Phil Hartman Murder | Mental Health and Personality Factors

[@Isabella66Gracen]

I rarely comment, but this case still devastates me. Phil was so beloved by many of GenX, including myself, as well as my husband. The world was truly robbed of the many delightful comedic performances that never were because of Brynn's jealousy and resentfullness. RIP Phil Hartman.

[@polarbearsrus6980]

Wow, "Phil was being slowly killed by Brynn", exactly, so sad.

[@carolmitchell6155]

So true. I was in a relationship for 15 years, where my boyfriend manipulated and cried and then I finally left when I didn't recognize me anymore. It took about 3 years for me to rebuild my self esteem etc.. It was a hard lesson to learn and a mistake I'll never make again. They are slow and methodical thinking of ways to keep you guessing. By keeping you off balance you just learn to accept things so as not to make waves.

[@polarbearsrus6980]

@@carolmitchell6155 Good for you, it's such a horrendous experience and these people are everywhere.

[@dingfeldersmurfalot4560]

@@carolmitchell6155 I've definitely known people like that. The type I'm thinking of needs constant attention, but they don't care how they get it. The easiest way is by complaining, and it also offloads the pressure of that craving mindset by making it someone else's fault. They HAVE to complain about this or that, after all. It's not because they want to, or they're just being a pain demanding attention all the time even without earning it. They have no choice, they just HAVE TO complain. Like Lt. Columbo turning back around and saying, "Just one more thing ..."

[@launabanauna496]

@@carolmitchell6155 Yes, they're called narcissists, and they are a scourge on the earth.

[@launabanauna496]

@@dingfeldersmurfalot4560 Yes, they're called narcissists.

[@RandiMEE]

I knew Phil Hartman as an aquaintance during this time and the 2-3 years leading up to his death through our shared interest in boating in Marina del Rey , California. I think a lot of Dr. Grandes' assesment of Phils personality was very good. What is missed, obviously as he never met him, is that Phil was one of the "good ones". Living in Hollywood as I have for 3 decades, the glow of celebrity wears thin very quickly. He was an actual good person. He was an extrovert but I would say in a gentle way. He wasnt the kind who would deliberatly "showboat" and feel that he had to be the center of attention, but he could quickly make an entire room burst out in laughter. He used to do an impersonation of my husband, who is himself a big personality with a strong German accent & He would walk up and down the dock doing the impersonation . Especially during the winter months, usually on a Sunday, he would call my husband at home to talk about boats. They would talk for a long time. My husband initially did not know who Phil was as a celebrity as he doesnt watch much television and certainly not SNL. I think Phil really liked that he could be himself with him. We never met his wife but it was pretty well known in the boating circles that he had married a " gold digger". We never saw her join him in his love of boating. I feel that Phil was 100% an innocent victim of an out of control cocaine addict. It is a horrifying and sad thing that his children havent had the blessing of growing up with such a kind person. The day we all heard the news left us speechless and sad. Rest In Peace to one of the Good Guys.

[@Peacefullyatbeach104]

Thanks for sharing. I was always a fan of Phil's work. I have heard similar stories of him being a great guy.

[@guerralg63]

Marvelous tribute to a friend

[@Adrian-zd4cs]

This is so sad. Thank you for sharing.

[@ItsKrma00]

Would have been nice for Grande to acknowledge your personal and thoughtful input. Thank-you.

[@peterfazio9306]

Beautifully put. Thank you for sharing!

[@vanessaalvarado8048]

Its been over 20 yrs and this still gets to me.

[@MeatLockerBlitz]

So sorry for your loss.

[@keyboardwarriorrose]

Yes! Me too! Phil was a shining light in this world!

[@mgk2020]

@@MeatLockerBlitz lol

[@lbdeuce]

It’s upsetting when people fall in and continue to love crazy people

[@itsjustlaurel1531]

Me too.

[@katemaloney4296]

Pretty much EVERYTHING I've seen or read concerning Phil Hartman's murder has the finger pointed at him. Nearly everyone interviewed says: "Phil was successful but could hide inside himself, and Brynne just didn't know how to cope with that. It helped drive her to the edge." Your presentation was by far the most coherent, well-spoken and unbiased presentation of this case I've ever seen. You laid it out there: Brynn's narcissism and Phil's inability to confront. And though you didn't come right out and say it, Phil was an abused spouse who was only staying in the marriage for the kids. Even 22 years after this tragedy, husband abuse is still a taboo subject. Seriously, there are those who still blame him for his murder. The sad part is the people who come out and defend Brynn as a "loving mother and wife; who was driven to desperation by her husband's success, and would never have done this if not for Zoloft". I counter: It is a proven fact that drugs lower your inhibitions and lower the veil to reveal who you really are inside. If anything, drugs exacerbated who Brynn really was inside: a ticking time-bomb."

[@citrusandclove340]

Well-said!

[@PhoenixRising87]

It's kind of sick that somehow, the writers of those pieces can work it out in their heads that Brynn's lack of impulse control and...almost pathological refusal to take care of herself is somehow her husband's/murder victim's fault. That's no better than saying to a battered wife "he only hits you because you *make* him!" Disgusting.

[@paper-chasepublications9433]

Yeah... it was so messed up when Phil Hartman was murdered. I was in my late teens. He was a truly funny guy and seemed nice. I remember feeling so badly for their kids. You made really valid points. Thanks for covering this, Doc.

