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Phila and Bongani share their pain | Downtime with Somizi S1 | 1Magic | Episode 05

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Growing up with legends as parents isn't all that we might think it is and this past week, Phila and Bongani opened up and shared with us their struggles with depression and anxiety and what has caused it while Somizi reassures them that it does get better and greener on the other side of it all.
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@fezilenkabinde9087
@fezilenkabinde9087 2 жыл бұрын
Bongani is looking good and healthy. Happy for him
@hunadilentswana6962
@hunadilentswana6962 2 жыл бұрын
I am happy for him too, he went through alot as well
@alinemaii1133
@alinemaii1133 2 жыл бұрын
علی نمای
@awomanssecondchance4965
@awomanssecondchance4965 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@tatendamaporisa3795
@tatendamaporisa3795 Жыл бұрын
When l saw this episode l said the same thing
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 2 жыл бұрын
The pain in Phila's eyes...I just hope he can heal from everything he is experiencing. Its not easy.
@nhlanhlanzimande4001
@nhlanhlanzimande4001 Жыл бұрын
Yoh I did see that nami from Philas eyes.. I really hope he gets better mentally
@tshenolodikgale1186
@tshenolodikgale1186 2 жыл бұрын
Wow 😲 Somizis’s and Bongani’s reaction when Phila confessed that he’s on a verge of depression, priceless moment 😭😭😭😭
@lawrenforcemann1800
@lawrenforcemann1800 2 жыл бұрын
To add onto what Phila said, sometimes it's not even the thought of other people being happier without you being around, it's also the feeling of being too exhausted to even think of your loved ones' feelings, and also thinking that you'd feel so much better if you actually ended things. This feeling never goes away, but the intensity differs from day to day. I know. Virtual hugs to everyone going through depression ❤
@ginger_nlm41
@ginger_nlm41 2 жыл бұрын
Men to have more of these conversations. His vulnerability is empowering. Hope someone watching can seek help
@boitumelokganedi3089
@boitumelokganedi3089 Жыл бұрын
Goodness this is sad to hear
@dineomokgosi411
@dineomokgosi411 11 ай бұрын
This is my favourite episode. I have watched it so many times. This is real talk. I wish I could give them tight hugs. They have come a long way. Thank you so much Somizi for giving us this type of content. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾 More seasons please!
@augustinemsomi6336
@augustinemsomi6336 2 жыл бұрын
I need to say this from the bottom of my heart I am so happy and proud that Somizi thought it was better to have such a show in Mzansi, we need more shows like this. They promote healing and people should learn to talk more about what they are going through in life. It makes it easier for society to relate to celebrities BCS under the fame n money they are humans as well and we are tired of them taking their lives. Thank you Somizi. GOD bless you brother
@sisandangiba8666
@sisandangiba8666 2 жыл бұрын
You can tell Bongani really empathises. When Phila said sometimes he feels people would be happier if he wasn’t around☹️
@SuiYong
@SuiYong 2 жыл бұрын
Their reaction seemed so genuine ❤
@noendlovu4788
@noendlovu4788 2 жыл бұрын
I love Bongani, I have always felt that he has been misunderstood for a long time and hope people will put themselves in his shoes and then maybe we can empathise and get to see where he is coming from. I would love to see his show coming back because it was good to see him as he evolved. As for Phila, I also feel his pain and I am glad that he is opening up to his pain and hope he will get the support he needs. That was a very touching and beautiful episode Somizi👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@ladyzama5450
@ladyzama5450 2 жыл бұрын
We need more of such uplifting therapeutic shows
@sandilevumase4498
@sandilevumase4498 2 жыл бұрын
Being a child of a celeb...be strong guysm..my prayers are with you
@edzisanipatriciavhuromu801
@edzisanipatriciavhuromu801 2 жыл бұрын
Big up to you guys, this is a real talk. You must be thankful to be able to have an opportunity to sit in the same table with Somg and hold that kind of topic. I’m so so touched.
@Jaythecook
@Jaythecook 2 жыл бұрын
Ooh bakith.. The pain in Phila's eyes😭😭. I hope both of you heal.
@nonxubaadmin382
@nonxubaadmin382 2 жыл бұрын
Phila stay strong, the fact that you are on such a public platform talking about it is a milestone on its own indicating prosperity. Please persevere . The devil 👿 is a liar * in Somizi’s voice* You have been amongst my favs since Idols. Love you to bits !!! 🙏
@thumekajordaan3920
@thumekajordaan3920 2 жыл бұрын
Bongani look handsome and sober, wish he could stay that way and more. You guys are lucky to have this opportunity, you will learn a lot of positive stuff from Somizi. I'm sorry for all what you went through I mean all of you.❤💛❤💛❤💛❤
@pheladilentswane4568
@pheladilentswane4568 2 жыл бұрын
Let's get our boys talking, I love how he can express himself
@prudencepitso9750
@prudencepitso9750 2 жыл бұрын
Phila and Bongz touched me i literally feel their pain but its gona be ok it will workout and be well.we sometimes think Men have it easy they dnt go through the most like women do.depression is real
@kidiboneruby4640
@kidiboneruby4640 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this episode , it was bitter sweet , guys im soo proud of u , that u dint commit suicide , a lot of people can learn a lot from u guys .
