Kicked Out At 16: My Story

[@YaGirlSyber]

"I met this guy in a park"... *exboyfriend tag* "where did we meet?" Randy: "In a park..." 😂😂😂😂😂

[@KelseyAlfred]

I'm really loving the free falling backgrounds! Makes it pretty :)

[@TNxox7]

only the OG's no she's probably talking about Randy lol!

[@veronica6339]

tina I WAS JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS

[@veronica6339]

I've been watching sam since I was in 4th grade and I'm a Junior in high school now

[@Heather9T2]

I was thinking that with the meeting in the park and her being quite young etc but I didn't watch her videos at the time when he was in them/her life, I've just seen some since, so I wasn't sure.

[@autumnrose3603]

tina forrealll girly

[@elaineguo6419]

tina So true! Sam was the first youtuber I started watching, I remember stealing my mom's phone at night to watch her videos.

[@KarleeSteel]

Obsessed with your lashes

[@ameliez]

Karlee Steel Karlee ILY! You 2 (Karlee Steel and Piink sparkles) are my fav KZbinrs!!!!!

[@hayleegilardi6016]

Amiieee Z SAME ❤️

[@isabellafoster1032]

OMG!!! I love ur vids!!

[@withyskydiver16schwencer28]

Same girl

[@kylieheider6501]

Lol 😂 😀🤪

[@kaileyryan6587]

OMG RANDYYY!!! THE OG WOULD ONLY KNOW!!!!!!

[@tiffanyrenee9450]

Quick story time... 30 mins. Lol. Love you Samantha

[@mackenzietuckcovers489]

Tiffany Renee lol so true

[@tracimoyer9879]

Tiffany Renee true😂😂😂

[@Maddy-pf9rl]

Tiffany Renee lol so trueeee

[@tiabizreh281]

HAHAHAHA I swear I was gonna comment that

[@Autiray]

I would love to hear your moms point of view of this story time

[@kittengurl123321]

SHE NEEDS TO DO THIS!!!!!!

[@whydoineedahandle1]

I was on my own at 18. Pregnant, dropped out of college. Went back two years later, got my diploma and now I'm off to university! Everything happens for a reason. If anyone is in a similar situation you can do it! Thanks for the story time :)

[@amazonqueen5694]

Heather Hansen Your not alone. I am 40 years old and still working on it.

[@janat6501]

Heather Hansen you go girl 👏

[@tracimoyer9879]

Heather Hansen was the baby born?

[@allisonrose3895]

I respect you so much for doing this story time for your younger audience. I was in a similar situation when I was a teenager and it really effected my relationship with my family and effected how I am today. Relationships and love can make you do things you never thought you would do. Thank you for sharing!!

[@gunmetallilac355]

steven= RANDY

[@elizabethmarie5308]

The og cuties know she's talking about Randy 😂

[@123oompagogo]

rip james the spider

[@jademarie4194]

kieana menzies hahahaha that's hilarious!

[@tracimoyer9879]

kieana menzies 😂😂😂😂

[@chawfunkatie]

the second steven's mom said your mom told her you could go home. and you ran made me so happy.

[@kathrynwallace8798]

Please! Please! Please! Do more of these Samantha!! Seriously these are soooo much better than a haul or a taste test! It's so damn real. It's like a breath of fresh air. I love you so much please continue with these💖

[@lagatitabruja]

Please make more story times like this. These are your best videos and how I originally found you. Thank you for sharing this is a great message

[@frostchumz7932]

Why tf did your mom even let you even see or talk to a 23 year old. My mom would put a stop to it immediately!

[@brookesearfossss]

Frost Chumz I feel like she did everything she could idk

[@linsidhy]

Frost Chumz Ikr. I think her mom did so much and tried everything she could think of but if my kid went through this I would not give the phone to her and blocked his number. And take the phone at night. But t he mom did everything she could think of.

[@linsidhy]

Amethyst Spillane How so? Also your means that something belongs to you. So if you say “your mean” that means mean belongs to me. But if you say “ you’re mean” that means I am mean

[@leahabbott823]

Happy Hammies you can just tell you’re like year 5 correcting grammar. Literally would make no difference if u took the phone at night because they see each other in real life and go to each other’s houses it would make no sense.

