Petty Revenge Weddings ! - REACTION

[@simoneskiffers4073]

I think it’s safe to say we ALL cheered at the end for the groom, he dodged a big one for sure!

[@chrissyxx21]

Unfortunately he had a big bill to pay for that bullet to be dodged. Fingers crossed she doesn't try and get back into his life with a "I am pregnant and its yours" bs that I know she is capable of. I don't knoe OP or the bride but orchestrating all of that so the grooms younger siblings will not be in the groom party abd bridal party respectively, it feels like the "I am pregnant and its yours" lie would be far easier for her to concoct.

[@flavialm1]

He didn't, there's one more update, she came back and said she was pregnant, so they love back in together and she is constantly posting happy pictures online, but the brother looks miserable in real life. Op commented to her sister that the brother never wanted children and she said this was nothing a couple missed pills couldn't fix. Bride and her sister are best friends.

[@vikkilooper4075]

@@flavialm1 that marriage is gonna wind up in a nasty divorce

[@tracey-annwisdom2874]

@@flavialm1 Poor guy. I hope he asked for a DNA test. That woman is clearly insane.

[@SherriLyle80s]

Hope he got the marriage annulled

[@Hannahtheseal]

I started out like “girl don’t go” and I ended absolutely THRILLED that she did

[@danielleking262]

I was wondering why she spent money on TWO bridesmaids dresses, but now I see the awesome petty revenge. 🔥🔥🔥

[@theblob4741]

If she didn’t go, her brother might not have noticed some red flags 🚩 or maybe he would have anyway, we’ll never know 🤷‍♀️

[@sammieg8641]

I have to say idk what experiences ppl have had with sorority girls… but my girls would have never dreamed of doing this

[@ChosenGemInEye]

I'm just happy the brother saw the truth instead of taking the partners side like he initially did.

[@jarsofpaperstars]

@@ChosenGemInEye unfortunately they’re still together though, with a baby on the way even though the groom was very adamant in not wanting children. It’s extremely worrying after reading this: “ I recently spoke with my sister on the phone and mentioned how this was very strange to me that they’re announcing a pregnancy. She said, and this is a quote, “well there’s nothing forgetting a pill here and there can’t fix if you want to get your way, you know.” My response was that’s basically sexual abuse and she scoffed at me for saying it’s anything similar.” It’s not concrete, but after everything else they did to his siblings, I really wouldn’t put it past them. Now he’s trapped even though he’s starting to regret this. This could’ve been avoided if he and multiple other people weren’t so quick to dismiss the siblings. I’d say the siblings should’ve compiled all the evidence they had and shown him before it was too late, but I highly doubt anyone would even hear them out, both families behaviour has made it pretty clear they’re the black sheep. I just feel so bad for OP and her other brother cause everyone around them blamed them for problems they had no control over. The family consciously screwed them over, and then manipulated everyone else into isolating or berating them. I hope their close family either sincerely apologises for treating them like shit and makes it up to them, or get cut off entirely if they refuse to change. This story is full of horrendous behaviour for no good reason, they deserve to be with people who truly care for them and are willing to listen.

[@mage1439]

That last story enraged me. These people wanted to exclude everybody from their little club (like who the f would ever want to be part of it anyway?) and somehow convinced the groom that both his brother and sister were the problem (and he should have smelled the hot fish in the glove compartment here, so he has some blame). The whole time I was screaming "don't go" but in the end by persisting she helped her brother see what a rotten bunch he'd gotten involved with AND ruined their fun time at the wedding AND the honeymoon, so good on her for being more dedicated than I ever would.

[@amandabaker4678]

Unfortunately, there was another update, even though they were not planning on having kids, the bride got pregnant - so now the brother is back with her!

[@Boahemaa]

i smell a trap i mean rat😅

[@nildam.bonilla5849]

@@amandabaker4678 are we sure is the groom's and not from the best man? Cause those 2 seem to belong together

[@whyamihere1563]

@@amandabaker4678 and OP's mother is so wonderful that she actually forgot about ever giving birth to OP.

[@Poefeathyr]

@@nildam.bonilla5849 I think the best man was the bride's brother but I would have to listen again, yeah 12:12

[@cellisings3469]

If she would have said something like: "You might wonder why there a re blue flowers instead of the white ones. Well, since you so gracefully chose my wedding to announce your engagement, I chose your wedding to announce my pregnancy. I'm having a boy btw." Would embarass the bride even more

[@myriampro4973]

That sounds petty. She shared the joy of the pregnancy, like they shared their happiness with her. That sounds better, LOL.

[@MalO.ver1.0.x]

@@myriampro4973 Unfortunately, sarcasm isn't something many people seem to understand, so if she couldn't have pulled it off well enough, people might actually believe that she was seriously happy for these douchebags. lol

[@terra_the_nightingale135]

@@myriampro4973 “that sounds petty” Well that is what we’re here for to be fair 😂

[@vroxxzz]

​@@terra_the_nightingale135 no we wanna BE petty but appear innocent so they can't knock the pettiness - very annoying for the other person 😁

[@phoenixrising7777]

@@vroxxzz I would argue though that having an explanation could make you look better because most people know it’s tacky to announce stuff like that (especially on a slide show and with the flowers) at a wedding (totally get why she did it given circumstances). By mentioning what the bride did, it could give more context to an act that would normally vilify her.

[@donkeykong1336]

it’s crazy how mature the medical student was, so classy, you have to believe they were jealous of her, and what a trashy bridal party

[@Ciborium]

How trashy/snooty does a family have to be to declare a *medical student* the "black sheep" of the family?

[@SaintShion]

Good dr.s have to have patience cause their literally signing up for a lifetime of helping people like the bride.

[@nyotauhura7412]

It was homophobia. Basically both the OP's family and the bride's family are very homophobic. The brother (groom) got baby trapped despite being child free.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Yeah, that was mind blowing. Why would they want her to show up in the wrong dress color? I'm also confused about why the bridal shop they're purchasing dresses from isn't keeping track of this info. When I was most recently in a bridal party, the shop made an account for the bride and uploaded the styles and colors she liked the best from our appointment. Then the bride was asked to make a final decision, and the shop emailed all of us with links to purchase the dress/color the bride had picked. Our size recommendation was also listed based on the measurements they took, but we could have ordered any size at that point. Also isn't the OP's own sister in the bridal party? Even if the bride and bride's friends have decided to bully OP, you'd think the sister would give her the info she needed.

[@firestarhk3875]

Yes I was wondering about that sister. She’s the only one of the groom’s siblings that wasn’t bullied by everybody else…why? And I guess the implication here was sister was either involved in the plan or was told like the groom that their siblings had dropped out? Toxic af…glad he didn’t marry her in the end.

[@hermeticbear]

That surprise pregnancy announcement wasn't petty revenge, this was pro revenge.

[@aussiefamily4886]

Hell yeah lol it was so good

[@lizthedisjointedzebra692]

Lol, yup

[@LastKatanaGirl]

I'm kinda wondering if she got pregnant just for the revenge...

[@elishamk88]

Revenge level: legendary 😎💀

[@k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181]

Pro gamer PETTY.

[@lizpantelis]

The whole time the dress color story was going on I was screaming in my head for her to call and ask the bridal salon hahaha. I'm so happy she did.

[@priyankagovender2682]

The fact that that bride even cried....wow....though she knew

[@fermitupoupon1754]

Every time I hear a story about a wedding like that, where the bride (and possibly groom as well) think they can dictate how others have to spend their own money on suits and dresses that they will most likely never wear again is just ridiculous. The sheer entitlement behind the idea that you can demand someone spend $$$ on a dress for just 1 day is insane. Same with expensive restaurants and the likes. Yes I get it's your wedding, your very special day. But it's still my money. I didn't go to my sister's wedding dinner, because I refuse to spend 250+ per person on a single dinner. Same with my brother's wedding at the church his wife attends. Super strict dress code, none of which was even remotely near my closet. They weren't willing to budge and the cheapest rental tux to even approach the dress code was over 100 euro for the 1 day. So hard noped out of that as well.

