Phillip and Brittany Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! In this segment of "Catch Up", we got a chance to follow up with our matches and see where they are today.
Ep 9: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli
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[@JozelleRenia]

Y’all ever look at the thumbnails and ask yourself “who the F is that?”😂🤪

[@belle8338]

I just ask myself that lol

[@LearnWithFem]

Most of the time lol

[@rza380.]

Everytime😂

[@JozelleRenia]

@@belle8338 😂😂😂😂

[@JozelleRenia]

@@rza380. no fr😂🙆🏽🤭

[@Nicolacaiii]

Meanwhile, Dajon catches flights to get ice cream with Sariah. My favorite couple.

[@chameikabrooks1234]

😂I know right and cheesing hard. I am rooting for them. They are on a different level.

[@user-ir4fp9mq6z]

And this bro can't even spare 5 secs to send a text 😭

[@Nicolacaiii]

@@chameikabrooks1234 yess, they both just seem so healthy minded and motivated in finding love. I rooting for them as well and I hope Arlette gives us another update on them in a few months!

[@chameikabrooks1234]

@@Nicolacaiii I hope for an update too.

[@dawn2166]

Good one!!!!😂

[@Chamorittaprincess]

It’s crazy how different you can look by changing your hair 😭

[@jaredgriffith5994]

Thats how I felt when I saw u

[@astylfranklin9402]

@@jaredgriffith5994thanks for curing my cancer

[@Chamorittaprincess]

@@jaredgriffith5994 LMAO

[@lynesec532]

This is very true

[@TahitianTreatSkeetJuiceJr]

youre a female that does things like wear make up. how is that shocking to u?

[@callmetru6957]

ARLETTE DONT EVER CHANGE YOUR SELF ! Your production is going to go very far; very; you deserve everything coming your way.

[@misiedjanarmanda829]

This!! She's doing a great job

[@Marvelous4rmTexas]

@@misiedjanarmanda829 absolutely agree with yall

[@daisysviews]

I agree ‼️👏🏽

[@QueenMarshae]

no really 😭 i admire her professionalism!

[@anyboii]

Well said. She started uploading quicker and more consistently,(which is what viewers recommended) and thats all that needed to change.

[@lavenderangel2655]

She doooodged a bullet. Him saying he was interested in someone else was a blessing.

[@TeniqueSpeaks]

This dude sounds good but honestly sending a text message a day takes 5 secs. No one is that busy !

[@user-xk5ng4fd6y]

You gotta give em time to miss ya!

[@Asdfghjklsemicolon]

Text conversations can go on off and on for hours. How often do you have text conversations that are only 1 text.

[@rakialogan3372]

​@@user-xk5ng4fd6ytoo much time

[@elleurfavoritestvegan1550]

Nobody. Folks make time for what they want to make time for simple as that

[@naturetaylor]

@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 YEP I always believe that!

[@shwaygercharlez9488]

i ain’t recognize either of em💀

[@BrotherAcee]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheDon6]

Lmaooooooooo

[@Nestle245]

It's the hairstyle for both. Dude pretty much looks the same she looks more different.

[@faizaadem9339]

LMFAOOOOO SAME

[@emmanuellasajin7599]

You and me both 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@valyncia3961]

He had time to call Brenda on the phone for a hour, but not time to call Brittney….because you so busy? YEAH IIGHTTTTTTTT

[@user-xk5ng4fd6y]

You see the wagon, hard 2 forget!

[@draughtsman16]

He didn't really like her from the get-go. He's just explaining rubbish. If he liked her, we won't be hearing all this talk.

[@ThurstMETV]

She called him. He left her his number. You gotta listen lol

[@valyncia3961]

@@ThurstMETV he could’ve ended the conversation after 10 minutes or so, since he’s so busy. A whole hour?

[@darlington6314]

@@ThurstMETV exactly

[@sierrarowe5135]

Recap requirement: must look unrecognizable from the episode you matched. Love it 😅

[@lifewithlatisha3697]

Lol

[@misiedjanarmanda829]

"We was talking for an hour" arlette: when was this? 😂 she's asking the right questions!

[@risenshineofficial]

Right??? My question is why did it take an hour for him to figure out she was in a relationship? 💁🏾‍♀️

[@arnabiarnab3037]

Exactly….. and why she called him if she was in a relationship?! If I’m not mistaken he gave his number to someone to give to her and she called

[@truh_von_tay]

☝🏾 cuz any other time she will ask a question someone just ANSWERED! Like the contestants. Smh

[@tinybootykia4411]

😂😂

[@Dariuslynel]

We will never know the whole story unless Arlette invites Brenda to tell her. He was messy!

