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[@thandiwejambawa7827]

I hundred percent agree with you. Women, lets stop giving too much when we meet men. Do not play wife to a boyfriend. Some won't take the next step because they get all the benefits of a married man. He won't buy the cow if he is getting the milk for free. Ladies, we have the power

[@ChituDiary]

Facts thandi❤️

[@lassali1427]

Easy to say when you're not a poor african girl. Women are giving their body for resources!!! Europe or America can offer women services to lift themselves out of poverty. Africa offers nothing to young women. No jobs. Just useless documents that offer no opportunity. So i dont judge a woman who has to give her body just to live in a mans house to feed herself.

[@thandiwejambawa7827]

@@lassali1427 The sad thing is it breeds more poverty. The moment you are pregnant the guy leaves and you are left with a kid to look after. Get another guy so that he can help you take care of the kid. He makes you pregnant again, he leaves and that's another mouth to feed. It becomes a vicious cycle. I know that for some a man is a ticket to a better life but for many they become poorer than they were before. Let's be smart ladies. We can do better. Let's not allow men to use us. Let's educate a girl child not to depend on a man for a good life

[@walkwithorr]

@@thandiwejambawa7827 I want to give your comment a billion likes. Most resort to men because of societal beliefs that a man is saviour but life has shown many flames. We need to re-teach girl children that a woman has power to take herself out of poverty with less help from man and more believe and trust in God. At least in modern day we have lots of women who changed the narrative to look up to.

[@thandiwejambawa7827]

@@walkwithorr That is true. As women, we should learn to respect ourselves more.

[@cherishedoliviaTV]

Mydear women you actually deserve more actually, yes take the bold set and get out of a relationship that is not working. And true no child is a mistake , yes children don’t tie men down. Their nothing like I love you, well spoken chitu dear you look beautiful

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks for your view beautiful sis❤️🌸

[@thillaitamil5166]

Sis you need award for this talk, nothing but the truth

[@hamo-gt5cq4iw4x]

The best like for the best channel I'm watching the love lasts between us.

[@viviantvgist]

Sis you need award for this talk, nothing but the truth 👌

[@ChatsWithFlo]

“Marriage is intentional. You are worth more.” 🔥🔥

[@Lukho_M]

This is so profound 👍🏽👍🏽

[@oyiondemand]

We women actually deserves much better. Men are using many ladles as children producers at the end dropped them. Thanks dear sister for this wonderful words of advice.

[@ChituDiary]

Always ❤️

[@thecocomama]

It's the self value for me

[@ujspacetv1334]

You are not a toy.treat your self well baby should not tired you down.you deserve better

[@anamamadi1303]

On point sis, don't stay where you are not regarded walk away!

[@thecocomama]

We ladies deserve more...I believe the signs are always there..Yes walk away if you have to

[@ChituDiary]

Sis you know this

[@TheChichiShow]

Ladies we need to know our worth.

[@marvelloustv8781]

You are saying the pure truth sis Is time we women stood up for our right and know our worth Carry yourself the way you want people to carry you pure truth Thank you for saying the truth

[@michealpriestsvideos-mpv4175]

thanks for these adventurous videos and bless you for putting up the hard work. thanks so much

[@carromacumba]

✨Excellent ✨💎✨ Big like 👍 👑✨

[@omastaste]

If only you will pay attention to my commandments...we will find happiness if we listen to our owner God...we will never regret nothing Or be under any circumstances we don't want to be.

[@ChituDiary]

I agree

[@jenesworld7341]

Very true and well put I love bring here

[@ChituDiary]

Thank you❤️

[@L.i.l.i.a.n_ajayi]

you said it all o chitu !! like I said in one of my videos always choose yourself first ! value yourself first

[@ChituDiary]

Always ❤️

[@Giniwonders1]

Amazing woman. Great share! Women go through a whole lot. Your hair is beautiful

[@ChatsWithFlo]

You shared so many great tips in this video. I loved it when you talked about don’t try to trap a man into marrying you. I have seen so many times women that talked men into marrying them and the relationship don’t last because both individuals needs to love each other. Love isn’t a one way street.

[@ShadesofChika]

I love your hair....so beautiful 💕 Now let me relax and watch Honestly so many stages even menopause stage .....The Lord is our strength. Know your Worth!!!! This is very important. Thanks for sharing sis💜

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks mama❤️

[@kinzaslife1607]

Very nice👍❤❤❤

[@mohamedaboalkasem3522]

Lovely

[@julietambali]

Hmmmmn....In fact, I am lost for words. Sin is the root cause of it all and if that can be tackled, that's like the solution. Please listen to Chitu, walk out of that situationship. It's not worth it.

[@ChituDiary]

It’s not worth it queen

[@bkitchen112]

Thanks for sharing sis, you said it all

[@bkitchen112]

sis you haven't return to me

[@PeloB]

....wow, well said. Thank u for the advice my need. We need to stand up for ourselves and avoid settling for less. 😍 Thank u for this.

