Coming Out As Trans - A Little Public Statement

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[@ann18o96]

And I always assumed she made those little hints and jokes for trans people because of Natalie and was just very educated about it...

[@EmeraldSky33]

I took all those hints like "👀❤️" and assumed she was trans, but I'm so glad she came out in her own time and in her own way!

[@mrbookish6701]

We do need cigender heterosexuals to support trans women.

[@mrbookish6701]

​@@EmeraldSky33 Kind of sad to hear that you assumed she was trans , just because she was comfortable in expressing herself

[@charlieevans295]

@@mrbookish6701 you mean cis people?

[@AnimusBehemoth]

Same! I'm happy to have assumed wrong tho 🤣

[@ingratitude]

Abigail: refers to the Identity video as if it were already out yet Me: *still 100 minutes before the Identity video is premiered Me: Oh, did I get stuck in the wrong timeline again...

[@mimicgaming246]

Maybe she put the wrong time for each video? Like this one was supposed to premiere a couple hours after the Identity video?

[@Syurtpiutha]

Same, I figured I'd missed something.

[@PhilfreezeCH]

I was so fucking confused for a moment...

[@lordyeetus6317]

@ thats what I assumed too, I wonder if it was on Patreon first.

[@ArielVHarloff]

same XD

[@MiaMulder]

Extremely proud of you, SISTER

[@slimegod9693]

I didn't expect this. So that happened

[@harker-san6903]

I can’t wait for the video she did on Transphobia to shoot up in views tenfold!

[@SpaztasticSheep]

As a cis woman, you two are the best role models I have. I fucking love you both

[@thisguy4603]

Bruh

[@annguerrero9988]

@OgMasterCuz *sister. Abigail clearly stated she's a woman

[@roryos]

"Treat everyone with kindness and patience, even those who don't treat me kindly." That's such a good attitude ngl.

[@timfirst3536]

The look Abby gave as she spoke that drove that sentiment home.

[@tonycampbell1424]

God that's not easy. Here there be trolls, and the impulse to burn down their houses after wedging the doors shut is real.

[@blasianking4827]

@@56hendo57 That's fair. Although that doesn't mean we don't have to challenge their viewpoints, but we can do so without being aggressive. Although it is perfectly understandable why someone may take offense as such. Also, I think it is important to consider that it is Abigail herself that has stated this, so it is okay to do it in the context of attacks on her.

[@Vanastar]

I thought it was gonna end 'even those who don't deserve it' but what she said is basically the same thing.

[@Vanastar]

@@Lopfff When the opinion is concerning 'should trans people be allowed to exist' then the ones who fall on the side of 'no' can just get into the sea.

[@martaszabo465]

Everybody gangsta until Abigail says "To thine own self be true" Seriously, I'm crying- congrats on coming out!!! Trans liberation now!

[@Queen-ty1xz]

I dont know enough English to understand what this means so I'm still gangsta 🤣🤣🤣

[@jakjam300]

@@Queen-ty1xz "To thine own self be true" is a quote from an old play, Hamlet. It means to always be yourself. Be who you are.

[@groofay]

That line, with her delivery, fucking _broke_ me.

[@Queen-ty1xz]

@@jakjam300 thank you!

[@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice]

💙🌸🦄🌸💙 Trans Flag of Solidarity 💙🌸🦄🌸💙

[@digitaldeathsquid3448]

Everybody sit and listen to The Queen's Speech

[@itsmikemccall]

Literally mirrors the Queen's first public speech at 7:21.

[@feruspriest]

Wouldn't Abigail want to abolish the monarchy, still?

[@cosmicjenny4508]

@@feruspriest Alternate ending: Abigail stands up, and a “Philosophy Tube” banner unfurls in the background. Bag-pipes blare (for whatever reason) and she pulls out a broad-sword yelling “HANG THE PARASITES, ALL POWER TO THE WORKERS”.

[@lousutcliffe6713]

Petition to replace Queen's Speech with far superior speech by Abi.

[@guy31978]

Everyone go home, this comment wins.

[@SaraH-jn5db]

"Thats not equality, its just more efficient discrimination" lost my mind over how well put that was

[@니-q5r]

@OgMasterCuz trans wom-an noun a transgender *woman* ; a *woman* who was identified as male at birth .... well this is embarrassing for you

[@sashaboydcom]

@OgMasterCuz OMG, you did it! You beat them with lexicography! People will be singing your praises for millennia to come!

[@emmad4308]

@OgMasterCuz so by your own definition, infertile women aren't women. Also, intersex people exist as well. Not sure where they would fit into it, because there's a multitude of different ways someone can be intersex but seriously mate, come on. It costs you $0 to not be transphobic or a bellend, yet here we are.

[@SaraH-jn5db]

@OgMasterCuz gender and sex are classified as two different things and im giving you the benefit of the doubt in that you arent a bigot, you're just unaware

[@emmad4308]

@OG Master Cuz 2 I can assure you, trans people are painfully aware of the difference between sex and gender, it's in the name. Hence as you said, definition of gender has changed, as words do. Not going to lie, I am having trouble putting into words to explain to you that what you are doing isn't helpful, but I'm gonna try my best. If someone wants to identify as a woman, just respect that, because that's the gender identity that makes them feel more like the best version of themselves. You going BUT WOMAN IS LINKED WITH BIOLOGICAL SEX YADA is not being helpful. Again, trans people are painfully aware of sex and gender, and what they feel they are doesn't line up with the body that they have. From my understanding, gender is more to do with social norms and whatnot; not personality. I understand wanting things to be clearly defined (I'm autistic) but not at the expense of someone's mental wellbeing. Being overly pedantic about the meaning of words ultimately doesn't help anyone, and makes you look like a bit of a bellend.

[@nottodaysatannottoday2177]

Wow this is the first time that I’ve heard someone actually arguing for full uk medical and legal equality like this, I’m a trans man and I’d gotten so used to compromising in conversations about my own rights that this was very refreshing and inspiring. Thank you Abigail and keep up the good work, your content is incredible

[@jazwaddington7312]

@OgMasterCuz no❤️

[@helloitsme8575]

hi hello hi

[@anonomous8719]

Get well soon

[@annemarietobias]

@@lawrenceacosta8644 Yes, Larry, transmen are biological woman... Here are several pictures of amazing transmen; www.oxygen.com/sites/oxygen/files/styles/blog-post-embedded--computer/public/field_blog_image/2016/09/alionsfear-2.jpg?itok=4mqp_E85 i.pinimg.com/originals/a8/62/32/a86232ee9d3a9304dde421bbfa945fcc.jpg isteam.wsimg.com/neb/obj/QTM4M0JGNzY5NzYwOThGNjU1MTA6NjU5Y2I0YzkwM2UyMzVjZjg3MTE5OTU2MTE0ZWQ3NTI6Ojo6OjA=/:/rs=w:800,h:800 i.redd.it/iwvczzhypuj21.jpg The point here, is that describing these men, in any terms other than their manhood, is patently ridiculous. They're men, athletes, models, brilliant in every conceivable way, as men. Is there a single man there, whose manhood you question? The folks arguing that tranwomen must be kept out of women's restrooms, forget this coin has two sides? Would you force the the black gentleman in the Jockeys to use a women's restroom because of his birth? Would you have any of these men in a women's restroom? See, this is the insanity of not simply taking each case on its own merits. Making knee jerk blanket laws has shocking repercussions if you're not paying attention to all the angles.

[@annemarietobias]

@@lawrenceacosta8644 You were asking about transmen... Abigail is a transwoman. Two different things. No Abby's not a dude. Let me help you out here; Everyone begins life female. At about week 7, if you have a Y chromosome, the single gene that makes a male, male gets activated and among other things starts a flood of testosterone. It is the presence of that male hormone that makes the embryo then fetus develop as male. In the first trimester, the embryo develops male reproductive organs. In the third trimester the brain become hardwired as male. If for any reason the testosterone should fail, in the first trimester, the sex organs remain partly or completely female. We call that condition intersexed. If the hormone fails in the third trimester the brain remains partly or completely female and we call that a transsexual. So a male to female transsexual who has gone through hormone replacement, and reconstructive surgery, is not a dude. Not metabolically, not physically, not socially, and not behaviorally.

