

@@jhnxavier bruh… that was aggravating to even remember lol

[@darcsun9766]

I just look at them like this 😐😐😐

[@JakeFromKushFarm]

If they begin the rebuttal with “Again, blah blah blah” Run 🏃‍♂️

[@kujokannibal7081]

Facts

[@welshhibby]

Love the show, sending my best wishes from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪

[@stuntinsteve]

The thing that bothers me the most about all these calls, especially the last caller is how so many shamelessly put their happiness above their children. She has two children who’s future she is completely disregarding because she couldn’t find her “happiness” with those children’s father. Trading Happiness for Broken Homes

[@keishapuryear8180]

Truth be told many women look down on women like me who remained married even in unhappy times. They see us as pitiful. Granted there may be many tears along the way but when my kids succeeded and ended up exponentially better than me, I fall asleep with a sigh of relief each night. They are worth it.

[@julesfalcone]

@RonYo Stuntinsteve: that's Solipsism.

[@JustGio1111]

I love how during these livestreams all of the people making $50+ an hour and are perfect come out 🤔 Interesting. (meaning the viewers…)

[@koreylr]

yep the top 3% of females all seem to call in

[@xf5236]

Also everyone is in therapy

[@treyparker3775]

Bruh Preach... everyone that calls in is making six figures🙄

[@jazminecunningham5891]

@@treyparker3775 😂😂😂 exactly I’m like so if your a top earner should be now issue finding other top others lmao

[@DeaconChriss]

It's 20k people watching, 10% of those people are 2000. So yeah it's very easy to get 2000 people making 50$ hr it's not that hard, you just need the skills.

[@CoachForsyth]

This is crazy, may God continue to bless and keep you in this game KS, one woman at a time. For gods sake ladies LISTEN to the question, and answer the question you are asked before adding your own thoughts....this is painful...

[@acesanders5035]

thank god for this!!!!!happiness comes from within!!!

[@alexblaze8878]

Kevin is the Dr Laura of the 90s. She ran a highly successful nationally-syndicated radio show where she handed out a lot of tough love relationship advice to women. They used different language but their points were largely the same. She had a lot of haters also.

[@mrshuxley1024]

I was thinking the same thing! I listen to Dr. Laura on SiriusXM almost everyday and when I heard Kevin, I immediately thought of Dr. Laura. Glad to know that someone else feels the same!

[@alexblaze8878]

@@mrshuxley1024 yes. Listened to her everyday during lunch until she went to XM. Didn’t have xm and couldn’t justify the cost at the time.

[@dawnhunter3807]

Yes very much so I loved Dr. Laura listened daily

[@JayEP86]

On my off days. Sometimes I sit up here with my mom, grandmother and one of my sister's watching the live stream. They are like wow from the women in here

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

Your mother and sister are/are still married?

[@miyagifatghost2684]

@@IncredibleIceCastle Lol savageeee

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

@@miyagifatghost2684 still waiting for a response 😂

[@JayEP86]

@@IncredibleIceCastle one of my sisters are married, and yes my mom is married. By the way she got married again at the age of 49

[@JayEP86]

@@IncredibleIceCastle you don't have to wait too long for a question. Been busy

[@CA-zr1kz]

This is beyond childhood trauma. Yes there are a lot of that but a lot of black girls from good homes are appropriating the struggles and culture of black girls who did go through a lot just because they share their skin color and it’s trendy and popular to be damaged and victims they think a good life is boring

[@CamaraTheCapitalist.]

Exactly

[@connieharris6553]

Exactly

[@cinquentakhamseen3124]

Yaaassssss oh my stars 😱 I’m so embarrassed to say, my daughter is trying the damaged life woa is me thing - Wow! I was blaming social media and those Boy’s accounts they create for “black” folks to follow and continue the propagation of self loathing and oh “I’m so damaged and toxic” wtf is happening 🤭

[@cinquentakhamseen3124]

@Millennial Master Diet I’m so happy you grabbed your inner happiness by the hand… My child is trying this with people she feels sorry for 😒

[@darightpillswhitepills6096]

Single mothers are cool for fun if that, but if I'm childless why would you think bringing kids as your package would be brownie points? Smh

[@Ruckerpark98]

At this point man it’s not even worth a 🥜. They are getting even more aggressive because they are now seeing and realizing they are only for fun. Just check the dating website. It’s in their bios😂

[@darightpillswhitepills6096]

@@Ruckerpark98 I reread your comment couple times and couldn't spot one lie! 📠📠📠📠

[@Bidness100]

@@Ruckerpark98 Facts

[@jasonmdoty2981]

Stockholm love what a song. Thank you good sir along with your information and message.

[@cassidyladden1716]

It’s stuck on love, but I agree!