[@L.i.l.i.a.n_ajayi]

first off lets talk about your hair looks good on you

[@lukasmucus9214]

Nice upload 👍

[@Officialcelebritygossiplovers]

Its our space and thank God its Friday... Chitu u are glowing o

[@chynytogt]

Waooo que BELLEZA amig saluds Bendiciones disfrute y a disfrutar sea dicho arriba esos ánimos Upale Encantada EXELENTE .....

[@Officialcelebritygossiplovers]

I can completely relate with you... Hmmmm If i open mouth for this matter, the comment section will blow. Women should have sense

[@ChituDiary]

Don’t open please, we know the story

[@iamlebocodi]

I love ur truth 🙌🙌🙌 Miss you babe

[@ChituDiary]

Miss you Lebo baby🥺🥺

[@reponshootingtv6896]

Wow very nice video 😲👌✌️👏💯💖💕🥰🙏🙏

[@africanprincessrams]

Me i walked out of a meaningless abusive marriage Chitu with my 4 kids that i have i don't care if i don't find anyone on the way. I will rather be single and happy than married and dying inside. Never my sanity and mental health comes 1st in everything my dear.

[@ChituDiary]

You are a strong woman my motswana friend, and see you coping just fine❤️

[@africanprincessrams]

@@ChituDiary Thanks my love, in God we trust

[@phumlileshabalala3044]

Thanks Chitu, GOD bless you.💕♥️❣️

[@chipermbolang6306]

Sending support My friend ❤️

[@vuyondlungwane816]

I like this man should also not just assume that because we have kids with them we want to marry them communication is very important in a relationship some of us have kids cz we want kids not cz we want marriage .

[@refiloehlapho1469]

Men will embarrass you!! 🚶🏻‍♀️

[@ChituDiary]

Nje sisi💔

[@dineomolapo9934]

My sister😭😭😭my best friend got married to my neighbor I even vouch for the guy !!!!!father 😭😭😭He attended our church about 5 years and he approached my friend for marriage after good year of courtship and no sex before marriage they wed in my church I was happy a year later she dump my friend with a new born baby he is busy with one girl down the road she is already pregnant for him😭😭 a born again brother in the church my take marriage doesn't make a difference it's just God grace finish and klaar the other gender nawa there is no road map on this one o beg 😭😭😭whether by hook or by crook there are just casualties every where 😭😭😭 fake marriage lust marriage financial marriage you name it 😭😭😭😭🙏

[@ChituDiary]

Ladies/ men must not be deceived because someone comes from a church, there are devils in church. We should just allow God speak and hear from him if not it’s always a disaster my dineo😭😭

[@walkwithorr]

Churchmen are even the worst, I pray for women to shine their eye all the time. Just because he is in church looking handsome does not mean he is a saint. He married your friend because the only way to get the cookie was thru marriage. Women need to remember that it is okay to be single and happy than to be married and miserable.

[@ChantyBloom]

Children will not tie a man to you, women get off that ship!!

[@auchvett6372]

I disagree with almost everything she said, ladies I must say this please stop listening to a fellow woman when comes to advise about marriage if you want to settle down, look for a man who understand the life of a man, asked what men wants in a woman,1 a wife, the bible says whoever finds a wife find a good thing and obtain favour from God meaning,ladies you have to be a wife before marriage, your mother have the responsibility to teach you how to be a wife, I have dated so many men all that, the questionis is are you a wife? Women are emotional being that's why love is important to them, men are practical being, that's why to love means, provide, protect, to take care of the family,we understand a loving girlfriend and a wife to men this 2 are different, ,2 I dont know how man times she mention gender issues, stop listening to people who want to make you feel loved, cherished protect your emotions and hide the truth from you, stop making babes with a man who is not your husband PERIOD, the best gift from a woman to a man is kids,it devalues your personality in a dating market, either rich and educated, no woman brings a child to this world she doesn't want to carry, stop playing dumb and young the excuse does not take away the accountability of your mistake, to men your not looking for a husband, your looking for stepfather to your child or kids, it is wrong for a lady with many kids with different fathers now you want settle down, you dont want anymore kids,men are territorial in nature, we dont want take care of another man's child, you step into our life with burden with kids, please and please loose weight yhoooo, nice, curve big ass is different from big women, ladies dont miss meals this days, this list goes on, women dont want shortmen, what about what men want, the days of a accepting a women because she is a woman has gone, men will lie to make you happy because you big beautiful just mention marriage everybody on the run, eat healthy, to go gym, look beautiful, choose wisely because your responsible for the choice you make while dating y'all have a lovely day.

[@julietambali]

Hello beautiful!

[@cherishedoliviaTV]

First here 😀

[@vaishnavi1706]

😍☺️

[@maninginingimbangala6126]

Hi Chitu i want you to know that i love you so much. from KZN Durban

[@ChituDiary]

Love you more🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ogochukwustellamacs]

Nne talk to us joor because you are always saying the fact.. But my husband is listening oooo🤣🤣🤣

[@ChituDiary]

Lol🌸

[@PeloB]

Hello my dear. 😍