My wife and I have spent the 5 last years paying off our debt. We had close to $200k of non-mortgage debt when we started, and are on the final $12,000 which will be paid off by spring. Its difficult. We skipped a honeymoon, havent gone on any vacations in those 5 years, and tons of other small cuts. Really looking forward to crossing that finish line.
@thedude50405 күн бұрын
Keep going! We were at $100k and sleep so much better now that we're on the other side.
@britneythomas31515 күн бұрын
Started with 112k and down to 32k. Will be done by April 2025!! Keep going! You got this!
@M_SC5 күн бұрын
Admirable
@ivanvarykino82025 күн бұрын
Great job to you! I remember what a huge accomplishement it felt like when my wife and i paid off our non mortgage debt and actually built a $5k emergency fund. It seemed to take forever. And once we had it, we never wanted to go back to that earlier situation.
@liabw054 күн бұрын
Good for you! Soon you will get to reap the rewards
@braxtontwist82746 күн бұрын
Shoutout to the first guy’s transparency
@M_SC5 күн бұрын
I related to him a lot
@ivanvarykino82025 күн бұрын
Yup, he was actually doing great. Now he should just begin to invest in a low cost simple s&p index fund so he's got something to build on. It's amazing how you can build momentum over time and prioritize on your financial goals once you take that first step 👍
@triciamool81574 күн бұрын
he was so likable and real, and it's not easy to say you need help like this, kudos to this guy.
@xbeautyxxkillzx4 күн бұрын
He needs to get out of debt first
@DomsPokeMMO-tf4tj7 күн бұрын
That one lady with 50k in credit card debt, but she has 60k in investments is a massive face palm. Credit card debt has super high interest rates and should be paid off immediately with whatever she has.
@ProjectFrugal6 күн бұрын
100% - A bad move on her part. Economics 101 !
@912912patriot6 күн бұрын
Unless your investments have a rate of return equal to or greater than the rate of interest on your credit cards, which is probably around 25%, it’s lunacy to keep the investments in lieu of getting out of credit card debt which is the absolute worst debt on the planet. With that mindset, she will be in credit card debt for a lifetime, even if he doesn’t charge another dime in the next 40 years!!!!!!!!
@badgerboyEA6 күн бұрын
It was tricky to follow what she was saying, but I ultimately think the 60k is probably in a retirement account, because she said she doesn't have an emergency fund. Overall her and her boyfriend's lack of urgency with that debt is shocking. They are trying to ignore it so they can work on flashier goals... but you can't build very tall without a foundation before it will all crash back down.
@HappyPenguin750346 күн бұрын
They shouldn’t be shopping!
@LawrenceTimme6 күн бұрын
She was probably lying or it's in 401k and it would be worse to take it out.
@PInk77W14 күн бұрын
10 financial rules 1 have a written budget 2 ride a city bus 3 eat at home 4 save 5 invest n S&P 500 6 shop at thrift stores 7 no credit cards 8 no loans 9 buy bulk when possible 10 don’t worry what others think
@alvarodias683 күн бұрын
I would only say put #10 as #1 and everything else flows from there. 😊
@santiagonunez62942 күн бұрын
Crypto, specifically BTC and ICP and you'll be good to go 💯
@Qqxx22Күн бұрын
I like this
@TimmyCramer5 күн бұрын
Date night to me is at Costco and that includes the ice cream after the hotdog! Debt free 20 yrs!!
@aladdin8885 күн бұрын
LOL!!! I'm right there with you, only I go to Sam's Club. Get a yourgut at the cafe & hit up the sample people. No debt, semi-retired, 33 years self employed, net worth $4.9M. ALWAYS LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS!!
@TimmyCramer5 күн бұрын
@aladdin888 You're Winning!!!
@PInk77W14 күн бұрын
Smart
@melaniemcconnell18284 күн бұрын
No shame there! I'm right there with you!
@dgmcfadden20065 күн бұрын
Retiring next year at 58. Zero debt. Started investing in various equities at 18, budget, max spending 80%, save 20%. Understand deferred gratification. Our money makes more than we do. Do the same, never touch it, and you too will be have a wonderful life in retirement.
@AznPrzsn5 күн бұрын
Congrats! Or at least understand moderation in all things. Like it's fine to spend 80% as long as you're saving that 20% religiously. And of course those % should reflect and prioritize savings/retirement goals first and foremost. For me I'm saving 35%, Spending 30% on necessities, and the rest is emergency/fun money.
@13Voodoobilly695 күн бұрын
💯🎯
@44Mag2 күн бұрын
You are winning!