[@rocketfallen]

i hope this isn't weird to say, but i used to have that name (am trans myself) and... this is kind of lovely. i'm not one of those people who has an incredibly negative relationship with their old name, but it's still always felt a little weird to think of it still. but there's something about another trans person, and one whose work i greatly admire, using the name that gives me a great sense of joy: it is good to see someone else use it to embrace themselves, and love themselves. and i hope to be able to hear that name and think of your joy more than anything else. proud of you, happy for you, and as always looking forward to your future work.

[@taytsay1]

This is a really lovely story :-)

[@verticagg2840]

NB girl here and this is so relatable. It's been a years-long journey for me concluded just two weeks ago having truly accepted it and decided next steps. This really is lovely, it's empowering! I think all audiences have something to gain from truly listening to what Abigail's said in 8 short minutes. ♥

[@anfisachern8570]

it is such a beautiful story ;_; it's like you passed this name down to someone who needed it more

[@PGT860]

I love finding nameshares! Finding trans women with my old name feels like... We traded places, in a way?

[@RadioGlitches]

Same here its reassuring in a strange way. Where its almost as if we traded places.

[@queenelizabethii1803]

I hereby relinquish my throne, long live the new Queen of the UK

[@stoodmuffinpersonal3144]

Thanks, Queen mom!

[@Snuggles0325]

The queen has spoken

[@fullmetaltheorist]

Are you immortal? Just asking cause the memes say you are.

[@sophieplumbob2900]

Her Majesty, Queen Abigail of The United Kingdom.

[@Caelia7]

Yeah it was a bit over dramatic.

[@TheShadowOfMars]

I was cynical when you promised that the channel's next "season" would be something radically new - everyone says next month's output will be totally fresh and original and worth subscribing for, blah blah blah. Ignore me, I'll be off making a big omelette out of all this egg on my face.

[@fruitygarlic3601]

Don't forget the hot sauce. The hot sauce is communism! (also egg lol)

[@Niarbeht]

Jesus Christ that's a lot of egg isn't it.

[@TheAruelle]

We should have known better, Abigail's stuff is always so good, but she really did kick things up a notch or ten 😅

[@justintime6998]

@@fruitygarlic3601 Communism??

[@tangent94]

@@TheAruelle y'all really didn't know that's what she meant?

[@coisnotpog]

"especially those who can't come out....yet" The yet, with that little smile just made me cry girl! My time is coming soon. It is unbearable, but I have finally started to accept myself.

[@np9145]

you do you, person who i don't know. the ones who deserve you will accept you.

[@Stijn-x8p]

The hardest thing you can do is accept yourself, because you don't only need to fight to know your own feelings, but also because you need to fight for your right to do as you please, which is made nearly impossible by standards set by society, in which we've not ever had a voice or choice.

[@Arlesmon]

I know it's late, but hopefully you'll have the courage to do it. But if you alerady came out, then congratulations.

[@samanthaquinn3003]

I have just fully come out, at 43. It is never too late, and don't berate yourself because you feel you must come out. Do it in your own time, with your own sense of priorities. Acceptance of self is the first step, once you can do that, well the rest does fall into place. It isn't easy or perfect, and I'm still searching for that elusive happiness most days. Yet I wouldn't change who I am becoming, day by day.

[@joyfulgirl40018]

Sending you so much love and support. You are PERFECT just as you are.

[@EmperorTigerstar]

Just when I think PhilosophyTube couldn’t possibly keep kicking so much ass she finds another way. Congrats Abigail!

[@toatrika2443]

ey, nice to see you here! Love your vids.

[@jaojao1768]

Cool to see you here, Tigerstar!

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Man can't wait to see his old videos edited so the beard and masculine face will change into feminine appearances.

[@lacatolica1080]

We need to talk about the trend of leftist men coming out as transgender

[@toatrika2443]

@@blacktigerpaw1 *her; also why would she do that?

[@h00pla434]

"I might just be an actress" You sell yourself so very short. I'm not even someone who's been helped through a serious difficulty with the help of your videos, like I know others are, but you've been a fantastic educator who's opened up new perspectives to enrich my life. And I'm sure you're even more to even more people. Thanks for everything you've done, and I'm so happy you've found more happiness!

[@astaiannymph]

I believe that's a rhetorical statement more like "if a simple actress can do this, so can most of the people who are being quiet about the issue".

[@augustkuuskvere79]

You mean my big gay crush is now a big straight crush?! That will effect me almost not at all. All the love, Abigail.

[@katjarozantseva8069]

Ta on nii ilus, eks ole? Mu straight crush nüüd sai gay crushiks

[@Casinooos]

Lahe!

[@cameliarhododendron5928]

As a French, I must admit this is EXACTLY how I picture British official broadcasts. I was waiting for "God save the Queen" in the end of the video, or someone saying "This was Abigail Thorn, exlusively for the BBC." This is now my standard of "public statement". Congratulations on beeing so proud, classy and progressist :)

[@maxermarcos]

I'm still processing the shock because, holy shit, I did not see that coming after years of following the channel. I'm happy for you, impressed at your ability to perform twice over in every video, and happy that you had the guts to come out when it's just as dangerous as it's always been. If it weren't for your video on transphobia, I probably wouldn't have reacted well to this at all. I think you have worked hard to educate people, train them out of their hostility to the unknown. You deserve all the love you are getting

[@VaughnesN]

Same

[@k80_]

Well said.

[@moonlight2870]

...really? I don't know if myself being trans helped, but this came as no surprise

[@tgreaux5027]

I started to get the feeling that this was going to happen but only during the last 3 or 4 previous videos. I knew something was going on I just didn't know what exactly. If you go back and rewatch the episodes from this past year you'll def see it. The human brain is incredibly good and making it see what we want.

[@tgreaux5027]

@@blacktigerpaw1 cool story.........blacktigerpaw.......lol I'm sorry I can't imagine being a fully grown adult with that username. You're such an edgelord. Why am I getting SERIOUS incel vibes from you? Now if you came out as an incel........THAT wouldn't shock anyone!

[@BraldtSenior]

I understand what you mean when you say "Recognizable trans people". Three years ago I was elected as one of the first trans women to be a municipal councillor in the Netherlands. I received a lot of press attention and due to that also a lot of negative comments. That is why I think it is so good that you say: "Be kind to people even if they are not kind to me". As a politician, I always say: “I fight for your freedom of speech so that you have the possibility to say you hate me.” Take care!

[@_blank-_]

Yaaaas kween more male representation in politics 💅✨❤️👏😍

[@user-ub9mm4vr5k]

@@_blank-_ but yeaeasesyayw kween 😍😍😍 let’s throw a tantrum because a trans person worked hard to get where they are now through all the prejudice and struggles that specifically transsexuals face. The specific struggles that get dismissed and erased, because you think everyone who’s male is privileged and gets everything handed to them without having to lift a finger.

[@cacamilis8477]

Ik zou op u stemmen als u in mijn gemeente zou staan!

[@user-ub9mm4vr5k]

@@kimnath yes, a man who is a transsexual woman. 90% of trans women are unemployed because they don’t get hired because in the eyes of the employers it will make the company look bad. So they turn to sex work to get by in this world and many get killed in the process. A few decades ago if a trans woman wanted to be a politician everyone would be laughing. Now it’s time to integrate trans people into the general society and show everyone that they can be productive members of society if the general public allows it. It’s time to end the misconceptions and show that trans people are more than just the TRANS label and can become politicians, doctors, lawyers, and so much more.

[@TheNocturnalpheonix]

👏🏼💐👏🏼💐👏🏼

[@lobstertown1826]

Whose Abby Shapiro? We only talk about Abby Thorn in this house.

[@domesticcat1725]

Aka Philosophically Abby

[@kontsakeisari]

@@domesticcat1725 bruh

[@MC-tl5bf]

they look a teeny bit alike thats the first thing i noticed

[@theforcefor]

Abby Thorn OUR QUEEN

[@qweensara7072]

@@domesticcat1725 Let's make a Petition for her to change this 2nd channel to this

[@toddsutherland]

“Rich white women tweeting about bathrooms” *Jowling Kowling Rowling has left the chat*

[@Sarah-ie9xb]

Funny coz JK started her writing career as a single mother DV survivor who was working class. But don't let the facts get in the way of your cult.