[@lizpantelis]

@@fermitupoupon1754 I don't know what all this has to do with my comment but yeah I paid for both my bridesmaid dresses in the two family weddings I stood for. It's pretty normal. I used them again for other formal events. Just paid about $250 for my dress, shoes, etc. for my cousin's formal wedding. In any case I'm sure if I didn't have the money I could have asked family for help. I'm sorry that your family couldn't help if it wasn't in your budget. That's a bummer.

[@JW-vd4il]

My SIL had me as a bridesmaid and also had to coordinate me and her MOH friend all being in different cities. This was early days of web, so nothing online. SIL found one dress she liked in a catalog so she had catalogs sent to me and MOH. My Mom happened to already have the same catalog. They were all talking about a lavender dress and I had the catalog # for it but I was confused when I received the catalog. I found it right away but all I saw was pink and blue. I even talked to my Mom because I knew she had already seen it. Aaaaand that's how I found out I'm color-blind. 😂 True story! SIL also picked some dresses at a dept store and MOH and I were able to go to stores near us to try them on. I somewhat agree with you about calling the bridal salon but like OP I'd be getting a little suspicious too why this basic info wasn't forthcoming! In our case, MOH and I both liked the same dress 1st choice and it was SILs fave too so that worked perfectly. Even tho I would have worn the blue-to-me dress, final pick was a sage green so it was kinda nice I could see that color. 😂😂😂😂

[@lizpantelis]

@@JW-vd4il 😂😂 my mom is colorblind too and I had to help her match her jewelry to her dress for my cousin's wedding cause she kept picking green things that she thought were blue. I would have definitely been suspicious like the OP but would have just in case called the bridal salon anyways after people were talking about already having their dresses.

[@Divine1767]

Announcing your engagement at someone else's wedding is so uncalled for Love the payback in the first story

[@elizabethweigle6146]

The moment she mentioned blue petals I knew what was about to happen 😂

[@halcyon3116]

yes!!!

[@KM-nj3cm]

Adding the blue petals and ultrasound was a bit too much, IMO. Announcing her pregnancy would've been a fair exchange for justice.

[@Azerus_]

@@KM-nj3cm Satisfaction guaranteed tho lol

[@the.office.alliance4736]

@@KM-nj3cm Naaah, the whole thing was pretty perfect

[@soniabailey9613]

I was working as a beauty therapist. My husband's very good friend was getting married (to his mistress, after divorcing his wife of many years), and my husband was in the wedding party (I was not). I never really liked the bride (something didn't sit right with me about her. ever), but I offered to do tans, nails, hair, and makeup for the entire bridal party for cost of materials; the bride was ecstatic and invited me to "get ready with them in the bridal suite". The couple had also booked a separate "honeymoon suite" which the guys were getting ready in. On the day of the wedding, I'm single-handedly making the entire bridal party look incredible, then as I'm finishing the bride's makeup, she says she really needs to pee before she gets dressed. She goes off to pee . . . and the Maid of Honour comes to me and says that I can just go back to my own room and get ready if I want. But . . . I didn't have a room. And I had brought everything with me to get ready there with the bridal party. She then made it crystal clear that I was not welcome to stay. As drove home, I called my husband in tears and explained that I had to go home and get ready, but I'd be back before the ceremony started. After the ceremony, the MOH tells me how upset the bride was with her tan, nails, makeup etc and that she won't be paying me for that "rubbish"! Cue the reception, and I fight back angry tears while sitting alone, as my husband fulfils his duties in the wedding party. When the speeches were over and he could come sit with me, my husband told me how beautiful I looked, and that he loved me. We'd been married several years at this point. Then he held something out in his hand . . . The key to the honeymoon suite. We skipped the rest of the reception, "christened" their honeymoon suite, and reappeared grinning at the happy couple as they danced the night away. For a bride that seemed to enjoy other women's cast-offs, she certainly got her fill that night ;-) P.S. They since divorced. Shocker there! P.P.S. After commenting the above, I was recounting this story to my husband for laughs . . . turns out that the groom told all the groomsmen to wear suits on the day, and once they were all ready in the honeymoon suite, the groom nominated a "best man" . . . So my husband got booted from the bridal party DURING THE RECEPTION ! ! ! One of the other groomsmen (who had given my husband the honeymoon suite key) took a girl back to the bride and groom's HOUSE and "christened" their marital bed!!!

[@georgina-a]

That is some impressive and well-deserved revenge! Good on you for not taking her crap 👍😎

[@snowwilliams5871]

Damn girl slay!!!!!! 😎🤣

[@GreenAirSheep]

Bride *and* groom must have been complete @$$holes for multiple of the groom's friends to go that far. 😲

[@jarsofpaperstars]

Is your husband still friends with the groom? Cause I don’t think I could be after being treated like they treated you two

[@soniabailey9613]

@@jarsofpaperstars no . . . At the bride's birthday party the following year, she had a stripper pole set up in her lounge room and was dancing for everyone (she was in her forties). There was hard liquor, and my husband and I ended up leaving early as things were quickly getting out of hand (we'd been to their parties before, so we knew where it was headed). About a week later, the bride told her husband that MY husband had groped her at the party . . . The party she was literally stripping at, doing shots, and grinding up on every guy there. I was by my husband's side the entire night. My belief is that she was annoyed at him telling her to cool her jets before something bad happened (which is why we left the party - it was getting out of hand), and she made the accusation in retaliation to his rejection. The allegation split the entire friends group; my husband would never do such a thing, but also #BelieveWomen. My husband was gutted by the whole thing; we've been nothing but loyal friends to them (we had been friends with the husband for about 10 years), but after her accusing my husband of groping her, we haven't spoken to them again. I did see her recently, working at a fitness wear store. She looks every part the middle-aged multi-divorced woman who thinks she's still 20 and a total catch. It's pretty sad, really.

[@tkdchic78]

As someone who went to medical school, getting an exam date changed is a HUGE deal, and often some med schools won't even allow you that accommodation. She probably had to work her way up to the dean of the entire school to get approval. I HATE that they caused her so much stress when she was already in such a high stress situation of medical school and hope she did well on her exams.

[@SaintShion]

The didnt just cause her stress the tried to exclude his family and ruin a wedding.

[@talyahr3302]

Literally. Like they could've just not invited her and said "we want you to focus on school and celebrate with us after if you'd like".

[@blizz2795]

@@talyahr3302 The bride didn't want her future husband to know what a crappy family he was marrying in to.

[@alohaeverafter6886]

I was at a funeral reception and my stepdaughter announced her engagement. She was showing her ring to a couple of people in line for food, then started literally jumping up and down screaming about how happy she was. It was disgusting. The widow was at first confused hearing the screaming, then mortified. My stepdaughter didn’t see anything wrong with it. Said it was the perfect time, since so many people were there to hear. Anyway, the guy was a loser. Marriage never happened, once she found out he had financial problems, owed back taxes, child support, and was losing his business in bankruptcy. She was well set financially…Kind of funny since everyone asked later about the non wedding. She had that many more people to explain to.😂

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

That's too perfect!! Yeah, announcing your engagement at a FUNERAL is worse than doing it at someone else's wedding. I don't know if your step daughter or her ex dodged a bullet.

[@MuscleMommy67]

WOW I love that ending 😭🤣

[@sakumiraagashi]

Karma at its best!! I have no sympathy for her, that is absolutely disgusting and she deserves it. I feel so so bad for the widow because it was probably one of the most depressing days of their life, and some disrespectful woman decided to use it as some sort of "holiday family gathering" and gain all the attention for herself. With a grieving person right there. I feel bad for you too. As her step-mom, you probably was also so embarrassed

[@jeng8401]

Karma always finds its way to the right people.