[@carolv8450]

Were the kids his and hers together?

[@southernoregoncatmom6519]

Yes!

[@nan16cd]

Phil had been struggling for years to make it to the top. He made it. He was getting his own show. He had come a along way from being Captain Carl on the first Pee Wee show. With his own show he could have made a place in show business for her. All she had to do was hang on a little longer. She did not want to do the work. She was mad at him for not making her successful. She turned out to be a very toxic wife. This was a very sad case.

[@karascene13]

"Slowly killed by Brynn." Wow- that struck a nerve with me. Great way to put that relationship in context. And how Phil represented her Hollywood rejection. Very astute. 👍 The only thing I was wondering you might of mentioned, is how Brynn accused Phil of cheating, but she was out there flirting, (trying to get a job or not is no excuse) and how she seems to have had an ongoing relationship with the man she ran to after the murder. Whether it was still a sexual relationship or not- who knows? My point is, I think she was projecting like a lot of cheaters do. Maybe there is no proof of her cheating, so that's why it wasn't brought up. Imo, she was probably doing extramarital things, (even if just flirting and inappropriate friendships, but possibly more) and while doing drugs and drinking, things can get a little "loose" if you know what I mean. I think she put HER cheating burden upon Phil just like she did all her other disappointments.

[@hollydowns2279]

You nailed it! Certainly

[@guerralg63]

Projection.

[@stephaniehansen5162]

I was shocked when this happened. So sad. His kids would be in their mid to late twenties now. I hope they are ok. I miss Phil ; he was enormously talented. 😢

[@lynnetmb4706]

It was 25 years ago

[@E.D1282]

His son is 32 and his daughter is 29 and married, and apparently they are doing great because they were taken care of so well by family members

[@E.D1282]

@@lynnetmb4706 Actually 23 years ago

[@Raisin_Girl]

I ended up looking Phil up because the Depp/Heard situation reminds me so much of it. I am Glad Johnny got out of it alive.

[@peterfazio9306]

I'm pretty sure that he did kick her on that plane. Perhaps Heard is the lucky one to get out of that one.

[@Raisin_Girl]

@@peterfazio9306 You having a bad night? 🫂

[@peterfazio9306]

@@Raisin_Girl Haha, Nah, just binging on Dr. Grande for the holiday. Happy Independence Day!

[@ceruleanwonder]

"It's hard to imagine a worse outcome for a relationship than a murder suicide". I had to pause to spit out my water.

[@Barbara-zu4pl]

Leaving 2 young children, orphans.

[@joelheinen7625]

Understatement like that keeps me listening to Dr Grande. He’s a stitch.

[@brianbauer2595]

@Mr. Layth Adrian Yes, that does sound bad, lol.

[@heathernikki5734]

@Mr. Layth Adrian lmfao

[@carolnahigian9518]

I bet he said ‘l WILL TAKE the kids!!!!”’

[@para_bellum_1984]

I was a big NewsRadio fan growing up. Honestly I still miss him today.

[@TheKitchenerLeslie]

Whenever I see him in something, I always think, "I wonder what Phil's doing now?" Then I remember he's gone. My mind blocks it out for some reason. Just can't accept it. Same with Chris Cornell... who was murdered by an associate of Epstein.

[@susanwilliamspodesta1005]

@@TheKitchenerLeslie l

[@lizbethk540]

I feel the same way. It makes me so sad. He was so talented in so many ways.

[@h.borter5367]

I was in my 20s when that show aired. I still miss him very much.

[@hotties3v3n]

HRC

[@LeLeB37]

This was a true tragedy because Phil was a great talent and had so much more left to give to the world with his talent. This case always bothered me because of how severe and senseless it seemed. Your take on his wife seeing Phil as a representation of her rejection by Hollywood is very insighful and does serve as a bit of clarity in this really bizarre horrible event.

[@trfaison]

Agreed. I was a adolescent when this occurred. I watched Hartman SNL episodes frequently and enjoyed his work. I remember feeling that Brynn's actions were selfish and a result of her substance use. Your analysis provides insight I had not considered.

[@lorimiller4301]

Was Bryn Sexually Abused as a Child ?

[@miriamhavard7621]

Lori Miller honestly, what does that do? Justify her behavior? She was an evil, selfish murderer.

[@ambregris]

@@miriamhavard7621 yeah, it doesn't really mean anything. Countless people were/are sexually abused as children and don't end up murdering their spouses.

[@chigal0926]

Your take on the murder on Phil Hartman is interesting. However, you failed to mention domestic abuse. I was 20 years old when this happened. After the truth came out about their relationship, it was obvious to me that Hartman was an abused spouse. This is the dirty little secret that is constantly ignored in our culture and legal system: women can be just as abusive and destructive in relationships. His life was in danger the longer he stayed in this toxic marriage. I can understand Hartmann’s hesitancy in divorcing. He had two kids, and he would have another failed marriage under his belt. This was a classic domestic abuse situation, a no one wants call it what it is. Instead of Brynn trying to make a life for herself in other professional fields, she was using her husband to do that. Hartmann was in an impossible situation. This is a lethal double standard: I want to bask in my husband’s success. I expect success because “my man” is successful!!! If I don’t get what I want, it’s the man’s fault. The whole substance abuse thing is massive problem in our society. There are so many people who are active drug users and alcoholics. This kind of things really screws up the brain. I have made a rule to myself never to date anyone who is a substance abuser. I am still out on dating recovered substance abusers. The situation is too volatile and precarious.