[@modernprometheus99]

@@Sarah-ie9xb It doesn't really matter what she was before, just what she is now.

[@ohwellwhateverr]

@@modernprometheus99 She’s still an intelligent woman and an inspiration to people around the world, especially young girls. The treatment of her by the online mob is disgraceful.

[@Sarah-ie9xb]

@@modernprometheus99Considering the wealth inequality in the UK right now and how hard it is to be a single parent who left an abusive relation and still managed to break into one of the hardest genre's of book writing - I think it does matter. You cant just erase her success and journey because she has opinions you dont agree with. Dont be childish.

[@modernprometheus99]

@@jamesrobertson1538 It wasn't over a decade ago. I'm not saying she's a horrible person, but her opinions on trans people are.

[@TomKlad77]

After Sophie's death this morning, I felt so alone with the tragedy that had befallen our community, that it made me wonder if I had the strenght to continue pursuing the path that fitted me the most... But with you're coming out tonight, I feel as if there is no better place, nor time to be me, and to be me openly and uncomprisingly. The moon may have fallen to drench us in a deep darkness, but we'll keep standing, no matter what, to bask in the rising sun. Thank you, Abigail Thorn

[@theravens_keeper9146]

My thoughts exactly. I'm so heart broken with the death of sophie, but this make my heart feel a little more whole again.

[@akisok0311]

same thoughts here.. i was so sad and shocked about sophie but i feel better now seeing abigail come out!

[@theravens_keeper9146]

@@akisok0311 exactly. It's a feeling of "maybe we'll be ok?". I'm so proud of Abigail, this is such a happy surprise.

[@RedVelvetUnderground333]

It’s not fair

[@liam_hurlburt]

sooo excited!!

[@ScubaSctimpy]

Do not feel pressured into being the spokeswoman for transrights Abigail, no one can pressure you into doing that. Just do what makes you happy, you certainly deserve a break after seven years of providing free education to us plebs.

[@mikehawk9531]

It's self preservation if anything, as a UK trans woman it is rough here

[@ScubaSctimpy]

@@mikehawk9531 certainly. I'm just saying I hope she doesn't feel pressured into doing it just because she is relatively famous and trans

[@BeKazzled77]

I'm new but this strikes me as missing her message. She seems proud to speak up about trans rights, and she should be. She doesn't come across as forced to me at all. I know you're saying "but I'm saying she shouldn't be forced to do it because she's trans and famous", but what this indicates is that you think she might feel like someone forced her to do this. This means you think part of this message is not genuine, as she speaks as an enthusiastic supporter of trans rights. I think her point was she wants to do it to help liberate herself and reverse the recent worrying trend of right-wingers suppressing trans rights in the UK. I've heard how apalling it is there for trans rights and she's reaching out to help others. @Mike Hawk is right, and it surprises me how many people here upvoted your comment and ignored Mike's after seeing this video. I feel like 384 people just admitted to missing the point (and counting).

[@ScubaSctimpy]

@@BeKazzled77 she literally stated in the video that she feels pressure to be a good spokeswoman for transgendered women in the UK.

[@loki6626]

I get what the OP says. Abigail gives so much, willingly and enthusiastically. I think she should put herself first in everything and continue doing what she clearly loves. That said.. Yes, activistm is important and Abigail has the power to help change things for all those people who don't really have a voice.

[@Tera_B_Twilight]

The love of my life, who I married 5 years ago, just came out as trans-F last week. I can't wait to show her this video. I'm so proud of her for doing the big scary thing and be her authentic self. I'm proud of you too!

[@groofay]

This is beautiful to read. Proud of her for coming out, moved by your support of her.

[@jmz1736]

But my big question is... why do you sound like 4 times more British now?

[@PowerofRock24]

It's an act

[@ummche14]

@@PowerofRock24 don’t be quick to chalk it up to fakery, she’s using a political tone of voice, the “queen’s speak”, to assert moral high-ground. Still trans.

[@Joey-vm2jk]

she’s not deepening her voice anymore

[@ooccttoo]

Probably because this register is what's most appropriate for this video since it makes her sound authoritative without being overbearing. Trustworthy, basically. She speaks with her usual accent in livestreams a such.

[@TesserId]

There may be some nervousness there, but I'm definitely hearing some elation about finally getting to do this. It's celebratory. Makes me smile.

[@annabelletolley8916]

"Philosophy Tube will be back with a new look" ok we love a mysterious queen!! Congratulations Abigail!

[@DSMWannabeLinguist]

“That’s not equality, it’s just more efficient discrimination.” I’ve never heard it worded more perfectly. Thank you. We love you, Abigail.

[@SoundSmithTF2]

Queen shit let's gooooooo

[@griffinh.966]

Soundsmith based????

[@retri113]

Soundsmith tf2 is gamer epic!?

[@victoriazilverentant5593]

Lovely to see your support here!

[@nathanielhanlon6444]

QUEEN SHIT WOOOOOOOO

[@Mftrout101]

BASED SOUNDSMITH

[@christina8433]

When she said "my love goes out to all those within the sound of my voice, especially to those who cannot come out", it's like she hit me right in the feels tears came rolling down my face like they burst through a dam. You are a role model to all. I love you Abigail

[@NotBamOrBing]

Me too, it was my first time rewatching this since I realised I'm non-binary and it just had me in tears immediately

[@maxwellsdemon6599]

I must admit, that this is very surprising for me. I ironically thought of her as a good rolemodel for healthy masculinity. Well, it's probably not surprising that healthy masculinity means beeing comfortable not portraying a stereotypical male character and well as a trans woman, she obviously is.

[@Guanglai_Kangyiii]

She definitely inspired a lot of us in our reconciliation with masculinity, and imagine how amazing it is that many men who watched her videos on such topics when she still wasn't out and took her as a role model are now being proven that said role model (specifically, one that inspires you to be as healthy as possible as a man) can be anyone, not only another man. I'd say it makes the whole thing even better: men and masculine people being invited to think and reconsider their perception of masculinity by a trans woman, who would end up making them feel more comfortable in their skin. To anyone who considered Abi an example of healthy masculinity... That doesn't have to change at all. She still was there for us, talked to us about her experience and masculinity and femininity are constructs anyway. It's not like we suddenly can't take a woman as an example of healthy masculinity, because masculinity and femininity are relative anyway. If we're talking about a trans woman, too, we need to keep in mind that they especially find themselves in a situation in which they _need_ to deal with masculinity, with expectations, with "acting it out", so Abigail's message still persists and her experiences and struggles as an AMAB person are still something we can all take from to make ourselves stronger - she shared it with us, it's the least we can do.

[@NM-jt5lr]

Have you watched Identity? She addresses this exact sentiment

[@stoodmuffinpersonal3144]

I am honeslty jealous of her. There are some "Male" esk things I feel vaguely nostalgic about, I struggle to give up. Certain behaviours, I have kept, in part because I hope to do what she did. Lessons I would have given my younger self, when I was in the closet. I wanted to bridge those gaps, tell guys there are other ways. Yet, you guys have already nailed it on the head. She did give you as much of that as she could, for as long as she could play that masculine role. And I am sure, the best way to pay her back? TEACH YOUR FELLOW LADS WHAT SHE TAUGHT YOU ♡ Spread it around. Instead of being jealous, I hope to do my best to do the same. Show them there are alternatives. Show them we can create new things, that we can change. Be there for others how she was for you, be there for each other. And that shit can change the world, fellas. I may have changed myself, with my transiton journey. But just by being herself, Abby could change the world. It's the same kind of magic Hbomber guy talked about. It may seem silly, but. We need some of that right now. Go, and support others like she supported you. Support trans folks, and each other, as she looked out for you. Sorry if I am ranting. I am just super happy for her. And proud of you all ♡

[@lalakuma9]

I think healthy masculinity applies to everyone regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. As a mostly cis woman, I think I too have bought into toxic masculinity and internalized misogyny when I was younger.

[@perchy22]

I have to say that the "healthy" part of healthy masculinity doesn't have much to do with masculinity, and more to do with just being a decent and ethical person, who happens to be masculine in this case. We need things like compassion and understanding to be core values for people and society as a whole, and these are not gendered. Also, the portrayal of a role model can be just that, a portrayal. I knew "Oliver" was an act, I didn't realize how far that act went. I don't think, though, that the character that Abigail created is any less worth being a role model for being a fictional character. While we're on the topic of good role models, I feel the need to mention that I think Abigail is a good role model, too.