[@kelseylovato5722]

sometimes u have to let your kids make the mistakes for themselves to realize and grow up & her mom probably did all that she could’ve in her power but at the end of the day sam kinda had to figure out for herself that her mom was right and that in turn made her gain more realization and respect for momma knowing best ya feeeelllll me girl

[@manonmincieli7309]

This is absolutely a crazy story time!!!! I totally did not expect this from you Sam omg!!!!! And I didn't expect ur mom To be that way omggg!!!! It sends a very powerful message for sure!

[@emyrobin5636]

Is this the guy in her EX boyfriend does my makeup and ex boyfriend tags from like 5 years ago?

[@gothoweenn]

Emy Robin yeah I'm pretty sure it is. I watch the video and she says boyfriend tag & she must've edited it to EX boyfriend & also it says they met in the park so yeah it's him

[@emyrobin5636]

Morgan Patterson Oh okay thanks! That's what I thought but I wasn't 100% sure lol

[@nailpolishremover4507]

Ceili Moore yes but she kept hanging out with him for six years

[@gothoweenn]

Emy Robin no worries ! ☺

[@emmabonnell4287]

Yup

[@purpleglitterize]

This story makes me so sad. But it's true. You don't need a boyfriend or a girlfriend to make you happy. Don't ever sell yourself short. You don't deserve it.

[@haileefranklin9478]

purpleglitterize for real

[@dawnboze5298]

My daughter is in this situation right now I wish she would realize what he is she gave up her entire family for him and is so brainwashed a piece of my heart is missing thanks for making me realize I'm not alone

[@pennyplank-newman2275]

I am almost 46 and I am watching this and it's making me cry. My mother went through something similar and it drove her to helping foster children. By the time she stopped taking children in (2006, after 30 ish years) she had helped over 250 girls including myself and a few boys. She taught me many things. One of which was to always respect your mother (or mother figure in my case) because one day you won't have them.

[@LIGYARU]

My mum kicked me out when I was about 16 too. I walked miles and miles and eventually found out I could get free shelter from a homeless teen thing. So I went and they told me they would need to confirm I was homeless so they phoned my mum and she told them I was lying and she had no idea what I was talking about... 😭 So basically, I was kicked out of home and then kicked out of the homeless place. I was lucky that I knew about a bush that didn't let too much rain through and was quite hidden on the mountains.

[@monstercookie248]

This story really got to me, due to the fact that I am 16 myself and I have a very close relationship with my mum, I also find it very weird that I was watching your Ex-Boyfriend Tag and you said you guys met in a park and I honestly got chills... I'm just so thankful that you have such a big audience and are able to talk freely about this and influence younger viewers, lots of love girl

[@cassidygoldberg]

the SECOND you mentioned a spider I looked to my left and there's a GIANT spider crawling right there

[@saraihigueron3014]

omg I usually don't like storytimes but this one just made my night please do more great advice by the way❣😊

[@cashmoneyhunny7029]

TELL MORE STORIES ABOUT HIM

[@BrookeLynne]

Sounds like a relationship I was in for 3 years (it was controlling and abusive) and it caused me and my parents to constantly fight, it also caused me to lose all my friends. Steven sounds exactly like my ex (saying that the wanted to kill my father, my dad and I are close) I moved last summer away from him and started a new school, he would constantly tell me that if any guy talked to me he'd come find me and kill the guy who talked to me. Close to the end of the relationship in November 2016 I found out he cheated on me multiple times throughout the relationship... but almost 8 months out of the relationship I'm with a better guy who respects me and my family and treats me like a queen. But any-who Sam you are an amazing person and a huge inspiration! Keep doing you girl ❤️❤️!

[@CraftyPrincess101]

takes a real person with real strength and wisdom to tell this story. LOVE YOU SAMANTHA💞💞

[@nottttlillyy]

I never comment on videos but I literally went through the same exact thing. I still can't believe I put my mom through that and I still tear up every time I talk about it. I love you Sam!❤️

[@PinkGlitter16]

I really think she's talking about RANDY!!

[@101Phantomwolf]

I'm 16 and I've almost been kicked out multiple times for no reason lol and this exact situation happened to me, except my parents didn't know, so I'm really glad you're bringing attention to this! love you!