[@christopherdavis6918]

As a man, he’s gaslighting. He knew but was afraid to communicate. He knew after the first date. He shelved it because he had no interest and lost respect for her. He is trying to cover himself so you guys still see him as a “good” guy. If he was this thoughtful in the moment then he would’ve immediately addressed the issues he felt without her asking.

[@Mr.Oct___]

ORRRR...He would've done exactly what he did in taking the time to analyze & confirm his feelings/thoughts. Do u people even know what the definition of gaslighting is? Anyhow...ur sitting here as a spectator judging his actions having not walked a mile in his shoes. It's not an easy feeling to go thru a new process like this invest time & energy, PUBLICALLY...make a decision then feel a tug that contrary to ur decision & act on that immediately. He was sitting in front of a relatively decent person. Nobody feels comfortable rejecting someone an hour after meeting & selecting them. ...knock it off. He appears to have put relatively heavy thought into his process & did what was necessary eventually.

[@christopherdavis6918]

@@Mr.Oct___ who brought up the conversation after flagging him down? Cut the crap bro. 🙄 A man this thoughtful and calculated isn’t suddenly dumb for an entire week. Cut the cameras!

[@jannoetrich2899]

Honesty earns respect. Men need to learn to speak their mind. Men are to protect woman. That for me could be in the form of rejection. You are protecting the woman from being confused and in her feelings. **The hurt will be temporary, but the respect will be longterm.

[@jannoetrich2899]

​​@@Mr.Oct___He said he knew she only wanted one child. His response for not wanting to pressure someone in that way was great. He should've cut things off from there because that's a deal breaker. Being on the show and matching is only the start of getting to know each other. I don't think any sensible person would be offended after meeting on the show and they end up not being compatible. It's all about being honest and cordial.

[@Mr.Oct___]

@@christopherdavis6918 @christopherdavis6918 I don't agree w/ the stonewalling/stalling. He could have been more considerate. However...as I said, it's easy to sit in judgement from the sideline & play Monday morning Qb. & I suspect he was doing some internal wrestling regarding what happened & what to do next...especially, if it means going back on ur word ANNNND having to disappoint a seemingly nice person. He didn't sleep w/ her & ghost her...stick her w/ any unpaid bills...Fill her head up w/ any pipe-dreams....None of what ur suggesting. He simply took his time to reconcile & confirm his thoughts & feelings....I take very little issue w/ those actions.

[@Mampeh]

A DOUBLE MINDED MAN IS UNSTABLE IN ALLLLLLLLLL HIS WAYS!!!!

[@lanjon5509]

Amen. That's The Word of God.

[@Asdfghjklsemicolon]

Everybody should be open minded in the extreme beginning stages of a possible courtship. They agreed to A. Date. That’s not the same as WE’RE DATING.

[@riosworld700]

@@Asdfghjklsemicolonyes and remember that she said she’s had loads of new followers.. she may have gone on a few dates who knows.

[@BigGlockGucci]

She got a whole man 😂......we gonna pretend like we ain't hear that #accountability ladies

[@nelliechisulo3073]

Selah

[@M0HAK0]

Man these catchup videos are so good! This channel got the best dating content!!

[@MaryMac04]

Seriously!!

[@Candy004]

Phillip is a good example of why women pop their balloon when the guy shows too much interest in other women in the lineup. Look at all that effort he used to get in contact with Brenda and make sure to find out more about her while giving her the cold shoulder. He should have popped both balloons and gone home alone since the person he really wanted didn’t give him a good vibe.

[@truh_von_tay]

Can’t do that though. That’s too much like right. 🤣😂

[@blackownblackcontrolattheb490]

Phillip- an Over Analysing 🧐Nerd, who is scared of rejection . Go get your Becky bro, stop 🛑 the CAP

[@Candy004]

Over analyzing nerd is best case scenario. Maybe they’ll be able to get Brenda on tell her side. The character assassination he did was crazy. Even his “compliments “ to Brittany were actually shade at her. She’s not single, implying everything she said was just to portray a false image and then say there’s more but he doesn’t want to denigrate her. He had to realize people imaginations would go wild and whatever they came up with would be 10x worse.

[@hkizzle4869]

He spoke to Brenda after he cut it off with Tiffany not during

[@hkizzle4869]

He spoke to Brenda after he cut it off with Brittany

[@mscrystald1]

It's okay to be honest about not being interested. I don't care how busy we get.... when someone has our attention, we make time. Period. On the way or from a destination......in between meetings..... first thing in the morning.... just before bed...... the time is there if the interest is.

