Phil in the Blanks EP 81 - The Behavior Panel (Part 2)

How To Look For Behavioral Patterns And What Self-Pity Tells Us About People: The Behavior Panel (Part 2)
Dr. Phil continues his discussion with The Behavior Panel: body language and behavioral authorities, Scott Rouse, Greg Hartley, Mark Bowden, and Chase Hughes in part two of one of his favorite episodes of the Phil in the Blanks podcast. Together, they discuss how to look for behavioral patterns, what self-pity can reveal about a person, and the necessity to tune in to those around you.
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[@clareowen9071]

“The most powerful thing in the world, woman’s intuition” Scott Rouse aka Legend ❤️

[@looking4things669]

I remember when Scott said that. I felt validated and understood.

[@jeffrecrowley]

Yeah, I was so glad to hear Scott say that! My intuition is often in overdrive!

[@Vmurph]

PLEASE do more episodes with The Behavior Panel!! I learned so much from all five of you that I hadn’t heard before. After years of listening to the “fab 4” and even after DECADES of watching Dr Phil, I heard NEW ideas, information, tips, and advice that’ve never been mentioned on his (or their) show. Different situations bring out different information that might not otherwise have been mentioned elsewhere. The interviews with this panel were SO educational.

[@brendaw.7597]

Watching the Behavioral Panel on KZbin is one of my favorite things to do. They are just great! Thanks so much for doing this one as well.

[@Beckaboo3397]

I had no idea The Behaviour Panel did this! I just stumbled across it! I’ll have to go watch the first part now. These guys are awesome. Also why am I the only comment? My situational awareness is telling me something isn’t right 🤔

[@RJ-mw2gw]

I’m wondering the same thing! Where are all the comments, lol. The Behavior Panel is fascinating!

[@DreamingCatStudio]

They have a massive following on their own channel, as well as a FB fan group. However not everyone is a fan of Dr. Phil. I personally loved this!

[@Beckaboo3397]

@@DreamingCatStudio agree love TBP! :)

[@MagsChase1229]

Beckaboo…what a cute name ! Me too, I also need to watch the 1st part.

[@gypsychik]

😂

[@Jess-kn8vl]

I cant tell you how many times in the past my intuition was invalidated, discredited and gaslighted even by therapists!

[@wendyeskelin8765]

Same !

[@erikawithee]

Same 😢

[@aussienic8428]

Same. Always stick to your truth and don't let others sway you.

[@MrsBumbulina]

My husband once said to me: "If it wasn't for the fact that you are my wife, I would have to kick your ass for trashtalking my wife in that way." That's one of the best lightbulb experiences I've had, ever!

[@jenofhearts]

Changing lives, this whole episode pointed out so many tools for critical thinking.

[@CJ-pm8ml]

So glad to see you guys more then once a week. :)

[@bernadettecrawford3656]

Great to see you 5 together love listening to you all so revealing

[@dianabaker7919]

I love these guys . I love Dr Phil . I hope to see more of this kind of show. I learn so Much. Please keep doing this kind of show. IT IS A GREAT THING TO WATCH AND LEARN. THANK YOU ALL 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@KarenT-kh6sy]

The Behavior Panel are kick butt! Dr. Phil and The Behavior Panel will be quite a force.

[@carolynmaynard3694]

These guys are a blessing! You guys were talking about critical thinking. My son’s high school had a day where the students picked a career or a job, and all the things that make up a future. They would learn if they could afford certain things according to their careers and families. It is such a good seed to plant. Dawgs are my favorite people. Training them can be difficult if their master’s emotions are all over the place. Scott you are so right about the woman’s intuition. My great aunt and grandmother had that insanely intuitive soul. I am actually, happy and thankful God have that trait to me. Dr. Phil my husband is a veteran but even before he went into the military he as situationally aware. I was hyper aware when my son was small. You guys bring up so much good stuff.

[@elainetise4535]

I just stumbled across your KZbin videos this evening. Please do more! All of you together are awesome! I feel as if all of you try to teach people how to think logically and critically, which promotes *healthy* thinking, and the world is so in need of this right now.