[@cw5451]

Very astute comment! And yes, drug and alcohol really screw up a person’s brain and ability to think! I’ve learned from experience that dating recovered alcoholics or drug abusers is unwise because the character traits that predisposed them to substance abuse are still part of that person‘s character. Also, the damage that drugs and alcohol do to the brain is permanent, so those peoples’ brains don’t function well after they stop abusing the substances.

[@nettiea9384]

Phil must hv loved his wife or may hv pitied her... something! and his kids cuz a man divorced 2x doesnt hv a problem pulling the trigger again and divorcing a 3rd time... the likelihood of divorce actually goes up. Maybe he liked the crazy side of her at times and just thought he cd handle this volatile situation?

[@ciobalina7445]

Well, dr.Grande mentions that it seems to him that the husband, Phil, had been slowly “ground down, “killed slowly”, by his wife.

[@cw5451]

Dirty Magic11 I agree. But I don’t see how that relates to my earlier comment.

[@steppy3736]

If I recall correctly, she had also been diagnosed as Bi-Polar I.

[@AnimalsMatterMorally]

Oh my God, I couldn't watch this video fast enough. I was a HUGE fan of Phil Hartman's and I was absolutely crushed by his murder. 😰 I still get sad whenever I think of him or see him in SNL reruns. SUCH an enormously talented funny man.

[@mariebernier3076]

so agree. he was special.

[@Poppi_Weasel]

same

[@FuryanJedi13]

Sometimes I find myself wondering what Phil would be doing if he was still alive today. He'd be turning 72 in 2020, but he'd probably still have an amazing career. It's a damn shame we never got to see it.

[@kimaparks2592]

Thank you for this breakdown. As a lover of all things Simpsons the death of Phil broke my heart. I couldn’t watch anything on his death because it was needlessly tragic. Thank you for telling this story without being triggering.

[@mireilleblacke6567]

Wow. Impressive analysis. It does seem that Phil truly had no idea it was coming, otherwise he'd never have gone to sleep with such a threat looming.

[@ladennayoung2939]

I'm sure he didn't see it coming. This was a woman that he loved and trusted. She was a beautiful woman, and more then likely seemed harmless.

[@judywright4241]

Mireille Blacke ---He was used to the dysfunctional, he’s the boiling frog who doesn’t realize he’s being cooked.

[@miriamhavard7621]

Judy Wright BINGO!!!

[@jenniferloretto5939]

I want to say, “Phil Hartman thanks you from the other side!” I love and miss him so. You are spot-on as usual Dr T.

[@MegaTriumph1]

Friends warned Phil. I watched a show on his friends letting him know of their concerns for his safety. Such a mystery case thanks for explaining it.

[@MsDrSantana]

Brynn was taking SSRI's and mixing them with cocaine and alcohol. This is very significant in affecting her thinking, aggression, and impulsiveness. Many people on SSRI's become very dangerous when they combine them with other drugs or alcohol.

[@avalonmist254]

Not to mention non compliance and taking Zoloft on and off brings a horrible rebound of depression.

[@denisebaber4976]

M Santana she was an unstable mess before that. I wouldn't blame the drugs. Drugs just magnify your flaws.

[@miriamhavard7621]

She was a sow. She was envious of Phil. Pig.

[@amber40494]

@@denisebaber4976 drugs are extremely dangerous when taken together with alcohol and cocaine!

[@janettecoleman1714]

Self centred, she could've just taken herself OUT!

[@berjaboy]

Remember hearing troubling stories about her in the entertainment shows and sections in the papers and thinking, this is not going to end well. But I thought she was going to do harm to Phil's ex-wife or their kids. When I heard she had murdered him, it was shocking.

[@megan7788]

It's the first time I'm hearing about this story and sadly when you said that she was slowing killing him, and explaining the symptoms I could relate, you described my mother. There's no stability she goes from someone caring to extremely violent and it's hard to hate her for a long time because she doesn't feels or says "sorry", she simply acts like nothing happened and makes you questions if something really happened or if you should bring the previous issues to the light again. Self-pity, self-admiration, lack of awareness, lack of graditute, jealousy, extreme possessiveness, "short memory" and "physical illness", gaslighting, extreme violence, love for attention is all I'm dealing with right now. I have no place to go and no documents because she's "guarding" them in a "safe place", no keys, no bank account, I'm studying online. She separated me from the world, friends that I had. I was made to think that they are dangerous and can "kill me", used me as an instrument to hurt my father and was verbally abusive when I didn't wanted to, all this resulted in me having absolutely no one but her and fear of hurting myself in tentative to "escape".

[@SynnJynn]

Sounds like my sister... You try but there is nothing you can do.

[@nicoles7800]

Megan Wow, that’s quite a lot you’re dealing with. I bet it’s especially bad now we are all in isolated lockdown. I have had very similar experiences. It’s not anything you are doing that makes your mother behave this way. You are being abused. I hope you can reach out to lifeline, or a support phone line for victims of domestic abuse. You do not have to suffer like this. There are many people who are equipped to offer you support. This sort of abuse never gets better, it just escalates. You deserve a much better experience of life. You deserve to be loved and treated decently.💕✌️

[@megan7788]

@@nicoles7800 thanks

[@miriamhavard7621]

My mom also displayed psychotic, abusive behavior. l was SO glad to finally escape!!!!