[@draughtsman16]

Well said ms crystal

[@universalman5861]

​@draughtsman16 Especially when he has time to go gym...

[@desireetamara8482]

Philip did say he was having doubts. Why cloud your judgement with a distraction as you're trying to make a decision. Kudos to the way he handled it. Besides, they just met, and he was very transparent. ...this is how an emotionally mature person handles things.

[@cupofchi_]

@@desireetamara8482 i feel like it would've been emotionally mature if he would've communicated this without her having to reach out to him. They handled this follow up episode really well though.

[@desireetamara8482]

From what I heard, he was planning to. The guy had just returned, and she just happened to reach out to him first. I learned this from my Dad... you ever notice how mature men are even keel and never seem to get upset or yell? It's because they're disciplined in and prioritize things in their daily life. The man just returned from a multi day trip. Going to the gym may not be a high priority for most, but it's like eating breakfast for some. A priority. A must. ...

[@itsi3187]

Arlette, when the contestants discuss other cast members in these catch ups please could you throw up a quick clip of them from their episode? I don't remember who the hell Miss Brenda is lol

[@classicstorm]

Girl in the red dress...so you can go back and see...the one I thought he was going to pick...

[@GT-mc2uj]

Red dress, voluptuous

[@jaydubya9265]

Small clip would be nice.

[@mr_knowitall]

Just go to the beginning of this video where she shows a clip of them matching. She's standing there.

[@JustJeff777]

She's very mature for reaching out to him.

[@GT-mc2uj]

I mean, the bar is in hell with this one, but relative to a lot of women - facts. She displayed maturity

[@toplifepeople]

He's low key a Jerk!

[@andreearl3258]

He was playing. She definitely seemed like she came for the right reasons

[@lobmob3235]

@@GT-mc2ujnah fr😂 most ladies in 2024 are not doing that tbh

[@dre22]

That was her hypergamist nature. His SMV is higher than hers

[@maritawanazw]

These two just weren't ever compatible and i could tell from the show when they walked off together. Dude was also weighing his options lols. The way Brittany looked so uncomfy when he talked about Brenda😢 And then, why is social media like following each other so important???🤷🏾‍♀️ Are y'all serious about meetin someone or you just want followers?

[@Deenique16]

Exactly when I used to date I stopped giving out my socials. Ppl just want to see who you follow and compare etc

[@truh_von_tay]

You know the answer to that. 🎶Cue the music 🎶 they do anything for clout x2

[@TubeManagement]

This I can agree with…. They weren’t compatible and I don’t think any of the women really matched his energy …

[@Dariuslynel]

I think she was hurt by the fact that he starting acting unfriendly without communicating that he was no longer interested. That was so damn immature!

[@dfwherbie8814]

Why would you ignore the fact that she had a bf at the time and is a sex worker? Lol y’all are allergic to accountability

[@illijah]

What these catchups have illuminated is men, especially black men, are WAAAAAY more thoughtful and considerate than they are given credit for.

[@AwayWeGo747]

I agree with that 100%. Also, in this case I think she dodged a bullet. He seems to complicate small things. Not that those things are small to him but he tends to think ahead to the point of "you're the only one thinking that".

[@TubeManagement]

@@AwayWeGo747he’s articulate and thoughtful … yall ain’t used to men with boundaries and are deep thinkers

[@GogoDiop1]

How???? ​@@AwayWeGo747

[@mrbrave29]

@AwayWeGo747 of course you would demonize him.

[@justjay488]

I agree!! These catchups have reminded me not to judge so quickly. I think we should all go back to taking our time, and fully getting to know someone before writing them. Not being so quick to assume based on one interaction, or experiences from our past! Wow Arlette is helping heal the black community in an unexpected way.

[@mini-qx9gx]

I dont understand the amount of praise this guys getting.. he basically snubbed her. She handled it gracefully

[@chucktwisted]

He definitely should’ve been honest with her. It doesn’t seem like he’s interested in her as much as she was into him. And the fact that he kept bringing up Brenda… 🚩

[@Dariuslynel]

Exactly, the try to make himself appear honorable. Clearly if he has to be on show like this to find love he has some stuff he needs to work on. He came across as messy. To be honest, I took as disrespectful for him to be talking about Brenda when he should have been focus on Brittany.

[@mmmmmmmmmmm10]

Do you know her? is he allowed to not be in love with every girl?