[@tower3899]

Ignoring my own intuition has cost me more than I have ever could have imagined.

[@ernarc23]

I really enjoyed this. As Dr. Phil was talking about watching an employee getting to work on time, making coffee, etc., I kept thinking of a quote I have on the wall beside my office computer: "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle."

[@autismandadhdjourneybucks6769]

This was great and so relevant to parenting neurodivergent kids and protecting their vulnerabilities.

[@libbyshipman9607]

Situational awareness is critical. And the pattern of movement and energy. Saved my life twice.

[@denisethepainterNarc-FreeZone]

This 2 pt episode it has been one of the single most important discussions. 📌 Saved to listen to it again. Thanks.

[@gilliangriffiths8246]

Fascinating stuff! Love the way you explain the primal reactions. It really makes sense when you are tuned into your instinct. I always follow mine because when I haven't it hasn't turned out well. Love you guys!

[@jeffrecrowley]

Same here!

[@nancypiros9133]

First time watching “ Phil In The Blanks” I turned it on because I love Dr Phil & The Behavior Panel! So incredibly interesting to hear background information of all of you. I started becoming interested in human behavior when I started realizing I had intuition happening in myself and it was true. Thank you Dr. Phil & The Behavior Panel

[@elysianfields8461]

I love The Behavior Panel podcast! These guys are fabulous! Dr Phil am so glad to hear of more future chats w them! 👋🥳

[@glo-coopmumma]

Love these guys. Thanks for supporting them!

[@loisdiamond5674]

I absolutley agree that everyone needs to be more situationally aware. I am looking to teach Behavioural Analysis to my eldest son. I think its an essential skill set.

[@ralphriffle1126]

So much fun to listen in on Dr. Phill's show.

[@iloverods7476]

You guys always cheer me up, but what a treat to have Dr Phil on the panel too 🐺❤️

[@fastnbulbous406]

What Mr Greg says about self-pity is the definition of profound. Such a deeply motivating realization. TY

[@GetMoGaming]

Thanks Phil, a lot of very logical and very useful food for thought.

[@heavenrain9578]

this is awesome!! ... an educative show!! God bless you all!!

[@ah2068]

One of my philosophies in life is “The more I know… the less I know!” Also, when you have a lie said about you… always remember “Thank God it’s a lie!”

[@Anni.things]

THANK GOODNESS FOR THE MEDIATION AND DIVINE INTERVENTION WE ARE SO INCREDIBLY BLESSED WITH, to integrate teamwork and transcendent skills Thank you so very very much, Dr. Uncle, Uncle Phil.

[@Anni.things]

🕊️💨💯🫶

[@stevensavoie856]

32:57 Chase's eyes move down left. I imagine him thinking, amongst other things, "Caretaker, needs appreciation."

[@Pmg7653]

Aww! I love you guys. Don’t listen to the haters.

[@hazeleyedsoul3282]

I totally relate to Dr Phil about being situationally aware when I'm out somewhere.

[@elizabethshaw734]

I remember my 1st day of school and parents one of our parents had to bring us in and I was walking next to my mother. I entered the classroom and I looked at my mother and I said why are all these kids crying ??

[@jasonperkins8716]

I always visually scan my surroundings, and listen for dangers. Especially when I have my family with me. I’ve recently learned. I get anxiety if I don’t sit in a spot at a restaurant where I can’t see the door or everybody as much as possible. But still listen to oddities. Or if People getting verbally volatile. For instance, I was walking with my kids on a bike trail. Saw a gentleman riding a bicycle on a bridge fairly far from us swinging a bat and cursing. He took a turn towards where my daughter was passing the bike path. This gentleman is clearly dealing with some psychosis drug induced, probably homeless man. I had told my daughter to get back over and stand by me. She didn’t understand but once the guy passed, they realized I noticed a threat minutes before we crossed paths. I prepared myself for defensive posture. Nothing happened. I grew up in a very violent household, alcoholic, abusive parents. And learned how to listen and read people . If they were a threat to me. Learn how to walk light footed, so I am not heard walking through the house. My ability to pick up small behaviors to protect myself, has helped me many times in my life. Be

[@Aokitadamitsu]

these guys are great to watch

[@angel_d99]

I love when Mark says "presha" ❤️

[@gemima.876]

Is there a part 1 please? : )

[@jeanniewahine5443]

I think this is it, m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/bF6qfIqIn9Fkq8k

[@libbyshipman9607]

"Don't believe your own press."