[@hbihr4330]

You did it Abigail, you made me cry ! As a closeted trans man I am in awe to all those who have managed to come out, especially on a public platform as large as yours. Congratulations and best wishes for your years to come !!

[@brent_lampton3572]

I genuinely hope that at some point you are in a safe/comfortable enough place to publicly be who you are

[@DeluxieArt]

it'll get better, i promise

[@groofay]

Love and support to you, and I hope you can be who you are someday soon.

[@Candy14439]

“Even when other people make it hard, being trans is a gift.” As a trans-masc with the inability to currently transition this made me start crying. You’re such a big inspiration to me, Abigail. Thank you for everything. I wish you and your loved ones the best health and safety

[@jazwhoaskedforthis]

Hang in there!

[@RamtheCowy]

sending lots of love 💕

[@rubyatarah]

All my love to you. ❤️ I’m proud of you

[@Neonb1bLes]

As a sis white male I started crying too you are not alone.

[@Neonb1bLes]

♥️

[@urbestcowboy]

as a closeted nb person, i literally burst into tears at the end. thank you for for kind words abigail and i wish you the best

[@PhavonAshura]

I have been a long time follower of your channels. I am a cis-woman i have been married to a trans-woman for 15yrs. I love that you are choosing this time to come out publicly & use your voice for others. I have no platform but i wish more young trans-people would understand that if there is not a person who understands a field of work for trans-people then be that person. Ie Doctor, Lawyer, Nurse, Politician... the list goes on. My wife & i live in the U.S. & the fight for trans rights is an on going battle. As a teacher, ally, & advocate please know i stand with you. Love & light sweet lady.

[@jazwhoaskedforthis]

May you and your wife have a lovely weekend

[@neepmeep3484]

as a closeted trans guy, ”those who can’t come out, yet” literally brought tears to my eyes. thank you for making this, thank you for being here, im so proud of you. thank you

[@ChronoStrife]

Lol

[@Anvandiel]

💜

[@marinaisnthome]

Same here. I'm a closeted trans woman and oh boy I'm almost crying rn

[@jeannareadsbooks8475]

I hope all of you who are replying me too to this, i hope that soon you'll be in situations where its safe and you have the confidence to come out soon ❤❤❤

[@arabrem488]

Keep it up chief! I could only imagine how hard it is.

[@MasterPotato5587]

Petition to have this broadcast every christmas instead of the queens speech. Big regal energy

[@ambershaw1324]

Agreed. I am all for abby l for queen l

[@yenintendo]

Just get rid of the Queen and have Abi make speeches every christmas

[@i05af]

@@yenintendo Abi is the next heir now 😼

[@Red_bxuaindgs]

Yes please

[@andrewmalinowski6673]

@@i05af She should be, especially when she called herself; "the queen of TERF island," despite her cringe at the end of that statement.

[@Shermos]

Hi Abby. I had to stop supporting you on patreon after a period of years because of my financial situation. There are so many people I want to support on a limited budget. I guess you've had bigots and terfs stop supporting you since you've come out and wanted let you know that I'm not one of them. My respect and best wishes.

[@TaraMooknee]

CONGRATS ABIGAIL!!!!!!!!!

[@TweakinKhole]

Two queens in one screen 😭

[@marad786]

Always finding you in the best comment sections 💜🌷

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Kiwi Farms saw it coming. Only a matter of time before BreadTube troons out. Can't wait to see all the money he'll get for FFS and SRS.

[@TweakinKhole]

@@blacktigerpaw1 she’s a woman, get over it lol

[@SickOfItAll1988]

@@blacktigerpaw1 lol did you paint that horrible profile picture yourself?

[@nottheborg836]

no you don't understand Im fucking crying. I love you. Im so proud of you. wow wow wow. you are so beautiful. well done.

[@emilyherself2730]

As a mostly closetted, almost 30 y-o trans woman who only started with this journey recently and is paralyzed with fear of being accepted, you are such a role model Abigail. Your statement and your public message, in the country you live in, is so strong and moving and brave. My only wish is that I can eventually become half the woman you are, congratulations on your journey.

[@juliadandy6019]

Hi, Emily! I wish you strength and happiness on your journey! 💜

[@Lilopad]

Wishing you all the best, and as a cis woman let me say as long as you are honest with yourself you already are a whole woman, no matter what obstacles are in your way and no matter how other people see you!

[@ZombiiiiiProductions]

Love u

[@MrsPervy]

sis you definetly can!

[@blacktigerpaw1]

So moving and brave that a rich white man, who has enough money to pay for his own surgery in the US, comes out 'as a woman' in the JKR country and you all clap along. You won't become a woman. That's the thing. You're a man on estrogen, hoping long hair and makeup will make you feel pretty.

[@yt_Ajay_]

"Yet" is such a powerful word. Changes absolutely everything about what was just said.

[@ssssafia]

After the horrible news of SOPHIE's death this morning, and the absolutely disgusting transphobic comments in the replies to that, I was feeling really down and hopeless about the future of trans people. Needless to say, this video was *quite* the pick-me-up! Thank you, we love you, let's make the world a better place!

[@akisok0311]

same thoughts here.. i was so sad and shocked about sophie but i feel better now seeing abigail come out!

[@prageruwu69]

wait WHAT??? she died??? holy shit omg-

[@amiiboacid4785]

Who is Sophie?

[@hunter-pq1de]

It’s okay to cry 💔🥲

[@RedVelvetUnderground333]

It fucking sucks why did Sophie have to go

[@celiarose5467]

Me a year ago: I can't be a lesbian, I think Philosophytube is really attractive Me now: oh...... OH!!!!!!!!!!!! Hell yeah congratulations Abigail!!!!!!

[@thatsdisco]

me and another lesbian felt the same way! Chances are our subconscious picked up about her being an egg and now,, well, now I'm just in awe at how gorgeous and elegant she looks gosh ♡

[@ninasummers6012]

Cis/straight lady here. She was gorgeous when she was presenting as male, she's gorgeous now. She's a breathtakingly beautiful human.

[@user-by1df8ok3l]

oof same here

[@MarkWhiley]

Cis/gay male and I found Abigail hot when she was presenting as male and she's still hot now :-)

[@charliehall6610]

This is so relatable to so many people (me included) it's hilarious

[@seantyson6021]

The fact this has queens speech energy is not an accident.

[@groofay]

What do you mean, this _is_ the Queen's speech.

[@joaomarcelo742]

The only possible queen's speech

[@simonbrook3076]

Wow. Thank you. I learned a lot (old boomer trying to keep up! ) . Just like in all your videos. 😘 will try to speak up more for you to have the same rights that I have taken for granted. Look forward to more philosophy too x

[@DJTe3n]

Simon you're a good good person. Refreshing to see

[@NormallyImKim]

Thank you for being righteous and helping others! I admire your desire to keep learning. I think most people just give up the pursuit of knowledge when older.

[@seazenbones6945]

This old boomer feels the same.

[@tabaxi]

That "yet" hit me hard. Thank you, Abi.

[@michan8093]

The mystery of lesbians being attracted to Abigail (pre coming out) was solved.

[@nuklearboysymbiote]

they knew👀

[@izangomso]

lmao same.

[@bigblakdawg]

yep, that was me lol

[@grmpEqweer]

Well, she was always quite pretty. I thought she was looking quite androgynous lately...

[@nanusantos1696]

@@grmpEqweer Yeah, she was really starting to present super androgynous lately and i loved it, nice to know the reason why.

[@Akumu74]

"Even when other people make it hard, being trans is a gift" I'm crying, ma'am.

[@bashkillszombies]

ITS MA'AM!

[@angelTechnician64]

@@bashkillszombies case in point of other people making it hard, thanks broski, very cool

[@kaitlyn__L]

@@bashkillszombies that shit’s fuckin old

[@pahbody5336]

Life gets hard BUT EE GO ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@CondorCalabasas]

This is privilege. In first world countries men experience the most oppression by far. Although the transgender community has far less privilege than women; they have far more privilege than all men. And being a man means experiencing oppression even the trans community can't fathom or relate to.

