Phallo: 26 Days Post-Op: Last Post-Op, Rough Night, & the Battle of Dysphoria

September 12, 2022. Recapping 26 days post-op. Had a rough night, had my last pre-op today, and the battle of dysphoria is (mostly) won.

[@Jordan-pf9ws]

I enjoyed following your journey thank you for making the videos. It's also really nice to see an older guy going through this. I've got a few years on you but just went to my phallo consultation last week in Montreal.

[@charlesasher]

You’re welcome. It is definitely harder to find videos by “older” guys bc the younger ones tend to dominate social media, but there are plenty of people going through phallo in their 30s-50s. It’s unfortunate for our community we think of someone in their thirties as “older.” It speaks to another problem, but that’s a different video. :)

[@L1veAuth3nticallyN0w]

Just playing catch up :) sending much love and healing vibes your way. I’m glad to hear you’re letting yourself feel the feels. Surgery is super hard on the body. Not unusual to be feeling down/discouraged. ❤. Wishing you an uneventfully trip home!

[@charlesasher]

Thank you for your kind words! Definitely being gentle with myself and taking one day at a time. I got home safely and have been able to rest and sleep more. 🥰

[@L1veAuth3nticallyN0w]

Wonderful to hear ❤

[@AbbyClark910]

Hoping you heal up quickly! Im praying for you!

[@earthangel8875]

Pretty typical, complications after phallo. One day at a time, it's just part of your journey, one day it will just be a memory. Angel from The Bay

[@charlesasher]

Yep, my complications are not uncommon, just a pain to deal with. Grateful they aren’t any worse! 🙏🏽

[@kathleencastle8631]

Shut up. There's nothing normal about this

[@pmbluemoon]

I hope you heal quickly 🙏 (Good juju!) I hope you're having fun being back with your best friend today! (Well, I'm a night owl so technically it's Saturday already. 🤫😁)

[@charlesasher]

Thanks man! We had a great jam session. And I am able to rest more now that I am home.

[@pmbluemoon]

@@charlesasher Great to hear, home is so much easier to rest in for sure. Enjoy being home! 😊

[@paulb.5985]

Your arm is healing nice! I hope that your urinary issues resolve soon. ❤

[@charlesasher]

Thanks, Paul.

[@paulb.5985]

@@kathleencastle8631 I am sorry that you are hurting inside so much that you have to say hateful things to people you don’t know. It must be a sad existence. If you hate transpeople don’t watch their videos.

[@kathleencastle8631]

@@paulb.5985 Being honest isn't hateful. Lying to people and telling them this is something to be proud of is enabling. Doctors should have protected her from herself. You don't amputate healthy genitalia and give people more problems than they already had. Duh 🙄

[@paulb.5985]

@@kathleencastle8631 Why are you so concerned about what doctors and transpeople do if you hate it?

[@kathleencastle8631]

@@paulb.5985 I do care. This is criminal

[@kathleencastle8631]

This could be forever.