[@ricktaylor14001]

How prophetic, almost at the end of this show, the last caller asks him “how are you Kevin” and his reply: “I’m about to have an aneurism from you women”. That’s so SAD! He literally did a few months later. No question it was caused from all the Red Bull he drank, but honestly… the “Black Bull” he got from so many modern women, that’s what got him. 😢

[@kevindunlap5525]

It wasn't necessarily the Red Bull, some people with high blood pressure that is treated, can handle a lot of caffeine etc. I've heard that he may have gone the way he really deserved to. RIP GF

[@lucky2516]

He should've listened to his own advices then maybe just maybe he'd still be with us, RIP 😢

[@iWorkTheHardest]

Lady with tattoo: “It says beautiful…” KS: 😐😗😬 😂😂😂😂

[@Meetoss76]

😂😂😂😂

[@kunlejohnson90]

Yes beautiful but childish

[@willp3561]

"You don't get a prince charming after you been fucking around with a toad" Priceless!

[@stephencottrell9198]

THANK YOU KEVIN FOR CONSISTENTLY EXPLAINING TO WOMEN, NOBODY COMES TO SAVE MEN, DONT KNOW WHY WOMEN THINK WE COMING TO SAVE THEM. 💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊🌍

[@Tendedsheeep]

Sad truth is they will get bailed out. A lot of people think they will get held Out to dry but they really won’t. The system is going toward a future being built for this

[@stephencottrell9198]

@@Tendedsheeep maybe. I feel like if they ever legalize sex work, we can say goodbye to these broads forever. Keep it transactional and focused on the money.

[@dianemoore-eubanks7130]

I love the way you are speaking with the 2nd woman, 31 year old. You are correct Physician heal thyself

[@shidddwhotoldyouthat]

CANT NOBODY MAKE YOU HAPPY, YOU HAVE TO MAKE HAPPY AND THAT COMES FROM WITHIN

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Duty always supersedes happiness. I wish people today understood that. They’re so worried about themselves when the children are more important than the mom or dads happiness. Then we act surprised that kids don’t go into the world prepared.

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[@CA-zr1kz]

My heart hurts for the one lady that called in that was raped and is in a relationship and thinks that Kevin is shaming her or devaluing her. She doesn’t understand what Kevin is talking about

[@Remember-Death]

That poor woman needed some serous therapy A LONG TIME AGO. She came on-screen and dropped too much info that wasn't relevant to the conversation.

[@antoniotula262]

Something was off there, she def needs/ has needed therapy. I thought she was on something.

[@tramekn]

So sad

[@chrislacy1990]

(Skip to 30:50) Is it me, or does Tierre’s voice sound like the “Hey, big head!” drop? 🤣

[@LadyKaydabs]

She is just so annoying! Moving around, fixing her hair, head nodding, pouting lips.... ma'am... your not cut--- *phone dies*... 🤣🤣

[@julesfalcone]

@@LadyKaydabs why do you use Beyonce for your avatar?

[@deecee9741]

"I didn't sign up for this!" Yes you did. It's for better or WORSE. There is the disclaimer you sign for in the contract, so, pick wisely, apply yourself fully so that there is more BETTER, than the 'worse' that can be doled out in this here deal. 😉✌🏼

[@mmontgomery383]

Two kids and now she is unhappy. When she started crying I screamed!! Then she felt she was settling...DELUSIONAL

[@elizabethjohnson7172]

The young lady with the 2 yr old, seems to know all the right answers……she blowing smoke…won’t take any action.

[@Ruckerpark98]

Fear🤷🏾.

[@theroyaltradesmen93]

This episode was fire and the god father is on god mode. Kevin keeps the cleanest suits at all time. I need to up my suit game

[@jailoml]

Now he is rotting in his coffin with the red bull he drank seeping out of his body

[@theroyaltradesmen93]

@@jailoml thank you for the support, subscribe to the channel

[@SymGenie]

Its so curious how many callers have a dirty home but come in talking about other people's homes. My wife asks why I watch these and my response is always the same. To understand whats going on in the world because we have been together for a couple decades and we are out of touch. I need the knowledge to forewarn my daughters and son so they dont become like these ladies and my son understands what to expect and all the red flags and dangers exist out there.

[@MichiganMan923]

I said the exact same thing to my wife 💯.

[@antoniotula262]

Very wise, your normal might not be the same normal your children's peers are experiencing. As they interact, they may lower their standards thinking that is normal. Scary times.

[@keishapuryear8180]

Exactly why I watch these. I agree with some aspects and disagree with others, but we're raising a daughter and need to prepare her for the reality she will face

[@julesfalcone]

@@keishapuryear8180 Sym: exactly. People didn't think like this in the 90's. It's like watching an alien civilization.

[@Mrs.DanielsIRL]

It really works both ways. When I was unmarried, I had a guy friend I met through work. We went on to be friends for 5 years and during our friendship he confessed he was actually in love with me and wanted to get married to me. However, he was a divorce' and also had a baby mom. Granted his kids were older so he didn't have any drama with the mothers. However, I couldn't imagine becoming a wife and stepmom all at once all the while I am childless myself. My "best friends" at the time tried convincing me to get married because he loved me so much and would treat me right. But I refused to settle for someone who already had all their first times with other people. I am now married to my husband who doesn't have any kids and desires me to be his FIRST EVERYTHING. Moral of the story in my opinion like should marry like. Its less complicated and everyone gets what they want.

[@Allaboutthe80s]

Can we talk about Kevin's great taste in music? I love all of the songs he plays in all of his videos. I wish he posted all the titles and artists.❤