[@RPWT_]

What did your spouse think of her actions? 😂

[@moaningmyrtlehp7355]

Dude, I think it's so tacky to propose at someone else's wedding, or make big announcements unless it's okay with the bride and groom. Like just do it another time, don't even ask to do it.

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

My ex’s uncle asked if he could propose to his gf after our wedding. Had they not, id have been livid. But all the families rarely got together at this level for gatherings unless it was a wedding or a funeral. So I didn’t mind that they had an audience and it didn’t take away from wedding activities. We went to my ex In-laws house for an after event gathering and they did it there. In most cases, I agree.

[@crystalmasters8582]

Right unless you are invited to it.

[@peepla7]

Ya...the only thing worse it's proposing or announcing an engagement... at a funeral.

[@jessimarim_m9387]

It seemed planned since apparently the groom was smug about it too, thats why I think that bride went revenge plot. In that moment she realised this woman isnt my friend, and she wants me to confront her and ruin the day more. So no, smart bride was like, I'll treat you like you treated me, bonus was that everyone in the bad brides bridal party ended up hating her just as much, to go along with the scheme. Says a lot about that person 😅

[@sammyj9367]

It all depends on a culture honestly. In Poland we have a tradition that at midnight bride and groom become husband and wife so newlyweds pick "new bride and new groom" by throwing the veil and tie/fly that are later worn by ppl who caught it and nobody considers it "stealing a spotlight". So it's not unusual to turn it into engagement especially if it's for someone close to the newlyweds like sibling, cousin or a family friend. Wedding receptions are also long-ish (5pm-5am next day is considered "quite short"; ceremony not included) and there are quite a few family ceremonies before the actual wedding so I can assure you after a whole ass day of being a centre of attention most newlyweds are relieved that some of the eyes are finally off of them even for a little bit.

[@CrownedYeti]

That last bride is grossly mean. Imagine purposefully inviting the sister of your fiancé to your wedding just to try and sabotage her image and relationship with her brother. The constant gaslighting and having everyone in the brides' party involved... yeah both OP and her brother dodged an atom bomb.

[@보모]

they did more and depending on your take it actually becomes worse 👶

[@christiecarlson]

WHILE SHE’S TRYING TO FINISH HER MEDICAL SCHOOL EXAMS!! That could have impacted her standing in med school if that distraction had caused her to not do well on them. If the bride didn’t want her in the wedding, she could simply have leaned on the reasoning that the sister couldn’t be included in preparations due to school. There was no need to do any of this.

[@TheCat4791]

They did not. They got back together after a week of separation thanks to the intervention of the groom mother and bride sister. Then she became pregnat. No matter that the groom as a cancer survivor did not want to have children. When OP got the news asked how was that possible. Her brother was always very clear about not having children . Her sister answered " well, there is nothig forgeting a pilll here and there can't fix If you want to get your way " OP said back" that that was basically sexual abuse" but she scoffed her for saying that. So OP regrets no telling her brother what happened but she thinks he would not end the marriage anyway If he has accept from her so many things already.

[@BeeWhistler]

@@TheCat4791 I believe it's called reproductive coercion. And it can get you into seriously hot water if someone can prove it in a court of law. I don't care if she is pregnant... he doesn't have to stay. If the kid never knows its parents as a married couple it'll never be traumatized by that divorce. I've seen the kind of families that circle the wagons against outsiders they don't like and manipulate them to look bad. He needs to get out of that toxic crowd. But I do wish OP had been louder about not getting information and let others know that this was a thing so that there would be a sort of public record of the deliberate choice to keep her in the dark. Creeps like that count heavily on you expecting niceness and trusting them so that they can betray that trust to make things the way they want them.

[@Anastasia-ex6sv]

@@TheCat4791 That’s just terrible. That woman is incredibly manipulative, she’s basically trapping him in a relationship with a baby. Thats so messed up! She knew he didn’t want children, didn’t she? I consider these situations abuse, I really hope the guy is able to get away from her.

[@youtubeaddict6128]

That 'Gentle, Gentle, I'm pregnant' stole the show😂😂

[@annaquar]

I would have said, "Oh. Is this the wrong color? Good thing I got this one too." and whipped out the right dress right then and there. I also would have taken her aside at the reception, congratulated and hugged her with a big fake smile on my face and then whispered in her ear, "If you ever pull this fuckery again with me or my little bro, you're gonna regret it. Welcome to the family, SIS."

[@Bonnie3-ny9fb]

OMG sameeee 😂😂

[@mandizmouth2952]

Yeees!

[@Star_R666]

The last story had additional update - the bride came back and ultimately they got back together pretty quickly. Some people asked why she didn't tell her brother the whole story. She said that her and the younger brother (the two that we being excluded) are the black sheep of the family and that no matter what she said he wouldn't care how they were treated. I've discovered on of my favorite subs Best of Reddit Update where I read this story a week ago. Posts include all updates and also let you know if they are concluded or ongoing.

[@AC-cg3bv]

Linky please 🙂

[@yachishairclips2250]

Link please.. I want the whole drama unfold

[@miakirilova7255]

Girl is in med school, how did they targeted her as the "black sheep" 😱😭

[@Star_R666]

@@miakirilova7255 Sadly many narcisissts choose one child to be the golden child, can't do anything wrong and another to be the scapegoat, take the blame for everything. When there are many children some are golden and some are scapegoats.

[@CloudLightify]

@@miakirilova7255 Possibly LGBT like the younger brother.

[@CatLoverX74]

Oh wow! The last one was crazy! 😮 they barely know each other and she’s doing that kinda 💩?? Sounds like maybe her brother wanted her in the wedding party and the bride begrudgingly agreed. I love the fact that she had the texts to prove she didn’t ask to drop out and her and her brother kept their plan from working! So happy the groom came home alone 😅 they definitely don’t need her as a SIL 😂

[@보모]

Nope it got worse. They couple is still together and expecting… begrudgingly

[@ShinyShilla]

​@@보모 Found it

[@보모]

@@ShinyShilla I left a main comment of the last update. Just find my icon on the main I reposted it

[@time2livelife]

yeah, but it’s sad they went through with the wedding at all. Now they have to go through an expensive divorce.

[@ack153]

@@보모 yikes...

[@KathrynFaye007]

I had a medieval wedding and wore a black velvet, pink and brocade Queen Anne style gown. My hubby wore black and green. In tradition medieval times you just wore your most expensive clothing that you would wear to church. I love our wedding pictures and wouldn't care if someone wore white or any other colour... it was great fun!

[@Alberto-wu1mj]

Those wedding pictures must so pretty.

[@KathrynFaye007]

@@Alberto-wu1mj I think they were lol though I'm biased. I had friends take pictures. We had a lowkey medieval wedding at our local Renaissance Faire which my hubby and I work at. Our photographer did a wedding video.

[@cheri1687]

Me and my fiance is doing purple and black. Guest are to wear white, i told my friend that if they wore their white wedding dresses...go for it.

[@sakumiraagashi]

That sounds so magical!! I'm all for people not forcing themselves to do a traditional wedding if they don't want to. You rock!

[@sakumiraagashi]

@@cheri1687 A purple and white wedding sounds GORGEOUS to me, probably partially because I love the combo XD And I may be overthinking it but, it's so nice of you to let your friends have a chance to wear a white wedding dress because truthfully, not everyone does, or the time hasn't come for them yet. It gives them a chance to feel beautiful while not stealing your spotlight :)

[@tillytorp2012]

The pregnancy announcement is the definition of "Revenge is a dish best served cold"!! I Love It!!

[@anavarexe1820]

I feel like an engagement announcement/proposal at a wedding is okay if two conditions are met: the bride and groom had already approved, and it happens at the END of the reception when everyone is going to be leaving soon.