[@caiogoncalves6103]

You're on my top 10 people to drink a beer with before dying list. Being a fan of yours for around 4 years now, keep it going and stay strong.

[@Atypical-Abbie]

Funny, I recently started watching Contrapoints and was like "she's kind of like a trans version of PhilosophyTube" and well now I got two trans channels talking about similiar topics and presenting in similar styles, not that I'm complaining, just a strange coincidence.

[@belenlg5978]

I think that Contra and Abi are actually friends, they have done a collaboration at least. They are both fantastic. I find it such a coincidence too that both are trans, but I guess the world needed not one but two famous trans philosophers to educate us all

[@squirrelsinmykoolaid]

They tend to work with each other on videos.

[@Atypical-Abbie]

@@belenlg5978 that doesn't surprise me. I have not watched a lot of their videos, but I believe I heard Abigail's voice in a video on Contrapoints I watched.

[@honestiago4738]

Abi and Natalie are friends: when Natalie was being cancelled, Abi mentioned she was being pressured to denounce Natalie and called her an actual, real life friend.

[@Atypical-Abbie]

@@honestiago4738 I am so new that I don't even know what you are talking about, I saw a video in my feed called "cancelled" so I guess it must talk about that; long videos are the curse and blessing both these channels have.

[@zoekoza436]

As an Intersex person who has struggled to find their place in the world for over 32 years I cannot tell you how proud and grateful I am for courageous people like you, Abigail. Thank you

[@jamielee7404]

Heyyyy shout out to you from another intersex person. We're awesome

[@RamtheCowy]

YES YOU ARE!!

[@zoebailey]

shout out from another Zoe! I'm not intersex but you folks are indeed awesome

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Intersex people aren't a third sex, and seeing a white man saying he's just as oppressed as intersex people is pretty rich. He's not going to donate to intersex charities, Zoe. But he loves your womanhood.

[@oleander2658]

@@blacktigerpaw1 Can you stop being gross for five seconds? You have 88 comments in this video, chill man

[@fluorescentalien5204]

as a trans man myself, nothing makes me happier than seeing other trans people thriving. thank you so much for sharing your story and thoughts with us Abigail

[@bryleighraethel7176]

Yessss Trans Fam United!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@synonymous_]

@Cian MacGana Imagine being such a snowflake you look for content that you don't like just to harrass people. What a pathetic life.

[@patrickchoque7720]

@Cian MacGana nah I think u just seem a bit insecure mate

[@jackparsons8612]

@Cian MacGana You know you’re definitely winning when you hit back with that 😂 emoji

[@shoprocksfilms]

I love when transphobes get so twisted up that their sentences no longer make any sense

[@Ashley.D]

From my position of privilege, I had honestly never even considered the fact that cis people can get HRT with so many fewer barriers than trans/NB people. It always seemed so simple to me, "well they've got to be sure", "we don't want to medicate on a whim", but this made me realise I should really question that attitude if I still support cis people getting HRT so easily.

[@gferraro2916]

and that also goes for gender affirming surgeries. Like here in Italy I (a trans man) have to ask permission to a judge (after a lengthy and heavily medicalised process) to have top surgery while a cis woman can have breast reconstruction surgery covered by the state (as she should) without any of that. Both of those surgeries are gender affirming but one requires you be stripped of all of your agency to get it. And don't get me started on the fact that it's easier to undergo elective plastic surgery than to get gender affirming care.

[@gferraro2916]

@@subs4794 I agree there should be an in depth explanation of all of that, but what about a tribunal of law is helping achieve that? Why should I have to wait at least an year just to "make sure I'm sure" when I'm an adult fully capable of facing the consequences of my actions, but a cis person can schedule an elective surgery for next month? Can you se the obvious double standard? Also gender affirming care for cis and trans people is not the same as cosmetoc surgery: a cis woman getting breast reconstruction after a mastectomy for cancer is not the same as someone getting a breat augmentation for aesthetic puroposes and they shouldn't be treated the same. Informed consent practices apply to both but that's about all the similarities between the two.

[@cAPSlOCKrOXX]

The state debating your right to exist: 👎 Debating the states right to exist: 👍

[@cAPSlOCKrOXX]

@OgMasterCuz not when it comes to housing, employment, medical needs, bathrooms, etc. Just because people say they have the same rights does not make it true. Especially when this is still something the Right has to constantly whine about. “You’re not REALLY a man/woman” and all that. If that isn’t someone trying to say that trans people don’t exist, I don’t know what will.

[@cAPSlOCKrOXX]

@OgMasterCuz actually I just made a joke KZbin comment but it got you in such a bunch that you had to reply. Soooooo

[@turtlerollover9382]

@OgMasterCuz So whenever you go into a bathroom, someone should have to check your genitals? Is that what you're saying?

[@turtlerollover9382]

@OgMasterCuz what bathroom should intersex people go in then? Bathrooms don't have genitals as the picture on them, they show clothing that genders typically wear. If they were separated by physical sex, they'd show genitals instead of clothing presentation

[@turtlerollover9382]

​@OgMasterCuz First, I DON'T want pictures of genitals on bathrooms. My point was that bathrooms have symbols that represent gender, not physical sex. And second, not all intersex people have male or female genitals. What bathroom do they go in if they fall outside male and female characteristics?

[@LoreKeeperToby]

I Am SO Proud of You!

[@MediumDSpeaks]

Hey cool to see you Toby

[@sylviaswayne]

Yessss, love an intersection of my two identities, trans and Pokémaniac 😍

[@thehuman2cs715]

I didn't expect you of all people to be here lol

[@meowman69420]

oh dang, i haven't watched your stuff in years lol

[@miasmacaron]

I WAS NOT EXPECTING TO SEE YOU HERE OMG.

[@ruthcrean2316]

I'm including this as a resource for a presentation for college informing people about LGBTQIA+ topics. Thank you for making something that is personal, concise, and clear about the difficulties faced by trans people.

[@thebanana835]

I used to be a bigot. I used to have no time for trans people because I didn't know or understand them properly. But you've changed my views. You're gorgeous Abigail, God bless you and may all go well for your journey forward. In any way possible I'll try my best to support your cause. I've always wanted to give you a hug, especially when you made that vulnerable video of self harm and placing yourself in a cosmonaut's position. Another time was when you talked about the abuse you received from a partner. You've been through great difficulty and yet you still conquer. Thank you for positively impacting my life. Sincerely, your ally.

[@TheRogueDM]

That's amazing to hear you've come round. Thank you.

[@bates64]

This. After that 'yer dad' video, I figured out my own issues with how I viewed trans people. Thank you, Abby.

[@stoodmuffinpersonal3144]

Hey, I was bigoted, too. I am still unlearning it. And I got "the surgery" lol. Nothing we can do can take away hurt we have brought. But learning we don't have to stay there, learning that we can do something else. That's a large part of what transition is about! I am proud of your growth, and I hope you can share what you've learned from her, and teach others, too. ♡

[@stoodmuffinpersonal3144]

@@bates64 The best/ worst feeling is when you realize you were "your dad"-ing in a large part to stay in the closet. I don't blame you, friend. I was "your dad" too. Because I thought being me wasn't an option. But, I am now 5 years on hrt. I wouldn't give it up for anything. Glad you stopped being "your dad," and now get to be. Just, you. With knew knowledge

[@jonathanard7885]

@@stoodmuffinpersonal3144 Having a dad was nice while it lasted ;~;

[@donaldlang9157]

'More efficient discrimination' Abigail, that is one of the most poignant description of institutionalized discrimination I have ever heard.

[@HappySoulLovesYou]

I CAN’T BE EVEN MORE IN LOVE WITH YOU, THAT SHOULDN’T BE POSSIBLE, I- Edit: On a more serious note, I’m crying. I’m crying because I’m so happy for you, but I’m also crying because there’s one more amazing person who to suffers through the discrimination that this world has too much to offer. Congratulations on coming out. Once again, I’m really happy for you, even though we’re nothing more than strangers. I love you ❤️ Please take care.

[@MarcelineRaven]

I can understand that 😌

[@sauceforce9623]

Me too!

[@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice]

💙🌸🦄🌸💙

[@Gotholia]

It was about time to see the sadness sweep away from these beautiful eyes.

[@skywise8]

"Can't come out... yet" I'm working on it. I'm still scared to come out to my family.

