Ep 11: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@sagafiles]

nah the last dude got me weak as hell at 2am 😭😭 bro making the word queen sound like a straight insult to women 😭😭😭💀

[@TiffTALKS22]

Most people who use it, say it facetiously or apply it to people who don't carry themselves as such. Coming from him, I'd have definitely felt insulted & made him call me by my name!

[@Mannymoe3]

well, hey women run around calling men sassy all the time....maybe that should be men's thing.

[@muslimahmedia519]

hahahah crine @ queeen hahahahahhhaha

[@Marklin-je2gp]

It is. If you know the history of queens. Queen=diva, hoe, boss, ratchet, uncooperative.

[@TrumpBeat2Women]

@@TiffTALKS22calm down queeeeeeen

[@adwoablankson6806]

That lady in the black who claimed she wasn’t patient really developed her patience on the show because dealing with that last guy CONFUSED me

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

She need to be saved.

[@Mrchickenwing74]

THAT PART. He was terrible 😭

[@user-rp4om8cr3n]

She’s probably into rude guys. Some girls likes arrogance.

[@joeltcc]

the minute an argument happens someone is getting hurt

[@kiaradoxchannel9871]

Mike Tyson and Robin Givens vibes

[@mvokiii]

The guy with the dreads was so sweet. I love how he complimented everyone. He has great energy! I felt it through the phone. He got the perfect girl. Their chemistry was amazing!

[@Lauren.O]

He seemed SO sweet, I was surprised at all the balloons that got popped for him 😔

[@Mochagirl02]

Dreads was a real genuine person and all the ladies who popped their balloons are superficial! Esther picked the ninja turtle so I can’t take her seriously!

[@nunyabusiness3516]

She said "I'm looking for a nice guy"❤❤❤ More women need to be looking for a nice guy.

[@camilleize]

Same for me. I just hope they do a follow up with the matches so we can know how they're fairing in their relationships.

[@vincentmalevu8453]

😂this life no balance . Just live it

[@2075jman]

The last girl in white, now this is a TRUE lady who is headed somewhere in life. Listen to her questions, she is not playing with her choice of a real man. She is beautiful, sweet, polite and she means business.

[@oumaima3547]

100% agree. So confused about all of the comments roasting her. She knows what she wants and isn't afraid to have her own boundaries in a respectful way. Good for her!

[@denisebigsbee5488]

I was so impressed with her the 22yr old in white. No offense she's too intelligent for this show, or that group of ladies!!!

[@user-ug5fm4ct9y]

@@denisebigsbee5488 Yep

[@lemonschoice1]

White dress is asking and answering questions like a job interview. She’s giving HR.

[@latoyiaroman1841]

I agree, she was so lame.

[@KJgoKraazy_253]

On me bro these females are so picky about everything😂😂 they have high standards but don’t meet any of them themselves

[@FEB-mz6zr]

She give the same vibes as the scammer chick who proclaimed to be a model on one of the other episodes

[@siesie768]

Omg I got the same vibe! God I hate that, it's not an interview..felt so cold

[@Ms.Seraphin]

HATED HER! Too serious and I’m a female 😂

[@mrs.barbadianna1165]

White dress has a very old spirit. She looks her age but acts like a 50 year old woman, I would pay to see her and Dr. Elom have a conversation😂😂

[@BooksandLooksTV]

She reminds me of a Pentecostal

[@ChevyB1986]

He would still over talk her 😂

[@ftngie]

He would make her so uncomfortable😂😂

[@ariellej6178]

😂😂😂😂yesss they need to meet

[@AmourNista]

Nah don't subject her to him but I see what you mean..think Lex might be a good match....she might put him in his place

[@ExperienceMiaSimone]

They went from trashing the nice guy about his clothes to getting dogged out by a plumber 🤣

[@FeelingIsHealing]

Life comes at you fast sometimes 😂

[@charitytharpe2313]

Facts

[@Predictable1]

Haha that is one hideous and disrespectful plumper, but I had a good laugh seeing him like arguing like that. Chandler was the best guy hands down!, nice, respectful and pretty face too, but like... I understand the reasons about his fit. The girls went a bit too harsh on that, it's true, but like, I get it, and kinda agree. Though I don't think he should change that about himself anyway.

[@Recluse616]

And they deserved it 😂😂

[@ligma334]

Fuck em he gave back what they gave out an outfit can be changed Chandler was a good dude even him saying an outfit is bs they still wanted to argue

[@chris61214]

The plumber cleaned the room and still left with a baddie 😂😂😂

[@cassanix9093]

Everybody shocked

[@johannees622]

I agree. I’m still shocked. She’s gorgeous and well spoken… 😤

[@christiandavis2490]

bro got the best one

[@mbonisinyoni3947]

I cant believe he talked smack but left the girl😂😂

[@jerseyrick4225]

​@johannees622 she liked him because he's a masculine man and not a push over (beta male). That's why

[@jasonsmart-vm5dz]

“You’re not even qualified” is my new response when someone gets outta pocket with me 😂😂

[@Chill_Son]

He’s a goat 🐐

[@NuraInMyFace]

😂😂😂😂

[@rhondeenpitts567]

😂😂😂

[@mustafaa3226]

😂😂😂

[@B1ack_Manta]

lol They gonna hit you with that "don't do too much!"

[@sanelekhanyile6236]

My last man, when ever he heard a ballon pop, he would look at em from head to toe for a proper roast!!!! pure entertainment fr.....🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@victorokeke7285]

For real 🤣🤣😭😭

[@GrishikZavakzalni]

Lmao facts 🤣

[@bukkyschoreo6247]

Facts 😂😅

[@eddylarbi-ch8xh]

Facts😂

[@SwillzMostHated]

Lol

[@elishunjohncole616]

Ninja turtle man came with Leonardo’s respectfulness, Raphael’s no filter, Donatello’s brain, and Michelangelo’s impatience. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@artiium21]

LOL

[@mrbrooks56]

Legend

[@FeelingFitFabFun]

😂😂

[@CheeseburgerGem]

Not the Ninja Turtle Jokes 😆😆😆

[@marcusgarveyhou1877]

Yea and one of these ladies master splintered his ass. 😂 got the man fired from his job. Smh

[@xomemiiox4445]

Okay ive watched about 10 of these today! And i just gotta say the host is amazing! Her personality keeps me wanting to keep watching. She keeps it interesting and moving and not awkward. Her demeanour softens the blows. What a great presenter and host. The concept itself of the show is brilliant but the host definitely keeps me interested in the show!