[@mariane5564]

If it happen during the bouquet toss and the bride just give the flower to the one being propose to it's also a good moment in my opinion

[@anavarexe1820]

@@mariane5564 oh, definitely! I forgot about the flower toss, but those proposals are really sweet!

[@jkspam]

@@anavarexe1820 and I know for a fact I’ve seen plenty of videos where the bride was in on it, pretends to throw it and specifically hands it to a girl, who turns around and sees her boyfriend on one knee. Totally if the bride approves

[@elisham23]

I'm loving the brides who roll with the a-holes. The one where the MIL was gonna wear white so the bride wore pink and had all the bridesmaids wear white remains my all time favorite but this red dress one is now my second

[@thesmartestidiotonearth8782]

Oh I remember that!! That MIL was absolutely insane but good on the bride for pulling a 1-2 role reversal

[@pumpkinspicecupcakes]

The last story had me crying I was like “Just throw the whole bride away.”

[@보모]

family/families OOP’s own mother prioritized SIL & MOH over her by claiming them in a way that dismisses OP’s existence / slipped how she really felt by not counting her as her daughter

[@danielleking262]

LOL

[@akiluckyakilucky7524]

If he wont throw her I will 🤣

[@colorlessoz]

HOLLLLYYYY COW. that last thread is crazy. I'm just glad that the revenge came with her and her brother still being in the wedding to stick it where it hurts and because of that the groom saw the final red flags.

[@보모]

No, his got sucked into appearances pushed by mum and in-laws. He got back with the wife and now tricked into having an unwanted pregnancy with his harpy

[@vanessadiaz952]

At the beginning of the thread I thought it would have been best for OP to back down since they were not clearly wanted at the wedding. But when she revealed her other bother was basically being bullied as well, I was 100% in with the revenge taking place.

[@colorlessoz]

@@보모 whaaattt!?!!! No!!!

[@보모]

@@colorlessoz OOP one mother replaces her with SIL as a real daughter. The brother bullied by big bro groom’s BFF is her only sanity as the two of them are ones picked on and being confronted with accusations by big bro groom instead of actually allowing them to talk it out. Welp Big Bro now going to be a dad which he very much did not want due to passing along his genes. Fear of his kid having cancer young like him *BUT* he didn’t want to entertain OOP when she spoke of how his bride was acting so now a life of *drama* with a woman that purposely skipped birth control pills to get pregnant against her now husband’s wishes. Going into autopilot for himself [+ not seeing the flags presented from little bro & sis] but his âss in the end

[@zoo8985]

15:19 from personal experince if your SO is trying to isloate you from ur friends and family RUN glad the groom got out TT

[@christopherburns7373]

I never knew about that red dress etiquette, since it kinda is the opposite of the one I was told about from my chinese side of the family. Typically, the bride will have a red reception dress, as red symbolizes luck, happiness and joy. And of course, it's the color of the chinese flag, so there's a lot of pride in that color.

[@kayjacoby290]

First thing I thought of was "The Scarlet Letter," by Nathaniel Hawthorne. I bet the idiot cousin read it in school and equates red with sleeping with someone. Or it's some local BS.

[@jakemarie828]

Yeah am hoping that's not a widespread thing. I wore red to the most recent wedding I attended, and I wore burgundy as a flower girl so

[@grungekitty77]

it sounds like if it even is a real thing, it's niche.

[@ladybhee7348]

Hah! My maid of honor which was my cousin was wearing red since our motif was red and white

[@BlondeEyes7]

Made me think of Scarlet O’Hara being forced by her husband to wear a red dress to a party with her affair-partner’s wife and friends after her affair was discovered.

[@TrudyLennon]

My wedding dress was red! 🤣 I guess now everyone knows we didn't wait until the wedding night!

[@bepinkfloyd814]

Lol

[@meadowsong8560]

That is awesome!

[@estellegetty1995]

I can't believe you slept with the groom and demanded attention!

[@TrudyLennon]

@@estellegetty1995 🤣🤣

[@ibsticky1]

@@estellegetty1995 yeah that's so gross. She's basically telling everyone that she gets around! Lol

[@AIBot929]

Update on last story: The brothers wife is now pregnant, he planned on leaving her which is why he came back alone and then stayed with his parents. The wife was acting like nothing happened and announced she's pregnant. The wanted the brother out of the wedding because he is gay and the entire things was ochestrated by the bride, MOH,Best man and several other bridesmaids, not OP's sisters and her mother didn't actually know the dress color either. I can't find the update in the reddit thread I either heard it on Lost Genere or Rslash.

[@loveli420]

Unreal. Wow.

[@clarizahhh]

Oh man she is pregnant with his baby? Now he will have to deal with her in courts prob😢

[@chankel4930]

It’s on r/BORU

[@aphelion4616]

@@clarizahhh Honestly doubt it's his...

[@lillytaylor5752]

yep, OP gave an update, but it's on her profile and not the original thread, and it's depressing 😑 his mother and sister (the other one, not OP) influenced him to get back together with the bride, that's when she got pregnant, and he never wanted children, there's also the little brother's perspective 😐

[@dinasilva9263]

Something tells me Charlotte will be a beautiful bride someday. She definitely deserves an amazing wedding and to be very happy. Her Channel means a lot to me. Thank you Charlotte for all the laughs. ❤️👏

[@jessieh9127]

I hope it works out between her and her boyfriend. They look so cute together and seem to have the same humor. Their kids would be gorgeous. If Charlotte is happy, I'm definitely happy for her!

[@jenn8179]

She will be the MOST stunning bride! 👰‍♀️

[@looloolawrence4009]

Wow! That last story had me sitting there with my jaw literally dropped down and my mouth agape at the lengths the bride and her hench-ladies went to not only get this bridesmaid to drop out along with her other brother, but also blame her for everything! This could absolutely be made into a movie! It was so satisfying to hear they had to explain to the make-up artist she had to do one more. I would have just let it rip at the brother, the groom about his lady's shenanigans, but it seems he found out about it all anyways seeing as he came home alone from the honeymoon. What a truly horrible, nasty, woman with equally nasty friends.

[@helenlewis2510]

Apparently there’s another update where they immediately get back together

[@Smooveandpretty]

3:29 I love Emma 😂😂😂 a true petty queen.

[@CatsOverBrats]

I googled red dress for weddings. It's apparently an old thing at least here in Denmark. It means she's either the groom's mistress or she wants to seduce him. However, if it's the bride's mother wearing red, it means she accepts the wedding.

[@TheJuliet316]

In medieval times, red was the color of weddings, not white.

[@LazyIRanch]

There's an old poem on the topic of dress colors for the bride: "Married in white, you will have chosen all right. Married in grey, you will go far away. Married in black, you will wish yourself back. Married in red, you’ll wish yourself dead. Married in blue, you will always be true. Married in pearl, you’ll live in a whirl. Married in green, ashamed to be seen. Married in yellow, ashamed of the fellow. Married in brown, you’ll live out of town. Married in pink, your spirits will sink." I wore a gold dress for my 1st wedding, so something between yellow and brown? I should have seen this poem first! I'm certainly ashamed of the fellow, and because of him I "live out of town". I moved 1500 miles and changed my name to escape him.

[@521tess]

@@TheJuliet316 In traditional Chinese weddings -- it still is.

[@T.Aa90]

It’s the same here in Norway, but if the mother wears red it means she doesn’t approve

[@c.b.barlow]

Interesting 🤔 😊

[@alarmedregret]

Last story had an update 4 weeks ago, as alas, the groom returned early but the in-laws and bride managed to sweep everything under the rug. Also, the bride is pregnant despite the groom's wishes to either adopt or not have any children at all (due to his bout with cancer as a child). OP mentioned this change in groom's stance to her sister who said "well there’s nothing forgetting a pill here and there can’t fix if you want to get your way, you know.” Vile people all the way around.