[@MagnusThiHan]

We believe in you! if it's safe for you, go for it! you can do it.

[@Line_Univers]

Here, i've got some courage to share, you can have some of it

[@jarabis1]

I was going to write a much longer comment, I think for the sake of not coming across as if I'm virtue signalling I will keep it short. Regardless of your family, there is a community that is loving, welcoming and occasionally toxic as fuck so we'll make a more than suitable substitute, at least until your family learn to accept you for who you are. That being said do not come out to your family if it is going to put you in danger. If you are a teen or still live at home, do not risk being kicked out onto the street and do not risk coming out if your family are violently inclined against LGBTQ+ people. Its difficult to do this when your own identity is not the one you are known by but, your health and safety should be your priority. You will have time in your life to come out and have people recognise you for the person you are, do this when it is right for you.

[@evanclarke7353]

Someone else has already brought up safety so I'll say something I wish I had been told. It might not go the way you think - for good or ill or just sort of neutral. It might take time for them to get it. As of now I am in the middle of the conversation myself (that is, my folks kinda get it but also kinda don't). You might need time away from them while they deal with it. There is a community there for you in the meantime and a world out there of people who will love you as you are. Best of luck!

[@skywise8]

Thank you so much for the supportive replies! I have no idea how my family would respond, being somewhat conservative (not Trump supporters). I think I'll try to build up a support system before trying to come out to my family. These comments have been so wonderful, I appreciate you all so much, thank you.

[@LyraLyraPantsOnFyra]

When you described your depression as making you "feel too big and clumsy" in your first cosmonaut video, I thought "that sounds like my dysphoria." You bring hope with you Abigail, thank you.

[@Dumpknoedel]

people liked Shrek. And Shrek loves Fiona

[@michikomanalang6733]

@@Dumpknoedel oh my god yes she was Fiona all along

[@sashaboydcom]

@@samuraikyokkan Her body was already producing testosterone, why would more of it help?

[@mchlle94]

I thought he mentioned that he felt like that because of his ex and past trauma? She made him feel like that

[@kierm5410]

Abigail is not his real name.

[@cloud_appreciation_society]

Oh wow the comment of feeling the pressure to be a 'perfect' trans person hit home. Being a trans highschooler while my country debates trans kids in schools felt very strange. I felt like I needed to prove I was doing well. And I'm just a random teenage boy, not an actress and media creator. Congrats on coming out Abigail. All the best for the future.

[@kaitlyn__L]

Damn, that’s rough. I was trans in high school a decade ago, and honestly I think the environment has become even more hostile. Hoping you can stay strong.

[@cloud_appreciation_society]

@@kaitlyn__L I survived! I graduated highschool last year, it was definitely a journey. I was lucky though, the environment at my school was pretty safe. My main struggles were trying to navigate dysphoria and gender identity as a very young person without access to any community. But I think that's a pretty universal trans experience.

[@silver4831]

@OgMasterCuz Go away.

[@LeeJuniper]

Just leaving a comment in service of the youtube algorithm. Somethings are just meant to be shared.

[@seanawks7562]

This gives off strong Queen addressing the nation vibes

[@faemaiden5090]

I mean... is it not?

[@fakenameu_u1859]

The only queen we need ❤❤❤👑👑👑

[@theblandcharlie822]

the agenda addresses the masses, 2021

[@adampickard9880]

Here for it

[@lunab541]

She IS the rightful heir afterall

[@EbinDesu]

Abigail's little smirks, as if she is telling us an inside joke, are so wonderful I love her♡♡

[@zzynbl]

'My love goes out to every trans person within the sound of my voice... especially those who can't come out - yet.' I'm non-binary and don't feel able to come out to my parents, who I still live with, because I don't think they'd take my identity seriously. Being constantly misgendered by my family and not knowing when I'll see an end to it has been weighing me down recently but Abigail's smile when she added 'yet' made me feel so hopeful.

[@vctcrozet1324]

Your family is just using your sex as a base to interact with you. Nothing wrong with that. Don't hold that against them. But please don't lose your time and energy with the gender theory. You know who you are above stereotypes, it's enough.

[@oleander2658]

Hi! I'm sorry a terf replied to you being an asshole and invalidating your identity, but I'm in a similar situation and I wanted to tell you to keep holding on to that hope. I know the feeling of not knowing what will happen to you if you come out to your parents because you're still dependant on them, but I also know that things do get better, maybe we'll have to wait some time, but I know you have it in you to survive, you're already so strong for holding on. So I really hope things get better for you soon. I'm rooting for you.

[@zzynbl]

@@oleander2658 aww this is so sweet of you! thank you. it’s such a good idea to reply to the trans person rather than the terf too - idk why my (and almost everyone else’s) impulse is always to do the opposite. honestly, i find comments like that person’s more amusing than upsetting because they just make so little sense, but they do still sting a bit so i appreciate you taking the time to reply. i hope your situation improves soon too and i’m rooting for you as well ❤️

[@spitgorge2021]

best wishes to you, friend

[@vctcrozet1324]

I’m absolutely not invalidating your identity :. I’m just contextualizing. Your family is using another set of criteria to communicate with you. You use one (gender), they use another one (sex). That’s it. No evil here. It’s not because they are referring to your sex that they are denying your identity. And it’s not because I’m explaining that to you that I am denying your identity! I don’t see how warning about gender theory is being offensive. Gender theory reinforces stereotypes, stereotypes that make people transition in the first place. So yeah maybe, in the current society, at an individual level it’s freeing to say you’re neither a woman nor a man when you are a female. But at the group level (man and woman/male and female) it’s alienating and making the current system stronger. By supporting gender theory you are not fighting the system you are just playing along with it. Btw, if you think that what I’m saying is making nonsense like you suggesting in your comment, please feel free to ask me any question, I’m open to discussion :)

[@Jachael123]

PREACH 🙌🏻👏🏻

[@zactron1997]

As a cisgender white male, you're still a role model to me. I wish masculinity could mean having the bravery, integrity, and courage you have displayed over these years. Thank you Abigail, for being yourself. Edit: Don't mind the CS:GO montage uploader in the replies talking about misandry and toxic femininity, I think they've had a hard day.

[@Louis-qj4tb]

This is exactly what I was thinking and I second this opinion

[@CondorCalabasas]

This is what internalized misandry looks like, and what an inferiority complex looks like. This is the damage toxic femininity is doing to men and women. Anyone who mentions being cis gendered in reference to themselves, or someone else is a misandrist. You're aware that cis gender males face the most oppression in first world countries right? Rhetorical question, I know for a fact you don't know that.

[@beardbeardedbeardsbeardedh9374]

@@CondorCalabasas Go back in your cave troll, or get an education. You're not welcome here.

[@thefutureisnowoldman7653]

@@CondorCalabasas ha lol when you gonna join reality

[@amakepeace8280]

@@CondorCalabasas LOL you deffo never get laid

[@veraxiana9993]

I'm firmly anti-theist but with that said it feels like some type of divine intervention that this video got uploaded exactly 4 minutes after I came out to the first person in my life that I'm trans. The love is genuinely appreciated and may we all have solidarity to fight these shitty TERFS together.

[@kittymarie397]

Im proud of you!! Coming out is so hard but so freeing! I hope everything went well

[@veraxiana9993]

@@kittymarie397 so far just people saying I should wait which is a relief I was genuinely somewhat concerned people would fly into a rage towards me about it. But so far a lot better than expected thankfully

[@veraxiana9993]

@@Aleara27 thank you so much! 😊

[@rubyoconnor6567]

Love and happiness on this new chapter ❤

[@suitov]

Proud of you for coming out and wishing you all the luck and awesomeness on your journey.

[@LehTieKah]

I'm a cis bisexual woman and i am so fuckin emotional about this, i never felt so much joy for other person my entire life, I'm still trembling out of emotion. My best friend is a trans gay man and I've seen from far too closr what being denied of expressing his own identity does. He's now 6 months on T and I've never seen him happier and more spontaneous. I hope you too can be happy cause it's all you deserve bby ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending much love from Brazil

[@barbaracavalcante2732]

High five by another bissexual cis brazilian woman, reflected in these same words

[@anamargarites]

Que engraçado, eu comecei a ler teu comentário e pensei "eu poderia ter escrito isso!" e aí descubro que a autora é brasileira, como eu!