[@KinaruKitanaJade7373]

Chandler got EXACTLY what he was looking for. His outfit did it's job!! They seem like a genuine match!!!

[@reallyhimongod]

Chandler and thanks appreciate the kind words 😊

[@JayTunez617]

that was dope

[@BooksandLooksTV]

❤

[@RonDonProductions]

I thought his left arm was fake for a good while 😂🙏🏽

[@baldcheddar]

That one girl calling him "passive" confirmed my suspicion as to why the girls popped their ballon. They thought he was too nice And you know alot of women like the bad boy

[@TheeJoker2]

“FIRST OFF QUEEN, YOU’RE NOT EVEN QUALIFIED” - NinjaTurtleMan 2024’

[@peacebalancetruth]

😂and Yo' profile pic!

[@tonyawilliamson551]

😂😂😂

[@ChelleRobin01]

Ninja turtle man😭

[@I.Follow.Yeshua.]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@FrenchyBelgian]

Ninja Turtle Man 🐢🐢🐢🤣🤣🤣

[@ree_flowers]

The fact that Ester popped her balloon for the “Motherly” comment guy but chose that last guy with all his mouf is crazy!!🤣🤣

[@destinyjones7681]

I think she was scared of what he was gonna say to her if she popped her balloon 😂😂😂

[@mpundumwaba1758]

It’s something I’m trying to figure out, I need to rewatch this show again

[@alexisnicole824]

Definitely!!!

[@Wallsd]

Those girls are on live right now and Esther just admitted that she not only didn’t leave with that last guy but she gave her number to another guy that was in there filming for the next episode

[@PRINCESS2U_]

@@destinyjones7681my exact thought bc I would of have to cuss him tf out talking bout God saves souls

[@countessstevens63]

“How do you feel about 50/50” and “Can you adapt” are NOT the same question! 😂

[@YoungCorleone_.]

“you did me a favor” is crazy😭😭😂

[@icedful2462]

Fr😭

[@nomotionboy]

That shii had me crying 😂😂😂

[@platineshop]

Mannn.... this Panel is Dense 😢

[@YooDako]

What does it mean😭😭😭

[@petersonvilbrena506]

Lol 😂

[@AugustLady77]

Calling them Queen while insulting is insane!😂😂😂😂

[@sleepyeyez01]

Fckn Savage 😂😂😂😂

[@truggs31]

😂😂 I’m up here crying at that

[@BlackSavage946]

Bruh kept it real, take the compliment ya get me lol

[@H-Jayy]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@xKouture]

So backhanded.

[@zackaryascencio2582]

The anime couple is HIGH KEY goals! Someone who looks past the fit/exterior and both know what they want. ❤

[@Shewas-kathybates]

But his fit/exterior is what let her know they were compatible in the first place. He was wearing an anime t-shirt. And while that’s a casual way to dress for a date it advertised his interests.

[@707tich]

YESSS

[@EricaEmpowers]

was about to type this, love them! They were both so genuine

[@yaniceh]

Facts

[@koverednklassy]

And they’re still together ☺️

[@emmiberg4207]

The fact that girl still went off with sir ninja turtle in the end is INSAAAAANE !! Ha ! Have fun with him ! 😂

[@queennii1244]

Ngl the match between the man with locs & the girl in the blue sweater literally go together so well. Their personalities are one and the same and honestly out of all the matches I feel that’s the most genuine one! Sister girl got a good man & it’s sad the rest of them couldn’t see past his attire to determine that but not at the same time bc sister girl lucked up!

[@thatsnotnice5190]

Watch the catch up between them, even cuter ❤

[@briannabogans4608]

Right! Good man with a great job!

[@jasminecarter955]

Yes, they have great chemistry!

[@nyemawalker]

@@thatsnotnice5190omg whereee

[@nala6846]

I was squealing while watching them ngl. They were just so adorable 🤧

[@aikens1987]

All the ladies that missed on Chandler will be kicking themselves down the line. Glad he found his match though. The instant bond over a love for anime and just everything. Dude was extremely kind and complimentary to the ladies.

[@jerrrryy4503]

Facts and the one short darkskin girl tried to roast him, then they met ninja turtle man and prolly immediately missed Chandler

[@aikens1987]

@jerrrryy4503 right he had heat for everyone

[@Tangerinesorbet]

Aaron/ ninja turtle posted later that Chandler asked for Esther’s instagram and contact info after the show.

[@R3DRUMMAK3R]

Chandler was my favorite guy, I love anime!!❤❤😊

[@estherduah1983]

He was the best!... Wished the Esther girl wld have been smart enough to take him!

[@kaylavarela7215]

I really love the vibe of the guy who complemented all the ladies even though they popped and ended up with the most sweet of them all.

[@DNaWhoot]

He too good for all of em

[@zionalexandra715]

She was side eyeing the darkskin girl and rolling her eyes. She was not sweet. She was fake 😂😂 trust me

[@FlexStyleZ]

Nobody wants them beta males

[@Mychannelissocringeyhelp-]

@@zionalexandra715which one?

[@msairs]

Complimenters don't seem trustworthy to me.

[@miguelnehm5791]

The last dude I quote “ I don’t mean to be disrespectful but if I see you in public I won’t reach out “ 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ZaydiVillanueva]

“Well you ain’t qualified baby” 😂😭💀 I am dead the last dude was BOLD

[@tunjitube17]

Yea top 1% in physique and money will having walking and talking like that it is what it is.

[@jonyvisa7031]

Bold or straight up classless ,pretentious and rude!! Mr Big stuff

[@zz_loves_you]

@@jonyvisa7031are you mad?

[@jonyvisa7031]

@@zz_loves_you 🤡ohhh,very🥳

[@zz_loves_you]

@@jonyvisa7031 🌚👽

[@faizaadem9339]

Chandler is by far the sweetest most genuine guy. When he said I want someone to love me for me was absolutely heartwarming because SAME CHANDLER…SAME!