[@mini-qx9gx]

@mmmmmmmmmmm10 um no, but he matched with her and didn't treat her with very much respect. I dont understand the praise he's getting for his behavior. They don't have to like each other at all but he's certainly not portrayed chivalry or cordials

[@chucktwisted]

@@mmmmmmmmmmm10 what are you talking about? He does not have to be in love with every girl, but he SHOULD BE honest if he’s not interested. He wanted Brenda and not her and as a grown adult, he should’ve been transparent. Hope that helps!

[@Thevictor_genesis1483]

I know Brenda watching this getting mad af on ninja snitching 😂😂😂😂

[@draughtsman16]

The look on Arlette when she heard brenda isnt single. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lmaoooo

[@samthepilot223]

When someone conveys that they are perpetually occupied, it simply implies that their interest in the matter is lacking. If an individual holds significance in your life, you will allocate time for them, regardless of the circumstances. However, you engaged in a conversation with another person for an entire hour. #priorities #timemanagement #relationships

[@LearnWithFem]

I agree with that. He just wasn't that interested.

[@kaylakiddo]

Spot on

[@luzluna6808]

🎯

[@steelkeez7700]

That’s all folks 🫡✌🏾

[@KL-nw9mi]

Yep

[@Mizztay]

He’s definitely goofy. Had time for an hr convo with Brenda but gave a laundry list of reasons why he couldn’t contact Brittany. 😴

[@chymerexdesign]

Factssss!!!

[@lobmob3235]

Clearly stated it wasn’t at the same time ….💀

[@TheCaptain773]

I appreciate the class of your shows. A great representation of the diversity of the black community

[@goodyplumworld]

BRENDA U HAVE SOME EXPLAINING TO DO!! 😂

[@LearnWithFem]

Another fraud!

[@Kindesttaboo]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kayc5750]

Right!! I wish he spilled all the tea😭🤣

[@robertjosephgreen]

Women don't take accountability. That won't happen.

[@airforceshadow765]

Brittany is so sweet I wish the best for her. She so understanding and I love that she’s not bitter because lot of women would be , in her situation

[@tony-supreme7627]

This brother is LONG WINDED

[@A_Space]

Lol very

[@twelvethirtyone9620]

Af!!!!!

[@p.o.p2077]

😂😂😂😂

[@Jamilahjamilahh]

& asking her “Anything else??” SIR, say what you have to say..

[@user-hj1wp1dt2g]

lmaooooooooo I thought it was just me

[@HerSZN_]

Not him telling us Brenda isn’t single. He’s messy lmao.

[@ALittleBitOfEverything-555]

😂😂😂😂

[@nickimanajfan2000]

Arlette is so intelligent when it comes to producing these shows.

[@wynegoodbesente5661]

Arlette is bringing the heat , best host ever

[@TheFishermenForZion]

She’s a pro!!!!

[@Gotinks]

Bro said all that, and couldn't admit he was a flake. Bruh you didn't have to tell her who you were interested in. Just let her know you were not interested in her from the beginning before you started playing the games! We get on women for doing it and here you go doing it.

[@user-ir4fp9mq6z]

Thank you. That was quite mean.

[@LearnWithFem]

Facts bro

[@BigGlockGucci]

So we gonna pretend like Brittany don't have a man at home???? Yall are diabolical 😂

[@maryjs4878]

​@@BigGlockGucciYou're slow.

[@steelkeez7700]

⁠@@BigGlockGucci Brenda had a bf

[@brianichole]

He's so busy for Brittany but having a hour of conversation with Brenda . He's goofy and toxic .

[@jonathankabasele985]

lol

[@DivinelyBellzTarot]

Exactly

[@andreearl3258]

Definitely. Can't just be straight up

[@qquueen]

Literally 😂

[@chymerexdesign]

Exactly! I was hella confused. He kept talking about communication but wasn’t communicating.

[@mactray8557]

She's such a sweetheart, I hope she finds what she's looking for.

[@WHNPerk]

She has a man already. 😂

[@margaretleavy2806]

I Agree🩷

[@muitolinkemsky]

Brittany, you so sweet, girl...the way you talk. Humble.

[@bossmoney5408]

You can tell their energy don't match. Bro kinda different but NGL that suit clean asf

[@dwainesolomon5232]

Yo.. that suit is clean asf.. all I been peeping..

[@HighPriestessProdigy]

I seen it to 😂😂😂

[@jtag9807]

Clean Clean! Lol

[@blackzu229]

Arlette listening and communicating skills are upper echelon.

[@rachroyaltyvlogs6813]

Top Tier.