[@danachristie7106]

Damn some people smh

[@SNixon14]

That makes my blood boil. What a spineless moron. I hope OP goes no contact with them all except for the younger brother. I really hope the older brother is proud of himself, bowing down to that wench and his overbearing parents and losing quite possibly 2 of his siblings in the process.

[@foncywoolsocksiii923]

Wow, the mental gymnastics of the last one. I felt for the OP and her brothers. I hope the brother that married the crazy bride got an annulment.

[@theschipronouncedassky9142]

I have 2 dark blue dresses, one more elegant/long cocktail dinner party dress and one more country w/flowers type. Always got compliments from brides because both have ended up matching the theme and it looked as if I was supporting the marriage and as if I was a guest who had an "In with the couple" when all else fails, dark blue saves the day. Plus, hides the stains from wine, I repeat when all else fails. Go with Dark Blue.

[@heatherashby830]

My colors were blue and silver

[@samanthaswanson4707]

I wore a bright red dress to my high school friend's (the groom) wedding. It was a dress that I happened to find at Goodwill for $4, and it was just a pretty formal dress that fit great (it was a formal wedding). Nobody said anything about it being red. I had no idea about not wearing red to a wedding (except dark reds). You learn something new everyday.

[@SingingSealRiana]

its not that commen, like you should not give your partner yellow flowers and such, some know some dont some just do not care

[@michellementh9651]

Omg Emma's petty revenge is just *chef's kiss* perfection

[@Steph-yz4tn]

Nah, she's just as bad as her "friend". They definitely deserve each other.

[@michellementh9651]

@@Steph-yz4tn I thought it was hilarious and well-deserved pettiness.

[@Steph-yz4tn]

@@michellementh9651 ok...

[@nevermindmyparentsimthepunk]

she should had mentioned that Sarah got engaged at her wedding and there was more good news at this wedding

[@louiseb6111]

@@Steph-yz4tn She just gave the friend a taste of her own medicine. Sometimes ppl aren't aware of their behaviour until it's shown to them. They're the perfect example of someone who needed that...🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Clustered_ivy]

The last story had me shaking. Feeling like I was involved in the whole situation.

[@danielleking262]

Same!!!! I thought it was going to end with the poor girl crying and failing her exams because of the mental gymnastics

[@SofieBjorkheim]

Right, I was so stressed out lol

[@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis]

I gotta be honest it was really irritating me. I would literally call and if each person didn’t answer and send each person an individual text that said IM TRYING TO ORDER MY DRESS BUT NOBODY WILL TELL ME THE COLOR? What color should I order??

[@jessieh9127]

Wow. How hard was it to plan to be having a baby at the same time as your nemesis' wedding 😂 Well done Petty Princess 👑

[@danielleking262]

Ha, good point! No one brought that up !!!

[@janekavanagh-ford5735]

I’m more impressed that she managed to be 6 months pregnant and not show a baby bump in the bridal party 🎊

[@shadowdroid776]

@@janekavanagh-ford5735 that's super common for pregnant people. You gain the most amount of weight in the last trimester, the second trimester is kind of a toss up if you show or don't from what I've seen. Some people show early, some don't show until month 8, but I haven't seen anyone that you would be acutely aware is pregnant by month 5. Most I've seen is maybe they look a tiny bit bloated, like period bloated in some way. So it's pretty easy to wear looser clothing to hide whatever is happening at that point in time. *Now if she was at month 9 and wasn't showing, I'd be genuinely amazed and concerned at the same exact time lol*

[@MyLifeMyWay]

If it wasn't my own family there I would have put in pink and blue petals and showed a fake early ultrasound and told them we only just found out. I don't even care that it would have been fake. The second bride deserved to have her thunder stolen.

[@stephaniecooke7277]

With over two thousand comments on this video, I’m clear that you’ll probably never see this one but I’m leaving it anyway because as a 56 year old back woman with 7 kids and 7 grandkids I think it’s so crazy and so wonderful at the same time that I literally live on KZbin but I watch your videos more than any other channel. I often find myself responding at the same time as you and usually in the same manner as you on almost every video!! lol. It’s like you’re the young, white, ginger version of ME!! And I’m so here for it dahling! I’m even barking at people. Love your channel!! Forever subscribed! 😊❤❤❤

[@marywilson2578]

I was a bridesmaid at my sister's wedding. I was told that the dress was purple but I wasn't told what shade. I had to literally look through purple shades and send my sister pictures until I felt she was annoyed with me. She also didn't want to tell me what color shoes to wear. What ticked me off was that my other sister, who was also a bridesmaid, and the bride were always talking and planning out the wedding making me feel like I was left out. I didn't do any kind of revenge on my sister but I just thought it was an a-hole kind of thing to do.

[@kt5229]

That last one was a rollercoaster! So messed up, I hope the groom was able to annul the marriage!

[@보모]

Married for months with an unwanted child she tricked him into on the way

[@pascaleelliott63]

I'm really sad to hear that the update to the last wedding story was that the nasty bride baby trapped OP's older brother. And from the look of things from other people who came across the update, pretty much most of OP's brother's family members (like OP's sister and mother on top of OP and younger brother) were pretty much left in the dark about details deliberately as to break the groom and his ow family up. The forced family isolation caused by your SO is already a red flag. Baby trapping is an awful thing to do, if not worse!

[@isamaria6544]

It's so disgusting to baby trap and involve a kid. Especially if it's true he didn't want a kid because he himself had cancer as a kid. To be forced to coparent with such a manipulative monster is sad beyond words. From my experience courts fail kids in every way, even when physical or sexual abuse is done. Courts don't care about mental abuse at all. That will be an 18 year battle if he stays or separates from her. There really should be punishments in place for ppl that do this. The emotional tole this has on the victim and potentially the child can be so consuming...

[@preciousmcfadden4291]

I'm sorry but I've seen the update and there was no indication that the bride actually baby trapped him. You have sex and there is a chance of pregnancy and the brother didn't seem to have negative thoughts about it, only OP. If he truly didn't want children he would have gotten that vasectomy he was thinking about.

[@joannaizabelabienias]

And he never wanted biological kids because he had cancer as a child.

[@AmethystEyes]

Any more updates?

[@paulagoeringer9466]

Well, considering how trashy they are, it may not even be his baby. I wonder if they ever got a paternity test.

[@SpaceKat.79]

I totally wore a red dress to a friend's wedding this weekend. It's my favorite color and hello, spooky/fall season! At least 3 other girls and the mom of the groom were wearing red too lol sooo still no regrets!

[@Selena-gz9ts]

The mom of the groom huh? Well, I never.......what was she thinking?? TBH: never heard of this red dress thing before right now

[@elizabethhoare5564]

I am SO impressed she managed to figure all that out and get the two dresses. I love her!!!

[@Just.Somebody1447]

Oh hell noooo!! 😱😱 I never knew that a “red dress” had a meaning to a wedding 😅🙈 I wore a red dress to my sisters wedding!!! 😱😱🙈🙈🤣🤣🤣

[@tinejensen8309]

Lots of people googling that after watching this I bet 😅

[@perspectivepreternatural4175]

It's swedish. And it goes for both bride and groom.

[@kaoryakasaka6835]

I wore a plaid red dress to a family friend's wedding, and my sister wore a red dress too. In our culture it doesn't mean anything, but I guess according to some people it means both of us dated the groom? For the record, we were 13(me) and 17(my sister)😂

[@IngleseconAnna]

The last story made me think about the last place I worked at. It was an all female staff and from the beginning I sensed that they didn't like me or could accept my presence. I would be left out of everything important or fun. I was really unhappy at that toxic environment. Now I have a job with a higher salary and a nicer environment. Thank God I had the opportunity to leave that place. This kind of situation is tough and can really take a toll on your mental health.

[@rustinstardust2094]

Thank you for sharing this. I'm currently working in a place with a similar situation. I make too much money to quit (and work from home 3 weeks a month)...but I'm keeping an eye out for other positions in the company because I don't know how much more of this I can take - and can feel it affecting my health.