[@aye.naomii]

I agree! He seems very sweet!

[@topshotta9497]

he’s cool but he needs to dress to impress. Looking like you just came back from playing 8 hours of super smash bros is not a good first impression

[@IM-qy7mf]

Most genuine because his personality matched yours?

[@kay.gochii]

Yeah also look at the way he took rejection like a champ in comparison to the ninja turtle dude

[@anitawilson1527]

I liked the woman he matched with too. I can't wait to see their update 🙂

[@allyoucanwatch29]

I don’t know where the last guy got his confidence from 😂😂😂 he doesn’t give a sh**t , and left with the most beautiful lady in the show.

[@WOG.Kenyaa]

Idk either he literally was the worst! I’d choose the doctor over him!!!

[@fallonnesmith4379]

right...i'm so confused lol

[@successMode8247]

Damn look at those bitches face with Lil bit of jealous when they going together 😂😂

[@DECAID85]

He's real, I like that.

[@Nonchalantlyfabulous]

right! someone please help me understand ....

[@Carpediem_76]

Last dude is so funny 😂. I can’t believe he walked out with the finest woman. Fair play to her for not being influenced by the rest of them.

[@khrisbmusic6091]

Same thing I said lol 😂. He chose violence and still bagged the baddest one lol 😂

[@Carpediem_76]

@@khrisbmusic6091 Dude’s a legend. The way he came back at red outfit lady with the hairy arms comment. Classic! 😂

[@keonajones9548]

Chandler was a true gentleman. I loved his respectful attitude and kindness. Great guy 🥰

[@ethereal_musik]

Sameeeeeeee

[@uwu8873]

Yes, he was so handsome too.

[@gustyhiero]

Yet none of them chose him but they have the gut to call the last guy sassy

[@anti-socialprogramming2203]

The feeling was definitely mutual 💀💀💀💀💀 you did me a favor, thank you queen

[@proph9916]

😂🤣😂😂

[@skywalkeri2meleng444]

😂😂

[@Juanaaaa]

😂😂😂

[@Jazminnextdoor]

I can't stand him oml 😭

[@anti-socialprogramming2203]

@@Jazminnextdoor he wild ☠️

[@kevinwilliams-id8zn]

last dude: "FIRST OFF QUEEN U NOT EVEN QUALIFIED" 😂😂. got me in tears

[@Lady88]

Savage 😭🤣

[@kristamonae]

😂😂😂😂

[@belladamma2345]

Lmao as if he was qualified …bro that’s why she popped. 😂😂😂

[@BuddyMac69]

Single mother raised dudes with zero emotional control. This is why the black community is at the bottom of society

[@essencemariah1592]

Lmaooo right!! 😂

[@Raissa_Artista]

I came back to rewatch Chandler and Mishna’s episode SPECIFICALLY after the reunion and dude….he is definitely a chronic gaslighter. I didn’t get the vibe that he was “settling” or picked her because she was the only one left. He dead seemed like he liked her…like WHAT?!!! Am I being gaslit right now????😂😂😂😂

[@jazminlopez821]

Same! lol but he did look like he was holding back a lot of his crazy.

[@bloopityboop]

You’re not crazy. I think he was definitely into getting to know her, then got upset she wasn’t chasing him. I’m so glad sis was smart enough not to! He is psycho

[@innag6888]

he appears to have unresolved issues that have nothing to do with mishna or any of the other ladies

[@myfrbs12]

The way they did Chanler is so messed up. He's definitely in the wrong environment. He seems like such a genuine and good man. This feels like such a high school moment

[@mr_knowitall]

Nah. he got a match.

[@Igetsitin89]

That's why these chick's up here , they don't have a man because they don't deserve one

[@Respecttheorigin]

He seemed like a cool dude and i wish more girls gave him a chance, but I'm glad he matched with the girl in blue, they had complimentary energy.

[@zeken0]

That's why they got the last dude to put them in check.. haha

[@amna6024]

hes handsome and intelligent, way above their leagues

[@aliabbasnezhad1995]

This show is a 1 hour psychology class

[@neverlookback1244]

Learnt a lot from this video it was entertaining tho

[@hoodfellah]

You couldn’t have said it any better

[@theapeofwallstreet7613]

Lmaooo dead as a psych major this interests me not the drama

[@KalebAdams-gb2hw]

@@theapeofwallstreet7613 I started thinking about all my past research studies and I had to get off youtube lol

[@Godzilla-ct2pp]

True

[@DaGxdMoses]

“I don’t marry people for no reason” but can have 2 KIDS!!! Like how does having kids not be of the most super importance?? Do y’all realize bringing a child into this world is WAYYYY DEEPER than marriage? How do we not realize this???

[@monicadavis9475]

I thought the exact same thing.

[@akouvisedo7558]

And someone matched with him.

[@tiffanygreen9644]

I was going to say this😩

[@mrs.c6569]

I think he had those kids at 17 and 19…that’s extremely young

[@Yahsprincess]

Creating broken homes and out looking for another home to make 😂😂😂😂 this is the earth we live in

[@AlexRex01]

The brother even gets the sweetest of them all . This bro knows how to choose his women i think they’re going to have a good family.

[@linx0616]

Last dude was looking for a fight not a wife 😂

[@sagafiles]

bro just came to straight cook them girls 😭😭😭😭 bro made the word queen sound like a insult shit had me weak

[@pety9669]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lokozking]

@@sagafileshow tf did bro make that shi derogatory i’m crying bru😂

[@sanelekhanyile6236]

im telling you, bro came prepared 😆😆😆😆

[@steadyabmrising1927]

😂😂😂😂

[@jeremiah.s]

Happy for the dread dude. You can just see he is a good person. Never let anyone change who you are fam.

[@gabrielleorion1373]

Coolest one for sure!!

[@jediwarrior9347]

They all regretted rejecting him when they heard his romantic 1st date plans for his match. SMH. They all thought he was handsome but rejected him simply because of how he was dressed.

[@skytate3048]

It gives off a teenage boy vibe. Otherwise, he's very likeable.