[@kaylarenk5131]

Literally because I would’ve been checked out the way some of them be talking 😭

[@blackzu229]

@@kaylarenk5131 🤣🤣🤣

[@user-ir4fp9mq6z]

He did so many things wrong. He should have told her upfront instead of ghosting her for two days. He's making excuse about being busy, you're never to busy for someone that you regard. Only God knows how long he would have kept on with it if she hadn't reached out to ask him about his interest. He also shouldn't have mentioned it to her that he wished he had chosen the other girl, that was quite unnecessary. At the end of the day the other lady he wanted wasn't available.

[@Mr.Oct___]

Easy to say from the sideline.

[@MsPinkyyy717]

@@Mr.Oct___he literally mentioned he was speaking to Brenda. Literally from the horses mouth. Aint no “sideline”

[@jessicas.3110]

Very unnecessary.

[@tevinmaccaden]

He was upfront you just wasn’t listening 😂

[@lobmob3235]

@@MsPinkyyy717it wasn’t at the SAME TIME lol he also mentioned that too

[@Kingzay444]

Im convinced now that people are just coming on this show to get a couple minutes of fame because they literally never actually date. 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@faithtvonline]

Did you see the Catchup previous to this one? 😃

[@lynesec532]

One one pair seemed to actually hit it off and that’s a shame after all these people that have been on the show

[@Dizzydoza]

You not lying tho bro mfs just want some light and attention

[@therealmvp_]

That's how you know it's authentic. If you date, you know things just don't line up sometimes.

[@masterofnone4161]

i think its worth mentioning that this is basically speed dating. you see them and get a couple pieces of information (which could all be lies) only to realize later on you're not really into them. clout chasing aside, if these matches really wanted each other, nothing would stop them from dating.

[@sajadacooper]

I like her hair like that. It compliments her face.

[@woodcrest4655]

It's not even her hair

[@Craig-ve7ex]

Of course you do 😂. Y'all so oblivious smh

[@sajadacooper]

@@Craig-ve7ex ok

[@leahknowsbeauty1168]

@@woodcrest4655 Seek help

[@maryjs4878]

​@@woodcrest4655 it's her hair.

[@aliciafrancis5539]

Whoever date him gonna have a problem. He claims and pushes to be mature but low key toxic😪

[@leahknowsbeauty1168]

this!!!!!!!

[@c-mo9024]

True. He's the type of guy who says "I want you but I don't want you" lol So Indecisive. Can't make a solid decision.

[@riosworld700]

@@c-mo9024explain how you’ve come to this conclusion from what he’s said

[@BigGlockGucci]

She got a whole man.....him being toxic is null and void 😂 #accountability

[@luzluna6808]

​@@BigGlockGucciYou are under multiple comments saying this and it is NOT the same woman. Their names are in the thumbnail and they were introduced in the video. Will you take accountability?

[@mkante8134]

Nobody is really that Busy. Dude has been dancing around just to tell her he was not interested😂. Also he is indecisive🚩🚩

[@ESBEAUTII]

It’s so weird how different these people look……every reunion..I can never make these folks out 😂😂😂

[@debbrahblain3192]

for real!!!! I dont understand that!

[@mr_knowitall]

He should have came to the filming looking like this.

[@cyrongilmore8005]

Brittany and Arlette saying “ummmm” at the same time 😂😂😂 Phillip you talk to much

[@Gk54493]

It’s messed up how he did her. He really just wanted the other contestant and wasn’t even going to tell her if she didn’t ask. Hopefully she find someone that matches well with her.

[@lobmob3235]

Oh plz…..if he did bring it up y’all(comments) would be criticizing him even more. I can already see it “ Why he thinking about her?” or “He’s so rude!!”. Can’t win sometimes💀

[@valyncia3961]

BRENDA NOT SINGLE????? Hold on lmaoooooo

[@peacejones7648]

😂😂😂

[@draughtsman16]

🤣🤣🤣 I'm shocked too

[@123gollc9]

She is now 😅😂

[@luzluna6808]

​@@123gollc9😂😂😂

[@hndrxx30]

Omg 😂😂😂😂😂

[@realtv101]

I don't understand why people try to date when they have too much going on. I'm a coach, model, business owner, counselor, and content creator... Blah blah blah but I also want to date. Sir/ ma'am why don't you wait until you have TIME!

[@shadesofkayb4886]

‼️‼️‼️

[@chayabruyning9307]

The best comment in this section‼️💯

[@chucktwisted]

This should be pinned. The amount of people applauding this guy and all he did was cause confusion when he could’ve simply stated he was not interested and stopped wasting this woman’s time.