[@Shurikinnn]

This might not apply to every case however if you ever put more than 2 women together there is going to be problems. I once did an internship in a school kitchen (there were 4 women) and if woman 1, 2 and 3 were together the woman 4 would be terrible, same with every other combination but if they were all together you would think they were the best friends... Women are scary beings.

[@KKP7557]

I worked in an all-female office one summer during college. The absolute worst workplace I've ever been in. These b****es clubbed together and made up crap to tell the boss I was allegedly doing just to get me moved out of their area. Apparently, being quiet and working was offensive to their trailer park trash sensibilities.

[@martina21953]

@@Shurikinnn No always so! I worked in a military recruiting office where most of the recruiters were women. We all got along! I actually went with one recruiter to help her pick out her wedding gown. I rented an apartment from another recruiter. Most of them have moved from the area but we still stay in touch and that was over 20 years ago!

[@Shurikinnn]

@@martina21953 There are no rules without exceptions.

[@Tinfoilhatgirlie]

I’m grateful my best friend went above and beyond to make sure I’d be able to travel across the country to be in her wedding after living out of state for 5 years. Like with my goats dying and unexpected vet trips, I wasn’t going to be able to afford the dress. She got it for me. I couldn’t afford a room at the hotel so she got a room we shared. There is no reason to be that shitty towards someone in a bridesmaid party.

[@SofieBjorkheim]

Keep her close!

[@QueenWendyLu]

This happened to me. My husband and I were married in the family church. My husband’s brother was one of his groomsmen. His longtime girlfriend was one of my bridesmaids. Immediately after the ceremony we all went outside and lined up to greet all our guests. After roughly 5 minutes I see my BIL and “Tina” are showing off her engagement ring to all our guests. B, really?

[@alaynajohnson2439]

I'm sorry to hear that. That also happened at my brother's wedding. The bride's brother proposed to his girlfriend on the dancefloor (on one knee and all that). Her other brother got wasted.

[@vampirez921]

The blue petal revenge story reminded me of this. Last year I got a little revenge on a toxic friend. I stayed her friend out of guilt, we reconnected a bit but then the camel’s back broke over something I couldn’t forgive her for. For context, She would tell my parents and brother things that weren’t their business. Things they didn’t need to know about or things I wasn’t ready to tell them. It caused me emotional distress and I have anxiety due to all the passive aggression and name calling from my family. She had every opportunity to remove herself but never took it. One time she told my brother a big secret. I quit my job at McDonald’s and I wasn’t ready to tell them. She claimed she snitched because she was worried about me but she acted oblivious about it when I first asked her if she told. At the time we were at this festival and She was mad at me because I left for what I thought would be only a few minutes but lost track of time. I’ve owned up to this and since apologized. Anyway, last year I had a s***ty Halloween because of her. I went to hang out with her for the weekend and her new boyfriend scared me because he thought it would be fun to fish tail his truck while it was raining and when we were entering traffic. He also said that his tires were a bit worn prior to all this. He could’ve easily lost control or caused an accident to someone else. My knees were shaking and she wanted me to forget about it and just have a drink. She didn’t care that I was upset. Two days later she messaged me that she was bummed that her and her boyfriend couldn’t go back roading that night because I was scared. I’m sorry for having emotions I guess. I was p*ssed and let her have it. Then I told my brother what she and her new boyfriend did. She messaged me because she was upset about getting so many messages from my brother. It felt like a taste of her own medicine from over the years. On top of that I thought my family should know what happened because I planned to stop being her friend and didn’t want her to spin it in a way that made me look like I was in the wrong. It’s been nearly a year since I’ve spoken to her and I feel so happy about it.

[@Rupinder_kaur]

Wow 😂

[@poodlegirl56]

I was newly engaged at a close friends wedding. I didn't even wear my ring. Still other ppl knew and asked questions about my upcoming wedding. Even the bride wanted to see my ring and asked all sorts of questions. I eventually took my ring off the chain around my neck. It was hidden my shirt. I put my ring on at the request of the Bride. A very wonderful woman and God mother of my son.

[@flavialm1]

Last story had one more update. She came back and said she was pregnant, so they moved back in together and she is constantly posting happy pictures online, but the brother looks miserable in real life. Op commented to her sister that the brother never wanted children and she said this was nothing a couple missed pills couldn't fix. Bride and her sister are best friends.

[@CatLoverX74]

Honestly he needs to just pay child support and sign away his parental rights. She tricked him just to trap him. Better to pay money and find someone who’ll make him happy than to be miserable the rest of his life

[@plutastar]

I rewatch the video and notice op's sister was telling her to get it together and buy the dress instead of telling her the color. I'm so mad at the sister too for being part of the mean girls group and not helping her siblings!

[@보모]

@@plutastar so way OP’s mother. Other than the gay brother she had practically no one backing her up. But they were both lied on by friends & family with the groom lashing out at them instead of questioning or supporting them too where they felt comfortable to speak but the _homophobics_ are his BFF

[@rychelley6656]

Idk with all the scheming that bride did, I'd tell the brother to get a paternity test. Even if it was his biological child he should still leave and just pay child support if he never wanted kids. I'd still tell him to leave her either way. There's too many red flags in that relationship.

[@InteriorDesignStudent]

@@CatLoverX74 So she can wreck the kid's life? I say he goes for full custody and moves in with family.

[@roycesaful]

Weddings AND pettiness!? Perfect way to start the day. 😎🥳

[@LazyIRanch]

Right! I'm supposed to be getting ready to head for an appointment, but I had to go grab a cup of tea and see this first! Damn! Charlotte nearly made me pee my pants laughing when she did that shriek with the teakettle in the background. I use an antique English teakettle that screams like a banshee when it's boiling. I can hear it from outside! 😂 From now on, I'm calling that kettle "Charlotte".

[@booklover1298]

1st Story: Sarah shouldn't have announced her engagement at the wedding of OP's cousin. Last Story: A comment in the comments section gave an update. Part of the update is that the whole thing was planned by the bride, maid of honor, several other bridesmaids, and the best man. Another comment in the comments section also has an update. The comment said that the bride and groom moved back in together because the bride said she is pregnant. The comment also mentioned that the groom never wanted to have kids. I think the groom should get a paternity test done. If he is the biological dad he should pay child support and sign away his parental rights.

[@SofieBjorkheim]

Poor child nonetheless

[@Septemberus]

According to the reddit post. The bride skipped her pills to get pregnant. So its likely to be his child. But the groom refused to have a kid because he was a child cancer survivor and he doesn't want his kid to go through the same thing if its genetic. Apparently the sister of the groom who is great friends with the bride knew about the whole plan. The original poster decided to internalize the guilt as she is unsure if she should tell her brother.

[@CelticRuneSinger]

No he should get rights to the child and prove she's unfit to be apparent We're going to go on this cause even if he gives his parenting right away she can still make his life a hell The answer is if a he is in a state To give his parenting rights away because only women can do that usually

[@elainagilbert7663]

The strange thing is that the Best Man was in on it, too. He was also being shady behind the groom's back so I'm thinking it's even juicier than we know and something was going on between Bride and Best Man. I know from experience that it's difficult to plan a wedding long distance, but this is just inexcusable. I'm so glad the groom left her and that the siblings' relationships were tarnished by this, that we know of.

[@colleens1107]

Sarah DESERVED THIS. FFS She announced her engagement at Emma’s wedding. Well played Emma, well played.

[@kimberlyhinchey3748]

Love you Charlotte! 1- Loved Emma's pregnancy revenge! 2- In the South you don't wear red or black to a wedding. You explained the reason for red (yes, you slept with the groom) and black is not worn because it is viewed as if you are in mourning of the marriage and it symbolizes the "death" of something (no opportunity to be with the groom, you think the wedding is "doomed" before it is begun, etc.) 3- So proud of the sister for standing up and outsmarting those bullies!