[@mariafahrenheit]

He was my favourite and I loved that the girl he got in the end was also in jeans and casual clothes on and simpler makeup, and she loved anime too.

[@WLA97]

Chandler is mentally stronger than his emotions. He remained respectful and it didn't take away from beauty he still saw vs others getting defensive. Das a man 🤤

[@phraze410]

He did almost lose it with one girl. He was like THIS IS WHO IAM!!!

[@phraze410]

He really need to be with a rock band type white girl tho.

[@sabrinastarks7868]

@@phraze410 tf?!?!?.... how closed-minded (why would she have to be white?!?!?)

[@halfspin8]

That's what actual confidence looks like.

[@rhey81]

Chandler carries himself like a college professor working on his Masters and his dissertation. Hes beyond this group of young women.

[@Loralou4455]

The white dress lady asked all those questions only to pop the ballon for that guy at the end! That’s wild lmao

[@nikoschristodoularas7241]

She just didnt get the answers she was looking for

[@spoodieblack3500]

“Are you looking at the tattoos” “Naw I’m lookin at the hair on ya arms”😂😂😂😂

[@djjones2902]

I thought he was gone comment on them long ass titties 🤣

[@bigmoney7332]

Nah am looking at the fallen economy 😂😂😂

[@jeswazwadi7049]

he was looking at her boobs lol

[@M4RZ1Z]

​@@bigmoney7332 omg ☠️☠️☠️

[@ls3vstheworld223]

The host tryna hold back her laugh killed me

[@drtash21]

Why did I smile from ear to ear when the anime guy with the dreadlocks got a girl in the end? 😊😊😊 THAT WAS GREAT. All the other girls were like hell no but that one girl held her balloon the whole time cause she likes anime too!! See, if you’re true to yourself it doesn't matter if 1000 girls reject you, you just need that ONE girl that likes you just the way you are.

[@greenanimations923]

they matched eachothers energy so well

[@beyondthepalepodcast6293]

and he came away with the least attractive one... but at least she was humble

[@tochiobi7466]

​@@beyondthepalepodcast6293Least attractive cos she didn't dress the way the others were dressed or she wasn't showing skin? That babe was beautiful(especially her face), you probably were just looking at the fitted clothes, trust me if she was to wear clothes that showed her physique... She'd be sexier than a lot of the girls there, notice that none of the guys ever said she wasn't attractive (just the guy who said she was giving "mother") he was probably thinking and judging her like you are

[@greenanimations923]

@@tochiobi7466 yeah it was really the hairstyle and outfit that threw others off, but that’s just who she is so

[@anaiahk4507]

@@beyondthepalepodcast6293she wasn’t “least attractive “ attractive is subjective and opinion based just reminding you she may be unattractive to you😂but she is gorgeous

[@matheuzts]

the fact that the women popped their balloons for the guy with dreads whos so nice almost immediately but kept for the last guy for so long is crazy 😭

[@leone659]

I WAS GAGGGEDDD LIKE LITERALLY GIVE ME A CHAANCE THEN??? 😭

[@LyrixNChill]

It being the last guy, I think they were getting desperate

[@matheuzts]

@@LyrixNChill thats way too desperate 😭

[@flaminak7894]

People like you are incredibly dense ffs. It’s been talked about since FOREVER. Women (especially blk women) love masculine energy even if it’s toxic…especially if it’s toxic. Dreadhead dude wasn’t exactly putting out any of that but no disrespect to bro because you can only be true to yourself no matter what people think.

[@Daniel-ms5cd]

I mean the guy with dreads looked like a kid, plus the way he behaves is more like a cool pal, but not like someone a girl would see as an alfa male or a boyfriend.

[@user-pq6zo1yl2y]

When two prettiest girl said they impatient and other girls didn’t say about what is worst side about themselves, reminded me again pretty girls are more humble than girls who look regular

[@junkfoodvegan]

Arlett’s version of Pop the Balloon or find love is the best quality on KZbin. She’s professional, respectable and fair to all the participants. The production quality is the best out of all the others too. All the other versions on YT look like they just grab random people off the street, have the show in a happy hour bar type spot, get some Amazon quality mics and film the show with their iPhone or Galaxy phone. You can tell Arlette and her team take this show seriously.

[@Mindful_Mm]

Have you seen the Nigerian version? You fall down of laughter 😅

[@NurseRNNetta]

Indeed! I agree 100 percent!

[@shonasaulsberry7461]

I made a post on FB saying the same thing. Hers is the best out of all of them.

[@reesej8439]

100% agree. The gay version are so extra

[@laraithonwilliams5808]

Agreed!!

[@kesha-Lee.]

The young man with the flannel shirt seems like a genuine person. If the young lady that matched with him is genuine, they might be a real couple one day.

[@reallyhimongod]

Thanks & ditto 🙏🏽

[@regalchic]

You're right!

[@Rj-nq4ml]

Seriously

[@sloppygirlz]

Yeah that was a real match.

[@ElizeNicole101]

Said the same thing! I think they have a chance!

[@changewithkemitv7852]

How could anyone hate on Chandler .. really respectful and kind in all his responses. He got a good match . Wishing them the best

[@user-vq9vc5kt2w]

he is the sweetest

[@ChismeAddictFL]

I loved all the matches, but theirs was the cutest, and I would love to watch them grow. ❤

[@abouttogetexclusive9367]

It’s Shandler

[@alexchui3511]

Ladies failed on him. Popping a balloon because of a fit is the stupidest thing to do.

[@Kernee]

They popped him because they are doing faud, and he can have access 😂

[@adriannam321]

“Women I deal with don’t have hair on their arms and you ain’t qualified” 💀💀😂😂

[@s.elissa9209]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@db3917]

Lmaoooo she said physically your energy is not my type 😂😂😂 …… ayooo stop bringing these kids up here

[@momo4044]

Yeahh that was weird😂

[@courtneycarpenter5283]

I think she thought he was ugly but just didn’t want to be mean lmao

[@a31573]

And she thought she made sense 😂😂😂😂

[@db3917]

@@JustObserving313 why you watching other women find love ? It’s a show which is entertaining. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@the411showikonradioloudsat9]

Lmao factory bruh

[@EricaEmpowers]

The level of professionalism that Arlette keeps when you know she wants to laugh😂🤣😂

[@Loyiso-eg2wy]

yeah she is professional, she walk backwards to her starting point to not show her bums. i really do like that

[@melitamayfield3879]

I thought this was a sarcasm comment because I thinks she is an instigater if you ask me. WHY ISNT SHE YOUR TYPE? JUST NOT ATTRACTED? WHAT about her isn't attractive?