[@amandam5810]

I love these story times from you. I was in an extremely toxic relationship for almost 2 years and I destroyed myself and my family. My grandmother is my best friend and raised me since my mother passed and I disrespected her and my grandfather so much when I was with my ex and at the time I thought they were so awful for trying to help better me and get me out of the relationship. I am so happy that they finally helped me get myself out.

[@samantharosee_xx6810]

I appreciate that you mentioned how you don't have a problem with age gaps in a relationship! My serious boyfriend and I are 4 years apart and people had problems with it and judged us. We've been dating almost 3 years now and are very happy! ❤️

[@alyrock257]

Thank you for sharing such a personal story. It made me cry, I’m so sad you still stayed with him for a while after that. I was in a relationship where everyone told me I should leave and I didn’t and you’re right: it takes the person themselves to change it. I’m really happy you’re sharing these videos - you’re like the big sister I’ve never had! Could you please do more relationship advice/story times?!

[@jacqfont9]

your mom did good.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 i was the same way at that age. worse actually. i just hope my daughters don't give me grief when they're that age 😱😱😱

[@sophiajo-anne-ou5775]

Couldn't "Steven" be charged with sexual assault of a minor? Since she was 16 and he was 23 and they were having intercourse?. I think that's the real idiocy of the situation. Not only did he threaten her mother, and she not do anything about it. He touched her and her mother did nothing. I think 16 is a mature enough age to know when someone is abusive or threatening. I'm 15 and even if I loved a 23 year old man, I know that I could and would not let him touch me. And my parents would kill me and him if we did so. I'm no parent and I'm not saying that her parents aren't good parents but to let your daughter continue to see a 23 year old man, whose making death threats and having sex with your 16 year old daughter? I would've drove my kid myself down to the homeless shelter, with the tote bag, and said "come back when you're mature enough and not seeing a pedophile, abusive, man" And then because she goes to school it means she's a good girl and all is forgiven? For pete's sake she went to school because she had no where else to go besides hanging out with alcoholics and people smoking pot. I mean come on. It's not even just about your own safety, he's making death threats and hanging out with you alone. Seems a bit sketchy. *UPDATE* I know the age of consent in Canada is 16

[@TheJadedDiary]

The age of consent in her province is 16.

[@unicornzandpenguinz]

The Black Canary she was 16, a lot of 16 year olds aren't mature enough to realize these things.

[@BuffyunaTV]

You say this now but I'm willing to bet you haven't been in a serious relationship yet so ur opinion on what you would do in this situation is pure fantasy.

[@ciara3391]

The Black Canary When youre 16 and someone is giving you that attention and making you feel loved, you have tunnel vision. I can tell by the way you worded your comment you've never been in a abusive relationship so dont judge her or her decisions at that time. I was in an abusive relationship when i was 16, he was 21. He manipulated me into believing he loved me, and he was more important than anyone else in my life. Nothing anyone told me about him made a difference. These types of relationships are not black and white. I hope for your sake you are never in one nor do you ever have a child in one.

[@ciara3391]

Mariah M how did he end up with murder charges? That makes no sense.

[@maelleykaren4036]

I am 15 and these are literally my favorite types of videos from you! Thank you!

[@AlaraOceanArt]

Samantha, thank you for sharing this. It helped me a lot. I've never been through this but my mom recently got out of an emotional/mentally abusive relationship and he was like this towards my whole family. He called her names and put a gun to her, etc and called me names and threatened me because he didn't want me and my mom to have a relationship and of course, she agreed with him because she was being manipulated. We aren't close anymore really because I'm finding it hard to forget about it and I know it takes time but I felt rushed to forgive them and this video helps me realize that I'm ready to forgive when it comes. It will come at the right time. Thank You for sharing this and I'm glad I saw this ❤ I hope you're having a good day!

[@sandy_htwe]

This was such a quick story!

[@pizzaroll518]

This is by far my favorite video you have made. It shows that this can happen to anyone. You live and you learn from your mistakes.

[@Dallasfairdale]

this was such a needed story to tell, Sam. I wish I had seen this seven years ago as a 15 year old girl who put that family through so much heartache. But I'm stronger now, and I can relate to this so much. I hope some people see this video and it helps them not make so many mistakes.