[@Amaneuclosis]

@OgMasterCuz Well you can change it, clearly. She stated in this very video that she has an F in her passport. Stop living in denial and grow up.

[@Amaneuclosis]

@OgMasterCuz That's not what you originally said though, stop moving the goalposts and either stick to your argument like an adult, or just admit that you were wrong, there's no shame in that.

[@_blank-_]

"Trans gay man" is a girl with a yaoi addiction. I hate fujoshis so bad.

[@morgansmith8178]

I admit, it took me many years to come to grips with all of this. But I'm now old enough to see that most of my problem was my own socialization, and with some work, I've let go of those ingrained beliefs. Your words ring so true. I am bowled over by your grace and courage, not to mention your generosity of spirit.

[@triftoo]

It is ridiculous how much raw joy I am experiencing from this. I'm an unrepentantly cis white hetero chap and I'm grinning from ear to ear; this video has genuinely pumped me full of feel good vibes. I'm so glad I've followed some of your work over the last few years; you've done an incredible job of bringing us along with you as you have discussed some really important stuff. You've illuminated subjects that a lot of people find really difficult to comprehend, and you've done it with charm and wit. That many of these subjects were personal has made it all the more remarkable. Fuck, YES Abigail. This is amazing.

[@user-sz5yd2in7t]

awwww you are so cute

[@johanna38311]

love this comment, this is so wholesome

[@BREADSWORD]

LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

[@will_the_warlord8913]

yo

[@travisbickle3835]

To where?

[@ded_plant]

Travis Bickle to somewhere where trans people have rights

[@awenwraig]

HI BREADSWORD!!!

[@viewsandrates]

It's BREADSWORD! Oh I love your content!

[@dogasal]

here in Brazil we have a slang (tamo junto) that stands for something like "i'm with you" or "we're in it together", so, my beloved youtuber with such wonderful videos, TAMO JUNTO.

[@DomTze]

r/suddenlycaralho

[@anav.v.6763]

TAMO JUNTO PORRA

[@the_void_screams_back7514]

@Lexdrillo it's actually very common in uruguay and argentina

[@PedroKrick]

TAMO JUNTO KRL

[@vdevendetta9398]

TAMO JUNTO MANIN

[@CH3COCOO]

I’m from Newcastle too and it’s so beautiful to see another Geordie trans woman lay out trans politics so clearly. Thank you ❤️🏳️‍⚧️

[@beetlebob4675]

Instead of engaging obvious trolls only here to get into fights for kicks in a useless debate, LET'S JUST REPETITIVELY THANK THEM FOR PINGING THE ALGORITHM.

[@Alex-ki1yr]

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[@SuperSpyKindaGuy]

just a friendly ping over here, thanks for your good energy

[@lisaspieker4876]

Love the shift in perspective!

[@beetlebob4675]

@@lisaspieker4876 It makes them SO MAD because i refuse to engage🤣

[@Line_Univers]

Such a good spirit I love it :3

[@rationalityrules]

Proud of you, Abigail

[@nerprun]

"inspiration"

[@kerycktotebag8164]

@@blacktigerpaw1 Some ppl legitimately change from having bigoted pasts. There's no need to be so cynical.

[@Axolautism]

@@nerprun You seem to think there's a problem with the use of that word.

[@kaitlyn__L]

@@Axolautism it’s just a sensitive thing, because “being an inspiration” is often all trans women hear. It’s also a common complaint in disability communities. It’s well-intentioned, but ends up otherising and putting on a pedestal if not very careful. Now, in this video, and with the part about “those who cannot come out yet”, she’s definitely intending some level of inspiration in this video. But it would be dangerous to lean on calling her an inspiration as the standard compliment from now on.

[@CGW129]

@@blacktigerpaw1 This is the KZbin comment section boiled down to it's base essence.

[@alistairblair3849]

My roommate just burst into my room, chucked her phone at me playing this video and started chanting “one of us” congratulations Abby welcome to the family ❤️❤️❤️

[@irinipapaioanou4705]

This is such a heartwarming image!!

[@valkyrie9553]

I am always a ghost viewer & due to living in “weird” countries for a time [Saudi, ehem) I don’t usually subscribe to channels. That being said, I binged on your channel at the beginning of the lockdown. I see that a lot of your subscribers jumped ship & would like to help out with my vote :) So Congratulations,Abigail, stay fearless and immensely entertaining as ever!! Love from South Africa

[@emperoremyhriv4968]

yes the country where men are men and women are women is weird but countries where people like "abigail" exist are normal .

[@dantevalehuntik28]

I'm a trans man who's planning to go on hrt soon, and seeing you come out in such happiness gives me so much strength to persevere

[@depecher6s311]

Good luck with the whole process, we are all rooting for you :)

[@useroffline9999]

im starting T on the 18th! excited for you!!

[@matiascruz1270]

This made me actually cry with joy. I'm a trans man, I've been out for three years, but never once have I head anyone describe being trans as "a gift", or say something so hopeful as "especially to those who can't come out... yet." Abigail, you're an amazing, inspiring woman- I know you'll likely never see this comment, but this is incredible. Genuinely, thank you

[@wowdanalise]

YOU WILL NEVER BE A MAN

[@upmayo100]

@@wowdanalise Who hurt you?

[@liam.deshuis]

same, it's such a powerful thing to say and I think it's really important that we start seeing ourselves as something beautiful and our journeys as a gift. it's wonderful to hear happy stories and really comforting for people who can't come out... yet.

[@martabagnoli1212]

That's my favourite part of the video, I heard it and immediately started planning a poster to make with those words- hopefully when schools open again, it will be finished and I'll have given copies of it to my local school

[@lucretialain8534]

@@wowdanalise He already is, cry about it some more tho^^

[@ezrenficker4502]

"Even when other people make it hard, being trans is a gift" A (cis) gay man I met at an lgbt+ group once said that he felt like being gay was his super power. Saying that being trans is a gift gives me the same vibes and I absolutely love it. It feels so good to see positivity and love for the way that we are. I'm so glad I'm trans, I wouldn't have the same experience and I wouldn't be the same person if I was cis. Keep spreading love and being yourself Abigail ❤️

[@morfy2581]

(im quite a noob, sry) I kinda can understand the meaning of cis from reading the context, but what exactly is "cis".

[@ezrenficker4502]

@@morfy2581 cis is short for cisgender which means a person who identifies as the gender they were assigned at birth. So anyone who isn't trans

[@morfy2581]

@@ezrenficker4502 thanks

[@sunblooom]

very wholesome message but i just gotta say "Ezren" is such a badass name and i love it

[@ezrenficker4502]

@@sunblooom thank you so much! I chose it myself

[@CaliforniaPaladin]

Wow, Abigail… fell down a rabbit hole today. Saw a recommended video and watched a lovely young woman explaining Jordan Peterson’s ideology, found it informative and well-delivered, and proceeded to check out prior videos. Imagine my surprise! Such an inspirational story. I am so glad you were able to discover your authentic self and find something closer to happiness. Good on yer. Thank you for the terrific and informative videos - I am now a huge fan.

[@jowilkie8477]

Jordan Peterson... Really. He has become an ironic a meme these days. Check out josep Fisher

[@brnexus7475]

Its so amazing how many people are coming out trans. Just imagine how many trans people there were in history who could never come out. It makes me so sad.

[@mariebourgot4949]

Yep. :(

[@paulpeniscocker9223]

I worked on a project in 2019 that only had about 30-40 people who were on that specific assignment. It was at a company that has been very open about their acceptance of trans people, but alot of companies claim to be. There were several people i worked with that taught me so much about gender issues and how people feel than I even knew about. And i am a gay man who thought i understood all of it well. I learned that i still dont totally understand it all but I will gladly like to hear peoples story and i support them. I think the more accepted that it becomes the more we will learn that people have these feelings inside. Similar to how everyone seems to be gay these days where when I was in school there were only a few gay kids. (and oddly i was bullied by them lol)

[@zeeby24]

She has THE biggest Ms Honey energy. Beautiful, humble, self-assured and confident with her words, uplifting, wildly intelligent, forgiving. Can’t wait to see more of her going forward ❤️

[@ambershaw1324]

She really does, i am guessing you mean miss honey from Matilda because if you are then god you are correct

[@huntercampbell-lalonde7494]

Abigail: *hints towards JK Rowling* Me: NATALIE I KNEW THERE HAD TO BE A REASON YOU BROUGHT THIS UP NOW

[@Fedrowreview]

HOLY SHIT

[@daryam2455]

@@Fedrowreview what's this thing with JK Rowling? Would u explain?