@passdagabagoul43695 күн бұрын
The “I’m doing it” moment at 3:00 is awesome. Most people meet fear and run. Doing is the only cure to fear
@M_SC5 күн бұрын
Yes! Challenge yourself! It’s the only way. But not so much it traumatizes you either. And don’t force it on others
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@michael-strohl5 күн бұрын
married to a guy in finance and you have 30k in credit card debt is wild!
@Gandalf173 күн бұрын
she hopes he pays her debt .
@rjaymanguino27608 сағат бұрын
Just cause you’re a finance guy doesn’t mean you’re good at personal finance.
@XoseGuitar5 күн бұрын
$30k CC debt...swinging retail bag literally in hand.
@KurtisB6 күн бұрын
Man. That first couple. 😣 $30k in credit card debt, $75k in student loans and they’re only making the minimum payments. They’re going to be in debt for the rest of their lives at that pace. 😔
@machinesnmetal6 күн бұрын
$600 a month for 30 years. He's gonna be 60 before it's paid., she's going to be long gone.
@Boblib19706 күн бұрын
@@machinesnmetal I've been there. He will be okay. Over time as his income improves he will start knocking that debt down, and I doubt he's still paying on it at 60. I don't know where this notion that you should be able to pay off your student loan debt immediately after graduation came from, but it's not reality. It never has been.
@steveshow-tos53946 күн бұрын
@@Boblib1970Agreed. I’m 43 and still have student loan debt. A lot of it. But it takes a back seat to paying off the credit card bill monthly (I put everything I can on my card for points/miles and zero it out monthly), saving for (and having now bought) a house, and saving for retirement. I just see it as an extra 10% tax I’ll pay until retirement for the opportunity to work a career I enjoy. On my plan, I’m essentially broke after all my payments, but I’ll have my mortgage & student loans paid off at 60 and will have an okay retirement nest egg due to compounding interest in my 401k, IRA, and HSA. Wish I had more to pay off my student loans sooner, but I’m not willing to forego building a little retirement stash and paying the house down at a rate that’ll make me mortgage free in retirement. So it’s slow and steady on multiple fronts for me.
@jeremygermenis80366 күн бұрын
She is waiting for Mr Right to come along.
@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist6 күн бұрын
@@Boblib1970No one is saying to pay it off immediately after graduation, though if you have the ability, you should. We all understand that if you have a job, ideally you use your college degree job to pay down your debt within a couple years. But its a lot of people that never pay anything more than the minimum monthly payment, and they lose a lot of money due to interest.
@Boblib19706 күн бұрын
It is good to see a video with young people who are so well adjusted and on their way. So much of what you see of people that age group is the negative side with massive debt, no savings, and low income, and little hope that you get the feeling that it's everyone. It's refreshing to know that they're going to be okay.
@NanetteLoves2Budget9 күн бұрын
Fantastic job! I’m so glad Sebastian supported you and helped to get you out there. Great job in the interviews. You are a natural!
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@larryjones97734 күн бұрын
$212,000 mortgage debt. 63, single and retired with $2,600,000 in savings. Grew up dirt poor on a farm. We didn't have a toilet or bathroom until I was 10. Consequently, I've been a saver.
@Joe-ti7qd2 күн бұрын
You didn't save. You inherited. Quit lying.
@larryjones97732 күн бұрын
@@Joe-ti7qd I did inherit $100,000 in 2019. The rest, is from my savings. I never realized I'd have this much, either. It's due to the stock market and most importantly, compound growth. I retired in 2009, with only $400,000. Since then, the stock market has done quite well. Einstein called compound growth the eighth wonder of the world. It truly is magic. p.s. $1,500,000 of my savings is in a Roth IRA. I've been doing Roth conversion for ten years, and I have four years to go. Roth conversion mixed with a cash-out refinanced mortgage can be very lucrative. Another guy I've chatted with is similar to me (age 60) and his savings balance is $11,000,000, so he's done much better than me. He did just do a large Roth conversion and paid $2,500,000 in taxes, so his savings balance is now down to $8,500,000. He's a bigger risk taker than me, with 100% invested in Nvidia. I simply invest in the S&P500.
@lmanderson201210 күн бұрын
This was great! You're helping to normalize talking about money.
@libbysworld764910 күн бұрын
Leila, you're a pro! 4 years ago I would have declined this interview. Today, I am an open book!
@80jmbrown4 күн бұрын
Bravo for facing fear and rejection!! It's really eye opening how financially unfit so many people are. I was there too at one point, so no judgment. I hope more people are inspired to start working towards being financially fit. Their future selves will thank them
@JaronPope6 күн бұрын
Girl, this was awesome. Great job. We need more of these real world interviews. Loved it!