[@janessamcraig]

I’ve been watching for awhile now & I love them! I’ve looked at their personal websites, interesting stuff! I’ve told a few people & no one seems as interested as I am! 😄

[@nancyannschroeck]

We all get why this interests you so much, you're amongst a large group of people who geek out to body language stuff. To each their own; makes the world interesting. I'm looking forward to this one. Live, in front of an audience, might add it's own dynamic?? Enjoy!!✌👻

[@eecneihappy]

Awesome 👌 Thank you all for top notch info

[@tj8114]

I am so glad that the whole panel addressed situational awareness. The world is getting ever more dangerous, especially with the lack of true human connection due to social media proliferation and covid19. I recently read Gavin deBecker’s The Gift of Fear. I recommended it to my stepmom. She immediately bought 8 copies, sending them to every female family member. Too often we ignore that inner warning alarm, often with fatal consequences. Thanks for addressing our need to be truly present in our lives.

[@jeffrecrowley]

I need that book!

[@arseneaultjohanne419]

I greatly appreciate your exchanges with these speakers from the Behavior Panel. You ask questions that arouse my interest. I also like when you bring the exchanges to the field of personal life experiences. It's easier for me to put life or flesh around sometimes specialized concepts. Thank you very much for this popularization work.

[@Brokersong]

I have a feeling that the Behavior Panel will be unreachable, unteachable, and un-normal. Their popularity level will be at the level of Dr. Phil or higher. And soon, I think. Happy for them. So deserving.

[@amiegodkin4758]

I've learned alot from this video. Thank you 🙂

[@tonygraham1870]

Good job Dr.Phil...these guys are great

[@AndrewGibson-te6eq]

Your the best Dr Phil. Your information and intelligence has greatly helped me through a very difficult time in my life. @

[@carolbrown6971]

I read my dog's body language easily. He is trying to look sad because he wants attention but the tail is wagging. Then there was the day the two dogs wanted me to get my lazy self out of bed by staring at me (guilt for me).

[@fionagrant2023]

Dr Phil this is a very useful and informative conversation. As a Counsellor l study and analyse human behaviour. This is a fascinating and thought provoking analysis on body language and perception. l've also learnt how to behave submissive with open palms down in a robbery/being threatened by a male. l also learnt to evade predators and unstable people in my neighbourhood. 5 stars for content ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@lynnmesser5353]

This is one of my favorite shows. I love these 5 guys.

[@user-hv4lb1qw4x]

Oohhh..who, who! Self pity. Struggled with all my life. Have come to become aware of when I'm getting into a pity party with myself. Would like to delve into how a person is ibcluned towards self pity. Now I just avknowledge, "I'm just feeling sorry for myself." And just try to move on. Life is an eternal lesson. ❤🎉😊😊

[@jts3505]

Excellent. Thank you.

[@dimi7931]

THIS IS AWESOME !! THANK YOU

[@darinsmith2458]

i could comment on every aspect of this video and i do really like it all and think that it is all valuable.. i grew up with a lot of dysfunction around me.. when i sponsor people or work with fellow travelers i talk about experience.. the positive attributes and negative attributes of myself or you could say my strengths and weaknesses are actual experiences rather than the dysfunctional environment telling me so.. an example would be that i got an A in accelerated chemistry even when my "friend" said that i could fail the final and still pass the class.. all i have to do is look at my success through diversity..

[@starrleesimmons4291]

I love your educational videos..

[@RahulSingh-wg2ic]

This is enlightenment.