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

Fascinating case and brilliant analysis! Your conclusion about Phil Hartman being the embodiment of Hollywood establishment in the eyes of Brynn makes a lot of sense. Really tragic story. Thank you Dr. Grande for another fantastic video:)

[@LaidBackAssassin]

His beautiful wife has always gotten her way, and for Hollywood to reject her was unbearable for her ego.

[@majorkade]

she was average beautiful in Hollywood. maybe back in her hometown she was it, but in Hollywood and LA, lots of competition. made her more insecure.

[@hotties3v3n]

She wasn't a great beauty at all.

[@rtoma1974]

She was tall with a very average face. And she was getting old. She couldn't take reality.

[@FuryanJedi13]

@@rtoma1974 My thoughts exactly. I always thought Brynn was rather plain, appearance wise. Not drop dead gorgeous, and definitely not ugly... just plain. I've seen pictures of their grown-up daughter Birgen, though, and she is an absolute stunner!

[@1915FadedBelly]

Then they were a good match with their appearance then🙄

[@MelTheMuppetslayer]

This one still hurts my soul...

[@julilla1]

Me too, at least a couple of times a year I think how I miss him and wish he was around to make us laugh.

[@miriamhavard7621]

YES.

[@carolnahigian9518]

Perhaps PHIL WAS THE PROBLEM!!!

[@MelTheMuppetslayer]

@@carolnahigian9518 while I’ll agree that there is always a possibility, his wife checked off all the boxes for abusive partner.

[@Lisa-wu1ld]

Wow, makes me think that Johnny Depp & Amber Heard broke up in the nick of time! I stumbled across your channel & before I knew it I was subscribed & watching almost every one of them. Now, how would you diagnose that, an addictive disorder? Love the dry sense of humor and the quick "side note jokes" without a whisper of a smile. Great content! ❤️

[@anothercleverusername992]

It's insane knowing that Phil was genuinely the nicest guy in Hollywood. Most have tons of skeletons in their closets in that industry... But Phil Hartman was just a good guy. Through and through. Tragic.

[@gypsyjustgypsy]

I found you searching for NP disorder information. I'm now binging your channel. Thank you so much for being here! I very much appreciate the factual, clear and drama-free content. Subscribed.

[@GenXfrom75]

I really enjoyed Phil Hartman's "everyman" talent. I will always remember how shocking it was to hear about this case. He really had a wonderful talent. I felt so heartbroken for their children.

[@rayross997]

Miss Phil for sure, Lionel Hutz was one of my fav Simpsons characters.

[@ellymizrahi1199]

There’s an apocryphal story that one of the people who supplied her with the drugs was Andy Dick and that when Jon Lovitz found out about his role in the tragedy, Lovitz basically tracked Dick down (not that it had to be too difficult; he was in a bar) and walked over to him, slammed his head into the bar and just beat the crap out of him. Also, your description of her desire for fame was eerily close to an exact summary of the Simpsons episode in which Troy McClure marries Selma. Side note: Hartman’s friend and Simpsons creator Matt Groening had begun work on his next project by the point that this happened and Hartman was already on board. So if anyone didn’t know, Hartman’s next role was going to be Zapp Brannigan on Futurama. He’s still greatly missed. I remember seeing the news covered when I was a freshman in high school. When the last SNL anniversary prime time episode was broadcast, I had a viewing party at my home and when they took time to honor cast members who have passed, I had one of my guests said “oh yeah, I forgot Phil Hartman committed suicide and I lost my mind. You’re doing the Lord’s work keeping people properly reminded of this great man. It’s not the most pleasant part, obviously, but we do so much harm when we refuse to stare down the problems our society faces - even those of its own creation. Thank you.

[@PhoenixRising87]

I'm so sick of hearing that apocryphal story. I don't care if a drug addict gave drugs to another addict. I assume, by her height, build, and the fact that she had children, that Brynn Hartman was, in fact, not a toddler. She was a grown-ass woman who (supposedly) wanted to have an acting career, not to mention she had children to take care of. Staying clean was her responsibility; that woman went out of her way to not take care of herself. That's no one else's fault but hers. But yeah...Phil Hartman is still missed.

[@ellymizrahi1199]

@@PhoenixRising87 you realize more than one factor can the cause of something, right?

[@PhoenixRising87]

@@ellymizrahi1199 Did you miss the part wherein I said "staying clean was her responsibility"? Brynn was a sick woman who stubbornly refused to take care of herself, and all this retroactive passing the buck onto some guy who *might* have given her drugs is exactly the kind of narrative a person like that would *want.*

[@ellymizrahi1199]

@@PhoenixRising87 Yeah, umm, obviously I didn't miss it as my reply was pointing out how you seem to think that any event has only one cause. But I can see why you'd want to double check that as you seem to miss A LOT and I'm sure assume that others are like you, but rest assured, I think you'll find that most other people do a better job than you do. Also, I'm not sure about "retroactively passing" anything as that makes no sense. You see, time moves forward in a line. When we talk about something happening before, we typically refer to this as "the past." Courts don't retroactively convict people because the crime happened in the past. You don't retroactively pay for the lunch you ate today just because it happened in the past. Now, since I've saved you some time that you certainly would have spent researching for a doctoral dissertation on retroactivity, maybe use the time to volunteer with people suffering with mental health issues like working at a help line. Though, as someone with a Masters in Counseling, I would caution on leading with "you're sick, go take care of yourself, that's YOUR responsibility." I don't think they would find that very helpful.