[@Dariuslynel]

exactly! 💯 It is so annoying to hear them try to explain it too

[@Kingzay444]

Why am I this pumped for follow ups?? 😂

[@jackiesinaa]

This dude just like hearing himself talk. How are you gonna ghost her for 2 days and say you weren’t trying to be overbearing? It takes 2 secs to text hey how are you. He’s just full of excuses.

[@draughtsman16]

You get it!

[@leahknowsbeauty1168]

Exactly he full of it

[@jaydubya9265]

Nah cuz some women be claiming men are overbearing if they reach out too much lol

[@EarthhasfallenTV]

She don't run nothing tho lol mad after two days gives Desperate vibes

[@BrittanyJay]

@@EarthhasfallenTV😂

[@lowbottomsdev2089]

I was trying to figure out who tf they were in the picture 💀

[@mts4611]

LOL!!! Arlette's face at 12:22 when he asked "that's all you got?" I'm ROLLING!🤣🤣

[@katrinadoyle1936]

She's so animated 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@anonymousanonymous4868]

@@katrinadoyle1936what’s her zodiac sign?

[@Ci_beauty]

I’m not going to lie I feel bad for Brittany. She seems like a great person and yea Phillip is cool but I still feel like he could have communicated better if he was feeling her more. He said he wanted to have a phone conversation, and yeah you’re busy, but you don’t have an hour to call her up and be honest over the phone? 😑 He wasn’t feeling her that hard in the beginning. To have a side conversation with a girl you decided not to pick is suspect, and the host knows this. Phillip praising everybody for being authentic but he truly was not in this case

[@ROCKETKNIGHT-ph7xp]

Arlette is the best! She deserves millions of followers and donations.

[@Regalieth9143]

Brenda looked like the classiest girl on the show but turns out she’s like everyone of these other modern day women.😭😭 And these people are in their MID THIRTIES why the heck do you get on the show if you’re NOT SINGLE. Scandalous, Brenda, Scandalous.

[@whowhatwhen7977]

"modern women". Stay yo punk azz off podcast.

[@SoniMan-wl9uk]

exaclt my point!!!!

[@jeremyo2009]

nah frl bro shorty acted mad differently

[@TDrizzle]

You can tell she was fraudulent. She looked good but her answers made no damn sense when you actually listen 😂😂. Smoke and mirrors chileee

[@fulltimesuperstar25]

@@TDrizzleOMG!!! I thought I was the only one who felt like all of her answers made 0 sense! She was just souping up her answers but wasn’t really saying nothing!!!!! 😂

[@user-yf1fz6ej5d]

The smirk on Brittany’s face when the bomb was dropped that Brenda wasn’t single 😂😂

[@Sunch.x]

Its sad he didnt even give her a chance, they only met for 30mins bruh!! He talking about I had zoom meeting and I had flights to catch meanwhile had plenty time to investigate Brenda and reach her for an hour 😂😂😂 smh

[@biggdoggtx817]

Ngl Brittney just does it for me 🤷🏿‍♂️. On the show and even more after hearing her here

[@zidane8452]

She's solid

[@db3917]

You can see she really wanted him on the show and she still do but I think she a little too country for him😂

[@woodcrest4655]

Yes we know simpdogg

[@anonymousanonymous4868]

@@db3917really? She looks unbothered like she don’t really care.

[@db3917]

@@anonymousanonymous4868 that’s just the mature way of taking rejection 😂 I do it all the time when I really wanted some fine shit

[@mottie77ful]

Philip looks handsome like a model. Brittany looks so pretty...both look totally different.

[@aguy7407]

I love the way this guy carries himself. That was the most professional way to say: "The one sitting here is too immature, and the other one was messy so I should've had no matches, but since i did - i had to let everyone down gently" and did.

[@lanjon5509]

😂

[@salexander3801]

😂💯

[@milamiil23]

This comment!! Cus that's exactly what it is lmao

[@mspennyisaac]

I loved how he handled the sabertooth situation during the show. She definitely seemed to be projecting that "goofiness" she saw in him.

[@MrBossmanL]

Sabertooth is crazy 😂 you gotta behave

[@MrSamPhoenix]

Sabertooth lol

[@TubeManagement]

Dude is far from goofy and this was really and truly a case of projection …. She was the entire goofiest person on this show so far

[@user-xk5ng4fd6y]

She had that captain of the softball team for St. Lukes, didnt she?