[@alyc9317]

Girl.. Omg I am 16 right now and going through something so similar, thankfully my mom didn't kick me out but everything was just so everywhere, and watching this made me cry and I literally ran downstairs to give my mom a hug and tell her I love her and thanked her for everything. Its crazy how blinded we can get from some stupid boy. I love youuuu

[@autumnheavyhead7230]

good vid, very relatable. ugh, I hate how I was to my mum as a young person. but I've grown alot from my experiences..

[@baileymoore928]

I'm definitely going to keep this video on tabs just in case I ever experience something similar to this with my own daughter. You where very genuine in expressing your mistakes and I think this really is something a lot of young girls (and boys) would benefit from hearing. Thank you for being so open Samantha💕

[@kylieheider6501]

Love how you said in the beginning that you were doing a quick story time but I look and see the video is like 20 minutes love you girl

[@juliajewels7051]

This made me cry, honestly Thank you so much for making this video. Honestly made me realise how important my family is💖😭

[@Ashley-wq4js]

Idk if you’ll see this but this storytime is so important for young people I hope you can share more things like this 💞

[@maggiehealy4344]

OML I love you sm you are an inspiration to me and I love you so much I hope you see this, it would mean the world to me♥️♥️♥️

[@neilconery3116]

I love how pink sparkles kept seeing that guy for six years after this. Samantha rules!!!!!

[@neilconery3116]

Maggie Healy I meant pink sparkles. Samantha is a trip lol

[@jessicaluvs2shop]

This is the best video you have made ❤️ .we need to appreciate our moms they always know what's best for us . Sometimes love makes us blind

[@emilyelizabeth578]

Hey Samantha! I love you so much! U are an amazing inspiration to me and everyone else. Keep doing what you're doing! 💗

[@nikiiannarone7149]

I have been subscribed to u for YEARS .. Like, I remember u back in the early days and I'm so proud of how you've grown and I think its AMAZING that you share these stories and take the fact that thru ur platform you've become a role model seriously and though unfortunately many people have to go thru things on their own but knowledge is power and hopefully something you say will help someone.. Even if its only 1 person.. That's how I feel about sharing my various life experience with other (younger) people anyways.. Thank you for sharing and for being you 😘💗

[@mallorystuder9090]

Samantha you are such an inspiration! Every time I see you posted a new video I get so happy to watch it. Thank you for sharing this story, I'm kinda in the same situation right now, it's just hard but I'm gonna take your words into consideration!

[@malinafester9557]

How is Samantha soooo positive???? She's a huge role model to me, and every one of her videos inspires me!!!

[@a.a1185]

When youre early and the comments are positive and there's no dislikes 👌

[@MrsDeadlySin]

Yasss 💯👏🏻

[@kyrahassa7593]

Ily Sam!!! You are my inspiration and the only you tuber I truly am obsessed with! Love you!❤❤

[@Merrymaidenart]

This reminds me of my first boyfriend. I got with him at 15, he was 17 and schizophrenic and I thought If I left I was evil because I loved him and thought I had to support him through his mental illness but he wouldn't help himself. Like he would purposely not take his medication. He used to punch me and say things to upset me and he cut me with razor blades and threatened me with an axe. It was crazy and after we split up 2 years later I found out he cheated on me with boys and girls. So going to get an STD test at 17 and heartbroken was pretty traumatic and I had no one to talk to because I lied to everyone about how happy I was. It's not worth it and my mum knew better.

[@iloveshoes1111]

The signs of an abusive guy is when he does not respect your parents, does not want you to be with your friends & family. Tries to keep you all to himself. It's creepy & run when you start seeing those signs. Get out quick!! Bc if not, it can be sooo hard to get out even dangerous. Don't follow your heart all the time bc our hearts can be deceiving.

[@SassyAngel]

Hi everyone!!! I hope you are all having a great day :)

[@ChandaDeeMcBride]

I am old enough to be your mom... so after watching this I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your videos and I am so glad you do what you do! you are an inspiration and an awesome role model!! If I still had teenagers I would want them to watch you! ( my kids are 27&25) Thank you for all that you do! 💜🐼🌷🌹🌸🌼🌻💜

[@KirraKitten]

I respect you so much, Sam! You are very much aware and mindful that you have younger viewers and you give great advice. I'm 25 and I wish I heard this from you when I was 16 because I made huge mistakes for love then too!