[@morriganwitch]

The best thing about being in shielding from the virus and staying at home is I’m catching up On Dr Grande while on my exercise bike xxx thank you I’m actually married to a guy who has absolutely not a bad bone in his body . I am blessed xxx

[@amber40494]

Lucky you!

[@kevinhornbuckle]

Phil's unwillingness to divorce probably arose more from conscientiousness than from agreeableness given that they had kids to raise.

[@lamolambda8349]

Joe: Just give her half and get this divorce over with. Phil: It's not half it's two thirds, she get's a third and the lawyers get a third.

[@miriamhavard7621]

Social constructs lay heavy guilt on people, pressure is put in them to stay with 24 kt losers.

[@a.h.2667]

I wonder if he felt like a failure with three marriages that went sour.

[@matthewrocca4197]

"Here's the thing with prescription medications: it's not always safe to mix them with alcohol or other drugs" 😂This case is particularly sad but I couldn't help but laugh at the dry humor here

[@erust9465]

Hi Dr. Grande, This one is really sad, what a waste of two lives, and those poor kids have to live with this horror the rest of their lives. I always thought they were utterly different people. She was probably very charming and lovable at first, and I’m sure he must’ve loved her. He didn’t have to marry a 3rd time! I think the only thing they had in common at the end were the kids. They were at different points in their professional lives. He was accomplished and a success, she wasn’t, and that’s all she wanted. As he became simply tired of her constant insecurity he withdrew, emotionally and physically. That proved to make her even more needy. I do believe she was sucking the life out of him, and I think he stayed because of his kids. I think he wanted to give them a traditional happy childhood. He was probably convincing himself that his wife would stop, that’d she drop the “career” thing and be happy to simply be his wife and a Mom. She couldn’t admit that she wasn’t a success because she simply wasn’t talented enough. He did get her some breaks. If she was talented enough she would’ve taken off. She blamed him for not helping her, not willing to admit to herself she shouldn’t NEED anymore help than he’d already given. Of COURSE he didn’t see her shooting him coming. He certainly wasn’t in the same emotional state. And bring drug abuse into it on her part, not good. People today are so shocked at the very MENTION of cocaine use. Back in the 80-90s, ESPECIALLY the 80s, cocaine use was common, especially in the entertainment field. Most used it more like a party favor, as it kept one from getting “drunk” from alcohol and you could go longer. Plus the cost was high, so most didn’t over indulge. However those that moved on to constant use, mixing with other drugs or harder drugs found out quickly the damage it could render to your life! She was obviously intensely insecure, and needed constant propping up in that regard. Cocaine would’ve been appealing to her as it gives one a feeling of invincibility. She was the LAST person that should’ve been around guns. Too easy to do something impetuous and not thought out, especially if on multiple drugs, and then realize what you’ve just done! So here they are, she’s attention starved because she wants fame, no amount of attention he gave her was sufficient. He’s not doing drugs, and is pulling away because he was drained, and probably getting increasingly disgusted (that level of neediness is a turn off to say the least!). His pulling away made her worse and that cycle ends badly when weapons are handy. I believe he gave her one gun as a gift. If so, the irony is stunning! They probably argued, she was high, he was over it and went to bed. She got MAD, and killed him, and was probably shocked that she actually did. I feel that’s why she called her ex, she was high, in shock and couldn’t be alone. She probably continued getting high until the drugs were gone. Then it REALLY hit her, police have been called, dead husband and she had a final snap. Since my husband was a touring musician for many years, back in those days too, I’ve certainly seen my fair share of people with cocaine issues. I can see how this can happen! His nickname was “Sarg” as he did not tolerate this kind of thing. He knew all too well that it’s about the worst thing you could do. When this case broke in the news, we just looked at each other and said at the same time, “who in the hell let her be around guns?” It’s too bad Hartman didn’t realize what a bad idea that was. It’s a good thing the kids were left out if it. It could’ve been a bigger tragedy! So sad for the families, especially the kids. It’s a cautionary tale, yet in the following years people started consuming even worse drugs, heroin and opiates. I’ll NEVER understand that, and why the switch in public consumption! But that’s another story! LOL! I agree with your take on this sad situation. And as always, thanks for your hard work, and sharing with all! Best Wishes!

[@rullmourn1142]

Dr Grande, would you please give an analysis of the Lizzy Borden murder case. Im in a true crime group and would really like to hear if you think Lizzy murdered her parents, the case is so famous among us true crime ppl, worldwide...thank you.

[@ladennayoung2939]

It is an odd case. It appears on the version with Christina Ricci that she admitted it by whispering in her sisters ear. In the Elizabeth Montgomery version. It went off with her still denying it.

[@ladennayoung2939]

But the thing is. They never found any blood on her clothing or anything. So it just seem very odd.

[@silentwitness536]

@@ladennayoung2939 If I remember correctly, the montgomery ends with her sister asking if she did it and montgomery sort of slightly smirks. fade out.