[@jaydubya9265]

Listen she didnt want to cap with yall 🤣

[@GETCOZYWITHMEE]

Y’all that man knew from the first time they spoke , that he wasn’t interested fr.

[@PrettiBelle]

All this red tape about being busy is crazy. When you're interested you make time. It shouldn't be this complicated. Just say you're not interested from the start. When I met my husband long distance we stayed on the phone. So much so I hid my Bluetooth under my hair at work. We fell in love we quickly. 18 years and 3 kids later........❤

[@Mr.Oct___]

That's YOUR experience. Rejections & acceptances don't happen like that routinely. There's nothing wrong w/ reconciling conflicting thought/feelings.

[@PrettiBelle]

@@Mr.Oct___ If you are really interested in someone it's obvious. There is no question about it. And there's not all this red tape with plans etc. He basically proved my point. He's not interested in her.

[@Mr.Oct___]

@PrettiBelle That's false. There are degrees in levels of interest...like most other things in life.

[@PrettiBelle]

@@Mr.Oct___ If you are truly interested in a woman she won't question it. It'll be obvious if you are actively pursuing her. And again, he wasn't interested that's why there was red tape and confusion

[@Mr.Oct___]

@PrettiBelle There was no confusion. He was interested enough to select her above everyone else on the panel.. He was decisive enough to spend time alone directly following the show. More variables & factors came into play over that 72 hr period. He considered them and made his choice. It's very simple. She wasn't the right fit.

[@miguelfelipechristian9917]

Arlette! There’s no other shoe like this than compares to yours. This is quality production.

[@GodsView1]

Show us her shoe our brother

[@eustaceelms9403]

@@GodsView1 lol

[@JamaleLaVon]

Arlette’s energy does it for me everytime ❤

[@MyVisionVoyage]

Will Terrence ever do a catch up with a lady next to him?

[@ayomidelove1175]

We all need to know 😂

[@papaadwoa569]

Y’all wrong 😅😅😅

[@alisonbudhu2666]

Haha doubt they’re together cause he was in my dm’s 😂😂

[@felixmilome]

@@alisonbudhu2666 🤣

[@realityutubetv8846]

@@alisonbudhu2666Terence does it to himself smh I want bro to succeed but he go after every woman

[@AyeDatgurlYvett3]

LET’S NOT SKIP OVER BRENDA NOT BEING SINGLE. SHE HAS SOME EXPLAINING TO DO.

[@depitrius]

😆😆😆😆😆

[@JeffXD2]

@@darvennorris well, excuse you. It is kind of his and this shows business when a 3o4 comes to the show and pretends to be single when in fact she is not. Would you have the same energy if a guy did that? do think so, so keep pushing and mind your own business. 3o4s like her have no place in a dating show for Singles.....

[@eustaceelms9403]

@@darvennorris so many red flags from the dude most men in the comments think he did great. Smh lol P.S real men don’t kiss and tell. Buddy out here spilling the tea

[@JSki-jn5vj]

I was just about to write that!

[@krystalA5379]

Arlette, your show is one of a kind. And he is so right - the authenticity is everything. One of the classiest dating shows out there. Also, love that you added the recaps in the beginning (cuz the couples sometimes look sooo different from the show its crazy) and love the addition of date pics in the last two catchups. Keep doing your thing Arlette. Love and blessings all the time. 🙌🙌

[@wonttrickmea1869]

She’s absolutely gorgeous ❤

[@MsSoaringstar18]

Get Brenda on the phone NEOWWW! 😂

[@jahbates2532]

Nah dude wack why pick someone that you don’t really want. Now I feel like he was clout chasing.

[@jaydubya9265]

The weekend being doing this the entire series lol.

[@woodcrest4655]

Why is the girl on the show if she isn’t single? Don’t skip over that you simp

[@rza380.]

He's weird he matched wit her then tried to spin the block wit Brenda and that didn't work, he doesn't wanna go to dinner who doesn't want to go eat on a first date. He seems emotionless he don't even laugh

[@deardanidaniela]

What a great conversation....so classy and so transparent. This is everything. I'm a fan, fan of how Arlette conducts this shoooow!!

[@dexteranthony3069]

This man seems very intelligent and articulate. I think the woman is a good person too. They’ll both find love one day.

[@lilspongie44]

Arlette’s outfit!😍 She is wearing it well!

[@ConversationswCourtney]

Confirms that men go after who they want, he went out of his way to connect with Brenda

[@Dariuslynel]

I found it disrespectful that he spent more time talking about Brenda instead of really address the way he wants about his communication with Brittany. He said he doesn't like texting, but did he even express that to Brittany, this after he kept telling her he was too busy smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@dominquebrown5447]

This was nice, he better preach. Anyone who knows their word and is in the word knew what he meant. Beautiful job Arlette and team.