@leonardoacosta42295 күн бұрын
This video is impressive; it shows how everyday people view their finances and the psychology behind it. Great Job!
@Gypsyrose176 күн бұрын
As an MUCH older person, I really enjoyed this. I was recently laid off and my more frugal ways in my later years is the only thing that saved me. I paid off the last of my debt during the Pandemic, when many were taking advantage of different deferment payment options. Being let go from a job is never a joy, but at least you can breathe without having additional expenses than the norm. Great content , as it is ‘true life’. 👍🏽
@jsb915710 күн бұрын
Nice job! Very brave going out of your comfort zone like this...shout-out to Sebastian for his support and help!!
@robertmorris257610 күн бұрын
Awesome, Leila! Really would like more videos like this!! Great job.
@ehderguyyashootadeerorno23135 күн бұрын
I'm 38 years old. $260k in mortgage on a $425k house, and $60k in mortgage on 80 wooded acres. $525k in the stock market. No other debt. 2025 goal is to eliminate most of the hunting land mortgage.
@M_SC5 күн бұрын
It was so nice of people to be open. We can learn from knowing what everyone else is doing. Learn empathy if nothing else
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Yes, so very grateful for them!
@Tashas_Travels10 күн бұрын
I absolutely loved this video, big ups to Sebastian 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@GyasiBarber2 күн бұрын
Watched part 2 and now this 1. You are so brave doing this! It's very challenging. I would recommend having more open ended questions (Who/What/Where/Why/How) rather than questions people can answer with a yes/no!
@davidgerke71508 күн бұрын
I LOVE this format. The street interview style is what drew me to Caleb Hammer's channel in his early days. Would love to see more of this.
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Glad you like it! It's not easy but I am hoping to do it more!
@EmmaArsenault9 күн бұрын
Awesome video! You were out of your comfort zone but so were many of the people you interviewed in the video! I think it's great to promote more open conversation around finances.
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@atxgurl0010 күн бұрын
Props for putting yourself out there Leila! Definitely a tough topic to get people to open up about but you handled it like a champ! 👏🏽
@thomaschambless44585 күн бұрын
Y'all did a great job with this. I know you were uncomfortable but you put your guests at ease. This was super interesting. Keep it up!
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@DanForsman-r2d6 күн бұрын
Would have thought only people doing well would have done the interview. Good that people without great financial profiles are willing to share! This type of interview provides food for thought for the majority who aren't on top of their finances. The first step to change is taking an honest look at where you need to focus to achieve your goals.
@aprilwoodworth50345 күн бұрын
Loved this!!! Please do it again, might I suggest first and foremost asking people name, age and what they do for a living
@SaraBudgetOrganized...ish...10 күн бұрын
Well done, very brave going out asking people and for the people answering.
@paulc78845 күн бұрын
I used to love audit on the street so I’m glad to see this type of content return.
@lollie38710 күн бұрын
Great job! Awesome of you going out of your comfort zone. These small steps help build confidence in all areas😊
@rebeccaoliver79775 күн бұрын
It's all about delayed gratification. It is so worth it in the long run.
@53briley6 күн бұрын
Imagine paying interest on 30k credit card debt while having 60k in investments and dating someone in "finance"
@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist6 күн бұрын
Well… its possible the finance guy told her to sell 30k worth to pay off CC debt, but she didnt listen. Though if I was dating someone… and they didnt listen and were in that situation, dating them might be very hard… you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make them drink it, as it twere. Though if he never mentioned that… I would question his financial skills.
@DannyBowen255 күн бұрын
@@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist Depends on the investments. If the investments are pre-tax for instance, it doesnt make sense to pull out for a penalty just to pay down debt. Depending on the plan. The devils in the details. You can take a loan against a 401k, but thats not exactly free either. Probably a better way, but we dont know.. maybe its in some IRA that cant be used without penalties.
@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist5 күн бұрын
@@DannyBowen25 That would be the only exception is if it was a retirement account, but thats not what she made it sound like.
@micker98305 күн бұрын
She is probably talking about a 401K. But yes, only a moron would not pay off the credit card debt.
@Britt48805 күн бұрын
I mean, if she takes out of her 401k she’d have to pay a 10% tax penalty. So if her CC interest is 25%, but her investments are 15% returns, it evens out. Stopping contributions is another story but that also comes with discipline to put that money towards the debt full stop. I think there’s also a key point that retirement money is NOT meant to be taken out for anything other than retirement, hence the penalty. It can give people the mental permission moving foreword and screw them long term.
@rebeccareyes77610 күн бұрын
Great video! Thanks to Sebastian for encouraging you!