[@July-ola]

@@melitamayfield3879it’s the point of the show. To hear what people really think

[@rubymargaritais5657]

She's got a gift. I would be rolling. Wouldn't make it this far at all.😂😂😂

[@jadenfwzoro]

@@Loyiso-eg2wyi didnt even notice that was the reason why

[@RayRae559]

To the anime guy, NEVER change who you are for anyone but YOURSELF. Glad he found someone regardless of their future.

[@susannwambugu4939]

💯

[@Angeliz225]

They have an update, go watch it

[@theosclong1201]

Where is the update?

[@thewanderer8438]

Right. It's crazy because I know exactly the type of man these wolen are looking. If I speak...

[@KM-ek9or]

He was so sweet! If I were single I totally would've given him a chance. Him and the braided guy. Very cute

[@Ahdree23]

You see how many follow-up questions Chandler had for Esther? Lol. Very telling.

[@CJ2008NW]

Im happy Chandler got a match because he’s been the most genuine dude I’ve seen on here

[@NeshaBoo21]

Turns out she didn't even leave with him and got someone else's number 😂

[@Animalhouser]

Facts 💯💯💯

[@CJ2008NW]

@@NeshaBoo21 that’s horrible

[@acidicsoul4978]

​@@NeshaBoo21😂😂😂 that's crazy.

[@Santiago_RS]

Yea he’s so cool and you can tell he’s a genuine stand up guy

[@Saaiba83]

I absolutely lovedddd when he said “yes this is what I’m comfortable with this is what I wear” YES SIR!

[@Vonnalove]

Right periodddd he don’t have to go out his comfort zone for nobody!!!!

[@Hinokami777]

@@Vonnalovefor nobody and found a woman that accepts him

[@aromlaa7066]

I mean people who dress like slobs probably say the same thing. Not saying he’s one of them

[@tonatiuhcortes9968]

Notice how Mishna is also dressed in normal comfortable clothes just as chandler is. Unlike everyone else dressed like they’re going to the club. They seem right for each other. Wish them well

[@msairs]

They're wearing date clothes.

[@simie659]

The last girl wasn’t even dressed like she was going to the club…

[@wunmymfontay_3747]

Mishna never said anything about Ryan’s tattoos but said something about the 3rd guys tattoos 🤔

[@akumathelion535]

@@simie659 She would be my pick. Before she even opened her mouth she just had the wife material vibe.

[@Sickiezz]

Same!!

[@danieleanderson2320]

Not the blue dress exposed that man 😂😂😂😂😂 “I don’t know if y’all know, but he’s actually the security at the club” she wild !! 😂😂 28:38

[@zakinorse3059]

I didn’t get why it’s so hard for some women to understand a man doesn’t want to date his mothers aesthetic he isn’t saying he doesn’t want a woman to be a good mom he was just saying her AESTHETIC is motherly which it was in this particular moment.

[@regispanorama1899]

FACTS, how did they not understand what he meant

[@shericemae]

I promise I was thinking the same thing when I saw her. Not only her outfit, but the wig and makeup were all giving auntie vibes. 😂 especially standing next to the women she was up against.

[@ashd5326]

I get what he meant, the outfit…but he said he likes women who cover more…and this girl is the most modest one there imo

[@Layyyaa]

Her aesthetic definitely didn’t match his or the other women. I feel like before the first woman popped her balloon she should have asked follow-up questions. Her attire is giving much older than what she is.

[@ogi197]

I don't know of any serious heterosexual man..in search of his mother as a companion..None.

[@asosa5.080]

licensed plumber just came in, answered questions and got his match and called it a day 🤣🤣 hairy arms had me 💀

[@juggpope]

Man it’s bloody crazy yeah !

[@kjeremie9550]

And got the hottest girl

[@MichaelArnold-qv6sn]

Lolol😂😂

[@thecelestialgoddess_]

LMFAOOO

[@WolfKing5236]

"Be yourself.. it's the only self you can be" Peace 🙏✌️

[@vinnietc1826]

I Come Back Here And Watch Aaron The Plumber Once A Week 😂😂

[@kimberlyturbin939]

Me too 😂😂😂😂

[@hassanseun]

You mean Aaron the licensed Plumber 😂😂

[@cristinabonilla6254]

Aaron, the licensed plumber, I thought he was great! Confident, honest, and strong!

[@skovhugger.husqvarna2483]

Me too. He is brilliant

[@lonewolf30]

He was laying pipe😂😂😂😂

[@lenoliver-k6g]

That last guy was awesome and funny as hell i liked him they need have him on again.🤣🤣🤣

[@maddie1414-l5c]

Chandler was so wholesome, I hope they end up having that picnic date watching the sunset 🥺

[@reallyhimongod]

Imma try haha 😜

[@kailenm7841]

They were too cute ! I loveed them ! TWO SWEET SOULS

[@laurab6418]

They have the same upbeat energy! I’m rooting for them ❤

[@SaturnStarOfDavid]

Momma and Son date

[@growwithwill5070]

​@@reallyhimongoddo you bro, and don't even trip cause my cousins are 50 plus and they love anime

[@QuanettaKing]

Chandler stole my heart, so respectful & sweet!!

[@amb8814]

Right?!

[@miathemogul]

The two nerdy people were so good together! I loved watching their interaction 🥰

[@sallymays5174]

Same, loved that! It wasn’t over vanity either

[@russellwestbrook8747]

i was scared for her. And then got super excited. Im glad she found someone lol

[@tatyana_samone]

same here!! they were so cute

[@bigbenninvesting3681]

What was nerdy about the woman?

[@shutupnvibe]

@@bigbenninvesting3681 she called herself an anime nerd lol.