[@jamaican_approv3d]

Arlette is mad funny😂😂 her reaction and adlibs

[@SimplyPops]

Name one pop the balloon or find love creator who's doing those catch-ups. I'll wait lol

[@danielle5391]

Wait for it...Arlette will definitely be copied.

[@gillmush4974]

​@@danielle5391 Yeah, just like how everyone is copying her show. There are about 50 different versions of this show now on KZbin.

[@Thrown2010]

There are a few out there doing it now.....copycats.

[@TheStandard81Podcast]

Everything he said was BS. We make time for who and what we want. Plus when someone is really interested in someone they are willing to bend rules and compromise.

[@rafaelbenyisrael144]

Brenda out here in a relationship already lol

[@lilspongie44]

Let me just say.. Brittany has DODGED A BULLET ☺️ You go girl!

[@WHNPerk]

She got a man already.

[@meleckcarter7534]

Brittany is ah second option for this guy , he really wanted Brenda, girl you better off without this guy

[@TheLykon]

Bro just wasn’t interested. And idk why but I’m mad af about that lol 😂😂

[@TeniqueSpeaks]

Omg 😂😂😂😂fr

[@ronm3034]

He said because he wanted kids

[@Babybacktillery]

I be mad when they waste ppl time. She could've matched with someone else.

[@OpinionatedGent]

If You Listened Carefully, She Played With Him.

[@TheLykon]

@@ronm3034 that ain’t true cuz the red dress was like 38 and he was interested in her.

[@peacebalancetruth]

CLASS ACT BOTH OF YOU! 👏🏾👏🏽👏🏼👏🏿👏🏻👏 AND WONDERFUL HOSTING ARLETTE 🎤 ✨.

[@papaadwoa569]

Not all the colors of humanity in the claps 😂❤️

[@a1_global413]

Main man got a robotic presence about him 😂

[@wonttrickmea1869]

never text or contact a man who have not communicated anything with you….EVER!

[@godsownson2469]

Same for a MAN

[@wonttrickmea1869]

@@godsownson2469 absolutely!!!

[@bonafide242]

Why not?! Don't want to be rejected? 😅

[@wonttrickmea1869]

@@bonafide242 he’s clearly not interested so why chase?

[@humble_mik]

He's lonnnnnggg wiiinnnnded AF

[@daowonimdee]

..or...you have the attention span of a 12 year old. Tiktok generation.

[@primetimejones6442]

This 👆🏿

[@GT-mc2uj]

@@daowonimdee Tiktok is killing my people, sigh

[@opulence_prime]

He tries to explain his mistakes away cus he makes dumb decisions. He’s most definitely full of air.

[@daowonimdee]

@@GT-mc2uj Case in point.

[@TheMePercent]

He’s still looking serious af.

[@aprinceofyah]

I really liked Phillip's answers and how bro conducted himself. It's unfortunate he lost interest and it didn't workout with Brittany, but I am glad there's no lost love(respect) between the two. Arlette got the best content! Well done to everyone involved

[@andreearl3258]

He gotta be able to tell her he not interested. As men we shouldn't conduct ourselves in ways where there isn't clarity. It sounds good to say it now but he could've been said it

[@candyxox]

He looks better with his hair pulled back

[@newtonsamgwa9400]

This guy is a real jerk, he just wasted this beautiful lady's time and Arlette just smiled at it, not cool at all

[@Kimj0422]

Wow, he really is goofy. He knew he wasn’t interested in this girl the entire time. And he doesn’t know what love bombing is or postpartum. Smh

[@Vanil_Everyday]

Wait a minute,why does he talk so much about Brenda 😂is Brenda here with us 😂😂

[@exclusivelytasha]

You make time for what you want. Communication is key. If you don’t like her that’s fine but some of us wanna connect and find love. This didn’t have to be complicated. They are both beautiful so I pray they find what they’re looking for . ❤

[@torigordon8730]

Love his outfit. She’s so beautiful n have a great personality

[@lifewithlatisha3697]

Arlette you're gorgeous. Makeup on point and everythang!!

[@olumidelonge]

I love Arlette. I need her show to get bigger!

[@user-ht4he7gc2i]

Brenda is PISSED 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@RumbaniNdhlovu]

I appreciate dudes honesty.

[@kekedora9303]

The best catch up I have watched.