@olgatalksmotlhabane8206
@olgatalksmotlhabane8206 2 жыл бұрын
🥺this was so brave of you guys😢❤️ Bongani looks good, I'm happy 🌻Phila it will get better🕯️
@tashingamavu1208
@tashingamavu1208 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Nkosi yami. Please help our generation dear Lord. 🙏
@mayolutholi5877
@mayolutholi5877 2 жыл бұрын
Yhooo Phila broke my heart ngxesi buti
@lebonemaimane9686
@lebonemaimane9686 2 жыл бұрын
Somizi is giving south africans the type of content we wanna watch. Things that are uplifting us, giving context about how we conclude about people’s lives. I love this show and i wish they could play it on showmax
@regaugetswemoabelo859
@regaugetswemoabelo859 2 жыл бұрын
How am I only learning of this show today. The honesty here is something else.
@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 2 жыл бұрын
Aahhh Phila ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you will get through it. Kuzolunga
@khangelwakhathi508
@khangelwakhathi508 2 жыл бұрын
Men need to talk about these things more often among themselves in private and on public platforms for those who are comfortable about speaking publicly. It is so important for the young boys to learn to deal with their emotions and their pain!!!
@_molebogeng6281
@_molebogeng6281 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh Phila🥺 Bongani should have given him a hug not a fist bump, men it's okay to embrace one another
@LihleM1
@LihleM1 2 жыл бұрын
That fist bump from Bongani shows he gets it, it was deep.
@thandekamaziya3748
@thandekamaziya3748 2 жыл бұрын
Whenever i see Bongane am both thankful and impressed he is still alive, he was one of the people i worry about when it comes to suicide and celebrities he has been through a lot... These people keep us entertained so we need to keep them in our prayers as well not just criticize them nje
@ladyzama5450
@ladyzama5450 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@sinentokozosibeko3675
@sinentokozosibeko3675 2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@nozynozpoks4673
@nozynozpoks4673 2 жыл бұрын
Its gud to see him soo grown up and soo clean. May the good Lord give them strength
@guguvilakazi4966
@guguvilakazi4966 2 жыл бұрын
as i always say guys lets be nice to each other, we are dealing with different inner struggles, wish i could give these guys a big hug
@crownedtalks1789
@crownedtalks1789 2 жыл бұрын
'I just want to sleep and never wake up' deep
@Kate_Ntombela
@Kate_Ntombela 2 жыл бұрын
Yah
@windsorsegooa6933
@windsorsegooa6933 2 жыл бұрын
devil IA a lier all is going to be well may God hide you under his Holy Wings and give you peace . May he renew your mind May He purify your mind May He open your spiritual eyes and ears. All negative voices that are troubling you May He silence them in The Mighty Name of Jesus . The Blood of Jesus Is Upon You BE Healed Phila God is not done with you. Amen
@crownedtalks1789
@crownedtalks1789 2 жыл бұрын
@@windsorsegooa6933 Amen and amen. Thank you.
@phumi343
@phumi343 2 жыл бұрын
@@windsorsegooa6933 Amen 🙏🏼
@ntandokhumalo7119
@ntandokhumalo7119 2 жыл бұрын
Eka Bongani has always brought me to tears
@phelisakoleoso7049
@phelisakoleoso7049 2 жыл бұрын
Well done Somz... Men need to open up and share their pains, fears just let it out. Stop acting all tough guys,speak it out.. death is very selfish. I wish you all the best boys 🙏💐💕
@saneliswatosela8611
@saneliswatosela8611 2 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this :'(
@tsholomodibedi2236
@tsholomodibedi2236 2 жыл бұрын
Laba ba ntwana man they posses something sooo special they soooo famous but not afraid to be vulnerable & share thier most heartfelt pain 😞😞😞😞😞😞
@mateobanda6808
@mateobanda6808 2 жыл бұрын
This was so deep
@honeydate
@honeydate Жыл бұрын
You never know what someone is going through - BE KIND!
@morpheus6394
@morpheus6394 2 жыл бұрын
Bra, parents fight for their kids to have opportunities but the dark side is that when they have all, they have nothing to fight for.