[@mary1235]

I'm glad your mom is like that, she's a good mom.

[@paytonharvill5781]

This is an amazing message. Thank you SO much Samantha for making this! Love you! 💜

[@Theogmady]

I am 17, thank you so much for all of the advice. I really look up to you and appreciate how real you are. I LOVE your vids!

[@lilcrazylupita1785]

It took me 3 years to let go of my ex.. it was so hard I thought I loved him but he only used me for my money and only wanted favors from me he was in jail all the damn time and he would call me to put money for him and one day I just couldn't take it anymore cause he would treat me bad and I was blinded for years and now that I let go I feel so much better! So girls don't let anyone take you for granted you are all beautiful and you don't need a terrible guy with you so if you are dealing with something like me or Sam leave him you'll fee so much better!! ✊🏻✨

[@Heather9T2]

Loving the positivity in the comments and I'm loving how positive you always are. That guy sounds hella weird, glad it all worked out in the end ❤

[@LaurenWoz421]

Girl I've been there, - this story is what I did and thought and it sounds just like the guy I was with.. a loser. 23, lived at home, didn't work, my parents hated him. I chose him over then and I regret it SO much. My mom aged about 10 years in my absence. Her baby girl left her. I thought I knew it all and that she was just a biotch. As teens we think we know everything and we almost can't help it. It's hormones or A newfound independence maybe. Friends and boyfriends become our family and we leave our parents behind who would do ANYTHING for us. I chose to be poor. To work full time and struggle. He spent my money on video games. And then I got pregnant. Who do you call when sh*t goes down? Your mother. Thank god she was still there for me.. cause he sure wasn't. Long story short, I left him a couple years later when I realized my parents were right. I apologized to them endlessly. My parents took me back in until I got my own apartment.. my mom is my best friend. I'm so thankful. They helped me here and there with my ADHD child. (She is/was a handful and doctors visits are so costly, but she's also such a blessing and my angel for waking my ass up). I'm so blessed. It's been years now.. I did find a good man after I learned to love and support myself. My mom and I talk every day. She's my best friend and I'm her best and only friend. Parents are a blessing. Not everyone has them and that makes me sad. Please don't take our road and take it from us.. your parents may be annoying and sometimes take out stress on you (as long as they don't hurt you),but they love you. Family and your own self are the only ones that will be there for you no matter what. I don't have ANY of the same friends I did in middle school, high school etc.. but I have my family. And that's more than enough. Love and respect yourself before you put your love and trust on others.

[@lucy-if1xo]

Ur best story time by farrrr I love this so much do more plzzz

[@tyleneolavarria3403]

i never comment on your things , but I have been watching your videos for a long long while && every time you upload I go straight to your video. I'm 15 and I wish I can just sit down and have a full on conversation with you deeply. you have been through so much and I as well have been through so much , for a start i was 13 when i met this guy at a party (first party i have ever went to) and we had stuff going on and i ended up being pregnant (yes at 13 , very very very young) , he turned out to be very abusive , physically , mentally , and emotionally & there's so so so much more about him and my son , but it's too much for it being public right now.. I just wish I can have you in person to talk to. you seriously speak the realist and I truly appreciate you so much you a such an inspiration to me. Thank you .❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💛

[@LadybugMeg7]

I'm so happy for you, Sam! I had a similar experience and this video literally had me in tears because I can relate to this story. Thank you for telling this story!

[@danielleligi2199]

samantha you are so inspirational ily so much💗

[@tashawood4657]

Girl I'm 23 and I needed this story so bad thank you

[@KathyAnnalise]

I dated a much older guy when I was 17, he was 25 I believe. He waited til I was 18 to date me but he was still like some weirdo cause he REALLY liked younger girls lol. I moved to TX with him in 2015 and lived there on & off for 5 months. Everyone knew that he was off & I didnt want to believe that he was toxic so I ignored all my friends and even family. I didn't talk to my parents the whole time I was in TX. He kicked me out of the house then I went back to my hometown. Just goes to show that it's never worth losing family or friends because of some man.