[@tabortoothtiger7580]

That's actually funny because my cousin and his wife's colors were red and black. Granted, we live in the midwest and that shit don't really matter. Just as long as you're respectfully covered. lol

[@fleetwoodmacncheese4159]

I live in the south and I refuse to wear anything but black. I've been to weddings wearing black and will continue. I hate the south even more now... 😐

[@brookemackenhausen5955]

Your cheer and dance when he came back from the honeymoon alone was the highlight of my day so far

[@se7nn1120]

I remained friends with this girl from high school who was a bully to me but she was my best friend's wife. I caused their divorce. Not by an affair, by her own lies. The son they have isn't his, the real father drunkenly confessed to me, told my best friend, and shit hit the fan a year after. The real kicker is that my best friend made me his "son's" godmother and when they got divorced she wanted to remove me as her son's godmother and she found out she couldn't. I try to stay in her son's life as much as I can just to annoy her. Don't get me wrong, I adore my godson. His mother just so happens to be crazy.

[@sakumiraagashi]

In my opinion, you didn't cause their divorce. SHE caused it. When you have an affair, it's not anyone's responsibility for "keeping the marriage", aka hiding the affair. If you have an affair, you already ruined your relationship. So glad your best friend dodged a bullet and you still get to be in the child's life!

[@darondax]

I have two stories: Story 1: At a friend’s wedding reception, the mother of a mutual friend screamed really loud and announced that her son had just gotten engaged (he was going to school in another state). She (the mom) was known as a drama queen, so most of the people there ignored her, but I could tell that the bride (a good friend of mine) was a little upset. Her ceremony had been really emotional as her mother had died when she was younger, and the officiator spoke about it, saying that he knew her mother was proud of her and that she was there in spirit. I remember thinking the other friend’s mom was being really rude and just wanted attention for herself, because she ended up going around and showing anybody that would look the text from her son on her phone 🙄 Story 2: I was the MoH at my bff’s wedding (her sister dropped out last minute; that’s a whole other long story), and she asked me to help with planning since she couldn’t afford a wedding planner and was on a tight budget since her family wasn’t going to help out at all. Her colors were red, green and brown, and she asked me to be in charge of the bridesmaid’s dresses. I made sure to run everything by her first, from colors to style, and she ended up picking the red option for all of us 😂 I was today years old when I heard about this “red dress” rule😅. I guarantee none of us had slept with the groom, as both he and the bride were both virgins and one of the bridesmaids had been happily married for several years and was 8 months pregnant 🤣

[@GamerMage2k-kl4iq]

The first story is the perfect revenge. And the last story is awesome cause the groom was able to learn early on to dodge a major bullet!

[@ellielevine2038]

As soon as you said petty revenge was a brewing, I KNEW she was going to announce her pregnancy at the other girl’s wedding!

[@tracylangsley4064]

Charlotte you enjoy yourself waaaaaay too much on these wedding posts 🤣 I love it your so funny to watch 🤣

[@BecSparky]

I don't think I've ever been so invested in a wedding story that you've covered. That last one had me on the edge of my seat!!!

[@FizzledDreams11]

I literally made it clear when all planning started, nobody was to use our wedding day as their bump for celebration for engagements, babies otw, promotions, etc. My reason being was any day you can do this any other time. My husband and I are not those type of people who want to be center of attention BUT on our day I wanted to make sure it was perfect just how we planned and pictured. Alot of sweat, tears, stress, and everything went into our dream wedding. My dad and I planned it all with my husband vetoing or yaying things and he picked colors and everything we did it altogether! So our day was just for us for once. And therefore nothing like that happened. Thankfully I don't know people like that but I wanted it out there without surprises, due to STORIES LIKE THESE I HEARD ON KZbin😂... my MOH made a joke that if she saw a knee go down they'd be yanked back up by their shirt 😂 it was a beautiful perfect night wedding 💜

[@ajthewildwolf]

My biggest frustration with the last one is that they literally could've just chosen not to invite the two extra people.

[@melijay22]

But that would not satisfy someone who gets energy from making others suffer

[@miam1074]

extra people? they were the sister and brother of the groom!

[@MellyP22]

The last story struck a nerve and sounds close to home. Med school is so intense and unfortunately many people not in a similar situation can get very flippant. For busy people, having to deal with your own dress based on certain criteria adds anxiety I feel. Also... if the siblings couldn't be in the wedding party, couldn't they just be a guest?

[@gloriaalex11]

I'm thinking that the bride purposely scheduled the wedding during OP's exam week, hoping she wouldn't make the trip. What a heifer.

[@victoriaalicewestwood3558]

She's going to be a great doctor with those skills of perseverance and fact finding! 👌

[@katielicheni9451]

@@gatordragon8824 um nobody was complaining about being in med school, they are just saying people underestimate how intense it is

[@katielicheni9451]

Right! Like why ask them to be in the wedding party in the first place???

[@katielicheni9451]

@@gatordragon8824 in this comment or the person in the video? Either way, the person made a great compromise in order to focus on school as well as participate in the wedding so idk why you're hating so much. Did a med student wrong you in the past 😂

[@sonjebianca2483]

Never heard of the red dress thing. I’ve worn red dress suits to cousins weddings before … ew. I was once in a friends wedding who had 9 bridesmaids all of us in gorgeous red. I giggle now thinking, jeez, poor Donnie (groom) must’ve been exhausted. 😂

[@nty449]

That baby one (the first one) is the absolute sweetest revenge story I have ever heard

[@pennymcguckin6098]

Charlotte I'm a 61 year old women that loves your video's and you. I could imagine you being my niece, you remind so much of my sister. You seem to be one hell of a human being. You have mentioned in several video's what you could do for somebody or afford to pay for things but you're not uppity about it. You just somehow feel like family. Keep up the awesome work. Congrats for you and Mike finding each other.

[@chaosrose3733]

The last one was an absolute W for everyone and OP’s family that woman would’ve been a nightmare. I hope he got an annulment so quick.

[@prenimystic]

Ooooh that scheming story with the outfits and pre-planning the no-shows had me fuming Love the ending though 😆

[@swtgurlde1]

The last one was probably the best wedding story you told...that was amazing 😂

[@보모]

Actually doesn’t… the update will disappoint you

[@swtgurlde1]

@@보모 oh god...what happened 😂

[@보모]

@@swtgurlde1 groom refusing to listen to his younger sister or look out for his brother now has him heading towards an anniversary with an appearances above all in-laws, not great mother, and an unwanted pregnancy with his lying _”accidentally” missed multiple BC pills_ wife

[@Chawaba]

I appreciate how dedicated you are to this, so many youtubers don't seem to take it seriously as a job but you do and I respect that a lot, keep going you're doing great!

[@hulkslayer626]

OMG!!! I think that last one was my favorite wedding one so far!! Epic!!

[@catsanchez5749]

OMGOSH YOU ARE AWESOME!!! So thrilled I found you. You are HILARIOUS ❤The smiles and laughter you bring is fabulous. LOVE YOU❤❤❤cat xxx

[@sandybrandtmurals]

Charlotte, I have learned so much from all your videos. English is not my first language and there are many things that you have opened my eyes to like in this video. Thank you 🥔Potato 👸Queen, you are one in 7 billion. 😘💖❤

[@sngray11]

Wow, that last story was crazy! I am so glad that the groom was able to see this bridezilla’s true colors and came back from the honeymoon alone! 💗 It is just a shame that his sister and little brother had to be ostracized and treated so abhorrently by the rest of the bridal party. 💔

[@sniderealism2410]

There was an update that said the groom got baby-trapped by the bride and they got back together.

[@AmethystEyes]

@@sniderealism2410 are they still together for the kid? I doubt the bride cares about what the groom wants.