@kp3509Күн бұрын
I am 52 and I have mortgage debt with 26 more years to go. We have to all be on top of our finances as a priority.
@FitTechLyfe10 күн бұрын
Love your bravery!! Keep it up, do more of these!!!
@dominique97110 күн бұрын
This was great! It’s awesome to get a glimpse at normal people’s financial position (what they’re willing to share). Good job getting out of your comfort zone!
@budgetandbalance10 күн бұрын
The more you do it, the better you get!!! Love this format for a video!
@Kalvain147 күн бұрын
This is a great video! I really like this kind of content. Kudos to you for getting out there!
@PersonalFinancewithLeila7 күн бұрын
Thank you!! 😊
@beckypetersen26806 күн бұрын
That was really encouraing for me to see young people who are being smart with their money! It is such a wonderful contrast to the typical TikToks who are always so negative.
@kh8844882 күн бұрын
Great job with this. It may be easier to get people to share their personal finances on the public internet if they can hold an umbrella or fan to block their face. I wouldn't be willing to share these kind of details in a public forum without some assurance of anonymity.
@debbieconnelly44319 күн бұрын
I LOVE this kind of content. It's so entertaining, and I it's cool to see how others are doing financially.
@denise_pra9 күн бұрын
You can be so proud for stepping out of your comfort zone 🎉 I can only imagine how uncomfortable I‘d feel! But love the video! 😊
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thanks so much Denise 😊
@larryjones97734 күн бұрын
Good topic. People rarely talk about their finances. Terrifying!
@123keepitsimple973 күн бұрын
As of this summer, everything I own, including my home, is paid off; it is a dream come true for me
@AllNighterHeider4 күн бұрын
This is an awesome video series!!! I love the guy talking about using credit cards for delta, I may the only one to understand what he said? Questions: Is this series your idea, or did you borrow it from somewhere? Can I borrow this idea with your blessing? This is great, ill be watching more of these. And great name, spelled correctly too
@ek60073 күн бұрын
1st Couple - Dating a finance bro, holding high-interest consumer debt but have $60K invested and no emergency fund. Neither of them seem to know what they're doing despite their "higher education."
@Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql5 күн бұрын
Honestly, it is sad to hear some of these younger people that have high student loan debt. It is good to talk about your finances. I had to retire early from my career due to health issues and I couldn't have done it if I wasn't debt free. It took me 2 years to recover to the point that I could effectively work part time. I don't need to work but I enjoy being involved and meeting people. Your boyfriend is correct, you should step out of your comfort zone. Try new things. The earlier part of my career I stuck with what I knew, about 7 years before I was forced to retire I expanded my horizons and it became pretty lucrative. Best Wishes on your endeavors and Merry Christmas.
@daniellegasper22894 күн бұрын
This was interesting! Thank you for going into it if your comfort zone and doing it.
@jessicatounkara875310 күн бұрын
I love this. Do more of these videos.
@diana_loz598610 күн бұрын
so glad u didn’t give up! that looked like fun! 🤩
@joygraves93016 күн бұрын
Thank you for doing this! Love hearing their stories. Love your boldness and courage. New subscriber here! 😊
@lauriechan29668 күн бұрын
Well done chica! Keep up the great work. Really enjoyed the honesty from people in the video.
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@galupproperties30986 күн бұрын
I lowkey wanna do this so much. Personal finance is literally my #1 interest.
@hexxlaxx29926 күн бұрын
Hi from Ontario Canada I fell on your video. Great job but it's sad to see so many people in debt. Keep up your good work!!!
@catgodfrey645110 күн бұрын
U go girl😊❤😊 I’d 💜 to see more of these. Sebastian so supportive
@melissafranco491810 күн бұрын
I love these type of videos! Make more please :)
@TheMightyAgency6 күн бұрын
To the lady with 30K CC debt and 60K investment, that's not a wise situation. Unless you're a high risk taker with individual names in your portfolio, the chance of you earning a higher percentage (post capital gain tax) than your CC charge is very low. It's understandable to have emergency fund but doing so while not paying down your CC is not a sound choice. I get the benefit of compounding in your investment but so is the CC balance. I know to many people spending on CC can be unavoidable but know that this is the second WORST thing you can do with personal finance, the first being payday loan. That cap on CC interest rate is not going to happen. That's just election year talk.
@amendezmuniz10 күн бұрын
Great Job! 😊 a good mix of interview
@BlueBug-s9l4 күн бұрын
Good job, boyfriend. As a local it was quite interesting. Always enjoy the sights on the belt line.