@Buntle7
@Buntle7 2 жыл бұрын
Oh God I just cried watching this...So much pain...I could only imagine. What Ohila spoke about...Can u imagine being in his shoes. Oh Nkosi yami give strength to these men and all the men who've gone through pain and loss and who are still expected to keep showing up and being perfect and knowing everything and being breadwinners and perfect husbamds, fathers etc...Let us be more kinder to our men...Let's show them love. This was just so painful..When it's better to die so you can just be...Hayi no...I get it...But it shouldn't be like this..May God strengthen us all
@namhladlomo1140
@namhladlomo1140 Жыл бұрын
Phila mntasekhaya ndiyayazi inhlungu okuyo.Nawe Bongani.Ndiyanicela madoda,zeni qine nomelele,nicimge about the good times you had with oMama benu.Nam ndaswelekelwa nguMama In 2022 kodwa ndomelele.Kuzolunga bafwethu.Nihlale ethembeni,nithandaze
@mmalefamathibe3401
@mmalefamathibe3401 2 жыл бұрын
It's really sad to hear this what Phila has been through the pain in his eyes, Bongani looks nice and clean I wish all the best to him also,is so sad to be a child and your life has to be in the public because of your parents, you are a child you never choice them but you are being label and judge because of them.Keep it up guys by talking about this issues we cannot keep on loosing young man
@tebogoramokgobedi2309
@tebogoramokgobedi2309 2 жыл бұрын
Ooh Phila the sadness in his eyes💔
@timbawangu3038
@timbawangu3038 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you guys. All of you and those represented
@latoyakalu5596
@latoyakalu5596 2 жыл бұрын
My God. Just look at bongani. Im so happy
@SamantheaMoemedi-yy8pt
@SamantheaMoemedi-yy8pt 7 ай бұрын
Yoh this episode😢😢😢got me teary through out the entire show
@sifezilemabuza9127
@sifezilemabuza9127 2 жыл бұрын
I know this feeling
@zusibone
@zusibone 2 жыл бұрын
Phila Madlingozi just stretched the surface. There is so much to be said and men are dying from depression..
@sikhuthazejubisa3860
@sikhuthazejubisa3860 2 жыл бұрын
We men go through so much and it's so painful when even the closest people to you can't notice when something is wrong.
@tebellokhali9707
@tebellokhali9707 2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there , keep on pushing even when you Wana give up ,it always get better than you imagination ,you will not believe that you even have those thoughts when God blow your mind and make you see why I kept you ,why I created you ,what is your purpose to be here ,when all your why questions have answers ,my beautiful people l beg you all not take your lives Jesus really do love you whole heartedly just believe and you will see an instant change❤️❤️
@momomotlhabane6621
@momomotlhabane6621 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh I didn't think I'd cry like this today 😭😭😭I hope Phila gets through this 😭🙏
@brabandra4806
@brabandra4806 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate, and im almost in tears.
@tamaramoni6767
@tamaramoni6767 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, hope you doing better brother konke kuzolunga
@heartofakingngwenya2383
@heartofakingngwenya2383 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭💔When he said me..... My heart broke
@zandilemamali2496
@zandilemamali2496 2 жыл бұрын
The only thing we need to get into our minds is celebrities are human beings... Let us not expect them to be perfect. Phumani apho guys!!
@sindiswakasali355
@sindiswakasali355 2 жыл бұрын
I could just cry . I feel so so so for them . Kunzima man guys hiyu
@christianmaterial2417
@christianmaterial2417 2 жыл бұрын
Sending hugs to all of you
@latoyakalu5596
@latoyakalu5596 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God. Bongani. I was at the funeral of brenda. With a white man. And all the elders of jouburg. They treat me like a VIP. Iam very happy to bongani. Look so healthy
@portiamkhwnazi1726
@portiamkhwnazi1726 2 жыл бұрын
Much love to Phila and Bongani❤❤❤
@vistom5784
@vistom5784 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going through dipression currently I ven think the best for me right now is the suicide so I can just rest in peace though my family and relatives will not be in peace😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@pamadonis176
@pamadonis176 2 жыл бұрын
Oh guys, niphole, Nkulunkulu abekunyr nani. Know that we love you. And don’t ever give up, know that tomorrow is given unto you so that you can try again. Keep at it, keep on keeping on, xa nimkile no one will be happy, we will be sad, more especially your loved ones. Life is not easy, keep your heads up and try again the next day. Give life your best even if it’s always disappointing you, khona apho kuzode kulunge khona.
@diatilenthoba8262
@diatilenthoba8262 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this show....big up men you are so inspirational.
@kayak30
@kayak30 2 жыл бұрын
God help us seriously, mental health is real.Lets talk about it and somizi has saved my life more than once , just listening to him addressing depression saved me. So thank you so much🙏🙏🙏🙏
@namhladlomo1140
@namhladlomo1140 Жыл бұрын
Such handsome chaps.....
@previous633
@previous633 2 жыл бұрын
I understand uphill, I have been there.