[@blazingmonolith4323]

The 1st guy saying he quit drinking at 21 had me dying 🤣 😂 💀

[@clairemarie795]

Literally just came here for chandler part. He seemed so intelligent and kind. Beautiful aura 😍

[@Anjilstorm1]

Same. I came here for Chandler. I hope more men grew into men like him.

[@antdroppedanothaone]

real i wanted to see his whole section

[@get_dead-_-9901]

You can tell he’s extra respectful, kind and gentle. He’s a sweetheart ❤❤❤

[@gideoninc8687]

Women don't go for the good guys. Be an asshole like me and you'll never have a shortage of women.

[@coolguy1813]

if him and kayla dont get it going after the show ill be pissed lmao

[@mspennyisaac]

Blue sweater definitely gives Mother Love. I couldn’t believe she was only 23. 😩 Having motherly characteristics & looking motherly are two different things ladies.

[@takonayang8770]

😂😂

[@Euphoricbryanna]

Okay I kind of get what he was saying now I guess. She’s beautiful. I loved the way she dressed, personally!

[@thagrandpubah]

First girl took that way to seriously! I wish he didn’t literally say it with ghetto sass like, “It’s Giving”. He should have just said you dress in a way that reminds me of a “family member”.🤷🏽‍♂️

[@daowonimdee]

23 going on 40. Lol

[@Ghostaredead]

Yes I don’t think he was tryna disrespect her it was just his honest perspective but most women under 30 wouldn’t like that description!

[@DushaneTB]

He assessing like they his employees - YOU NOT QUALIFIED 😭😭😭😭

[@Venusmoon33]

Grind my gears like whatttt😭😭😭

[@Doo22783]

He got the best one thou

[@KM-ek9or]

​​@Doo22783 Nah, the one in pink and the one in the black with the long sleeve.

[@Rayan-q2s6d]

@@Doo22783absolutely. And then this seems like this guy knows what he’s doing.

[@ilhamthabit3447]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MrLilnene10]

The girl in the blue dress had me weak when she popped her balloon twice😂

[@hoopblaze]

The anime guy was fresh as hell idgaf. The whole fit is chill and original; something a lot of people don't know how to be nowadays. Keep doing you bro 👍🏾

[@Friendzone_excape_artist]

100! Co-ordinated from his headband to his kicks

[@neerin4178]

im really happy he got the blue girl as a match, she was one of the most down to earth women on this show

[@hoopblaze]

@MissX33 That guy was dressed normal and they're not on TV. He came as he was instead of putting on a facade like most other people and he had a genuine heart. It really shouldn't matter if someone dresses up or dresses casually considering clothes don't make the person. You look like a slob in your profile pic.

[@kairu5607]

Liked him a lot too ❤

[@hoopblaze]

​@MissX33 That guy was dressed normal. It shouldn't matter if you dress up or dress casually because they're just clothes. Clothes get changed every day. Practice what you preach, though. Your videos show you have no right to say anybody dresses like a slob.

[@BabyBabyBaaaby]

The last man got me weak, the way he kept turning around everytime somebody popped a balloon 😂😂

[@CB12345]

He was ready for the action. Honestly, we need more guys like him who are confident and stand on what they say, instead of these weak soft guys scared of women or always lying to them to impress them.

[@MisanthropikOne]

​@@CB12345facts

[@MisanthropikOne]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@robothusband]

@@CB12345he’s not strong his ex exposed him for being emotional and physically abusive

[@silentyouber2816]

He was making sure the 2 ladies up there weren't the ones that popped their balloons 😂😂😂

[@kuromil5127]

I love that Chandler, the Fraud analyst found his anime queen!!! He’s also so handsome and he got moneyyyyyy lol good for him ❤

[@estherduah1983]

He was the best of all the men. Was hoping the Esther girl wld go for him for peace...🫶... she missed it...

[@kuromil5127]

@@estherduah1983 her loss lol. He’s a good catch. The right woman scooped him up in the end and hope they live happily ever after 💕

[@LordZevv]

​@@estherduah1983 She was cappin

[@shawncorrea2770]

It’s shandler listen to it 😂 but he is a white man trapped in that body lol

[@Brattgirl]

Whats capping meaning? ​@@LordZevv

[@Red-lu3ku]

I’m so proud of these well spoken young ladies and well dressed. Most of the older women I’ve seen can learn from this younger generation.

[@electricgodchild5505]

The anime couple made me smile so much! ❤ They really seemed like they were into each other!

[@joysmith8687]

I’m happy for both of them you don’t find men like him easily ❤

[@Jazminnextdoor]

Frrr I'm so happy for them!!❤

[@mysticaltj2440]

Yes they were my favorite match!

[@antonychinyadza4621]

The lady in red she said she wanted to see the other option, she had no idea the Ninja Turtle was coming😂😂

[@casiewiltshire4033]

😂😂😂

[@Babushka_82]

she came for fun for sure. i wouldn't entertain kinda girls.. also hairy arms 🤢

[@TruFieldBabyLilWill]

🤣🤣🤣I’m cryin tears

[@barrowbarre6411]

😅😅😅😅 these ladies are naive. They don't know what to look for in a man

[@rutendoedinahchirukamare4154]

😂😂😂😂

[@shalomokeke3509]

The anime guy is soooo coool. I wouldn't conventionally go for him, but i think I'd like him. His personality is fire. He was so genuine and honest, he didn't change his mind about a woman just because they didn't like him. Literally zero clap back, just good vibes, he was sure of himself and accepted criticism even if it wasn't the easiest thing to hear

[@michaelconner1771]

Dude is over the top. Good match-up.

[@ImInLoveWithAllocos]

And he really looked like the kind of guy who would fall over personality rather than great looks, everyday of the year

[@TheMindfulOpinion]

@@michaelconner1771 how was he over the top..? how..? what should he have done instead, when answering a direct question..? this is a genuine question i would love to know why you feel like he is over the top, when he seemed to be very genuine..

[@michaelconner1771]

@@TheMindfulOpinion In the same way the original poster states his personality is fire. In this instance, fire is not a bad thing.

[@TheMindfulOpinion]

@@michaelconner1771 oh, I definitely wasn't questioning the fire comment.. I'm well aware of what the meaning of something being fire is, but when you said "over the top" that usually means excessive so that's why I was just asking for clarification and understanding.. I do appreciate it very much..!