[@silentwitness536]

@@ladennayoung2939 always have a second set of clothes before u kill someone.

[@rullmourn1142]

@@ladennayoung2939 ..She was seen burning one of her dresses, shortly after her fathers funeral. She burned the dress in the kitchen stove, not outside, she admitted doing it and said it was stained by paint. I don't pay attn to movies about her, i mean they are just movies, mainly for entertainment. I have studied the actual trial transcripts.

[@2legit2Kwit]

I was really disturbed when this happened. Couldn’t fathom how anyone could do this to another.

[@XxYwise]

BPD rage is a helluva drug.

[@alywi]

“I think the problem really comes down to that there’s a limit to what they can fit on those prescription bottles in terms of warnings.”

[@TaraSmallss]

I remember when this happened. Still breaks my heart. I’m a recovering addict. Different substance, but still when you mix relationships with drugs it never works out

[@HopskotchBunny]

This was extremely interesting, Dr. Grande. Thank you. Phil Hartman was such a gifted actor and did so many animation character’s voices that I loved including “JiJi” in “KiKi’s Delivery Service.” He is greatly missed.

[@JoshuaDb_The_Witness]

New Radio was brilliant! Hartman was a master.

[@picklesthewise]

God, this was horrible. Their relationship was clearly abusive and he was in a position like many victims of abuse where he felt he couldn't leave. That plus the whole stigma of men having to "tough it out" in those kind of situations, or even the idea by some that women can't be abusive, which is wrong. Drugs and alcohol just made a bad situation worse. I feel so sorry for his family having to pick up the pieces after he was gone. Thank goodness she never went after his children, too.

[@adventurebabyboomer7318]

Those two were misguided. This is an example of when marriage is toxic....

[@LisaD007]

Dr. Grande, Once again you have given a thorough and extremely insightful analysis of an interesting but heartbreaking case. And, as always, your analysis is spot on! Thanks for providing us with this perfectly executed and interesting analysis. It’s always a pleasure to hear and learn from your perspective. Keep up the great work!

[@sorartificial]

You need to do Johny Depp and that narcissistic ex from Aquaman

[@Brutus1580]

This will always be a tragic memory for me. Loved Phil Hartman.

[@BrainsApplied]

Oh wow, another video? I'm surprised you have time to make all of these 😱

[@gailremp3628]

Maybe he's having to hide out also. Aren't we all.

[@teresahowick5197]

The world has at least slowed down if not stopped. We all have more time.

[@theartoflanguage3429]

He probably makes a bunch at a time, then schedules them. Huge energy/time saver.

[@lisabergman1444]

I was and still remain a huge fan of Phil Hartman. This case is one where I keep wishing it could have ended differently. It’s beyond sad.

[@dewilew2137]

Good morning, Dr. Grande!

[@mmgibson1]

I remember when Phil Hartman was an SNL regular; he could be hilarious. I wasn't aware of all this going on in the background, however. It reminds me of what a pressure cooker it must be for any couple in the public eye, or of mixing volatile ingredients in a beaker back when I was taking chemistry classes in college and of having to be careful to do it so that there is not an explosion.

[@SHurd-rc2go]

I was in California at the time, and remember it very well. She became a despised person, according to media, because Phil was so well liked.

[@laurielynne2006]

Wow! You’ve been covering a lot of great cases! Love your channel!

[@Robin-xt7yo]

I remember hating Brynn because she took a talented man away from us. And of course a father away from their 2 little kids.

[@jaimereynolds258]

I remember when that happened. Phil will always be missed

[@jjHunsecker]

9:38 I'm glad you mentioned the "swinging earring" in the credits for SNL, Dr. Grande. I watched that intro every week on SNL and I never thought to wonder why the earring was swinging-- it turns out she kept turning her face to the camera ("I'm ready for my close-up, Mr. DeMille"), even though it wasn't her shot. That speaks volumes about her yearning for attention. 14:52 As Law & Order has taught us, the perps ALWAYS forget to wipe their fingerprints off the bullets inside the gun. So even though Ron's fingerprints were on the gun itself, the prints on the bullets would point to Brynn... PLUS, she would have gunshot residue all over her and Ron would not.

[@lyndawood7937]

Wonderful video. Glad you did this on Phil Hartman. Always great content.

[@amill1563]

It's interesting how I used to view celebrity status. Back in the 80's and 90's when I grew up they were practically Gods roaming the earth. It's no wonder many folks would aspire to this. I wonder how Phil's wife grew up and what that kind of attention really meant to her.

[@majorkade]

celebrities are our royalty

[@miriamhavard7621]

She couldn't cut it in Hollywood, Phil's career was taking off like a rocket. She was explosive with rage, and she murdered him and herself.

[@intheredcold9216]

Like the last two generations.. being told that all that matters is how they feel, that they deserve the best, they're perfect, have a participation trophy. In stead of being realistic with kids & teaching them responsibility.

[@lisashrestha5023]

I’m so glad you did this case. It was such a haunt to me as a young girl. Brynn’s sister in MN raised the children and they look to be well balanced, lovely young adults now. Incredibly awful and shocking situation. Phil was also sick with a cold and there was OTC cough medicine/flu packets on his bedside table. 😞

[@GGiblet]

I just loved him. He was so silly. The whole thing was just tragic. 😩 Thank you for the wonderful exploration of the subject 💜

[@thelostronin]

Phil you were taken away from us far too early. To me you were always the funniest man who ever lived I am just so sorry your life was cut so short. I still weep at the loss of you.