[@sylvias190]

"The loser is on the phone" mama sparkles is a savage

[@lucy-if1xo]

Ur mum is my fave person ever!! How many thumbs up can we get for her mum? 💘💘

[@aerosportsbabe7546]

thank you, I'm so freaking glad you told this to us. I went through something very similar.. and I'm still trying to feel better. I'm almost 17, in August and I hope to God that I never end up with a guy like my last. I love that we both lived and learned from a situation like this one.💪💪❤❤😘

[@LaurensDesigns]

Love that you are sharing your mistakes, for the younger girls/boys out there.

[@nikkievigil5686]

I’ve been a long time subscriber but I’ve never watched this video and this is such a good story time! I cried lol! Your mom is the best! ❤️ Im so glad everything worked out for the better!

[@SpaceKitty87]

Amazing to look back at your younger self and be like "whyyyyy did we have to learn this lesson the hard way? Ahhhhh!" It's a great lesson to share with the younger ones Samantha, and I am so happy you're in a better place now. Love you and your channel girl! 😊💜✌️

[@BBaby1111]

Can I just say that I'm so happy you met dahltyn thank god that you have your head on straight and are with a guy that loves you to no end. Bless you❤️

[@serenasmedley4872]

omg you are so inspiring to me !! i actually adore you so much this story made me cry sooooooooo much i can relate to everything that you said and being 16 right now when writing this comment means i can learn from you and not do what you did this has helped me to see life in a different eye!! might sound horrible but i did this to my mum when i was 15 which is even worst however the boy was 20 which isnt the same but what you said has brought back what i said to my mum and i feel so bad and i need to make it up to her and please carry on with your videos as they are helping me so much and i love youuuuuuu thank you so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@marleyklein6379]

love u girl, u can get through anything, and i admire u for that:)

[@shellmcc7881]

Your mom taught you a lesson!! Love it! Thank you for your story!

[@taylordidonato]

Sam omg this really opened my eyes to relationships with anyone , love you and keep working hard

[@ithinkweshoulduseglyph.657]

I love your mom. She seems like a good person.

[@beccaorange6641]

it's actually insane how much i relate to this

[@hannahmercer5490]

i was in tears during this video! love you sam 💖

[@xxthatgirlslife24xx12]

Early squad where ya at 🤙🏼💭❤️

[@Onelesslonelygirl202]

YOUR HAIR IS SO PRETTY!!!!!!

[@lizzieoleksy39]

Thank you for telling this story, I know it will help a lot of girls!!! I love you Sam!!!!❤️❤️

[@TabithaDawnR]

When you relate to the story so much. 😣😢😭😫 I've got so much heart for you sam! ❤❤❤ Love you girl. keep the positive energy and do your thing love.

[@NicoleCajamarca]

You're mom is amazing. I admire and respect her so much. You're very lucky❤️

[@hannahruth9148]

You are by far my favorite KZbinr I always bet so excited when I see you uploaded a video

[@christianfaithly8530]

I was on my own at 16 with a 1 year old and a baby on the way. Being in your own house isn't easy. Value what you have. Don't take advantage of what you have and who is helping you. Don't be inconsiderate

[@ambergomez324]

Really enjoyed this story time Sam! 💕

[@adrianaalexa3397]

girl I needed this video a year ago just finally got away from my ex and this really helped me realize how bad it was thank you ❤

[@Sir-cp6gt]

Im so happy you told your story. It is truely so meaningful😍😍😍

[@dizzyandbusy]

So so helpful. Thank you so much for this video, it's what I've been needing to hear tbh. Especially the part at 6:00

[@CEDL4072]

I can relate. My baby daddy ruined my life. My mom told me from the get go he was bad news but of course I didn't listen. 4 years later guess who is helping me raise my son? Yup, family. I even moved 4 hours away from my family to be with him ugh. It was such a toxic relationship. I finally had to leave. Slowly, I am learning to value and see my worth even if no one else does. Love yourself!

[@amandasjourney6008]

Wow what a story. I wanted to cry like 5 times. Your mom is a little firecracker haha I love you both.

[@selmizzzle]

This was so real. My favorite story time from you. ❤️