[@bkbanks6258]

“He looks like he’s got his stuff together, and he’s light skin”. No wonder she still single

[@janahudson1165]

I'm a little confused by Esther.. she popped for the guy because he called the lady motherly, but didn't pop for the man that proudly insulted all the other women.

[@jairae8306]

She probably regretted not going with the first guy. She knew ninja turtle dude was her only shot at returning so she had to take it. Ohh and apparently once cameras weren’t rolling she gave her contact to some other dude

[@ShineChicBoutique]

TBH her statement about the God saving souls directive says that she wants to change him - sounds like she was looking for a project. The worse, the better. And he was definitely the former😅

[@MJWife07]

@@ShineChicBoutique😂😂😂

[@robertstanley9633]

its pick-me energy for sure

[@Dotheerighting]

Sis in the white dress seems like she would be the only person to match with Dr.Elom 😂😂😂😂

[@lj1906]

Omg yessss

[@Dotheerighting]

It feels like she was trying to be more intelligent than everyone. Being smart is amazing but to be condescending with it. No ma’am. I would love to see her and Dr. Elom go at it 👀👀

[@babyt556]

@@DotheerightingI kind of get where she was coming from but she didn’t give guy #2 a chance. He actually wanted to get to know her on a real date away from the show she felt like he should’ve asked her more questions right then and there. She’s a high expectation type

[@Dotheerighting]

@@babyt556 like she said the guy who was wearing sunglasses and chewing gum was bad etiquette. Like girl bye. Her fake giggle drives me up the wall.

[@riosworld700]

lol perfect match 😂😂

[@merixcyy4269]

I have so much respect for Chandler! He's so down to earth and kind hearted. He knew what he wanted he didn't let any of those girls their try to change who he is as a person!

[@indianrider956]

Yes hes cool, however, letting people talk about you in a public setting does not work for me. Where I'm from, you talk about my clothes, I gotta find something to bag on you about..just way I grew up...

[@crystalbutler659]

I loved Chandler. He was my type. Love the geeky ones! And he was good looking.

[@sjesse18]

It was insane to me because he was smart in not reading any of the women the way that the last guy did. I mean a lot of these women come on this show and claim to be dressed for a first date and understand that clothes can change but a person can't and yet they choose not to give the men a fair chance. Then a lot of these women come on the show dressed like they're going to a night club, or a lounge, or like they're about to walk some type of D-list red carpet. It's just ridiculous. These women don't understand how to dress up without looking like bottle service girls 80% of the time. LIke fishnets with holes in it says 'first date' to you?? A dress that looks like it's made out of fluorescent duct tape or pleather looks like first date material? I Need some more sensible women on this show like YESTERDAYYYYY. It almost feels like Arlette needs to specify the date, like: Come on the show dressed like you're going on a [insert specific type of date] for the guys to even be given a fair chance.

[@olivia-z9n]

@@crystalbutler659sameeeee and i liked his fit i woulda wore something cozy too 😂

[@DLCOrganization]

Confidence is always key!

[@chicos_7]

the girl in the black dress was best in my eyes. the way she was out together, her personality, what she wants in a man. her job too. everything about her is terrific. that’s a girl i would go for.

[@marciavoe6284]

The men she went for didn't make no sense. Makes me question her aswel.

[@Elena-no7ti]

lady in the white dress is phenomenal, those are the questions you want to ask! and she looks and carries herself sooooo well. love it

[@yandhi4202]

Facts

[@Ash-fd5yi]

shes my new role model and im def older than her 😂😂

[@nomadcarpenter8549]

White dress is a little anxious, but self aware. Self awareness goes a long way for me as a guy

[@danieltaylor211]

Yes she was beautiful and carried herself pretty well.

[@molynemukomawasha7437]

Noticed that too ,,she also exhibited maturity

[@mommabear6991]

Chandler is a kind soul, I like his personality ❤

[@blueprincearts5865]

girls wasted that great guy, just being honest of who he is.

[@de.shade101]

​@@blueprincearts5865Black American culture is honestly just too into clothes. How does one remain so polite and respectful in the face of constant baseless rejection while another argumentative but moderately well-dressed guy gets to leave with one of the more attractive ladies there? She didn't see red flags in this behaviour but in an anime shirt of a more casually dressed guy? Priorities, huh.

[@A.Light33]

He's my type ( in terms of hair and personality) and I'm a Black woman, but in my experience guys like him are usually into non Black women so, what can I do....

[@A.Light33]

@@de.shade101 all these women are very young also.

[@de.shade101]

@@A.Light33 I get being young... but being young does not also automatically equate to being shallow necessarily. How do girls, who come unto a dating show, not take the opportunity to really step out of their comfort zone and let go of their biases, as these have clearly not worked in their favour till now, hence a dating show in the first place...? By the way, he did clearly state he was into black women, in fact he specifically insisted those to be his type. Borderline had a touch of rac.ism there with how he went on about keeping the bloodline pure or something of the sort. However, I could see a nuance there, and may come to appreciate it. I just couldn't imagine anybody else from another race in his place saying the exact same things to girls of their race and it not being taken some type of way a little bit by the Black-American community, lol.

[@donicab.5129]

I came here specifically for Ninja Turtle 😂

[@anthonyt425]

Yooo I can’t unsee this 😂😂

[@TjDaProducer01]

Same

[@vegas251]

me too

[@EdwinRecon]

Me too hahaha

[@kelebemangdisho4794]

same here

[@pauletteisaacs9187]

This is my fab episode. I don't understand how that plummer left with that beautiful woman but to each their own. I love this show. it's hilarious and sweet to Black men and women looking for love.❤😂🎉

[@london4447]

The guy with the locs, anime shirt and his match were SO cute!! I hope they go far! ❤️❤️❤️ love that he presented exactly as who he was.

[@LouisX..]