@tshenolodikgale1186
@tshenolodikgale1186 2 жыл бұрын
Bongani really looks good
@Lerato9009
@Lerato9009 Жыл бұрын
This was such a heavy episode! Wish you both all the best 🫂
@tsitsidzashezhova2609
@tsitsidzashezhova2609 2 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this Somizi thank you ♥️we need more like you get them to open up sending love
@thaatosetseho278
@thaatosetseho278 2 жыл бұрын
This is sooo painful 😭😭😭people go through a lot.. 💔🥺🥺
@zinhledhlamini6320
@zinhledhlamini6320 2 жыл бұрын
Phila ♥️♥️♥️sending you love bro
@tinymajenge839
@tinymajenge839 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you just dont know why u even sad 💔💔
@khosidlomo7406
@khosidlomo7406 2 жыл бұрын
Lord; Please help your children. Enkosi Somizi😍
@MissOndela
@MissOndela 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔🥹Phila…he’ll be okay man
@nhlanhlanzimande4001
@nhlanhlanzimande4001 Жыл бұрын
This is painful to watch .. Seeing human beings suffer like this because of the pressure the society brings to them because of who their parents are....its very inconsiderate of people to do that.. I hope these souls can really surface mentally and be fulfilled and be happy again ....most importantly to find that balance mentally and emotionally
@naomimodise5113
@naomimodise5113 2 жыл бұрын
Phila😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
@noncebacaster4035
@noncebacaster4035 2 жыл бұрын
phila😭😭😭I feel you mtase
@amandambonani700
@amandambonani700 2 жыл бұрын
This hit home.
@karabothoahlane3925
@karabothoahlane3925 2 жыл бұрын
haibooo Phila!!!😱😱😱😱😱😱🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@thandekamaziya3748
@thandekamaziya3748 2 жыл бұрын
I feel what Phila is saying beause from what i see people will not want to work with you because 1. people think you are difficult to work with because you may have had everything and 2. they think people will think i hired him because ungumtana kabanibani
@nosiphomalaka1280
@nosiphomalaka1280 2 жыл бұрын
"People would be happier without you around"
@nqobilepromise7677
@nqobilepromise7677 2 жыл бұрын
That "nyani?😐
@motshehoankuna6024
@motshehoankuna6024 2 жыл бұрын
Yooh I felt it too. They are beautiful people to react like that. It shows they care.
@siyolisemakaka6013
@siyolisemakaka6013 2 жыл бұрын
Owh maarn guys... Uxolweni maarn
@aniefotoi891
@aniefotoi891 2 жыл бұрын
Just cried because I know how it feels... Phila mara
@pearlhlengiwe9427
@pearlhlengiwe9427 2 жыл бұрын
This is the part where they should have gave him a hug
@marthamaphosa3890
@marthamaphosa3890 2 жыл бұрын
We look upto you guys be strong
@noluvuyomakhoba2901
@noluvuyomakhoba2901 2 жыл бұрын
Men are going through a lot 💔
@litsoanentsalongsylvester9197
@litsoanentsalongsylvester9197 2 жыл бұрын
Phila is definitely broken... Lawd🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️
@mamelisa.official
@mamelisa.official 2 жыл бұрын
Mmmmh phila 💔
@dineomaliehe2526
@dineomaliehe2526 2 жыл бұрын
Phila sound like his Dad when he speaks Xhosa though ...... am so sad about this 😢
@corporateservices2610
@corporateservices2610 2 жыл бұрын
Uxolo Phila 🤗🤗
@sibulelenqwelo8324
@sibulelenqwelo8324 2 жыл бұрын
Oh maan 😢
@ciandahebe5692
@ciandahebe5692 2 жыл бұрын
Ohno Phila I felt your pain
@LebogangShazzygalMalatji
@LebogangShazzygalMalatji 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔💔lets get talking
@sinenhlanhlamthethwa5661
@sinenhlanhlamthethwa5661 2 жыл бұрын
Can Phila please get some form of assistance/ counseling.
@sabelogama5686
@sabelogama5686 2 жыл бұрын
Let's just say people have their own views about depression and mine differs
@coyottittocoetzee438
@coyottittocoetzee438 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@zansikhosana4869
@zansikhosana4869 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@ayandayeni7968
@ayandayeni7968 2 жыл бұрын
Wheeew😭😭
@ThabisoRatlou
@ThabisoRatlou 2 жыл бұрын
😭
@RayOfLetsatsi
@RayOfLetsatsi 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔
@phumza2567
@phumza2567 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔💔💔💔
@misskarun2548
@misskarun2548 2 жыл бұрын
I have had to cut everybody offff
@maletapatamakotoko7484
@maletapatamakotoko7484 2 жыл бұрын
whose chopping onions...
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