[@treeze_it7800]

I loved this!

[@valerielock2374]

Love them all 4❤❤❤❤

[@patricebennett1100]

I do love watching the Behaviour Panel. I also learn something every time. Really enjoyed this. Thank you. Greg I’m also an Aussie. 😂🇦🇺🌺

[@mthomas3547]

These guys are so funny, but so incredibly talented. I've learned a lot from them.

[@elsabeleroux7896]

These 5 are so informative. If only I had more knowledge on body language 50 years ago.

[@RethaGreen-ce5ve]

This was great

[@user-gj8tv6wi5e]

Nothing reaches anyone when all my devices are controlled by my enemies.but great youtube videos.

[@toshabeans]

11:26 Scott, i love the science talk! Not boring at all! ❤ But i might also be swayed by your "women's intuition" description. I've always known it's there, now i have a name for it 👍

[@KittyClark4433]

The body keeps the score & the body tells the story.

[@shirleychase9209]

Awesome 🎉

[@dvick96]

Where is Part 1?

[@jeanniewahine5443]

I think the following is the first: m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/bF6qfIqIn9Fkq8k

[@TheUglyDoctor]

This was good

[@lizannewhitlow1085]

Remember when the perp tells Daniel Craig to always listen to that fear factor inside you? Stellan S. in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo…he scolds Daniel who still came back into the house even tho he recognized that fearful situation.

[@tinasouza9688]

WOW! I have the upmost respect for each and every one of you. And would like to thank you from my very heart and soul. The information and what i consider to be priceless lessons in life. Amazing roll models. BTW, not trying to lable or attempt diagnosing others or anything.. But Wouldnt those with the negative statements or haters as you guys call it ... be considered on the lines of narcussism? Loved the way it bacame comedy. Gave me a whole new perspective and outlook, on how to not take things personal and be able to laugh at things such as this. Again Thank You!

[@RiverPaisley]

Hero’s journey is Kafka? Pretty sure The Hero’s Journey is Joseph Campbell.

[@Ysahell]

I love it 😆 omg hate comments are the best entertainment lmaoooo. “I’d rather have Dr Pepper operate on me than take advice from Dr Phil” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ how much it says about the person. Creative, yet not really aware of his inside. Fragile, maybe? I love you Dr Phil and how you treat your patients 👍🏻

[@RiverPaisley]

“Dr. Phil, whadda ya got?”

[@naomiwillemsen9836]

Look at those faces at the end!! 😁😁☺️☺️

[@TerjeSkuggen]

I dance like a robot, and I'm often not in sync with others at a concert. After this, I think I'll never go to a concert again! 🙈

[@hermanubis7046]

Hello Chase Hughes, you often mention female intuition. What makes it different from intuition in males? Does the testosterone somehow block it? What would happen in the case of transgender people, for instance? Would the intuition change once they begin hormonal therapy? Would it become less in trans men and more in trans women, or would it only become less in trans men and not change in trans women (because they're born male already)? Strange question, maybe, but I'm curious.

[@nana-ly9mw]

This part two w behavior panel was the best ever (don't take that to heart 😜) - ❤️ yo mama

[@elizabethshaw734]

I can give a list of my good qualities but they don't feel like they're part of me it's like it doesn't sink in. It's as if arrows are being slung at me and they just bounce off my armor plate

[@tmusa2002]

Before we had kids, my husband made a couple ground rules and one was that we were not going to blow smoke up their a**es. 😆 You just don’t know what’s right until their raised. Each kid is an individual.

[@luci-ferre]

What is 'negative evidence'? Chase mentioned this in the context of finding proof of who you are if you're in an abusive parental-child relationship.