[@daryam2455]

@@michaelmolyneaux-swann shameful

[@nolanvaughan1335]

@@_blank-_ imagine having such a terrible life you have to be transphobic online to make yourself feel better. Get therapy and over yourself

[@GMAH111]

@@_blank-_ read Wittgenstein, Judith Butler or Zizek on gender

[@dot1t]

Jesus christ that's the best plot twist ever Love and strenght, Abby!

[@JohnDRuddyMannyMan]

Abi, I’m so happy for you! Be happy! Be safe! Fair play to ya! :)

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Olly/Abigail has enough money to get SRS in the US. There is no oppression or bravery here.

[@thatlemonguy1107]

@@blacktigerpaw1 She lives in the UK. Do you even fucking know what's going on there? Go watch the video on her main channel. I would love to get to a point in society where there was no oppression or bravery here. But until people get a little more progressive, and absolutely everyone has absolutely equal rights, there is absolutely both oppression and bravery here.

[@mihailmilev9909]

Hey, I saw you in the comments of the other video :D

[@MrLzender]

Fucking cringe

[@thatlemonguy1107]

@@MrLzender Positivity bad ooga booga

[@reiha7320]

I. Was about to do something horrible to myself when this came out. And i am so thankful for filling me with so many positive emotions again. Thank you so much. You cant believe how much this saved me just now.

[@irismiller8666]

stay strong.

[@toriartemis801]

Please take care, I may not know you, but I wish for you to stay safe and well. And I'm glad this video was here when you needed it 💙

[@doctora.snakeman1427]

Hope you stay safe 💚

[@moomin2162]

Much love :) stay strong! ♡

[@groofay]

I'm glad you're still with us

[@sapphirejones4765]

i’m so so proud of you!! which is weird bc i’m a stranger on the internet but yeah!! so proud of u and love u sm

[@davefisher1840]

This was excellent. I support you! I’m currently writing a paper titled, “Understanding the Transgender Mystery.” I’ll be emailing it to all the members of the Kansas legislature soon. I hope and pray it will help them and everyone who reads it, understand transgenders.

[@CinziaDuBois]

This was a brilliant highlighting of our systematic anti-trans culture. My uncle transitioned in the early nineties (when I was only months old), and he had to go through so much alone in a world that really wasn't welcoming (even from his own mother, who was of a generation who barely understood homosexuality). I love my uncle, and I've always been proud of him. Whatever I can do to support Trans rights, I will do it. You're astounding, and a gift to this world, Abigail x

[@yaboi8644]

Sending love to you and your uncle!

[@grognakthedestroyer2685]

420 M please reflect: why did you feel the need to say this?

[@yaboi8644]

@@grognakthedestroyer2685 Are you speaking to me?

[@grognakthedestroyer2685]

Ya Boi no, not you. someone else said something transphobic and obviously heeded my advice as their comment has been deleted

[@yaboi8644]

@@grognakthedestroyer2685 great job!

[@AceTrainerLiam]

I’m so happy for you! Proud to be your friend. ❤️✨

[@ringer1324]

Yo what are you doing here? Based Liam I guess

[@marshall5912]

Wait! My favorite PokeTuber is friends with Philosophy Tube!! This is amazing!!

[@acehealer4212]

Woah, I didn’t know you guys were friends. Cool!

[@thehuman2cs715]

Didn't expect you out of all people here lol

[@wschippr1]

@@ringer1324 He talks about NB people in his videos pretty regularly. He's clearly an ally to the LGBTQ+ community. Granted I watch his wtf episodes regularly

[@junipertoad]

In the least parasocial way possible: You are very much loved as you are, as Abigail; you are beautiful, talented and *enough*. Thank you for posting this video. ❤️

[@ClassicallyAwkward]

Hearing that "yet", nearly a year later after finally being in a safe position to come out and start my transition has me absolutely sobbing

[@tristanneal9552]

I cannot even imagine how hard it is to transition in such a public position. I've heard Contra/Natalie talk about it before so I do understand it takes a lot of bravery and strength. I think it's super admirable. Congratulations, I hope for every mean comment you get ten better, supportive ones!!

[@Senyuno]

Or a thousand

[@6askiVideos03]

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[@alsie1882]

Good for you, do what makes you happy. Thanks for mentioning the Suffragettes. Emily Wilding Davison goes down in history as a heroine who gave her life for her political activism. To thine oneself be true is a beautiful statement. And remember those poets mentioned who fought in the utter hell of WWI trench warfare, Siegfried Sassoon who wrote and lived and Wilfred Owen who wrote the famous Dulce et Decorum est, one of my favourite poems, who died at 25 a week before the Armistice. Perhaps be mindful that your cause is important but avoid comparing it to soldiers who fought and died in Gallipoli, the Somme, Ypres and all of the other well known areas fought for in WWI, it’s a vastly different struggle.

[@baguettegott3409]

@Yeetus debeetus Talking from experience there? Because if not, how about you don't claim it's "very easy to do" when every single trans woman in the public eye who I've heard commenting on this says the opposite?

[@tristanneal9552]

@@baguettegott3409 Yeah fr. If it was so easy to do why did Abigail wait over a year to do it?

[@felixeleutheria]

Girl, i was crying BEFORE you said “cosmonauts” & now 😭

[@felixeleutheria]

UPDATE: When she delivered the last line I full on started sobbing. All hail Queen Abi ✨🐣💗

[@mchu5580]

@@felixeleutheria RIGHT???

[@felixeleutheria]

@@mchu5580 I’m a closeted trans guy in rural Kentucky & have been wondering if there’s any point in fighting to leave so I can transition. Now I know there IS a point, & if Abi can do it, we can do it too

[@mchu5580]

@@felixeleutheria yes!!! i wish you the best of luck, felix, and i hope you’re happy in your transition!!

[@felixeleutheria]

@@mchu5580 thank you 💙😭

[@concernedcitizen6313]

"We don't cancel or silence flat-Earthers when we set aside their concerns about space travel and start listening to *cosmonauts."* I see what you did there.

[@jrose5870]

@Bronze Spectre see philosophy tube vid "Cosmonaut"

[@Robstafarian]

@OgMasterCuz Do you need a safe space?

[@raelynnbaranowski5102]

@OgMasterCuz The definitions of words are malleable. Just because a word is defined one way in a specific dictionary doesn't mean that trans people are claiming to fit that definition. There is nothing "scientific" or "unscientific" about slightly altering the meaning of a word in everyday use. On top of that the fact that being trans isn't a choice is supported by science.

[@MrSquare]

@OgMasterCuz so by that definition if a woman can't produce eggs, does she not count as female?

[@channelname1019]

@OgMasterCuz Can you arrogantly suck at explaining the thing that you don't understand just one more time for my amusement, please?

[@facelessdrone]

You're instantly iconic, Abby, im sure you know already since you experienced much what I have, but this video brought me to tears, your coming out video brought words to feelings i have never been able to fully convey, accurate in a way only someone who has experienced it can feel resonating in their bones, every word a strike on the soul, feeling like the voicing of them can lift away the confusion temporarily.. I cant wait for the world to accept us, you are incredible, thank you for standing up for our community, we all love and support you!!! Sincerely, and from the deepest pits of my conscious, a trans man.

[@No-hf1xq]

You were the person I pointed towards as "I like this guy, that means I'm bi" And nope, secret woman. Oh well, welcome to sisterhood, it's going to be fun.

[@meg1653]

i am a lesbian. it happens a lot. it is usually a passing thought, i tell no one, and then they come out, and i say nothing, but seeing another person this happens to is, well, really fascinating. it's subconscious, i think

[@clsisman]

“Secret woman” I love it! She seems so happy and relieved to be out 🥰

[@gaminggaming6845]

its the sixth sense: lesbianism

[@mixedviews3536]

@@meg1653 can confirm, as a cis woman, Abigail and Natalie are both 🥵 and have been for years. I’ve recently accepted that I, in fact, do not like men, no matter how much I try.