Yh

[@kebonwemokautu1116]

Same ❤️❤️

[@vincentnwajei6597]

“The feeling is definitely mutual, You did me a favor” I’m wheezing 😂

[@navimarlow]

On the floor!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@argent5196]

He weird for that

[@ambroseouma5899]

😂

[@isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva]

I'm gonna start saying this lol 😂

[@YBA-jl4ce]

On god I started wheezing again after readin yo comment

[@HlengiweChihute]

Everyone looking surprised after Esther chose that dude😂it was unexpected even Arlette laughed in disbelief 😂

[@MoMo-kd4mg]

Esther is a Nursing student. Typical nurses try to save damaged people!

[@lozieisichei-osiegbu2686]

😂

[@farrah.h]

By FAR my fave episode! 😂 the last guy just casually made everything better 😂

[@RebeccaL4]

Flannel was so kind. People may think he's passive, but I found him to be confident and assertive. I love that he found beauty in all of the women. ❤ Glasses guy is soooo handsome. Glad he took them off!

[@DaygoKid94]

Honestly they all just to young minded for him. The only reason they passed was his outfit which is wild.

[@RebeccaL4]

@@DaygoKid94 Agreed!

[@BintonB]

who is glasses guy

[@RebeccaL4]

​@@BintonBthe one before Ninja Turtle who had the sunglasses on.

[@iKJCandiTV]

@@RebeccaL4I’m sorry 😂😆 “the one before the ninja turtle” you funny asl

[@benola5977]

The lightskin guy with the dreads that liked anime and that girl felt like the perfect match… he’s easy and carefree and she’s into what he is into.. it was perfect… she constantly looked so out of place dressed so casually and to see her match seem to be the most perfect match out of them all was beautiful! There’s definitely a lesson in there somewhere

[@joshuabaker742]

I agree! Lesson: Just be yourself, like he said...

[@kamilahreedconner467]

I agree!

[@nekitah.7602]

I KNEW AS SOON AS HE WALKED OUT THEY WERE A MATCH🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@lookaway375]

I think he was the best male by far! You may disagree because he doesn’t sound, dress or act like the typical black dude but he came across the most confident & laid back. Even stuck to his principles (dress style) which I respect. Also didn’t get offended by the criticism he received which should be a norm but you know how sassy men are these days😂

[@nekitah.7602]

@@lookaway375 Facts he came as himself!

[@mashaboggs5371]

Chandler is such a sweetie pie holy shit 😭 I’d love to be friends w someone like him. he knows who he is, what he likes and wants, he seems honest and open & he seems super deep. Love that for them

[@MBord-zq8ud]

I looove how HAPPY Arlette gets when a couple matches!!

[@CassandraJohn-pj5ep]

I really hate that they all hated on flannel guy for his outfit. Like seriously??? He was def the nicest guy on here.

[@Splexsychiick]

Did you miss the whole "this is who I am" I don't like the underlying anger of what he said. Clothes aren't who you are. It's giving persona.

[@sabrinastarks7868]

@@Splexsychiick He clearly stated ALSO it was how he was comfortable with NO anger just clarity. People hear what they want to hear, I suppose.

[@Splexsychiick]

@@sabrinastarks7868 I heard that part but that part doesn't really negate what I pointed out. What's your point in bringing up something he said without anger? That's not relevant sabrina.....hmmm reflect on it a bit. Do you always deflect and detract during conversations?

[@esalinasml]

@@Splexsychiickanger??? Yeah people hear what they want for sure. Women say they want a good guy but only if they have the right clothes on it seems

[@godot2993]

And he went with the sweetest girl, while being respectful to everyone and not getting salty over their dumb shit. W guy!

[@bingding666]

he’s saying “queen” like it’s a slur 😭

[@albertmartey8515]

[@touchedbyyou4698]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@charliearriaza8235]

Lmao came back just to see his part again 😂😂

[@malayjia1023]

😂😂

[@malayjia1023]

56:55 Black is black 😭😂😂😂💀

[@megatroll7235]

Somebody said the girl in white is asking questions like it’s an interview and that it’s given HR 🤣🤣🤣💀

[@kaylajackson1073]

She was annoying me 😂😂😂😂

[@talkingsportswithmanny3670]

@@kaylajackson1073 I couldn't stand her lol. Good luck to her though YIKES!!!

[@hiphopisnotevil]

She was just really young and felt she was a little more mature than she realistically was. She will grow

[@CabECalloway]

Nah she the one, imo.

[@Vampirita447]

I adore her. Very classy. Very elegant.

[@JerryHensureLewouoNizegha-k2g]

No f*cking way. Not that brutal and reckless guy, who doesn't even have respect for women, taking the most beautiful girl on the show. That's insane. I'm heartbroken bruh

[@ninthcloudpodcast]

Brother in the flannel and sis in the blue tee is literally a fairytale match they match perfect you can just tell by their vibes. I love that for them, genuinely 🌥️💫

[@amna6024]

both seem like really kind and genuine spirits

[@crazyloner407]

I was expecting them to match the minute he walked out.

[@coriilove8036]

Yesss i wanna see their follow up interviews

[@daishajones8903]

best pair on the ep

[@growwithwill5070]

Until the update when we find out they didn't work cause he brought stale bread to the picnic lmaoo jk

[@ifunanyaanikamadu4720]

Scrolling through the comments and no one is going to acknowledge how GOOD Arlette looks? She’s always been gorgeous but I see she’s been putting in some work and she looks amazing ❤

[@thehardtruth3027]

Wouldn't this mean more coming from a man?

[@jaygiant10]

She’s been putting on along with her growth. Love to see it.

[@ifunanyaanikamadu4720]

@@thehardtruth3027 no. And since she’s already married, comments from other men mean even less to her.

[@baldcheddar]

Omg where have you been? Go back to any of her videos and you'll see someone litterally complementing her looks. We get it we know she looks good , move on !

[@ifunanyaanikamadu4720]

@@baldcheddar did I mention those videos or THIS one? Your comment was unnecessary.

[@idntlose]

Y’all talking about the last dude but the anime dude the real winner. He found somebody that’s genuine and mess with him for him. The guy before him got the most beautiful one

[@deannathomas4149]

I love the anime couple

[@persistentconsistency]

Agreed on all accounts!

[@waqstar7067]

What the big girl

[@louisnorcia6846]

It’s amazing how I can watch this show hour after hour!!! Luv me some Arlette!!