[@IllusionSector]

_Hi, I'm Dr. Todd Grande. You may remember me from such psychoanalyses as Ted Bundy, or Phil McGraw._

[@1492chris]

After watching at least 50 of Dr. Grande's analysis I rate this one #1. Incredibly inciteful, accurate, sad and peppered with Todd's black humor. We lost an important comedic talent to guns and drugs that night. I miss Phil every time I watch SNL.

[@gailremp3628]

Very interesting. A good breakdown and a good analysis. Thank you.

[@Poppi_Weasel]

I loved him in Houseguest! I was so hurt when I found out about this 😥. You are right, she hurt so many people. TEPB

[@endim002]

@Dr Grande, Would you consider doing a video on the case of Betty Broderick? I find her case has many unusual elements which are fascinating and would love your feedback.

[@makepeace234]

Yes! I've requested Dr. Grande to do an analysis on this case as well. So polarizing with the 1st trial ending in a hung jury and one of the jurists overheard saying " What took her so long?" Still so many people even now years later saying Betty should be given parole. Please fellow viewers chime in!

[@redram5150]

He was an artist too. Before comedy, he was a popular album cover artist. Among the bands he worked with were America, Steely Dan, and Poco.

[@digitalbrand5510]

“Fire bad!”

[@allrightknight]

I recall an interview with him where he showed Graphic Design work he had done early in his professional life, so he even had other talents. I was also shocked at the manner of his violent death not having known too much about his personal life. The details leading up to it and the relationship didn’t seem to match anything I would have imagined his life to be at the time.

[@johndeaux3703]

He designed record album covers.

[@Decgyrrl]

Yes, Phil Hartman, was gradually being killed by his wife way b4 she pulled that trigger. The shooting, was the finality. He was asleep when she shot him to death. He never knew what hit him. This is a very sad & tragic case. Something that never should've happened. The use of drugs & alchohol, along with severe unhappiness, is in itself a lethal combination. Look at the outcome. RIP Phil & Bryn. There is peace in Heaven✝️🕯💐🕊

[@MrUndersolo]

Thank you for covering this. I remember when this happened, and I always wondered about the specifics of the case. It seemed like it was impossible to get all the details out.

[@michellebastiani6470]

I've been watching Dr. Grande's videos alot lately, it makes me think alot about the fact that at 16 I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder as well as bipolar disorder and manic depressive. Now I know I shouldn't have been diagnosed with any of those things at the age of 16 as well as the fact that those disorders are so alike and the one isn't even a diagnosis anymore it's now considered bipolar. I know I have bipolar but as an adult I haven't been diagnosed with anything else. It makes me wonder why so many doctors "diagnosed" me at the age of 16. I remember seeing around 5 or 6 different doctors and that was the conclusion they came to. Idk I have just been thinking about it alot since watching Dr. Dr. Grande's videos.

[@dimarks444]

Often doctors are unsure in the beginning, especially when it’s a younger person. I’m glad they weeded out the borderline personality diagnosis because that’s harder to treat. I hope you’re getting good treatment. I’ve been taking medication for bipolar 34 years. Good luck.

[@michellebastiani6470]

@@dimarks444 Thank you. Yes I have been doing better, better than when I had written this comment lol. Definitely I am going to be moving States very soon and I am going to have to find a new psychiatrist obviously so I'm a bit scared about that. Thank you so much though and I hope you're doing well also ✌️❣️

[@hithere4951]

As always, thank you for your great work and amazing diverse contents dr grande . I have a suggestion if you do not mind. Can you talk about the “advice giving” practice in therapy -I am not really sure what to call it - ? Maybe provide us with a better terminology for it and a definition. Can it be beneficial ? And If yes in which circumstances? Keep the great work dr.

[@valereirenfro9040]

Poor Phil. Simply put he should have walked away. He might still be alive today. One has to pay attention to clues that things are bad & there were plenty of clues.

[@MusicforSweetyinSD]

She murdered a wonderful actor and good man. 🤬

[@LuckySouthernGirl]

What a horrid HORRID woman this was. So sad he ever met her.

[@danielescobar7618]

Phil was depressed himself but wouldn’t leave her because he had a captain save-a-hoe complex. He was a sweet and forgiving guy and kind of desperate to find someone who could reciprocate his codependent savior style of relationship

[@anberlincaligrl]

Fascinating and tragic story. Could you do an analysis of the Kathleen Folbigg case? She was an Australian woman convicted of smothering all four of her children over a period of years. It’s a fascinating case. Either way, thanks for all of these thought-provoking videos!

[@Samantha2209]

Oh gosh. Phil. I think I’m gonna cry. Let me hold it together for the vid.

[@kimalonzo2145]

News Radio was a funny show. In my opinion.🙄

[@chrisclayton584]

You should try the tv preacher Kenneth Copeland. Wow. 🙄 He's gonna just "blow away" the coronavirus.