@melissarodriguez453110 күн бұрын
Great job Leila 👏🏽💕 amazing effort and video 🎉
@denorrisd6 күн бұрын
Loved this segment great job getting out of your comfort zone
@dcookou6 күн бұрын
Love this type of content. You’re a great interviewer. Thank you
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@nicoletolmie320110 күн бұрын
Great video!! Well done, Leila!!
@deb2be58210 күн бұрын
Awesome, Loved it, please do more!!!
@Justchilling826110 күн бұрын
Love this!!! Very well done
@thehoteldeveloper6 күн бұрын
First time I've ever seen you. Keep doing this!
@amendezmuniz10 күн бұрын
🎉 Great Job Sebastian
@AT-fp3sg6 күн бұрын
You did good! It's also interesting to hear about different financial situations of the people living nearby. I love that area but we don't go into the city much!
@orbitthewonderdog6 күн бұрын
More of this pleaaaaaase! You did great! :)
@sonialofton55268 күн бұрын
Leila, you did well! I enjoyed this type of video. Nice job! 🎉
@PersonalFinancewithLeila7 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!! Glad you liked it!
@DebtFreeJessie9 күн бұрын
You're so brave, Leila!! Loved this style video. Those puppies😍
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thanks Jessie 🤗
@ConserveMore3 күн бұрын
This was really well done!
@AdamNicol-o8j2 күн бұрын
I find it's better to tackle one thing at a time, like pay of one debt aggressively. Then move on to the next one, then save an emergency fund of 3-6 months of expenses. I won't ever live without an emergency fund ever again! BTW a credit card or credit line is NOT an emergency fund!
@ludens15265 күн бұрын
I subbed before the video started I’ve been looking for something like this
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thank you!! I'll definitely make more of these but gotta wait for some warmer weekends!
@ludens15264 күн бұрын
@ for sure this is could be a big series
@randallblizzard6 күн бұрын
Love these videos. I’ve been practicing the Kaikebo method for my expense tracking. It works for me.
@alexandercorley5 күн бұрын
Great job with these interviews.
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! 😊
@faxbullog83615 күн бұрын
Fresh perspective. Subbed.
@densrier6 күн бұрын
Great job! I would have also been out of my comfort zone, but I would have stopped & answered your questions.
@jasonbowman7096 күн бұрын
Great job, keep these coming!
@Cormin6 күн бұрын
So many of these people don't seem honest. Dude with $2k credit card debt, $5k in savings, makes $100k but he's preaching being frugal? What?
@dcookou6 күн бұрын
I noticed that too
@Boblib19706 күн бұрын
He also said that he pays it off every month. Maybe he uses his CC for all of his monthly purchases and that 2k is an estimate of what his current balance is?
@Landmeinz5 күн бұрын
Talking about money will break your brain
@macedaking5 күн бұрын
Sounds like just invests all his money. He is in finance after all.
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
I cut this part out but he lives right there in the city, which is quite expensive/month. He said he pays off his cc bill each month. I can believe that he is frugal and is investing quite a bit
@stefflores10 күн бұрын
Great job! I would love to see more of this! 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@PersonalFinanceWithAshtyn9 күн бұрын
I love this Leila! YES! Get out of your comfort zone! I have a tattoo that says “seek discomfort” and it’s my reminder that getting out of my comfort zone is what will help me to grow and be better. So I love this for you!😍☺️ you got this girl!!
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Ashtyn! ❤️
@meganann61994 күн бұрын
10:37 The dogs are like "bit** you interrupting my walkies!"
@justinbediako315510 күн бұрын
My Fav kind of Vids! Excellent Job. Thank you
@Voodoo_Kudzu4 күн бұрын
Nice work, host. Keep it up!
@brigitterolens9 күн бұрын
This was so cool and different!! Great video
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thanks so much!!
@truckyeah4 күн бұрын
This was great! Good job 👍
@MidlifeMoneyMoves5 күн бұрын
You’re doing great with these!!
@PersonalFinancewithLeila5 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@analisamendmentblog9 күн бұрын
Loved this video! Definitely do more like it!
@ThePowerOfTheChain2 күн бұрын
i love this please do more
@tobirama289810 күн бұрын
I agree with the others, loved this! Definitely something worth being done once a while! :p
@gwendolynantionette43379 күн бұрын
Good job!!! This was great content.
@PersonalFinancewithLeila8 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@braxtontwist82746 күн бұрын
Shoutout to the boyfriend for the support. Dope couple shit
@nelly.alqaisi10 күн бұрын
Love this Leila!!!
@J.Young8084 күн бұрын
1:26 $10-20k is not almost payed off dude. I thought he was going to say at most $2,000.