[@davidguidry657]

I’ve been fighting off an illness the last few days and laughter truly is the best medicine! Miss Charlotte had me laughing so hard that I coughed up what was congested my chest and now I’m almost all better. Thank God, I don’t have to worry about the dosage so I’ve been loading up and rewatching videos!

[@Naayaah.s1471]

Speedy recovery to you my friend via Charlotte I always like your comments.

[@karencotlar2023]

Charlotte is the best medicine. Hope you are all better soon!

[@davidguidry657]

@@Naayaah.s1471 thanks bestie! I love this community that she’s built and you’re one of the reasons why.

[@davidguidry657]

@@karencotlar2023 ain’t she tho?! Thank you Tater Tot.

[@2late4date]

Sending healthy thoughts to you!

[@MarthaRamirez-fz8td]

Holy crap the blue petals was the best petty revenge. I think I have heard so far. Oh my gosh, I love it.

[@bladesthehedgehog]

I actually looked it up to see what was wrong with wearing a red dress to a wedding and it says nothing is wrong with wearing red as long as the colour does not out stage the bride with the brightness so dark reds are fine it doesn't mean anything so it's just her adding meaning to why she's wearing that particular colour that day

[@SingingSealRiana]

nah, it is a thing and not just her, it just is not that commenly known. like victorian flower language and why you should not give your partner yellow flowers and such

[@marykuettner752]

It is a Southern thing. I had never heard of it until I moved to Georgia.

[@InteriorDesignStudent]

I got petty revenge at my own wedding. Golden child sibling demanded she be allowed a plus one. (I had 4 guests; he had 3. All were family, i.e., nobody else was a stranger.) She tried to sneak him into the ceremony, and I kicked him out. He had to sit in a freezing cold car in the winter. He also had to pay for his own dinner at our informal reception. We covered the tab for everyone else. Don't bring a date when you're told not to bring a date. 🤷

[@weareEsKoPio]

My sister and I both got engaged this year! Months apart not treading on each others toes! But if something like that happened at either of our weddings… the police would need to be called 😂

[@fridathorn6742]

The police? I wish! I would need to call a funeral home.

[@yjvs1009]

That last story had me from beginning to end... I'm so so glad he realized who she was at the end of it all. So, glad he didn't take her crap. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@joywebster2678]

But he went back cuz she was pregnant, engineered by her skipping pills.

[@songbyrd0001]

Dang, I return to re-listen to this story. Charlottes enthusiasm is exciting every time.

[@RoseGoodwin-m7l]

I was wrong she handled it perfectly..love it😂😂

[@persgodiva]

I wore red to a wedding once too but I asked my friend beforehand because I wasn't sure if that was maybe a faux pas or something. I don't know wedding rules, apart from the obvious "don't wear white". She was completely fine with the red :)

[@jenniferpanther2979]

In the American South you're taught to not wear white, red, or black to a wedding. White upstages the bride, harlots (🙄 I don't think like this, but seriously this is what I was told growing up) wear red, and black is for funerals.

[@ritaantosik6659]

Same! I asked in advance like “Hey, obviously not white, but are there any other colors that guests shouldn’t wear to y’all’s wedding?” and her response was “Anything else is completely fine :)” - and like, that’s not a cultural norm everywhere so I’d hope not that many people see someone wearing red or black and immediately assume those implications. Some of us straight up didn’t know that it meant anything and just had a nice red or black dress that was dressy enough for the occasion

[@arcaderat1613]

That last story had another update recently where the bride baby trapped her brother. They weren’t going to have children but she had said something like “nothing missing a birth control pill wouldn’t fix”

[@CatLoverX74]

Do you know the name for her on Reddit?

[@arcaderat1613]

@@CatLoverX74 Found it, u/Educational-Leg1046, the last update was 27 days ago. The exact quote was “well there’s nothing forgetting a pill here and there can’t fix if you want to get your way, you know.”

[@pleasestopscreaming]

what an AWFUL human being ☹️

[@natalievancouver8188]

I have never ever heard that wearing a red dress to a wedding means you’ve slept with the groom! I’m now digging out my wedding album to check and see if anyone’s wearing red😳I also recently found out women shouldn’t wear white to a wedding so all these rules need to be in a wedding guest book so we can follow all the rules!😂maybe I will make one some day. Can’t wait for your wedding one day🎉❤

[@amandabaker4678]

I've never heard of a red dress meaning that either. I am guessing that it's connected to a certain culture, and not a broadly held idea.

[@ladyfashionsoul]

Yeah, I think the red dress thing is not something people actually should worry about. I went to school and worked in fashion and never heard that rule.

[@danielleking262]

Yes, it's been long well-known thing (that I know of) that only the bride wears white on her wedding day. Unless she says otherwise that it's okay, it's generally seen as an absolute insult if anyone else, esp. women, wear white. Never heard of the red dress though! I know in China their wedding dresses are typically red because that's the color of good luck or something.

[@HCCH85]

I've discovered I'm sooooo petty, I'm playing look what you made me do in my mind all the time watching this video .

[@katesam647]

2:12 I lost it at Saruman’s “TO WAR!” 🤣🤌🏼

[@deedeeisabelsdottir]

The Sarumon clip " To Warr!" the editors put for Emmas Petty revenge had me cracking up with laughter. 💯 perfection.

[@heatherboz]

I have mentioned it here before because my MIL wore red to my wedding not because she slept with her son but just because she hated me and didn't want me to marry her son. She's one of those crazy "she's taking my baby boy away" mothers, I don't talk to her at all and he's very low contact. Also my grandfather thought she was a guests date (a lady of the night his exact words lol) because she never met my family

[@MamaPinks]

Gosh, I was so relaxed about our menu that people were getting mad at me (bride) All I asked for was for no gifts, and as a "gift", I wanted people to bring their absolute favorite dish in the world to share. I wanted everyone to share in their joy. Finally someone decided to tell me that I HAVE to have a theme take it easier for people to bring food and then make a list of things for people to bring that way. I DIDN'T CARE! That stuff was trivial to me. I just wanted us to all be together and share what we love. UGH I guess I was supposed to be a bridezilla, but I didn't have it me.

[@mage1439]

I've never heard of people being mad someone was too chill about their wedding. Pfft on them.

[@MamaPinks]

@@mage1439 Oh yeah, they were hounding me to make up a menu. I couldn't understand WHY, they couldn't just make their favorite dish and bring it! 😕

[@mage1439]

@@MamaPinks It sounds like a good time other than that, hopefully they didn't ruin it.

[@kissit012]

People like being told what to do so they can complain about being told what to do.

[@MamaPinks]

@@kissit012 Yeah, my ex-husband was like that. He's the type that's not happy unless he's not happy. 😒

[@vibeci]

I love that happy dancing kitty at the end ...so purrfect for the finale!!

[@kilren1701]

Lol the colors for my wedding were red for females and sky blue for males. So, even though they didn't, did everyone think that all my brides maids slept with my husband? Lmao ...And my 12y.o. at the time niece who was the flower girl.. 😱 Wait... do I need to redo my wedding? Lol 😆

[@Aries73]

If you need a color wheel from Sherwin-Williams to buy a dress, you’re better off saying “f*ck it!!” and not going.

[@ziggystarlust]

The "petty" series of videos from you are always my favorite. Just over here living vicariously through these people

[@tamarak9393]

I didn’t know that about a red dress. One of my favourite dresses is red and I’ve worn it to a number of weddings. Fun fact, I didn’t sleep with any of the grooms.

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

I suspect it's from a specific culture.

[@karencotlar2023]

Me too!

[@bostenlemaire6895]

your loss.

[@kissit012]

It’s made up nonsense (like all wedding traditions)

[@eveleen18]

I'm Sooooo happy for that last girl and her brother 😍😍😍

[@angelasjambox]

Who loves it when Charlotte barks? 😂❤❤