[@michellebeissel3937]

Thoughtful presentation as usual. Their kids who were in the house weren't killed; her murdering impulse stopped with her husband. I wondered if her mind at the time was able to comprehend that she would be depriving them of a father. She eventually deprived them of both parents. Your insight that he was 'being ground down' and she was using him as a scapegoat for Hollywood's rejection is potent. Even if there wasn't enough room on a prescription drug's label to include incompatability with an illegal drug, the medical professional who prescribed her the Zoloft most likely was aware of her substance abuse. Perhaps she didn't comply with a spoken contraindiction. A less dramatic interpretation of their situation is that they were fairly shallow or perhaps paraphasing you--unable to get at their depth--personalities who got along well enough. Hartman seemed a workalcoholic, I am thinking with OCPD traits and would not be all that emotionally in touch himself and with others. She might have 'grounded him down", but he also was doing that to himself with his workalcohism and ambition. Her needy, demanding, self-absorbed, unstable ego was the dynamite's wick that led to getting lit by her continuing substance abuse. I don't agreed that nobody saw it coming. Somebody probably did but wasn't listened to.

[@johnnoone4323]

An outstanding analysis!! I remember the SNL introduction and knew even then that was his wife. She was a narcissist - probably extremely difficult to satisfy and keeping her happy would be a challenge for anyone she got involved with.

[@emmagrove6491]

Warning label on Asprin: Do not take with cocaine.

[@lozencolorado3326]

I met my husband just a little before this happened. My husband (a theater kid, and 10 years older than I was soooooo) LOVED him. I never paid much attention, I wasn't extroverted and didn't watch much TV. Usually I kept it on CNN. When I mentioned the death offhandedly to him after he came home from work he grabbed me very dramatically and said "ARE YOU SURE?! DO YOU KNOW WHO THAT IS?! THAT MAN IS A NATIONAL TREASURE! SHOW ME WHERE YOU SAW THAT!" I turned on CNN and showed him. He was legit depressed about it, but it was time for me to go to work and it was all anyone could talk about. I was surprised at how loved he was. I actually knew him best from Pee Wee Herman's show honestly. Now I rewatched most of his work. He was really a shining star. Gone too soon. Those poor babies. Orphans in one night. I really hope they had the very best lives after their parents were gone.

[@lorraine8962]

Funny how narcissists do all the flirting, then accuse you of cheating and rage on you when they are not happy. They are super jealous and manipulative. Low self esteem and entitled at the same time. No one knows how sick a narcissist is, except for those that live with them.

[@timothynellis5947]

The tragedy of Phil Hartman's death never gets easier to think about. A comedic genius and one of his generation's all time best.

[@mothboss]

I had never heard of this and never heard of him but I definitely know him as Troy McClure and Lionel Hutz! I’m rewatching the simpsons as we speak, that explains why McClure is such a huge character early on and then disappears by the time I was old enough to watch the show. (I was born in 92 and am only now watching more of the early 90s episodes.)

[@h.borter5367]

Zoloft was not the sole contributor. It's only common sense to not mix antidepressants with illicit drugs and alcohol.

[@louieo.blevinsmusic4197]

I loved Phil Hartman so much. I’ve never heard anyone talk badly about Phil Hartman before or after his passing. His wife was a bum and I’m glad she was never happy with herself. Hope the kids are living a good life.

[@lyn.267]

Sad money cannot buy happiness.

[@ladennayoung2939]

It wasn't created to buy happiness to begin with. People give it such high regard. It is just paper at the end.

[@valerieparker2242]

Money makes me happy!

[@haizembergpoker7705]

Bit off the topic. I think it would be interesting to make video about Bobby Fisher. His life story is interesting from psychological perspective.

[@Thankgot]

Please do a video on Jimmy Savelle. I would love to hear you analysis of the despicable human that he was.

[@echase416]

One thing to know about this type of offender is that they tend to ‘groom the adults’ that are around the children upon whom they predate.

[@EarthScholar]

I was really shocked when Phil Hartman was murdered. He seemed to be well liked by everyone. Brynne sounds like Amber Heard. Thankfully though, she had no children with Johnny Depp, and he made plans to divorce her (b4 she jumped in front of him to file for divorce and claim DV) before things went all the way south...and thankfully Johnny has bodyguards.

[@KnighteMinistriez]

I really like your videos. I learn a lot. Keep up the good work.

[@ladyluck5248]

When she’s at Ron’s house , her 6 year old and 9 year old are at home with their father’s corpse …… mother of the year award ….goes to…….. not Brynne!

[@ellie1595]

The murder of one of the most wonderful and endearing men in hollywood broke my heart. And then to find that the woman who vowed to love and care for him in sickness and health was the one who killed him. He trusted her most and she killed him. Devastating, absolutely devastating. We love and miss you, Phil.

[@keddy5627]

I loved Phil Hartman...he was so talented and versatile. How a spouse can be jealous of the other’s achievements is clearly indicative of a relationship that is imploding. I wish he had gotten out when he had the chance...he would never have had any happiness with someone who was so unstable.

[@dvhughesdesign]

Before his comedy fame...he had many album cover credits to his name as a graphic designer. Bands such as Steely Dan, Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Poco.

[@adventurebabyboomer7318]

Many bios done on Phil say he was "emotionally detached" in his previous marriages. Hollywood really disliked Brynne, probably because she had no training or skill in the area. Phil could not endorse his wife knowing this. This created extreme distrust and resentment in the marriage. Sad......