[@jenniferwilson7762]

My three and a quarter year old grandson discovered the word " maybe" it totally changed his negotiation game!!! How it works.. Me: Jacob did you write on the door? Jacob: umm. Maybe Roscoe wanted to get in and was scratching the door .. ( He didn't tell a lie..but clearly attempting to shift blame .😅) Example 2 : Me: Jacob you need to take a nap. Jacob : maybe but umm. I'm hungry if we eat nuggets with sauce I would sleep better ... ( playing me ) 😂 Example 3 : Me: Jacob are you finished on the potty? Jacob: maybe i need door shut .. Me: that will help you? ..ok shuts door .Jacob Proceeds to flush whole roll of toilet paper per fist full. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kellygreen8882]

UNDER PRESSURE 🎸

[@user-sc6ho5ej2g]

My husband grow up in same way but he is blind with only small sight left in one eye,but yes he and me do saame thing in full room but his extra sense knows straight away where and who the trouble is coming from, and its amazing how he copes and how he uses other senses that well people dont believe he is blind,nasty thoughtless people who theres alot more of even think the worst and think its some sort of long con!,what kind of idiots thinkk that and what monsters do those thkngs,hurtful.Even family who you would hope knew you better have said hurtful things but its the way they think its ok to do so,a little fishing first maybe befofe you out fight insult me..

[@marthahumphrey1259]

I just joined in❤ been watching the behavioral panel for a while now, too! And love it all ❤️👍

[@elizabethshaw734]

I am the one with all of the psychopathic husbands and I can't count how many times people have said to me come on be nice! Also I don't think any of my husbands said that it was other people that I people that I met out in the world. Now I don't go out at all and that needs to change. I was never able to really form a self due to a malignant narcissistic mother.

[@reneelibby4885]

I used to have a sorta big account on Twitter and somebody sincerely hoped I would fall through a plate glass window. LOL! Yeah SM is a joke and I need to apologize to Scott who pissed me off once. I fell into the hater thing. All you guys are OK although of course I don't always agree. This was a truly enlightening show. But Scott, gotta say I love Chase and Mark more- not that you should EVER care. 🤣

[@TheSamleigh]

Wot you think about yourself? Parental - it’s Parental! I’m shouting well before you back up my (me my I crap) shouting. I have to FF now - I’m riled up.

[@chelseacraig8025]

We came from God not mammals ❤ sending love

[@dorishaffer4055]

Shana Hubers. Wow girl.

[@quietlyI]

the hero's journey reference goes to Joseph Cambell, not Kafka. As for how we come to believe our unconscious or programmed narrative (ie self-pity) goes back to Jung. The 'voice in one's head' can't just be erased with logic, it's root is in the body, which Jung described as charged clusters of history. The body holds the score, it 'remembers' and our narrative arises from the body.This is described in the Upanishads and Yoga Sutras, how this predicament can be resolved through the observer effect, or witness. This witness is something our culture lacks paradigm.

[@wendyeskelin8765]

Social pressure used as manipulation at an all time high now.

[@elsabeleroux7896]

These 5 men have almost the same shape of hands, length of fingers. Can remember I once saw a podcast on hands.

[@user-sc6ho5ej2g]

Social media is 2 extremes, to much hate and to much love,so everyone is OD-ing the whole time..more poeple need to just tell others when they are doing well and only tell the nasties thier being nasty when no one else is listenig and thier at thier worst,.even if i am wrong whiich never happens its worth trying,more nice comments and less letting the world know you think this one stranger is to be hated.❤❤❤❤.and yes i write and talk alot of s..tno need to tell everyone😂❤.

[@katrinahetherington3425]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@reneelibby4885]

My dog thinks I'm a cat, and I think he is too. :)

[@awestaguethe1376]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mementomori6585]

I think these instinctual responses are only applicable to neurotypical people. You’d have to adjust your response/tactics for people that are neurodivergent I’d imagine. Someone that has autism, adhd, or sensory processing disorder might fidget due to stimming or agitation. Someone with a cluster b personality disorder may respond completely differently to a neurotypical person when it comes to nerves, eye gaze, facial expressions. So many other examples but you get the idea.

[@MrUltrasound]

i read fetal body language, medical ultrasound

[@kimberlyryan8938]

Yes yes yes #TheSecretLifeofHiddenDisabilities

[@franchahadera6927]

I would be curious. Can people with Alzheimers can actually lie?